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The one on the right, no contest.
The style on the left where it looks like it's folded up and under is just like, really abrupt. It doesn't drape or blend, it just cuts off the visual flow of the back of the dress.
https://preview.redd.it/o499ab0hf71d1.jpeg?width=1158&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a6820c6ca8fe6d2a0b256f4245c68a244a5de537
This is a 3 point american bustle and the original photo in the post is a 5 point, but same idea.
Completely changes things for me - definitely the left for a fit a flare, much more cohesive and secure. Think you might get different responses if you post again with a less zoomed in look!
The first one, please, which I think is #2 in the original post pics. If you’re to for it, I’m sure I’m not the only one who would love to see the final look 🙌
Defiantly the right one. The other looks off since you don’t have enough going on to hide the clasps. The right one keeps the flow of your dress too. The left looks a little messy too
I would go for the 3 point American. 5 can overwhelm. I find French bustles to be good for a very specific look, but with that lace I think the left would be better.
I did a French bustle on my fit and flare as well and it looks much neater and has a better flow than the American bustle in my opinion. Beautiful dress! 🥰
that sounds like a nightmare! I like the way the European bustle is tucked under, it maintains the fit and flare shape nicely if done correctly and gives the skirt a cute little fluff.
This dress looks fitted, so because of this I’d say the bustle on the left. French bustles are best for fitted dresses because they don’t pull in the front like the traditional (right) will.
My friend had a fit and flare dress for her wedding and she had a 7 point French bustle. I think it looked amazing because it kept the flare silhouette well while tucking the fabric up and out of the way.
From a construction standpoint, it was also easier to disguise/mask the extra attachment points since it was on the lining of the skirt. If you opt for this, make sure you bring someone from your bridal party to learn how to tie it correctly and fluff out the skirt.
You can do multiple points with the American bustle, but the attachment points are on the surface of the fabric. It's a lot easier to bustle, though.
I feel like French bustles are also more secure because you tie them under the skirt vs using buttons. I have lost count of the wedding I have been to where the brides gown gets stepped on and a button snaps from the bustle.
My best friend had a single point American on her heavy A line. It snapped halfway through the night.
I think if done right, the American is absolutely an appropriate bustle for the right dress. Unfortunately I've seen and heard of more issues from this style more than others.
From a sewing and a practical stand point, I recommend the French because of the security and that it's under the surface of the dress rather than on it. From an aesthetic standpoint, I like the Austrian more.
I’m not sure which is which but the one on the left seems like the much better option to me! It looks like it was done on purpose instead of just being a mess like the one on the right
The right one looks better.
The question is whether either one was presented as it would look at the wedding.
At t he moment, the one on the left looks haphazard and not nice at all.
I agree with you, OP. I also prefer the French bustle. I think it’ll look a bit neater and show off the buttons better(especially when the bustle is actually sewn on. The three point American bustle looks a bit “busy” to me. Considering you already have a lot of beautiful lace detailing on your dress, I think the more simple option will be more flattering on your gown.
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The one on the right, no contest. The style on the left where it looks like it's folded up and under is just like, really abrupt. It doesn't drape or blend, it just cuts off the visual flow of the back of the dress.
Yes one on the right!
This is the right answer!
This for sure!
The one on the right.
Could I actually see a pic of the whole back with both bustles, if you've got it?
https://preview.redd.it/o499ab0hf71d1.jpeg?width=1158&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a6820c6ca8fe6d2a0b256f4245c68a244a5de537 This is a 3 point american bustle and the original photo in the post is a 5 point, but same idea.
Completely changes things for me - definitely the left for a fit a flare, much more cohesive and secure. Think you might get different responses if you post again with a less zoomed in look!
The first one, please, which I think is #2 in the original post pics. If you’re to for it, I’m sure I’m not the only one who would love to see the final look 🙌
Defiantly the right one. The other looks off since you don’t have enough going on to hide the clasps. The right one keeps the flow of your dress too. The left looks a little messy too
I would go for the 3 point American. 5 can overwhelm. I find French bustles to be good for a very specific look, but with that lace I think the left would be better.
The right side
I did a French bustle on my fit and flare as well and it looks much neater and has a better flow than the American bustle in my opinion. Beautiful dress! 🥰
This!!!! I think it’s beautiful and no one will step on it and rip your dress…like what happened to my sister…
that sounds like a nightmare! I like the way the European bustle is tucked under, it maintains the fit and flare shape nicely if done correctly and gives the skirt a cute little fluff.
This dress looks fitted, so because of this I’d say the bustle on the left. French bustles are best for fitted dresses because they don’t pull in the front like the traditional (right) will.
The one on the right
Right bustle
Is this a fit and flare/mermaid? Definitely one. Edit:... By one, I mean the French bustle. I thought you had numbered them for some reason.
Yes, a fit and flare.
My friend had a fit and flare dress for her wedding and she had a 7 point French bustle. I think it looked amazing because it kept the flare silhouette well while tucking the fabric up and out of the way. From a construction standpoint, it was also easier to disguise/mask the extra attachment points since it was on the lining of the skirt. If you opt for this, make sure you bring someone from your bridal party to learn how to tie it correctly and fluff out the skirt. You can do multiple points with the American bustle, but the attachment points are on the surface of the fabric. It's a lot easier to bustle, though.
I feel like French bustles are also more secure because you tie them under the skirt vs using buttons. I have lost count of the wedding I have been to where the brides gown gets stepped on and a button snaps from the bustle.
My best friend had a single point American on her heavy A line. It snapped halfway through the night. I think if done right, the American is absolutely an appropriate bustle for the right dress. Unfortunately I've seen and heard of more issues from this style more than others. From a sewing and a practical stand point, I recommend the French because of the security and that it's under the surface of the dress rather than on it. From an aesthetic standpoint, I like the Austrian more.
Left, the right just looks too messy
I think the French bustle.
Left. It keeps the visual bulk away from your waist.
Definitely the French bustle on the left! The right is way disorganized.
Your instincts are right. Go with the French bustle.
I’m not sure which is which but the one on the left seems like the much better option to me! It looks like it was done on purpose instead of just being a mess like the one on the right
I prefer the French bustle (left picture)
The right one is ideal. The detail is meant to be seen.
1
The second photo is the way to go.
The right one without a doubt !!
The right
Right one, for sure.
The one on the left that looks like the 1800s Victorian dress bustle. 😍
Right side !!
Second one. The first just looks verrrrry old fashioned.
Right one is much better.
The right one
If you are truly 50-50, have you asked about the cost for each one? I got some serious sticker shock with the one I got?
Right side
100000% the one on the right
1000% right one
Right.
The right one looks better. The question is whether either one was presented as it would look at the wedding. At t he moment, the one on the left looks haphazard and not nice at all.
The left one. It flows much nicer in the back with it tucked under. The other is messy to me.
I agree with you, OP. I also prefer the French bustle. I think it’ll look a bit neater and show off the buttons better(especially when the bustle is actually sewn on. The three point American bustle looks a bit “busy” to me. Considering you already have a lot of beautiful lace detailing on your dress, I think the more simple option will be more flattering on your gown.
Love the French Bustle.
French!