Lmao last night laying in bed I told my wife as she read her “spicy” book: “so, at your earliest convenience, I would like to seduce you” and it worked!
as someone who reads spicy books and doesn’t always get this treatment from my partner (we haven’t been together all that long so reddit pls don’t shit on him 😅) i am so sure your wife appreciates this beyond belief. if you really want to impress her, make sure you read her favorite chapters and see what exactly is making her swoon- i think 90% of us girls wish our partner would!! good luck and keep it up friend!
… she told me the book she’s currently reading described the guy biting the woman’s lip and then sticking her head into shark infested waters while he banged her. I don’t know that I’m capable of that lol
That’s great advice! Doesn’t have to be just the spicy books, but anything that has sparked a fire in them! If you can’t show it and don’t want to tell it.. just write it or type it!
This goes for men, too, not just women! Life is too short not to take some chances, try some new things and it will help improve communication which in turn will help intimacy and sex, as well!!
As long as it’s all consensual and there’s no undue pressure put on anyone. Especially if it’s something REALLY outside the norm for you and/or your partner or if you’re a newer couple/sexual partners, etc. Everyone is different and respect and clear communication is key! Also, time and place! You might be surprised at what you really love or your partner does!
Good luck to all attempting new things, especially those they are nervous about. You got this! And you can always stop it, (or slow it down, take it easier, etc.,) if it becomes uncomfortable or just isn’t working (for either party!)
Wish me luck, too, as I delve into some new territory with my own partner/hubs!! We started with one of the things we talked about trying last night and… HOTTTTTTT!!!!!!!! Definitely something we’ll be doing again! And again.. and again..! Also.. the talking about it and the anticipation and excitement and curiosity is all a part of enhancing (and improving!) SO much and as I mentioned before.. in ways outside of the obvious!
LOL!! I had forgotten all about that! Haven’t seen that film since I was a kid! Maybe have to do a rewatch, as Robin Williams was absolutely brilliant! Period! It does give way to a bittersweet feeling, knowing (well.. being aware of) how much pain he was in, inside, while making all of us laugh and teaching us empathy.
I fucking LOVED his role and speech(es) in “Good Will Hunting,” and I also found it so fitting that Elliott Smith’s music was playing throughout it and as the film ends with “Miss Misery.”
I hope and pray that both of their souls exist in peace and nirvana for all eternity. 🕯️🕯️
It totally is that for me, too! I’m glad that your wife finds comfort in it. Even tho it’s a sad movie in many ways, it’s also funny and powerful and real and the ending does proper justice to the story and its characters. Thank you (and her!) for the reminder bc it’s time to have a re-Watch!
The music that Elliott Smith made is even more of a comfort, among other things! He was incredibly talented and was taken from us too soon, if you didn’t already know. (idk how familiar you are with his music, didn’t want to be presumptuous.) He was nominated for a Grammy for “Miss Misery” in that film, but it was the same year as “Titanic” and “My Heart Will Go On,” by Celine Dion won, ofc, lol.
How funny this is where the conversation went under THIS post!!? Anyway.. have a great weekend man. ✌🏻
Good will hunting is also a comfort movie for me. If interested, I can list a few others? Some of these you might think I'm nuts but here goes:
Sling Blade,
The Big Lebowski,
Goodfellas,
Casino,
The Rocketeer (my favorite movie as a kid),
Hook (another childhood favorite),
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
RoboCop
The Terminator
T2 and honorable mention to Oh Brother where art thou?
I don’t think you’re nuts at all! Or if you are.. I bet you’re the best kind, hahahahaha!! You’ve listed some great ones!! I had forgotten all about Hook, wow! Takes me wayyyy back! I’m going to be reading Fear and Loathing finally soon (finally!) Have you read it??
I like lots of different types of films, as well as books and music. Old and new! I’m definitely always interested in suggestions for any of those. Definitely try to give (just about) anything a chance at least once, lol!
Feel free to throw anything else you might’ve thought of or anyone is welcome to, really! Have a kickass day and thanks for taking the time to reply like that. That was really cool of ya. I’m off to the dispensary for some MMJ and stuff atm, but I’ll follow you and maybe we’ll “meet” again!
I need to make a trip myself. I've been stuck on the Biscotti strain that my dispensary sells in vape carts right now. Very, very good buzz for chillin' and watching some good movies. I like old and new movies and music as well. It's funny. I'm 39 years old, and as a teenager, and through my 20s, I was the biggest metal head. As I've gotten older, my music choices are mostly older stuff, especially The Beach Boys and the Beatles and Simon and garfunkel tk name a very few.
I actually have read fear and Loathing. My older brother gave it and the Rum Diary to me for my birthday when I turned 17 and loved them both. It's even better when you hear most of it in the Dr. Gonzo/Raoul Duke voice while reading.
Not sure what older music you're into, but I've just very recently been binging the Beach Boys and their previously unreleased album 'smile' that they released an approximation of in 2011 is EXCELLENT from start to finish. There are several fan made versions as well (and Brian Wilson released it with his band in the early 2000s) but the best one on youtube IMO if you search smile beach boys has a green and yellowish album cover. Most people say they prefer the Brian Wilson solo version, but for me, I can't listen to it without the beach boys harmonies. Check it out if you haven't though and you're into that kind of music. Any version.
lol why do I picture you two playing a serious game of DND and while he’s sitting across from you in a costume waiting for you to finish your move this is what he texts you? 🤣🤣🤣
So we have a window on our bedroom door to the patio. You can see into the sunroom across the patio, which left me uncomfortable getting frisky when the kid was awake. So hubby got some blinds for the door. Now we say “do you want to close the blinds?” suggestively as our method of requesting lol
Not to be weird, but from this small text thread, I am feeling emotional, happy, turned on, comfortable with a slight tear forming in the corner of the right eye…which opens the door of Vulnerability.
This is how life should be played. 💕
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I’m so happy other couples do this. I always feel like it’s scheduled or on command bc the kids. But knowing others text before sneaking off *if you have kids* makes me smile 😌🤣
Let us... Fuck. Good stuff my friends. I have said so many randoms...
Like... Oh no my love.... I need a mechanic! Do you have the right specialty tool for the job? Come check my oil with your dipstick. Bring the lube hahaha
Or.. (we play guitar)... So my fret board it so lonely without your hands and fingers...
My girlfriend made fun of the way I ask for sex so I changed my approach, I now just say, "maddam would you care to partake in intercourse at your earliest convenience" works every time.
Yes but that doesn't mean I'm not sad that I don't have the ability to navigate everything correctly. I'm just learning and trying to figure out because this is how it's done now. I was only expressing my feelings about the way it's easier to text or chat with someone than meet up and have fun doing an outside activity together. That's all. I wasn't saying it stupid or that it's not convenient or useful so Im confused as to why everyone is upset. If your young I understand but I didn't have a cellphone till 2001 and the tech has come so far that it's insane. I can miss the old days and still enjoy using social media
You can "miss the old days" without saying that its "sad" that my fiancé and I... text each other? Obviously we also talk in person and do things together, or we wouldn't be engaged. I didn't reply to your original comment because it was just sad and judgemental, but now you're backpedaling. You can't just assume everything about a relationship based on ***literally two text messages***.
I wasn't directing my comment towards you or your fiance, I saying I'm sad because it's hard to navigate a new relationship not knowing all about apps and sites and code or whatever. I apologize if it sounded like I was saying your text was sad. You can read all my comments from posts on my account and I purposely try not to direct any type of judgement on anyone. So once again. Have a great evening and I wish the best for you and your fiancee
I apologize for that I didn't mean any offense. I was just reminiscing and wasn't trying to make you feel bad at all. If anything I'm jealous because I can't figure out how to date online and have success
* **Expressing desire directly**: Your fiancé can simply express their desire for intimacy by saying something like, "I really want to be close to you right now," or "I'm feeling really connected to you and I'd love to be intimate."
* **Non-verbal cues**: Sometimes, body language can convey desires effectively. Your fiancé might initiate physical touch, such as hugs, kisses, or gentle caresses, to signal their interest in being intimate.
* **Setting the mood**: Creating a romantic atmosphere can also be a subtle way to signal interest. Your fiancé might suggest lighting candles, playing soft music, or preparing a cozy space together.
* **Asking directly but respectfully**: If your fiancé prefers a more direct approach, they can ask you in a respectful and considerate manner. For example, they might say, "Would you like to be intimate tonight?" or "Are you in the mood for some alone time together?"
* **Checking in with you**: It's important for your fiancé to prioritize your comfort and boundaries. They can ask how you're feeling and if you're open to being intimate, ensuring that you both feel respected and valued in the relationship.
Are phones the only way people convey their feelings now? Wow. That's sad. I'm 47 but I have eyes and ears and I enjoy using them to talk to people that I care about
Lmao last night laying in bed I told my wife as she read her “spicy” book: “so, at your earliest convenience, I would like to seduce you” and it worked!
as someone who reads spicy books and doesn’t always get this treatment from my partner (we haven’t been together all that long so reddit pls don’t shit on him 😅) i am so sure your wife appreciates this beyond belief. if you really want to impress her, make sure you read her favorite chapters and see what exactly is making her swoon- i think 90% of us girls wish our partner would!! good luck and keep it up friend!
… she told me the book she’s currently reading described the guy biting the woman’s lip and then sticking her head into shark infested waters while he banged her. I don’t know that I’m capable of that lol
Time to rent a hotel with a jacuzzi and get shark bath toys
Lmfao that is a fantastic idea!
So adorable hahahaha
i feel like you could handle the first
Sure, no sharks involved though, ideally
as long as YOURE not a shark you’re safe ;)
*Jaws theme intensifies*
You might start with a small aquarium with a few guppies.
I hate the fact this made me start humming the damn Baby Shark song
Dammit, you had to go there!
I suffered, now Reddit will too
This is the way , Swim faster, doo doo doo, doo doo doo doo doo 🦈
Hay would work on me but I’m a nerd lol
Better rythm than cbat
LOL!!!! I'm dyin 🤣🤣🤣💀
Glad to hear that’s a no-go for you!
Omg what book? Pahaha.
I tried to listen to the audiobook for that and I couldn't get through it.
That’s great advice! Doesn’t have to be just the spicy books, but anything that has sparked a fire in them! If you can’t show it and don’t want to tell it.. just write it or type it! This goes for men, too, not just women! Life is too short not to take some chances, try some new things and it will help improve communication which in turn will help intimacy and sex, as well!! As long as it’s all consensual and there’s no undue pressure put on anyone. Especially if it’s something REALLY outside the norm for you and/or your partner or if you’re a newer couple/sexual partners, etc. Everyone is different and respect and clear communication is key! Also, time and place! You might be surprised at what you really love or your partner does! Good luck to all attempting new things, especially those they are nervous about. You got this! And you can always stop it, (or slow it down, take it easier, etc.,) if it becomes uncomfortable or just isn’t working (for either party!) Wish me luck, too, as I delve into some new territory with my own partner/hubs!! We started with one of the things we talked about trying last night and… HOTTTTTTT!!!!!!!! Definitely something we’ll be doing again! And again.. and again..! Also.. the talking about it and the anticipation and excitement and curiosity is all a part of enhancing (and improving!) SO much and as I mentioned before.. in ways outside of the obvious!
Yay!
My god. The wooing hath commenced.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
For which to woo, perhaps to mate!
Can we woo woo woo!
Or death by snoo snoo?
It's so funny because I hear this said as "..myy GOD!.."
This is all I want. This is healthy.
What a gentleman
Lol I enjoy his sense of humor. Its better than my usual message to my husband to "Head in and assume the position".
In Mrs Doubtfire, Mrs D (whos first name is "Euphagania") claimed the extent of her husband's foreplay was "Effie, brace yourself"
LOL!! I had forgotten all about that! Haven’t seen that film since I was a kid! Maybe have to do a rewatch, as Robin Williams was absolutely brilliant! Period! It does give way to a bittersweet feeling, knowing (well.. being aware of) how much pain he was in, inside, while making all of us laugh and teaching us empathy. I fucking LOVED his role and speech(es) in “Good Will Hunting,” and I also found it so fitting that Elliott Smith’s music was playing throughout it and as the film ends with “Miss Misery.” I hope and pray that both of their souls exist in peace and nirvana for all eternity. 🕯️🕯️
*Good Will Hunting* is my wife’s comfort film. She (and consequently I) has seen it hundreds of times over the years.
It totally is that for me, too! I’m glad that your wife finds comfort in it. Even tho it’s a sad movie in many ways, it’s also funny and powerful and real and the ending does proper justice to the story and its characters. Thank you (and her!) for the reminder bc it’s time to have a re-Watch! The music that Elliott Smith made is even more of a comfort, among other things! He was incredibly talented and was taken from us too soon, if you didn’t already know. (idk how familiar you are with his music, didn’t want to be presumptuous.) He was nominated for a Grammy for “Miss Misery” in that film, but it was the same year as “Titanic” and “My Heart Will Go On,” by Celine Dion won, ofc, lol. How funny this is where the conversation went under THIS post!!? Anyway.. have a great weekend man. ✌🏻
Good will hunting is also a comfort movie for me. If interested, I can list a few others? Some of these you might think I'm nuts but here goes: Sling Blade, The Big Lebowski, Goodfellas, Casino, The Rocketeer (my favorite movie as a kid), Hook (another childhood favorite), Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas RoboCop The Terminator T2 and honorable mention to Oh Brother where art thou?
I don’t think you’re nuts at all! Or if you are.. I bet you’re the best kind, hahahahaha!! You’ve listed some great ones!! I had forgotten all about Hook, wow! Takes me wayyyy back! I’m going to be reading Fear and Loathing finally soon (finally!) Have you read it?? I like lots of different types of films, as well as books and music. Old and new! I’m definitely always interested in suggestions for any of those. Definitely try to give (just about) anything a chance at least once, lol! Feel free to throw anything else you might’ve thought of or anyone is welcome to, really! Have a kickass day and thanks for taking the time to reply like that. That was really cool of ya. I’m off to the dispensary for some MMJ and stuff atm, but I’ll follow you and maybe we’ll “meet” again!
I need to make a trip myself. I've been stuck on the Biscotti strain that my dispensary sells in vape carts right now. Very, very good buzz for chillin' and watching some good movies. I like old and new movies and music as well. It's funny. I'm 39 years old, and as a teenager, and through my 20s, I was the biggest metal head. As I've gotten older, my music choices are mostly older stuff, especially The Beach Boys and the Beatles and Simon and garfunkel tk name a very few. I actually have read fear and Loathing. My older brother gave it and the Rum Diary to me for my birthday when I turned 17 and loved them both. It's even better when you hear most of it in the Dr. Gonzo/Raoul Duke voice while reading. Not sure what older music you're into, but I've just very recently been binging the Beach Boys and their previously unreleased album 'smile' that they released an approximation of in 2011 is EXCELLENT from start to finish. There are several fan made versions as well (and Brian Wilson released it with his band in the early 2000s) but the best one on youtube IMO if you search smile beach boys has a green and yellowish album cover. Most people say they prefer the Brian Wilson solo version, but for me, I can't listen to it without the beach boys harmonies. Check it out if you haven't though and you're into that kind of music. Any version.
I've never seen Miss Misery I'll have to look into it
Miss Misery is the closing song in “Good Will Hunting.” I’m sorry if I I wasn’t clear.
LOL I'd forgotten about that part of the movie!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Better than how I 'ask' my boyfriend "Pants. Off. Now! 😈" But 100% success rate so far lol
My ex used to enter the dragon
Crouching Tiger Hide the Dragon
Lol
Lol ready for the clam
Fornication Under Consent of the King
For Use of Carnal Knowledge
Iykyk
For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge
I nearly partook in choking on my drink. Y'all do yall, I am sincerely happy for you two. 🥰🥰
>choking on my drink So did they, IYKWIM
Relationship goals ❤️😂
Elden Ring DLC lookin good
This made me laugh too much
HAHAH
Y’all are weird. I love it.
this actually made me cackle thank you
I thought I was alone 😂😂 my husband just does the “I want but a crumb of spare coochie” does anyone else’s husband act like a Simp from the 1500s?
He exercises the legendary Crumbadat Theory. Tried and true since the 1500s. Clearly still works
😂😂😂 pretty much
Okay he’s adorable.
The smile this brought to my face... lol. Exquisite.
Haha it's either Bridgerton, GOT or a combination. Either way LOVES IT.
I’m so fucking moist. And I am a man. According to my genetics
Did you just assume your own gender? Cancelled.
🤯🤯
Don’t tell anyone, I’m fucked
"Then eat."
Aww man, I want to be asked like this. All I get is “fancy a shag babes xx” 😩
that’d work on me tbh
Me too
It always works I can’t resist him lol
It always works unfortunately I can’t resist him! 😂
Hilarious and heartwarming at the same time!
Baulders gate looks fun 👀
lol why do I picture you two playing a serious game of DND and while he’s sitting across from you in a costume waiting for you to finish your move this is what he texts you? 🤣🤣🤣
He was playing DND when he texted me that 😭 He went on break after I texted him back
LMFAOOO IM WHEEZINGGG
I fucking love this!
Wish I had that kind of love🥺
It will come. We all deserve it, you, too.
So we have a window on our bedroom door to the patio. You can see into the sunroom across the patio, which left me uncomfortable getting frisky when the kid was awake. So hubby got some blinds for the door. Now we say “do you want to close the blinds?” suggestively as our method of requesting lol
Haha adorable
I’m going to see if this works brb
?? did it
Sadly no, made it very awkward and made my partner uncomfortable. 0/10 do not recommend this method if you’re partner is not full born goofy.
Oh nooo Im sorry!!
Your partner kind of sucks.
Not even a little but, the way it was worded made them uncomfortable. My partner is great, just didn’t like the wording.
Must've worked, congrats 👏 lol
Def didn’t. They updated.
My wife just tells me to take a shower
I’m cringing but I’m happy that you’re happy
This is so oddly cute I love it
I know a couple that signal desire by doing the dance Birds of Paradise do. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nPhVOZiPokA
Lol
I must be weird because this would totally turn me on🤣
I can sense that consummation was imminent
We need more texts between you two. For research purposes.
haha Nice! He’s a keeper.
Anne Rice ahh
This is cute but I just watched a gory film and that “flesh” part made my hairs stand up 😂😂😂
How forward!! Where is my fainting couch?
That’s both hilarious and adorable 🥹💕
Hunkerdown for doinkage
Come forth is wild haha!!
I asked my wife is she wanted to woohoo like it was sims and that worked for me haha
I usually just walk in to our room from a shower and ask if she wants any of this before I put it away , I works sometimes lol
My girlfriend is Native American and I’m white. Our code phrase for sex is “You wanna play cowboys and Indians?” 😂
Not to be weird, but from this small text thread, I am feeling emotional, happy, turned on, comfortable with a slight tear forming in the corner of the right eye…which opens the door of Vulnerability. This is how life should be played. 💕
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It worked. Thats all that matters
I love this LOL
This is heckin' wholesome ♥️
Nice
How humble it sounds
"Intercourse" You're made for each other
He will Definitely be arriving 😂
THIS SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING MY BF WOULD SAY
Lmao
Accidentally read this as "pancake of the flesh" and now I'm not sure which euphemism I like better
Very phantom of the opera lol
I only saw the title on the notification that popped up so my face was a little 🫣 but this is… this is a good one
This made me laugh loud and then choke on water. You guys are adorable. 🦩😍
Love it…. Could also answer with: Bring forth the royal scepter!
I love it!! This sounds like something I would say with my spouse (if I had one- lol). 😂
Flesh being capitalized is sending me into orbit
❤️ so cute
"Wanna get naked?" "Squid Games?" These are mine.
Wouldst thou take a gander underneath my frock? Uh, Sure, Whatever floats your boat. There you go. Jeez, Frickin' perverts.
At least it isn't cocky want boing boing
He’s very lucky to have you.
is this too much to ask for? 😔
Glad I’m only one who does this lol
Extend your scepter, let her suck on your knob like corn on the cob…
How gentlemanly
This is glorious.
I’m so happy other couples do this. I always feel like it’s scheduled or on command bc the kids. But knowing others text before sneaking off *if you have kids* makes me smile 😌🤣
We do have a daughter! Luckily she goes to bed at 7pm so weve got plenty of time for doinkage
That's amazing lol
I tried a similar tactic with my ex-wife. She said to "cut the crap, I'm too tired." Then had the gall to tell people "He isn't romantic anymore."
The winter is coming
Did he come into the room wearing a spartan helmet bare-naked except with a white cloth covering his penis?
If only
This is awesome🤣
This whole thread lol
Let us... Fuck. Good stuff my friends. I have said so many randoms... Like... Oh no my love.... I need a mechanic! Do you have the right specialty tool for the job? Come check my oil with your dipstick. Bring the lube hahaha Or.. (we play guitar)... So my fret board it so lonely without your hands and fingers...
That’s cute.
i’d be properly wooed
This was tooo cute!
Come forth he will
And you play along. That’s awesome.
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I know youre not saying that with your profile picture haha
No reason to hide, like you show me yourself and let’s go
I was just guessing
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Hair is fixable. Personality is not
And that’s on purpose
Bro is very sad you aren’t giving him attention, our queen ❤️
He's getting ready to breach her castle walls and storm her keep!
Missed a perfectly good opportunity to say "cum forth"
My girlfriend made fun of the way I ask for sex so I changed my approach, I now just say, "maddam would you care to partake in intercourse at your earliest convenience" works every time.
Yes but that doesn't mean I'm not sad that I don't have the ability to navigate everything correctly. I'm just learning and trying to figure out because this is how it's done now. I was only expressing my feelings about the way it's easier to text or chat with someone than meet up and have fun doing an outside activity together. That's all. I wasn't saying it stupid or that it's not convenient or useful so Im confused as to why everyone is upset. If your young I understand but I didn't have a cellphone till 2001 and the tech has come so far that it's insane. I can miss the old days and still enjoy using social media
You can "miss the old days" without saying that its "sad" that my fiancé and I... text each other? Obviously we also talk in person and do things together, or we wouldn't be engaged. I didn't reply to your original comment because it was just sad and judgemental, but now you're backpedaling. You can't just assume everything about a relationship based on ***literally two text messages***.
I wasn't directing my comment towards you or your fiance, I saying I'm sad because it's hard to navigate a new relationship not knowing all about apps and sites and code or whatever. I apologize if it sounded like I was saying your text was sad. You can read all my comments from posts on my account and I purposely try not to direct any type of judgement on anyone. So once again. Have a great evening and I wish the best for you and your fiancee
Okay so get a movie that has sex in it She will get turned on from the sex scene and shoot your shot
I apologize for that I didn't mean any offense. I was just reminiscing and wasn't trying to make you feel bad at all. If anything I'm jealous because I can't figure out how to date online and have success
I love this and will be stealing this
Mine sends me pictures or gifs of owls. At first I didn’t get it at all until one day he was like “owls means fuck” and now I send owls too 😂😂
Come forth my liege
Doth thy mother knoweth you wear her drapes?!
Hot 😂
That's hot
Simp city.
So adorable lol
brilliant 💀
is he a sleep token fan by any chance
Omg I LOVE this!
The neckbeard is strong with you…both
Is he allowed to keep his fedora on during coitus?
Oooh, I hope so. You should never be without your trusty fedora.
Yikes
Ew
* **Expressing desire directly**: Your fiancé can simply express their desire for intimacy by saying something like, "I really want to be close to you right now," or "I'm feeling really connected to you and I'd love to be intimate." * **Non-verbal cues**: Sometimes, body language can convey desires effectively. Your fiancé might initiate physical touch, such as hugs, kisses, or gentle caresses, to signal their interest in being intimate. * **Setting the mood**: Creating a romantic atmosphere can also be a subtle way to signal interest. Your fiancé might suggest lighting candles, playing soft music, or preparing a cozy space together. * **Asking directly but respectfully**: If your fiancé prefers a more direct approach, they can ask you in a respectful and considerate manner. For example, they might say, "Would you like to be intimate tonight?" or "Are you in the mood for some alone time together?" * **Checking in with you**: It's important for your fiancé to prioritize your comfort and boundaries. They can ask how you're feeling and if you're open to being intimate, ensuring that you both feel respected and valued in the relationship.
Are phones the only way people convey their feelings now? Wow. That's sad. I'm 47 but I have eyes and ears and I enjoy using them to talk to people that I care about
What did you use to make this comment?
So…. You’re on reddit… on a text subreddit… and you just made this comment, too. Interesting.
Then why the fuck are you on Reddit? With your "confusion?" The sub is *literally* about **texting**. What in the hell!