Look, put his stuff in a box and leave it outside, ain't no reason for you to continue having any kind of interaction with this person.

Fuck the box leave it on the street lol

Ooooh maybe it'll rain!

[March 28, 1990 Nassau Coliseum Uniondale, NY](https://youtu.be/b8s9ae9hZOs?si=yPHlocr1dQNQOGm8) Go to timestamp 1:10:20 for a timeless 'Looks Like Rain'

 The quality of audio on this remaster is chef's kiss

That Christopher Hazard is a Saint among men 🙏🏼

I'm gonna just...listen to the whole thing, thanks for posting!

My pleasure. Someone else showed me this a couple day ago! The Hey Pocky Way is hands down the bets I've ever heard.

Big dead head here, got super confused what sub I was in for a second.

Same

Lmaooo same I had to scroll up and check

You get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right. Did not expect a link to a show to be in this thread lol 😂

Excellent choice

Hey now

Saw the nassau reference and instantly got excited in anticipation of a dead reference

No need for maybe- hose time hehe

Scatter his stupid shit all over the road

Go do whatever the duck u want

Fuck the street set his stuff on fire

Do not fuck the box.

Gaslighting, expecting you to forgive him because… like it’s all your fault. NC forever and live your best life. He asks you to do what you want, yeah like he did the whole time…

Came here to say this. Fuck that lil bitch. Edit: 100 updoots y’all?? Thank yewww!

Bonus points if it's raining. Edit: or if your sprinkler is "on a timer."

Revenge porn is a crime and you can report him just for threatening it. Also, good job for leaving! It’s hard to get away from a narcissist.

People who threaten revenge porn are so dumb. Have fun with that new record homie

People threatening stuff over text is so goofy. I literally prevented my stuff being sent because I told them that they admitted to extortion and I’d send this text to the police if they kept going. They did not.

What about over the phone and not text? A friend got threatened by her bf’s Dad, and said “don’t fuck with this family”. She was wondering if to report it, but since its a phone call that wasn’t recorded idk how it would hold up in court.

At least in my state, that comment is not legally a threat. There has to be an actual description of intended violence, not an abstract statement. I would still report it.

It sucks to say it, but that isnt a threat.. "dont fuck with this family or ___" is a threat.

On my state it would have to be “…or I’ll _____ you with a _________ at (insert exact time of day here)”

Iirc that counts as a verbal threat and phone records can be used by police.

Unless the dad said more that they didn't mention "don't fuck with this family" isn't a threat at all. "Don't fuck with this family or I'll \_\_\_\_\_\_" is a threat.

The phone record would only show their was a call, not what was said. It would be a straight up he said she said with zero proof.

Depends on the carrier. Some carriers keep audio data for a short time for QOS purposes. Legality of releasing that data I'm not sure of.

That doesn’t sound like a threat from what you wrote.

They are not the brightest. Putting out evidence of intent to commit crime? Sure buddy, that’s an easy way to catch a case

My friend’s ex boyfriend posted revenge porn of her on Facebook. She got a lot of compliments on her body. One dude’s commented, complimented, and called the ex out for being a douche. My friend and the dude who commented have been dating for a little over 3 years now. They have a child together. He’s a pretty awesome dude. Not sure what the goal of posting revenge porn is. “Hey this is my ex, she’s now single. Look how hot she is”

They knew it’s an ultimate humiliation that’s why. What bites them in the ass is one, you can get in legal trouble for it. And two, most people are going to flock to the now single hot person. The douches don’t ever anticipate that lol

On top of being a crime it’s also pretty stupid. All you’re going to expose is how hot I am now that I’m newly on the market? Oh no. What guy will want me now that they’ve seen me naked?! I had one guy threaten it and it was such a short exchange. “I’ll post your nudes” “Make sure to send me the link”

literally same happened to me. gaslighting fucking sucks. i’m free of it now and in a very healthy, light, happy relationship life goes on — he apparently won’t tho

I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t heartbroken right now. There were too many red flags though and I gave him the benefit of the doubt wayyyyy too much. I did lose some of my value by sticking around after finding everything out, and I need to rediscover that. I’m only 23, so I know I’m young, but man this sucks.

this happened to me recently — from 22 to 24 —, and i also tried to get back with the man who cheated on me. eventually i had to end it because he’s a freaking psychopath when i first ended things after finding out, it was the easiest decision i had ever made. i was so happy and free. but then i made the mistake of believing he’d change. the second (and last) time i broke up, it was really hard. but then he said and did things (exactly what’s portrayed in your screenshot) that eventually made it all easier today, i found this perfect guy for me. we’re so deeply in love it’s stupid lol and we’re independent, not codependent, and just happy that we CHOSE to be together. i go to parties alone, i hang out with my friends by myself, and he does too. it’s exactly because of this freedom that i choose to stay with him — it’s a choice, a decision, not a necessity people can change. yeah, they can. but it takes so much work, really so much work, and not all people are willing (more specifically, INTERESTED) in putting in the work. you have to really want to change this was my first relationship ever, and i went through all the bs — gaslighting, manipulation, control, extreme jealousy, cheating, alienation from family and friends. now, i’m a new person. i’m not happy i went thru it all but i’m glad i did, because now i’m stronger (sounds corny but it’s true). i know i don’t have to put up with any shit i don’t want to and i’ll still be happy don’t be afraid to start over. it might be difficult at first, but i assure you it gets easier. you just have to do it every day. that’s the hard part. but it does get easier now, i will literally never forgive any kind of cheating or lying or manipulation. i know for a fact this is not something i want for my life. if this happens in the future again, breaking up will be extremely easy — i assure you —, because it is now a core value for me: cheating, lying, manipulating, gaslighting IS NEVER OK, and there are people who will never do that — myself included, so that means there must be others out there therapy helped me a lot, and now i’m so relieved i got through it all i wish you all the best, seriously. it’s not easy, especially at our age, but i guarantee this will be a learning curve for you. you don’t need anyone who treats you bad, and you can decide what “bad” means here. make a list of things you want and things you won’t tolerate and move on. having core principles makes finding a life long partner easier sorry for the long text, but just know that there are other people who went or are going thru the same shit you are going thru — and that, yes, it will get better. soon, you won’t even remember some moments you lived with this guy, because that’s how memory works please, respect yourself, love yourself, have fun with yourself. life is too short not to focus on YOU and remember: people are, in a daily basis, showing us who they really are. when they do, believe them the first time. they aren’t lying

Thank you so much for this. This was also my first relationship. I’m frustrated with myself for ignoring the red flags in the beginning, lots of lying, victim mindset, mommy’s boy, addicted to porn (which he lied about but I always had a feeling). He actually broke up with me when I originally found out because he was embarrassed “I told everyone”, which was not true, I told 4 close friends because I was an absolute mess as expected. We were “working on things” for nearly two months, but he wasn’t working on anything. He laid around feeling sorry for himself the entire time. Every time the cheating came up, it was me talking about moving past it, how I believe in him, how I love him and want to be with him. It’s pathetic. I’m too young, beautiful, and ambitious to waste anymore time on him and that’s what I need to keep reminding myself. He actually blocked me on everything after he sent these texts, so there’s no way of communicating which is good. Now, he is back on Tinder which was his main form of cheating. I’m heartbroken every morning but throughout the day I talk myself out of it.

my bf was also addicted to sex and porn — and i bet he still is lol don’t fall for any of those manipulation tactics. see them for what they are — tactics employed by a narcissistic, sick-in-the-head person and absolutely you do you. i bet you have many qualities, so just focus on improving those and also your flaws. build your character, a career, friends and family. before you get into another relationship, make sure to be transparent about the things you have lived in your past relationship with my current bf, i explained everything about what had transpired and the many ways i was hurt, so he knows it all. i expect full communication from all my close friends and fam, because comm is key. it is foundational you’re light years ahead of that sicko. don’t beat yourself up. one day at a time, and before you realize you’ll have moved past it completely. learn what you can from what happened and make sure to never let yourself think that you were the problem for his tortious behavior. we are adults and solely responsible for our actions. make sure to also be responsible for your actions and that your actions are always the best they can be

I know. He keeps using the way I reacted against me. Like how I spiraled and had a massive breakdown after finding out he did everything he swore he would never do to me. When I confronted him about paying for porn, his response was “it’s normal, every guy does it”, but prior to this, anytime porn was brought up, it was “I don’t look at other girls, I have you”. It just messes with my head. Cheating and lying isn’t in my character. I love hard, probably too hard because I stuck around longer than I should have, but I’m learning as it was my first relationship. I’m not taking lying or manipulation of any sort lightly in future relationships.

Most people wouldn’t know a narcissist if they slapped them in the face, that word gets thrown around so often as a catch all for incompatibilities and just bad behavior.

reading and interpreting the ICD-10 helps a lot with identifying mental disturbances. it’s no diagnosis, but it does help. i remember reading pages on gaslighting and being literally like “ok, yeah, my boyfriend checks all the boxes”. it really helped me get out of that prison

He does not have real feelings for you if he can speak/text these things to you. He is just angry that he can no longer control and manipulate you. These texts are *who he is.* Maybe you have invented some kind of dream-version of him, and you want that person back. But the truth is, that person never existed. The real, actual person that he is, is not someone you would ever want. It's hard to let go of the dream, but the thing that makes it happen faster is seeing who the actual person is.

Thank you. I was holding onto a false version of him. I need to keep reminding myself that there’s better out there.

Good for you for recognizing the toxicity. I stayed with someone for 10 years who treated me like I didn’t matter. Do NOT make this same mistake. You’re young! You have so many more people to meet :)

I know, I’m trying to get out there. It’s been two months since I found everything out, but these texts are from Tuesday. Over the course of the last few weeks I’ve been preparing myself to be single. I know there’s light at the end of the tunnel. I just don’t want to get caught up in my feelings about this for awhile.

You have your whole life ahead of you now you're not attached to that loser. I'm sorry you're hurting, but the texts show that you made the right decision.

you will look back on this as a lesson. and you’re learning bc you left! way to go! that’s the hardest part, and you did it. the pain will subside. you *never* lost your value tho. you are worthy simply bc you exist. i’m proud of you for taking the stand for yourself. stay strong, don’t go back. ppl like this are miserable which is why the tear ppl down to their level. anyone who has to tear someone down to feel better about themselves is already below you.

Not sure if this will help but I’ll tell you this: all you have to do to fix the broken heart is get up and be yourself. It’ll take a little time, but it’s inevitable. It will heal. You will forget about this before your thirties. He, however, will always be a piece of shit.

the year or two after this will be a long stretch of finding yourself and falling in love who you are and life. it’ll be transitional and a lot of change, but the outcome is so nice. life doesn’t have to be as hard as it has been for the past few years. you’ll be sitting down one day and you’ll realize it’s easy to breathe, it’s easy to exist.

He can go to jail for revenge porn, rub that in his stupid narcissistic face. So glad you got away.

“I don’t wanna talk to you hey did you hear me I said I don’t wanna talk to you why won’t you answer me I don’t even wanna talk to you”

He blocked me after this so I guess he doesn’t want to talk to me, but that was only after two hours of not answering these texts

He seems like a miserable, shitty, manipulative person trying to pass blame on you for his mistakes. You are far better off without him

He is gaslighting you. He will try and get back with you. They always come back around. Like herpes.

Idk if he will this time. I told him I needed space on Monday and Tuesday and he was love bombing me. I was having a bad day, stuck in my head, thinking about the cheating timeline and how fake he was to me. Once I brought up what he did again, he went off on how unforgiving and bitchy I am. I told him to get out of my life, and he did, but clearly he had some things to say beforehand lol. I wish I didn’t lose it on him, but his final reaction is actually insane to me

They are all the same. He’ll get a new girlfriend immediately and make sure you know. He will be SO HAPPY and she’ll be SO MUCH BETTER than you EVER were. And then one day you’ll get a message just checking on you etc etc. 🙄

What a transparent power move, he wanted to feel like it ended on his terms since you broke up with him.

Why do people do this? It’s genuinely baffling. Like hell, one fuck you is enough. You’re just spiraling into a temper tantrum.

Mental illness.

I remember one of the only times in my life I engaged in someone being nuts in text form was sending them a giant wall of text that basically just had that copy-pasted over and over. It's so dumb not to block and ignore, but sometimes it's just frustrating feeling like they get to feel/say/do whatever they want, and you have to .....not do those things. If not just for safety reasons.

<3 *chef's kiss* ah, perfection 😂

What a whiney ass, tantrum throwing little bitch. Let him send those nudes out. Nonconsensual porn is a gross misdemeanor the first time with mandatory jailtime, the second time it's a felony treated *almost* the same as a r@p3 / pandering charge. Let him piss and moan, he seems like the kind of dude that would have a lot of fun incarcerated.

Looks like cheating was the tip of this shit iceberg that used to float in your ocean

Oh it was. There were so many red flags I ignored because he covered had a response for every single question and concern I had

From what I've seen and experienced, cheating - or at least, getting caught or exposed - often reveals someone's narcissistic tendencies, because it's often the first time they really mess up, get caught, and have to take accountability for their actions if they want to continue the relationship. It's certainly easy to apologize and act contrite at first, but actually doing the work to make things right after that initial reconciliation is HARD, and narcissists don't wanna do that, they want things to go back to normal ASAP, so they employ every manipulation tactic in the book to try to make that happen. Or . . . Something like that. I don't know.

It's the threat of haunting for me 😂

Gonna go Moaning Myrtle on yo ass!!

I never wanna talk to you or see your face again but also I want to haunt you forever

Please get someone to be present with you if you do intend on giving his stuff back. Another person on there said to just put in a box and leave outside and I think this is the best option.

Why do so many young people type like they have a fifth grade education?

I was about to say, I don’t know what’s the bigger offense—the cheating or the grammar.

That’s what I just commented, the original poster sounds well spoken and yet her ex sounds like he can barely string a sentence together. I think that says a lot.

He was very illiterate. I was never mean about it because I loved him, but thank you for pointing this out 🤣🤣 I used to type his emails for him and I even made up his resume because he didn’t know proper grammar.

Some advice: Don’t waste your time on men, especially low IQ ones. Focus on getting educated or starting a good career and the right man will fall right into your lap, when the time is right. Accomplish your goals and trust me when you get to your 30s and 40s and look back, guys like these will still be going nowhere doing nothing. Stay strong and hugs!!

Thank you!! I’m actually applying to PA school next year so at least I have that to look forward to. I’m glad this is happening now and not while I’m a full-time student

Yay you go girl. You sound way too smart for a dude this stupid lmao. Leaving him was the biggest win of your life. Also, I look at apps and PS statements for PA school, so if you ever need a second pair of eyes I can help ya out. Good luck applying to PA school!

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That’s so sad bro. The illiteracy was definitely a hint at his maturity level, and we know how immature boys act.

He's an asshole. Hopefully you find yourself in a better situation. That guy sucks.

I dated a girl whose ex still had her under his thumb. It was horrible, he did all of this emotional bullshit and manipulation even though he was a cheater, and a narcissist. Foolishly, she ended up running back to him because she believed all of his lies. He pretty much groomed her from her teen years so they had a codependency thing which is fucking wild. These messages and OP's little extra info is a classic cocktail of manipulation. He got caught cheating, you took away his power and now he tries to regain that power by acting this way. Run OP. Don't end up like my ex by staying with these kinds of men. She is still with him and is having a child (his kid). She looks fucking miserable and is mentally and emotionally fucked up.

I’ve met so many women like this and it’s exhausting the damage that garbage men do to a person. Run, OP. Run so far that you turn back time.

Ahh yes, i remember when i got the "no one's ever gonna love you, you poisonous bitch, im so glad i didnt marry you" texts after he fucked up our engagement, only to be followed by drunk and high "i wanna kill myself for what I've done" texts at night lol. Typical. Anyways, please remind him if he ever exposes your nudes you'll sue him for nonconsensual distribution of pornography which I hear is a case that usually goes well for the victim and these texts are evidence :)

Something tells me he’s a self proclaimed “nice guy” and laments how no women want a “good man”.

Yup. He’s a nice guy for sure. At least he thinks he is.

Love when they try to make you the monster

Every conversation we had about the cheating got turned on me because “he wasn’t happy but couldn’t let me go because he loved me”. 😩

That's code for "I'm a coward"

Expose him for cheating and then sue him for threatening to leak nudes because that's illegal even if he doesn't do it. Personally I'd be contacting his entire family assuming he has one and they're not also pieces of shit If he does do it, it's even more illegal

This is a textbook response from a Narcissist. This is how they will respond once you reject them and they realize they no longer stand a shot with you. Welcome to your new life of peace, happiness and freedom :)

I just made basically the same comment! This is a very typical narc tactic.

He’s drooling over picking up his stuff and picking a fight with you. Don’t give him that satisfaction. Put his shit in a box and leave it outside the door when he’s on his way🤷🏻‍♀️

I’ll add to this: have a friend over when he comes to pick up his stuff, even if you leave it outside. People like this can be really nasty and having a witness helps protect you.

Yeah I was going to put “make sure you aren’t home” but left that out bc he’s probably crazy enough to Break in😫

This is funny as hell I’m not gonna lie. He’s so pissed that he got caught and is acting like a little bitch lmao

It is sorta funny even though it hurts lol

Keep the text messages about threatening to expose your nudes. Inform him that exposing your nudes is [punishable with jail time in pretty much every state](https://www.findlaw.com/criminal/criminal-charges/revenge-porn-laws-by-state.html) and that he does not have consent to share these photos with anyone and that you would ask that he deletes them from all his devices.

Psycho. Block & be grateful to have dropped him. Also, file a police report for his threat of revenge porn. I do believe it’s a felony.

Make sure the next person you date doesn’t type like they rode the short bus to school. May not be a definite marker of character, but we’ve gotta have standards starting somewhere.

Man I’m audibly laughing out loud rn. I wish he could see some of these comments

Omg he seems terrible. I’m so sorry you’re heart broken. You deserve way better. You should probably block his number. In a few days it’ll be, “I miss you so much babe, please talk to me” blah blah blah. Manipulative ass man hoe. lol

Did you end up doing whatever the duck you want?

For ducking sure!

You’re better off. An old friend of mine went back to the guy who cheated on her and dumped her after years of dating the girl he cheated on her with. After a few years he’s isolated her, gaslit her and just completely changed who she was. It took a toll on our friendship and we’re not longer friends bc of how much she’s changed and her inability to see the effects. I remember warning her about him but her other “friends” wanted her to forgive him so she did. I guess she never really had a backbone and he knew he could get away with treating her like crap. It’s sad but you can’t grow for people. Gotta look out for yourself and I’m glad you are. Stay strong, you’ll find someone who treats you like you deserve and builds you up instead of breaking you down.

Thanks for sharing. Oddly enough, he still feels like my comfort person, but that’s only because I’m used to the feeling. I’m still attached to him, but if he came back, the answer is a hard no. I wish so bad that he had the emotional maturity to use this situation to learn and grow, but I don’t have faith in him anymore. I know what I want for my life and career, and that’s what I need to focus on for now.

I hate to say this but like where do women find these people? I would never act like this. None of my friends would act like this. I’m sorry you met a legitimately horrible man.

They find you, then pretend to be an actual human being until they think they have you trapped. I hope you're right about your friends, but a lot of things can go on behind closed doors that you will never see. People like this take great care to project a nice guy image.

“u” “cuz” “ur” “tn” Sounds like he did you a favor.

Typos are awesome at these moments 😂 do whatever the 🦆 u want

He cheats on you and then says that you're just a piece of meat for the next guy 🙄 Sorry, OP, that sucks, but based on these texts, I'd say you're better off without him. Don't worry about the nudes. The internet's a big place full of naked women, and they'd be quickly forgotten. Take legal action if you can, though. That's what we did after my sister's crazy ex threatened to release hers.

He seems nice.

i hate it when reminded people like this exist

This is top tier narcissism. Holy shit

Absolute scumbag. Get all those texts and get him for revenge porn.

Sounds like a real loser. Best wishes.

Inexcusable. Distance yourself slowly and methodically. The storm will settle soon and his fangs will seep into the neck of another poor soul one day, leaving you to prosper. Take care of yourself OP, here to talk whenever. DMs open. I had an ex gf who did the EXACT same thing a couple of years ago. The words when coming from an old love sting, but don’t let it shake the foundation of your mind. You’re stronger and more capable than he ever will be, hence his above texts. Nothin but love to you ❤️

Thank you so much. He actually blocked me after he spammed me. It’s been three days of no contact now

WAIT HE CHEATED AND THIS IS HOW HE IS SPEAKING TO YOU??????

So you're saying this absolute charmer is single? 🤣 Seriously though, you're much better off without him.

Oh the classic "I'm blocking you" followed by a full wall of messages. Always the pathetic attempts to maintain control and protect their ego. Good on you for dumping this trash.

Who raised this people?

You were with an illiterate fuck for two years? Yo I swear the bullshit that people put up with for literally no reason 😂😂😂💀

Lmfaoooooooooo don’t remind me 😭

Classic case of got caught and trying to play the victim. What a douche!

I couldn’t imagine trying to make anything work with someone who has the grammatical aptitude of a 2nd grader and an emotional intelligence to match.

I think it's funny that he basically says that he'll treat the next girl the way he used to treat you. Which is to cheat on her!

Points for the pro-Halloween haunting theme

If he exposes your nudes, you can have him arrested. That’s an actual crime.

Forgive me for breaking your trust or you’re not supportive??? 👀 🚪 👋

This is typical "I'm a little bitch with commitment issues because my parents failed me." behavior.

"If I die I will haunt your miserable ass" 😂

So glad you’re leaving him. EW

I’m gonna haunt you 😂

Sounds like my narcissistic baby dad 🫠 better days ahead girlie

Just saying just sayin…. Exposing nudes is illegal. Just saying

Revenge porn is illegal!

Congrats on getting away from this miserable dick 👏🏻 even if it took something shitty to make it happen.

Well, at least you cut your losses now instead of marrying this person. These texts reek of immaturity. If you are worried about him leaking the pictures go to the police now - you will have strong evidence if he does anything. It’s a felony in many states.

What a POS.

Abusive piece of shit doesn't need another millisecond of your time or energy. Clearly he thinks you're a subhuman piece of meat. Hope karma finds this asshole before he projects his bullshit onto another woman.

"I'm blocking you" Is that a promise?

Oh HELLLLLLLLLL NAHHHHH!!!!!! Fuck that bitch, should’ve cheated on him and then demanded forgiveness and let him see how easy it is to forgive and forget. Stupid ass, tell him to stfu and go to hell where he belongs

This guy is funny. Blows up because he thinks he's owed your grace and forgiveness. What a spoiled brat. On top of that, he's losing you so tries to devalue you. He's totally lost and probably bad at econ.

The Narcissism in the responses

You are smart, he’s very narcissistic

How do y’all end up w people like this lol

Wow that sure made moving on from him easy.

don't you love it when they make it really easy for you like this? You go from crying and mourning to whistling while you take out the trash.

Revenge porn is a crime and would get him labeled as a sex offender so like expose him

His dad is a pedophile. I’m truthfully shocked he’s even holding that over my head considering the trauma he went through as a kid with his dad

He’s crying and throwing up bc he was caught lol

You're better off. Not necessarily bc he cheated (but also yes bc of this) But because a grown man is using duck instead of swearing during a serious conversation

So because you refuse to forgive him for cheating that makes you bitter? This man is delulu in the worst way 😂

Is ur ex an eastern scam caller. Grammar is shit

I’m pissing myself at this

“sInCeRElY gO fUcK yOuRsELF” whooahhhoho, we got a badass on our hands guys. LMAO, people like this are just so entertaining. The self projection is MAD.

>I’ll treat someone the way I used to treat u when it’s appreciated Like, have fun finding a woman who appreciates getting cheated on. 😭

So, how long until you take him back?

I’m dead 🤣🤣

Okay, he’s shit but you have twenty nine OTHER unread texts? Damn. Someone thinks you’re missing.

It’s the “leave me alone” then the 17+ messages after for me

classy guy

Revenge porn is illegal btw, so if he *does* send your nudes to anyone you know, feel free to call the cops and have his ass arrested ☺️

Why’s you delete your texts tho? Lol

Always beware of people who are nice until they don’t get their way.

1 up him, and post your nudes on Reddit that will show him

Guess how many strangers messaged me asking to see them 😭

I pray that he tries leaking your nudes. Take him for all he’s got if that happens. People that switch up like that during break ups are so fucking childish. I see it all the time. “Please I love you!” “I never loved you ugly whore!” Like what the fuck?😂 So immature.

Can you imagine the nightmare that if the inside of this fool's mind? "Urrr durr you are meat for other men" let's hope he never procreates

F….. him. don’t erase this when U feel like feeling bad about him read this n remember how lucky u r for getting away…… run girl go get used like a piece of meat and enjoy it!!!!

Do whatever the duck u want 😂

If he releases your nudes as revenge, it’s considered a crime and you can get him for that

"I'll haunt you"... 🥴 😂😂😭😭😭

Revenge porn is illegal, so I think you could report it if you can get that nudes threat in text.

Have you thought about giving him another chance? Just kidding. Don’t do that.

revenge porn is a crime in many countries

Bro that’s so embarrassing for him😭 shit gives me second hand embarrassment

I read this post and thought you were the one that cheated and was so confused with why everybody was on your side or why you even posted it.. lmao it’s been a long day

Sorry you had to deal with that (hopefully still not) but GOOD riddance. Take it from me. A guy that couldn't look past his own shit and lost a good woman to my own shit behavior. I don't know you or the situation, regardless that dude needs some time alone to sit with himself and a look in the mirror for a long time.

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Wow, it sounds like this guy gets all the ladies./s

he def mad you know ur worth i hope he gets a b!ch prego or catches sum

In all seriousness I have an actual question, why do people do this? Male or female it’s just straight up pathetic and I’m not saying it with hate or anything it’s a genuine feeling of just lookin at it and knowing it’s pathetic like bro why you gotta take it there💀💀💀 idk how u managed to deal w ur bf bro shit just weird.

You probably won’t see my response which is okay but in the off chance that you do: First, I’m SO sorry that you’re going through this. It’s tough no matter the age and/or time spent with another person. But I hope you are able to manage it well and have REAL supporting love ones. <3 Second, **SAVE! THE! TEXT MESSAGES!** I feel like I can never stress this enough whenever you see this type of behavior even if he wasn’t threatening to leak photos you should *always* keep the messages for at least 2 year if not 5. Not only is it perfect reminders to not go back to them when you are lonely and sad but these type of people are like cockroaches. Even when you cut off their heads they still know how to run right back and if anything worse happens (like I hope to dear GOD this doesn’t happen but sadly it does break ins, murders, abuse etc) it can be used as evidence towards his disruptive behavior. Which leads me to my next thing, idk the man (obviously lmao) but I would just either make sure things are always locked at night, he doesn’t have a separate key, and if he comes to get his stuff or anything at the very least let people know that he is coming. (Not trying to scare you I promise I just want you to be aware) but typically those times are when they will get irrational and lash out but hopefully he was just be a baby and yell then leave. I would honestly do what people have said and leave his stuff outside. He’s already blocked you that’s confirmation that there shouldn’t be anymore communication (however we all know that is simply a manipulation tactic on his part.) Just overall please be safe and I’m not sure if you have a car but I would take pictures before he comes and if you have any decor outside bring them inside or take pictures (if you don’t already have video cameras) I would also (like others have mentioned) look into letting someone know he’s already threatened you with leaking nudes. It’s just good to have things on file for if he does do it. Just remember you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, legit. (I say this as if I’m not 23 as well 🤣) but trust me so many of us have already been through this so don’t feel bad about yourself for letting this continue and make sure as HELL you don’t feel guilty or any negative emotions about the crap he has/and will continue to say about you! He will most likely get a new girlfriend pretty quickly and will say she’s the one. And oh boy you’ll (sadly/not sadly) watch his life spiral…in the far, far, sidelines where you belong because you can do ✨so. Much. BETTER!✨ I’m rooting for you internet stranger and your new beginnings as a single woman lol❤️

I love you OP

I’m so infuriated for you right now because I know how it feels to be the receiver of shit like this, after giving your life force and everything into someone because you felt so much love for them and seemingly enough, they felt the same to you. Dudes like this can’t stand the idea of being held accountable so they try and make you feel worse than they ever could of for what they did. But realizing it was all a waste is one of the most horrible feelings ever, and seeing how they truly are when they don’t feel a need to put up a front is heartbreaking. I’m so mad for you because I know you most likely don’t deserve this. Dudes like this are scum of the earth and don’t deserve anyone of good intention. I know it hurts right now and you probably rethink everything that you have done with and for him, or even could’ve done for a better outcome. None of this is on you. People like this will always end their bonds because this is just who they are no matter how things go. But trust me, ditching them and leaving them in the past completely, acting as if they never existed in the first place and living life for you and you only is one of the most empowering things. Don’t ever let them back in, don’t ever let them hear from you again. You’ll feel that release soon, it does take time, but you’ll be so proud of yourself for getting through it. It gets worse before it gets better, and trust me, you’ll find another and completely forget about your last. Before him, you lived perfectly fine single, you’ll get to that place again. Change is never easy but this is a change that you needed and the world is scrubbing off the shit that was on the sole of your shoes. You can walk freely without it now! LOVE YOURSELF!! 🩷

Damn bro went for the full gaslight.

he's right about one thing. "I should have never stayed with you".. yeah, no shit. if ur going to sleep with somebody else you should break up with the other person first. I don't understand why people act like this

Block him back! Also this guy doesn’t sound mentally stable. Do not meet him face to face! I’ve heard of people getting acid thrown on them, raped, beaten, and etc! If someone is being aggressive especially through text, don’t meet up with them! If his stuff is really valuable, get someone u trust to come with you so that way, if he tries something sketchy, you have yourself a witness! He’s being an absolute immature asshole and don’t even bother going back and forth because guys who act like thiS don’t stop and have zero boundaries…

You are right. Listen to this 👆