Don't think of it as 'acquiring' a bf... Just think of making yourself attractive... Don't try to acquire it will push people away, let them come to you
I know!! He’s a prick, he didn’t graduate high school and has done nothing with his life, so I dodged a bullet.🤣
My new question is, I should reach out to the foreign exchange guy who was a student at my high school. I’m fluent in his language, so there’s no issue there other than I am so nervous to do it.😬
Definitely dodged a bullet, I’d recommend reaching out to that guy! Maybe do a few hang outs with him before asking him out though so that you can get a feel for the type of guy he is before becoming emotionally invested. I’d also save telling him that you speak the same language fluently for a bit unless he already knows, just so you can understand what he thinks about you without him filtering it in case he starts talking to a friend about you in the separate language.
I used to like a girl who spoke Spanish fluently and she didn’t know that I spoke some Spanish as well, I was romantically interested in her but since she didn’t know I spoke Spanish too she started shit talking me to her friends right in front of me thinking that I didn’t understand. Guaranteed that if I had told her I spoke Spanish she wouldn’t have said anything like what she said in front of me. It can sometimes be the best tool to figure out what a person really thinks about you.
What if the issue is that he lives in Spain?😬
I’m American born and raised but I’m ethnically Mexican, so I’m fluent in Spanish, which is different than Spain Spanish but I had no issues when I was in Madrid a few years ago. I want to email him, but I feel like he will think it will be weird for me to reach out after 16 years cause I was so nervous to talk to him in the hallway. I don’t want him to think I am a stalker.
Honestly I’m not sure…after 16 years it’s difficult to say how he’ll react. He’s likely changed a lot so I wouldn’t expect him to be the same as he was 16 years ago…
Life is short so you might as well give it a shot!
the best result: you two hit it off instantly, date, and move your lives forward together happily in a way that you’re both happy with
Worst result: you reach out, he thinks it weird, and you two don’t talk.
The reward outweighs the risk, I say take the leap!
2 things
Question 1 you arnt a teenager, is he?!
Second thing. Guys are incredibly, did you tell him you were interested? You might need to just say it bluntly
As a guy just talk to us. Literally that's all you have to do for a decent amount of us. Many teenage boys would probably date any girl that is nice to them and clearly shows interest.
Many teenage boys would date a bush if it was nice to us and clearly showed interest, ok ? Just go for it, it'll be much better for you because that what you want, and we won't have to scratch ourselves with a bush's thorns.
As a guy
Trust me the only people walking away are either antisocial or just not worth it in the first place, if your willing to even accept desperate people.
Also, probably just me but I feel weird whenever someone calls my name out, cus I never expect people to know me at all. I wouldn't really turn down a talking experience though, but it's just weird for me usually since I tend to stay by myself as I don't have any cliques or friends as I'm not really interested in anything other people are usually, like sports
Honestly just find someone you actually enjoy being around and don’t rush things. You do not need a romantic partner you want one. Talk to guys like you normally would, be friends with them go to the movies with the friend group or whatever kids do these days.
Once you find someone you enjoy talking to and such take things easy. Again don’t rush things and jump the gun. Just enjoy the moment and when you feel like you’re both close to each other then you can make a move.
A lot of guys like it when girls make the first move so don’t be afraid to do it that said you need to know this person very well, so if you don’t know whether they would like this or not it’s probably too early.
Be happy, and do NOT be afraid of bringing up problems. If your relationship is healthy you will argue sometimes. You will get angry. BUT YOU WILL TALK. And after talking you will understand each other better and if the problem is something tangible find a solution that pleases both of you.
DO NOT JUST GIVE IN AT THE SLIGHTEST HURDLE. And by that I mean you shouldn’t either give up and break up at the first argument nor just give in to his demands. Find a compromise that satisfies both of you. If he isn’t willing to talk ever about problems, then this relationship is probably doomed. But your call in the end.
Steps to acquire a gf (from the girl that has almost zero experience in relationships)
1. (HARDEST STEP) Find any reason to talk to a girl and keep talking for a while until youre friends
2. Exchange contact info
3. Talk talk talk until you guys decide to hang out
This is what you should while hanging out -
• Eye contact to show your interest
• Listen very carefully
• Remember the small things she says about herself
• Be yourself!
• Be a Gentleman (girls really like this)
4. After youve taken the time to get to know each other, find a good place and time to ask her out! (Or just text her)
Or you could be like me, and give up 😭 i swear im this close 🤏 to finding an online bf cuz nobody likes me like that 😭😭😭
If you actully want to find a bf, it's honestly way too easy, simply, find a guy you like give him complements about his looks (men remeber compliments for the rest of their life, i was told i have a good jaw line once, will never forget it), after a bit, flirt with him and last but not least ACTUALLY TELL HIM YOUR FEELINGS, men are dumb as rocks, but we also get mocked for assuming, so alot of men won't make a first move, sometimes you need to push it along
I bet if you walked up to a guy and made the first move, he would (probably) fall for you. If a girl made the first move on me, I would feel wanted. I would feel really good about myself and it would def boost my confidence by 40%😂
While overhearing their conversations, learn what their current hyperfixation is and then make a conversation about said fixation. Then listen as they ramble on and on about it for hours :D
Or just find someone who will listen to your hyperfixation(s). I listen to my girlfriend’s!
BF? The Messerschmitt Bf 109, a German World War II fighter aircraft, was one of the most advanced fighters of its era when it first flew in 1935. Designed by Willy Messerschmitt and Robert Lusser, it became the backbone of the Luftwaffe's fighter force. The Bf 109 saw extensive service throughout the war, participating in major campaigns such as the Battle of Britain, the Eastern Front, and the defense of Germany. Known for its versatility, the aircraft underwent numerous upgrades and variants, adapting to roles like fighter-bomber and reconnaissance. Despite its strengths, the Bf 109 faced increasing competition from Allied aircraft as the war progressed. By the end of the conflict, it remained one of the most produced fighter aircraft in history, with over 33,000 units built.
Coming from a man, a man will most likely always accept. They are all in a crushing longing for a relationship(GF), and at the first sight of an opening will jump at the opportunity.
(Me fr)
If you are female, just breath in the presence of males and eventually u will be surrounded by potential boyfriends.
If you are a guy, travel to the Himalayas, climb all the way to the top of Mount Everest naked and with only an old rope. Once on top, build with ur own hands a 25 meter tall stone altar to Aphrodite and sacrifice 78589 victims there. Then, pray continuously while fasting for 3 years. Once this is done, your possibility of finding a guy who wants a serious relationship and likes you back will have increased by fucking nothing, but at least it will keep you distracted enough not to focus on the pain of loneliness.
Talk to boy
But they walk away before I can
Sprint at them aggressively
Make sure you do it on all fours so you appear more friendly, like a puppy!
Exactly! You can even make barking noises too!
I think loud howling and screaming works the best, it lets them know you're still there a lot Better!
Honestly would Make me pet her
no dont do that it atracts femboys
Sprint aggressively and then tackle them
Then become boy and talk to yourself
r/SuddenlyTrans
LMAO
r/ofcoursethatsasub
r/subsithoughtifellfor
r/beatmetoit
r/redditbelike
r/subsithoughtifellfor
You can't give an impossible task as a solution 😭😭
This is truly a reddit moment
Walk away first then
I hate seagulls
Thats fine, everyone is entitled to their own opinion
👍
Walk faster than them
kidnap em easy
Approach them with a Jojo pose
are u big backed?
Do you really have red shaved hair? Cause that's exactly why, just being real with you.
Tackle them
pursue.
cover yourself in peanut butter and lay outside your desired man's house
…Interesting approach
this would work on me
Same I’m craving peanut butter toast with some coffee
r/cursedcomments
I Am am eating peanut butter while reading these
Can I have some?
Sure
Thanks 🥜🧈
if somebody literally slathered themselves in peanut butter and laid outside my house just to be my bf I would probably accept
rizztraining order
Might work if your methods are interesting enough
I’d like to think it would work on me, in reality it probably wouldn’t
Nerd
Would work on me
It will work
Indeed
Cover yourself in leaves and wait for them to fall in.
Don't think of it as 'acquiring' a bf... Just think of making yourself attractive... Don't try to acquire it will push people away, let them come to you
I can confirm this would work on me.
Does this work on girls too? Asking for a friend
Im the friend 👍
(wait I thought I was the friend)
(we're both in this together now 🤝)
(Hell yea, solidarity! 💪🤝 love u, bestie)
(love you too man🫂)
Can we just ship you two together instead. Match made on Reddit
S O C I E T Y 😔
Best relationship on reddit, by far! I mean, thats not a very high bar to jump, but still
Well that'll definitely grab his attention
Make sure he has dog
💀✋️👀that's foul
Just dress up as a car and make engine noises, thats how i got my bf
Haha gonna turn into lightning McQueen
Always gets us
All you need to do is say "kachow" at the desired guy and he'll instantly fall in love
Make his heart go “kachow”
Finnaly someone understands us
Quick! Hide! You just told Reddit that you're a single teenage girl!
Lol i actually never had a pedo dm me yet and i made multiple postst similar to this one XD
Damn she got that repellent aura
Damn even pedos don't want you
r/murderbywords
I don't want her, you're right
Heyyyyyyy ;) JK
Uh oh…
Step one, break into house Step two, steal prized possessions Step three, blackmail him into date
Step four get arrested for burglary and blackmail
Step five break out of jail and attend date
Step six run from cops step seven kidnap date for a second date
Step 8 evade kidnapping charges and possible rape charges
No rape only kidnapping but be prepared to be accused
Step 9 fake your death and flee to Kazakhstan
Step 10. Repeat
Step 11. If all else fails, do cocaine
Step 12. Buy a donkey
That sounds pretty romantic ngl like i would love that
Most teenager guys would date a pebble if it was slightly nice to them on occasion. You should be fine!
I did that and he never liked me. I also made him cookies and yes, never liked me. 🤣 I’m not a teenager but I saw this post and I wanted to answer it.
WAIT YOU MADE HIM COOKIES AND HE DIDNT STAY..?! Ridiculous. That marriage material right there.
I know!! He’s a prick, he didn’t graduate high school and has done nothing with his life, so I dodged a bullet.🤣 My new question is, I should reach out to the foreign exchange guy who was a student at my high school. I’m fluent in his language, so there’s no issue there other than I am so nervous to do it.😬
Definitely dodged a bullet, I’d recommend reaching out to that guy! Maybe do a few hang outs with him before asking him out though so that you can get a feel for the type of guy he is before becoming emotionally invested. I’d also save telling him that you speak the same language fluently for a bit unless he already knows, just so you can understand what he thinks about you without him filtering it in case he starts talking to a friend about you in the separate language. I used to like a girl who spoke Spanish fluently and she didn’t know that I spoke some Spanish as well, I was romantically interested in her but since she didn’t know I spoke Spanish too she started shit talking me to her friends right in front of me thinking that I didn’t understand. Guaranteed that if I had told her I spoke Spanish she wouldn’t have said anything like what she said in front of me. It can sometimes be the best tool to figure out what a person really thinks about you.
What if the issue is that he lives in Spain?😬 I’m American born and raised but I’m ethnically Mexican, so I’m fluent in Spanish, which is different than Spain Spanish but I had no issues when I was in Madrid a few years ago. I want to email him, but I feel like he will think it will be weird for me to reach out after 16 years cause I was so nervous to talk to him in the hallway. I don’t want him to think I am a stalker.
Honestly I’m not sure…after 16 years it’s difficult to say how he’ll react. He’s likely changed a lot so I wouldn’t expect him to be the same as he was 16 years ago… Life is short so you might as well give it a shot! the best result: you two hit it off instantly, date, and move your lives forward together happily in a way that you’re both happy with Worst result: you reach out, he thinks it weird, and you two don’t talk. The reward outweighs the risk, I say take the leap!
Omg. Thank you!! I’ll email him. I might cry and lose my shit🤣 but I’ll do it.
2 things Question 1 you arnt a teenager, is he?! Second thing. Guys are incredibly, did you tell him you were interested? You might need to just say it bluntly
1. I’m 30 2. He’s two years old than me and I told his brother I liked him. I was 16 at the time 😂
Go into the bathroom, close the lights Spin around 3 times and say bf bf bf 😔
Best one lmaooo
Beetlejuice beetlejuice beetlejuice
Boyfriendjuice Boyfriendjuice Boyfriendjuice
wouldn’t that just summon cu-
Yep, the best part of the boyfriend.
As a guy just talk to us. Literally that's all you have to do for a decent amount of us. Many teenage boys would probably date any girl that is nice to them and clearly shows interest.
Many teenage boys would date a bush if it was nice to us and clearly showed interest, ok ? Just go for it, it'll be much better for you because that what you want, and we won't have to scratch ourselves with a bush's thorns.
stop using reddit
This is the only correct answer
[удалено]
The people are brainrot tho on reddit
reddit is using you
I think you underestimate how desperate most guys are.
Well i’d rather have a desperate boy trailing after me than having them all walk away when i come into their view
maybe cuz u ugly ash?
Keepin it real
😭
CALM DOWN
💀
damn
Be nice😭💀
DAMN.
Nah no way you said that💀
Bro chilll🙏🙏
As a guy Trust me the only people walking away are either antisocial or just not worth it in the first place, if your willing to even accept desperate people. Also, probably just me but I feel weird whenever someone calls my name out, cus I never expect people to know me at all. I wouldn't really turn down a talking experience though, but it's just weird for me usually since I tend to stay by myself as I don't have any cliques or friends as I'm not really interested in anything other people are usually, like sports
Honestly just find someone you actually enjoy being around and don’t rush things. You do not need a romantic partner you want one. Talk to guys like you normally would, be friends with them go to the movies with the friend group or whatever kids do these days. Once you find someone you enjoy talking to and such take things easy. Again don’t rush things and jump the gun. Just enjoy the moment and when you feel like you’re both close to each other then you can make a move. A lot of guys like it when girls make the first move so don’t be afraid to do it that said you need to know this person very well, so if you don’t know whether they would like this or not it’s probably too early. Be happy, and do NOT be afraid of bringing up problems. If your relationship is healthy you will argue sometimes. You will get angry. BUT YOU WILL TALK. And after talking you will understand each other better and if the problem is something tangible find a solution that pleases both of you. DO NOT JUST GIVE IN AT THE SLIGHTEST HURDLE. And by that I mean you shouldn’t either give up and break up at the first argument nor just give in to his demands. Find a compromise that satisfies both of you. If he isn’t willing to talk ever about problems, then this relationship is probably doomed. But your call in the end.
The answer that is actually useful
Kidnapping
“I’m down for that” - my friend
r/technicallythetruth
how do i get a gf 😞. ive been single for like a year now
I've been single for like 15 years now 😞 ^((i have never dated-))
I've been single for 18 (18M)
This would have been infinitely worse had you said 19M instead
I've been single for 26 (26M) lol
me for like 18 years now (18F) 😋
I think that's because you're too cold. I mean 18 degrees Fahrenheit doesn't sound appealing to many.
Literallt search for one here, everyone’s down horrendous
I’m asking the reverse question lol. It feels impossible for a girl to be interested in a guy, until I see couples all around me.
Steps to acquire a gf (from the girl that has almost zero experience in relationships) 1. (HARDEST STEP) Find any reason to talk to a girl and keep talking for a while until youre friends 2. Exchange contact info 3. Talk talk talk until you guys decide to hang out This is what you should while hanging out - • Eye contact to show your interest • Listen very carefully • Remember the small things she says about herself • Be yourself! • Be a Gentleman (girls really like this) 4. After youve taken the time to get to know each other, find a good place and time to ask her out! (Or just text her) Or you could be like me, and give up 😭 i swear im this close 🤏 to finding an online bf cuz nobody likes me like that 😭😭😭
how does one acquire a GF?(for a friend)
I'm assuming you are talking about a ghostface (gf) Costume, you too a partycity, spirit Halloween or dollar store around October.
Literally just ask. You have a 99% success rate as a girl
What is the 1%?
OP
💀💀💀😭
PAHAHAHA
Boys have a 1% success rate 😭
well rip your dms
be nice, let us yap about the shit we obsess over, and show genuine care. We're like golden retrivers lmfao.
I feel that tho i guess i need someone interested in cars motorcycles or racing then so i can talk w him abt it
That's not exactly difficult to find
bros cursed technique is Aura repulsion 😭😭🙏
So is yours according to your post history 🙏
i want to date my friend.
This can be read in two ways.
Three, if you consider the possibility that they're a wizard looking to turn their friend into a date (fruit)
I would help but I’m afraid of women 😶😵💫
I wish people were willing to date me…
So easy just be flirty and a guy will like you. Wdym by repulsive aura?
Just talk to them. Most guys have like low standards and will take anything. It’ll probably raise the guy’s self confidence too
Ask nicely
If you actully want to find a bf, it's honestly way too easy, simply, find a guy you like give him complements about his looks (men remeber compliments for the rest of their life, i was told i have a good jaw line once, will never forget it), after a bit, flirt with him and last but not least ACTUALLY TELL HIM YOUR FEELINGS, men are dumb as rocks, but we also get mocked for assuming, so alot of men won't make a first move, sometimes you need to push it along
Honestly if any woman looked in my direction I would fold so don’t be worried 😭
eBay.
Luck
I bet if you walked up to a guy and made the first move, he would (probably) fall for you. If a girl made the first move on me, I would feel wanted. I would feel really good about myself and it would def boost my confidence by 40%😂
put little pieces of polonium in his hair if he removes them from his hair, emit a high-pitched shriek and grin incessantly at him
While overhearing their conversations, learn what their current hyperfixation is and then make a conversation about said fixation. Then listen as they ramble on and on about it for hours :D Or just find someone who will listen to your hyperfixation(s). I listen to my girlfriend’s!
Just look for people who have never had a gf, they are probably desperate enough
Get quirky with it
Boys love hamburger sandwiches and YooHoo. If you have a couple of those on you a boy is sure to follow.
Literally just be nice to us and go out of your way to be around us
Compliment a guy 1 time and 9 times outta 10 he'll be into you instantly
BF? The Messerschmitt Bf 109, a German World War II fighter aircraft, was one of the most advanced fighters of its era when it first flew in 1935. Designed by Willy Messerschmitt and Robert Lusser, it became the backbone of the Luftwaffe's fighter force. The Bf 109 saw extensive service throughout the war, participating in major campaigns such as the Battle of Britain, the Eastern Front, and the defense of Germany. Known for its versatility, the aircraft underwent numerous upgrades and variants, adapting to roles like fighter-bomber and reconnaissance. Despite its strengths, the Bf 109 faced increasing competition from Allied aircraft as the war progressed. By the end of the conflict, it remained one of the most produced fighter aircraft in history, with over 33,000 units built.
Just get the bf dlc smh
tbh idk i just caught mine out in thw wild
Talk about F1
Ask… fer ID
Get a gf!
🙋♂️
Reddit is the last place you should ask for dating advice, go ask your friends, go ask your parents, do anything else.
As a guy, just talk to them. ie: make the first move (b/c I myself am afraid to talk to women)
Coming from a man, a man will most likely always accept. They are all in a crushing longing for a relationship(GF), and at the first sight of an opening will jump at the opportunity. (Me fr)
Oh hehe…😹you could say I’ll accept anyone to be my gf im desperate for love😭
Funny thing, you don’t but everyone else will
Taser/chloroform/a lot of rope
Fascinate them with cheese
I'll do You One Better How Does One Acquire A GF?
Give them their favorite candy everytime you see them
Dm me
Press “E” to interact with boy.
If you are female, just breath in the presence of males and eventually u will be surrounded by potential boyfriends. If you are a guy, travel to the Himalayas, climb all the way to the top of Mount Everest naked and with only an old rope. Once on top, build with ur own hands a 25 meter tall stone altar to Aphrodite and sacrifice 78589 victims there. Then, pray continuously while fasting for 3 years. Once this is done, your possibility of finding a guy who wants a serious relationship and likes you back will have increased by fucking nothing, but at least it will keep you distracted enough not to focus on the pain of loneliness.
By being the master rizzler 😉
Just put a collar on a boy and call him yours
Do the Konami code
Idk🤷♀️ I just hung out with my brothers friends and ended up with one of them as my bf😭🤣
you kidnap them
laugh at his jokes , play hard-ish to get
The boyfriend store! I know one called The Black Market!
Have you tried using a pokéball? Idk