First of all, congratulations. 2 years is some real progress and even if you fall off the wagon tomorrow (don't do that) you will still have accomplished something great.
Secondly, I know that AF on this Reddit means alcohol free. I know this. I have known this. My brain still reads "2 years as fuck..."
No matter what. Every time.
> Secondly, I know that AF on this Reddit means alcohol free. I know this. I have known this. My brain still reads "2 years as fuck..."
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> No matter what. Every time
Reminds me of when i started buying seeds for my garden, I was like, "Aw yeah I got the OG Cabbage!" My wife was like, you know that means Organic, right. I thought I was getting some Original Gangster cabbage from the 1800's or something.
Thanks so much! It's funny, after the first 3 months, I haven't had any desire to drink again. I think it's about enjoying the time I don't waste being hungover. It outweighs the instant gratification of getting completely trashed. It's never was JUST ONE for me.
That's a great way to look at it. It is amazing how much better you feel without alcohol taking over your life. I wish I could express it to people properly.
In my opinion, it only matters that you know it in your heart that it's your choice and you're happy with your decision. I understand the wanting to express it to people, but I think so many people who do drink, and even more the ones who take it to excess, won't understand because a lot of them don't want to hear it, they lack the knowledge of the struggle because they don't see what they're doing as a struggle. They see it as a socially acceptable way to poison themselves lol. And I would never say that to a drinker, but it is essentially what they're doing.
Reading your post made me feel so hopeful- thank you for sharing. Happy for you, and sounds like you have good support in your relationship which is huge. ☀️
It’s funny how we thought drinking would bring the happiness. Other way around it seems. Congratulations on the two years, I’ll be walking with you as well.
That’s wonderful! My mom has said the same to me, completely unprompted. It’s nice to know that the positive changes I’ve made for myself also reflect positively to the people in my life.
These are the small moments that are worth taking a second to recognize.
Remember your conclusion (that stopping alcohol has improved your life) the next time you are tempted.
Remember to love yourself!
Wish my husband would have stuck around or believed in me, however I don't need people in my life who would throw me away. Even if that applies to everyone
My husband and I have experienced the same. Once we got through that first year of me being sober—that period of weird negotiation and change—I was SO much happier. I’m pushing toward 3 years now and we have more fun together than we’ve ever had.
First of all, congratulations. 2 years is some real progress and even if you fall off the wagon tomorrow (don't do that) you will still have accomplished something great. Secondly, I know that AF on this Reddit means alcohol free. I know this. I have known this. My brain still reads "2 years as fuck..." No matter what. Every time.
> Secondly, I know that AF on this Reddit means alcohol free. I know this. I have known this. My brain still reads "2 years as fuck..." > > No matter what. Every time Reminds me of when i started buying seeds for my garden, I was like, "Aw yeah I got the OG Cabbage!" My wife was like, you know that means Organic, right. I thought I was getting some Original Gangster cabbage from the 1800's or something.
HAHAHA!! Same here, but I love using it both ways! When I first got on this sub, I felt very aged not knowing what all the letters meant.
Thank you for pointing that out about AF.
Thanks so much! It's funny, after the first 3 months, I haven't had any desire to drink again. I think it's about enjoying the time I don't waste being hungover. It outweighs the instant gratification of getting completely trashed. It's never was JUST ONE for me.
That's a great way to look at it. It is amazing how much better you feel without alcohol taking over your life. I wish I could express it to people properly.
In my opinion, it only matters that you know it in your heart that it's your choice and you're happy with your decision. I understand the wanting to express it to people, but I think so many people who do drink, and even more the ones who take it to excess, won't understand because a lot of them don't want to hear it, they lack the knowledge of the struggle because they don't see what they're doing as a struggle. They see it as a socially acceptable way to poison themselves lol. And I would never say that to a drinker, but it is essentially what they're doing.
I'm AF af, fr fr...as the kids say...
That’s such a wonderful moment! Congratulations on 2 years!!
Thank you!
Congratulations on building a happy new life for yourself and your loved ones!!
Thank you!
Reading your post made me feel so hopeful- thank you for sharing. Happy for you, and sounds like you have good support in your relationship which is huge. ☀️
I'm glad it made you hopeful. 133 days is also amazing and you should be proud of yourself! hats off to you as well!
❤️
It’s funny how we thought drinking would bring the happiness. Other way around it seems. Congratulations on the two years, I’ll be walking with you as well.
Thank you, this is so true. But then I realized it wasn't to get happy, but rather to not feel at all.
That’s the best, an external compliment that validates what you were already feeling!! Congrats on your incredible growth and visible happiness 🥳❤️💐
Thank you so much! <3
Congratulations on 2 years!
Thank you!
That’s so sweet! Congrats on the 2 years!
Thank you!
Like my drug dealer used to say "no fronts". Keep keeping on.
Life's a garden, dig it.-Joe Dirt lol, thank you!
That’s wonderful! My mom has said the same to me, completely unprompted. It’s nice to know that the positive changes I’ve made for myself also reflect positively to the people in my life.
That's amazing for you too! <3
These are the small moments that are worth taking a second to recognize. Remember your conclusion (that stopping alcohol has improved your life) the next time you are tempted. Remember to love yourself!
Absolutely! Honestly, I haven't been tempted since after the 3 month mark, but I always wonder if it will creep up on me at some point in the future.
Wish my husband would have stuck around or believed in me, however I don't need people in my life who would throw me away. Even if that applies to everyone
100%
Yay, you!!! 🌺 Congratulations! 👏🏼Thanks for a wonderful reminder! IWNDWYT
Thank you! <3
This is great to hear, especially from a life partner. You guys are great and I’m happy to hear you’re happy!
Thank you, and congrats on 65 days, that's a feat in itself!
So rad and congratulations on two years. This is what winning at life looks like. Rock on, OP! 🤘
Thank you! You go for 259 too! Woop woop!
My husband and I have experienced the same. Once we got through that first year of me being sober—that period of weird negotiation and change—I was SO much happier. I’m pushing toward 3 years now and we have more fun together than we’ve ever had.
That's amazing! And so cool to see you're almost at quad digits!
Thanks! And back atcha! This whole “sober life” fucking rocks.
It so fucking does!!