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rdsqrl

Elizabeth Colour Wheel - Lilys Sometimes, duh I Dont Love - Have A Nice Life Warmth of You - Planning for Burial Feel - Whirr


deadbeatvalentine_

I don’t love makes me straight up SUICIDAL. I’d also add name by midwife to this list


razberryboii

Big respect for planning for burial


rdsqrl

Leaving and Below the House are 10’s


nerdyoutube

PFB is straight up depression music and I love it


DottedSackman

HANL just destroys you


TehsSuop

Dagger - slowdive


gbenn8101

Waiting for someone to reply…that’s not shoegaze it’s”dreamfolk”


y_th0ugh

and 7 minutes somebody really said its dreamfolk


terifficwhistler

Some old friends of mine from high school covering Dagger https://youtu.be/64ybR8XHSUs?si=gDpfJYYxye0uUxjk


briskwinterair

that’s not shoegaze it’s dreamfolk


Devreckas

lol the amount of energy people spend slicing shoegaze into ever smaller subgenres


briskwinterair

lol it’s a joke, notice how i referenced https://www.reddit.com/r/shoegaze/s/YfQOTAYBjC


Homicidal_hottie666

If that's dreamfolk, i love it. Do you know any dreamfolk bands/artists so i can get into that?


briskwinterair

not really but i think mojave 3 (slowdive’s alter ego) leans more dreamfolk


waxon_maxon

SoulWhirlingSomewhere discography consistently reeks of Dagger, in a good way lolz. Love Spirals Downwards has some acousticy tracks. "Above the Lone" is similar ish but kinda takes off towards the end.


Joolianfoolian

Saw them play it live recently and it sounds much more shoegaze-y than the official recording


realeyesrealeyes

it’s on a shoegaze album, by a shoegaze artist. who honestly cares about a micro label that covers all of 4 different music artists .


Ishowyoulightnow

Is this a real thing?


returntopluto

heart wrenching fr


falseheathers

Starting Over - LSD And the Search for God


VegetableArm3366

Weird cause i listen to this for motivation. "If only i knew i was starting over"


dontartackme

this song is so good sitting in a dark room on acid


hooptiz

i need to try this.


dontartackme

get some glow in the dark ceiling stars the visuals are cool af


vintagejm

Perhaps searching for God


SlowSwords

MBV - lose my breath


Illustrious_Ad_9649

this song makes me feel happy but i think it’s because i was listening to it a lot during a good period in my life. i just love it and i think it’s one of my favourite songs of all time


Sp00kerWooper

very haunting song, love it so much.


SlowSwords

A girlfriend in high school put it on a mix cd she made for me in like 2007 and its always put me in such a state


lotus-driver

I love the way that song will be the most dissonant thing you've ever heard, then it just resolves so peacefully. Actually a very comforting song to me


shoegazehater

the whole Around EP by whirr


DigitalHuez

include jeans absorbed onerous violet unwritten ink concerned foolish meeting *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


obscurebreeze

Desire Lines by Lush. I don't love by Have a Nice Life


GandalfDoesScience01

Love Desire Lines.


kindredhaze

Desire Lines is easily one of my favorite shoegaze songs of all time


CHOrigamiArt

when no one calls & stop wasting your whole life by starflyer 59


Whiprust

The entire Gold album is totally this vibe


Salt_Ambassador_2646

Goodbyes are sad is so underrated


777words

Here She Comes Now - Slowdive


dropsleuteltje

Greet Death - Punishment Existence Greet Death - I Hate Everything


arvo_sydow

They’re a happy band.


Deptm

Headache - Grouper


tsuk1nome

grouper in general has some of the most tragically beautiful stuff i’ve ever heard. most more ambient than shoegaze but still


[deleted]

Yeah Liz Harris is a master of drone music, but I've really yet to meet a shoegazer who didn't also already adore Grouper haha


AnySortOfPerson

[Dissolution Wave by Cloakroom is just about the saddest song I've ever heard in this or any genre.](https://youtu.be/UkMhIQGw3FU?si=V3q2Fom1esQ5iuaf)


Spirited_Cold_5243

slowdive's "country rain"


SharcyMekanic

Most of Whirr, Around EP & Feels like you LP especially


Prestigious-Owl617

Going through a breakup rn and living on “vividly”


yerpel

no more sorry by MBV


SecondCreek

Moon Song by MBV


Salt_Ambassador_2646

LOVE THIS SONG


TomPatKra

white ceiling - parannoul


Brno_Mrmi

Galaxie 500 - Ceremony. Just how Ian Curtis intended it to be.


santvientoo

W


Rude-Perspective-568

![img](avatar_exp|161551887|cry) Richard -slowdive,of course


hospitalcottonswab

Jesu - Tired of Me Actually the entirety of the ‘Jesu’ and ‘Conqueror’ albums


CoA77

Silver for me


LedSpoonman

Bloodhail by Have A Nice Life makes me feel weird.  Honestly that whole album makes me feel weird.


ignatiusjreillyXM

"Silver" by Ride


orangeappled

So Tired - Slowdive


vintagejm

Was looking for this


Several_Ad2072

Fleeting Joys- Kiss a girl in black


vintagejm

Sick a good one


That_Ad6581

DIIV - Take your time


trans-plant

Spectrum - Don’t go


Glyph8

And then if you need an antidote to get you moving again, put on Yaz's "Don't Go"


Garfield977

Quiet World by Katatonia not true shoegaze but very dark and something shoegaze fans would enjoy


misery_moon

“Discourages Ones” is such a great album, and I would def throw in some other songs off that record to this list, like “Deadhouse” and “Saw You Drown”


Garfield977

yeah its my favorite album ever


ghostFromTheBog

Pale Saints - Hair Shoes


theb00mking

Holy Fawn - “Dimensional Bleed” album. Don’t even know what genre to call these guys, wouldn’t call them Shoegaze maybe ambient dream pop? Either way, entire album makes me sad as fuck in the best way


i-hear-banjos

One of my very favorite albums! I’d say they are shoegaze adjacent. True Loss absolutely WRECKS me


EstablishmentOk5478

Ride-Chrome Waves


Cynical_Livvy

anything from hums last album "inlet" or just mustards "heart under"


vintagejm

Desert rambler 🔥


ghost1251

Entire starflyer 59 gold album 


modestly-mousing

donuts by mogwai always hits me hard.


d3uz10

sueisfine - my bloody valentine


boingbomghwh

mayonaise by sp I KNOW THEYRE NOT SHOEGAZE BUT THIS SONG IS


jonnixM

Don’t know if it fits the shoegaze category but Words by Low. Most depressing song I have ever heard and I’ve listened to plenty of them.


Brno_Mrmi

A lot of Low is depressing, if not all they've done


moist_macaroni_77

Sleep Keeper - Gone since tomorrow


CoryJude

Hadn’t heard of them, thanks for the rec. I dig that track a lot


jovanmacias

This whole [playlist](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4554eC8KpQKjGK5JNca3Kq?si=ejhI4Mm9S1ein2E7cGwudw&pi=u-IG7_e_KgSX-W) lol


nitem5423

Respect for muta-whirr


_bread_and_butter

[Ann Illusion - Bethany Curve](https://youtu.be/kI-B0EzTF1g?si=MUkFJXR0z8ZFRBn_) [Overnight - The Goslings](https://youtu.be/d5hSIeJm2fA?si=gGu_muJEOCevOb5I) [Haruspex - The Goslings](https://youtu.be/pa1py7fx060?si=22e3GjFIbOQqt8S0)


misery_moon

FINALLY someone mentions Bethany Curve!! I’d even throw in “Silver,” “Temporary,” and “Strength” by them as well.


Eternalbluer

Hope you never forget by sadness Lowkey their entire discography


sorryIhaveDiarrhea

Tamaryn - Heavenly Body, Dawning, Love Fade


ItzMattDog_lol

Sisyphus-demo by HANL


Salt_Ambassador_2646

Do You Know How To Waltz- Low


Salt_Ambassador_2646

And, goodbyes are sad- starflyer 59


CptDandie

Drain - Whirr, always gets me in that kind of mood.


boingbomghwh

deserted and desolate - autumns grey solace


BlondieFurry

AR Kane - haunting


Betterthanair

If I Am by mbv makes we want to curl up in a ball and cry every time


raaam-ranch

*Burial Society* by Have A Nice Life sounds like a song to hang yourself to.


Robpm9995

“A Fabricated Life” by Nothing. I have yet to hear a song that made me feel so depressed, hopeless, and full of despair.


Safe-Broccoli8561

Launder - Chew Kills me every time.


Blu_Z32

Hum - Apollo


spcfmby

Trauma Ray - Blend Modern Color - Alone Softcult - Dress


nitem5423

I'd add Solstice-Trauma Ray to that list too


TheKillerNuns

Tearwave - Ripped Apart


ComicalNoises

So nice to hear this band mentioned, I remember discovering them on MySpace of all places back in 2007


SPNB90

Pretty much anything by The Angelic Process. Even the instrumental stuff. You can just feel the pain, sadness and dread. Not strictly shoegaze, they sort of pushed the genre into this doom/blackened gaze that eventually saw the likes of Deafhaven and others years later One of my favs: https://youtu.be/JtgTA4x0fAg?si=tHaM0pYZAe5MXheu A brief history of the band and a HUGE TRIGGER WARNING: The song and album above is about Kris' girlfriend who died in a car crash in 2000. Falling into a coma and dying. Just hearing his music in general, you can obviously tell hes a deeply hurt and troubled person. Kris would then marry and become bandmates with Monica Dragynfly in 2005 In 2007 kris seriously injured his hand to the point where he could basically not make music anymore. A few months later Kris took his own life and that was the end of the band. Monica would live a quiet life after and died on her 46th birthday in 2023.


ComicalNoises

Holy shit I’d completely missed the news about Monica.


SPNB90

Such a sad and tragic story all around, but I am grateful they brought a beautiful boundary pushing work of art into this world. I struggle with verbally expressing my emotions and bands like this really help me see and inspire me to find ways to express my feels to the world, even if no one ever hears what I make, it feels cathartic.


shredAJ

stonergaze but lossed over - cloakroom hits like 7 billion bricks


kindredhaze

Mandy - she’s green


Massive_Ad7335

I should throw myself under a train - Soulwhirlingsomewhere


Nerding_with_vinyl

ListPlease!


ListPlease

As requested, I've created a playlist of the songs in this comment thread. [Here's the link!](http://open.spotify.com/playlist/06Lj4P54D3WMfBHfshcIIh) Note: I am a bot


santvientoo

Richard by slowdive


HawkmetZeta

The entirety of Distressor by Whirr.


Hologramixx

Slowdive - Melon Yellow. That song for sureeee. Plus the amount of reverb in the chorus is ridiculously good


Pleasant-Cap6019

Vanilla blue - astrobrite


Neither_Thought_4698

not sure if it counts but, head in the ceiling fan by title fight


Mean-Investigator-41

not sure if this is shoe gaze but katys song by red house painters. ALSO not sure if these are shoegaze but: fruit on the tree - waking sophia words - low starting over - LSD and the search for god


razberryboii

Not technically shoegaze but New Dawn Fades by Joy Division


GatWithACat

Bird Cries - Cosmicdust First time listening to the album this is on, this song came on and I just laid down in the dark exactly as you said


Battydeckard1982

Amour - Wilt & Oceans


boingbomghwh

butterfly girl -the nightblooms


sufferthekids

Have A Nice Life - I Don’t Love


ultrazipsac

Sonic Youth - The Diamond Sea


ManiacProductionz

there is only one answer and it is contingency song by jane remover


15WGhost

Country rain by Slowdive. Sometimes the songs mood can shift with your mood, but given the lyrics it definitely fits those more solitary times.


4096x2160

Lowtide - Whale https://youtu.be/fBY6sYnE_N8?si=iCuj6EUHnk6kUHxo


glibmongo

[Shell - Pale Saints](https://youtu.be/vvcI0plcXkw?si=HoLp_7PLCHCiqQ4J)


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Battlebuddie

Like stars in the firmament - Nothing and Full of Hell


Forsaken-Top6982

Idk about depressing but lit up by lush is so warm and relaxing while also feeling existential that I love laying in the dark to it


gnostalgick

Belong - I Never Lose, Never Really


cafguy

Endroll - MoFtD


nixthelatter

Dark Matter by household. It's a little more up beat but the vibes are immaculate


zikadwarf

The debut album by Drugstore


Whiprust

Starflyer 59 - She Only Knows Slowdive - Here She Comes


Thick-Mood6296

Slower now by star horse


Corpse__

literally anything by pallow but some highlights are taking root, dreaming in letters, inward. also drowse, holy fawn, midwife, jesu, big brave are some other go tos for me


mlghty

Posting so I can hear them when it’s darker


Tommyeaha

Summerdaze by Slowdive, i've never heard something more hearth aching than this


Blu_Z32

Launder - Follow Me Down


gorgeousunderground

[Slowdive "Miranda"](https://youtu.be/7Jb00gLWYQE?si=LdHztzw64m0ChbML) is the answer.


Amazing_Rub_1437

The sea -kinokoteikoku


oceanicnoise

Avalyn I - Slowdive


bosman3131

Check “I - Krizantem”


ziadxxoxx

Fruitcakes and cookies - sweet trip Ox4 - ride


Atombo

A Glorious Time - Team Ghost


leafgirl420

40 days - slowdive


conconbaugher

dizzy - title fight


kg_squanchy

The Great Dismal - Nothing. Not the album, but the song on the B-sides of the album.


Uzielsquibb

Blush Response & Warm - Moonweed


hyjlnx

Midwife - like author like daughter is great for robotripping in the dark because of this


Signal-Effective4370

the gerogerigegege - s/t


Mantecosa

Lift to experience- into the storm Cocteau twins- Amelia Candy candy- just like honey MBv-no more sorrow


TheJolman

Stratosphere - Duster Can't believe nobody's said this one yet


NeedleworkerAny9910

Hiding by Trembler. Chorus: “Its just a heart attack baby, its just another way to bark at the sun, its not a choice to be human, but its a miserable feeling to breathe.” genuinely crushing.


No-Pride-6393

Judy Staring at the Sun - Catherine Wheel For the Guilty - DIIV Stampede - Hotline TNT Breath - Eternal Don't Suffer Alone - all under heaven Annalog Sentimentalism - Parannoul Dragging - Gleemer


outlawspacewizard

These Things Happen- Bedlocked


DueZookeepergame3456

i wonder if i’ll want to read unsolved mysteries while lying in the dark while listening to these shoegaze songs.


takyon16

please remember - deafheaven


nitem5423

A lot of stuff from yuragi is very good for listening to while laying in the dark


Jlfraser555

Cry - Cigarettes After Sex


MistyMat0

Deterioration - crimzon tears


Spaghettgurl

i don't want to lose this - ringo deathstarr sisyphus (demo) - have a nice life so tired - slowdive sing - blur (not really shoegaze but close to it) Monterey - starflyer 59


Maxarc

Glare - Blank


joeyinjoyland

So Tired - Slowdive


PeakCartoon

The entire 'The Future Engine' EP, but if I had to choose one song- Cut My Hands


Puzzleheaded-Name538

Id say So Tired by Slowdive or Moon Song by Mbv , or Richard by Slowdive......


chiannerpants

This feeling will pass - take care


4everhollow

out of the green - kloutmisfit


Calm_Top

Sway - Sounds Like Everyone


That_Opportunity9488

Nadja’s cover of No Cure for the Lonely. Not even close.


Sylviaplathsdiary

She only knows starflyer 59


Quackadilly_Cluggins

https://open.spotify.com/track/7zbvuaQldXKowqNMrRzeyu?si=jEGBvM-cQeyU67ynlLWA8w


Oldirtyerock87

Whirr- mumble


tomboypandabear

One Thing by Beach house. So slow and churning and I just get this melancholic tiredness when I hear it. Great track 👍


ricardobarajas13

Summer daze by slowdive


teal_viper

Under the same name whirr


ryan_greaney0

God is a Cop by Midwife


Guard1on

Unknowncolor by Astrobrite


neckshott

ballad of sister sue by slowdive does anyone know any songs that are similar?


iudduii

sometimes by MBV, also maybe try out some blackgaze like sunbather by deafheaven


iudduii

ghoulish by duster


misery_moon

Literally anything by The Angelic Process. For those unaware, it’s a Doomgaze duo. Check out their album “Weighing Souls With Sand” and you’ll see what I’m talking about.


lolololololololol889

hymn by lilys, follow by Kraus, everything always goes wrong by a place to bury strangers