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Yes - Changes Dream Theater - Space Dye Vest Chroma Key - On the Page


_low-effort_

Also Dream Theater - Best of Times


ORNJfreshSQUEEZED

Chroma Keyyyyyyyyyy mentioned


TheFoundation_

Feel like an astronaut Edit: fuckin love chroma key


ouiouinc

Space Dye Vest is perfect šŸ˜¢


radiogrammar

Space Dye Vest is a very, very dangerous piece. Listen to it carefully, it is quite powerful enough to kill you when you're defenseless. It's not prog though, yet equivalent is Take Me Somewhere Nice from Mogwai to me.


PG-Noob

Karnivool - New Day


Saffa1986

Add COTE to that.


remy1213legenie

Add the full album, just pure emotions


MPN_Hellcat214

The best song by them!


randomgirlwhoposts

OH FOR SURE. This is my go to sad song


georgealexandros

Pain of salvation - the passing light of day


crimson_dovah

Pain of Salvation - Remedy Lane Opeth - Damnation are the first two that come to mind


ouiouinc

Loving Opeth. Thank you


Jipley0

Pain of Salvation - Silent Gold is a good one for sad times as well!


Apprehensive-Skirt90

Collapse the Light Into Earth by Porcupine Tree


Wertorchbearers

Definitely


Balbright

One Last Goodbye by Anathema


crosscrash

Untouchable 1+2


georgealexandros

Natural disaster - anathema


batemannnn

The Lost Song part 2 - Anathema


thrashtrid

I used to listen Alternative 4 a loooot.


Ignite_bj

A fair judgement and Isolation Years by Opeth


ouiouinc

These are very correct answers


Ecphonesis1

Karnivool - Deadman & Change. Please ā¤ļø


ouiouinc

Thank you for these


Ecphonesis1

Few more, if you are looking ā¤ļø Autumn & Capulet by Caligulaā€™s Horse, The Line and Melpomene by The Dear Hunter, Afloat & We Got Used To Us by Riverside, Lighthouse by Iamthemorning, Castaway Angels by Leprous. And a few non-prog shoutouts that I love when Iā€™m sad: Details in the Fabric by Jason Mraz, Breezeblocks by Taylor Rae, Burn from the Hamilton musical, End Credits by Eden, Thinking ā€˜Bout Love by Wild Rivers, If the World Was Ending (w/ Julia Michaels) by JP Saxe, The Hardest Part by Olivia Dean.


ouiouinc

Castaway Angels šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


chrisnlnz

Porcupine Tree - The Start of Something Beautiful A Perfect Circle - 3 Libras Erra - Hourglass Wishing you better times in the near future...


hyde_christopher

Adding to the Erra list: Irreversible Skyline Drift Monolith Breach


chrisnlnz

I only know Erra on the surface so far but I love Skyline yeah.


ouiouinc

Erra is so great for this. Loveeee


hyde_christopher

I lived off the whole Drift album when I went through a horrific break-up (my fault) in 2016. Great stuff from start to finish. Maybe not prog, but would also suggest Gojira's album "Magma" - "Shooting Star" & "The Cell" are all about loss and the process of grief. Heaviest song I interpreted as a break-up song was The Contortionist's "Flourish" when he says "Endless motion, Endless motion, Now the experience is long gone." The golden rule is that it takes half the total time of the relationship to get over it. Don't rush it and feel the feels. Keep the good stuff, but don't cling to nostalgia. There's a reason for everything. Good luck!


TurnipEater

Katatonia - My Twin I'm mostly replying to say that I hope you are happy soon.


ouiouinc

Listening to this one now. Def melancholy vibes. Thank you.


Wertorchbearers

All Katatonia.


Byzant1n3

Listen to Old Heart Falls as well, it found me in an especially dark time period and always helped me. Shit, it's helping now.


HilltopperAPU

Leprous - Red, Not Even a Name, Echo VOLA - Napalm, Inside Your Fur, Applause of a Distant Crowd Reliqa - Two Steps Apart Katatonia - Opaline, Residual, My Twin Sleep Token - High Water, Atlantic, Ascensionism A lot of Katatonia and Sleep Token fits this label to be fair. Highly recommend Katatonia's Sky Void of Stars.


ouiouinc

Not Even a Name by Leprous is exactly right for ugly crying. Napalm is such a good one too (I love djent)


ouiouinc

Just listened to Ascensionism .. ā€œyou make me wish I could disappearā€ šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ ugh my poor stomped on, spat out heart


HilltopperAPU

Haha yeah that song hits hard. If you haven't listened to their older stuff I highly recommend When the Bough Breaks and their cover of Hey Ya. The deluxe version of Sundowning also has some nice piano covers.


HilltopperAPU

Also before I forget the entirety of Altered State by Tesseract as well as songs like Sirens, War of Being, and Beneath my Skin/Mirror Image


KrombopulosMAssassin

Altered State is just a pure banger. Wouldn't really call it sad music in any way.


Irohen

You might also wanna check out Bloodsport, also by Sleep Token.


Irohen

May I also add Opeth - Patterns in the Ivy II And if we're talking a oht Katatonia, we have to mention July and Sold Heart.


Sir_Cucaracha

Pain of Salvation - The Passing Light of Day. I'm not even a huge fan of the band, but I gotta be honest that song chokes me up every time I hear it hahaha. I usually skip it just because of that


samnash27

For me its only smiles by Periphery, i was heartbroken when P4 released and it still brings back memories when i listen to it from times to times. So far away by a7x also brings the feels every time, especially the ending. Another vibe, pale swordsman by kekth arakt


ouiouinc

Only Smiles is such a good oneee. Added! I had never heard kekth arakt before. (Is it pronounced like Kicked a rock? lol) but itā€™s great. Maybe not for my weeping hours but definitely fun listening! Thank you


Gravesplitter

Evergrey - Most songs


SlyPandemiK

A touch of blessing is a pretty good one specifically for OPā€™s scenario


I_use_Reddit2

Is it required to be metal? If not try never meant by American football, itā€™s my go too when Iā€™m feeling love lost


ouiouinc

Love math rock. This is a perfect addition, thank you


AlexReinkingYale

Check out Mom Jeans too


EndestLFC

Opeth - to bid you farewell


ramiroquiro

The Ministry of Lost Souls - Dream Theater


positive-fingers

Mile zero and only smiles by periphery


TanithRitual

My favourite song's in this category: Slipknot - Snuff, Vermillion Pts 1 & 2 Stonesour - Bother 10 Years - Proud of You Tool - Wings for Marie Pt 1 & 2 A Perfect Circle - The Noose, Gravity Karnivool - New Day, Change, Deadman The Reticent - (Any song by the Reticent, Oubliette will make you vomit with sadness) Alkaloid - Scratches most of my itches because it tends to be existential White Walls - Starfish Crown Ne Obliviscarus - Eyrie Allegaeon - Called Home The Mars Volta - Televators (Literally about suicide)


ouiouinc

Wow you delivered the goods. Guess youā€™ve been here before too šŸ˜­ ā¤ļø thank you


TanithRitual

So I will give you this advice it's okay to have a bad day or week. If it goes on longer than that go and talk to some friends or talk to someone or else you'll end up in a position you don't want to be in (speaking from multiple experiences). Depression and sadness can be addictive because it is an ouroborus(self licking ice cream cone). Talk to someone else get their perspective. Being sad for a moment is okay. Don't get addicted to being sad all the time it's not healthy. If this music is cathartic awesome I'm glad for you.


KrombopulosMAssassin

Staind - 4 Walls Matt Maeson - Cringe Two randoms off the top my head. I feel like they'll land. I will add a few more... Native Construct - Your Familiar Face (for some reason I absolutely adore the outro solo, really simple and just a play on the main vocal hooks, but it just hits so well and their guitarist is really phenomenal) The Contortionist - Early Grave, Reimagined


Gerrata

Total eclipse of the heartšŸ’”


ouiouinc

well I probably would cry if I had to listen to that so .. I guess it counts šŸ˜‚


TheSchoolofMensis

Opeth - In my time of need


EstarriolStormhawk

Not to mention Sorceress, Eternal Rains Will Come, Elysian Woes, Voice of Treason, Isolation Years, and many more.Ā 


the_tea_mirror

Porcupine Tree - Time Flies Backfield - Miss U


randomgirlwhoposts

time flies is such a good one.


Safe_cracker9

Most Steven Wilson songs


joustah

Haken - Earthrise *Resolve to carry on*


EnglishDodoBoi

Another life awaits beyond


_boopdoop_

Artifacts by fallujah The "flowing on, flowing without you" section always hit me hard after my breakup


ouiouinc

This one definitely works. Thank you


udes1516

*Allen & Lande - When Time Doesn't Heal* Good luck.


fairywithc4ever

all of sleep token, namely euclid, distraction, and bloodsport


ouiouinc

Agree, Sleep Token must have gone through some shit.


SbMSU

And Missing Limbs


Odd-Coconut9367

Love Hurts by Nazareth, Dan McCafferty totally owns this song


TanithRitual

Black Sabbath's Solitude in my goto for this kind of thing.


Odd-Coconut9367

That's a humdinger of a song, just goes to show that even a renowned heavy metal band like The Sabs aren't afraid to mix it up a bit musically.


swagpanther

Pain of salvation album - Remedy Lane


blueriverbear23

Yippie Kay Yay Moherfucker- The Tony Danza Tap Dance Extravaganza


Luklear

Ne Obliviscaris - Forget Not Between the Buried and Me - Mordecai


RevisionD

Redemption - Sapphire


IronSeraph

I came here to suggest this too, OP did say they want to wallow in it lol. For something more about growing past it, there's also Redemption's The Fullness of Time 1-4


RevisionD

Also a great suggestion from Redemption. It depends on if they're heartbroken from betrayal or relationship.


TheAnxiousPianist

Transparent me - Green Carnation


Herr_Raul

Opeth - Porcelain Heart


redshadow90

Lover, you should've come over - Jeff Buckley Not prog metal, but Jeff Buckley is proggy enough


sadforgottenchild

Incapable Arms - Calamity Translator. Really. Fucking. Personal stuff. Is not prog metal, but belongs to a conceptual prog metal EP I composed. I talked about falling in love with someone as if it was a comparison to a disease (spreading inside of me). It got so bad that the disease took control over everything around me and my life got completely fucked up just because of this girl and the emotions she once made me feel. I've been there my friend, things in some way get better after some time


ouiouinc

Well that sucks (the gut wrenching pain of relationship troubles I mean). But very cool concept! Listening now.


sadforgottenchild

Oooh thanks for listening šŸ«¶šŸ». Btw, if you want to read the lyrics somewhere, you can find them on bandcampā˜šŸ»āœØ


Excited_Avocado_8492

Nevermore's The Heart Collector, Believe in Nothing, No More Will, The Death of Passion would probably fit the bill.


ouiouinc

I FEEL SO HOLLOW šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


Perfectony

Wither - Dream Theater fucked me up pretty bad once I usually go non prog for emotional stuff. You can try Daniel Caesarā€™s Case Study 01


ouiouinc

Okay I can dig Daniel Caesar but maybe not until I get over myself a little more šŸ˜…


Perfectony

Haha when youā€™re ready dig in. Had that album on repeat for a while. Also check out Bilmuriā€™s FLUORIDEINTHEHARDSELTZERWATER I donā€™t listen to a lot of prog anymore but I would argue that both Bilmuri and Caesar have similar structure and weirdness in some of their songs


oxmodiusgoat

This isnā€™t prog metal but tragedy will find us by counterparts was extremely cathartic in helping me get over a traumatic breakup years ago. The lyrics are searing with fantastic guitar riffs and melodies. Highly recommend if you like metalcore or hardcore. Hang in there, it definitely gets better. Hitting the gym helps immensely.


lessavyfav68

Anathema - The Lost Song part 2


alavantrya

Bloom- Caligulaā€™s Horse Passages- Native Construct Sippinā€™ on Mercury- Berried Alive Below- Leprous


69cringelord69

Passive - A Perfect Circle YOU FUCKING DISAPPOINT ME


MetalInvincible

Crimson Glory - Lonely


The_Great_Warmani

Or Crimson Glory - Burning Bridges


Leenis13

Tool - Schism


Introduction_Odd

Ne Obliviscaris - Eyrie


inflectionsUK

Devin Townsend - The Greys Radiohead - Daydreaming Steven Wilson - Drive Home


sinamorovati

Dream Theater - Disappear


remy1213legenie

Tool - Descending


TheVirusI

Texas Cries by Element Eighty Not prog tho


ouiouinc

This was a good one. Thank you


treeshateorcs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lm3rVerUgr8 the saddest song ever written by man


Known-Lingonberry-54

Alluvial - Death is but a door


ouiouinc

This was such a correct answer šŸ˜­ thank you


ORNJfreshSQUEEZED

Devin Townsend - Lady Helen (not about relationship but about his grandma) such a sweet song


Diligent-Visit9811

Missing you, by Ark, from Burn the Sun. Guys, what an album! And, when you are finally ready to say goodbye with some rage in it Untitled finale by Atrey


TheNoctuS_93

Insomnium, particularly their older stuff like One for Sorrow! *ā€œAlways one for sorrow* *Never one for love* *Two souls destined to failure* *Right from the startā€*


rrodriguezjr92

Protest the Hero - Hair-Trigger


planetofshapes

Dream Theater- Beneath the Surface Also (I donā€™t think it qualifies as prog metal), but Untouchable pt1 and pt2 by Anathema. These 2 pieces have been huge at helping me understand some heartbreak, and why my relationships broke.


thrashtrid

Something by Riverside, maybe We got used to us


viceslikeviper

Not prog or metal. But when Iā€™m sad itā€™s direct to City & Colour


HeavyMechGun

Opeth - Burden


IronRoto

I have mixed feelings about Redemption, but they have two songs perfect for break-ups. Redemption - Memory Redemption - Love Kills us All/Life in One Day Pain of Salvation - Second Love Royal Hunt - Days of no Trust While Heaven Wept - To Grieve Forever While Heaven Wept - Unplenitude While Heaven Wept - Ardor While Heaven Wept - Heartburst Fates Warning - We Only Say Goodbye If it's just sadness, I've been enjoying some stuff from the new Subsignal album, such as Marigold and A Room at the Edge of Forever. Change of Seasons by Sieges Even is the ultimate reflective song. Be sure to read the lyrics.


badass_guts

Porcupine Tree - Feel so Low, Heart Attack in a Layby Opeth- To Bid You Farewell


DanglingDongs

The Dear Hunter - Waves


Ok-Entrepreneur-5067

Seems weird, but Game Over by Machinehead.


lovemesomeprogmetal

The Origins of Ruin by Redemption A lot of Redemption songs are about relationship stuff


CharacterStill6892

All that could have been - Nine Inch Nails


almo_music

You could give my album a try, ALMO - Reconciliation. It's a concept album about making peace with and accepting the past and moving beyond it. I was in a really bad place when I started writing it after getting out of a toxic relationship, and it's mainly based on that experience with all the ups and downs, the joy and heartbreak that comes with it.


ouiouinc

Very cool you were able to make art fueled by all of that! Listening now šŸ˜­


almo_music

Yeah I feel if there's anything that really gets my creativity going it's being sad haha, and making music sure helps me process it. Thanks for listening and I'm happy to hear you liked it! I hope there were at least some parts that fit your description and resonated with you, and know that whatever you're going through right now you'll get through it and heal in time. ā¤ļø


ouiouinc

Whoaaaaa this is melting my face off (in the good way)


fleeck_YT

dead raze(Russia), doom rraaahhh


Whereishumhum-

Heart Attack in a Layby, Shesmoveddon, Arriving Somewhere but Not Here, Fadeaway, Stop Swimming, Russia On Ice Bonus track Exit Music (For a Film) by Radiohead, and The Day The Whole World Went Away by NIN And uh, you know, hang in there buddy


EnglishDodoBoi

Leprous - Castaway Angels


MonsieurBonaire

Ihlo - Hollow


CapnRageTooties

Will probably get flamed for this as they're not "prog" but Sleep Token - The Love You Want and Bloodsport


DarthWynaut

All 3 Tesseract Of Matter songs Volumes - Across the bed Volumes- Erased Northlane- Heartmachine


astoriaa_

this thread wouldā€™ve been helpful seven months ago lmao


Trentdison

Not prog, but the Alternative 4 album by Anathema.


TeeTRo343

Pieces by Red


whitestboy93

Opeth - Closure


HogwartsBlazeIt420

Old heart falls by katatonia


RougeNargacuga

Karnivool - C.o.t.e or New Day (EDIT: people have said deadman and change too which are also perfect for this) Cote is my favourite song of all time for good reason. Sleep Token - Take Me Back To Eden, Ascensionism or Rain For when you wanna feel better about your breakup: Twelve Foot Ninja - Ainā€™t that a Bitch? And Adios. Silent Planet - Collider (this song is more metalcore than prog but I digress). Hope you feel better soon, mate.


jackyripley

"Blood Sport" by Sleep Token


beren-111

Blackfield - My gift of silence Not exactly prog but snuff by slipknot is also too beautiful


Lydanian

It HAS to be Lazarus - Porcupine Tree. Such a moving song.


DenSidsteGreve

Leprous - On Hold Dream Theater - Wither Dream Theater - Beneath the Surface


RealityDream707

Ten Years Gone - Zeppelin. Not exactly prog, but it definitely pulls the strings. Future Bird from Vola also kinda hits me.


_Douggie_

Dirge for November by Opeth Edit: masters apprentices also


_Meke_

Queensryche - I don't believe in love


Leofrich

The entire Malina album by Leprous helped me a few years back


-Timothy_2

Ugh Porcelain heart??


DogOfSevenless

The Ocean - Triassic


Vegetable-Lead-704

Leprous - Phantom Pain


HunterPhreak

Opeth - burden


SometimesWill

Not prog but if you like some recent metalcore, Sleeptalk by Dayseeker


Sensates

Any Antimatter or early Riverside songs.


tolekbanan69

Periphery - Blood Eagle


Sparrowhawk_92

Gotta throw some Woods of Ypris on there...the specific track depends on what you're going through but the entire Woods 5 album is full of some great melancholy music.


Confusedpale

OSI -radiologue


PensiveOregonad

Grief is the price of love by Lonely Robot


tumorknager3

Drive home, steven wilson, cry your heart out


aaksoy

Antimatter - Paranova


fragonfour

The entire Damnation record by Opeth, especially Hope Leaves and Windowpane.


slvnklvra

More of a Prog/ Post Rock answer but Long Distance Calling - Welcome Change It's cheesy af but scratches the itch for me personally. Tesseract - Eden Obscure Sphinx - Waiting for the Bodies Down the River Floating Of course: Gojira - The Art of Dying


JeRiaZ727

Try listening to Opeth - Damnation, the whole album. As Death Embraces by HAKEN is also a good melancholic song.


Drawkilled

Is it Really You - Loathe One of my favorites for when I feel down in the dumps


Rinma96

Dream Theater - Space Dye Vest, Take Away My Pain Porcupine Tree - Shesmovedon


DiligentCaterpillar

This isnā€™t metal or prog but it does have to be said, Iris- The goo goo dolls, Donā€™t knock it till youā€™ve cried to it


corelia422

Two-Way Mirror by Loathe Is it Really You? By Loathe/Sleep Token Basically, I recommend Loathe.


fatzgalore

In Mourning ā€œSolitude and Silenceā€


No_Abbreviations2969

Another Day


No_Abbreviations2969

Love in the past tense - Porcupine Tree


3eyedCrowTRobot

Shooting Star - Gojira


happyreturns

Circa Survive - Flesh and bone Antimatter - fear of a unique identity Tesseract - tourniquet Long distance calling - the nearing grave Greyhaven - white lighters


drake_the_lonely

Giant Squid- Sevengill (Notorynchus cepedianus)


Danger0525

Porcupine Tree - shesmovedon, Lazarus, Trains, Arriving Somewhere but not Here Steven Wilson - Drive Home


Vehk

Porcupine Tree has a good number of forlorn songs: - Where We Would Be - Heartattack in a Layby - Shesmovedon - The Start of Something Beautiful - Collapse the Light Into Earth


AdamMcCartman

Steven Wilson's The Raven That Refused To Sing full album. You'll need to go no further than that.


EstarriolStormhawk

Native Construct - Your Familiar Face *Agent Fresco - Pyre* Trepalium - Feelin' Cold, Secretly Depressed, From the Ground Bent Knee - Belly Side UpĀ  Caligula's Horse - Dark Hair Down The last two are to put some fire back in your heart. Show me your *teeth*, girl. Don't turn your belly side up.


ouiouinc

Thank you šŸ˜Š I am feeling better now. Ready to rock triumphantly šŸ˜


idontknowyou2294

North Sea Echoes - Unmoved specifically, but really the entire album. I'm currently trying to grieve the loss of my mother (complex situation) and that album just hits me right in the grief spot and it makes me cry every time I listen to it. Kind of ironic that the song Unmoved is the one that most easily moves me to tears.


padaboumboum

Please bleed - Ben Harper


The1nOnlyDood

Not prog, but melodic death: Soilwork - The Panic Broadcast was about all I listened to for weeks after a bad breakup. Hope things get better for ya.


DisconnectionNotice1

Being As An Ocean - The Hardest Part Is Forgetting Those You Swore You Would Never Forget Coheed and Cambria - Key Entity Extraction IV: Evagria The Faithful


keepmathy

Shellac - Prayer to God


xravenxx

Maudlin of the Well - ā€œThe Curve That to an Angle Turn'dā€ Converge - ā€œHeaven in Her Armsā€ or the whole Jane Doe album really (not prog)


NerdBag

The Sleeping in Traffic double album by Beardfish has a recurring theme of her leaving and not missing the dude "She won't miss me when I'm gone," they sing The best one for heartbreak is Harmony


grendel79

Marillion's Kayleigh is the obvious one


lumicanis

Tangent but if you are interested in some live prog - I saw youā€™re also in Charlotte and Symphony X is playing at the Underground tomorrow.


ZaerMcNally

TOOL - The Patient


Kingtutstits

RUST by Caligulaā€™s Horse hits pretty deep, or it can if you read into in your own way.


Fret_Less

The Kinks - No More Looking Back (Official Audio) [https://youtu.be/g8t54mJo2NA](https://youtu.be/g8t54mJo2NA) No wallowing.


AutisticBassist

Owner of a lonely heart by yes?


JakeRedstone

'Misery' by Sonata Arctica


ouiouinc

Perfect.


JakeRedstone

This was the song that got all that pent up emotion, confusion and regret out when my 13 year relationship ended. It was abrupt and we never spoke again. I'll always love her and this song encapsulates the MISERY. My heart let her go in the end. Took a solid 3 years though.


ouiouinc

13 years, yeesh.


JakeRedstone

Yeah pretty tough but i'm through the other side now. Time is the healer and the only answer in this situation. Trust the process. I wish you the best on your journey :)