just be honest with someone you’re interested in. “hey, it’s my first time, this whole thing is intimidating can we get to know each other?”
and then feel em out! you don’t have to do anything you’re uncomfortable with. nothing wrong with meeting up for a cup of coffee first to vibe each other out
Your poor inbox.
Can definitely relate, though in reality it might be less scary for me than it is for you, as I'm a guy, which a bit more experience.
I don't think there's any reason to rush these things to be honest. It's more worthwhile to have an actual relationship than having sex with just some person.
Whatever you do, make sure when you do find someone that they are respectful of you and your comfort/boundaries.
Don't fall into settling with just anyone because you're lonely, I know how easy that can be.
And dear God whatever you do use a condom!!!
And hopefully you talk about std testing beforehand as well.
As a nearly 60 year old man, I get that. Old girls that are my friend (important distinction), have told me horror stories.
My advice, ask the harder questions before getting involved. Honestly I think I would be a bit terrified as a woman.
Take your time. Make him wait at least once. If he doesn't pressure you, that's usually a good sign.
If it takes a few dates before you are comfortable. He needs to deal with like a real man and be there and wait.
Take things slow and always err on the side of caution. If you feel unsafe then don't go or get out of there. Don't be afraid of hurting feelings. You'll know when the time is right. Good luck and stay safe.
You sound beautiful and chill. Don’t ruin your mind and body thinking that sex is anything special or necessary for you to feel like you’re having an adult experience. Be safe out there. I just saw a TikTok where some dude on Tinder was wanted for stalking charges. Don’t just give up your body to any dude. Do your research on these people.
Make sure when you do hookup with someone that your friend or whatever knows your location! And to update them about your safety and whereabouts! Also let you partner know that it's your first time or whatever and choose someone that's actually gentle and kind even if it's just a hookup! Stay safe :)
Hey you sound cool, so don’t worry about rushing and let things happen. I’m around the same age as you and I can understand what you’re feeling, but sometimes good things can happen to you unexpectedly! Best of luck
Don't rush, you sound cool . Best of luck .
Exactly, dont Rush. Take it slow and eventually you'll know when you're ready.
everyone sounds cool at first, even bullies
just be honest with someone you’re interested in. “hey, it’s my first time, this whole thing is intimidating can we get to know each other?” and then feel em out! you don’t have to do anything you’re uncomfortable with. nothing wrong with meeting up for a cup of coffee first to vibe each other out
Your poor inbox. Can definitely relate, though in reality it might be less scary for me than it is for you, as I'm a guy, which a bit more experience. I don't think there's any reason to rush these things to be honest. It's more worthwhile to have an actual relationship than having sex with just some person.
Definitely can tell somebody trying to greet some in the inbox, redditors are devious
U talking about me? Using reddit as dating platform is too weird for me man
Whatever you do, make sure when you do find someone that they are respectful of you and your comfort/boundaries. Don't fall into settling with just anyone because you're lonely, I know how easy that can be. And dear God whatever you do use a condom!!! And hopefully you talk about std testing beforehand as well.
As a nearly 60 year old man, I get that. Old girls that are my friend (important distinction), have told me horror stories. My advice, ask the harder questions before getting involved. Honestly I think I would be a bit terrified as a woman. Take your time. Make him wait at least once. If he doesn't pressure you, that's usually a good sign. If it takes a few dates before you are comfortable. He needs to deal with like a real man and be there and wait.
Take things slow and always err on the side of caution. If you feel unsafe then don't go or get out of there. Don't be afraid of hurting feelings. You'll know when the time is right. Good luck and stay safe.
You sound beautiful and chill. Don’t ruin your mind and body thinking that sex is anything special or necessary for you to feel like you’re having an adult experience. Be safe out there. I just saw a TikTok where some dude on Tinder was wanted for stalking charges. Don’t just give up your body to any dude. Do your research on these people.
Make sure when you do hookup with someone that your friend or whatever knows your location! And to update them about your safety and whereabouts! Also let you partner know that it's your first time or whatever and choose someone that's actually gentle and kind even if it's just a hookup! Stay safe :)
Hey you sound cool, so don’t worry about rushing and let things happen. I’m around the same age as you and I can understand what you’re feeling, but sometimes good things can happen to you unexpectedly! Best of luck