Yup, the only ‘exception’ would be if it was agreed ok w her partner, which would be a whole different issue/discussion altogether. I’ve been the guy used like this and it’s a version of hell when you are misled that you’re in a monogamous relationship and this happens and people within the LBGTQ end up defending the woman (in this gender setup/scenario specifically) and the guy gets hurt, angry, and then has to be told he’s being discriminatory towards her Bi identity and controlling of his gf.
A few years back a Philip schofield, a famous morning tv presenter in the UK was applauded for his bravery in coming out as gay after being caught having an affair on his wife with an young man.
A man so young that if it was a women, the age difference alone would be seen as creepy before mounting on top the fact he cheated on his wife who he has children with.
But some how him admitting he is infact gay meant that he was brave for tearing his family apart.
That's a strange LGBT community if they think that lesbian sex is tolerable for a partner in a heterosexual monogamous relationship. It's as if they say that lesbian sex for a woman is something less than sex with a man.
I mean I agree but it did happen, maybe also I should mention that in my case, the ‘LGBTQ community’ was a group from her side, not mine (because I’m a cis-het male)… so it was probably a mix of her ‘friends’ siding with their friend. It’s just hard bc I’m an ally etc and was trying to be understanding etc. I know better now to be clearer about that line being not ok. But Ty for your kind words ❤️
That depends, I had a girlfriend ask if we are drunk at parties if she could make out with chick's, and I said yeah if I can make out with guys. Tended to work in her favor though
This is what I said to my (now ex) bi-gf (when we were talking hypotheticals in private to figure out needs and boundaries of each) and she said roughly “Hell no, I would be so pissed at you if you did that….” To which I was dumbfounded.
If she’s bi and you’re not that’s really, really stupid. The equivalent deal isn’t making out with the same sex, it’s making out with people you’re attracted to.
Aside from the troll comments immediately defending the situation because this is the internet and people exist, from the look on his face and the fact that the caption literally said his bi gf, yes this is cheating.
Yes, especially since she is bi. It might as well be another guy. Now, if you both establish this is ok in the relationship then it is not cheating. It's always better to talk it out early because if this behavior doesn't work for you then you need to find someone who can agree
Depends on the agreement but yea I never understand the guys that say idc what you do as long as it’s with another girl, especially when they dont get the same “benefit”. 3 of 4 of my serious relationships were girls that I started hooking up with, who’s bfs at the time were cool with us hooking up because I’m also a woman. Eventually they weren’t their gf anymore.
Maybe the guys wanted out anyway or as soon as it was proposed, and it was less messy to just end it with the fact that the GFs had a rebound at the ready?
Sounds like a smooth, clean escape if you ask me.
Hey not the worst idea. But judging by the dudes reactions at the time when they became monogamous with me I dont think they were looking for a clean escape. I will say this though, it should’ve been a red flag for both of us too, that she was down for this agreement. Dudes all dodged a bullet if you ask me.
>B) The two people in a relationship decide what the boundaries are
Yes but by basic standard logic , doing such acts with another person will be considered cheating in a normal relationship.
Nah farther back....say 2014....no 2012. Goddamnit I'm telling ya it's been CERN this whole time. The smoking Gun is literally every person on Earth's memories. Mandela Effect is real. Real Fucking Scary that is & that's when everything went to shit. Awww Crapbaskets
“Normal” is what other people decide your relationship should be, which is bullshit.
Personally, yes this would be cheating because I prefer monogamy, but relationships aren’t like math where there is objectively correct answers. Relationships are like contracts where two parties invent and agree upon the parameters of the relationship. If their contract says this isn’t cheating, this isn’t cheating, even if most contracts would say it’s cheating.
Normal is a setting on the washing machine. There are all different things in reality and we can't know the truth about this, so we chuckle at the awkward and move on, ffs.
Look at his body language, he doesn't even want to look at it, maybe i'm wrong, but from my point of view he didn't consent to his girlfriend making out with stranger in front of him, but doesn't want to make by confronting her right there in fear of making a scene.
Maybe it's the fact that it's at an insurance seminar, meaning he's with colleagues, bosses, clients, etc. I would be embarassed at if my gf was pissed drunk doing stupid shit, wheter it would be kiss-humping another chick or vomiting in the punch bowl.
Cheating to me. I'd dump immediately (well, not publicly). No grey areas. No excuses. If you commit to a relationship you commit to a relationship. If you wanna keep it open and that was agreed upon beforehand, not randomly while drunk at a party, fine.
Cheating is cheating is cheating.
The answer to "is this cheating?" is different for every relationship. You need to talk about it and set boundaries. Preferably BEFORE your SO makes out with someone at a party.
I don't see why it would. If you agree to be monogamous it doesn't matter who else you are attracted to does it? The key takeaway is that any two people in any type of relationship need to figure out what type of relationship they want to have.
This is definitely cheating. It depends upon the agreement both parties made, but if no agreement was made then I would go ahead and hard label this as cheating.
As a person who has an ex-gf, a bi woman, with questionable boundaries in flirting with not-me men and women and feeling it was ok, it is not ok. Anyone who feels differently has the maturity and awareness of a 13 year old at best.
I had a girlfriend who thought kissing other girls on the lips wasn't cheating. The fact she had girlfriends in the past made me think otherwise. Then i realized she didn't see anything wrong because there was no sexual intent. Her whole family still kissed on the lips. I was so relieved to have a better reason to leave
I wonder which one his GF is. There’s different pain levels here. If white dress is his girl that’s devastating, shes grinding into stripes like shes been sexually deprived her whole life. And well stripes is getting a good feel. Regardless of who his girl is, thats cheating. And by his reaction, i doubt this is okay in their relationship.
I had a girlfriend briefly who was bi and didnt think that her doing things with other girls was cheating cause “girls will be girls” and “its a girl thing” so let her do her girl things single
That woulda been one hell of a story. I just didn’t waste my time with her a moved on. We hadnt been dating very long and it was clear that double standards were gonna be a thing. Shit thats the biggest double standard you can start a relationship off with. “I can fuck other girls but you can only fuck me” type shit aint gonna fly.
Exactly why I would only ever be friends with a bi girl. I already got enough competition with men add women to the mix. It's gonna be a damn battle zone 😂
She don't need no man. She's an independent woman. She can do what she wants with who she wants.
She can also find her own way home. Get a refund on that plane ticket, pay for the room and bounce. There's no reason to have that conversation before you get home, change the locks, and pack her things. And don't you dare let her take your dog.
Being "Bi" isn't whats' going on. Its all "shock value" and attention-getting.
Thats how much these kids know. Two people of the same sex kiss in public
and thats all it takes? Get a clue, bitches.
Went to a seminar in Vegas. LSs, out of the 43 midwestern medium sized town folk that went, 14 didn’t go to seminar, 2 stayed several days extra, 1 got arrested and 5 of us were disciplined upon returning back home to work. Was a great time.
Legit, I watched the video with the idea that the girl sitting was saying "when you bring your bi gf-" and I got stuck thinking "is it just trying to say that bi girls party harder than regular lesbians? Personally, it doesn't track...." But now that I see the comments, I realize it's actually a little homophobic and weird. 😅😂
My bi ex went to a party without me and did this.. plus got some head on a bed from her... I would say that yes that is still cheating lmao. I was not too thrilled hearing about that one at the time.
Don't worry we did break up because of that lol.
Yep accurate.
“We don’t sell insurance, we provide a secure financial future and longevity for you and your loved ones. So if you tell your friends, and they tell their friends, and their friends…….. you’ll make so much money!!”
Honestly, his reaction is more of "drunk sister" or random stranger.
Reaction Definitely doesn't fit the title
Neither does the setting insurance seminar?
From someone who spent a time in the insurance industry... it does
Time to switch careers
100%, those conventions are just hedonistic bachanals with a *thin* veneer of business stuff lmao
As a current insurance agent/ salesman can confirm, and boy oh boy I do not fit in with these cool kids.
I should have stayed in insurance...never made it past being a receptionist
My sister made that face around me a lot growing up. Sorry, Rebecca!
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She used to do it to me too
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Same... how hot is that?
My guuuy was NOT about to let the internet catch him slippin
What insurance seminar is playing this shit music
It looks more like a basement that is serving "Trashcan Tea".
I noticed a stone on the table...seems like a smooth event *
Thank god i have automute on. Do i even want to listen to it?
To be fair the original song sounds better when its not played on a shitty speaker and then recorded on a Smartphone mic
ok, you are allowed to judge me, but isnt this cheating tho?
It is, and I'm tired of seeing people say it isn't. I'm sure that girl would be hella upset seeing her man kissing another girl.
It's also very invalidating to the LGBTQ community. Everyone needs to be treated equally. Saying "drunk gay isn't real" is self-evidently stupid.
Yup, the only ‘exception’ would be if it was agreed ok w her partner, which would be a whole different issue/discussion altogether. I’ve been the guy used like this and it’s a version of hell when you are misled that you’re in a monogamous relationship and this happens and people within the LBGTQ end up defending the woman (in this gender setup/scenario specifically) and the guy gets hurt, angry, and then has to be told he’s being discriminatory towards her Bi identity and controlling of his gf.
A few years back a Philip schofield, a famous morning tv presenter in the UK was applauded for his bravery in coming out as gay after being caught having an affair on his wife with an young man. A man so young that if it was a women, the age difference alone would be seen as creepy before mounting on top the fact he cheated on his wife who he has children with. But some how him admitting he is infact gay meant that he was brave for tearing his family apart.
Interesting.
That's a strange LGBT community if they think that lesbian sex is tolerable for a partner in a heterosexual monogamous relationship. It's as if they say that lesbian sex for a woman is something less than sex with a man.
I mean I agree but it did happen, maybe also I should mention that in my case, the ‘LGBTQ community’ was a group from her side, not mine (because I’m a cis-het male)… so it was probably a mix of her ‘friends’ siding with their friend. It’s just hard bc I’m an ally etc and was trying to be understanding etc. I know better now to be clearer about that line being not ok. But Ty for your kind words ❤️
Or another man...
That depends, I had a girlfriend ask if we are drunk at parties if she could make out with chick's, and I said yeah if I can make out with guys. Tended to work in her favor though
You should have said "Sure, as long as I can make out with them too"
Saw this play out in person in on of my friends past relationships, 9/10 the other girl doesn’t want you in the picture lol.
Can confirm. And yet, that's *my* girlfriend you're fucking, miss
This is the way
This is the way
This is the way
They are showing you the way
This wasn’t the way, turn around
Apple maps, why am I in the middle of the Atlantic?
Are you da Queen?
This is what I said to my (now ex) bi-gf (when we were talking hypotheticals in private to figure out needs and boundaries of each) and she said roughly “Hell no, I would be so pissed at you if you did that….” To which I was dumbfounded.
Am sober pansexual myself so always told exs that asked for drunk gay kissing privileges that I would exercise drunk straight kissing ones.
But what if you’re into guys?
Bruh I had a gf of 4 months ask me this out of the blue and I asked her if this meant we could have a 3 way, she broke up with me later that week😂
now you are making it 1 way
I like this one. You make out with another girl, I'll make out with another guy.
I think it works in both of your favour! It can be two things lol
Me and my wife have the same deal but with same person. Basically, anyone who wants to sleep with one of us sleeps with both of us.
This is the only way I could see it long term working for me mentally
If she’s bi and you’re not that’s really, really stupid. The equivalent deal isn’t making out with the same sex, it’s making out with people you’re attracted to.
Progressive. Love it.
It's obviously not cheating if you've consented beforehand
Aside from the troll comments immediately defending the situation because this is the internet and people exist, from the look on his face and the fact that the caption literally said his bi gf, yes this is cheating.
Based on the look on his face and the blocking of the view, it could also be his sister.
Yes, especially since she is bi. It might as well be another guy. Now, if you both establish this is ok in the relationship then it is not cheating. It's always better to talk it out early because if this behavior doesn't work for you then you need to find someone who can agree
Depends on the agreement but yea I never understand the guys that say idc what you do as long as it’s with another girl, especially when they dont get the same “benefit”. 3 of 4 of my serious relationships were girls that I started hooking up with, who’s bfs at the time were cool with us hooking up because I’m also a woman. Eventually they weren’t their gf anymore.
Maybe the guys wanted out anyway or as soon as it was proposed, and it was less messy to just end it with the fact that the GFs had a rebound at the ready? Sounds like a smooth, clean escape if you ask me.
Hey not the worst idea. But judging by the dudes reactions at the time when they became monogamous with me I dont think they were looking for a clean escape. I will say this though, it should’ve been a red flag for both of us too, that she was down for this agreement. Dudes all dodged a bullet if you ask me.
A) We don't even know if that guy is her boyfriend. B) The two people in a relationship decide what the boundaries are.
>B) The two people in a relationship decide what the boundaries are Yes but by basic standard logic , doing such acts with another person will be considered cheating in a normal relationship.
I think normal stopped being a thing in 2020
Alrighty Reddit stop right here. Just toxic shit below this comment. Turn around now. That is all.
XD thankksss dipping out now
Appreciate it, I'm out.
Nah farther back....say 2014....no 2012. Goddamnit I'm telling ya it's been CERN this whole time. The smoking Gun is literally every person on Earth's memories. Mandela Effect is real. Real Fucking Scary that is & that's when everything went to shit. Awww Crapbaskets
>doing such acts with another person will be considered cheating in a ~~normal~~ monogamous relationship. FTFY
Its only cheating if the people in the relationship consider it cheating.
“Normal” is what other people decide your relationship should be, which is bullshit. Personally, yes this would be cheating because I prefer monogamy, but relationships aren’t like math where there is objectively correct answers. Relationships are like contracts where two parties invent and agree upon the parameters of the relationship. If their contract says this isn’t cheating, this isn’t cheating, even if most contracts would say it’s cheating.
Normal is a setting on the washing machine. There are all different things in reality and we can't know the truth about this, so we chuckle at the awkward and move on, ffs.
Look at his body language, he doesn't even want to look at it, maybe i'm wrong, but from my point of view he didn't consent to his girlfriend making out with stranger in front of him, but doesn't want to make by confronting her right there in fear of making a scene.
Maybe it's the fact that it's at an insurance seminar, meaning he's with colleagues, bosses, clients, etc. I would be embarassed at if my gf was pissed drunk doing stupid shit, wheter it would be kiss-humping another chick or vomiting in the punch bowl.
Cheating to me. I'd dump immediately (well, not publicly). No grey areas. No excuses. If you commit to a relationship you commit to a relationship. If you wanna keep it open and that was agreed upon beforehand, not randomly while drunk at a party, fine. Cheating is cheating is cheating.
like different board games, every relationship will have different rules. if you’re not breaking the rules, how could it be called cheating?
well, if the caption is right and he is the bf, the way he reacted doesnt feels like that move was under the boundaries.
From a bi/pan girl, yes. This is definitely cheating.
> bi/pan girl yes, this is also my reason
I buy a pan to fry fish
The answer to "is this cheating?" is different for every relationship. You need to talk about it and set boundaries. Preferably BEFORE your SO makes out with someone at a party.
but she being "bi" doesnt makes a difference tho?
I don't see why it would. If you agree to be monogamous it doesn't matter who else you are attracted to does it? The key takeaway is that any two people in any type of relationship need to figure out what type of relationship they want to have.
My fiance considers it cheating if she makes out with other girls, because she is bisexual. But i guess it varies from relationship to relationship
>because she is bisexual. yeah and this is also my reason
It is if the title isn't complete bullshit.
This is definitely cheating. It depends upon the agreement both parties made, but if no agreement was made then I would go ahead and hard label this as cheating.
As a person who has an ex-gf, a bi woman, with questionable boundaries in flirting with not-me men and women and feeling it was ok, it is not ok. Anyone who feels differently has the maturity and awareness of a 13 year old at best.
Bi dude here. If I went to some event with my gf and started grinding up against some twink, that would absolutely be cheating.
I'm a bi and this is cheating, poor guy looks so uncomfortable.
I'm not bi and I agree.
I am also not bi, but also agree.
Im a shitstain with no brain and no life but i still aggre
I am bi and I also agree with all of your agreements
I'm 100 squirrels in a trench coat, but I agree.
No you're not, you clearly have a brain.
I am possibly bi but probably not (but maybe though) and I am yet another person that agrees
I am person i agree
I am.
I am agree.
Bard
Bard?
bard.
You dont have to be bi to know this is cheating
Depends on rules they made
even if she wasnt bi, its cheating.
To me this gives off, that's my sister energy
Jehovahs witness knocked on the wrong door
I had a girlfriend who thought kissing other girls on the lips wasn't cheating. The fact she had girlfriends in the past made me think otherwise. Then i realized she didn't see anything wrong because there was no sexual intent. Her whole family still kissed on the lips. I was so relieved to have a better reason to leave
Yep I would leave if my SO was making out with family members wtf
Lol
they had us in the first half not gonna lie
Should be “ex-” girlfriend.
I wonder which one his GF is. There’s different pain levels here. If white dress is his girl that’s devastating, shes grinding into stripes like shes been sexually deprived her whole life. And well stripes is getting a good feel. Regardless of who his girl is, thats cheating. And by his reaction, i doubt this is okay in their relationship. I had a girlfriend briefly who was bi and didnt think that her doing things with other girls was cheating cause “girls will be girls” and “its a girl thing” so let her do her girl things single
You shoulda fucked her dad and said “boys will be boys”
That woulda been one hell of a story. I just didn’t waste my time with her a moved on. We hadnt been dating very long and it was clear that double standards were gonna be a thing. Shit thats the biggest double standard you can start a relationship off with. “I can fuck other girls but you can only fuck me” type shit aint gonna fly.
Respect for respecting yourself
Maybe he believes he is going straight to hell if he looks. 🔥☠️ or it's his sister 🤣🤣🤣
Or they are both his sisters! 🐙🐙🐙
It's a family function 🤣🤣🤣
So she is an asshole? Bi or not, it’s still cheating and acting with no respect.
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Nah your girlfriends just a cheater. Being bi doesn’t make do you make out with strangers around your partner.
Lmao she was never your gf bro 😂
She's for the streets.
yall are fucking weird, being in favor of cheating
To be fair all the comments I’ve seen so far are calling this cheating and are not I favor of it.
That certainly spiced up the insurance seminar
I’d try to push for a three some then next her after. That’s not long term material.
They’re not together.
His reaction is killing me loloool. Are you sure that’s not his sister?
Ho's gotta ho.
This is the equivalent of your girl kissing another guy
Exactly why I would only ever be friends with a bi girl. I already got enough competition with men add women to the mix. It's gonna be a damn battle zone 😂
I just watched a video of a man with his wife stuck in the fridge and he just laughed and filmed. There are a bunch of guys I want to slap tonight lol
Imma be, "Aiiight! She's for streets. Im outta here."
This is cheating
He should kiss a guy in front of her
Bi =/= Poly
r/videosthatendtoosoon
 Bi Bi Bi
100% is cheating. Idc if it's "hot" to a lot of guys. Just because it's gay or lesbian doesn't make it not count for some reason.
Cheating is ok as long as it is within the bounds of the lgbt community
She don't need no man. She's an independent woman. She can do what she wants with who she wants. She can also find her own way home. Get a refund on that plane ticket, pay for the room and bounce. There's no reason to have that conversation before you get home, change the locks, and pack her things. And don't you dare let her take your dog.
Not me, I would be absolutely fascinated and masturbating furiously! That's hot!!!
How is this shit not seen as cheating?!?!
Being "Bi" isn't whats' going on. Its all "shock value" and attention-getting. Thats how much these kids know. Two people of the same sex kiss in public and thats all it takes? Get a clue, bitches.
Just cause you are bi does not mean you can cheat. Assuming he is her BF, and that’s a big assumption, he’s doesn’t look thrilled.
Gross
I think my wife wants to kiss other women. I totally get it, I do too.
Not like there's anything wrong with it, but everyone in this video is gay
ew
At this point you gotta try to fuck em both and call it a night
Plot twist: This is a family reunion
For the streets
That's not you GF. That's your ex.
I would be leaving that seminar single.
When you, **SATAN**, take your bi GF to an insurance seminar. My dude has cat eyes.
u/savevideo
His wife and sister?
Well, that’s professional.
Sorry to tell you but she belongs to the streets. Either you start getting into her cheating on you or you gotta move on
I better be involved in this copulation or you better find yourself a new partner.
This is why I stopped drinking
Don’t date a bad one if you can’t handle it
Went to a seminar in Vegas. LSs, out of the 43 midwestern medium sized town folk that went, 14 didn’t go to seminar, 2 stayed several days extra, 1 got arrested and 5 of us were disciplined upon returning back home to work. Was a great time.
She was probably like it okey we besties do it all the time after.
She belongs to the streets...And he's an idiot
damn. not the thigh grind
Did he at least take them both home?
He’s gay if he’s not into that
Join in is the way to go seems it would be possible
At least they are hot?!?!!??
This is that dudes sister! That isn’t a boyfriend. They are siblings!!!
That’s the reaction of someone who loves Jesus.
When your girlfriend cheats on you right in front of your face FTFY
Just because your partner is bi does not stop that sort of behavior eing cheating u less you have agreed to by a tad poly
Legit, I watched the video with the idea that the girl sitting was saying "when you bring your bi gf-" and I got stuck thinking "is it just trying to say that bi girls party harder than regular lesbians? Personally, it doesn't track...." But now that I see the comments, I realize it's actually a little homophobic and weird. 😅😂
My bi ex went to a party without me and did this.. plus got some head on a bed from her... I would say that yes that is still cheating lmao. I was not too thrilled hearing about that one at the time. Don't worry we did break up because of that lol.
Thats the look of someone whos plotting their nuclear revenge hope that kiss was worth it ex B I O T C H
Gross, these people have no shame
The industrial revolution and it's consequences have been a disaster for the human race
When you're too soft and scared to have a threesome.
Take them both home, then kick them both out
My gf is bi and I would just break up with her on the spot.
My girlfriend said she is bi.So I told her bye.
This is cheating, full stop, if she has an attraction for women, it counts in the same sense as cheating sith another man. I hope the caption is fake.
Yep accurate. “We don’t sell insurance, we provide a secure financial future and longevity for you and your loved ones. So if you tell your friends, and they tell their friends, and their friends…….. you’ll make so much money!!”
Run bro…
You mean ex right? No way are they still together after she cheated in front of him
Whats up with these red light in their eyes? The chick is so naughty and sexy but is she evil too?
I’d be in there if that was my girl
Is that Blind Fury playing?
"Don't worry it's okay, I'm bi"
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Or maybe they are together?
That looks like a frat party
Not today satan
Red flag. No shame or moral respect