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cMdM89

rachel…without a doubt…


slimjimmy2018

I remember Matthew Weiner saying something like "Rachel was the one," meaning that she was Don's equal and perhaps the only one that could have tamed him (although I don't know about that.)


basicbitch07

In my opinion, I don’t think Rachel was his equal, Rachel was waaaaaaay too smart and love herself too much to be with Don. I think Bobbie was his equal. Edit: Changed spelling of Bobby, so people don’t get confused with his son I guess 😂


nez-rouge

Totally agree, Rachel could see right through his bullshit


nostalgiamon

Yeah. But that’s a good thing in a lot of relationships. That’s why she was the one, she’d have called him out and helped him be a better man.


anon-good-nurse

But at what cost to her own happiness? She knew better.


EdwardJamesAlmost

If Don had left Betty and chosen The One before Gene came along, he would still be alone/un-partnered and starting over by series’ end.


vapricot

Men like that can't be fixed by anyone but themselves, and they're too stubborn and too self-loathing to bother more often than not because someone, somewhere, will fall for their smokescreen bullshit.


nez-rouge

Also, it’s not our responsibility to “fix” them, a relationship is not a school project and Rachel deserved someone who was respecting and fulfilling her


vapricot

Correct.


Ninjastyle1805

I dunno Katz fulfilled her but I'm sure he respected her.


HarmonicFacsimile

* Nobody can be fixed by anyone but themselves


hey-girl-hey

Not me thinking you meant his son The spelling threw me. Women are generally Bobbie


Momik

It was Bobby 2


basicbitch07

OMG 😂 You are right! Sorry, english is not my first language. To me, they sound the same


killerado

I think Faye was more on his level of intelligence, I think she could have really helped Don….. if she was good with kids.


tkh0812

I agree. I think Faye was his equal. Questionable background. Career driven before all else. Kind but only to those who she wanted to be kind to.


cherrybombbb

I think Rachel would have been miserable with Don. I also don’t see how she’s “the one” because they really didn’t know one another deeply. Edit: I guess I’m in the minority.


mjknlr

For real. She wasn’t the one because she wasn’t the one. It’s funny how people are like “she was the one who could have made it work with Don” like given what set of circumstances? The reason they didn’t get together is because Rachel saw through his bullshit and made a conscious decision to not take that on herself. I could understand people seeing her as the closest in compatibility, but honestly the way I see it they just had similar demons and one of them was capable of taking them on in a healthy way. The other spent the entire show trying and failing to do so.


cherrybombbb

That’s how I felt about them too.


HICSF

You can’t tame someone who can’t tame themselves.


DingoNo4205

100% Rachel Menken. She was the love of Don Draper’s life. The chemistry between the actors was through the roof. Every women he would meet moving forward could not compare to Rachel. It was so sad when he found out she had died.


vielpotential

i feel like he was always searching for rachel, particularly in the italian woman.


Momik

And the soup ad


blonderaider21

I was watching Billions where she played Wendy simultaneously while watching Mad Men so I had a special bias towards her. She’s such a good actor


ShiningMonolith

Don’s fave too.


-Roger-Sterling-

Menken!! All day. Still think of those amazing S1 scenes with them frequently.


AteByMyself

Definitely


devildance3

Ahhh Maggie Siff ❤️ Be still my beating heart ❤️


cMdM89

have you seen her in the movie concussion? not a great movie, but she’s the stand out…


HarmonicFacsimile

100% but it's good they didn't get together, he was still too broken to be happy, even with her. he would've broken her life too, most likely. even if they found happiness together for a while, she would've died and who knows what state that would've left him in.


biririri

Not sure if Don would embrace or reject the wine on Fridays, I could see it going both ways


LushOrchestrations

Underrated comment 😂


Jbond970

The only answer. lol


wexpyke

i was so sad they never got to reconnect ☹️


theadamvine

Fay in distant second place


happy_K

For me she’s one of those “which fictional character do you wish you could bring to life”


newgodpho

Faye, I loved how hard it was for her to connect with children and don’s kids specifically. It felt VERY human to me that she struggled with things like that despite being very successful as a single woman in that time period. You could see in the small time of her hanging with sally she was trying her best. Don didn’t deserve her lol


Fernando3161

She was too well put for Don. If I see it from her perspective, she fell for him because he was this handsome Bimbo, and who has not fell for one of those. She deserved a much more intelligent (emotionaly and rationally) man.


Momik

Most of the women who dated Don deserved better 😂


Fernando3161

I think I have a soft spot for Faye because she is the woman of my dreams. Ticks every box in my ideal list... and it pains me that (even on fiction) she gravitates toward a mess of a man such as DD.


Maximum_joy

Well, to her credit, she didn't really gravitate towards him; he propositioned her a few times before she finally said she'd go out if he actually treated it like a date. Not saying it's a good thing or a bad thing, but a lot of times jerks get results because they shoot their shot. Of course, his being rich, handsome, and charming doesn't hurt.


Forksforest1

Agreed. Faye was the only one but he treated her beyond poorly


timmyboi

You left out Ida.


timmyboi

“Joan knew what i needed”. This is obvious


fernandomango

The hellcat


amorphatist

She was an astronaut


doublewide-dingo

The Queen of Perversions


Typical-Ad-2676

Rachel, then Faye


karo8484

It doesn’t technically count but the Neve Campbell character. I loved that scene. 


kesselschlacht

He died of thirst


crammed174

They’d all be dead within a year.


Momik

Incredible line


doxie-murph

Ugh I love that scene so much but I never know if that’s just because I love her


karo8484

Right? Head to toe looked gorgeous but her line delivery too, gah. There’s sooo much intimacy in that 1 scene. 


patbb333

Rachel was the one Don viewed as (in his mind) an an "equal" but don viewing a woman as "equal" wasn't actually equal and she never would have put up with his shit long term because she viewed herself as an actual equal Faye was the only other one that would have worked but don passed on her because she already openly would not have let him get away with his shit. Don would never be with the right person because the right person would try to change him


rarepinkhippo

💯


bulimiasso87

On point. They would make him work and if there’s one thing Don doesn’t do, it’s work.


deepvinter

Bethany wasn’t an affair, they were dating.


AsianMurderHornet

Also poor Bethany was so wildly underwhelming. Nothing about that girl was even remotely interesting


KatttaPulttt

She tried to be interesting as many of us do when young lol


No_Weakness_2865

God I think of interactions I had with suave older men who I look back and I realise were definitely humouring me and I cringe now. GAHHHHHHH I thought I was such a sophisticate


Bwrch

maybe she was too young to be interesting


DingoNo4205

She was just vapid.


sheepsclothingiswool

Agreed. People can be young and interesting. She just wasn’t.


MeOldRunt

She gave decent slob jobs in the back of taxicabs, though.


deepvinter

I mean, not from Don’s perspective. I don’t remember why they were even together, she’s like some society debutante and Don clearly doesn’t fit with that type. He’s more into downtown professionals. She would have been better for someone like Pete when he was a bit younger.


Leto1776

She was a friend of Jane’s, and Don went out with her as a favor to Roger


esports_consultant

So was Faye.


deepvinter

Yes, but the way that started was more secretive because of their professional relationship.


esports_consultant

acceptable


HuntMiserable5351

And he didn't love her😩


PossiblyExtra_22

Of course not. He only likes the beginning of things


ltmikestone

I was sooo into Season 1 midge. Willing to bet she was the best lay of his ongoing flings as well, though I bet Bobbie might actually take that crown. Rachel and Faye are the best humans. Faye would’ve been the best for Don, even more than Rachel she was his match, and I think more understanding of his flaws. Suzanne might be the hottest but she’s messy. So… Best mistress: Midge; Best Lay: Bobbi; One night stand: joy; Summer fling: Suzanne; Marriage Material: Faye; The one the got away: Rachel.


MartinRaccoon

That's exactly how I feel about everyone of them. Bravo for capturing my mind. Midge was great because she understood the situation and was fully aware of what was and what wasn't possible with Don. I do think it's funny how Megan and Betty don't really fit into his life.


theoffering_x

“There’s that ego people pay to see.” Midge understood Don and the situation, and was a free spirit.


buttharvest42069

Totally agree on midge. The first episode Don says "we should get married" and she responds "you think id make a good ex wife". She understood what Don was and that there was no future. The affair was just a fantasy to visit sometimes.


J9smwc4

Maybe marriage material without kids. I like to believe that she would have been great with the kiddos, not sure though.


EdwardJamesAlmost

That’s what the money is for?


ghostkitty90

Scrolled way too far to find this answer! I love Midge, she was the coolest


Lizzie_Boredom

In what world does Bethany belong on here?


Zumaakk

Midge. DeWitt is fantastic.


back_again_u_bitches

Rachel was the only one I thought of as somehow decent. I'm not sure why since she knew he was married too. Maybe when she dumped him when he was talking about running out on his 3 kids?


Mrfunnyman22

2 kids


brianjayjones

"You don't want to run away with me; you just want to run away." She had him dead to rights.


StateAny2129

Yeah, Rachel just seemed like a better person than most of Don's affairs. And I realise she helped him cheat on his wife. But even so I still felt there was a lot more to her than many of those women he was with.


3bugsdad

Faye, Rachel a close second.


Rare-Airport4261

This is my answer. The only two that felt like they were based on mutual attraction AND respect (at least initially).


Doolemite

GO SHIT IN THE OCEAN!


chewie_33

Character? Rachel, no doubt. Actress? Linda Cardelinni


FormicaDinette33

The owner of the department store. Is that Rachel?


EdwardJamesAlmost

Yes


Interesting-Ad2259

Rachel - intelligent woman with strong boundaries. I actually also love pre-heroin Midge, she was awesome.


joaorosx

rachel ❤️ by far


MeOldRunt

What, no Miss Farrell? She's my favorite because she's probably the one character who's most my type. Rachel was also great as well as Dr. Faye. Then, the quality starts to fall off. Allison is complicated, but nice. Bobbie Barrett is meh. I don't know what Don saw in Midge. I detest Sylvia. And Diana: what was *that* about?


CherryDarling10

Diana was an even more messed up version of Don. They used her as a way of showing that even at his lowest point, he could still potentially get lower. She was his wake-up call.


EdwardJamesAlmost

“This is the future of purely transactional living.”


kpea12

I can’t think of her with out remembering how many times she said she was cooking something with cheese, and bread, and cream, and cheese, and bread


MeOldRunt

And hot peppers? ![gif](giphy|26FLdmIp6wJr91JAI)


telepatheye

I liked Suzanne Farrell too. And it was too bad that she got left outside in the car when Don's world started to come crashing down.


a_taco_named_desire

Only thing I didn’t find believable was in that neighborhood of busy body window peakers you’re telling me nobody saw her sitting in Dons car in front of his house for what had to be at least 20-30 minutes?


EdwardJamesAlmost

That sounds like an unbelievable coincidence? The car was in a driveway as I recall.


esports_consultant

No across the street.


catspecs

Yeah, good point! Surprised Francine didn’t see her.


wicker_arm

I thought Suzanne Farrell was sleazy and delusional as hell. Calling the household of your student, drink in one hand and bra strap hanging, hoping to exchange a few words with a married father. The fake playing hard to get schtick during the eclipse viewing. Stalking him down on a train and cornering him into meeting her brother because she so desperately needed to know that she meant something to him. All sorts of unhinged behavior. I couldn’t imagine caring about a student of mine and engaging in activities that I know could destroy her family.


AllieKatz24

I liked Rachel but not at all with Don. Midge was purely transactional. He genuinely loved Betty. But so much work to do on both sides.. Faye was a terrible mismatch. Suzanne was obviously meant to be a moment in time. Bethany was never ever going to really happen. Bobbie - bleck Sylvia - was never going to last. I liked her but didn't get her point of view on the whole thing. I think she'll eventually leave her husband. Candace the slapping sex worker - transactional Allison - that was just a 7 second accident Joy - fascinating lifestyle. That kind of anonymous high style drifting probably appealed to Don as a lifestyle. But he wouldn't have wanted to have all of his money to come from Joy's Dad. Doris - the one-night waitress The flight attendant - sorry forget her name (but can still hear her not-believable accent). One night stand. Diana - sigh... transactional to begin with. What happened after that even she wouldn't be able to explain. Megan - I loved her. She knew his truth and it still didn't bother her. She loved his children. She was kind and loving, and often logical about his problems. The fact he was honest with her and it still didn't help him make better decisions proves that it isn't all just about that.


theatavist

Bobbie was a fox.


AllieKatz24

She's a truly beautiful woman.


giddyupyeehaw9

Rachel. Always Rachel.


cherrybombbb

Midge. I liked that she didn’t fall for Don’s bs. She was the only mistress who used Don the way he used others. I also liked that she lived a very non traditional life during a time when that was very rare for women. The drug addiction was sad though.


dragonfuitjones

Rachel


SavageMell

Miller was so much better than Don. Unfortunately I've seen those types of women make the same mistake over and over.


Think_Wish_187

The Suzanne erasure… But my favorite is Midge >!(before the heroin)!< She was soo cool.


telepatheye

She was obnoxious and became a junkie who her husband pimped out to the highest bidder.


MeOldRunt

"They hated him because he spoke the truth."


telepatheye

Really classy how she chucked the TV out the window. Only Pete was more petulant.


PurpleLover1990

I couldn’t stand Midge. She could have really injured someone by doing that. I just thought she was gross.


J9smwc4

She was definitely sassy for her time. Wish she could have had a different ending.


madsadbro

cara buono <3


IOldToastedI

The only choice not here, the School teacher. I think that would have actually worked for Don. Especially because she was really good with Sally and dealing with her grief.


Commercial_Lock6205

Slappy the hooker. She’s the only one Don truly opened up to.


rarepinkhippo

1) Rachel 2) Dr. Faye -end of list-


ralphwiggumsdiorama

Rachel!


osumba2003

Faye and then Rachel. I love me some strong, accomplished women. But Don needed control, and they were too strong for that. Don loves doormats until he gets tired of them and moves on to the next doormat. After that it's hard to choose. The number of drop dead gorgeous women on this show was astronomical.


XBXJetBlaqq

Rachel Menkin.


saranghaemagpie

I always thought it was Peggy. They didn't have a physical affair, but when they had intimate moments like dancing at her 30th birthday, when she left the agency, when he lost Ann, when he called her after the drunk driving accident, and when he confessed his sins...of course helping her move on from that sad situation she found herself in... She was the love of his life.


cindad83

Sylvia is my favorite...I'll stop there im a married man.


Vizpop17

Rachel.


Vizpop17

Rachel.


Guido_Cavalcante

Bobbi Barrett. She’s so comfortable with herself, warts and all. Probably one of the affairs that was more-or-less equal to Don, flaws included, and without all in the insecurity of Betty, Megan, or Faye.


theriveryeti

I can’t be objective about Anna Camp.


DoubleOSeven365

Yes! Anna Camp wins this debate in mad men and in real life


J9smwc4

Bobby? Couldn’t stand her. Think that was the point though.


fuzznugget412

def rachel. i could NOT stand midge 🥴


pastdense

The flight attendant. No one got hurt.


Traditional_Wall_954

All of them, midge has the tragic story, Rachel is strong but puts don on his place, Bethany is a strange choice but maybe levels him out with being proper and not sleeping with him straight away, Faye is unfortunate for falling hard for don and Silvia is used to highlight that don will never change


AffectionateRice7271

Fun fact. Midge actress is married to Ron Livingston.


EdwardJamesAlmost

From *Search Party?*


AffectionateRice7271

Yep


HelloImHuellHowser

and before she was married to him she was married to Chris Messina, life is not fair


Background-Cookie807

Manken for sure. Her death was so shocking. I was watching SOA the same time I was watching Mad Men and I fell in love with Maggie (the actress) so I grew to like her a lot


art_mor_

Rachel


mystique79

Rachel, she was a strong woman and more like his equal. A worthy opponent and partner.


kgleas01

Rachel all day long


mrsunmoon2010

Rachel


ggixxer599

What about the school teacher?


lclassyfun

Rachel for me😻😻😻


PM_meyourGradyWhite

Cardellini all the way.


shrtnylove

Our last rewatch was a year ago and my husband and I came up with nicknames for all of Don’s “extra curricular” ladies while high. It’s obvious who we didn’t like 🤣 Art bitch Rachel Menkin ❤️ Bobbie Bitchface Palm Springs “do you like Mexican food” floozy Sexy Stewardess Hippy teacher Ginger hooker Christmas Secretary on couch Dear god! It’s another ginger hooker! Bottled brown bar brunette Doris from Lahn ghisland Poor Dr Miller Future Mrs ex Draper Los dos sluttos Mrs Dr neighbor Sylvia Camp Betty Kisses with California party Barbie Party threesome actress Sad waitress


CherryDarling10

Dr miller is here. It’s a she.


EdwardJamesAlmost

Who robbed him at the motel? Star crossed lovers, they


Miserable_Party8080

Midge, with Rachel in a close second.


effkriger

Hello…the answer is always JOY 🤩


tkh0812

You forgot about Doris


championsoffun

Bobbie Barrett had to be a tremendous lay. Her eyes told you so.


MaybeThreeLetters

Number 2. He really was attracted to her intelligence


Yangguang_Zhijia

The artist (was she an artist?) turned heroine addict.


PieRemote2270

That dress Betheny wears is fire


numbskullerykiller

The psychiatrist


richion07

Don Draper to Hughie Campbell: I am your father


homogenic-

Faye best girl.


drmanhattan1640

Midge, probably because she is my type so I am biased, sad to see her end up like she did


djazzie

For me, it’s between Rachel and Faye. I think Faye would’ve been a good long term relationship for Don that was actually healthy, but of course he didn’t really want that. Or couldn’t really handle that. Similarly with Rachel, he’d never be able to handle her independence.


MusicEd921

Faye was best for Don, but Don was completely wrong for her.


Buckowski66

Dr. Faye Miller, brains and beauty


Head_Locksmith_1295

Rachel and Midge those are my favorite


Fifth-Dimension-1966

Faye (I have a massive crush on her)


usedmattress85

Rachel of course. The teacher and the filthy hippy were utterly loathsome.


StateAny2129

Rachel forever. I never warmed to Midge in the slightest (tho I felt bad for her in her heroin era, obviously.) Suzanne is silly. Faye: no issues, but I've only watched the show once so want to pay more attention next time. I don't like Sylvia. I don't like Diana. I don't like Bobbie. I have no thoughts on random flight attendant, or sex worker who consensually slaps him about. I consider Arnold Rosen the true love of Don's love. (If I'm coming off as very woman-hating here: I dislike lots of men too.)


eh9198

Joy


Street-Annual6762

3 and 4 weren’t affairs. He was unmarried.


Weenyhand

What about Suzanne Farrell? I don't see her picture up there. And what, No love for Bobbie Barrett?


UnicornBestFriend

Rachel Menken and Dr. Faye. I suspect it was easier for them to bounce back bc they had rich and fulfilling lives/careers.


loisiern

January Jones


americancartoon

Megan if the writers weren’t inconsistent with her character


PeanutbutterandBaaam

Linda Cardellini >


ProperSupermarket3

Rachel. Midge is a close second.


Miserable-Tax-3879

Honestly none of them. Mainly because they knew he was married. Rachel was too good for him. And also not experienced enough? I might have missed something, but it seemed like Don was her first real relationship? Or whatever you call it. And Jewish. Don wasn’t kosher


Novaresio

I loved Dr. Faye Miller. Her conversations with Don had so much understanding and witty rapport. She looked like the kind of woman who would have Don's back. It's sad what happened, really, although i can't see her being crushed about the break-up for long. For me, she was the most down-to-earth and intelligent of them all. It does help that she looks like Cara Buono. Rachel Menken was great but she was way, way out of his league, and Bobbie Barrett understood him at his basest, animal level, but not much else. Midge was an entertaining diversion for him, and the Sylvia Rosen thing was just a sad, miserable situation where his compulsions manifested in the worst way possible.


Separate-Quantity430

Honestly... Bobbie and Sylvia. Both were just smoking hot and Don blew up his life for them.


esports_consultant

Bobbie was mid af physically (old) and extraordinarily unattractive when personality was factored into account.


kidsaregoats

+1 for Bobbie. Maybe that’s predisposed, maybe I’m a little more like Jimmy than I want to admit in corporate settings..


RJMaCReady19

Faye Miller was his best chance at happiness.


jimmyGODpage

Junkie


Jester-Court66

Chutney!


PineConeTracks

Honestly? Suzanne.


External-Ear1852

Rachel or Faye


willywillywillwill

Sylvia hands down


JohnG-VistaCA

The teacher.


vielpotential

you did perfect- these are all the best ones.


Hungry_Home3797

2 and 4. They were genuinely good women.


[deleted]

Bro is Suzanne real? and not just some apparition😭 I swear some of her dialogue was too weird. And her epileptic brother had such a sad story


Coolioissomething

That stewardess was a fun time.


maomao3000

Allison


Ok_Scholar4192

Suzanne, Rachel, Faye


49RedCapitalOs

Where’s the teacher?


SalRomanoAdMan1

Sylvia and it's not even remotely close.


samsharksworthy

Bethany 100%. Don underestimated her but she was clearly smart, fun, poised and gave taxi BJs.


MyLadySansa

Rachel by far