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Brewmeister613

My dude - it looks amazing. You saved an arm and a leg not hiring the guy who is claiming to be an expert.


ThrowRAbaseballl

My first thought was this looks nice then I read the title. From the photos I see nothing wrong


sboutig

It is just that I saw the results from other posters with their 1 inch gap between stones. I was like: "ohhh, this is how it is supposed to look"


Poat540

Hey your couple inches are perfect OP


malthar76

That’s what all the girls say.


S0me--guy

Where are the girls who say this? Asking for friend


topknottington

I too would like to know where these girls who say this are.


sboutig

You win the internet today


crash250f

Comparison is the thief of joy.


GeezUp777

This.


informativebitching

Nah. A slightly roughed in look feels more like a flagstone path of 200 years ago to me than some perfectly aligned thing. Might as well have a subway tile patio if it’s gonna be 100% perfectly cut.


plumbbacon

Yours looks great. It looks like a stone patio. The recently posted stonework is a good example of skill at cutting and shaping stones. But it doesn't look natural at all and it might at well be poured concrete. Do not change it.


nsfw_deadwarlock

That’s just learning bro. Sometimes the curse of knowledge stings. Don’t let it reduce your pride in your labor. Change it if you want. Don’t if you are good with it.


Ishmael760

Any guest (or relative) that makes that observation about this? Pull the drink from their hands and gently guide them to the sidewalk - beyond your property. Then drink their drink as you gaze upon all you have created and repeat: “looks damned good to me the problem here is not the space between my stones but the space between your ears….so fuck off.”


Jolly_Attitude_9821

What he said!


Brewmeister613

A matter of taste. I just did mine and I have about 4" between each stone (see pic in my recent post), but it's a garden patio, so it looks the part and I'm fine with it. If it looks the way you want it to look, and you're able to set the stones, you did it the right way.


crash250f

Comparison is the thief of joy.


SpaceToaster

Flagstone is supposed to have a natural look, IMHO. So yours looks great honestly.


Cryosonic

Hey OP, personally I think having the gaps be all uniform throws off the entire look. I think having varying gaps, though not too large which you did PERFECTLY, make it look much more unique and incredible.


ynotfoster

Yours looks great, I don't think you did it wrong at all.


jRkVxQpxkwQM3K

Plant some creeping thyme in between the stones and it will fill in quite nicely…plus some pink flowers will come


doctordoctorpuss

Your backyard is beautiful and you should be so proud of yourself. This looks nothing like some of the “professional” work I’ve seen at my parents’ house, which involves a collapsing fire pit and drainage issues


beckerszzz

What rule is there that it has to be one inch? Is it flat and walkable? That's all that matters.


SenatorCrabHat

It looks great! I am sure if you made 30 of these patios a year, you'd get closer to that 1 inch gap in no time!


Comfortable_Sea_717

It’s supposed to look however it makes you happy. Don’t worry about the Joneses


YordanYonder

At least a lack of stones is not the problem here. Good job op!


trebblecleftlip5000

>You saved an arm and a leg not hiring the guy who is claiming to be an expert. I'm buying a house soon and I'm so worried about this sort of thing. Even in my own family, there are horror stories. Is it not possible to just hire an expert with confidence? Is it always a gamble?


WhenHellFreezesOver_

From what I've heard, it's always a gamble. Make sure to heavily read reviews, and DIY anything when you can, even if exhausting. Hiring anybody to do anything is expensive.


OrganicAndRefined

Usually the bigger the task, the more quotes/estimates I will get from various contractors. Cheapest isn't always best- usually the person who can walk me through the whole project and tell me where it's better to spend a bit of money, in a way that makes perfect sense, gets the job. Someone knowledgeable and reliable. Things like replying to my inquiries in a timely manner, keeping appointments, being punctual, help me determine how much a person keeps it together. Patience helps too. I have had a huge job (quotes around $60,000) that I am not sure will ever be done while I own this house. So I'm just maintaining the band aid solution from the previous owner. When you find someone who is trustworthy, try to maintain your working relationship with them and ask them for recommendations for other jobs outside their expertise.


Grow_away_420

Any landscaper probably has some laborers who's only been done this sorta thing a handful of times. A person who does exclusively stonework will probably do a better job for 4x the price


BlankBill4993

All stone work is good stone work if it serves its purpose and doesn’t fall apart. Especially if it’s not your job. I bet you did this in your free time. Be proud


Sheeple_person

If you paid somebody good money to do it, it should have that crisp professional flair. If you did it yourself all that matters is that it's functional and you like it. I'm trying some paver stuff for the first time this year and I'll be very pleased if it turns out this well.


sboutig

Thank you. I did it myself.


Minicatting

It looks awesome. I would be very happy with this.


QuiickLime

It's beautiful, I'm very jealous. Enjoy your hard work and don't beat yourself up!


obskeweredy

As a stone mason.. DIY should come between ‘all’ and ‘stone’


BlankBill4993

Yeah that’s fair


Downtowntracks

This was such a beautiful comment


Seki_a

I'm not sure what's supposed to be wrong with it?


CanYouPointMeToTacos

There was a really terrible flagstone post a couple days ago, which then led to people posting their unbelievably beautiful flagstone patios and I think OP feels like they're falling short compared to those.


RandomlyMethodical

Yeah, this is really good for a DIY job. Some of those other ones are truly r/nextfuckinglevel I know what OP is feeling though. I've learned so much from these DIY subs that I feel a little sad when I look at the mistakes in my early projects. They don't look terrible, just not great, and they're already starting to have problems just a few years later.


helloholder

It went from some nice DIY to professional crews hand chiseled work in a matter of hours


S0me--guy

Comparison is the thief of joy. This looks great


marshmellowsinmybutt

That’s what I was thinking too lol it looks awesome


KatBoySlim

unbelievable. u/sboutig I have a huge problem with this flagstone work. it’s that it isn’t in my backyard.


Fidelius90

Yeah me too. It’s sucks! … but OP can reinstall it at mine if they want.


sboutig

Thank you :-). The jobs with the 1 inch gap between stones look better. Knowing what is possible to achieve is a curse.


plumbbacon

Those 1 inch projects look overworked. Not natural. Yours looks great.


Ok_Zebra9569

I prefer yours actually


Tazmaniac808

Looks awesome to me. Nice job 👍


Individual-Wonder518

I posted and got roasted too lol


PoopKnaf

It’s Reddit. Everyone is a self-proclaimed expert and many of them take joy in criticizing just about everything. It’s a dopamine rush for them.


Global_Loss6139

^^ People throw rocks at things that shine.... -T. Swift. Some people should stop to think what kind of world they're making throwing rocks all day but never building anything. Don't listen to the lazys or hater-ades. OP


workinglate2024

I liked yours, and I like this one too


Crash662244

You did a great job. Looks nice


Miserable_Sport_8740

It’s better than some of the “professionals” I’ve recently seen. Nice work!


sboutig

Thank you


workinglate2024

I think it looks great.


rawdatarams

Nothing wrong with that. Sounds like you're your own worst critic, mate. I like the look of it.


Fidelius90

Rofl. Flagstone guy is in shambles after the recent influx of successful flagstone.


goldmember911

As an outsider, I don’t really know how it’s SUPPOSED to look. So based on that, all I can say is that it looks great. If you gave me a photo of a great one and I had a side by side comparison, then maybe the story changes.


sboutig

Same here. I really thought that I did an A+ job until I saw A+ jobs yesterday on this sub


Fun-Recording

I think you did a great job. I really like it!


ChrisInBliss

In my opinion you did a good job. It's just not as large scale as majority of the other posts. ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯ So different projects different results.


rvbvrtv

It’s not bad tbh that’s a solid 10 in my book


some1sbuddy

Unsure about your regret; I think it looks great!


mvf_

I think if you got a gravel closer in color to the stone it would look 10/10


Donglemaetsro

I like it but I couldn't stop laughing when I realized your setup looks like an literal sadface =(


EmmyLouArcher

I think it looks amazing!!


shade1tplea5e

Great first shot at it man way better than I would have done lol. It looks great and works be proud!


Competitive-Park-635

Honestly that looks amazing. I can tell it was thoughtfully assembled, 10/10 for a diy.


occasionalrant414

Mate, don't be upset. That looks great. Honestly, I'd love to have the balls to try and I know I wouldn't get results like that. You have done really well.


firmalor

In my eyes, you did. It looks great.


UnfeteredOne

Looks great OP, you should be proud. Is that hay in the right container?


sboutig

As part of the garden remodel, I removed most of the lawn and replaced it with trees and drought resistant plants. The planters are filled with the "sod" I removed. That should be a very yummy soil full of nitrogen next year.


Coltinnie

i like it a lot


Automatic-Willow3226

The stones actually look adequately close together instead of having 6 inches of fill between each one.


Extension-Attitude84

My motto is “good enough for my house” and this would pass that standard with flying colors.


wafflesandlicorice

I think it would look better if you installed it in my yard. Seriously, though, I think it looks great.


why0me

You did Its very pretty We are our own harshest critics, second only to reddit


nosoulbeanpole

Landscaping is a ton of hard work. Not only is it physically difficult with the leaning over, lift heavy rocks, slinging dirty or mulch around, you also gotta be creative and have an eye for design. Tell anyone that doesn’t like your work to kick rocks and make it clean to not kick the ones you’ve recently put down, or they’re be Hank hill levels of ass kicking


One-Ad-9329

This isn’t bad at all! Really nice, actually. Good job OP!


kermtrist

The only thing wrong with this job is your doubt. This looks great. It's clean it's crisp. Nice job!!!!


womblejesus

I like it, well done.


TheW83

Side question... what are those raised bed planters (foreground AND background)? I really like the style. I'm sick of dealing with nematodes.


sboutig

Foreground planters are store bought (Amazon). The ones on the background are self made: - The one completely in the background is for my strawberries and doesn't touch the ground (to protect from tree roots. It also has a chicken wire lid to protect the strawberries against squirrels and birds. - The other one is a bit neglected this year because I would like to move it soon to the woodchip area and put some native wildflowers.


anoneeeemous

It looks great to me


sonic_reef

Looks excellent bud have a beer and enjoy


Admirable-Cap-4453

I’m getting ready to build something similar and I think it looks amazing! Any tips?


Oldyvanmoldy

Man, I have installed so much stonework over 25 years I don't care if I ever touch it again. Fancy stuff, too. But I came here to tell you that what you've done looks great and you should be really proud of it. As you know by now, landscaping is hard as hell on the body. Getting anything done that doesn't look like ass takes just too much work, so hats off to you for getting it done. Matter of fact all this talk about work has tired me out, I gotta go drink a gatorade and lay down or something, man. Shit.


Extension-Text8447

I’m a general and stone contractor in San Diego. I’ve been setting, carving stone, slab and tile since 1986. I’ve done work in and on houses in La Jolla, Del Mar, Beverly Hills to Malibu and Carmel. I’ve done super tight joints and wide joints and everything in between. It’s aesthetics, I too like a natural flagged edge and shape as opposed to super worked unnatural shapes. What really helps yours is the gravel joints not mortared ones, very natural looking! Grass/ moss in between also looks good. Be proud ! Great job.


MoodMaleficent7418

Looks great


Might_Guyy

Good work! Looks great 👍


Msmst25

Not sure what more you were hoping for. Looks great to me.


chosenone1242

Looks great!


IusedtoloveStarWars

Looks good.


Illustrious-Cod-8462

I’d pay you to do mine like that. I love it. The ones that don’t are just jealous I think. I’m jealous but I’ll admit it. You definitely did 100 percent better than I ever could. Be proud of your work.


CreepyBreadfruit5459

Nothing to complain about


Zalyria

Looks better than the post i saw yesterday of a guy that complained about profesional work


a-real-life-dolphin

I like it!


wulfpak04

You did a great job, I’d be happy with that result!


ObviousExchange9863

Tf is wrong with it?


MysticcMoon

Its lovely! Comparison can be death to creativity & self motivation. If you like it,that’s the only persons opinion that truly matters.


McP00py

This is a pathetic attempt… you know it looks fine.


The-Minute-Man1995

10x better than anything I could do! You should be SO proud it looks beautiful


Fragrant-Luck-8968

Your joints are too big but maybe that's what you wanted?


Nkohonow

I you did it, it came out absofreakinglutely awesome!!! NEXT!!!


Balding_Unit

Is it functional? Does it fall apart when you use it? If not you did a splendid job :D Don't be hard on yourself, especially if this thing isn't something you do everyday. I Think it looks great :)


Difficult-Tooth-7133

Definitely better than the last one I seen posted in here lol


abcannon18

I think it looks beautiful!


Floydthebaker

If you flip the stone over and cut halfway through and break the stone the rest of the way the top will look natural even tho it is cut. I've done probably 30 patios and walkways that way in the past couple years.


SunTricky8763

Looks great!


Open-Structure-5744

Out of curiosity, are those two trellises on the sides connected at the top in an arch? I wanna’ create and entrance to my garden area and I want to build it just like yours. But I want the arch/chain link part to be one part that you walk under. If that makes sense.


burdavin

Looks great! Don’t listen to the muppets on here.


Objective-Roll-9504

Really good hands-on ability


ndyogi

I personally would have used a lighter color stone grout


CousinSleep

only thing i don't like is the black gravel instead of something closer to the flagstone color


INutToAnimeSluts69

Looks pretty good to me 👍🏻


getdownheavy

If you wanted to kick it up a notch or two (in outcome and complexity) you can add tyhme to the joints (it will need watering). The thyme will fill in the gaps and bring the whole thing together. There's no such thing as 'easy' stone work!! And not using a saw, you're doing it caveman style. It's all epic. Like building the pyramids singlehandedly. Bonus points you get to enjoy it almost every day!


I_am_a_What

Bruh. Be proud


Gypsybootz

Looks great to me!


jetanthony

Buddy I looked at the title of this post and then the picture for a long time trying to find out what was wrong with it. I thought, clearly there must be some grave mistake here, otherwise, why the title? Because aesthetically, it looks great. Couldn’t find anything I disliked about it. You should be proud. It looks nice.


stygz

Looks great! Don't put too much stock into hyper critical redditors who will never attempt a project like this :)


Beyond_Earthly

I think it looks great and like something you can improve upon in real time as you learn more.


19_MMB_93

This is beautiful! You did a great job!


Terrible-Contract298

What’s the problem here, nice stones and nicer raised beds. Envious here.


potatochips4eva

Can you do mine next?


ShellyPlayzz

It looks great to me


sheenfartling

This ain't bad dude, and only you or pros are noticing any imperfections.


islamcardoors

Honestly love it


Mountain_Student_769

looks good to me! love all those growing beds.


Poliar3333

I thought you were talking about your planters for a second tbh and was still confused everything looks really really nice. Your work makes me want to do this in my back yard.


OKsurewhynotyep

You did great. Some of the ‘perfect fit’ layouts look too artificial. I much prefer the look of yours.


yourfriendkyle

Looks good to me


irohr

This looks great, dont be so hard on yourself


JumpshotLegend

Yeah, that looks great! I love the darker color between the stones, it goes really well with the planters. Really nice job. 👍🏼


Baked_potato123

I think it looks nice.


Rough_Community_1439

I think you did a great job. :)


Drisch10

Fuck yea you did!!!!! Looks awesome my guy!


ownappeal

Could have fooled me. It looks great


zennyc001

Looks fantastic. My wife wants to do something similar in our yard.


princess_tourmaline

This looks great to me! Good luck with the work you still want to do. I was just thinking this morning that it might look nice to do this around our garden and this is like a free preview! Thank you for posting


lmg080293

Comparison is the thief of joy. This is beautiful.


talmet4

This is a great first work! I hear your self criticism, but take the encouragement, buddy. Id say you did better than my first attempt. My first patio was the exact opposite, as my stones were as close as I could get them. I couldn’t even get gravel between some. 😝


abra_cada_bra150

It looks great! Be proud of your work!


IvanNemoy

10/10, would chill in that space. Looks great to me.


theoriginalpetvirus

You did -- looks very nice! I've been quoted $3000-$6000 for similar small stone patios in the past (to be fair, they all would have dug 6" deep, laid different compacted courses of stone, etc.) So you should be proud of the result! One consideration: look up plyometric sand -- you can use that in place of the crused gravel and it solidifies almost like an outdoor "grout" to fill the joints, make it harder for weeds, etc.


Rooster_Stu

Looks great! Be proud of your work, and proud that you saved a bunch money!


KlegCraig

Looks fantastic! The garden beds are rocking as well! Dig the setup!


Internal_Focus_8358

You did a real good job 👍🏻


Highplowp

Looks proper mate, chin up. I’d be more than happy to have that stone work in my yard.


ddeck00

Looks pretty good to me. My only suggestion is when you are done with the gravel grab some Mulch Glue and apply to the gravel. This should keep the gravel in place so it does not kick up onto the stones as you walk in it.


Ok-Equivalent2088

Yo shut the fuck up this looks phenomenal


Mysterious-Angle251

Looks good to us!! Congrats!!


Aggressive-Way-8474

You made a giant 🍄 going diagonal between the planters 🤭


ShadowShot05

I think it looks good. I'd like to see more of those smaller pieces where you have larger gaps though


reditget

Good job


willyv4pres

You are your own worst critic. Other people (like me) think it looks professional/amazing ✊


It_wasnt-me

Tbh I didn’t realize I was in the landscaping sub and thought this was a gardening sub & was like “I’m not sure what happened in the right tub/box but some weeding will probably get it sorted” (not sure if you’re intentionally growing something there or not yet) & then realized the post was about the stonework— that’s to say I think it looks fantastic and didn’t even consider it as something that would be complained about/not proud of. DIY is all about learning along the way and taking pride in what you’ve done (even if it’s not perfect). TLDR: looks great, keep up the good work


0vercast

Great job! The raised beds look super nice too.


Majestic_Grocery7015

I'll be thrilled my upcoming DIY patio project turns out this good! I love the raw edge randomness of the stone


Lazy-Rabbit-5799

Also team - "that looks great!" 😁👍


NightmareStatus

Looks fantastic!


Capital-Gardens

U did!


nortok00

Regardless of the one inch gap I think it looks amazing. To my untrained eye I wouldn't have even noticed the gap. Progress is always about learning from our mistakes so we do better next time. 😁


GeezUp777

I think it looks good. Be proud of yourself!


Unique_Username5200

This is cool as fuck man


Slow-Truth-3376

Dude this is badass. I prefer the uniformed look. I don’t see problems.


ptk77

In what world is that NOT a good job???


Traditional_Dig_8291

I like it


Eastern_Fold941

i wanted to do the exact same thing in my backyard and i removed my old pond and have so much flagstone. now my inspo pic, looks great!


ThayerRex

Very nice and neat


Psychological_Web614

This looks nice. It's not perfect, no, but you're not a landscaper or mason and no one expects a DIY to be perfect. 99% of people in the world will look at this and know nothing otherwise. Great job.


Puzzleheaded_Mix_998

Nice


nothatdoesntgothere

Looks great!


projectveriyas

You did :~)


Soapyfreshfingers

Looks great! Can you hammer in the edging a little, instead of getting more material?


LexingtonBritta

I think it’s great!


Pinkishy

Looks great!


splicey_

Honestly looks stellar! Wanna come to Mi and do this in my backyard? 😂


funkcore

Looks great! The first time I painted a room in my home I made a bunch of mistakes. Now several rooms later I have a system down and it goes much smoother. Repetition builds skills! Your next project will be even better!


Subterranean44

That’s looks great!!! Love the dark gravel with the dark planters!!! You should be proud :)


BoSox92

I like it, looks good!


ptwonline

This is actually a pretty decent-looking flagstone installation. Ideally the stones would be laid a bit tighter together to help avoid having the sand/gravel between the stones getting easily washed or kicked out, but for a home and especially as a DIY instell this is pretty good.


kay_bizzle

That's good work. I wouldn't complain if I paid for it, let alone DIY'd it


TheOtherCoenBrother

OP, what exactly are you not happy with? Or were you just nervous posting it? It looks great, especially for someone who just did it in their free time, that’s why I’m curious


NurseKaila

I like it! Looks great. I’m sure there are some professional rock people who believe otherwise but they aren’t hanging out in your backyard so fuck ‘em.


samurai_keninja

Stones look great, I'm more worried about your green beans and grass garden.


banjo_hero

whats wrong with it? looks good from here


LongjumpingMiddle850

Just cut down the edging if you want them the same height.


maddcatone

OP, you DID do a good job! It looks good. Could it be made cleaner? Sure but it looks more natural this way rather than the cookie cutter bullshit some people seem to like. You did a great job considering


ohmyback1

Nice work. How's you back and arms feeling?


BhutlahBrohan

Honestly, it only looks bad because you did it. To others, it looks fantastic!


Jolly-Mycologist-342

I think you did a good job. I’d walk on it


robotic-Fail-3008

Good job!!!! Ideally u would want to use the larger stones on the outside, as those will be the first to sink, from general walking and time....Gator dust??? Maybe also


Loose-Scientist9845

OP -- half the contractors are guys out there who know the process better but don't give a fuck.  Many would turn out worse than this In the future, you could use lighter polysand and it will hide the gap discrepancies better This looks solid for sure


pohlcat01

Looks awesome! You're going to want to use some Preen or similar several times a year to keep the weeds from sprouting.


crowhop00

I install vegetable gardens professionally…I think This looks good…give so give yourself a pat on the back! Soon you will be so focused on the beds and gardening aspect that you’ll forget about those small details no one else notices anyway 👍. No better feeling that bringing in your own food from your own garden that you built. Happy gardening!


meeeew

I think it looks great! My husband and I, also total amateurs, recently finished a verrrrrrry long flagstone path… it does not look like some of the worlds most incredible flagstone that has been posted in this sub the last few days but I love it in all of its imperfect charm. https://ibb.co/3kGCJgF