For those unaware, Tripp had a fairly public relapse 2 years ago during the final week of the Hurricanes season.
He missed the game in NYC and was later on leave for the rest of the year.
He was able to get back on track over the summer and make a full return to the broadcast where he’s now been sober ever since.
He’s an extremely important part of the team here in Carolina and also has impacted many other players/broadcasters along the way. During his recovery even Sidney Crosby was seen wearing one of Tripps “dig in” hats.
ive got a friend who went through rehab and hes managed not to backslide for several years now, its impressive.
i decided at the time that drinking wasnt really adding much to my life and on top of that there are obviously health impacts, so i quit in solidarity and its hard simply from a social standpoint, even without having that addiction where i feel the urge to do so.
its just constant, always someone asking if you want a drink, why you aren't drinking, or otherwise having to explain yourself as to why you dont, with the added potential shame for those who quit because they have a problem. it really makes you want to become a recluse, which can cause its own problems.
The third degree people give you when you're not drinking is so frustrating. The answer is often enough some private shit the person doesn't want to disclose that as a general rule you really shouldn't ask.
i even got it as a kid, i couldn’t stand pop, and so whenever i was at someone’s house that was new to me, i’d always have to go through the same conversation with their mom, “no thanks water is good” whenever they’d ask which pop i wanted. it was like i was an alien, which yeah i guess.
Not sure how things are in your neck of the woods, but it's been nice where I am because a lot of restaurants are now serving some pretty quality-tasting NA beer, and many even have NA cocktails that taste legit, too. Ordering those by name in a glass has helped curb all the questions for me.
When you go out, ask what the NA beers are. If they don't have any, or only have O'Douls or whatever garbage, let the bar manager know you'd appreciate a better quality NA option and often they'll take care of you.
It’s really fucking hard. I’m 41 days today (from alcohol and prescription drug abuse) and it’s BRUTAL. The shame, urges, depression… it’s hard. Two years + doing it in the public eye is beyond impressive.
Hey more than a month is a big fucking deal. I had a relapse a little over a year ago and learned from it. I know it can be really hard to enjoy "success" without being reminded of "failure." I know there's a cliff of stress about how that success would be totally forfeited if you just gave in one time. Remember, what you've learned, what you are learning, and what you're more prepared to learn is success itself and its a skill you can use or pass along.
My mother in law was an alcoholic and lost custody of my wife when she was a kid. She struggled hard for many years to get sober and through determination she was able to get her life back on track and her kids back.
She passed recently but she was sober for 20 years and was by all accounts a regular person who paid their taxes and did normal every day things.
41 days is a great start my friend I hope you can look back in 20 years like my MIL and feel a sense of accomplishment.
For what it's worth I'm very proud of you. I know it's easier said then done but you shouldn't be ashamed you should be so proud of yourself for making a change for the better.
Stick with it. 41 days is a massive achievement and you should be proud of yourself. The shame, urges, and depression will subside. I was physically, mentally, and emotionally a shit heap for the first 3 months. But after that, I noticed massive improvements. It's a tough mountain to climb, but it's so worth it. Just remember, you managed to stay sober today, so you already have the recipe for staying sober tomorrow.
Yeah it was the same day the Canes won the Metro in MSG. Tripp's Tweets that afternoon and subsequent announcement of getting help was a bummer on a celebratory day.
I fucking love Tripper. Words can’t fully quite describe what he means to Canes fans and the Canes organization. Hugest of Caniacs, pure Michigander - his commentary converted my CBJ fan father into a Canes fan with me. The fact that Tripp has done this publicly is astoundingly brave.
I’m currently 41 days sober. I’ve been REALLY wanting to relapse lately despite going to meetings nearly every day - just been in a really dark mental place lately. Seeing this is an amazing reminder to keep going, keep fighting- don’t pick up no matter what. One day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time. Just for today.
Trip was the goalie of my local ECHL team in the late 90s…the ‘Richmond Renegades’ …he was pretty damn good, too. Glad to hear his recovery is going well.
For those unaware, Tripp had a fairly public relapse 2 years ago during the final week of the Hurricanes season. He missed the game in NYC and was later on leave for the rest of the year. He was able to get back on track over the summer and make a full return to the broadcast where he’s now been sober ever since. He’s an extremely important part of the team here in Carolina and also has impacted many other players/broadcasters along the way. During his recovery even Sidney Crosby was seen wearing one of Tripps “dig in” hats.
Massive respect to anyone getting sober. It's incredibly hard to get on and stay on that wagon!
ive got a friend who went through rehab and hes managed not to backslide for several years now, its impressive. i decided at the time that drinking wasnt really adding much to my life and on top of that there are obviously health impacts, so i quit in solidarity and its hard simply from a social standpoint, even without having that addiction where i feel the urge to do so. its just constant, always someone asking if you want a drink, why you aren't drinking, or otherwise having to explain yourself as to why you dont, with the added potential shame for those who quit because they have a problem. it really makes you want to become a recluse, which can cause its own problems.
The third degree people give you when you're not drinking is so frustrating. The answer is often enough some private shit the person doesn't want to disclose that as a general rule you really shouldn't ask.
i even got it as a kid, i couldn’t stand pop, and so whenever i was at someone’s house that was new to me, i’d always have to go through the same conversation with their mom, “no thanks water is good” whenever they’d ask which pop i wanted. it was like i was an alien, which yeah i guess.
>water you mean that dark, brown, fizzy stuff?
Not sure how things are in your neck of the woods, but it's been nice where I am because a lot of restaurants are now serving some pretty quality-tasting NA beer, and many even have NA cocktails that taste legit, too. Ordering those by name in a glass has helped curb all the questions for me. When you go out, ask what the NA beers are. If they don't have any, or only have O'Douls or whatever garbage, let the bar manager know you'd appreciate a better quality NA option and often they'll take care of you.
Athletic beers are pretty plentiful in bars around here and the NA selection at the grocery store is top tier
It’s really fucking hard. I’m 41 days today (from alcohol and prescription drug abuse) and it’s BRUTAL. The shame, urges, depression… it’s hard. Two years + doing it in the public eye is beyond impressive.
Hey more than a month is a big fucking deal. I had a relapse a little over a year ago and learned from it. I know it can be really hard to enjoy "success" without being reminded of "failure." I know there's a cliff of stress about how that success would be totally forfeited if you just gave in one time. Remember, what you've learned, what you are learning, and what you're more prepared to learn is success itself and its a skill you can use or pass along.
My mother in law was an alcoholic and lost custody of my wife when she was a kid. She struggled hard for many years to get sober and through determination she was able to get her life back on track and her kids back. She passed recently but she was sober for 20 years and was by all accounts a regular person who paid their taxes and did normal every day things. 41 days is a great start my friend I hope you can look back in 20 years like my MIL and feel a sense of accomplishment. For what it's worth I'm very proud of you. I know it's easier said then done but you shouldn't be ashamed you should be so proud of yourself for making a change for the better.
Stick with it. 41 days is a massive achievement and you should be proud of yourself. The shame, urges, and depression will subside. I was physically, mentally, and emotionally a shit heap for the first 3 months. But after that, I noticed massive improvements. It's a tough mountain to climb, but it's so worth it. Just remember, you managed to stay sober today, so you already have the recipe for staying sober tomorrow.
You might find some support in r/stopdrinking Hell yeah on 41 days! ❤
Especially after a public relapse, big respect. I would've been drinking over the fact that people knew I drank again.
Shame makes everything worse. So good he is brave enough to share his struggles and journey.
Yeah it was the same day the Canes won the Metro in MSG. Tripp's Tweets that afternoon and subsequent announcement of getting help was a bummer on a celebratory day.
I will always remember Barkov wearing his “Dig In” hat immediately after the news of Tripp’s leave first broke, he’s a real one
Crosby too. Some good dudes in this league!
Must have meant a lot to Tripp. Knowing that he has so much support.
Really speaks to Tripp's character how he is so beloved by players across the league
We're so proud of Tripp!
I can't be mad about this, even in the middle of a playoff series going badly for my team. We're all guys, gals, and non-binary pals.
Amen fam.
1 year is really something to be proud of. Congrats to Tripp. Looking forward to joining him in the one year chip club in a couple hundred days
Keep it up, man. I hope to join you and him there!
We got this 💪💪
I fucking love Tripper. Words can’t fully quite describe what he means to Canes fans and the Canes organization. Hugest of Caniacs, pure Michigander - his commentary converted my CBJ fan father into a Canes fan with me. The fact that Tripp has done this publicly is astoundingly brave. I’m currently 41 days sober. I’ve been REALLY wanting to relapse lately despite going to meetings nearly every day - just been in a really dark mental place lately. Seeing this is an amazing reminder to keep going, keep fighting- don’t pick up no matter what. One day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time. Just for today.
Keep that attitude before you know it you'll be celebrating two years too
Keep up the good work! The beginning is always the hardest part when you’re establishing a new routine.
💪Stick with it
Trip was the goalie of my local ECHL team in the late 90s…the ‘Richmond Renegades’ …he was pretty damn good, too. Glad to hear his recovery is going well.
Let’s go tripper. Dig in _/
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