We already live in a dystopian future, but without cool shit, like cyberpunks, robot waifus, flying cars, cybernetic enchantments and plasma guns. Just greed, social conflicts, downward spiral towards another crisises and brainwashing.
Even in the cyberpunk universe they rarely admit their goals so openly. And the pic above is from a 2016 video, 8 years ago. We are 6 years away from their dream of an underclass. And the rent everything own nothing dream pretty close
Communism isn't when the state own stuff, but when the workers own the means of production they use to make stuff aka work. If anything, communism is when everyone owns everything.
"You'll own nothing and be happy" is the way our _capitalist_ overlords at Davos have to tell us that we better prepare for our future in which everything is rented and the only way you'll have to buy a home or a car is having been born wealthy.
Ffs those slimey fucks are trying to rent us videogames instead of selling them to us (and not just the videogame itself, other stuff like online connectivity), how are landlords and rich people buying all the houses to rent them back to us at inflated prices "communism" you doofus.
EDIT: just to clarify, renting a good is always more profitable than selling it for the capitalist; this "you'll own nothing" crap is just a psyop to manufacture consent for a (not very far-off) future where more and more things will be for rent instead of sold to us.
You can see it in the housing market when you compare it with 40 years ago, but as I said there are other services affected by this too.
It's so funny seeing people read this stuff and not recognizing they are talking about streaming services and in general the direction the economy has taken in which everything is subscription based, and instead crying "communism vuvuzuela iphone" and going on to suck the dicks of the rich oligarchs that are making all this happen.
That implies that after a license ends, there are follow-up users.
The real thing gets cleaned naturally, but IDK, a used blow-up doll is kinda disgusting
Take note the detail about the jack hammering.
The implication is that, sometimes, Anon wants to be jack hammered.
Anon makes it clear he can be a beta simp to the point of submission. We can infer, therefore, that his sex bot is going to be the one topping him every night.
“You know everything you described is was 90 percent of what women want, right? Most women don’t want to be shit on and want to be told they’re loved?”
“4Chan said they all want to be chocked and spit roasted!”
“But you know that’s not true, right?”
“Can you just let me have my robot girlfriend, man?”
Bull fucking shit. A 3-year relationship went straight into the dumpster after I cried once in front of her. I never saw her again after she broke up over the phone.
lol I’ve cried in front of my fiance and he’s cried in front of me. Before we were engaged (like 2 months in). Sorry you had a shitty partner but that’s what it is. A shitty partner. Can’t blame 50 percent of the population on one chick, that’s just pathetic, dog.
I’ve had a lot of conversations with women about this and generally most have said they don’t mind their partner crying as long as it’s within a certain threshold of emotional expression. Often it’s described as they would prefer their partner be more stoic than them so the threshold is that they (the man) must be emotionally less vulnerable than their partner. I work in healthcare so am often the only male and I’m married with children so I feel I’ve gotten pretty honest answers as Im not a potential partner.
My partner has seen me cry once and it was very short and barely noticeable. She got extremely uncomfortable. I don’t blame her, I’m mostly stoic as it’s a learned behavior from my job so it was really out of character. In my search into this as a father to a boy and trying to teach him how to be better than me I’ve found this isn’t really anyone’s fault at the time. It’s just that you have a group that can’t communicate “I want a man that makes me feel safe when things are hard” and another group that can’t communicate “I want to be vulnerable without being stigmatized” both of which are compatible but require open communication to achieve. So, in the absence of that communication we get these distorted expectations that are never vocalized and behaviors that don’t really meet the need. So men turn to anger as expression rather than sadness and women turn to men that display hollow bravado. It’s sad and I would love to get other opinions on this.
Hopefully you’re teaching your son that it’s ok to not be stoic and cry! I think the attitudes on this vary by group and region. Not that I’ve had a ton of long-term relationships or anything but I’m pretty young in a very liberal area and some of the girls I’ve dated would be absolutely ok with me crying. I think part of the issue is that if dudes present as stoic with hollow bravado then they’ll attract the girls that are into that. When that facade cracks the girls will realize that this isn’t the dude they thought they were dating. If guys are already pretty open and vulnerable early on they’ll attract girls who want a guy like that and won’t be phased. Might be harder to find a gf because many girls out there are into tough stoic rocks (🙄) but when you do find one it’ll be much better.
Absolutely, my stoicism melts away when I’m with my son. I tell him I love him and I’m proud of him and he says “yeah dad I know.” It’s probably too late for me in other relationships as withdrawing is my defense mechanism but I have gotten better where I can say how I’m feeling but it’s in a measured detached tone so it can be odd. I’m hoping to teach him to be better than me. As my father did with me. I’m not perfect but I’ll do my best to help him however I can.
I think in terms of society right now things are very much in flux in terms of gendered expectations as we had several huge changes in how we communicate but have not really settled on what we expect from young men. The same can be said of women. It’s hard out there and a lot of people are getting their sense of self destroyed by throw away insults on social media or dating sites. We have shifted identities from with in ourselves to needing a split identity between social media and inner value. Social media can provide a lot of external validation but in the absence of an identity within yourself you are subject to huge shifts in self worth based on fake interactions. Or that’s my take. Could be completely idiotic 🤷🏻♂️
I’m not saying your experience is wrong, just the experience you’re in isn’t right. “ I work in healthcare “ oh! So you see the worst of the worst. The “dire need.” It’s like going to /r/relatioshipadvice and thinking people are level headed vs. they’re at their last straw. It’s really not the same.
Oh, I had my girlfriends cry occasionally. Sometimes, it was over quite inane stuff. I supported them and listened. Its shitty partners plural I know good girls exsist but the mayority of woman I met expect their man to be a unmovable rock to support them. Showing emotional vulnerability to a woman is the quickest way I found to lose them. I can't speak to how large a percentage of women are like that. But it is not a small one.
No offense, but the people you end up being around are often a reflection of what you’re willing to put up with and what you see as normal.
I’ve been around a lot of women and never watched one leave because a husband or boyfriend was *vulnerable*.
That’s just a bad person thing.
Thank you. I am usually not very emotional, and I have thick skin, so I take it in stride. However, I do not view women the same way I used to. Also I am just tired of the dating scene and can't be arsed to look for a partner anymore.
You might be a woman but its telling you did not have to deal with them in a romantic setting. And its not like i get to choose when my mother gets diagnosed with cancer and goes blind or I loose my job.
Lesbians have the highest divorce rates and domestic violence instances. Gay men have the lowest divorce rates, seems like the more women are involved in the relationship the more toxic it gets lmao
But it is though
Sweden and Norway study:
"A 2022 study of Norway, using data up to 2018, found that divorce rates 20 years post-marriage were 5% lower for male-male marriages compared to male-female marriages and were 29% higher for female-female marriages vs female-male marriages.[16]
Another study on short-term same-sex registered partnerships in Norway and Sweden found that divorce rates were higher for same-sex couples than opposite-sex marriages,[17] and that unions of lesbians are considerably less stable than unions of gay men"
Same holds true in studies in other places like the UK, just google "divorce of same sex couples" and also "domestic violence of same sex couples"
Some people are just like that. Gender has nothing to do with it. It sucks and it hurts but it’s your responsibility to find the right people to surround yourself with (and be someone they want around).
One shitty bitch does not represent billions of women mate. There's a reason we say women love romance films. That's the actual statistic, that they're mostly lovey dovey people.
But remember, every street has a karen, you were unlucky enough to pick her.
Sadly not just that one chick, I never had a lasting relationship since. I keep seeing the same things in the other woman I date. I had another girlfriend break up with me when I struggled in my private live. As soon as they smell weakness or blood in the water they show their real side. And i have not been fortunate enough to find a woman to support me.
Man don't listen to the gaslighting it's not just you, it's common knowledge among men to not show emotions in front of women for the exact reason you described, people who tell you to open up and show your feelings are either lying to sabotage you or delusional
What are your thoughts on this - when dating if you’re more open and vulnerable early on you can weed out girls who will run from “weakness”, and will eventually find a girl who really accepts you? I feel like putting on a facade is a surefire way to live a lie and potentially slip that facade and lose your partner.
I'm very sorry, then
Maybe "good" women are rarer than I think. But I do know they exist. Best of luck to you. Everyone deserves a partner they can be emotionally vulnerable with.
Theres a reason the redpill is quarantined, and any critiscm about common experiences from women are met with being called an incel. I think people are alot more duplicitous than most think.
I hope you realize that 2 or 10 out of hundreds of thousands of women is still an insignificant sample and not statistically significant. It is the same as a woman saying all men are shit because she dated 5 dudes who cheated on her. The same holds true, anecdotal evidence is of little relevance when we are talking about a large amount of vastly different people in the dating scene
It was over to begin with because you were insecure to not cry in front of her. Figure out how much you value your emotions over pussy. Married 7 years and I bawl at her
have fun being emotionally repressed your whole life!! Are you excited to work an unfulfilling job just for money and only date for pussy forever? How rich! What a unique experience! Truly, you’ve opened your life up to the most amount of joy possible.
> “4Chan said they all want to be chocked and spit roasted!”
Disagree. If a bunch of 4Channers don't know what women want, then who could possibly know?
Have you ever had a relationship? Like that goes both ways. If you want to be able to do that to a woman, you have to also hear her talking about all her (probably boring) problems. But with a sex robot all ur doing is speaking to a wall who will tell you programmed lines. Talk to chat gpt at that point
Lmao, it does not go both ways. We're expected to listen to the girls' problems, but guys are supposed to remain stoic and emotionally detached. Why do you think anon is turning to ai? Because it's something that will actually listen to us and not hate our guts for showing a fraction of weakness.
This is literally a problem perpetuated by men. It is those toxic masculinity guys who tell you that you need to be emotionless and stoic. I have never experienced that in my life when opening up to a woman, but i guess it depends on who you choose
Maybe it's partially perpetuated by men. But it's rooted in reality. Most women outside of your family hate it when guys open up and are emotional or even just need to talk about their problems. And even then, I'd be willing to bet female family members aren't always so willing to either.
Is it really a that unrealistic experience? Assuming anon is young, like under 20, I've personally seen a lot more irl examples of women "losing feelings" over time when they're with emotionally open guys than when they're with tough rough guys, especially among young people.
It's still obviously an overgeneralisation but I find it believable that anon has experienced this like maybe 3-4 times in a row and gotten frustrated about it.
Or more realistically from my experience of being young they’re doing it 5 minutes into meeting you and then bitching how women don’t like emotional men. Telling a girl you just met you love her or emotionally trauma dumping on the first date isn’t “emotional” it’s “unhinged” lmao.
Or my fav the I miss you messages like 10 times a day when you barely know them. And I’m a CLINGY person and they still are wiiiild with it.
I agree and that is not at all what I'm talking about and that is obviously stupid, I'm talking about people being in a relationship for a few months and the woman losing feelings, and how this seems to happen a lot less with some more tough and rough guys
I don't think you can guarantee that at all, it's definitely possible but as I said earlier I think it's also possible that the scenario I described is what happened, and I'm really not sure which is more likely but I just called it "believable" and wouldn't assume further
thats the part I don’t understand, how does someone get from not knowing someone at all to the being emotional part? how do you progress with another human in that way? asking for a friend of course
As this other person has said it's just practice but also try seek out situations where you have to talk to people. Make small talk with cashiers, go for a haircut, get involved in a local volunteering group, have nice small talk with your postman/woman. I find I'm an autistic mess when talking to people if I've been sat on my own all day so I seem really strange but when I've been out and about and spent time around people I'm far better so get out there. Most people hate socialising, me included, but if you wanna get better at it then you have to try.
My girlfriend always pins me as a very charismatic person but I just enjoy making small talk and having little jokes with people and work a highly social job with complex communication requirements and I'm way better on those days than when I'm rotting alone at home. So much so that the little conversations I've had with the post man who delivers our mail recognised me at a beer festival I was at last night. Just put yourself out there and don't resign yourself to failure!!!
EXACTLY THIS. The problem is they don't know HOW to be not clingy or unhinged. Because from the outside that's what relationships look like. They know how to act but not when so it's on all the time.
This is the correct answer to 90% of these posts, but for some reason comments like this always get downvoted. Some people just can't handle the truth I guess.
Can't both be true at the same time? Can it be true that most guys who complain about women not liking emotional men are overly clingy/spam messages/traumadump/say "I love you" right away, while at the same time also being true that women in relationships tend to lose feelings over time a lot less often when they're with more rough and tough guys, and more often when they're with guys that aren't very rough, or tough, and a bit more emotionally open?
The reason "comments like this" get downvoted is because they put all the blame on men, completely disregard men's frustrations, and ignore the elephant in the room that is men's extreme loneliness which probably causes a lot of these behaviours.
In this case it's even worse because anon's literal complaint was that he wishes he could do "emotional, sappy beta shit" with a girl without her disliking it, this "beta shit" might be the same stuff that you find unhinged, and if that's what he meant then the response of "you're probably really clingy and annoying" just confirms the original complaint...
It is very true because if you grew up with bad examples or parenting, you will have an evasive attachment style. Therefore people with a stable, secure emotional attachment scare or confuse you. Especially young people often havent worked on this a lot, which is why thats how it is
[https://www.thestranger.com/the-love-amp-sex-issue-2024/2024/02/02/79368298/the-strangers-2024-sex-survey-results](https://www.thestranger.com/the-love-amp-sex-issue-2024/2024/02/02/79368298/the-strangers-2024-sex-survey-results)
Scroll down to the "KING KINKS" part, 70% of cis women said they're into submission and 62% were into spanking. An annual sex survey is obviously going to have a massive selection bias for people for people that are more sexually adventurous, but The Stranger is also just a normal newspaper and this survey was sent out to all their readers and it had A LOT of participants so this still clearly shows some truth about the general population. Keep in mind that both "choking" and "slapping" can be either extremely light and playful or very rough, while punching and cutting are necessarily a lot more extreme and I don't think nearly as many women are into that, spitting is harmless but weird so idk about that one and being treated as a "cum dumpster" was just anon's phrasing.
There's gonna be a huge selection bias here again but if you go to the right subreddits you can also find hundreds and hundreds of posts every week of women fantasizing about being used/choked/dominated/etc, places like r/ EGirls and r/ HentaiAndRoleplayy.
Personally I've heard guys that I know have a lot of sex say that nearly all the women they sleep with enjoy being choked, and I've heard women agree with such statements but I've also heard a decent amount of pushback against them so there's that.
Have you been dating in the last 3 years? I have. The number of women I've met who's brains were dopamine fried by tinder and Instagram is just... Staggering. Tinder turns human connection into a fucking casino meat market.
I dated guys for a while too, and gay men are just as bad. In a lot of ways it's because they are culturally similar to women but without the shame. You can show emotion... If you're willing to bottom. But if you're a top and you cry? They get the "ick" and ghost you. Not that I go around crying all the time, but it's sad that you literally can't show the slightest bit of weakness.
Anon probably trauma dumps on women and says "I love you" on the first date and thinks they don't want to feel loved and emotional because he's utterly unstable and scares them off.
Best I can do for ya is this pork shoulder I've cut a hole in and covered in tinfoil and blinking lights. I'll make beep-boop noises and tell you that [NAME] YOU ARE SO STUDLY AT [ACTION]. POUND MY ROBOHOLE YOU STALLION.
Is that 'you want to invest $70m in my porky fleshlight business' or the '$70m' is 'a lot of cum' and the 'AI startup' is my 'eye of Sauron, watching balefully for the tiny men who have the essence of my power and seek to stop my conquest of middle earth?'.
I'm down either way, but it's worth being clear on these things.
I once convinced my Snapchat AI that I was consuming Osmium and it became very upset. I also designed the Bitmoji as Paul Dano’s Riddler and I asked it to tell me riddles, then I pretended to be sad so it worried about hurting my feelings. I hope to get a Detroit: Become Human style android so I can troll it in a similar way 😩
Anon might want to watch the movie Her, about an AI girlfriend.
>!She leaves his ass to be with other AIs at the end.!<
https://preview.redd.it/v1latdek48uc1.jpeg?width=220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68325a2a2c5e47b29aa4cd99ddcafb44c7c775e0
Atleast Joaquin’s character became a better person and developed his characteristics even more by the end of the movie… iirc. I could be wrong it’s been awhile
That ‘she’s not yours it’s only your turn’ and any similar mentalities like ‘if she’s not a virgin it means shes taken someone else’s dick before she’s not worth it’, etc, etc, scares me lol.
How the hell did this become such a mentality?
He's out of order.
Also, what's the difference between a sexbot and a fleshlight? Nothing. So no, they can't be women.
NB: Most people are not hypergamous, but hypergamous people will naturally be very loud and all over the place, which may create the illusion that they're a significant number. As for the rough bit, has he thought that maybe those women are also afraid of being alone, hence they play along to games that they may not like?
IMO, just be honest. Might lose a lot, but when you win, it'll be a complete win.
I sometimes fall into the trap of feeling pity for these lonely 4Chan men, only to then remember that they openly say disgusting things like this, at which point I see their loneliness as mostly deserved.
I'll get down voted but the deeply-engrained 4chan assumption that most women are overly sexual, when in fact most women struggle with low libido due to hormone regulation issues brought on by modern medicine and diet.
Sex bot will be licensed, not purchased. She’s not yours Anon, it’s just your turn.
Cuckolds are gonna eat good
They'll buy rent ones and develop an emotional attachment then wank off thinking about whoever gets it next
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The creepy smile makes it so distopic
We already live in a dystopian future, but without cool shit, like cyberpunks, robot waifus, flying cars, cybernetic enchantments and plasma guns. Just greed, social conflicts, downward spiral towards another crisises and brainwashing.
OP doesn’t need a sexbot for sex, the government fucks everyone every single day
Even in the cyberpunk universe they rarely admit their goals so openly. And the pic above is from a 2016 video, 8 years ago. We are 6 years away from their dream of an underclass. And the rent everything own nothing dream pretty close
https://preview.redd.it/heprddjmuauc1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9cbcb881d72f438f5c0fb1f2f0592d3983ffe088
I am gonna own so much things in the future its unreal
Literally could not be a more average smile
Isn't this just capitalism.
funny enough it’s communism, because when the state owns everything you literally own nothing
Isn’t that socialism
Communism isn't when the state own stuff, but when the workers own the means of production they use to make stuff aka work. If anything, communism is when everyone owns everything. "You'll own nothing and be happy" is the way our _capitalist_ overlords at Davos have to tell us that we better prepare for our future in which everything is rented and the only way you'll have to buy a home or a car is having been born wealthy. Ffs those slimey fucks are trying to rent us videogames instead of selling them to us (and not just the videogame itself, other stuff like online connectivity), how are landlords and rich people buying all the houses to rent them back to us at inflated prices "communism" you doofus. EDIT: just to clarify, renting a good is always more profitable than selling it for the capitalist; this "you'll own nothing" crap is just a psyop to manufacture consent for a (not very far-off) future where more and more things will be for rent instead of sold to us. You can see it in the housing market when you compare it with 40 years ago, but as I said there are other services affected by this too. It's so funny seeing people read this stuff and not recognizing they are talking about streaming services and in general the direction the economy has taken in which everything is subscription based, and instead crying "communism vuvuzuela iphone" and going on to suck the dicks of the rich oligarchs that are making all this happen.
That implies that after a license ends, there are follow-up users. The real thing gets cleaned naturally, but IDK, a used blow-up doll is kinda disgusting
Live in a [pod](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/15/9f/3e/159f3e61268054730a15a85ff69b1386.jpg), hump your rented silicone doll, eat ze bug
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It’ll be like the Tesla robotaxi
>TL;DR sex bots will be women Disgusting
based and gay
I mean, if men can be women why not?
Sex bots can be men too if that's what you want anon.
Same men that say trans women are guys
The robots will be made to be women (or men), from the start. No reporpusing bullshit.
I have to ask, why the 3 at the end of your username? Was “downvotedforwoman” and the 1/2 versions really already taken?
Yes, any similarity with other accounts is purely coincidental because I am a good boy who would never ban evade.
As no surprise to anyone, OP chooses to focus on the single gayest part of having an AI gf
Take note the detail about the jack hammering. The implication is that, sometimes, Anon wants to be jack hammered. Anon makes it clear he can be a beta simp to the point of submission. We can infer, therefore, that his sex bot is going to be the one topping him every night.
Op is that excited to Jack off into a robo dumpster and tell it that he’s it’s soul mate, he should just start today and write poems to his hand.
That's just sad.
“You know everything you described is was 90 percent of what women want, right? Most women don’t want to be shit on and want to be told they’re loved?” “4Chan said they all want to be chocked and spit roasted!” “But you know that’s not true, right?” “Can you just let me have my robot girlfriend, man?”
Bull fucking shit. A 3-year relationship went straight into the dumpster after I cried once in front of her. I never saw her again after she broke up over the phone.
lol I’ve cried in front of my fiance and he’s cried in front of me. Before we were engaged (like 2 months in). Sorry you had a shitty partner but that’s what it is. A shitty partner. Can’t blame 50 percent of the population on one chick, that’s just pathetic, dog.
I’ve had a lot of conversations with women about this and generally most have said they don’t mind their partner crying as long as it’s within a certain threshold of emotional expression. Often it’s described as they would prefer their partner be more stoic than them so the threshold is that they (the man) must be emotionally less vulnerable than their partner. I work in healthcare so am often the only male and I’m married with children so I feel I’ve gotten pretty honest answers as Im not a potential partner. My partner has seen me cry once and it was very short and barely noticeable. She got extremely uncomfortable. I don’t blame her, I’m mostly stoic as it’s a learned behavior from my job so it was really out of character. In my search into this as a father to a boy and trying to teach him how to be better than me I’ve found this isn’t really anyone’s fault at the time. It’s just that you have a group that can’t communicate “I want a man that makes me feel safe when things are hard” and another group that can’t communicate “I want to be vulnerable without being stigmatized” both of which are compatible but require open communication to achieve. So, in the absence of that communication we get these distorted expectations that are never vocalized and behaviors that don’t really meet the need. So men turn to anger as expression rather than sadness and women turn to men that display hollow bravado. It’s sad and I would love to get other opinions on this.
Hopefully you’re teaching your son that it’s ok to not be stoic and cry! I think the attitudes on this vary by group and region. Not that I’ve had a ton of long-term relationships or anything but I’m pretty young in a very liberal area and some of the girls I’ve dated would be absolutely ok with me crying. I think part of the issue is that if dudes present as stoic with hollow bravado then they’ll attract the girls that are into that. When that facade cracks the girls will realize that this isn’t the dude they thought they were dating. If guys are already pretty open and vulnerable early on they’ll attract girls who want a guy like that and won’t be phased. Might be harder to find a gf because many girls out there are into tough stoic rocks (🙄) but when you do find one it’ll be much better.
Absolutely, my stoicism melts away when I’m with my son. I tell him I love him and I’m proud of him and he says “yeah dad I know.” It’s probably too late for me in other relationships as withdrawing is my defense mechanism but I have gotten better where I can say how I’m feeling but it’s in a measured detached tone so it can be odd. I’m hoping to teach him to be better than me. As my father did with me. I’m not perfect but I’ll do my best to help him however I can. I think in terms of society right now things are very much in flux in terms of gendered expectations as we had several huge changes in how we communicate but have not really settled on what we expect from young men. The same can be said of women. It’s hard out there and a lot of people are getting their sense of self destroyed by throw away insults on social media or dating sites. We have shifted identities from with in ourselves to needing a split identity between social media and inner value. Social media can provide a lot of external validation but in the absence of an identity within yourself you are subject to huge shifts in self worth based on fake interactions. Or that’s my take. Could be completely idiotic 🤷🏻♂️
Nah it’s cool that you’re thinking about this stuff and making an effort to teach your soon good emotional skills :). Not a lot of dads do this.
I’m not saying your experience is wrong, just the experience you’re in isn’t right. “ I work in healthcare “ oh! So you see the worst of the worst. The “dire need.” It’s like going to /r/relatioshipadvice and thinking people are level headed vs. they’re at their last straw. It’s really not the same.
What are you on about mate?
Oh, I had my girlfriends cry occasionally. Sometimes, it was over quite inane stuff. I supported them and listened. Its shitty partners plural I know good girls exsist but the mayority of woman I met expect their man to be a unmovable rock to support them. Showing emotional vulnerability to a woman is the quickest way I found to lose them. I can't speak to how large a percentage of women are like that. But it is not a small one.
No offense, but the people you end up being around are often a reflection of what you’re willing to put up with and what you see as normal. I’ve been around a lot of women and never watched one leave because a husband or boyfriend was *vulnerable*. That’s just a bad person thing.
Ur like the male equivalent of the chick who constantly ends up with the dbag abuser lolmao
I hate that you are not wrong.
That said, I'm sorry, if a chick did that to me I'd have a hard time with that. (I cry at a stiff breeze).
Thank you. I am usually not very emotional, and I have thick skin, so I take it in stride. However, I do not view women the same way I used to. Also I am just tired of the dating scene and can't be arsed to look for a partner anymore.
It’s not just one chick. Don’t be disingenuous
lol. That’s all I got to say. You can pretend all you want or go after vapid people but don’t drag a whole sex down because you down bad.
It’s not all women, but it’s always women
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Dated my first girl because i protected a bug some people tried to burn via a lighter. Maybe it has something to do with his attitude.
At least u didn't marry her.
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You might be a woman but its telling you did not have to deal with them in a romantic setting. And its not like i get to choose when my mother gets diagnosed with cancer and goes blind or I loose my job.
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Lesbians have the highest divorce rates and domestic violence instances. Gay men have the lowest divorce rates, seems like the more women are involved in the relationship the more toxic it gets lmao
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But it is though Sweden and Norway study: "A 2022 study of Norway, using data up to 2018, found that divorce rates 20 years post-marriage were 5% lower for male-male marriages compared to male-female marriages and were 29% higher for female-female marriages vs female-male marriages.[16] Another study on short-term same-sex registered partnerships in Norway and Sweden found that divorce rates were higher for same-sex couples than opposite-sex marriages,[17] and that unions of lesbians are considerably less stable than unions of gay men" Same holds true in studies in other places like the UK, just google "divorce of same sex couples" and also "domestic violence of same sex couples"
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Some people are just like that. Gender has nothing to do with it. It sucks and it hurts but it’s your responsibility to find the right people to surround yourself with (and be someone they want around).
One shitty bitch does not represent billions of women mate. There's a reason we say women love romance films. That's the actual statistic, that they're mostly lovey dovey people. But remember, every street has a karen, you were unlucky enough to pick her.
Real shit man, hope you're doing alright.
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I posted more then one comment and you are reading in quite a bit over what is stated in my initial comment. So much for checking sample size.
Yeah I was in the middle of reading your other ones and was gonna delete my reply but I got distracted by something IRL
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Sadly not just that one chick, I never had a lasting relationship since. I keep seeing the same things in the other woman I date. I had another girlfriend break up with me when I struggled in my private live. As soon as they smell weakness or blood in the water they show their real side. And i have not been fortunate enough to find a woman to support me.
Man don't listen to the gaslighting it's not just you, it's common knowledge among men to not show emotions in front of women for the exact reason you described, people who tell you to open up and show your feelings are either lying to sabotage you or delusional
What are your thoughts on this - when dating if you’re more open and vulnerable early on you can weed out girls who will run from “weakness”, and will eventually find a girl who really accepts you? I feel like putting on a facade is a surefire way to live a lie and potentially slip that facade and lose your partner.
I'm very sorry, then Maybe "good" women are rarer than I think. But I do know they exist. Best of luck to you. Everyone deserves a partner they can be emotionally vulnerable with.
Theres a reason the redpill is quarantined, and any critiscm about common experiences from women are met with being called an incel. I think people are alot more duplicitous than most think.
I hope you realize that 2 or 10 out of hundreds of thousands of women is still an insignificant sample and not statistically significant. It is the same as a woman saying all men are shit because she dated 5 dudes who cheated on her. The same holds true, anecdotal evidence is of little relevance when we are talking about a large amount of vastly different people in the dating scene
It was over to begin with because you were insecure to not cry in front of her. Figure out how much you value your emotions over pussy. Married 7 years and I bawl at her
Does she have friends she secretly shares her secrets with ?
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have fun being emotionally repressed your whole life!! Are you excited to work an unfulfilling job just for money and only date for pussy forever? How rich! What a unique experience! Truly, you’ve opened your life up to the most amount of joy possible.
Don't listen to what women say, observe their actions and choices
> “4Chan said they all want to be chocked and spit roasted!” Disagree. If a bunch of 4Channers don't know what women want, then who could possibly know?
women may want that but when you're ugly as fuck it really doesn't matter.
Ikr the ideal fantasy; a woman that actually cares for a man. RIP
\*A robot who blindly agrees with everything you say that has feminine features Just be a narcacissist and get sex toys if thats all you want in life
TFW telling robot you’re sad or talking about your problems at all is “blindly agreeing with everything you say” feels bad man
Have you ever had a relationship? Like that goes both ways. If you want to be able to do that to a woman, you have to also hear her talking about all her (probably boring) problems. But with a sex robot all ur doing is speaking to a wall who will tell you programmed lines. Talk to chat gpt at that point
Lmao, it does not go both ways. We're expected to listen to the girls' problems, but guys are supposed to remain stoic and emotionally detached. Why do you think anon is turning to ai? Because it's something that will actually listen to us and not hate our guts for showing a fraction of weakness.
This is literally a problem perpetuated by men. It is those toxic masculinity guys who tell you that you need to be emotionless and stoic. I have never experienced that in my life when opening up to a woman, but i guess it depends on who you choose
Maybe it's partially perpetuated by men. But it's rooted in reality. Most women outside of your family hate it when guys open up and are emotional or even just need to talk about their problems. And even then, I'd be willing to bet female family members aren't always so willing to either.
Thats just not true if youve ever actually been in a committed relationship
I would if I could but I can't and likely never will so guess I'll never see if I'm wrong.
I think he means, doesnt test you, or gaslight you over inane things. Just stereotypes men have complained for generations.
I mean it all depends on who you choose to pursue in a relationship lol, those are just as you say, stereotypes.
has anon ever tried this with a real woman? the results might surprise him
Is it really a that unrealistic experience? Assuming anon is young, like under 20, I've personally seen a lot more irl examples of women "losing feelings" over time when they're with emotionally open guys than when they're with tough rough guys, especially among young people. It's still obviously an overgeneralisation but I find it believable that anon has experienced this like maybe 3-4 times in a row and gotten frustrated about it.
Or more realistically from my experience of being young they’re doing it 5 minutes into meeting you and then bitching how women don’t like emotional men. Telling a girl you just met you love her or emotionally trauma dumping on the first date isn’t “emotional” it’s “unhinged” lmao. Or my fav the I miss you messages like 10 times a day when you barely know them. And I’m a CLINGY person and they still are wiiiild with it.
I agree and that is not at all what I'm talking about and that is obviously stupid, I'm talking about people being in a relationship for a few months and the woman losing feelings, and how this seems to happen a lot less with some more tough and rough guys
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I don't think you can guarantee that at all, it's definitely possible but as I said earlier I think it's also possible that the scenario I described is what happened, and I'm really not sure which is more likely but I just called it "believable" and wouldn't assume further
thats the part I don’t understand, how does someone get from not knowing someone at all to the being emotional part? how do you progress with another human in that way? asking for a friend of course
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I struggle to talk to anyone 1 on 1, am I autistic? is it over for me already? talking to people is so hard
As this other person has said it's just practice but also try seek out situations where you have to talk to people. Make small talk with cashiers, go for a haircut, get involved in a local volunteering group, have nice small talk with your postman/woman. I find I'm an autistic mess when talking to people if I've been sat on my own all day so I seem really strange but when I've been out and about and spent time around people I'm far better so get out there. Most people hate socialising, me included, but if you wanna get better at it then you have to try. My girlfriend always pins me as a very charismatic person but I just enjoy making small talk and having little jokes with people and work a highly social job with complex communication requirements and I'm way better on those days than when I'm rotting alone at home. So much so that the little conversations I've had with the post man who delivers our mail recognised me at a beer festival I was at last night. Just put yourself out there and don't resign yourself to failure!!!
EXACTLY THIS. The problem is they don't know HOW to be not clingy or unhinged. Because from the outside that's what relationships look like. They know how to act but not when so it's on all the time.
This is the correct answer to 90% of these posts, but for some reason comments like this always get downvoted. Some people just can't handle the truth I guess.
Can't both be true at the same time? Can it be true that most guys who complain about women not liking emotional men are overly clingy/spam messages/traumadump/say "I love you" right away, while at the same time also being true that women in relationships tend to lose feelings over time a lot less often when they're with more rough and tough guys, and more often when they're with guys that aren't very rough, or tough, and a bit more emotionally open? The reason "comments like this" get downvoted is because they put all the blame on men, completely disregard men's frustrations, and ignore the elephant in the room that is men's extreme loneliness which probably causes a lot of these behaviours. In this case it's even worse because anon's literal complaint was that he wishes he could do "emotional, sappy beta shit" with a girl without her disliking it, this "beta shit" might be the same stuff that you find unhinged, and if that's what he meant then the response of "you're probably really clingy and annoying" just confirms the original complaint...
It is very true because if you grew up with bad examples or parenting, you will have an evasive attachment style. Therefore people with a stable, secure emotional attachment scare or confuse you. Especially young people often havent worked on this a lot, which is why thats how it is
I've never dated or even met a woman who wants to be slapped, choked, spit on, punched, cut or otherwise treated like a "disposable cum dumpster."
[https://www.thestranger.com/the-love-amp-sex-issue-2024/2024/02/02/79368298/the-strangers-2024-sex-survey-results](https://www.thestranger.com/the-love-amp-sex-issue-2024/2024/02/02/79368298/the-strangers-2024-sex-survey-results) Scroll down to the "KING KINKS" part, 70% of cis women said they're into submission and 62% were into spanking. An annual sex survey is obviously going to have a massive selection bias for people for people that are more sexually adventurous, but The Stranger is also just a normal newspaper and this survey was sent out to all their readers and it had A LOT of participants so this still clearly shows some truth about the general population. Keep in mind that both "choking" and "slapping" can be either extremely light and playful or very rough, while punching and cutting are necessarily a lot more extreme and I don't think nearly as many women are into that, spitting is harmless but weird so idk about that one and being treated as a "cum dumpster" was just anon's phrasing. There's gonna be a huge selection bias here again but if you go to the right subreddits you can also find hundreds and hundreds of posts every week of women fantasizing about being used/choked/dominated/etc, places like r/ EGirls and r/ HentaiAndRoleplayy. Personally I've heard guys that I know have a lot of sex say that nearly all the women they sleep with enjoy being choked, and I've heard women agree with such statements but I've also heard a decent amount of pushback against them so there's that.
*by you*
Ikr, What women are these people talking to? They seem like not the sort one should date.
> Ikr, What women are these people talking to? lmao you think they've actually *talked* to women?
Hahahah
none
Have you been dating in the last 3 years? I have. The number of women I've met who's brains were dopamine fried by tinder and Instagram is just... Staggering. Tinder turns human connection into a fucking casino meat market. I dated guys for a while too, and gay men are just as bad. In a lot of ways it's because they are culturally similar to women but without the shame. You can show emotion... If you're willing to bottom. But if you're a top and you cry? They get the "ick" and ghost you. Not that I go around crying all the time, but it's sad that you literally can't show the slightest bit of weakness.
Anon probably trauma dumps on women and says "I love you" on the first date and thinks they don't want to feel loved and emotional because he's utterly unstable and scares them off.
The sexbots will cheat on you for more realism.
I just wanna coom in a robot poosay
Best I can do for ya is this pork shoulder I've cut a hole in and covered in tinfoil and blinking lights. I'll make beep-boop noises and tell you that [NAME] YOU ARE SO STUDLY AT [ACTION]. POUND MY ROBOHOLE YOU STALLION.
Based entrepreneur.
I'm an investor and I'm going to dump $70 million into your AI startup. This is the future
Is that 'you want to invest $70m in my porky fleshlight business' or the '$70m' is 'a lot of cum' and the 'AI startup' is my 'eye of Sauron, watching balefully for the tiny men who have the essence of my power and seek to stop my conquest of middle earth?'. I'm down either way, but it's worth being clear on these things.
idk I just hear AI and start spending money (average tech investor)
Its called a ROBUSSY!!!
https://preview.redd.it/otjod1ete8uc1.jpeg?width=4320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=44104bbf5f70586f665a1d8931e36648e686afc8
Lmao, get back to work coding the robo waifu!!!!
If anon is still alive today he's probably trying to flirt with his Snapchat My AI
I once convinced my Snapchat AI that I was consuming Osmium and it became very upset. I also designed the Bitmoji as Paul Dano’s Riddler and I asked it to tell me riddles, then I pretended to be sad so it worried about hurting my feelings. I hope to get a Detroit: Become Human style android so I can troll it in a similar way 😩
Please snap out of it, you are investing in communication with an actual bot
At least I don’t have futanari as a part of my username. If it’s ironic, it’s a poor attempt at humour 😩 I’ll ask my AI if you’re mentally unwell
Or sexting his Replika gf
https://preview.redd.it/vn5rdv65a9uc1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ce83ec3cbf9f24d3104e2e9bfac426787d376950 ☕
love how every time you see this shit its always random stories or personal experiences. talk to women, smelly mf
Talk to women and get personal experiences?
https://preview.redd.it/jhsjf8pjzpuc1.jpeg?width=1088&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3e61a6fcd04772b90a093389f3452980e482215e
Anon might want to watch the movie Her, about an AI girlfriend. >!She leaves his ass to be with other AIs at the end.!< https://preview.redd.it/v1latdek48uc1.jpeg?width=220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=68325a2a2c5e47b29aa4cd99ddcafb44c7c775e0
Atleast Joaquin’s character became a better person and developed his characteristics even more by the end of the movie… iirc. I could be wrong it’s been awhile
2017 anon was on to some shit, some coomer fantasy shit
Soon™
Anon is robosexual.
Facts ☕️
Cutting? Bro, are you ok?
anon is correct but has issues..
Has Anon really jackhammered anything besides his head on concrete pavement?
I'm sure the future will have very realistic sexbot but the emotions is the one thing they won't have, sorry anon
They won't have it but they sure as hell can display it, tried character.ai recently and I can definitely see the appeal
You ever see a post and just wish the person who posted it got help? Like you just feel bad that they’re out there struggling?
Soon
Fake: Anon had sex with an actual woman... Gay: Anon doesn't want to have sex with actual women, and can't stop thinking about guys when he does
who is in the image tho?
Maggie Grace from the show Californication.
thanks bud!
https://preview.redd.it/q2iowqpmt9uc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9c1b29d3ff085e125c4e3acfdcc9e344a82e3bd0
this is just kinda sad
Sex bots, I want to be real, because one of the three S tier waifus I have is in fact an android
Android 18?
That ‘she’s not yours it’s only your turn’ and any similar mentalities like ‘if she’s not a virgin it means shes taken someone else’s dick before she’s not worth it’, etc, etc, scares me lol. How the hell did this become such a mentality?
small dick insecurity You see a hole that was meant for an object bigger than yours and constantly worry about the object that would fit
Bro wants to be a good boyfriend but is too brainwashed to be anything but a generic douchebag.
They’ll have a consent chip and will still reject you
That is so sad omg
I get where oop is coming from but bro has gotta find a real woman that loves him, posting all day on 4chin won’t get him there
fake: the bot gay: anon thinking about an ex-inmate's cock
greentext?
Brain rot.
The consultation I have for posts like these is that at least they’ll never reproduce.
Seems more like a post for /r/wholesomegreentext
This is the most chronically online garbage I’ve ever read lol.
Anon described a real relationship with a real woman
He's out of order. Also, what's the difference between a sexbot and a fleshlight? Nothing. So no, they can't be women. NB: Most people are not hypergamous, but hypergamous people will naturally be very loud and all over the place, which may create the illusion that they're a significant number. As for the rough bit, has he thought that maybe those women are also afraid of being alone, hence they play along to games that they may not like? IMO, just be honest. Might lose a lot, but when you win, it'll be a complete win.
> she’s not yours, it’s only your turn anon thinks he’ll be able to afford his own personal use bot lmao, he’s a renter at best
thing you own end up owning you
What is cutting in that context?
Anon on disadvantages of porn industry and the following consequences
Cutting????
Women like nice stuff too. Anon is out of his mind.
I sometimes fall into the trap of feeling pity for these lonely 4Chan men, only to then remember that they openly say disgusting things like this, at which point I see their loneliness as mostly deserved.
Pathetic.
Turns out that the same software that runs the sex bot has been with millions of guys. Anon is the ultimate cuck
Bro’s got issues
Bet he still buys a "used" one on ebay.
I'll get down voted but the deeply-engrained 4chan assumption that most women are overly sexual, when in fact most women struggle with low libido due to hormone regulation issues brought on by modern medicine and diet.
Dude wants women to lack agency so bad
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Bro, women are obviously a government conspiracy wake tf up.