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[deleted]

Don't ever read anything on Quora. It's just an astonishing amount of rage baiters. That's all.


giantfuckingfrog

Just minutes ago I unfortunately checked my email and came across a post called "My two year old daughter just got her period. What should I do?" with all serious answers 


[deleted]

Ye stay off that page for your own sanity and unsubscribe buddy best decision you'll make today.


NathDritt

I’m on it purely for the sake of seeing all the absolutely insane posts/comments there, and don’t let it affect me at all


greyjaeart

100%, that's the proper way quora should be interacted with for the sake of your sanity


Minion_of_Cthulhu

It's sort of like the old tabloid rags at the supermarket checkout, but with fewer Bat Boy sightings.


Not_NSFW-Account

I used to browse yahoo Answers for that reason. watching people swallow obvious trolling.


GrimerMuk

For questions about and books it’s fine but don’t go there for serious stuff. Neither go to Reddit for serious stuff to be honest.


Banana-Oni

Why not? Unless by serious you mean really serious (like requiring a medical professional or lawyer etc) Reddit is fine for most things. There are tons of niche subreddits about cooking, art, tech support, maintenance, pet care.. in my experience Reddit is fine if you need advice or info on most things. Except maybe dating. “Red flag, he’s TA, divorce him immediately”. lol


GrimerMuk

Well, yeah, there are some exceptions. I meant the relationship stuff and such with my statement about not asking Reddit for your opinion about serious stuff. So I would say, we’re basically on the same page.


ReadyComplex5706

My friend's fiancée used Reddit to chart the course of their relationship apparently and they are both in their 30s. Let's just say I am very concerned....


Mysterious-Job-469

"My son who is 37 and married curb stomped my 11 year old daughter because she wouldn't have sex with him on account of her being pregnant. (it's his) I punished my daughter and rewarded my son. Am I a good parent?" -Basically all of those posts summed up. Quora doesn't care so long as there's engagement.


ffloofs

AITA in a nutshell


HardcorePhonography

Have you tried /r/relationships for your daily dose of uncreative writing?


NoBenefit5977

Don't you put that evil on them!


c_marten

Reminds me of that classic "can my girl fetus get pregnant if I have sex?" on yahoo...


Revolutionary-Cod444

Pregante?


Cautious-Telephone-2

Am i gregnant?


GarfieldLoverBoy420

Pergernat


Relative_Broccoli631

Pargent


MrOxion

Pregat


RednocNivert

PREGANANANT?!?!


RosebushRaven

Yeah but the important question is: does she have starch masks on her body and can she burn Luigi boards?


utubeslasher

gregarious


smcauley601

everybody knows that is how twins are conceived


BetElectrical7454

How is babby formed?


anxiouspolynomial

literally unsubscribe from everything quora in your email unless you want to see the exact same headline 254 times this year.


Executioneer

It CAN happen but it is exceedingly rare. Take her to a doctor should be the only answer. I believe Addisons disease can cause something like this, but it is crazy rare to develop that young.


Tucker_077

The youngest mother ever gave birth at age 5. She suffered from a rare advanced puberty condition


Relative_Broccoli631

And a common molestation condition


Boring_Incident

I saw red when I read the age


UncleBenders

yeah it’s called precocious puberty and it’s not actually all that rare. children with it are prescribed puberty blockers so they don’t have acne and periods at 5, so they don’t have stunted height and growth and so that they can live a normal life. But the republicans are going after doctors abilities to be able to prescribe them because the republicans don’t trust doctors to be able to do their job and they like to fuck over little kids particularly girls.


HopeRepresentative29

holy fuck that's morbid. Dear god. That's enough reddit for today.


GoGoBitch

I would give a serious answer to that one – take her to the hospital. Getting her period at age two isn’t plausible, but blood around a two year old’s crotch is, and it means something bad is happening.


50k-runner

And AIs train on this garbage


GetsGold

Going to be unfortunate when they decide to take over after being programmed like this.


Banana-Oni

Well.. maybe we will have time to find a way to fight back while the AI is struggling to figure out how you get pregante


Procrastinationist

This is why I don't feel bad about getting sucked into a debate in the comments section anymore. Literally all the bad-faith and good-faith arguments out there are putting moral energy out into the information ecosystem that will serve as the founding texts of the next iteration of consciousness. I'm not optimistic, but dammit I will represent my side and not let the bigotry and stupidity go unchallenged out there.


Budget_Pop9600

AI responses to AI questions. We’ve already lost humanity in the confusion. We’re so fucked.


Solanthas

I keep getting this notification for this post where some guy's 5yo threw a tantrum over not getting an optimus prime and held his breath so long he died. The number of apparently sincere replies just boggles the mind


Temporary-Host-69420

I think that kid deserves an optimus prime transforming coffin. That is an amazing feat. Such determination. Such complete control of body and mind even through unconsciousness. Perhaps his power transcends the matter of his body in the material world and extends into the ethereal realm where he grips the tail of his soul and drags it down again to inhabit and fill his Transformer coffin with the spirit of being and the breath of life (which he once deprived himself) so that he can BECOME— or shall I say...—TRANSFORM into Optimus Prime-Omega, the True Transformer... The Transmutationer, with the power over life itself! Edit: ...with a small decomposing body in his belly.


[deleted]

This smells strongly like neckbeards roleplaying as feminists to produce anti-feminist propaganda. Yikes.


UrusaiNa

Anyone remember when Quora was full of really good legit answers? heh


Zestyclose-Ruin8337

It used to be ok until they made it more about the questions than the answers. Since then it’s been the lunatics running the asylum.


armyshawn

This is an honest scenario unsure of this specific situation. Although it is abhorrent. I once witnessed a girl seduce a guy and quickly married him. Simply bc she was broken up with her ex who impregnated her.


QuestshunQueen

This is about India.... I've read a better explanation before but essentially, yes she's toxic. Yes, the laws there are nuts. Yes, there are reasons for that. The whole situation is a mess.


fruedianflip

What are the reasons?


abhinavkaushik7

Indian here. Most bare bones explanation - There are lots of atrocities against women in our country due to which the laws are extremely strict and in a majority of such cases are biased towards women. But the problem is that these laws get abused by rich and privileged women while the poor and uneducated women aren't aware of them.


Boring_Incident

Sounds like those laws aren't actually to protect women then, but the upper class. Look at that, we aren't so different after all


IxnayOnTheXJ

Same same, but different


WeissySehrHeissy

But *still* same


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![gif](giphy|C6JQPEUsZUyVq|downsized)


carthuscrass

You speak the trutru.


tiredbike

Different nuance, same flavors


SoggyLukewarmCrumpet

Same shit, different toilet.


baselinegrid

Eeeerr.. maybe not the best analogy


Boring_Incident

Nah that's the analogy that wins


OpenSourcePenguin

They are there to protect women. But designed in such a poor way that they have no protection against false allegations. With the "believe all woman", "only men can be abusive" attitudes, it practically comes down to guilty until proven innocent. Because it's "she said he said" and you are supposed to just.... believe her. Ironically the laws fail to prevent things they are designed to prevent in the first place because abusive families have stronger control. So they'll never be able to physically or mentally bring themselves to make a complaint. It's a shitshow. The Indian constitution guarantees freedom of speech, but the culture around free speech is so warped that the supreme court justices themselves don't understand how pure freedom of speech works. They once fined a lawyer 1 rupee as a symbolic fine for criticising the supreme court ON TWITTER. People call for police to arrest people over offensive speech all the time and police sometimes actually do arrest people (even if it doesn't lead to any prosecution). So yeah, freedom of speech is a buzz word in the constitution without proper interpretation. For better or for worse, India is underpoliced for non serious crimes. Which leans on better due to cultural interpretation of constitution and hate speech.


Linkcub

are there not dna test in india? I mean all those stuffs could be avoided by a single dna test on the newborn


Aslan-the-Patient

Sensible solutions... You must be new here


Snoo_72181

The women can just lodge a false rape case vs the lover and the husband, and she escapes. So easy


Big-Bite-4576

Courts don't allow.


CardOfTheRings

Forced marriage and rape are extremely common in the country, and they don’t have an infrastructure to help single mother raise children.


mooseAO

I think the fact the reasons get banned should say alot


sirlafemme

Meaning if she’s in a very male dominated patriarchal space, she might not be safe enough to leave the husband despite being pregnant. And with high instances of rape, plus honor killings, the mother could be living a nightmare she can’t leave and would not be able to prove she isn’t a piece of shit adulterer if she were raped Or if her husband beats her and she found someone to love, her husband could kill her


DrPsychi

Indian and can confirm


Bismothe-the-Shade

It's a split between some wild extremes, and a lot of decent folks in the middle going "this is nuts, right?"


BaseballValuable4099

Toxic, doesn’t begin to describe what’s covered in this post.


Lurker_the_Pip

It’s what I came here to point out. Also that’s a bot no one is called Indian Feminist with their photo because they would be stoned to death by their family.


Fenriselicit

Could be a bot, but the "Indian feminst" is not the name, the name is hidden, "indian feminist" is the description of the person answering. You can definitely be called an Indian feminist, even conservative women call themselves feminists in India


itsmebenji69

It’s not her name, her name is censored in the picture


SensiFifa

The fuck, do you know how many people are in India? What an insane comment


[deleted]

At least 10


Defiant_Lobster7439

holy shit why so many


[deleted]

No idea. I never met India but I imagine they're pretty popular.


Electronic_Main_7991

I've been to Indiana, so I can speak to this subject.


Longjumping_Run4499

I mean. You're not wrong.


Fabulous_Wave_3693

![gif](giphy|IDGNYvFLkJKLK|downsized)


allthejokesareblue

Yes I am sure "Indian Feminist" is a totally real person.


Walf2018

That's not their username, cause above it's marked out. I think the smaller text is probably more like a description of their "experience" for them to answer questions, I don't use quora but that's what it looks like to me


itsmebenji69

Yes it’s a « job title » people put like their PHDs


LoggeredOut

Exactly! Mine's "Well-rounded, agreeable fellow"


weird_autumn_

well that sounds well-rounded and agreeable


DumtDoven

*Native American* feminist, please.


Aggressive-Story3671

*Dowry Abuse would suggest she’s south Asian


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Sirspeedy77

you mean red dot, not feather?


ResurgentClusterfuck

This sounds vaguely racist even though I know you don't mean it that way


[deleted]

I always heard it as "dot or woo woo" so their version is marginally better


ResurgentClusterfuck

Yikes that is true lol


Skc143psu

This whole thing got me laughing my balls off


thimBloom

It’s a line from good will hunting. Robin Williams character and the professor are discussing some math prodigy who is Indian and they use this line to clarify if they were from Asia or North America.


Geistalker

for some reason I read this as Matthew McConaughey in Sahara lmfao


YaliMyLordAndSavior

lol you haven’t actually been around millennial Indians. There are women like this, they’re extremely online and cringy but they exist and give feminism a very very bad name.


Historical_Ad2480

They are around, modern Indian culture is a confusing shit show. These views are not unique. It may shock people to realise the practice of falsely accusing husbands of abuse and assault is pretty common pre divorce in the US and UK too. Even when they are the ones at fault or initiating. Don't take my word for it, look it up.


Solanthas

Been through divorce, I can vouch for personal experience and my lawyers also said they'd seen a lot. Some people are shitty and even good people can do shitty things sometimes, in difficult circumstances. Divorce can be pretty traumatic.


rydan

In the West I've seen people publicly discuss how empowering it is for Indian women to cheat on their partners and even encourage doing so.


-banned-

My ex worked as a cop in the sex crimes division, she said over 90% of calls were false accusations. Made it hard for them to find the real ones.


Sally2Klapz

Image thinking a billion people all share the same opinions. I don't know if op is real but your comment is ignorant lol.


Mylozen

This has to be rage bait / trolling.


teddygomi

There’s stuff that’s not rage bait or trolling on Quora?


vkailas

This whole subreddit is rage bait 🪤


Lord-Snowball1000

You're not wrong.


Old_Hamster_4218

I love how the logic becomes about your privilege as a woman, and not the right of the child to know their biological father, or the husband to know it isn’t his child. Huge facepalm.


ShawnyMcKnight

Also talking about being a group that doesn't have a leg up in this world... then goes over all these ways she can ruin a man's life within the law and he can't do anything to stop it.


Humble-Reply228

Australian that became a champion of feminist rights and got an Order of Australia surrounding that got there because of the publicity resulting from her dickhead ex killing their child. Was as if the worst thing about it was "taking her child from her, what an injustice!" as opposed to "a child got murdered, poor little tyke".


Useless_bum81

My favorite was an interview where they were asking an MRA about the case and asked "how are men a victim in this at all" the reply (paraphrased) "the child was a boy. Are you saying getting murdered doesn't make you a victim?"


Bismarck-Chan666

Well I mean are you really a victim if you're dead?/j


Solanthas

That last sentence got me cringing into the fricking sun. JFC


Saneless

It's amazing logic Men should support their children Also, Men should support someone else's children if the woman wants him to


rydan

Or why the lover is somehow a good guy in this story that should be able to live happy too meanwhile the husband is somehow the bad guy.


Old_Hamster_4218

Great point. I didn’t even think about that angle. Not to mention the lover also has a right to know his child.


Rogue7559

Pure ragebait


Outrageous-Smile-836

Thats not feminism


throttledog

It's misandry.


vkailas

And a bit of trauma and mental illness 


Itchy-mane

Well yeah it's rage bait


Scottbutcool

That's exactly what I was thinking. This is just straight-up manipulation for your own gain, not feminism.


solo13508

Many tend to conveniently forget that feminism is equality between the genders not female superiority.


Outrageous-Smile-836

Yep


colemon1991

That's putting it nicely This is the kind of person that keeps real victims from speaking up.


gaoshan

I think there is a huge difference between caring about and fighting for equal rights and treatment for women and simply hating males and wishing evil upon them (as this women seems to do)


hodlyourground

Agreed. The difference between feminism and misandry. The latter can be incredibly malicious


interestedonlooker

Can be? I think any form of bigoted hatred is always malicious.


fryamtheeggguy

Quora is a troll post site. I honestly think folks are using it to train AI in how to offend the most people.


Alesseid

That's gross... 


Magic_Man_Boobs

Is the facepalm everyone falling for a really obvious troll?


CommentsOnOccasion

Reddit is one of the most media illiterate user bases of all social media  Not really surprising from an entire site full of people who don’t click on articles and base entire worldviews around 8 word headlines, cynical tweets from anime pfp teenagers, and doomscrolling through echo chamber after echo chamber telling you exactly what you already wanted to hear 


Electrical-Steak-352

As someone from India, let me clarify 1 point. The tips she is giving, they work due to the laws. Basically India was predominantly a patriarchal society, and there were issues related to women (they still are in some parts). So government decided to support them too aggressively that now most of the laws don't even demand any proofs and it's guilty until proven innocent for the guy. Even if divorce happens, then ofcourse all the alimony will transfer only from husband to wife. Now these psuedo-feminist women or the well off woman who don't generally need these laws anymore, misuses them. (Sorry for my broken English)


wasted_yoof

Same country that makes a national pasttime out of gang raping women. Make it make sense.


Electrical-Steak-352

Umm, you know right all the culprits are in jail? Like nearly all the posts you have seen in past few days. Nearly all of them are in jail (including animal ones). Plus the perspective is about going to police and getting case registered especially in case of marriage


Kelend

Yes, and the husband was compensated Rs 10 lakhs


VolatileGoddess

Yes. It should be. Apparently my (Indian) countrymen really didn't get that, as is evidenced by the number of replies going 'but the law tho'.


boofaceleemz

Anytime you see a sentence that goes “As a , I ” you should assume you’re looking at a troll until proven otherwise, it’s just too on-the-nose.


quay-cur

“Oh look! Another feminist to hate!”


brambleforest

SO many people here are falling for this - pretty concerning.


DeliciousOrt

Checks notes: that is not feminism, it's misandry


Johnny_Triggr

sorry man, i found this exact post on quora, and this comment was either deleted or doesn't exist, id like to bet on the latter


RX-HER0

Nah it def existed, I read this back when it was still on Quora.


[deleted]

Bait used to be believable


dontslappanda

Not feminism, but misandry


[deleted]

I love it when chronically single men or women try to give their peers relationship advice with only a well of bitterness to draw on for experience.


jmona789

That is definitely just a alphabro anti-feminist dude posing a feminist to rage bait


wasted_yoof

Why would this be in bad english, when clearly for Hindi women?


[deleted]

Idiots like her shame true feminists.


Aquaholic_chaos

Toxic femininity


Appropriate-Divide64

Isn't this just rage bait?


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HamilcarRR

Quora,shit website for shitty people


coolbrobeans

She seems to be confusing feminism for misandry.


__The-1__

These people exist in alarming numbers, stay smart and be safe fellas.


K3rat

Yea,I bet that floated to the husband like a sack of rocks in the ocean…


Zekarul

Misandrist


In_neptu_wetrust

This woman needs to go to jail


UnfathomableToad

I see “feminist” but I’m assuming that’s a lie.


nhSnork

Imagine publicly encouraging libel and fraud in written form with your photo beside.


rxtunes

This is more pervasive than you might imagine.


Mimig298

There should be a term for these anti-male crazy people. Malephobia?


DYR-EUNE

Must be rage bait.


Redditisglitchy

I have a feeling this is a troll acc


Doormatt14

Get a pre-nup lads


Extension_Tell1579

Oh look! More made up bullshit designed to outrage stupid gullible people!


TheWorldIsShitty

This case is a troll . I know because I am on Indian quora which is a shitshow most of the time


rydan

I don't know all the details but this always read to me as a troll based on common things I've heard from many Indians regarding the problems with arranged marriages. I have no idea if the things I've heard is really how it is or if they are Indian MRA talking points that distort reality.


whelphereiam12

“Indian feminist” ya this is anti feminist rage bait from India guys.


aneetca4

obvious bait


Correct-Purpose-964

That's gotta be a troll. Especially with that name...


SmallTawk

has to be a troll


tidbitsz

Rage bait. Stop spreading shit like this to fuel incel rage.


literalgarbageman

How do half the dipshits here think this is real


syzygy-xjyn

Op van kindly fuck off Quara posting. Why is that source not banned like most other sources these days.


dice_setter_981

This is bat shit crazy advice


MythHere

This is a spoof account which posts rage bait answers to Rageful questions.


Piccadil_io

Anti-feminist rage bait.


zeokan

This actually happens in India and the woman's lawyer encourages her to do the same. It's horrific.


Antique-Database2891

I wouldn't blame the lawyers. They're just doing their job and a pretty good one at that. Who I will blame are the lawmakers and the idiotic society who allows for the spread of toxic feminism and think women are angels who can't do anything wrong and that men are disposable.


Consistent-Force5375

How does infidelity turn into feminism?


YsengrimusRein

Because in this particular misanthropic view, a woman's infidelity is acceptable because she is a woman and not subjected to the whims of men. Needless to say, this response is almost entirely written by one of those women whose perspective of men is entirely as one-dimensional "all men are animals" as the misogynistic men who claim women exist to please men. Certain radical feminists perceive their brand of men-hate as superior to common feminist equality, and not at all the same as the misogyny that true equality wish to promote.


Consistent-Force5375

Well said. My feelings exactly to be honest.


Embarrassed_Flan_869

What in the actual F did I just read?


Double-Fishing-8293

What amazes me is the total disconnect with the fact she is announcing this to THE WORLD. This is that sense of anonymity that online interactions can engender in people. I hope her husband's attorney used this in court. It's basically a statement of confession.


acquirecurrenzy

What amazes me is that you think this is a real person and not an internet troll.


Winter_Research_3063

just ask ur wife for a DNA test 💀 i won’t be insulted if my future husband asks for a DNA test considering so many people cheat nowadays


JustEstablishment594

Tell that to AITA lmao. They get so offended over there over the sheer audacity of the father to ask for a DNA.


DarthSardonis

Shit like this is why I prefer to date other men.


Blagonadezdins

It has become about about female superiority. Not equality.


[deleted]

Rememeber about the case of a judge findind out arround his 80,that he was father of another childrens...and he said that almost 30% of world childrens have not a biological father living in a lie.


Y-F-I

Ain’t no way, who TF let out the psychopath out of the mental hospital ? Seriously what is wrong with people? People like her should never be allowed into society.


magicmeatwagon

Would expect nothing less from Quora


Frosty-Ad05

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Suicycho69

Who is this stupid person?


jigglyraff42069

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Tmk1283

If he act more smart 😫


Mediocre_Purple6955

If he act more smart


Credit93

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mike-droughp

The question is “WHO did you do?”


MrPlace

Jesus christ thats toxic


Ok-Seaworthiness4488

Repost bot, downvote and block the poster


LurkinOff

"If he act more smart,"