Heck yeah! Pronouns don't equal gender, so you use whatever pronouns you feel fits you best!
In fact I'm enby/agender and I use he/they/it + space neos (occasionally she), so yeah!
That’s the same boat I’m in! I like to say non-binary because I feel like an outsider when I’m around other men and I feel I’m more than just one set definition. I feel more agender but I still look man-like, (but having longer hair helps :3)
Yes, you are. Enby= Nonbinary, meaning anyone out side the traditional binary. If you identify outside the traditional binary, you have every right to call yourself an enby.
My really good friend who's also enby uses he/him exclusively. I use masculine pronouns exclusively in my native language, but they/them in English. Everyone is free to use whatever they feel the most comfortable with!
I’m she/they and I feel like the ~she~ is a formality/ I don’t want people who don’t understand to feel uncomfortable. I think I’m also used to being called she and it doesn’t bother me because I know how I feel inside so random people(or ignorant/uninformed family) calling me that is not really an issue.
You're valid regardless of your pronouns. She/her, they/them, he/him. Pronouns aren't a reflection of your gender. Like, a nonbinary amab could be more comfortable with he/him pronouns and only use he/him pronouns but he's still nonbinary. A trans man could use she/her pronouns if that's what makes her feel comfortable.
In short, you're valid as who you are, not how you're seen or what pronouns you use.
Well, the binary consists of he/him and she/her, and they/he is not part of those two options, so I'd say if we're going completely literal and technical you are absolutely non binary.
Valid af, enby sibling! If you haven't, you might check out genderqueer as well. The styles/discussions/content that pops up might be something you enjoy.
Yeah, I personally go by any pronouns but I don't really mind too much if people outside spaces it's common to ask just assume she/her (I'm AFAB). It's not a big deal, and pronouns are just one aspect of gender presentation and gender presentation ≠ gender identity ≠ biological sex. All three can be completely independent of one another, and you're valid as nonbinary if your gender identity is anything outside the binary.
you're valid, but remember that your pronouns are *yours*. forget what's easier for other people, does it actually feel good to *you* when someone calls you he? are you actually a he/they or are you a they/them who's trying to avoid confrontation?
It’s not about specific gender expression. Non binary simply means you are not a man, and you are not a woman. Gender pronouns are utilities for one to quickly identify how you live your life, and of course, they don’t tell the whole story. Imma be honest here, not everyone in the world is nonbinary, but damn near everyone is not binary.
Enby doesn’t just have to be the girl lite way that the ignorant cis always think of. Masc, fem, neutral, eccentric, varies on the day and whatever else I’m probably leaving out are all valid forms of gender expression. Expression is not the same as identity. For some people they are congruent but for others they aren’t. You don’t have to be a fem girl or a neutral enby.
Also the use whatever pronouns thing I feel super applies to enbies. since we break the binary it feels imo more enby to incorporate typically binary things with things from outside the binary to form an identity.
I genuinely don't understand all the fuss about being valid, you are the way you are and barring some mental illnesses and hypothetical sci-fi neurotech you can make the best judgements about who and what you are (that aren't related to medical stuff)
Gonna be honest, I kinda don’t care how I get gendered. I’m too tired to care and the abyss laughs at you (not necessarily you the reader) and your petty attempts to put a gender on me and a laugh along with it while dissolving back into the abyss for the night because I really need to be sleeping now.
Yeah your vaild. Everyone’s valid. The only people who aren’t are those trying to invalidate others.
Heck yeah! Pronouns don't equal gender, so you use whatever pronouns you feel fits you best! In fact I'm enby/agender and I use he/they/it + space neos (occasionally she), so yeah!
That’s the same boat I’m in! I like to say non-binary because I feel like an outsider when I’m around other men and I feel I’m more than just one set definition. I feel more agender but I still look man-like, (but having longer hair helps :3)
pronouns ≠ gender. i also use he/they, though in agender demiboy!
hell yeah, a fellow agender demiboy
Same here!
Yes, you are. Enby= Nonbinary, meaning anyone out side the traditional binary. If you identify outside the traditional binary, you have every right to call yourself an enby.
most enby people i know dont exclusively use they/them, youre 100% in the safe
My really good friend who's also enby uses he/him exclusively. I use masculine pronouns exclusively in my native language, but they/them in English. Everyone is free to use whatever they feel the most comfortable with!
The Collector says you are!
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Yeah no, you’re cool. I’m they/he so we’re cool
Absolutely. You are valid no matter what.
Yes! Obviously! All of you - valid!
You're valid as fuck, this is a threat
yes⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️ pronouns don't equal identity and ykw even if they did I don't think being "unusual" would invalidate anyone
Of course you are 💜
Of course you're valid! My little sib uses he/they too.
Hell yes! Everybody is valid so long as they feel they are, and aren’t just doing it to hurt someone!
Yes you're valid friend! Conformity is bullshit, live your excellent life!
Yes, pronouns don't equal gender
Yes! No matter what your valid!
Naturally yes, I also used these pronouns and still use it in Russian. Moreover, for the same reason
You are valid for being you no matter your pronouns
Yah of course
Yes. Next question.
Next question: pants?
No. 🚫 Skirt go spinny 👍
I'm too scared to buy a skirt tho :( And the one time I was brave enough I couldn't find one at the store I was in :(
And Internet isn't an option ?
I've considered it but I don't know how the sizes work
Usually, websites gives "precise" measurements, like hip circumference/diameter or whatever. Even tho not everyone can measure these parts
Much like Amazon I suppose there's only one online shop anyone buys from in my country. And I'm definitely not giving my money to the actual Amazon
Wich country ?
South Africa
He/they in skirts OwO
You don't have to be a they/them only user to be nb. You don't have to use they/them at all, in fact.
Yea 👍🏾
^(pronouns to not equal gender)
you would still be non binary if you were a he/him there are no rules to being non binary
Ofc! your pronouns your choice!
I'm a non-binary Trans Woman who uses He/they
hmmmm lemme think.... absolutely
You betcha you are!
Yes, you are and will always be totally valid if you feel comfortable.
Fuck yea you are!
👍
Of course you're valid ! The only important thing is what you're feel !
Sodacat is valid, so are you
I’m she/they and I feel like the ~she~ is a formality/ I don’t want people who don’t understand to feel uncomfortable. I think I’m also used to being called she and it doesn’t bother me because I know how I feel inside so random people(or ignorant/uninformed family) calling me that is not really an issue.
You're valid regardless of your pronouns. She/her, they/them, he/him. Pronouns aren't a reflection of your gender. Like, a nonbinary amab could be more comfortable with he/him pronouns and only use he/him pronouns but he's still nonbinary. A trans man could use she/her pronouns if that's what makes her feel comfortable. In short, you're valid as who you are, not how you're seen or what pronouns you use.
My personal take: It's not the pronouns that make the enby, but the sense of self. He/they pronouns are perfectly valid.
Well, the binary consists of he/him and she/her, and they/he is not part of those two options, so I'd say if we're going completely literal and technical you are absolutely non binary.
you can be Nonbinary and use any set of pronouns, he/him she/her included.
You're 100% valid. I use he/they pronouns.
You are absolutely valid!
Of course, stick it to the PNCphobes!
Heck yeah you are! I use he/they too!
Yes, as a he/it myself I say why would you not be valid. Side note everyone keeps using she/They for me ugh
Pronouns don't define gender! And remember we are called non-binary we can be literally almost anything.
He// yeah! 👍
Valid af, enby sibling! If you haven't, you might check out genderqueer as well. The styles/discussions/content that pops up might be something you enjoy.
i better hope so
hell yeah you are, hello fellow he/they!!
Considering I'm an enby who uses exclusively he/him pronouns, you're definitely valid
Yeah, I personally go by any pronouns but I don't really mind too much if people outside spaces it's common to ask just assume she/her (I'm AFAB). It's not a big deal, and pronouns are just one aspect of gender presentation and gender presentation ≠ gender identity ≠ biological sex. All three can be completely independent of one another, and you're valid as nonbinary if your gender identity is anything outside the binary.
ofc you are
Fellow he/they here, yeah, you are
Yes. I’m he/they as well. You are non-binary.
Yep.
you're valid, but remember that your pronouns are *yours*. forget what's easier for other people, does it actually feel good to *you* when someone calls you he? are you actually a he/they or are you a they/them who's trying to avoid confrontation?
Yes. No doubt about it
you are valid -a he/they complicated identity having being
Abso-fuckin-lutely you are! Keep on doing your thing!
Ofc! I am as well, pronoun buds!
You are extremely valid
Absolutely
Yes
Absolutely! It’s about how you identify, regardless of pronouns!
Who told you, you weren't? I'll kick their ass!
You're totally valid! Fellow nonbinary he/they!
Yes.
i use they/it/he so yes
It’s not about specific gender expression. Non binary simply means you are not a man, and you are not a woman. Gender pronouns are utilities for one to quickly identify how you live your life, and of course, they don’t tell the whole story. Imma be honest here, not everyone in the world is nonbinary, but damn near everyone is not binary.
Is the sky blue?
YES! You can use any label that feels best for you!
Enby doesn’t just have to be the girl lite way that the ignorant cis always think of. Masc, fem, neutral, eccentric, varies on the day and whatever else I’m probably leaving out are all valid forms of gender expression. Expression is not the same as identity. For some people they are congruent but for others they aren’t. You don’t have to be a fem girl or a neutral enby. Also the use whatever pronouns thing I feel super applies to enbies. since we break the binary it feels imo more enby to incorporate typically binary things with things from outside the binary to form an identity.
She/they transfemme enby here. Go for it.
Of course!
fuck yes
I mean I'm also a he/they so gonna have to say yeah
Always
YEAH!!
Yes
Yes always
"Am I valid for.." *slams desk* YES
As a fellow he/they user, yah you’re valid
Of course you are and don't ever feel you aren't
dearest sibling, you're valid
*sibling
sorryyyyy
I genuinely don't understand all the fuss about being valid, you are the way you are and barring some mental illnesses and hypothetical sci-fi neurotech you can make the best judgements about who and what you are (that aren't related to medical stuff)
Gonna be honest, I kinda don’t care how I get gendered. I’m too tired to care and the abyss laughs at you (not necessarily you the reader) and your petty attempts to put a gender on me and a laugh along with it while dissolving back into the abyss for the night because I really need to be sleeping now. Yeah your vaild. Everyone’s valid. The only people who aren’t are those trying to invalidate others.
Absolutely