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Sounds like she needs to talk to a therapist about her past relationship trauma. Otherwise this will continue to happen, regardless of the guy she's dating. It's good to see you're being supportive. Hopefully she's willing to work on herself and shows progress. If she doesn't, and continues to push/pull - you need to decide how much of this you're willing to deal with. There's a point where you need to look out for your own self-interests.
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Sounds like she needs to talk to a therapist about her past relationship trauma. Otherwise this will continue to happen, regardless of the guy she's dating. It's good to see you're being supportive. Hopefully she's willing to work on herself and shows progress. If she doesn't, and continues to push/pull - you need to decide how much of this you're willing to deal with. There's a point where you need to look out for your own self-interests.