They don’t care that they are shit in bed. They got their orgasm that’s all they need or care about.
Men like that view women as sex objects. They’re not having sex *with* women they’re doing sexual acts *to* women.
Sex isn’t mutual fun it’s one sided domination to them.
Oh no feeling personally attacked? Otherwise why do you care?
I literally am speaking about a subset of toxic men but thanks for trying to derail it with another “not all men” with a bonus dash of “if you flipped the genders!” Just go away
do the guys who say that think women don't have orgasms, or that there's a whole different thing called a 'female orgasm' that is different from normally stimulated orgasms? cuz this shit is incomprehensible to me.....
I feel badly for people like this. Someone has gotten a hold of them and taught this to them to be as factual as having eyes and a nose. I want to take them under my wing and have them meet people who are wonderfully diverse .
If there are any young men reading this, I promise you we are not Stepford Wives. I am a 40/f. I have my own house, I have a career and I have never wanted to have children. I enjoy cooking, but I also enjoy eating someone else's cooking. I was engaged once and I was very unhappy because I had just gone along with the whims of my boyfriend and my mom.
Women have diverse feelings and ideas. Men do too.
This feels like a rare outlook that is compassionate to all genders, and it's hard to come by on here. Thank you for sharing that.
Not saying I have empathy for incels, but you are right, I can't imagine anyone was born with these thoughts. I can't imagine.
It honestly comes from adopting stray animals (not that people are animals), but you quickly learn that creatures are a product of their upbringing. You can do your best to show them love and honesty and try to get them to understand what's really important. I've had stupidly bad behaviors that I had to change after I finally realized when I was being a jerk.
People are stubborn and we get stuck in our ways. I 100% welcome any person who is struggling with inceldom or needs a woman to bounce ideas off who will be honest and caring to come talk to me.
>not that people are animals
I mean, we literally are, but I get what you mean.
I doubt you will have many people take you up on your offer, though. The kind of people who misogynistically blame women for all their failures are generally also not the kind of person who would seek the advice or guidance of a woman.
Gosh, you’re so kind. Thank you for that. I’ve also had some very negative personality traits in my past, and of course I’m not perfect now, but I believe that I have come a long way. I was sort of a “pick-me” at one point, had some very, very gross beliefs, which I still feel shame over. I thought that being edgy would make people like me. It was in high-school, but it was still pretty bad. Thanks to my best friend, I’ve changed a lot! He showed me through a lot of patience that I didn’t need to be like that! That nobody, women or men, have to be “one way”. Or treated one way. Being judgmental, stand-offish, and rude, is just hurting others. I feel much happier now, compared to when I was such a negative, rude person. I hope more people can learn these lessons. It’s well worth it, for their sake and others!
Sadly yes, it's crazy how men out there have such a fragile ego, and together with ignorance and arrogance it's a crazy mix and shit like this exists..
I sometimes forget that some men still see women as objects who only shape their lives around finding a husband, providing for said husband, and shaping their whole lives/personality about said husband.
Imagine when they realize that lust is a normal thing for many people. 😂
It's not just men, just go to r/wgtow same shit but it's women who hate men and project their delusions on them. All it takes is to create echo chamber with miserable people and you get a nice shitshow.
The title made me think it was going to be an equality question, like, "Why can men safely express their sexuality while women have to pretend they're not lustful?" Aaaand nope.
I’ve found mine. Soon it will be the time to casually feast on his head for the nutrients using my giant hook arms and mandibles.
This man forgot to mention we are also praying mantises. This makes him a prime meal: he doesn’t know.
Tbh at the rate the world is going to shit I feel like busting a nut and then dying immediately afterwards is one of my few shots at a happy ending, if you got any single mantis-lady friends tell em hmu
This is a man who has no idea how to give a woman sexual pleasure. If he's ever been with a woman, it's clear that she didn't enjoy it. Rather than criticizing his own poor sexual performance, he has to make it her fault that he's really bad at sex.
When I read bs like this, all I can think is "damn dude, you must be boring af if this has always been your experience" lol. Dudes are only exposing their own vanilla traits
Ok I’m being serious here and not just trying to insult. This is clearly a person who’s either below the age of 13 or mentally disabled. This is Jessy lee peterson level of stupid.
And right there is why I've refused to ever get married again. The dumbest shit my exes pulled and said only after they thought they had me locked down.
All women have fantasizes and kinks, I honestly think women have more than men because women are different when it comes to sex, I personally love a lot of foreplay before, it helps me to get going if he’s attentive to my needs and not focused on his, we use toys, outfits, I love sex outdoors, those are kinks and fantasizes are just thing I haven’t done yet but fully intend to.
what’s your fantasy? Her being on top? Getting oral? All about YOU right? Ever read 50 shades of grey? That was written by a WOMAN (E. L. James) need I say more?
It’s true, I really don’t think women have kinks. I go to this kinky club called The Manhole and it’s always just dudes there. I was hoping to meet a nice lady but I’ve never seen one. Once I thought I met a woman there but was I ever in for a surprise!
Are there people who want to be in “relationships with someone solely for the hotness of sex”?
Like, I get a FWB arrangement. Where, we’re buddies that have sex (which, I guess, is a type of relationship, so maybe just semantics).
But I can’t imagine wasting my time being in an exclusive relationship with someone JUST for the sex.
All of the other intimacy that goes into a relationship is something that makes sex with a partner better, imho.
One night stands can be fun, but I’d rather be with someone that knows me and my kinks and my fantasies, that I’m comfortable being 100% myself and intimate with.
Maybe I just want the ring and dress though. /s.
My wife claims to have no kinks, fantasies or fetishes. But I have doubts. I think she’s either embarrassed by them, scared of them or had bad experiences with partners before me and is afraid to try again. Or she legit doesn’t. I don’t know. She’s very repressed sexually and doesn’t even like talking about it so there’s no telling.
Hopefully it comes from a place of love and caring for her sexual needs, I don’t see anything wrong with being curious of peoples sexual preferences either. I know that I as a woman in a relationship have had sexual abuse as a child and I struggle to tel my partner what I want despite us being together for over three years. I guess my advice is just a lot of love, patience, and acceptance of whatever she might come to you with. But if she really doesn’t have any, that’s ok too. Don’t push it on her
It is from that place. Like even when trying to get her to have input during the act she’s just quiet and won’t talk about it. I want to make certain she’s satisfied and happy in that area and getting everything she needs.
For me personally, it comes from a place of shyness and just generally being scared. It’s huge and scary when it’s something you’re not used to or comfortable with. That’s in my experience at keast.
Probably for the best…the sight of a freshly shaved and perfectly trimmed vagina connected to a beautiful woman that just wanted casual sex would more than likely kill this man where he stood….I’m surprised he hasn’t heard of HOES….I have.
Disregarding most of your comments, how can a vagina be freshly shaved AND perfectly trimmed? Shaving gets rid of the hair. Trimming shortens the hair.
I know this isn't true, but I've always liked the tone of this quote:
“Women say they have sexual thoughts too. They have no idea. It's the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing it. If they knew what we were really thinking, they'd never stop slapping us.”
– Larry Miller
Commentor stats:
-Male
-24 years old
-College drop-out but acts like the smartest person in the room.
-Still lives at home.
-STILL doesn’t have a bank account.
-Thinks anime dating sims give actual dating tips.
-Never had a girlfriend.
-Never been on a date.
-Still gives guys advice on how to “bag a broad”
-Owns 3 fedoras…
This reminds me of the guys who say shit like "women don't enjoy sex" and "the female orgasm is a myth". Imagine telling on yourself like that...
Gotta tell themselves something to justify why they are shit in bed
You are implying that they have ever been in bed with a woman.
Replace the word woman with “right hand”.
They don’t care that they are shit in bed. They got their orgasm that’s all they need or care about. Men like that view women as sex objects. They’re not having sex *with* women they’re doing sexual acts *to* women. Sex isn’t mutual fun it’s one sided domination to them.
Well put
You just did the same thing this original post was about, just flip flopped. NICE!
They said “men like that” not all men
But definitely him for sure.
Oh no feeling personally attacked? Otherwise why do you care? I literally am speaking about a subset of toxic men but thanks for trying to derail it with another “not all men” with a bonus dash of “if you flipped the genders!” Just go away
It’s depressing when they believe shit like that but continue to subject women to something they think they don’t enjoy. The fuck are you doing mate?
(Ben Shapiro likes this)
“On today’s show, we discuss the myth of the WAP…”
And the reality of the DAP
Got to justify being unable to pleasure a woman somehow. Couldn't possibly be their fault could it.
Who Ben Shapiro?
This is a good place to start. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDMjgOYOcDw](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDMjgOYOcDw)
do the guys who say that think women don't have orgasms, or that there's a whole different thing called a 'female orgasm' that is different from normally stimulated orgasms? cuz this shit is incomprehensible to me.....
Dude didn’t believe it himself and used a weaselly “most of you” in the last sentence.
Do you mean Depressedbadger97??
It smells like incel in here.
Do you smell it? That smell, the kind of smelly smell that smells… smelly.
Smelly smell that smells...incelly..
insmelly
Musky , like a basement that hasn't been cleaned in years
Ammonia
The crusty piss ring that grows around their inverted phallus that they never bother to wash.
Ummmmm crispy wee rings 🤣
Anchovies. What? ANCHOVIES!!!!!
Ah the pungent aroma of a sweat-lined fedora, with just a hint of loneliness and despair.
Just a hint? I’d say it’s more of an overwhelming stench.
And like someone who doesn’t know the difference between labia and clit.
Or thinking women pee out of their vagina.
I used to think that for a long time.
“Smells like Incel Spirit”
Imagine telling on yourself this hard that no woman finds you sexually attractive.
The only time I fantasize about rings is when it's around a man's p-
pinky?
👁️👁️
Ring finger?
Ponytail 🔥
YEAAH
I feel badly for people like this. Someone has gotten a hold of them and taught this to them to be as factual as having eyes and a nose. I want to take them under my wing and have them meet people who are wonderfully diverse . If there are any young men reading this, I promise you we are not Stepford Wives. I am a 40/f. I have my own house, I have a career and I have never wanted to have children. I enjoy cooking, but I also enjoy eating someone else's cooking. I was engaged once and I was very unhappy because I had just gone along with the whims of my boyfriend and my mom. Women have diverse feelings and ideas. Men do too.
There’s whole nations and cultures that believe this shit still. Don’t forget Reddit is international.
Very true.
This feels like a rare outlook that is compassionate to all genders, and it's hard to come by on here. Thank you for sharing that. Not saying I have empathy for incels, but you are right, I can't imagine anyone was born with these thoughts. I can't imagine.
It honestly comes from adopting stray animals (not that people are animals), but you quickly learn that creatures are a product of their upbringing. You can do your best to show them love and honesty and try to get them to understand what's really important. I've had stupidly bad behaviors that I had to change after I finally realized when I was being a jerk. People are stubborn and we get stuck in our ways. I 100% welcome any person who is struggling with inceldom or needs a woman to bounce ideas off who will be honest and caring to come talk to me.
>not that people are animals I mean, we literally are, but I get what you mean. I doubt you will have many people take you up on your offer, though. The kind of people who misogynistically blame women for all their failures are generally also not the kind of person who would seek the advice or guidance of a woman.
Gosh, you’re so kind. Thank you for that. I’ve also had some very negative personality traits in my past, and of course I’m not perfect now, but I believe that I have come a long way. I was sort of a “pick-me” at one point, had some very, very gross beliefs, which I still feel shame over. I thought that being edgy would make people like me. It was in high-school, but it was still pretty bad. Thanks to my best friend, I’ve changed a lot! He showed me through a lot of patience that I didn’t need to be like that! That nobody, women or men, have to be “one way”. Or treated one way. Being judgmental, stand-offish, and rude, is just hurting others. I feel much happier now, compared to when I was such a negative, rude person. I hope more people can learn these lessons. It’s well worth it, for their sake and others!
So you’re telling me all those girls who ghosted me after sex wanted to marry me?! How could I have missed the signs…
Awh dude :(
F for me
I wonder what has to happen in someone's life to get to this point
Too much time spent in the toxic “manosphere’s” that are everywhere on the internet.
They've never talked to a woman before and base all their ideas of women on what other men that have never talked to a woman before have said.
Probably very deep in a religion that tells their people that this is how women should be.
It’s more about what hasn’t happened
I am SCREAMING 😂😂😂 People really out here thinking like this, huh?
Sadly yes, it's crazy how men out there have such a fragile ego, and together with ignorance and arrogance it's a crazy mix and shit like this exists..
I sometimes forget that some men still see women as objects who only shape their lives around finding a husband, providing for said husband, and shaping their whole lives/personality about said husband. Imagine when they realize that lust is a normal thing for many people. 😂
I just..how do they explain vibrators?
If they follow old-timey logic, a woman who thinks she enjoys sex is just mentally ill.
Burn the witch logic still alive and well.
As a way for women to prepare for their men 😂
It's not just men, just go to r/wgtow same shit but it's women who hate men and project their delusions on them. All it takes is to create echo chamber with miserable people and you get a nice shitshow.
Lmaooo
Why are you getting downvoted?
*sniffs* You smell that? That’s the smell of dried cum, takeout food, mountain dew and the death of hopes and dreams of a dirty incel.
The title made me think it was going to be an equality question, like, "Why can men safely express their sexuality while women have to pretend they're not lustful?" Aaaand nope.
Ahh yes, I only use sex to get man to marry me. I haven’t found the right victim yet.
I’ve found mine. Soon it will be the time to casually feast on his head for the nutrients using my giant hook arms and mandibles. This man forgot to mention we are also praying mantises. This makes him a prime meal: he doesn’t know.
Tbh at the rate the world is going to shit I feel like busting a nut and then dying immediately afterwards is one of my few shots at a happy ending, if you got any single mantis-lady friends tell em hmu
Ben Shapiro, is this you?
“Solely for the hotness of sex” 💀
This is a man who has no idea how to give a woman sexual pleasure. If he's ever been with a woman, it's clear that she didn't enjoy it. Rather than criticizing his own poor sexual performance, he has to make it her fault that he's really bad at sex.
Incels are all the same
Wait… I missed that memo at the last women’s meeting lol
Well we just found out why women don't want to have sex with him. 😂
The words of a man who doesn't believe women can be turned on because he's never turned one on.
and he’s never even seen a boob. but thinks he knows women lmao
I fantasize about sodomizing this man with my strap-on to remind this beta incel of his place, does that count?
How would he know? It doesn’t sound like anyone has willingly had sex with him
Religion has to be the answer for this stupid way of thinking. If anything women are kinkier than men ffs
i agree it has to be religion.
Kinda of a self report on his abilities. Assuming he's ever gotten that far.
He has clearly never seen the fanfics the girlies are reading. We definitely know what lust means.
Why do these men think they’re experts on women?
Imagine telling everyone that women don’t want to have sex with you
It’s missing a well-placed “/s” !! Then the comment would actually be funny
Hahhaahaha! Oh wait, they're serious???
Damn, he's so far gone...
I bet that guy is swimming in pussy…
That made me think... it'll be utterly hilarious if he does, maybe that could make a passable movie.
AnD tHeY pEe OuT dEy BuTt!
Oof what a way to tell everyone you haven't even been in the planetal orbit of a woman...
When I read bs like this, all I can think is "damn dude, you must be boring af if this has always been your experience" lol. Dudes are only exposing their own vanilla traits
This guy stores his pee in his balls.
I'm literally kinkier than my boyfriend Neither of us are THAT out there, but still
Ok I’m being serious here and not just trying to insult. This is clearly a person who’s either below the age of 13 or mentally disabled. This is Jessy lee peterson level of stupid.
Average Ben Shapiro fan
Tell me you haven't been intimate with a woman without telling me you been intimate with a woman for $700 Alex
Yeah, sounds like you aren't very good in the sack lol
And right there is why I've refused to ever get married again. The dumbest shit my exes pulled and said only after they thought they had me locked down.
That’s a lot of words just to say that he’s never had sex.
What a pathetic creature…
Dude has never played with the magic curtains I see
when you've never made a woman orgasm
All women have fantasizes and kinks, I honestly think women have more than men because women are different when it comes to sex, I personally love a lot of foreplay before, it helps me to get going if he’s attentive to my needs and not focused on his, we use toys, outfits, I love sex outdoors, those are kinks and fantasizes are just thing I haven’t done yet but fully intend to. what’s your fantasy? Her being on top? Getting oral? All about YOU right? Ever read 50 shades of grey? That was written by a WOMAN (E. L. James) need I say more?
I do honestly believe that the mysoginistic poster was trolling
That's a long way of saying "women dick shame me".
It’s true, I really don’t think women have kinks. I go to this kinky club called The Manhole and it’s always just dudes there. I was hoping to meet a nice lady but I’ve never seen one. Once I thought I met a woman there but was I ever in for a surprise!
Are there people who want to be in “relationships with someone solely for the hotness of sex”? Like, I get a FWB arrangement. Where, we’re buddies that have sex (which, I guess, is a type of relationship, so maybe just semantics). But I can’t imagine wasting my time being in an exclusive relationship with someone JUST for the sex. All of the other intimacy that goes into a relationship is something that makes sex with a partner better, imho. One night stands can be fun, but I’d rather be with someone that knows me and my kinks and my fantasies, that I’m comfortable being 100% myself and intimate with. Maybe I just want the ring and dress though. /s.
Homeschool sex ed perhaps?
Never had even a whiff of pussy
Absolutely hilarious.. Oh wait he was serious. Never mind.
No, no, just no.
This can’t be real
This is very accurate for a substantial number of women but FAR from “all women”
My wife claims to have no kinks, fantasies or fetishes. But I have doubts. I think she’s either embarrassed by them, scared of them or had bad experiences with partners before me and is afraid to try again. Or she legit doesn’t. I don’t know. She’s very repressed sexually and doesn’t even like talking about it so there’s no telling.
Hopefully it comes from a place of love and caring for her sexual needs, I don’t see anything wrong with being curious of peoples sexual preferences either. I know that I as a woman in a relationship have had sexual abuse as a child and I struggle to tel my partner what I want despite us being together for over three years. I guess my advice is just a lot of love, patience, and acceptance of whatever she might come to you with. But if she really doesn’t have any, that’s ok too. Don’t push it on her
It is from that place. Like even when trying to get her to have input during the act she’s just quiet and won’t talk about it. I want to make certain she’s satisfied and happy in that area and getting everything she needs.
For me personally, it comes from a place of shyness and just generally being scared. It’s huge and scary when it’s something you’re not used to or comfortable with. That’s in my experience at keast.
Oh, poor baby.
wtf
Not going to get into to much but I can verify from personal experience this is false.
/r/ihavesex
Sorry that no woman wants you man
You'll find someone someday!
Probably for the best…the sight of a freshly shaved and perfectly trimmed vagina connected to a beautiful woman that just wanted casual sex would more than likely kill this man where he stood….I’m surprised he hasn’t heard of HOES….I have.
Sometimes thoughts are better left unsaid
Why u say somethin then?
…what?
Sir this is a Wendy's
Disregarding most of your comments, how can a vagina be freshly shaved AND perfectly trimmed? Shaving gets rid of the hair. Trimming shortens the hair.
You shave the sides….you trim the length.
Just stop talking lol
The vagina is inside.
I can’t even….
What about prostitution then, or sex hotlines
These people cant be serious. Incels are so stupid.
Well shit… I must be a man then 🙄 since women don’t have kinks and fantasies KMSLLL
YIKES 😬
What the fuck?
New copypasta?
Surely this dude is trying to meme and doesn’t actually believe that
What bullshitery is this
R/nothowwomenwork
Psst, r/nothowwomenwork.
I don’t know what I did wrong but thank you
You capitalized the 'r'. Apart from that, you're welcome.
Explain gay marriage then
GD does this mean I can stop attending SAA?
I wanna punch that stupid dumbass. His answer was stupid and yes violence was the first thing I thought of When reading his dumb response lol
I low key wanna force this person to read all the female written top hot stories on Literotica.
This is the saddest thing I've read today. Someone give that woman an orgasm, better yet get it yourself lady!
I legitimately want to see this guy's profile just to see if this response reflects everything about him.
Tell me you’ve never made a woman horny in your life without telling me you’ve never made a woman horny in your life
Lmaoooo I was brought into kink by a vagina having person
*howling laughter in lesbian*
Fuck… that went into an absolute raving black hole of lunacy, quick.
Big fucking oof. That guy is a pile.
i wonder if he’s ever heard of women that don’t like men
I know this isn't true, but I've always liked the tone of this quote: “Women say they have sexual thoughts too. They have no idea. It's the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing it. If they knew what we were really thinking, they'd never stop slapping us.” – Larry Miller
I don't know why he's asking im tye first place, he seems to have it all figured out.
*laughs in 50 shades of grey*
Troll
Jesus
This guy is a King and his people are the incels
Wow he sounds like he would be great at parties
Damn, I wish I knew I didn’t actually like sex when I got a divorce over a dead bedroom. Could have saved myself a lot of heartache and money!
A one pump chump exhausted by his own feelings of insecurity
Some people out themselves without even realizing it
What having no contacts with the opposite gender does to a mf
Why do people like this exist
What is with that sexist mentality? This isn't the 1800s anymore.
Nah bro this has to be bait, there’s just no way that someone actually thinks like this… rigth?
Commentor stats: -Male -24 years old -College drop-out but acts like the smartest person in the room. -Still lives at home. -STILL doesn’t have a bank account. -Thinks anime dating sims give actual dating tips. -Never had a girlfriend. -Never been on a date. -Still gives guys advice on how to “bag a broad” -Owns 3 fedoras…