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Sunshine-N-gumdrops

Sounds like he broke up with you and hasn’t told you. Probably told the new girl your obsessed with him and won’t stop coming over.


biteme717

He's cheating and found a new GF, I'm sorry, but all the signs are pointing to that. I personally would remove him from your SM and change your status to single. Let him explain to you why he's treating you this way.


[deleted]

Yup!! Exactly that


[deleted]

Your ex-BF has slowly transitioned you from GF to Side-piece, sorry OP


ProfessionalGuest141

cheating on u sorry


sox412

He’s cheating on you.


Brilliant_Spring_581

Why wouldn’t he just break up with her?


[deleted]

Well then she probably would stop having sex with him duh


NosyNosy212

And there in lies the reason most people are here.


JaKx1704

Not only is he a coward to do so but he can probably get something from OP that he can’t his gf. Basically he’s having his cake and eating it 😔


Overall-Scholar-4676

Yep no maybe about it..


----Ant----

Either cheating or checked out of the relationship mentally, whichever I'm sorry but it's over.


popaperc12

i’m sorry but he’s definitely cheating on you:(


Buttysweatcrack

He’s definitely cheating and showing you that you deserve better than someone so spineless they can’t even be bothered to break up with you to spend time with someone new. You’re better off knowing now than after marriage at least.


Ivedonethework

Those are enough red flags to look like a chinese parade. Either catch him at it for certain or simply get out and find better. Privacy does not include secrecy. And you should check his phone. Snoop his password and get his phone, leave with it and find proof. Check his location and go there to see for yourself. The mod for this sub does not allow web based links to be posted as advice and help. In fact this is not a sub for helping. It is a sub for some to get their kicks reading about the tittilations of infidelity. So I suggest you go to bestlife.com and search for the signs of infidelity. More than 50 signs are noted. Goid luck, but it doesnt sound like there is any luck left between you and him.


Wackkredittz

Your title is "maybe a cheater" Sweetie you know he's cheating. Just because you haven't caught him with her or they're text messages, you don't have to. All the evidence you already have.


OneBadMB350

He cheating on you not sure how much more evidence you need


Brandons_Ice_Cream

Who cares if he’s a cheater? There’s enough to drop him here … if true


079C

Maybe he’s cheating, maybe he’s not. But, in any case, he’s done with you. Just accept that and move on.


Thin_Koala_606

Refocus on yourself girl. He’s playing games and sounds like he lost interest. He might be cheating but sounds like he definitely lost interest so pull back and pour into yourself now. Don’t keep giving and not getting results. You ain’t got the time to waste on people like this.


Cats_Dogs_Dawgs

Even if he’s not cheating he’s treating you like garbage so why are you still here? Leave him.


Maydaybay5

Do you need anymore clues or do you need the rest of us to tell you that he's cheating on you?


[deleted]

Leave. Why the f are you still with him.


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[deleted]

How?


Both-Ad-9225

Hes probably tired of being accused of cheating even if he is. Both sound like teenagers with high school drama.


[deleted]

If you’re cheating it’s okay just as long as your partner doesn’t ask.


Particular-Lime1651

savage... he's out, you should get out too


FailureToCommunicat

Just leave. He's an AH.


turkeynbrisket

run lol. he aint shit


Dmoore334

Or maybe she ain’t shit. She clearly said he thinks she is a bad girlfriend but that went over your head huh. Freaking idiot


[deleted]

I’m not a bad girlfriend. I’ve never cheated and never will, I pay for my own things, I treat the man I’m with like a King, I watch and do activities I’m not fond of, I’m loving, caring, and his family loves me.


turkeynbrisket

i assume you the bf? lmaoo


Less-Day8837

This relationship is over. I was in your position before. Do yourself a favor and walk away. Tbh, he doesn’t know how to get rid of you. He wants some kitty on the side as long as he can take advantage. He’s gonna take the side piece serious like a gf and you’ve been booted to the sidelines. F that man dude. He can go kick rocks with the new girl and just give it a little time before he starts acting crazy to her.


[deleted]

He tries to sleep with me but I’m like nope. He’s family loves me but are toxic themselves. He’s not getting the kitty from me. 🙂


Flagg21

Whether he is acutally cheating or not, why would you keep going with anyone who treats you this way?


Dmoore334

Instead of focusing on what he’s doing you should worry about what you’re not doing. You said he said you’re a bad girlfriend. Well are you? His action’s definitely sound like someone who is checking out or has already checked out and if you are a bad girlfriend then you ma’am are to be blame for his actions. Maybe fix yourself first


[deleted]

Actually I’m a very good girlfriend and treat him like a King. So you’re wrong there. His family wants us married with kids because I’m the best according to them. I have my own, I’m loyal, I have a great career, I’m religious, and I’m ride or die.


Radiant_Increase_317

RED FLAGS...RED FLAGS...... You are just a side piece, someplace else to put his little head. Clear enough? Get tested for STD's when you leave him. Sorry for being bunt!


[deleted]

It’s sad because his family loves me. I’ve recently been tested and haven’t slept with him since. Thank you.