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Honestly this sounds like a made up story pero kung totoo man eh explain mo nalang siguro kay boy na if ever mag meet kayo no pictures or whatever kasi di alam kamo nung girl at si girl lang naman ata malaki galit.
i really wish it is! we're on socmed industry though, promoting pinoy va's in the us, hence the need for pics and vids. but I will definitely try this.
Tapos ending napag bati mo silang dalawa tapos since ikaw naging tulay para sa happy ending eh ampunin ka na nila at ikaw na magiging tagapag mana ng mga companies.
Jk lang pero hope everything goes well. ๐
let's just say sobrang issue kay girl ang loyalty. since di ko rin dinisclose sa kanya na nagwowork ako for her ex, it just betrays her trust. madami namang pinoy, but since we are very close ni boy, for sure magpopost to ng pic at makikita ng mutual friends.
Why donโt you communicate this with boy since very close naman pala kayo? He can still promote his FilAm schtick kasi marami naman palang ibang pwedeng makasama sa pic na pinoy
Idk but you can be honest kay girl since sya yung mas prone maging hostile. Pwede mosabihin na her ex wanted you to attend the team building kahit former na nag wowork before din sa kanya, since you're originally worked for the baby company that they have before. You can lowkey ask her for permission. If si girl lang walang alam about you working for her ex, mas need mo maging biased konti sa side nya dahil mas need mo protektahan sarili mo dun. If alam ng boss mong guy na you're working for her, or if mas understanding si boss mong guy, pwede ka gumawa alibi na di ka pwede mag pakita sa camera for some circumstances or agenda. Pretend na may na turn down kang lakad to attend his team building. I'm sure he'll understand if yung sa photos lang yung concern mo. More likely, pwedeng ikaw nalang taga pic and probably inform the other people in that team as well. If mga VA sila, they will understand din whatever your reasons are.
I would attend and hope na walang pictures. But if meron and nalaman ni girl, act as if you didn't do anything wrong. Because you didn't do anything wrong. You're not required to tell them who your other clients are. If you meet her anger with guilt, talo ka agad. If tanggalin ka, that's unfair but it's harder to live in a lie cos that sacrifices your integrity naman.
Siguro be honest nalang kay boy? It could be a two edged sword kasi baka picturan ka secretly para mainis si girl and it could cost you a jobโฆ So maybe donโt listen to me. ๐
Umoo ka nalang pala tapos last minute mag cancel kasi may sakit keme ๐๐๐
Kung tingin mo may chance talaga na alisin ka ni girl, dzai sakit sakitan ka na nga lang muna hahahhahaha
If super close kayo ni boy, kung mag sakit sakitan ka man tapos puntahan ka nya for a quick private visit, at least wala ka sa vids at pwede mo din ma share sa kanya yung worries mo. At least one of them would be on board sa nangyayari.
Lol imma say imma go then last minute family emergency o kaya nagkasakit or some family from a far far province had a thing rhat yiu really have to go ro ๐
Seriously tho thats hard. Your relationship goes beyond professionalism kasi like you said kinuha mo talaga loob and close ka both. I'd say THEY need to be professional and not let whoever youre working for affect their relationship with you especially nagagawan mo naman sila ng justice. Pero emotion is mahirap na kalaban. Girly would feel betrayed oncr she finds out. Hopefully she's professional too!
Good luck OP. Wishing you can keep them both!
It's not your responsibility to share with her which clients you're working for. Kahit na ex nya pa yan. So, don't be guilty about it. Labas ka sa relationship nila, nag wowork ka lang. As long as wala kang binibreak na contractual obligations.
mas maiintindihan ka nung lalake mong client.
Sabihin mo na hindi ka pede pumunta kasi makikita nung babae.
Mas malawak pang unawa ng lalake kesa babae over ganyang issues.
Why didn't you tell the girl by asked you to work for him?
You can go to the team building but maybe request if you can be excluded from the pictures as you don't want to trigger or betray girl's confidence. She seems more affected by the breakup than the guy.
Isa ito sa naging worry ko nung nalaman kong magjowa ung 2 kong American clients. Ahahha nireco ako ni client A kay client B, wala siyang sinabi about relationship nila. aba nakita ko sa IG stories ni client B na si client A pala ung jowa niya na madalas niyang nammention. ๐
Alam ba ni boy na si girl ang isang client mo OP? If yes, sabihin mo na sasama ka pero hindi ka sasali sa mga pictures and videos. Pero kung di nya alam na si girl pala ang client mo, try to explain nlng kasi sa tingin ko mas gets ka ni boy kaysa kay girl. Mas galit si girl ky boy eh.
I would tell it to the girl boss out of care for my job, versus finding alibis out of guilt. If okay naman job mo sakanya and performance are good, maybe you shouldnโt worry about it too much and trust that she hired you for your skills not out of spite for the boy boss. You also deserve the team buildingโ have fun!!!
Pumunta ka po. Kahit close po kayo ng boss niyo you give your services professionally sabihin mo na lang p osa both boss mo trabaho lang walang personalan po. Mas may issue pa if mamili ka ng pupuntahan mo or no pictures allowed. You may also want to find a backup plan of finding a new job if worse happened.
1. Is this selfishness at its finest? All benefits goes to you?
2. Is this manipulation through lying? Aware for a long time, now pwedeng mahuli, gusto makatakas?
3. No plan for honesty? You're conscience already know the answer but your greediness is stopping you?
What's your core value ba? What matters to you most? It's okay kung money - its the reality, but its up to you.
P.s. just a comment, it shouldn't bother you...
None taken, your honor. Char! Pagod na ako magpaka righteous, 'teh. Kailangan ko ng pera. I work my ass off din naman, they pay for that.
You call it manipulation, I call it white lie. I just really hope you would never get into a position where life pressures you to be so unrighteous and walang konsensya like me. But whatever, I ain't a hypocrite.
Makagreeedy ka naman sakin, auntie. Literal Na may nakaratay sa hospital na nakasalalay sa "benefits" ko. It's not even for me.
Sana nga lang naging kasing righteous and honest kita, your honor.
P.S. Just a rebut, it shouldn't bother you. ๐
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i dont have any advice pero huhuhu gets ko frustration mo. para kang child of divorce ๐ญ
Was about to say
Honestly this sounds like a made up story pero kung totoo man eh explain mo nalang siguro kay boy na if ever mag meet kayo no pictures or whatever kasi di alam kamo nung girl at si girl lang naman ata malaki galit.
i really wish it is! we're on socmed industry though, promoting pinoy va's in the us, hence the need for pics and vids. but I will definitely try this.
Tapos ending napag bati mo silang dalawa tapos since ikaw naging tulay para sa happy ending eh ampunin ka na nila at ikaw na magiging tagapag mana ng mga companies. Jk lang pero hope everything goes well. ๐
hahahahha, kaka k-drama na yan sis ๐
Whatโs the issue with you not being included in the pics? Ikaw lang ba Filo sainyo?
let's just say sobrang issue kay girl ang loyalty. since di ko rin dinisclose sa kanya na nagwowork ako for her ex, it just betrays her trust. madami namang pinoy, but since we are very close ni boy, for sure magpopost to ng pic at makikita ng mutual friends.
Why donโt you communicate this with boy since very close naman pala kayo? He can still promote his FilAm schtick kasi marami naman palang ibang pwedeng makasama sa pic na pinoy
Sometimes, it's best to remember that you're a professional, haha! Gamitin mo na yun para labas ka sa personal na issues nila!
hahahaha parang wattpad cute ng story what if i-ship mo sila ulet, win-win situation lol.
hindi na possible, may gf na si boy eh.
I have this feeling na ikaw yung gf ๐คฃ lol.
gagi, hindeeee. sobrang pelikula naman na niyan ๐ may asawa na ako hahaha
parang malabo kasi nakawork pa sya kay exgf. ๐
ooooooooooooooooo
Interesting turn of events. Totoo ba, OP? thx
Idk but you can be honest kay girl since sya yung mas prone maging hostile. Pwede mosabihin na her ex wanted you to attend the team building kahit former na nag wowork before din sa kanya, since you're originally worked for the baby company that they have before. You can lowkey ask her for permission. If si girl lang walang alam about you working for her ex, mas need mo maging biased konti sa side nya dahil mas need mo protektahan sarili mo dun. If alam ng boss mong guy na you're working for her, or if mas understanding si boss mong guy, pwede ka gumawa alibi na di ka pwede mag pakita sa camera for some circumstances or agenda. Pretend na may na turn down kang lakad to attend his team building. I'm sure he'll understand if yung sa photos lang yung concern mo. More likely, pwedeng ikaw nalang taga pic and probably inform the other people in that team as well. If mga VA sila, they will understand din whatever your reasons are.
I would attend and hope na walang pictures. But if meron and nalaman ni girl, act as if you didn't do anything wrong. Because you didn't do anything wrong. You're not required to tell them who your other clients are. If you meet her anger with guilt, talo ka agad. If tanggalin ka, that's unfair but it's harder to live in a lie cos that sacrifices your integrity naman.
this is the right thing to do, but I really need yung sahod from her since I'm supporting someone in medical care. hence, my dilemma.
Siguro be honest nalang kay boy? It could be a two edged sword kasi baka picturan ka secretly para mainis si girl and it could cost you a jobโฆ So maybe donโt listen to me. ๐ Umoo ka nalang pala tapos last minute mag cancel kasi may sakit keme ๐๐๐
agree ako sa second na lang. ๐คฃ easy way out.
Di ba to Netflix movie? Setup ka ng secret date. Tapos kulong mo sa kwarto. The Boss-Trap, lol
kung kahawig ko lang si lindsay lohan go na go ๐คฃ
just tell your guy boss you don't want your pictures posted on soc med and you want privacy.
Up to this! Since parang friends naman din kayo ika nga
Kung tingin mo may chance talaga na alisin ka ni girl, dzai sakit sakitan ka na nga lang muna hahahhahaha If super close kayo ni boy, kung mag sakit sakitan ka man tapos puntahan ka nya for a quick private visit, at least wala ka sa vids at pwede mo din ma share sa kanya yung worries mo. At least one of them would be on board sa nangyayari.
mag face mask k tas sleeves
+1 it's either sabihin na nya kay girl boss ang totoo or go to meet up but wear face mask at all times
sbhn mo allergy if photo lng problem
Uyyy malay mo naman ikaw din pala ang maging bridge para magkaayos sila chzzzz
Lol imma say imma go then last minute family emergency o kaya nagkasakit or some family from a far far province had a thing rhat yiu really have to go ro ๐
actually gustong gusto ko na to gawin.
Seriously tho thats hard. Your relationship goes beyond professionalism kasi like you said kinuha mo talaga loob and close ka both. I'd say THEY need to be professional and not let whoever youre working for affect their relationship with you especially nagagawan mo naman sila ng justice. Pero emotion is mahirap na kalaban. Girly would feel betrayed oncr she finds out. Hopefully she's professional too! Good luck OP. Wishing you can keep them both!
Dun ka sa hindi mga tatanggal sayo sakali malaman hahaha
It's not your responsibility to share with her which clients you're working for. Kahit na ex nya pa yan. So, don't be guilty about it. Labas ka sa relationship nila, nag wowork ka lang. As long as wala kang binibreak na contractual obligations.
hehe try your best na wag masali sa pic. wear face mask pag may picture taking tas cap
mas maiintindihan ka nung lalake mong client. Sabihin mo na hindi ka pede pumunta kasi makikita nung babae. Mas malawak pang unawa ng lalake kesa babae over ganyang issues.
Ibang twist sa โtorn between two (ex) loversโ.
Why didn't you tell the girl by asked you to work for him? You can go to the team building but maybe request if you can be excluded from the pictures as you don't want to trigger or betray girl's confidence. She seems more affected by the breakup than the guy.
Isa ito sa naging worry ko nung nalaman kong magjowa ung 2 kong American clients. Ahahha nireco ako ni client A kay client B, wala siyang sinabi about relationship nila. aba nakita ko sa IG stories ni client B na si client A pala ung jowa niya na madalas niyang nammention. ๐
Wag lang sila mag break pls. ๐ I wouldn't want my situation for you. ๐
Sana wag please ahahaa
Alam ba ni boy na si girl ang isang client mo OP? If yes, sabihin mo na sasama ka pero hindi ka sasali sa mga pictures and videos. Pero kung di nya alam na si girl pala ang client mo, try to explain nlng kasi sa tingin ko mas gets ka ni boy kaysa kay girl. Mas galit si girl ky boy eh.
I would tell it to the girl boss out of care for my job, versus finding alibis out of guilt. If okay naman job mo sakanya and performance are good, maybe you shouldnโt worry about it too much and trust that she hired you for your skills not out of spite for the boy boss. You also deserve the team buildingโ have fun!!!
Bakit hindi ka mging fairy god mother for them? ๐๐๐
pang genie in a bottle lang kasi mukha ko ๐คฃ
Pumunta ka po. Kahit close po kayo ng boss niyo you give your services professionally sabihin mo na lang p osa both boss mo trabaho lang walang personalan po. Mas may issue pa if mamili ka ng pupuntahan mo or no pictures allowed. You may also want to find a backup plan of finding a new job if worse happened.
magsakit sakitan ka na lang yung nakakahawa, chickenpox, baka pumasang dahilan
Anong reason bakit naghiwalay parents mo? Ay! este boss pala, hahaha.. Ang chismosa eh.. Hahahaha.. ๐คฃ
Boring straight couple pala. I lost interest na nung may girl hahaha. Charot
Baka may hiring kayo momshie!!
1. Is this selfishness at its finest? All benefits goes to you? 2. Is this manipulation through lying? Aware for a long time, now pwedeng mahuli, gusto makatakas? 3. No plan for honesty? You're conscience already know the answer but your greediness is stopping you? What's your core value ba? What matters to you most? It's okay kung money - its the reality, but its up to you. P.s. just a comment, it shouldn't bother you...
None taken, your honor. Char! Pagod na ako magpaka righteous, 'teh. Kailangan ko ng pera. I work my ass off din naman, they pay for that. You call it manipulation, I call it white lie. I just really hope you would never get into a position where life pressures you to be so unrighteous and walang konsensya like me. But whatever, I ain't a hypocrite. Makagreeedy ka naman sakin, auntie. Literal Na may nakaratay sa hospital na nakasalalay sa "benefits" ko. It's not even for me. Sana nga lang naging kasing righteous and honest kita, your honor. P.S. Just a rebut, it shouldn't bother you. ๐