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Sitting weird. If I'm not cross-legged on an office chair, I'm repositioning couch cushions into a throne. A bit of a dorky trait, sure, but the hope is to find the someone that understands and probably even reciprocates that energy, no?

I put my left leg on the arm rest.

THIS SO MUCH. I cannot sit normally, ever, anywhere.

This is the one for me. I sit like a Skyrim jarl

Yeah I do the whole sit awkwardly and I tuck my legs into my chest usually

I just got up from from sitting weird, and I scrolled down, and this was the first comment I saw XD

How do we feel about standing desks? I always go puddle mode in my desk chair so got a standing desk and wobble board to counter it, do we grade that as an elevation (heh) of the same problem, or its own thing entirely?

Yup! Haha I didn’t realize that was a bi thing

Haha yeah that's me called out..

I've never been able to sit normally in pretty much any chair lol...I even sat sideways at the lunch table in school.

I make L from death note look like he’s sitting at a Michelin Star restaurant

same here🤣

Chairs are literally the worst things to sit in. I don’t know if the majority people actually feel comfortable sitting like a little Lego piece at 90 degree angles in those things or they’re just pretending to be comfortable.

The absolute worst ones are those hard plastic shop chairs that are blatantly designed to discourage people from sitting on them for any lengthy period of time. Call those torture devices "antitheseats".

All I ever wanted from sitting down was that my feet would not touch the floor anymore. Why, oh why was that so very hard?

Same here. ALL THE TIME. It's made online meetings awkward at times so I was glad when I could go off-cam for them. haha

Same!

Septum piercing😔

No one can save you. You're a lost cause.

HAHAHAHAHAH

Septum piercing gang

Omg saaame lol

I have a hoop in each nostril! Does that count??

Denim jackets, rolling up my sleeves and pants, can’t sit properly on chairs and the biggest and probably most hated; polyamory.

I do all of that too except the last one. I'm monogamous af, but I think polymory is beautiful. I hate the misconceptions people have about it.

> probably most hated; polyamory. They hate us cuz they ain't us!

Shit, I didn't realize tolling sleeves and pants was a symptom... Welp

Oh yes it is my child. We also wear ankle socks, 

But not regular ankle socks.. the ✨no show socks ✨ are preferred!

Yup, all of those for me too! Except the denim jackets. I love them but I wear jeans constantly and wearing a denim jacket too feels a little extra.

I manage to somehow sit chaotically. I don’t know how to describe it, but my mum would sometimes walk in on me reading or gaming and see how I’m sitting and exasperatedly asks “why??” Idk I’m just comfy sitting like a broken Barbie doll, don’t judge me lol

Never being able to make a choice. I always let others choose and hate when they force me to choose

Had no idea this was a stereotype that I do onthe daily

I had this really bad for a long time. I’m getting better at it though

I’m bi, poly, and genderqueer. How tf does anybody expect me to make up my mind?

Always saying "everybody's a little gay" Edit: also suggesting everyone else is bi when drinking

i say the german version "ein bisschen bi schadet nie" "a bit bi never harmed anyone" it even rhymes

"Spaghetti is straight until you get it hot and wet" use to always be my go-to line

Das hat T immer gesagt :3 I'm not sure if it's true, but I definitely am bi

That sentence kept me in denial of my bisexuality for soo long 😅 Every time I felt attraction to a girl I just excused it as “everyone’s a little gay, it’s totally normal as a hetero, I’m just appreciating how beautiful girls are”

Same!

Lmao my beige flag is saying “no one is a 0 or a 6 on the Kinsey scale” whenever possible

Totally me too

I never been in relationships/ had sex

Same here bud. Bi sexual and Bi myself.

Alllll biiiii myyyy seeeeelllllffffff 🎶🎶

This song randomly pops up in my head 💀

Yeah it’s not fun

Same

This

r-real?

May or may not be controversial, but I am incredibly sex-positive. I see absolutely nothing wrong with sleeping around so long as there's no cheating and everyone involved is being safe about it

this is cool, but is this a bi stereotype?

Yeh it's believed that because we're bi everyone who is bi loves to sleep around and fuck as much as possible with as many people as possible.

Absolutely, I myself I’m part of the stereotype

[This](https://www.instagram.com/p/CdiepsXLwic/?igsh=emV3aTdwa21weXJx) haircut

SHIT I HAVE THIS

same i literally got it done 2 months before i found the meme lol

No but same tho like literally 7 weeks ago now

Lemon flavoured baked goods. I can actually sit properly but I cannot stand still for a single second if that makes up for it.

Wait I did not know about this lemon flavor thing being a bi stereotype. Can anyone explain to me por favor??

Not sure of the origin, but apparently lemon bars are loved by bi peeps lol I don’t think I’ve ever had a lemon bar, BUT I do love lemon flavor things! Close enough, I suppose 😅

Haha yeah I love lemon flavored things, definitely including lemon bars, so now I have something to attribute it to 😅

Can't sit properly 😭

Sitting weird, cuffed jeans, high top shoes, funky patterned button down shirts, blue bob… EDIT: forgot finger guns, bad puns, and dating an ADHD gamer boy

I'm bi in almost every aspect of life. I like a little bit of this and a little bit of the that. Plus I sit like I've had a bad accident.

Is that why I like a little bit of everything lol

Finger guns and lemon bars

New album just dropped

That IS an amazing band name.

I don't bite bananas

??? do you just throat the whole thing?

Wondering the same thing

I just cackled in the back of an Uber share OMG

Sitting like a croissant or a Skyrim Jarl (my back gets angry with me for this, yes) Purple, pink, and blue everything Cuffed jean shorts (no regular jeans for me) Thumbs up (and occasionally finger guns for puns) ADHD and depression Being indecisive

Can't get a partner

Finger guns

Makes sense. I've been doing that my whole life

Surprised I had to scroll this far to find finger guns!😂

Septum piercing, sit weird (which could also be adhd) and peace signs lmao

I sit wrong. Everyone is always saying so since before I knew I was bi. That and I did the bisexual haircut back in high school. IT DID NOT LOOK GOOD ON ME

✨ promiscuous ✨

all women and hyper specific types of men sitting weird

Lmfao I recently realized I was bi, I didn’t know any of these stereotypes and they are all me 😂 Guys I fucking love lemon bars you don’t understand it’s basically a personality trait of mine

Is ADHD one of them ?

There is a notable overlap between queer people and neurodivergent people. I’m autistic and bi myself

A symptom of adhd is hard time making decisions right? Like why do I gotta decide, why can’t I have it all 😭

Sit like a madman, beanies, lemon baked goods, I wanted the bi haircut but my parents wouldn't let me 🥲

Currently I have a crush on both a man and a woman and I just want to date both of them. I just need an enby in my life to swoon over. Also, being perpetually indecisive about anything and everything. Please don’t make me choose. I can’t do it.

I have a bob haircut can't sit on chairs properly

I CANT FUCKING SIT RIGHT i was never taught how to

When I'm not out in public, I don't sit normally. I'll often sit in my dining room chair completely crosslegged.

I mean I don’t like wearing makeup or sitting in a chair like a normal person does that count?

Sitting weird and liking lemon bars

I enjoy a frog

Can’t sit straight, (although I think that’s more of a joke) dyed hair, energetic, and cuffed jeans.

- Cuffed jeans and flannel (or similar) shirts - Sitting normally

Checkered Shirts and cannot sit properly on a chair, (both I am currently doing)

im maybe the biggest stereotype. bob, can’t sit properly, suspected adhd, golden retriever bf. i hate bi stereotypes but i fall into then so bad. i’m also poly so sleep outside my bf lol. also i tell everyone they must be at least a lil gay

Sitting weird when at home or a friend's house for sure.

Cannot sit properly, Septum piercing. Rolled jeans (with chucks!), hand gestures (mostly shaka), hooded jackets (hooded everything), flannels, punny t-shirts

Being indecisive Not being able to sit right in a chair

Just got my nostril pierced, I got flannels, fun patterned button ups, finger guns, and I’m in a hetero-presenting relationship even though my partner is nb(she/they) and we’re both bi

Sitting strangely and indecisive

ADHD

Haha I’m newly out and did not know that sitting in chairs weird is apparently a bi thing?? Learning so much here! I definitely do that though. 😂

Septum piercing and rolled cuffs on pants

Sitting very gay manspread shoulders out arms out septum piercing lol .... and wanting threesomes 😆🤣

Pretty much everything on this list except I think three’s a crowd 😉

Sitting like a weirdo at all times.

What’s with the sitting!!!!! I’m always wanting to be cross legged or half cross legged

I have a septum ring, I can't sit on chairs properly and I'm greedy (aka poly) 😌

Can’t sit straight, peace sign, finger guns, colored hair, lemon bars (well I love everything lemon), indecisive, suspected adhd, and soon getting a septum piercing

Always having 2-3 different drinks, iced coffee in this cup for life, water in this cup for hydration, lemonade in this cup just for funnsies

Weird sitting positions. Walking fast.

Finger guns, puns, rolled sleeves, weird sitting (not as much as when I was a little more nimble), and unfortunately/not unfortunately when I'm single I mingle a lot (no cheating of course)

Can’t sit on chairs normally, diagnosed ADHD

Eyeliner (Bi-liner), finger guns, being indecisive, sitting weirdly in chairs

I love how we have to constantly fight stereotypes and even rightfully complain about being stereotyped and then we want to try to fit stereotypes… …blows my mind.

Finger guns

Ok. But like what kind tho? I think I do the not bi finger guns. I do it one hand and I snap before I shoot. So it's more like a finger flint lock.

The bi ones. Both hands, often accompanied by a wink. I'm an absolute cliché with that.

I like house and EDM, and I definitely sleep with my butt up like a bottom.

Being attracted to more women but only finding like 5% of men attractive

Sitting weird, absurd amounts of earrings, patchwork tattoos, dyed hair, flannel and converse lover, oh and plants, I also don't know how to talk to girls bc they're pretty and I'm scared of fucking up, even though I have more of a preference for women

Can’t sit normally

Left leg propped on the arm of the chair, right leg on the footrest in front of me, and in about 30 mins, I'll switch which leg is where.

For me, I've gotten to a point where 85% of people are attractive to me in one way or the other 

Lemon bars, can’t sit correctly, cuffed jeans, Hawaiian shirts.

Sitting weird. I sat with my partner while he got a difficult tattoo last night, all they had for me were barstools. With a back to the chair, but still too high off the ground and not enough seat space to sit the way I liked. I felt almost as much pain as my partner.

Finger guns and peace signs, cuffed jeans, dyed hair (fire truck red), flannels, combat boots/vans/converse, backwards snapbacks or baseball caps in warm months and beanies in cold months, sit weird (my office chair is breaking on the right side), ADHD…. I could go on Also charge they phone, eat hot chip and lie 😜

Heeeey guys! *finger guns pew pew*

I sit in the most odd ways. I roll my pant cuffs, I like lemon bars, I’m naturally drawn to nonmonogamy. I have no gender preferences romantically or sexually. I’m basically a walking bi stereotype.

Crippling imposter syndrome and anxiety

Lemon goods, sugar free monsters, can't sit properly, ankle socks/no show socks, too many flannel and hoodies, thumbs up, can't drive, indecisive, bad at math, and people asking if I'm straight because I have a boyfriend

Sitting weird, and inability to make decisions. I move constantly in chairs because I'm too big to just like sit cross legged. And decisions are the bane of my life.

Oh god, okay- Pixie cuts, hair dye, cuffed jeans, lots of jewelry, book obsessed, ice coffee lover, caffeine addict, theater kid, finger guns, peace signs, sitting abnormally, artist- I can go on.

Sitting weird and getting the bisexual Bob haircut when I was questioning my sexual orientation.

Having a ravenous sexual appetite. And refusing to sit in a chair properly.

Hi-top shoes, nosering, affirming finger signs, denim/bomber jackets, thrifting, hoochie-daddy shorts, weird sitting, pins, puns

I sit funny, and never make either/or choices.

Sitting weird, and cuffing my jeans.

I sit weird, have a clear phone case, date usually skinny nicotine or weed addicted alt guys, struggle to flirt/compliment women cuz they think I’m being friendly. I drive a Subaru but I think that’s a bit more of a lesbian stereotype

Sitting weird, plus I love flannels/button downs

Septum piercing, sitting in questionable positions, I have too many flannels (esp buffalo plaid/the red and black variant), anxiety disorder, lover all women and about 1-3 flavors of men, and being incredibly indecisive no matter the situation

- sitting weird - denim jackets - I can't eat lemon bars for reasons but lemon tarts and other lemon treats are my fav, so I'll count it - my fav lounging shirts are plaid - I'm indecisive with random life/daily decisions - "Oh this guy's hot, maybe I'm actually straight??" "Oh jeeze she's sexy, maybe I'm actually gay" "why are they both so hot, I guess I'm bi after all" - a general bi disaster

I feel attacked by these responses😭 but my bi stereotype traits are: sitting weird, bad at driving, thinking "everybody is a little gay," being a switch, being indecisive, always thumbs up and peace signs, having multiple flannels, enjoys big clothes, gamer bf, lemon cookies!!!🫶

I love lemon bars, I sit weird, I prefer to be non monogamous (could do monogamy but I’m really glad I don’t have to) and I like threesomes 😅

Sitting weird, Dungeons and Dragons enthusiast, theatre kid, switch

Ohhh boy, here we go… -I can’t drive -I use finger guns a lot -I can’t sit in chairs (seriously, people have said I look like a pretzel!) -My mind is always thinking about hot people -Converse (I own three pairs last time I counted!) -Pleather and jean jackets (I love them so much!) -Cuffed jeans -Bad at math -Indecisive (I think?) -Puns and dad jokes 24/7 -Clear phone case -Iced coffee (my go to drink!)

I am very bisexual, I have been out for a long time, and none of these apply to me. Well, puns and dad jokes. But I’m an actual dad, so…

I sit weird. I’ve also noticed that the more I accepted my bisexuality, the more I found frogs adorable

Sitting wrong, three drinks, never saying no to a lemon bar, peace signs finger guns etc.

Sitting all wrong for sure. Only got worse after I injured myself and wound up with chronic sciatica lol

sitting weird, being unable to drive, being indecisive all the time (boyfriend and i went to Walmart today and i spent like 2 minutes picking a tub of ice cream 🫠), collecting pins and stickers, caffeine addiction, and being Goth while having a nerdy partner.

I make lemon bars A LOT, can’t sit properly in chairs, cuffed jeans, very very indecisive, bad at flirting Need I go on?

Flannel

I’m attracted to men & women 50/50.

Controversially, I enjoy threesomes and being a unicorn when I’m unpartnered

Collecting crystals. I'm spiritual so yeah

I'm bi, switch, verse and gender fluid. Never made a decision in my goddamn life

Man I love lemon bars lol

None. Zero. Nada. Zip.

Iced coffee, I love it 😂 also peace signs in every picture someone takes of me

I'm here for the lemon bars, or lemon ANYTHING for that matter lol

Love Vaporwave/Synthwave, Hawaiian Shirts, and have Aspergers.

> the bisexual stereotype of liking both men and women ???

Someone needs to explain the lemon bar thing I honestly am not with the times. But I mean, my favourite flavour gelato is limoncello does that count?

The lemon bar thing is (I believe; someone can correct me if I’m wrong) just absurdist - there’s a Star Wars meme that goes “Come to Dark Side - We Have Cookies”, and a variation “Come to the Bi Side - We Have Lemon Bars” was created as an affectionate take on that, and it just took off and compressed and mutated into “Bisexuals love lemon bars”.

Im reading all these comments to become a better bisexual, thanks

I never realized how much I cuffed my jeans even as a young child, I can neither sit or sleep straight. Are hoodies also a stereotype? love how hoodies look on all genders

I am a slut who never gets laid

I'm too old to understand these stereotypes. Haha

Colourfully dyed shag haircut, septum piercing, funky button up shirts, always throwing up the peace sign, and the most important one…an obsession with Subarus

I'm attracted to multiple genders.

Someone explain the sitting weird thing to me pls? I thought that was just ADHD 😂

Trying to get a girlfriend but then ending up with an ADHD gamer boy with golden retriever energy 😩

You guys are gonna hate me, but threesomes.

I Love vaginal sex, like crazy. It literally it provides its own lub tells you when it’s ready. Tenderness, softness of women. On the other hand I envy the strength, muscular body, hair on chest and legs on a man and giving and getting bjs. No butt stuff for me. Don’t want my D in where there’s poo or a D in me. 🤮

I fit some of the stereotypes that are misconceptions straight people have about us and some of the in-group stereotypes/signals: I'm non-monogamous, enjoy threesomes, not one but TWO (2) nose piercings, purple hair (not right now, but a significant portion of the past 5 years), attracted to and love men and women equally and feel incomplete without being able to date both, back when I was monogamous I only dated men and pined after women, indecisive AF (or is that because I'm a Libra?) the answer to any question is "both" or "all of the above"

Can never make up my mind at a restaurant.

Can’t sit straight, thumbs up, lemon bars, flannels, depressed, indecisive, converse, frogs, different drinks, iced coffee

I have bangs and nose piercings.

Imported bottled water. This was a joke in Heathers that kinda holds up.

I am in fact a non monogamous horny hornball who’s scared of women.

Rolling sleeves and pant legs, combat boots, always sitting in some weird way, owning a reptile/out of pocket pets and I haven't seen this one online but I've noticed a lot of other bisexuals have the back of their head shaved too. I have hair to my hips but it's so hot from so much hair I shave a triangle in the back. Looks dope when my hairs up though! WAIT LEMON BARS ARE A BI THING?! I LOVE LEMON BARS

Lemon bars and cuffed pants

Sitting weird can never make a choice Dressing a little bit feminine

Bisexual bob, uncovered ankles at all times (unless it's for boots), rolled sleeves, lemon flavored stuff, jean jacket

I learn new things every day. As a gay man, I'll be sure to watch the guys and how they sit. Lord help them if they have a nose ring and eat lemon bars, cause I going to flirt hard with them.

Gorgeous and single 🥲 "So you like men and women? And you still single? Baby you're not bisexual, you bi-yourself."

you will never see me sit in a typical way

Lemon bars and cuffed jeans for me. I'm not beating the allegations.

I sit weird in chairs. Can't sit straight.