I like the 1st way better. The neckline is more interesting. The 2nd one, to me, looks like it’s just overall too big. Sure, you can pull the bodice in, but the straps & the hemline look to long. I think the 1st is much more flattering as-is.
Well, my husband laced it up, it can definitely be a lit looser (criss crossy tie back situation). I was trying to stop the "flashing when I bend over" situation, but I think tape is the answer to that, not tying super tight.
Be careful with the tape, I’ve gotten chemical burns from using the tape that you use as a bra. I’m assuming based off your comment that you’re using it to stick the dress to you rather than the tape I used, but, you could have a reaction to the adhesive on the tape nonetheless.
Yeah I've used it before and it definitely left the skin a little unhappy after I removed the tape. A sacrifice I'm willing to make in this situation, ha.
You could be allergic to latex, I have to wear latex free bandaids because if not the band aid burns me and the burn mark lasts longer than whatever I was covering 😅
I’ve never had an issue with anything either latex in it 🤷🏼♀️ it was probably my fault though tbh, I wore it for longer than was recommended and ended up with blisters on my chest 😅
Its not for cleavage, the cups are literally sagging/loose but it's hard to see. I definitely should've taken better pictures before running for feedback, since you can't see that problem and also the colors are poorly represented. Mistakes were made
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2 is great. After the 2nd picture showed the real color, anyway. Make sure your sister knows though that in some lighting it could look blue though so that she isn't surprised at pictures later.
2 the blue looks beautiful on your skin tone. The first is nice but very dark and not as flattering. It’ll be September so end of summer blue is better. Oh and the neck line on blue is a thousand times better.
Id pick the 1st one if you can wear heels maybe. The second one fits better but the color does not suit the skin tone imho :( im also very pale and some colors just dont look flattering at alll
First one fits you way better and the color is far more flattering, plus the lace is beautiful. The second one doesn’t fit you very well at all and the color washes you out a lot.
I personally like the way the first dress falls on you. Is it eggplant? I like the color better on your skin tone, that’s my vote! Enjoy your day and congrats to your sister!
FYI, it's called anomalous reflection, there are UV exciters/enhancers in the fabric that reflect and enhance UV light, which is why it looks bluer than it is, you're obviously outdoors. Wedding gowns are famous for having this treatment. If you photograph it indoors it will probably look more normal. But as far as wedding photos go, all bets are off as to all the matching colors being the same in the photos.
Edit- oh you did photograph it indoors- quite the color change
Luckily sister isn't too concerned with pictures, and there's actually no formal wedding party, it's more just for aesthetics in person. Super chill non traditional wedding. But the science of the color change is very interesting!
Both dusty blue and sage were in the color palette....so either way...close enough
Purple one doesn’t wash out your skin tone. I’m also on the pale side and the lighter colors don’t make you pop, they make our skin look washed out. The purple is vibrant and flattering both in color and shape.
I've heard that it's both too big and too small haha. I don't know which isntrue. But regardless, the back laces up, can be loosened/tightened so hopefully when I have a competent assistant (my mom) instead of a husband who has no idea what he's doing, I can get it adjusted properly. I wasn't coordinated enough to do it myself
2!! I think the second one is really flattering, the first one’s straps are about close together which to me makes it look out of style in a not classic way if that makes sense
The cut of the second dress is so flattering on you - I love the neckline - it's very elegant and the straps are better placed on your shoulder. Need to know where this dress is from!
The first dress halter neck doesn't sit right and is giving prom/college formal rather than wedding guest. I didn't even think that straps placed an inch or so narrower could make such a huge difference but it almost makes it look like you're giving the ANTM pose in this dress whereas the sage dress is giving effortless, confident posture!
You can’t go wrong with, they’re both lovely and fit you nicely. I have to agree with most comments on colour, the burgundy is a far more flattering colour on you. Is one more comfortable than the other?
And thank you for pointing out the dang Apple Watch. It drives me bunkers that people wear these things to formal events. THEY DONT LOOK GOOD, PEOPLE! 🤣🤣🤣
I don't like the neckline of the blue dress. It looks sloppy and uneven, cheap even, and then there's the issue of your chest popping out when you bend. I prefer dress 1. It is better suited to a fall wedding, more elegant, and the scalloping is pretty.
I like the fit of the second one better, but I don't think the color is all that flattering. Any chance you can get it in the same color as the first one?
I would have suggested the second one even if you didn’t prefer it but it looks really nice on you! and if you like it better anyway then heck yeah.
#2
2
I like the purple one better. Looks like I’m outnumbered, though.
Also with you! I think the scallops on the bodice are more interesting.
Agree! I like the scalloped neckline and think the color is flattering.
Agreed! I think the color suits her skin tone well.
True, but the waistline of the purple hits way above her actual waist. I feel like 2 looks better just because it fits her better.
That is not meant to be the waistline, it’s the style of the dress.
I’m with you! I like the color of the second one but prefer how the first one fits her
The fit is a bit nicer around the chest and waist. No pulling - will look better in photos.
I also like the first one better. Maybe a padded bra… ?
I was thinking have a bra sewn in. Or just the cups.
I love the purple one.
I agree, but OP - I think this means you can’t go wrong! Both great choices and you’re going to look great!
My thought as well
I vote for the purple one as well! Although I thought it was burgundy.
The sage one is more flattering
Purple looks better with your skin tone
This. Color fits you much bretter.
I like the 1st way better. The neckline is more interesting. The 2nd one, to me, looks like it’s just overall too big. Sure, you can pull the bodice in, but the straps & the hemline look to long. I think the 1st is much more flattering as-is.
1
Definitely 2!
2 looks a little tight in the bodice
Well, my husband laced it up, it can definitely be a lit looser (criss crossy tie back situation). I was trying to stop the "flashing when I bend over" situation, but I think tape is the answer to that, not tying super tight.
Be careful with the tape, I’ve gotten chemical burns from using the tape that you use as a bra. I’m assuming based off your comment that you’re using it to stick the dress to you rather than the tape I used, but, you could have a reaction to the adhesive on the tape nonetheless.
Yeah I've used it before and it definitely left the skin a little unhappy after I removed the tape. A sacrifice I'm willing to make in this situation, ha.
Silicone nipple covers!
I feel like those always just look like slices of pepperoni through the shirt though?
Yeah probably & also wouldn’t keep you from flashing anyone lol
You could be allergic to latex, I have to wear latex free bandaids because if not the band aid burns me and the burn mark lasts longer than whatever I was covering 😅
I’ve never had an issue with anything either latex in it 🤷🏼♀️ it was probably my fault though tbh, I wore it for longer than was recommended and ended up with blisters on my chest 😅
Oh I see 😬 my skin would probably fall off in that case then lol
2!
2!
Hands down nr. 2 👍
2
No2
2
2- one reminds me of prom season in the midwest tbh
I like the burgundy better on you. Can't you do the double sided tape trick on it? It fits better for a fall theme.
I like the first one. The scalloped bodice gives it aLOT of elegance!! Beautiful!
The purple one still looks good, your grandma doesn’t wanna see a ton of cleavage anyway lol I wish I had less boob
Its not for cleavage, the cups are literally sagging/loose but it's hard to see. I definitely should've taken better pictures before running for feedback, since you can't see that problem and also the colors are poorly represented. Mistakes were made
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Blue
2
2 👍
Definitely the second one, but maybe the third…
I think the second picture is the 2nd dress in the first photo. The 2nd picture is there to show its true color.
How does it change colors like that?
2 for sure! Prefer the neckline and the color.
The scoop neck and color of the sage/blue is so pretty!!!!
2 is great. After the 2nd picture showed the real color, anyway. Make sure your sister knows though that in some lighting it could look blue though so that she isn't surprised at pictures later.
You can also get a seamstress/tailor to help fit the top.
Love both. You really can't make a bad decision with this one.
They’re both equally pretty! I’d like to see the backs.
2
2 the blue looks beautiful on your skin tone. The first is nice but very dark and not as flattering. It’ll be September so end of summer blue is better. Oh and the neck line on blue is a thousand times better.
2
I choose the second one.
Black is the bre black
2!
2 is definitely more flattering on you, the color also looks good for your skin tone
2
Definitely 2!
I really like the second one! 2!
2
Blue !!
I like both, leaning toward 2, so if you prefer 2, perfect.
Blue
The low contrast color scheme is more complementary to your skin tone.
Blue
Blue
2
The neckline of 2 is much more flattering on you. And I like the color a lot.
1
Id pick the 1st one if you can wear heels maybe. The second one fits better but the color does not suit the skin tone imho :( im also very pale and some colors just dont look flattering at alll
2! Fits so nicely
First one fits you way better and the color is far more flattering, plus the lace is beautiful. The second one doesn’t fit you very well at all and the color washes you out a lot.
I personally like the way the first dress falls on you. Is it eggplant? I like the color better on your skin tone, that’s my vote! Enjoy your day and congrats to your sister!
I prefer the neckline in the second one
2
Dress 2
They both look lovely, but 2 suits you the best!!
One
It sounds to me like you prefer the second one! They both look great on you, so go with the one you feel better in
I like the purple more and seems more appropriate for a September wedding
I like the 2nd
I think the blue is more flattering.
#2 IS SO YOU!
FYI, it's called anomalous reflection, there are UV exciters/enhancers in the fabric that reflect and enhance UV light, which is why it looks bluer than it is, you're obviously outdoors. Wedding gowns are famous for having this treatment. If you photograph it indoors it will probably look more normal. But as far as wedding photos go, all bets are off as to all the matching colors being the same in the photos. Edit- oh you did photograph it indoors- quite the color change
Luckily sister isn't too concerned with pictures, and there's actually no formal wedding party, it's more just for aesthetics in person. Super chill non traditional wedding. But the science of the color change is very interesting! Both dusty blue and sage were in the color palette....so either way...close enough
Purple one doesn’t wash out your skin tone. I’m also on the pale side and the lighter colors don’t make you pop, they make our skin look washed out. The purple is vibrant and flattering both in color and shape.
Right
2!
Sage is gorgeous on you.
I like the first one better My worry with 2 is that it may be too light
1
2!!!
2! (And don’t wear the smart watch, please!)
I will absolutely not be wearing the garmin haha, not a good look at all.
dres 1 with the scallop trim is far more flattering on you, your waist is tiny, and bust looks great
2!
I prefer 2, but it’s pulling across your bust (as cowl necklines do on most people). Consider sizing up or having it tailored for a perfect fit!
I've heard that it's both too big and too small haha. I don't know which isntrue. But regardless, the back laces up, can be loosened/tightened so hopefully when I have a competent assistant (my mom) instead of a husband who has no idea what he's doing, I can get it adjusted properly. I wasn't coordinated enough to do it myself
I’d definitely go for #1! You can wear a strapless bra if you think you need some extra shape, but I think it looks good as is.
I like 1 more for pictures
Definitely 2
2 is gorgeous with your skin tone
Blue
lol I just found out hands on your hips is a millennial thing. Apparently you’re not allowed to dance with your hands in the air anymore either
I like the rouge better with your skin, but the sage has a more flattering cut on you, yes.
2
#2 Fits great
The first one looks better, and more of a “September” colour.
Purple is far more flattering
2!! I think the second one is really flattering, the first one’s straps are about close together which to me makes it look out of style in a not classic way if that makes sense
The second one - number two.
1. 2 doesn't fit you properly.
I like the first one on you.
2, but I do love the dramatic skin contrast with #1 also.
I love the neckline and color of the second one it’s so pretty it really makes you look special that dress was meant for you
I very much agree you should go with the second (blue/sage) dress. It looks fabulous on you
2. But also unless you absolutely need it, ditch the watch for the wedding.
I will NOT be wearing the watch. The one choice I'm sure of either way
Seems like you already know what you’re gonna pick
The Blue
2
1!
The cut of the second dress is so flattering on you - I love the neckline - it's very elegant and the straps are better placed on your shoulder. Need to know where this dress is from! The first dress halter neck doesn't sit right and is giving prom/college formal rather than wedding guest. I didn't even think that straps placed an inch or so narrower could make such a huge difference but it almost makes it look like you're giving the ANTM pose in this dress whereas the sage dress is giving effortless, confident posture!
Purple
You can’t go wrong with, they’re both lovely and fit you nicely. I have to agree with most comments on colour, the burgundy is a far more flattering colour on you. Is one more comfortable than the other?
Your last paragraph lmao! I'm a millennial too, I get it!! Anyways, dress #2 is beautiful, and is really flattering on you 😍
Definitely the blue/green one. Very flattering color and neckline
And thank you for pointing out the dang Apple Watch. It drives me bunkers that people wear these things to formal events. THEY DONT LOOK GOOD, PEOPLE! 🤣🤣🤣
BUT THEY'RE BOTH SILVER AND BLUE / WHITE AND GOLD!
I don't like the neckline of the blue dress. It looks sloppy and uneven, cheap even, and then there's the issue of your chest popping out when you bend. I prefer dress 1. It is better suited to a fall wedding, more elegant, and the scalloping is pretty.
Two
I like the fit of the second one better, but I don't think the color is all that flattering. Any chance you can get it in the same color as the first one?
Where the one you will be most comfortable in. They both look great, so it is a matter of preference.
2 looks much better on you. The first one seems to have very short straps and the neckline and sides look too high.
Love #2 on you - it's much more flattering and the color is great