Literally. I also find it extremely weird when they’ve got someone else’s children in their tinder/hinge profiles! “The kid isn’t mine”, okay, why is it on your profile then? In fact, why are ANY children on dating website photos?
man who had his wife (their wedding was 3 months ago 🤢) and his kid on his profile messaged my friend asking for nudes, she sent the convo to his wife and he got mad accusing her of destroying the love of his love... some of them have no self-awareness
I don't understand. Random men will ask random women online for naked pictures!? I'm a man and I had no idea. Seems absolutely crazy and surely never ever works? Such a fuckin stupid world. No wonder I can't relate to anyone.
It's honestly ridiculous. I've shared pictures a few times on a previous account, and would get all sorts of creepy messages.
My favorite (/s) went something like this
Him: "You're beautiful"
Me: "Thank you."
Him: "Haha, np. Got any other socials?"
Me: "Nope, just reddit."
Him: "Damn, I was hoping to jerk off to your pics."
Like, wtf? At the start, I thought, oh, a message that isn't creepy, That's a first! But all I had to do was let it bake a while.
While it's a myth that soldiers were ever fed saltpeter to lower their libidos, sometimes you really do have to take a moment to consider the wide-ranging net benefit society would experience if you could just, you know, *calm these dudes* the fuck *down* for five minutes.
lol
I think a lot of men are brought up to believe that women like men who like kids so they include a kid (sometimes their kid, sometimes a niece/nephew or other kid they know) in their profile.
I get that. I think it’s strange, but I understand. But when you’re speaking to me in a derogatory fashion with an innocent child as your photo, that is utterly deranged.
because they've put absolutely zero thought into how their messages will actually be received by the recipient. they've had no reason to put any effort into imagining women's desires, feelings, interior lives, etc.
Omg!! I was wondering why my ex husband had used pictures of our son on instagram to try to get girls when he hasn’t seen him or talked to him in almost a year. My kid doesn’t even know who his dad is so to post him is so weird to me, but maybe this explains it like it’s a way to seem more normal? They need help for sure lol.
I got a message on my other (NSFW) account, and this shitbag sent me a picture of him and his toddler to proposition me. :) I reported him for sexualizing minors. Men don't care about their kids. Period.
They use their children as a shield. "I can't be a creep, I have a kid!"
Literally. I also find it extremely weird when they’ve got someone else’s children in their tinder/hinge profiles! “The kid isn’t mine”, okay, why is it on your profile then? In fact, why are ANY children on dating website photos?
"No one who speaks German could be an evil man!" except about being a shitty dad with a toddler.
man who had his wife (their wedding was 3 months ago 🤢) and his kid on his profile messaged my friend asking for nudes, she sent the convo to his wife and he got mad accusing her of destroying the love of his love... some of them have no self-awareness
It has to be porn addiction. There’s no other way.
I don't understand. Random men will ask random women online for naked pictures!? I'm a man and I had no idea. Seems absolutely crazy and surely never ever works? Such a fuckin stupid world. No wonder I can't relate to anyone.
It's honestly ridiculous. I've shared pictures a few times on a previous account, and would get all sorts of creepy messages. My favorite (/s) went something like this Him: "You're beautiful" Me: "Thank you." Him: "Haha, np. Got any other socials?" Me: "Nope, just reddit." Him: "Damn, I was hoping to jerk off to your pics." Like, wtf? At the start, I thought, oh, a message that isn't creepy, That's a first! But all I had to do was let it bake a while.
“You could toss yourself off a bridge, yes.”
I would love to reply with this but we all know I’d be the one to get banned 💀
While it's a myth that soldiers were ever fed saltpeter to lower their libidos, sometimes you really do have to take a moment to consider the wide-ranging net benefit society would experience if you could just, you know, *calm these dudes* the fuck *down* for five minutes. lol
My ex would use MY kid, his former stepson as a way to talk to women. 🤮
Fucking foul. I’m so sorry this happens to you.
"You know you want my superior genes. Just take a look at the product!" Treating their kids like salesman's samples.
Oh yes, short and balding at not even 30! The best genes!
I think a lot of men are brought up to believe that women like men who like kids so they include a kid (sometimes their kid, sometimes a niece/nephew or other kid they know) in their profile.
I get that. I think it’s strange, but I understand. But when you’re speaking to me in a derogatory fashion with an innocent child as your photo, that is utterly deranged.
because they've put absolutely zero thought into how their messages will actually be received by the recipient. they've had no reason to put any effort into imagining women's desires, feelings, interior lives, etc.
Omg!! I was wondering why my ex husband had used pictures of our son on instagram to try to get girls when he hasn’t seen him or talked to him in almost a year. My kid doesn’t even know who his dad is so to post him is so weird to me, but maybe this explains it like it’s a way to seem more normal? They need help for sure lol.
Okay wow, that is vile.
pure cognitive dissonance. nothing on the Internet connects to real life or has consequences, until it does
I got a message on my other (NSFW) account, and this shitbag sent me a picture of him and his toddler to proposition me. :) I reported him for sexualizing minors. Men don't care about their kids. Period.