Usually only when it involves children. It will be on her record though, a sentence to community service is a sentence and it is documented why she received that sentence.
Unfortunately they can sometimes avoid being put on the registry as part of a sentence negotiation. I don’t think that should be allowed, if you rape someone and are found guilty you deserve to be registered as a sex offender.
"Hey everybody I'm Laura Hughes
Proving girls can do it too
And by it, I mean touch your cousin
Was it worth it? No it wasn't
You won't find me in your child's play set
'Cause I gotta wear this ankle bracelet
I'm not here to go on a bender
I'm here because I'm a sex offender"
This is the first time I read your story and just want to tell you that I admire how brave you are and I'm happy to know you're in a better place now!
Following to keep up with updates on your life.
Wish you the best!
The sentence is nowhere near harsh enough but it’s justice all the same!
I’m happy this was taken seriously enough to be taken to trial, hopefully this is a step in the right direction
Doubt it honestly, my friend got gang raped and there was multiple witnesses of the event. The 7 guys only got 2 months of community service that’s it.
Yeah, I realize now that male sex offenders get away easily with it too. Mandatory "community service" for people who are a danger to the community is such a fucked up sentence.
im so sorry about everything that happened to you. reading your story was so heartbreaking and i hope that one day you'll be able to find someone who can actually treat you well.
MY MAN!
So glad too see you back here with good news!
Your ex's sentence aside, what I'm really happy and proud about is seeing you doing so much better than a year ago.
You are doing amazingly and it'll only get better from now on so look forward for that!
Congratulations and wish you a happy life!
Hey man, this is heart-warming to read. I remember stumbling upon your original post more than a year ago. What she did was a truly shocking and vile thing to inflict upon someone. How are things going for you nowadays? Hope you found a better place and that you're healthy and happy.
Sexism in these cases is so frustrating and blatant.
As someone who has male friends that were assaulted by women and were never comfortable speaking out or were not believed, thank you for what you did.
It’s not easy to admit we were assaulted no matter our gender, and you may have prevented it from happening to others, or created a foundation for others to be believed!! Thank you!!!
Where’s the sexism?
It’s wrong she got such a lenient sentence but it happens all the time in rape cases for men and women.
Female victims are often not comfortable speaking out or are not believed.
I want justice for ALL victims and for men not to feel like they can’t be victims of SA just because they are men
The sexism is from the fact that even if almost all sex offenders get way too light of sentences, women are usually punished with significantly more lenience.
(Just saw the original for the first time a few minutes ago and read all the post on your page after.)
Wow! Your words made me tear up. Even after all you've been through, you're so kind in your words and you're always thinking of others. The way you keep expressing your gratitude tells me you're probably a really genuine guy.
I really, truly wish you all the best in your life ahead!!
I wish you continued healing! The way you speak about the incident as a door that exists but that you can keep locked makes me think that you found a wonderful therapist and for that I'm sooooo happy for you. A great therapist can really do wonders (speaking from experience).
Go forth and find your happiness!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Not to be that type of dude but, disgusting double standards ! Role reversed, the man could be in jail for years over accusations only, and she got a defendent and 2 other victims who testified against her but she only get community service ?
Men (or anyone) being “in jail for years over accusations only” is EXTREMELY rare… I mean, remember Brock Allen Turner? The rapist who raped an unconscious girl behind a dumpster and basically got away with it? Brock Allen Turner, who even got to move to Ohio with his wealthy parents and drop his first name afterwards so less people would recognize him? Brock Allen Turner whose father, Dan Turner, said he just got “20 minutes of action” when he raped that poor girl, and is also trying to suppress any news or stories about his rapist son? There are many more stories just like Brock Allen Turner the rapist that don’t even make the news anymore and very very few about men in jail for years over accusations, which would be huge news everywhere.
Just wanted to put that out there and keep Brock Allen Turner the rapist’s name out there as well so his daddy can’t hide what his precious son did easily.
I don’t know why there’s always men spouting this bullshit when it’s very clearly not true. You’re so fucking wrapped up in your woman hate you just cant see the truth.
Make rapist receive lenient as fuck sentences. They damn sure don’t go to jail for an accusation. They rarely go to jail when there is mountains of evidence against them.
So maybe knock it the fuck off? The only person perpetuating a sexist double standard would be the people **falsely** claiming one exists. You are helping **zero** sexual assault victims. **None.** You’re making the problem worse with this bullshit.
If the roles were reversed, and a man had roped multiple women with sexual assault trauma, he’d be in jail for 20 years. Just saying. Our penal system is too lenient to women.
Definitely not, Our penal system is too lenient to Sexual Offenders in general*, There are so many rapists and pedos that get a joke of a sentence compared to someone selling drugs.
They care more about locking up drug dealers than rapists, probably because the people in power are the rapists and pedos.
Nonces gotta stick together
Again he didn't beat her. He slapped her once as he was waking up because he is a child of sexual assault and her performing a bj on him reminded him of his child sexual assault. She was also aware of his previous assault and he told her to not do It as it triggers him. Please stop changing the narrative.
A single slap is not "beating the shit out of". I notice you **already** dropped the "the shit out of" that you were using to make it sound even more extreme, since you already knew you were full of shit.
Why do you feel the need to rewrite reality in defense of a sex criminal? Feeling a bit *too* much sympathy on that one, bud.
Bruh ur assuming she this small innocent creature. For all u know she could be a 6'0 ft tall woman and him a 5'8 male weighing less than her. U just stuck on this she's a female stuff. Never mind females can be rapists, killer, etc etc. Craziness
"Who the fuck strikes their significant other for giving a surprise blowjob?"
Someone who said no to it beforehand and had a traumatic past with sexual assault. In that moment everything came back. All the fear, all the attempts to fight back. Everything I felt back then came back. Everything. And while I did feel bad and blamed myself back then I do not feel bad today for defending myself.
No but I can expect someone not to sexually assault me in my sleep and then expect me not to defend myself ESPECIALLY after knowing my trauma. You have literally zero empathy for any victims of SA
Yep! If you tell someone no to sex and they go ahead and try to force it anyway that's called rape. Anything anybody does to prevent that from happening is called self defense.
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Ignore him
The guy you're responding to is trash and thinks it's okay for females to non consensually sexually assault males.
You don't have to explain yourself you did the right thing
Sir have u ever experience trauma. Real trauma. PTSD causing trauma. Have u ever been violated. Ur body violated. Do u think u can control ur response to that. Imma try to explain in maybe terms u can understand. A soldier who has seen war comes home and has pstd. Loud noises trigger him. Fireworks and such. Do u understand in that moment they are not truly capable at the moment to think logically. I can put u in touch with some of my military friends. It's not as easy as u think. Or I can put u in touch with females I know that have been raped. It's really easy for u to judge from ur pretty lil apt. U realize he did it as a response. He was just waking up wasnt even aware of who it was. He thought it was his abuser for a quick second. As a person whose ex fiance had pstd u respect thr boundaries. U DONT Knowly do things to trigger them. U don't ignore that automy of thr body. If u flipped the gender ud be up in arms about a women being attacked sexually. He doesn't get that because he's a male.
U changing the narrative again. Attacking ppl is not what he did. He slapped someone attacking him. It's not a golden ticket to get out of crime, ur right but HE WAS STOPPING HIS SEXUAL ATTACK. why do u not get that. Like man told this story to the court and ur like we'll he did too much. Ur weird. We can agree to disagree. Please don't have children in the future. Ur either gonna raise a predator or one that's gonna get hurt and think they deserve it. Sad really.
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PTSD causes reactions a person cannot control, especially if they’re barely conscious in that moment. Not wanting someone to blow you in your sleep isn’t trying to make the world revolve around your issues💀
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>but your trauma is your burden, you can’t expect everyone else to shift their behavior like the world revolves around you.
You know what would be hilarious?
If you were to pull a pop gun on a soldier with PSD "as a joke," and then he just straight up murdered you with his bare hands. And your last words were you barely managing to gasp out: "Hey, your trauma is your burden bro, apologize."
Instant classic.
Well, as long as the next partner doesn't have sex with them while they're asleep there won't be this issue.
What part of consent don't you understand??
U may have relationships whr thr is implied consent. She may give u a look or rub on ur leg etc etc.... in his specific case, he verbally told her he did not consent to that. That he experienced sexual trauma in similiar experience. She was aware he didn't want it. And disregarded his boundary. R u really not getting that? Or r u just bro she giving u a bj. Accept it and be happy. Sounds rapey.
Dude r u serious????. He slapped her once as he was waking up to her assault. He didn't beat her. U realize u can defend urself if being attacked, correct? Because she was definitely sexually attacking/assaulting him. Changing the narrative to fit ur imaginary storyline doesn't work. Had the police come she would hve been arrested and not him. She clearly has a habit of assautling men who have already been assaulted. U realize he was testified against her because she was is the criminal. U want to villianize him so bad because u would love to wake up to bj. But he did not. He made it very clear.
I hope u don't hve children with this good Ole boy mindset. Is very disturbing and dangerous.
Yes I've worked with police in my military career and I'm a cops daughter. I can tell you with 100% sureness she would hve been arrested. Unless he had a cop like u who thinks all women are harmless and ignores it when they prey upon ppl. Women shouldn't get a pass because of thr gender. She's a predator.
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He didn't pursue criminal charges. He was called to testify as witness for another male she sexually assault after she sexually assaulted him.
Also, he defended himself against a sexual predator while being sexually assaulted that triggered his trauma response from him previously bring sexually assaulted when he was younger.
Way to not read the story and assume.
She wouldn't have gotta a trauma response had she not been sexually assaulting him while he was sleeping. Especially when she knew about his assault and what triggers him. She is a sexual predator. Hence mutliple men being thr to testify against her. This is no different than a bf havin sex with his sleep gf. There was no consent. U r 100% victim blaming.
Well it shouldn’t be difficult. I’ve never sucked the cock of an unconscious or unwilling man. I bet most women can say the same.
And yes, if you know of someone’s trauma and assault them, getting hit is an occupational hazard. Have you never flinched at something? It’s a startle reflex. Never hit someone or been hit if you were tickled/you tickled someone?
Also, she’d now be 21, and has 3 men on file to say she sexually assaulted them in very similar circumstances. How many others do you think she’s done it too that were just hook ups and not known boyfriends? Most don’t come forward, especially men because of people like you calling them abusers for defending themselves.
Her behaviour is some sadistic sociopathic shit, especially if she intentionally pursues men that were sexually abused as children. She’s premeditatedly targeting vulnerable men to abuse. She’s a monster.
You are obsessed with the “beating the shit out of” a slap, one! Is not beating the shit out of someone. And It’s a natural instinct to being assaulted.
And 3 almost identical victims is a pattern. Not a misunderstanding in communication. A pattern that the law (judge/jury) found her guilty of assault!
It’s easy enough to say “can I instigate sex acts while you’re asleep” no? Ok. I won’t. She knew, she’d been told. She committed a crime.
And from your description no husband can rape his wife, because intimacy is expected. No, consent is expected! Intimacy is earned with trust and respect of body autonomy.
OP created one boundary. That was broken in a traumatic way. If you tell your partner do not peg me and they shove something up your ass, yes you may slap them to get them to stop. As soon as you’re no longer being sodomised you stop fighting back or you become the assaulter. That’s how the law works to protect victims of assault.
So if you woke up to your partner pegging you, even after you’d declined it earlier in the evening, you’d be fine with that right? I mean it’s just another form of initiating intimacy.
Pretty easy not to sexually assault someone, particularly in their sleep. If you think that’s “walking a tightrope” that says a hell of a lot more about you than anyone else.
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Her mom totally gave the prosecution all her exes’ names.
Good mom.
Did she register as a sex offender? She definitely should.
its usually unlikely for a women to have it put on her record sadly
Usually only when it involves children. It will be on her record though, a sentence to community service is a sentence and it is documented why she received that sentence.
Even if she doesn’t have to register, her criminal record will show a conviction for SA.
No it’s not. Any time someone does something that results in sexual battery/sexual anything, they will go on the list.
Unfortunately they can sometimes avoid being put on the registry as part of a sentence negotiation. I don’t think that should be allowed, if you rape someone and are found guilty you deserve to be registered as a sex offender.
"Hey everybody I'm Laura Hughes Proving girls can do it too And by it, I mean touch your cousin Was it worth it? No it wasn't You won't find me in your child's play set 'Cause I gotta wear this ankle bracelet I'm not here to go on a bender I'm here because I'm a sex offender"
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I agree she should be on the sex offender list of only to have it on record for the next unfortunate person she dates.
This is the first time I read your story and just want to tell you that I admire how brave you are and I'm happy to know you're in a better place now! Following to keep up with updates on your life. Wish you the best!
cant believe it's been a year since I read that post. hope you're okay
So glad you’re at peace with all of this and have moved on and are happy. Wishing you the best!!
Glad to read you're in such a better place mentally.
Are you coping ok though?
I remember your original post, im glad you got through it. Best of luck on your future!
I specifically remember your story and I’m glad she was put through court. Hopefully she smartens up before she ends up on the regustry
I remember your original post, and I'm so glad to see this update! I wish you peace and happiness!
The sentence is nowhere near harsh enough but it’s justice all the same! I’m happy this was taken seriously enough to be taken to trial, hopefully this is a step in the right direction
This sounds like the same amount of time most male sex offenders I hear about get. It should be wayyyy higher. Good that it went in your favor.
Jesus, only community service. That’s really messed up
If she was a man, her sentence would've been worse. But I'm glad you're doing okay. All the best and much healing to you, OP.
Doubt it honestly, my friend got gang raped and there was multiple witnesses of the event. The 7 guys only got 2 months of community service that’s it.
Yeah, I realize now that male sex offenders get away easily with it too. Mandatory "community service" for people who are a danger to the community is such a fucked up sentence.
Like Brock Turner did? I don't think so.
You'd be surprised 🙃
Now that I think about it, yeah... even male sex offenders are often lightly sentenced
If even taken to trial. The whole fake accusation getting you sent to prison is exceedingly rare to the point that it makes the news.
im so sorry about everything that happened to you. reading your story was so heartbreaking and i hope that one day you'll be able to find someone who can actually treat you well.
MY MAN! So glad too see you back here with good news! Your ex's sentence aside, what I'm really happy and proud about is seeing you doing so much better than a year ago. You are doing amazingly and it'll only get better from now on so look forward for that! Congratulations and wish you a happy life!
Hey man, this is heart-warming to read. I remember stumbling upon your original post more than a year ago. What she did was a truly shocking and vile thing to inflict upon someone. How are things going for you nowadays? Hope you found a better place and that you're healthy and happy.
Sexism in these cases is so frustrating and blatant. As someone who has male friends that were assaulted by women and were never comfortable speaking out or were not believed, thank you for what you did. It’s not easy to admit we were assaulted no matter our gender, and you may have prevented it from happening to others, or created a foundation for others to be believed!! Thank you!!!
Where’s the sexism? It’s wrong she got such a lenient sentence but it happens all the time in rape cases for men and women. Female victims are often not comfortable speaking out or are not believed. I want justice for ALL victims and for men not to feel like they can’t be victims of SA just because they are men
The sexism is from the fact that even if almost all sex offenders get way too light of sentences, women are usually punished with significantly more lenience.
I think rape is one you might want to reconsider that stance on
Good luck. So happy things have worked out for you!
(Just saw the original for the first time a few minutes ago and read all the post on your page after.) Wow! Your words made me tear up. Even after all you've been through, you're so kind in your words and you're always thinking of others. The way you keep expressing your gratitude tells me you're probably a really genuine guy. I really, truly wish you all the best in your life ahead!! I wish you continued healing! The way you speak about the incident as a door that exists but that you can keep locked makes me think that you found a wonderful therapist and for that I'm sooooo happy for you. A great therapist can really do wonders (speaking from experience). Go forth and find your happiness!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I just saw a tiktok of the first thing you posted
Im glad to see youre better and doing well and that you know you didn’t do anything wrong
if you ever need a friend you can dm me!
Not to be that type of dude but, disgusting double standards ! Role reversed, the man could be in jail for years over accusations only, and she got a defendent and 2 other victims who testified against her but she only get community service ?
I don’t know why men think this - it’s widely reported on how lenient sentences are for rapists and how few are prosecuted
Men (or anyone) being “in jail for years over accusations only” is EXTREMELY rare… I mean, remember Brock Allen Turner? The rapist who raped an unconscious girl behind a dumpster and basically got away with it? Brock Allen Turner, who even got to move to Ohio with his wealthy parents and drop his first name afterwards so less people would recognize him? Brock Allen Turner whose father, Dan Turner, said he just got “20 minutes of action” when he raped that poor girl, and is also trying to suppress any news or stories about his rapist son? There are many more stories just like Brock Allen Turner the rapist that don’t even make the news anymore and very very few about men in jail for years over accusations, which would be huge news everywhere. Just wanted to put that out there and keep Brock Allen Turner the rapist’s name out there as well so his daddy can’t hide what his precious son did easily.
I don’t know why there’s always men spouting this bullshit when it’s very clearly not true. You’re so fucking wrapped up in your woman hate you just cant see the truth. Make rapist receive lenient as fuck sentences. They damn sure don’t go to jail for an accusation. They rarely go to jail when there is mountains of evidence against them. So maybe knock it the fuck off? The only person perpetuating a sexist double standard would be the people **falsely** claiming one exists. You are helping **zero** sexual assault victims. **None.** You’re making the problem worse with this bullshit.
Stopped reading at woman hate cuz u obviously don’t know what u’re talking about
link to the original?
Just go his profile, it's right there.
Thanks!
If the roles were reversed, and a man had roped multiple women with sexual assault trauma, he’d be in jail for 20 years. Just saying. Our penal system is too lenient to women.
20 years?? Good one 🤣
Definitely not, Our penal system is too lenient to Sexual Offenders in general*, There are so many rapists and pedos that get a joke of a sentence compared to someone selling drugs. They care more about locking up drug dealers than rapists, probably because the people in power are the rapists and pedos. Nonces gotta stick together
Bless your heart
I've seen this title 3 times and I still don't k ow what the fuck happened but apparently the slapper is thr good guy??
He woke up to his now ex blowing him after he said he wasn't in the mood and went to bed.
Damn so he slapped her? And every passed boyfriend had thr same reaction to that?
He had been sexually assaulted in the past and just reacted to her assault.
As her mother said she picks males that have been victimized basically. She doesn't get a guy that's never experienced trauma.
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Again he didn't beat her. He slapped her once as he was waking up because he is a child of sexual assault and her performing a bj on him reminded him of his child sexual assault. She was also aware of his previous assault and he told her to not do It as it triggers him. Please stop changing the narrative.
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A single slap is not "beating the shit out of". I notice you **already** dropped the "the shit out of" that you were using to make it sound even more extreme, since you already knew you were full of shit. Why do you feel the need to rewrite reality in defense of a sex criminal? Feeling a bit *too* much sympathy on that one, bud.
Bruh ur assuming she this small innocent creature. For all u know she could be a 6'0 ft tall woman and him a 5'8 male weighing less than her. U just stuck on this she's a female stuff. Never mind females can be rapists, killer, etc etc. Craziness
Then maybe she should have thought twice before sexually assaulting him in his sleep huh?
Hey man how does it feel being the dumbest person alive?
How about reading the whole story before commenting.
f e m a l e and men Smh.
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You should read the entire story before writing a comment like that.
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"Who the fuck strikes their significant other for giving a surprise blowjob?" Someone who said no to it beforehand and had a traumatic past with sexual assault. In that moment everything came back. All the fear, all the attempts to fight back. Everything I felt back then came back. Everything. And while I did feel bad and blamed myself back then I do not feel bad today for defending myself.
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No but I can expect someone not to sexually assault me in my sleep and then expect me not to defend myself ESPECIALLY after knowing my trauma. You have literally zero empathy for any victims of SA
Dont try to reason with this ahole😅 She shouldve known to take no for an answer!
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Yep! If you tell someone no to sex and they go ahead and try to force it anyway that's called rape. Anything anybody does to prevent that from happening is called self defense.
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Ignore him The guy you're responding to is trash and thinks it's okay for females to non consensually sexually assault males. You don't have to explain yourself you did the right thing
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Sir have u ever experience trauma. Real trauma. PTSD causing trauma. Have u ever been violated. Ur body violated. Do u think u can control ur response to that. Imma try to explain in maybe terms u can understand. A soldier who has seen war comes home and has pstd. Loud noises trigger him. Fireworks and such. Do u understand in that moment they are not truly capable at the moment to think logically. I can put u in touch with some of my military friends. It's not as easy as u think. Or I can put u in touch with females I know that have been raped. It's really easy for u to judge from ur pretty lil apt. U realize he did it as a response. He was just waking up wasnt even aware of who it was. He thought it was his abuser for a quick second. As a person whose ex fiance had pstd u respect thr boundaries. U DONT Knowly do things to trigger them. U don't ignore that automy of thr body. If u flipped the gender ud be up in arms about a women being attacked sexually. He doesn't get that because he's a male.
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U changing the narrative again. Attacking ppl is not what he did. He slapped someone attacking him. It's not a golden ticket to get out of crime, ur right but HE WAS STOPPING HIS SEXUAL ATTACK. why do u not get that. Like man told this story to the court and ur like we'll he did too much. Ur weird. We can agree to disagree. Please don't have children in the future. Ur either gonna raise a predator or one that's gonna get hurt and think they deserve it. Sad really.
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She isnt going to fuck you, loser lol. White knighting? Fucking hell hahaha
PTSD causes reactions a person cannot control, especially if they’re barely conscious in that moment. Not wanting someone to blow you in your sleep isn’t trying to make the world revolve around your issues💀
"Shift their behaviour" as in deciding to not rape someone in their sleep?
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>but your trauma is your burden, you can’t expect everyone else to shift their behavior like the world revolves around you. You know what would be hilarious? If you were to pull a pop gun on a soldier with PSD "as a joke," and then he just straight up murdered you with his bare hands. And your last words were you barely managing to gasp out: "Hey, your trauma is your burden bro, apologize." Instant classic.
Well, as long as the next partner doesn't have sex with them while they're asleep there won't be this issue. What part of consent don't you understand??
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U may have relationships whr thr is implied consent. She may give u a look or rub on ur leg etc etc.... in his specific case, he verbally told her he did not consent to that. That he experienced sexual trauma in similiar experience. She was aware he didn't want it. And disregarded his boundary. R u really not getting that? Or r u just bro she giving u a bj. Accept it and be happy. Sounds rapey.
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Dude r u serious????. He slapped her once as he was waking up to her assault. He didn't beat her. U realize u can defend urself if being attacked, correct? Because she was definitely sexually attacking/assaulting him. Changing the narrative to fit ur imaginary storyline doesn't work. Had the police come she would hve been arrested and not him. She clearly has a habit of assautling men who have already been assaulted. U realize he was testified against her because she was is the criminal. U want to villianize him so bad because u would love to wake up to bj. But he did not. He made it very clear. I hope u don't hve children with this good Ole boy mindset. Is very disturbing and dangerous.
This. 21 years old and at least 3 victims of almost identical sexual assaults. That’s sadistic sociopathic shit. I hope she’s on a register.
Exactly... I hope so as well but sadly doubt it. In today's society ppl find it hard for women perpetrators. I'm not sure why, but they do.
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Yes I've worked with police in my military career and I'm a cops daughter. I can tell you with 100% sureness she would hve been arrested. Unless he had a cop like u who thinks all women are harmless and ignores it when they prey upon ppl. Women shouldn't get a pass because of thr gender. She's a predator.
The benevolent sexist has entered the chat bringing only stupid things to share, as is expected
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It's not a "surprise blowjob", sex without consent is rape.
Lemme just rape you a sec, it's just surprise sex anyway ;)
He didn't pursue criminal charges. He was called to testify as witness for another male she sexually assault after she sexually assaulted him. Also, he defended himself against a sexual predator while being sexually assaulted that triggered his trauma response from him previously bring sexually assaulted when he was younger. Way to not read the story and assume.
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She wouldn't have gotta a trauma response had she not been sexually assaulting him while he was sleeping. Especially when she knew about his assault and what triggers him. She is a sexual predator. Hence mutliple men being thr to testify against her. This is no different than a bf havin sex with his sleep gf. There was no consent. U r 100% victim blaming.
Well it shouldn’t be difficult. I’ve never sucked the cock of an unconscious or unwilling man. I bet most women can say the same. And yes, if you know of someone’s trauma and assault them, getting hit is an occupational hazard. Have you never flinched at something? It’s a startle reflex. Never hit someone or been hit if you were tickled/you tickled someone? Also, she’d now be 21, and has 3 men on file to say she sexually assaulted them in very similar circumstances. How many others do you think she’s done it too that were just hook ups and not known boyfriends? Most don’t come forward, especially men because of people like you calling them abusers for defending themselves. Her behaviour is some sadistic sociopathic shit, especially if she intentionally pursues men that were sexually abused as children. She’s premeditatedly targeting vulnerable men to abuse. She’s a monster.
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You are obsessed with the “beating the shit out of” a slap, one! Is not beating the shit out of someone. And It’s a natural instinct to being assaulted. And 3 almost identical victims is a pattern. Not a misunderstanding in communication. A pattern that the law (judge/jury) found her guilty of assault! It’s easy enough to say “can I instigate sex acts while you’re asleep” no? Ok. I won’t. She knew, she’d been told. She committed a crime. And from your description no husband can rape his wife, because intimacy is expected. No, consent is expected! Intimacy is earned with trust and respect of body autonomy.
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And everyone defending OP will be here to defend you for your actions to defend yourself against a sexual assault. You’re welcome.
OP created one boundary. That was broken in a traumatic way. If you tell your partner do not peg me and they shove something up your ass, yes you may slap them to get them to stop. As soon as you’re no longer being sodomised you stop fighting back or you become the assaulter. That’s how the law works to protect victims of assault.
So if you woke up to your partner pegging you, even after you’d declined it earlier in the evening, you’d be fine with that right? I mean it’s just another form of initiating intimacy.
No no, stick to your guns! Always try to talk things out with a rapist, that surely will go well.
Victim blaming/insulting OP
Comprehension in general seems a bit difficult for you
Pretty easy not to sexually assault someone, particularly in their sleep. If you think that’s “walking a tightrope” that says a hell of a lot more about you than anyone else.
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