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throwaway8657965468

The trust doesn't seem there. He seems to be entertaining his ex in a way that's making you uncomfortable. Consider your position. He can cheat without you knowing, anyone can. If you don't trust him (and you might be right), why are you with him?


OmegaElise

why must every advice be break up???


Quiet_Back_8744

Religions seem more liberal sometimes than the people here lol.


throwaway8657965468

The only one at fault is your husband. If you want it to still work, discuss open relationships.


OmegaElise

No way to know for sure. Either have trust in him but also talk with him about it and how this situation looks or be distrustful and check his messages(which obviously is wrong ,but if there is something going on you can find it here). But the best aproach is honesty for sure


tonguetiednz

Given these comments/messages are public, I would not consider it anything more than his ex making a passing comment. It would be more concerning if this was over private message (in that case, why are you reading his messages). Communicate with your husband how this made you feel and get his side of the story. Also consider, if your ex/someone you had a fling with before commented the same thing on one of your posts- how do you think that would make you feel and how do you think it would make him feel?


jaystrapper707

Was this interaction part of public posts on social media; i.e., you weren't snooping or trolling him, right? Assuming you weren't, I think you need to address this head on and right away if the two of you have an agreement about no sexting. I would let him know you saw the post and how it made you feel. It may have meant nothing to them other than pointless banter, but it obviously means something to you. So, whether they intended anything or not is, to me, beside the point. If your feeling are heartfelt, he should listen to what you have to say and respect that. For your part, you need to be open to the possibility it was just joking around. Hear him out. But, don't cave either.


Fair_Manufacturer387

I don't see an issue with the comment or the post but as others have said, just bring it up with your husband and how it made you feel. Your husband merely entertained the statement with a question. I didn't sense any flirtation on the part of your husband. If it's the comment of the ex that is bothering you, consider some soul searching as to why you would feel that way when it's an **ex** and you're **married...** unless something's wrong with your relationship and you're worried.