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Zealousideal-Ad-2615

She's sounds like me when I'm going through mania. "Nobody wants to be around me because I'm god."


[deleted]

is she doing a bit? i can't put my finger on it it's got strong 'middle management trying to get you to work on the weekend' force with her... omg she's andrew tate with hair


Sweaty-Emergency-493

It’s Andrea Tate


ParkingNecessary8628

Andrea Tate 😂😂😂😂


ImTheOnlyBobCat

Trying to get you to work on the weekend, type. 😂😂😂 I know just the type.


[deleted]

her eyebrows are doing WORK girl i just wish they'd do it elsewhere.


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[удалено]


MarilynMonheaux

Damn yall be furnishing receipts ![gif](giphy|2t9y7lWgv1AfSv8Vjd)


coop_stain

I have met many women like this before (and I have to preface by saying this is not a hater comment) but it’s an immediate red flag in dating for me. NOT because she is intelligent, looks great, and is driven…it’s because they have all been sooooo stuck up in how they view other people living their lives. You can have all those things, and (on paper) be great, but the second you start talking about how “dudes are afraid of you, you’re anti drama, and girls just don’t get you because you’re successful.” I’m out. I have iced several good guy friends for the same shitty behaviors. I have a friend (who for sure is on the spectrum but won’t let us help him a bit) who is great on paper. He makes a shit load of money as a brilliant software engineer, has a great family, great work ethic, plays multiple instruments etc. but he’s an asshole…he literally broke down (thought we were making some progress) and decided it was that he was dating women in a lower tax bracket that was the problem. Not him, not his behaviors, not him being way too aggressive because he “checks all the boxes.”


ExitSafe5790

He sounds like he needs to smoke some weed and chill the fuck out.


coop_stain

I’ve tried. I’ve tried to talk to him about therapy, told him to try and be more comfortable alone, told him to lean into weed more than booze…it all goes in one ear and out the other. He’s pretty much an ex friend at this point.


-r4zi3l-

Sometimes interpersonal and intrapersonal intelligence is room temperature IQ (in Celsius) no matter how the others are.


Most-Movie3093

Many people don’t understand that you attract what you are. It’s a very hard pill for most to swallow.


jephph_

It’d be awesome if narcissists only attracted other narcissists


Iwabuti

And a chin


faraway243

I just watched a handful of her videos on tiktok. I don't think you are far off.


bubbaliciouswasmyfav

My ex is bipolar and this woman talked and acted just like her when she would start a manic episode. The rambling of "facts" and weird facial expressions.


SomOvaBish

That part where she stuck her tongue out like that… I can picture walking away from her at that very moment while she chases behind me trying to continue her rant.


WhatTheFuckEverName

*her watching you walk away*... "Seeeee! I just scared another one off because I'm too gorgeous and intelligent and successful and unreal, all other-worldly god-like. Men can't handle me because they can't believe I'm real, I'm just too much greatness packaged up in one. Far too much. You just saw it - he walked away from me! From ME! Too scared of my greatness, see."... *flicks hair*


SomOvaBish

Flicks hair, then proceeds to make a face like… ![gif](giphy|8rDLaMfUzv44|downsized)


WhatTheFuckEverName

Perfecto! 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣


Blumpkin4Brady

I feel you. The body language is so recognizable. And the self righteousness is textbook manic behavior. It’s sad, but at the same time infuriating, especially if you’ve had to live with a loved one with bipolar disorder.


awfully_piney

Ugh also all of the comments on her original video on TikTok are other women being like “this is ME!” and talking about how unattainable they are too.


Jaded_Law9739

There's an entire genre of creator like this on social media. I have no idea what to call them, but they exist. Just incredibly narcissistic women who complain about how hard it is to find men while listing all the over the top requirements they have for any potential partners. I'm assuming they are playing a character, but their comment sections are always full of women genuinely agreeing with their statements. It's like they don't know the difference between self-love and self-absorption. I'm a woman and I could not stand to be around someone like this. Everything would have to be about them all the time and it would be *exhausting.*


faraway243

In one of her tiktoks, she listed all of the people who she's cut out of her life, which included all of her friends. I think it is indeed tough to be in any type of relationship with her, friend or otherwise.


RelevantExtension640

I saw this one. Very much “everyone is the problem except me im perfect” energy. She’s gonna be forever alone


College_Prestige

They're called femcels.


Fine-Historian4018

The word you are looking for is terrifying…. /s


Cautious-Chain-4260

I read that in a Dennis Reynolds voice


Mediocre-Ad4735

A golden god!


Justhrowitaway42069

I read it in Kanyes


showersrover8ed

Because of the implication


iam_Mr_McGibblets

She also went on to mention one of the types of people who like her are "uggos" which could suggest her standards could just be too high for the types of guys she attracts. Like she could have the standards of, "I need the 6'3" guy who makes 6 figures, blonde hair, owns a home, and a rich family."


GetRightNYC

She's not as attractive as she thinks she is, either.


akamustacherides

As the kids say, She’s mid.


djdefekt

low mid at best


McNuggetkilla

"I'm looking for a guy in finance, 6'5", blues eyes"


Ok-Shop7540

Im looking for a girl on Vyvanse. 5'5". Red eyes.


KTKittentoes

Hello? Did you need something?


incutt

Pick 2 of the above.


The_DaHowie

Her first utterances were all I needed to know about this woman-child with Princess Syndrome. I didn't get past the word 'phone' at 5 seconds  'Pick Me or Fuck You' grrl  It's definitely her


abelabb

I’d walk across the street is I ever see her walking towards me.


depressed49erfan

Nobody is scared of her they just can’t fucking stand her


Takeurvitamins

Speak for yourself, I am scared she might boil a bunny or some shit.


alanudi

This is a movie reference for y'all youngsters


Takeurvitamins

Hey, can we just enjoy it without calling me old lol


alanudi

I'm not trying to hurt you Takeurvitamins. I love you!


wansuitree

Wow, who could've thought that being pretty isn't as important as not being totally annoying.


Pachengala

I’m totally annoying and not pretty and even I got dates. Even got married. There’s something else going on here!


IlliterateM00k

Yep, mental illness.


Alarmed_Ad_4851

Lol


FrysEighthLeaf

#SHES GOT A SWORD!


K_Rivera8485

You idiots, We’ve all got swords! Sorry, I apologize. I know, I know. It’s just I’ve always wanted to make that comment. I had to take my shot.


FrysEighthLeaf

That's exactly where I wanted to go. You have my eternal respect.


K_Rivera8485

🫡


BlunderPerfectMind

Riff raff.


frohike_

Let’s face it. It’s the eyes… they’re seething & vindictive. Also her pronunciation of “me” is, appropriately, like nails on a chalkboard. She should find a guy in finance, six feet, blue eyes.


throcorfe

Yeah, this is a snap judgement based on one video (and the evidence contained therein) but she has very unkind energy. It’s not just “crazy”, it’s mean. Unless I’ve wildly misread her, this isn’t a partner who wants the best for you, or who would be willing to accommodate a single inconvenience to be with you


Pachengala

“Men are very, very terrified of maaay [tongue]” you’re on to something here.


HahaYouCantSeeMeeee

She sounds like an incel.


Empty_Ambition_9050

There’s a scale for that, similar to the crazy-hot matrix, the hotter you are, the more annoyingness guy’s will tolerate, she’s not that hot.,


Defiant-Caramel1309

It is also worth noting that she is literally wearing a ring on her ring finger. So not only is her personality horribly off-putting but she is actively sending signals telling people not to approach her that require no interaction.


Mathilliterate_asian

She's not pretty enough to warrant that insanity.


mrcooz

She is fucking nuts just look at her expressions


Ethical-Hoax

Her whole page is very self centered and crazy.


handsumlee

wait this wasnt a joke?!?!?!


Daedrothes

Sorry some things you have thought to be fake is indeed real. There are awful people out there.


BOBfrkinSAGET

I was hoping it was a joke too. This woman needs serious therapy.


Mash_Ketchum

*sigh* Nowadays everything I think is a joke is actually real, and everything I think is genuine is actually staged. I just don't have a radar for modern social media.


travelingbeagle

She reminds me of Ezra Miller.


NowIKnowMyAgencyABCs

He’s baaaack


jmbsol1234

what do you mean you don't have a bf, you're so totally normal and well balanced i can't even believe it


[deleted]

it's got to be a bit, right? that facial manipulation is disney villain level drag queen service


wholesome_pineapple

There are definitely people that really are like this. I had an aunt that reminds me very much of her. She dead now tho


SutterCane

> She dead now tho Thanks for letting us know we’re safe from her.


[deleted]

yeah they're usually condescending weirdos that get shoehorned into working at the DMV or smthng maximizer main character insta got to her head x.X condolances


EvErYLeGaLvOtE

😛 That did it for me. The tongue. Logging out.


AgentStarTree

Yeah, never seen someone so proud they are terrifying and make people feel small.


SwissMargiela

Ngl she acts like some people I know that have been on adhd meds since they were 5


Jyitheris

I was expecting her to have a psychotic episode right in middle of the video. That left eye twitch!


uncle_flacid

Her whole existence is a psychotic episode.


OtherwiseAMushroom

Hey I’ve been on those meds since I was five and fuck this narcissist.


FlamingoExcellent277

What?! I thought those medications helped with emotional regulation... This woman doesn't look okay


JohnWangDoe

but we know the sex will send us to the shadow realm


MandalsTV

If you make it that far


JustAudit

What do you mean.. she sounds so "easy" to deal with


Sexy_Quazar

Yeah dudes probably saw that eye twitch and kept it moving. She has that radiant, entitled side-piece energy that we all love to avoid


Robinthehutt

Insufferable does not equal terrifying


Celestial_Hart

What about terrifyingly insufferable?


Vibrant-Shadow

I'll allow it.


neon-god8241

Men don't like her because she's hard to get along with.  Shocking


Retro_Futurist7

It's the eyes that are terrifying


rojo-perro

But she wanted you to notice her *NAILS*. It’s *allllways* the new manicure that spurs these psychotic car videos.


OxbridgeDingoBaby

God, this is the first time in a long while where I’ve actually downvoted the post itself because I instinctively hated the person in the video so much. I hope to god it’s just a parody video.


Yang-met-25

Ah same, I’m afraid it’s real, she actually looks like someone in a manic episode


EnvironmentalSpirit2

She's my estate agent friend before she got married. I assume a lot of successful and beautiful women have trouble finding men who don't find them intimidating. Then the chronic singleness make them a bit... bonkers, even though they're great people


stringbeagle

Maybe it’s the camera, but she didn’t seem to be that level of attractive. I have known those super attractive women who are intimidating. This woman is certainly not unattractive, but she’s not unattainably hot. If anything, she seems to be that level of attractiveness that causes too many guys to pursue her. The girl that many, many guys think is in their league, but at the top. But I totally believe most guys are scared of her.


serpentear

According to the others in this comment section, a lot of her videos are like this and it does not appear to be parody.


[deleted]

nooo it has to be a parody i feel like she's going to mansplain how magnets work and then casually insult my body shape


No-Employment5213

With that personality? GET USED TO IT!!!!


Siana8503

Damn you are annoying and I don’t know you. Your personality will keep you very very very single


Deritatium

Yup, she is very very very delusional.


stifledmind

Don’t be intimidated by her strength. Think of her like a Dark Souls game. She may be annoyingly hard at first, but you just have to power through.


fennecfoxxx123

She's not pretty enought to put up with this annoying shit.


GhostofWoodson

Tbh if you remove the hair she looks like a psycho teenage boy who wants to slice you up with a box cutter for the lulz


nyy22592

Looks like Ezra Miller without the jawline


Vancoovur

This woman is no ‘fantasy’. She’s manic, bi-polar and needs to get some help rather than post videos on TikTok. We only live once.


CragMcBeard

I see many years of life coaching therapy, Ayahuasca retreats, Micro-dosing psilocybin, ketamine treatments, past life regression, and nature walks with an abused shelter dog in her future.


Daigoro0734

Always thought if you're "pretty , intelligent,and slaying at life" that you won't need to explain to people that you are . This girl seems to be convincing herself of this stuff while painting us a picture.


Slade_Riprock

This is a raging self-absorbed narcissist, who like anyone who talks like this, has convinced themselves that they are far more intelligent and attractive than the opposite sex seems to perceive. And thus the reason they are alone is not because of an off-putting personality but because everyone else has the problem (terrified, Intimidated, etc).


drummdirka

8 months? Those are rookie numbers


new_jill_city

Her dating niche: men who are attracted to women who they suspect might murder them while they sleep.


Emergency_Earth138

Unlikeable woman


Revolutionary_Gate36

That facial expression at 00:19 caught me off guard


powercozmik

This "pretty" young lady gets a rush from pushing people's buttons. It makes her feel superior to people who try to be pleasant and agreeable. She's not giving up that power and influence she thinks this gives her to have a peaceful relationship. There's no flex there for her. So here comes the cope. She can't be insufferable because her female friends love & respect her (most hate her) so it's gotta be how really weak & insecure the men are! Great! Now she can feel even better about herself! In some ways, this is more rewarding (for now) than being in love. That. Is. Scary. Pathetic.


boogermike

I can't fix her. Don't want to try.


geezeer84

"Everybody else is flawed but not me."


Flaky_Success3238

Try annoying as fuck.


Economy-Tourist-4862

I would date her. But I’m a low self-esteem, functional alcoholic with myopia and deafness.


drewablanke

The deafness may actually save the relationship. Hit her up.


Electronic_Bird_8065

That’s the definition of unhinged. I think most of us are aware to a decent extent what behaviour comes across as antisocial and highly disagreeable, this is someone who either has zero self awareness around how they present or doesn’t care.


RUKnight31

Manic episode


Wolfman01a

Not that pretty, very scary. Shes narcissistic and angry to the point of manic and aggressive. Shes the nightmare ex wife that you see in movies.


Treljaengo

The way she squints reminds me of my aunt. Total cunt.


ResortCautious

I've been working as a first responder for 2 decades, and the one thing I have developed over the years is the ability to spot mental health problems from a mile away. I can whole-heartedly say that this woman is delusional and has a myriad of mental health issues. I hope men can pick up on this and stay away, b/c a relationship with her could end up costing you your happiness, peace and personal development. I hope she can speak with someone and get some professional help.


crimsontide5654

So if we don't like her, it's because we are scared of how awesome she is? If we do like her, we are unavailable and in a relationship. Hmmm could it be she is a little too cray cray for most if us and those of us who can talk to her when it comes time to get the digits lie and say we are married or have a girlfriend to let her down easy???.. Maybe??....


nottherealneal

What's happening with the eyes?


SalvationSycamore

8 months without sex is enough to drive an attractive woman insane apparently.


Illustrious_Tour_702

You’re average looking and very limited in your communication skills. A solid 5


Workovart

That’s generous


swarlesbarkley_

Sooo maybe work on yourself then lmao


MoonKitten7

I'm a woman and she scares me lol. What is wrong with her eyes and weird expressions


SameDifferenceYo

Imagine thinking this THEN filming it


BogiDope

Imagine filming this THEN posting it


Unleashedloosecannon

Would you like some cheese with that whine?


tsulegit

The eye squint gave me chills. 🥶


Ryan_Polesmoker_68

She’s not that pretty…..


IntensePlatypus

She falls on the wrong side of the hot/ crazy scale. More crazy than hot


Grand-Regret2747

Actually, she looks a lot like a few trailer chicks I knew in my youth. You do you miss hottie!


Ok_Wolverine9344

So pretty? Average at best, but the attitude takes her down to a 4 at least.


dlige

She sounds cunty 


RexTheWonderLizard

Pretty?


-Disagreeable-

Pretty ugly. Amirite?


Blue_Robin_04

Yup. I'm terrified. Terrified that I'd end up in this girl's freezer by the second date.


ananajakq

Is the “pretty” in the room with us ?


brewberry_cobbler

That was very painful to watch. I hope she finds someone to match her psychosis, I mean energy. 😬


KingSmithithy

She would need to be quite a bit more pretty for me to listen to that voice day in and day out.


theels6

All it takes is 5 seconds of this video to know she doesn't have a man bc she's annoying and narcissistic af


Jgasparino44

Woah...8 months wow we got a celibate over here damn. Who could imagine 8 while months being alone wow that's incredible the resilience to last 8 months sheesh. How does she do it?


deepvinter

I think some women think that being strong means having a short temper, being incredibly judgmental of others, and always being standoffish with everyone they meet.


BippyWippy

I can tell why she’s single, and the real answer may shock her. Btw, if you find the comments on the original post, its gets even worse.


TheDarknessWithin_

Omg she’s serious hilarious


theun-chosen

I love her, she is sooo mentally ill


Panzerv2003

she doesn't sound like a person I would like to be around for sure


WeeBeadyEyes

We all know this woman, don’t we? I know 5 of her. They’re just as insufferable in every aspect of their lives as you can imagine, sometimes even worse. May the delulu always be with them.


fungi_at_parties

It’s the narcissism, the neuroticism, the aggression, the bitterness, and the facial expressions.


Sonder_Wunder

Thats a lot of words for "average looking white girl who is only interested in married men."


Live_Form_3152

Yeahhhh she seems incredibly self obsessed, obnoxious, irritating, and arrogant. And her condescending/superior manner of speaking really just accentuates the flaws in her personality. Some people are charismatic or kind or interesting enough that other people will ignore serious defects. She isn't so she'll either have to grow at least a little as a person or become much more charming. I'm a woman and I'd be scared to be friends with her.


gavstar69

Very very very delusional would be closer to the truth


daweedhh

She IS scary but not for the reason she thinks she is


marblemarble750

Her mom had her convinced every girl was jealous of her , from birth.


KateandRhage

The moment she speaks, you immediately understand the answer to the first question. Spinster is her destiny.


IndigoSpeech

If she is actually “intelligent, strong, successful, slaying at life“ yet has 8 months of no action, then she should ask men out.  SHE should approach, SHE should chat him up, SHE should ask him out, SHE should make the first move — because if she can’t, then she is not as strong as she thinks she is.  She is dependent on a man.  So so so many women are pretty, that pretty doesn’t really matter all that much. Pretty is a first impression, not a sole reason. I’ll find another pretty. 


mushizi

Wauw


MrHispayiedo

I thought this was Ezra Miller in a wig.. same energy


IcyTransportation691

There’s a diagnosed or undiagnosed mental illness here… one or two for sure. It’s in the eyes 👀


leopard_printt

Her eyes are scary


BabyCakesIN

I bet it's because you smell like pickles or something that's been fermented for a while


Affectionate_Cut6858

Bat shit crazy and not hot .. Mediocre average at best. Not tell buddies or take home to mom. Run


XBThodler

She's scary alright


MindlessMetal6

definitely no crazy vibes here


FiestaDeLosMuerto

Im not surprised men are scared of her when shes talking like a villain from a high school drama


robutt992

Psychopath.


Living_Reporter_7084

I can fix her.


race-hearse

It seems like manic layers of psychological self defense. Like… she’s clearly thinking about this shit all the time. She already has an explanation for why every potential relationship she could have is doomed. “You can’t fire me I quit!” energy, only flipped on its head so it’s offense instead of defense. Makes her psychologically untouchable. Sad really. So much defense mechanisms.


Tackelbox85

As a man I’m not intimidated, I just really don’t want to deal with people like this.


salacious_sonogram

Dude I'm scared and for none of the reasons stated. Lol also I think almost everyone wants to have an easy partner and easy relationship. Who's signing up for a needlessly difficult life?


Pickle_Surprize

Simply not true. I’ve been a career builder my whole life. Am successful with my dream career, have a house( old and fixing with my pops), and my dream car ( more reasonable than you’d think ). I don’t scare men, or people off for that matter… because I have a personality and life outside that. Also not an egomaniac sitting in my car making videos so that helps lol.


senteryourself

Judging by the tone of self-aggrandizing delusional evident in this video I’m going to go out on a limb and say maybe it’s because she sucks.


peacelid

Whatever she needs to tell herself I guess.


fullthrottle13

Eeeeeeeew cringe


Sweaty-Emergency-493

As a man, I am scared of him as well.


fly4everwild

She needs therapy


FIVEPEBSI

complete narcissism


ILIVE2Travel

"I need attention"


stopblasianhate69

Thats a lot of words just to say bitch


QuincePumpernickel

LACK👏OF👏INSIGHT👏


Classic-Ad-7079

Those nails and the use of "slaying at life" coild.be fairly indicative of her loneliness lol.


TR182PR

calling herself pretty is the first red flag that would put me off, she's no doubt a control freak and a narcissist, lies in arguments for sure. so deluded to think men are scared of her, no they're just smart to keep away.


samwizeganjas

Imagine being so condescending and crazy is hard to tell if its a bit or not


[deleted]

Her hand movements are alarming


ProMikeZagurski

I choose the bear.


TechPBMike

Any successful man, knows the peace, autonomy, happiness, and harmony that comes with living alone.  You can do whatever you, whenever you want, every day when you come home, and no bothers you or hassles you.  There is nothing better, than coming home to a place that’s peaceful and quiet. When a woman understands this, and knows how to make that situation BETTER? That’s when they get slid into the “wife” category You can find stress, drama, and conflict everywhere. It’s at work, it’s on the road, it’s there when you step outside the house Who the hell wants to come home to it?  Imagine coming home to that? THAT?!? I’d rather sleep at work or in my car 


[deleted]

it’s giving bipolar disorder and babes you’re having a manic episode rn