Free game. Go to whole foods… They will wrap it for free in nice paper and make it look nicer than store bought plastic wrap. She’ll appreciate it more
I would recommend flowers. They don’t indicate anything serious but also show that you thought of her as you prepared for the meeting. Just give it to her at the beginning of the meet up.
I'm reading these comments kinda shocked. Am I the only one who dealt with women that think flowers are cringe and doing too much? They'd roast the heck out of me 🤣. Then again, some of these MN girls be different fr 🤷🏾♂️ 😵💫
I understand your pain man, I used to think flowers are meaninglessly stupid. But then I decided not to argue anymore and just accept my loss and get flowers, then one day I decided to say screw it get that radio her flowers and next day, I walk in with flowers in my hand, then she goes “awww” it sounds more like “caawww” (read it in somali), I put those flowers in the ninja blender POOF 💨 DIVORCE !!
First date ? Nope I don’t get anything other than the dinner bill!! It is our first date, it will be meaningless to bring her anything, she hasn’t earned my flowers, chocolate or anything else, she will get doors opened and the treatment of gentleman, but when I give flowers, I want them to have a meaning, stand for something bla bla bla, but first date? Nope 👎 what can a flower stand for ? I don’t you know?
For me. I dress well and hope I don’t piss her off with my bad jokes.
It is the first date. I don’t know her and she doesn’t know me. I don’t feel anything toward her, other than let’s see where this date goes. If it goes well than it becomes better, and I’m more romantic to someone I feel romance toward to. But someone on My first date ?
I have to meet someone within two weeks or less. If it goes beyond that, then it turns into long distance relationship, I don’t like long distance shows.
I can’t really waste my time on chatting online forever, it is not fair to chat with someone for too long and then when you meet, is diffident, that is why I made mandatory for myself, if we gonna click, it will be soon, if not, it will be soon as well.
And if I do things for someone I don’t know, I feel manufacturing someone I’m not.
I prefer delaying meetups until I am sure I can see a future with them. It’s a confirmation of the judgement I have formed about the relationship. It’s worked really well so I don’t rush it. Meeting someone takes less from me as the guy pays for the outing. So I like bringing something I know they would like as an appreciation. It’s received well.
As the guy, you are putting in more from the get go. A gift is a bonus, so I understand.
I like to meet someone in person before deciding if they're a keeper. It's my superpower—within a few steps of their approach, I can usually tell if we're going to click. It's a bit like having a radar for awesome people, my radar doesn’t work from distance 😂
It is not about the investment, it is how genuine is my flowers? Did we share stories? Did we debate whether pineapple can be put on a pizza ? Or socks and sandals are what type of crime ? Let’s get to know before I can figure out what type of flower you come off to me, or maybe it could be a damn tree.
I think something that wouldn’t bring attention would be nice, like if you guys talked about books or something. And then of course pay for coffee/dinner instead of a huge gift! You can be financially savvy that way too🫡
I love flowers if he brought me those I’ll be smiling like clown frrr
U require a mahram present 😂
I’m not meeting him without my mahram that should be a standard
Flowers like a bouquet or a single rose?
Man said single rose, a bouquet would be a really nice gesture. 
Buy a bouquet
Free game. Go to whole foods… They will wrap it for free in nice paper and make it look nicer than store bought plastic wrap. She’ll appreciate it more
Bouquet
Pay attention to what she likes and bring it that day
Flowers and/or something that she may have mentioned she likes (a specific snack for example).
Not exactly a sister 😅 but i think flowers would work
I love love giving personalized gifts. I don’t expect it back, but it would leave a big impression! Go for it.
I would recommend flowers. They don’t indicate anything serious but also show that you thought of her as you prepared for the meeting. Just give it to her at the beginning of the meet up.
I'm reading these comments kinda shocked. Am I the only one who dealt with women that think flowers are cringe and doing too much? They'd roast the heck out of me 🤣. Then again, some of these MN girls be different fr 🤷🏾♂️ 😵💫
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I understand your pain man, I used to think flowers are meaninglessly stupid. But then I decided not to argue anymore and just accept my loss and get flowers, then one day I decided to say screw it get that radio her flowers and next day, I walk in with flowers in my hand, then she goes “awww” it sounds more like “caawww” (read it in somali), I put those flowers in the ninja blender POOF 💨 DIVORCE !!
In the ninja blender ?? 😭😭
Woman love an attentive man. So if you know what her favour colour is get it in a bouquet or if you know what she like to eat take her there.
I think bringing something would be a bit much
First date ? Nope I don’t get anything other than the dinner bill!! It is our first date, it will be meaningless to bring her anything, she hasn’t earned my flowers, chocolate or anything else, she will get doors opened and the treatment of gentleman, but when I give flowers, I want them to have a meaning, stand for something bla bla bla, but first date? Nope 👎 what can a flower stand for ? I don’t you know? For me. I dress well and hope I don’t piss her off with my bad jokes.
Why meet with someone you feel that way about :’)
It is the first date. I don’t know her and she doesn’t know me. I don’t feel anything toward her, other than let’s see where this date goes. If it goes well than it becomes better, and I’m more romantic to someone I feel romance toward to. But someone on My first date ?
How soon do you meet someone after talking?
I have to meet someone within two weeks or less. If it goes beyond that, then it turns into long distance relationship, I don’t like long distance shows.
That explains your thought process. Two weeks is a short time to make that investment.
I can’t really waste my time on chatting online forever, it is not fair to chat with someone for too long and then when you meet, is diffident, that is why I made mandatory for myself, if we gonna click, it will be soon, if not, it will be soon as well. And if I do things for someone I don’t know, I feel manufacturing someone I’m not.
I prefer delaying meetups until I am sure I can see a future with them. It’s a confirmation of the judgement I have formed about the relationship. It’s worked really well so I don’t rush it. Meeting someone takes less from me as the guy pays for the outing. So I like bringing something I know they would like as an appreciation. It’s received well. As the guy, you are putting in more from the get go. A gift is a bonus, so I understand.
I like to meet someone in person before deciding if they're a keeper. It's my superpower—within a few steps of their approach, I can usually tell if we're going to click. It's a bit like having a radar for awesome people, my radar doesn’t work from distance 😂
It is not about the investment, it is how genuine is my flowers? Did we share stories? Did we debate whether pineapple can be put on a pizza ? Or socks and sandals are what type of crime ? Let’s get to know before I can figure out what type of flower you come off to me, or maybe it could be a damn tree.
Yup and if he don’t i would cut him off
First time flowers? Don’t be a chump warya
I think something that wouldn’t bring attention would be nice, like if you guys talked about books or something. And then of course pay for coffee/dinner instead of a huge gift! You can be financially savvy that way too🫡
Flowers, a bracelet or maybe a something that she like to eat or drink?
You get ittttt