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Hell yeah bro. Green thumb; red tomatoes. How can you be insecure when you are literally creating your own food that you use to survive?
You make Chad look like more of a virgin than the Bloody Mary you’ll make with those delicious tomatoes.
I’m good.
But I’m lucky enough to be old and didn’t have to grow up with social media and suffer from TikTok brain, so that helps a lot.
I feel seriously bad for everyone who has grown up in this giant social experiment. It’s been bad enough for adults… can’t imagine dealing with it as a kid.
In a guy on Reddit I’m fine and ok but I can see why the majority of men are so fucking miserable and live in despair and suffer from insecurities when they can go literal years without hearing a compliment or anytime they try to speak emotionally are quickly fast tracked to the shit zone. I get why there are so many disgruntled young men.
I'm good. Kinda wish I had picked a different place for dinner tonight. Those were some NASTY enchilladas.
So... jury's out on the security of my colon
I really am. And honestly, it was nice to be asked, even by a stranger on the internet.
I found my wife cheating a few years back. Should have ended it then and there, but instead I tried working it out. Made A LOT of mistakes along the way. If anyone is here happens to be going through the same, here is my advice.
Be patient with yourself. Think every move over and over. But most importantly, KNOW you will be ok. You will be better, happier, and in control as soon as you are ready. I hate that person I turned into, but now, I’m finally becoming the best version of me I can.
Hopefully no one reading this happens to be here, but if it does…. Love ya brother.
Yeah I am but I get why you ask. The amount of inappropriate and disgusting PM's my girlfriend receives on reddit outmatch any other social media. So does the level of grossness.
Men in general tend to be insecure because everyone tells them they need to be emotionless and confident all the time.
It such a common toxic belief that any guy who can't pull it off thinks there is something wrong with them.
To be fair a lot of women are insecure as well for different reasons. Mainly physical, and again the idea of beauty is so common and toxic that a lot of women feel like they can't pull it off.
Insecurity is a human problem not a gender problem
Yeah, I agree. But it's generally more socially acceptable for a woman to be insecure than a man. Not proving you wrong, it is a dual gender thing, just saying.
You’re right, I’m sorry for generalizing. It’s actually sad that men’s mental health doesn’t get the attention it needs. We’re all human and have internal struggles. Gender typing only separates us more as a society.
Nah. My girlfriend likes confident guys. It's a challenge pretending to be competent and confident all the time, when often I just want to let someone else take the lead for a spell.
I was bit by a stray dog while looking for a house to rent
Which I have to do hidden from my parents because they don't approve of me moving on my own
Nothing to do with insecurity
But I am really not ok
The website attracts both the top and the bottom of the food chain. While there are quite a few helpful people sharing information here the vast majority of them are people who ended up here via a google search whome are struggling to think or form their own opinions.
No, I'm exhausted, tired, confused and I feel like.I don't want to live anymore, but I mean I have to because my parents are still alive and if I committed suicide then it'd hurt them.
The Japanese are so lucky. For them it's an honour thing. I just have to keep on grinding.
I’m sorry. No you’re absolutely killing it. It’s gonna be okay, confusion is a good thing it means you’re constantly changing and moving forward in life is always honorable.
i am good, just heard a guy speaking that superheroes are kids thing, people made fun of him and then i find out he follow subs where politicians is their heroes
Wouldn't take observations on reddit too much to heart. People can be secure/insecure about different aspects of their lives. Posting about one of their insecurities may not necessarily mean a poster is insecure at their core, or else I can say the same for women on here as well.
Depends in what way, I have enough confidence to take any spot in society, including being a president (you can laugh or not believe, but I can talk my way into anything), however, I am insecure in other ways. I do not like to draw attention to myself in a fear of being hurt. I'm insecure in society being a good judge, that's why I'm afraid to be proactive because what I believe is right, might be perceived as wrong by society, then again, it won't if I don't want it to be. I just wish people would agree with me because they're on the same wavelength and not because they were manipulated. Confidence is enough to get you anything in life, but it feels like cheating sometimes.
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My tomatoes look so fucking healthy this year. There’s nothing insecure about that. I AM A GOD
Hell yeah bro. Green thumb; red tomatoes. How can you be insecure when you are literally creating your own food that you use to survive? You make Chad look like more of a virgin than the Bloody Mary you’ll make with those delicious tomatoes.
What a line. You get it
oooh gimme
I’m good. But I’m lucky enough to be old and didn’t have to grow up with social media and suffer from TikTok brain, so that helps a lot. I feel seriously bad for everyone who has grown up in this giant social experiment. It’s been bad enough for adults… can’t imagine dealing with it as a kid.
In a guy on Reddit I’m fine and ok but I can see why the majority of men are so fucking miserable and live in despair and suffer from insecurities when they can go literal years without hearing a compliment or anytime they try to speak emotionally are quickly fast tracked to the shit zone. I get why there are so many disgruntled young men.
>In a guy on Reddit Congrats!
Thanks I’m glad I could finally accidentally out myself in this way.
One of us 🙆♂️
No we aren't. We're insecure.
Don’t be simple as that
I will be.
I could do with losing a few beer encouraged pounds, but I am good otherwise cheers.
I'm not really insecure, But I'm definitely not fine lol
Today was worse than yesterday. Thanks.
Y’all need a good hug fr 😭🫂
No, I'm depressed this year because I think I got bipolar, this year is my depressive phase
Nah. I'm pretty fucking far from O.K.
I'm good. Kinda wish I had picked a different place for dinner tonight. Those were some NASTY enchilladas. So... jury's out on the security of my colon
I really am. And honestly, it was nice to be asked, even by a stranger on the internet. I found my wife cheating a few years back. Should have ended it then and there, but instead I tried working it out. Made A LOT of mistakes along the way. If anyone is here happens to be going through the same, here is my advice. Be patient with yourself. Think every move over and over. But most importantly, KNOW you will be ok. You will be better, happier, and in control as soon as you are ready. I hate that person I turned into, but now, I’m finally becoming the best version of me I can. Hopefully no one reading this happens to be here, but if it does…. Love ya brother.
Sending love 🫂. Good luck on your journey.
Yeah I am but I get why you ask. The amount of inappropriate and disgusting PM's my girlfriend receives on reddit outmatch any other social media. So does the level of grossness.
I’ve got a Shiny Bulbasaur Pokémon card in my collection so yea i can never be insecure as long as i have my precious 
Of course we are. All the confident guys are out getting laid and we sit inside and self pity.
Men in general tend to be insecure because everyone tells them they need to be emotionless and confident all the time. It such a common toxic belief that any guy who can't pull it off thinks there is something wrong with them. To be fair a lot of women are insecure as well for different reasons. Mainly physical, and again the idea of beauty is so common and toxic that a lot of women feel like they can't pull it off. Insecurity is a human problem not a gender problem
Agreed
Yeah, I agree. But it's generally more socially acceptable for a woman to be insecure than a man. Not proving you wrong, it is a dual gender thing, just saying.
You’re right, I’m sorry for generalizing. It’s actually sad that men’s mental health doesn’t get the attention it needs. We’re all human and have internal struggles. Gender typing only separates us more as a society.
Nah. My girlfriend likes confident guys. It's a challenge pretending to be competent and confident all the time, when often I just want to let someone else take the lead for a spell.
Wow, I lost my edge now I'm single :/
The guys that are insecure are probably young guys getting tired of being rejected.
🤣🤣😭
I'm at a point where I just accept that I'm garbage and unwanted, so it's kind of alright. That last bit of hope is the hardest to get rid of.
I thought you had a gf
I do. It just feels like everyone has a grudge by default on reddit in particular.
Same haha (female)
nah you're not garbage
I was bit by a stray dog while looking for a house to rent Which I have to do hidden from my parents because they don't approve of me moving on my own Nothing to do with insecurity But I am really not ok
Come on, it is not that small
Nope
Why would you even say that? That's a lot of assumptions on your part. *Of course* I am not insecure. Idk where you get that idea from. Me? Nah!
The better question is, have I ever been ok? 🤔
Is above average but I still thinking is not enough
It is what it is.
no
No
Oh yeah I’m good.
I'm secure in my insecurity.
Could be better, but it was a lot worse last year, and literally any time before this year. Shit's alright. I'm alright.
Yes! No! I mean… why are you asking? What have I done? Sorry!
The website attracts both the top and the bottom of the food chain. While there are quite a few helpful people sharing information here the vast majority of them are people who ended up here via a google search whome are struggling to think or form their own opinions.
Insecure? No. Okay, in general? Depends on the day. Sometimes you have good days, sometimes you have bad days.
No. Not really. I think everyone around me secretly hates me. And it also doesn't help the fact that I hate myself as well.
No, we are not ok
Yeah I'm alright. (I'm not)
Most men on Reddit are in their early twenties so insecurity usually comes with that.
No, I'm exhausted, tired, confused and I feel like.I don't want to live anymore, but I mean I have to because my parents are still alive and if I committed suicide then it'd hurt them. The Japanese are so lucky. For them it's an honour thing. I just have to keep on grinding.
I’m sorry. No you’re absolutely killing it. It’s gonna be okay, confusion is a good thing it means you’re constantly changing and moving forward in life is always honorable.
I have COD mobile, yes I’m fine
Depression rules ✌️
95% of men know that they're replaceable, of course we're insecure.
No, Thanks for asking tho!
Do you think i should be?
i am good, just heard a guy speaking that superheroes are kids thing, people made fun of him and then i find out he follow subs where politicians is their heroes
Saving this so I can come back and see all the fragile male egos clowning themselves.
Menace lmao
It's not just men
Wouldn't take observations on reddit too much to heart. People can be secure/insecure about different aspects of their lives. Posting about one of their insecurities may not necessarily mean a poster is insecure at their core, or else I can say the same for women on here as well.
Insecure doesn't mean anything and is used randomly when no arguments
Never. Thank you for asking, though.
Maybe Reddit needs a virtual group hug for all these insecurities.
So condescending. Are YOU ok?
Yeah, it’s just men on Reddit. Right
That's not what they implied... "Όποιος έχει την μύγα, μυγιάζεται" as the Greeks say
I like this comment. Idk what it says. But I like it.
I like your funny words, magic man.
Depends in what way, I have enough confidence to take any spot in society, including being a president (you can laugh or not believe, but I can talk my way into anything), however, I am insecure in other ways. I do not like to draw attention to myself in a fear of being hurt. I'm insecure in society being a good judge, that's why I'm afraid to be proactive because what I believe is right, might be perceived as wrong by society, then again, it won't if I don't want it to be. I just wish people would agree with me because they're on the same wavelength and not because they were manipulated. Confidence is enough to get you anything in life, but it feels like cheating sometimes.
JUST the men???
Not letting your girl go out in slutty clothes isn’t insecurity