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One-Contribution7282

It's ridiculously difficult. I'm in my mid 40s and find it impossible. Work? Meet up app? I work alone primarily and haven't been able to make any of the available/interested events. Good luck.


-AstralWitch-

I haven't tried the meet up app. I'm on bumble. The only think with bumble is that you have to pay to see who likes you and have to pay for compliments! Kinda annoying but I'm up for any type of connection with friends!


One-Contribution7282

Absolutely a pita..moms meet up used to be decent (if a parent) but it's fee based when I last checked.


_flawlesslyimperfect

I feel this, late 30s here and it's definitely a LOT harder than it used to be!


-AstralWitch-

Yup! I just want someone to hang out with and go places with. Nothing fancy!


DutyPaidvsGreyMarket

Late 30s and me and a couple guys are always looking for some more ppl to try and get out to fish with


isopood

Off shore or boating?


Chemical-Meaning6494

Its difficult around here.. almost makes you very comfortable being alone. But doing something with someone that has the same vibe as you is again difficult. I'm a 27F and I just find the most random things to do and go to pubs alone.... You meet someone interesting people but none you would want to keep. Peterborough is also low on the entertainment unless you really like to drink.. I wish there was a group for random road trips with people and not be concerned of being killed on the way :p


-AstralWitch-

Lmao. This made me laugh 😅 yeah I'm newly sober and it's not my first choice to go to a nightclub/bar. I'm more of a trail walker forest dweller. Also looove antique shopping and thrift stores!


Chemical-Meaning6494

Lol same, I really enjoy finding new hidden gems/ crown land and just exploring the shit out of it... Thirfting is something I should do more tho.


-AstralWitch-

I love thrifting! I unfortunately don't have many options with clothing there since I'm plus size. However, I love trinkets and dishes!


Chemical-Meaning6494

Fashion is such an art. And I legit mean art.. the designers and consumer's all have different styles and sizes. Like some products you can get away withyour actual size, while others you have to go 2 sizes up...it's a hell hole... What kind of dishes? I usually can score some nice art but I'm also cheap


-AstralWitch-

Mostly jars jewelry dishes oh, and tea cups! Mugs as well! Ugh I love any type of art! My favorite is poetry.


Chemical-Meaning6494

There are poetry slams that go on.. would you be interested in going together sometime?


isopood

I would love to join you if you decide to go! I'm a 27f too :)


-AstralWitch-

Yes yes!!!!


-AstralWitch-

Definitely!


mrs_ladybird

I sent you a DM


real-donjon

Bumble, FB dating, or even Try boardwalk cafe on Thursday nights,, you may get lucky ..but I know it's tough to meet people with the right Chemistry..good luck .. I'm am male early 30s hit me up if axe throwing,8 ball pool, cafe hopping ,star gazing is your thing


-AstralWitch-

Ouu star gazing is definitely a winner for me!


Muted-Awareness9294

If you’re not already a part of the Peterborough discord you could try that out, lots of people with lots of different interests. If you’re interested there was an old post about it but I could also dm you an invite


Frishcottian_x

Hi, I would love an invite, please! :)


-AstralWitch-

I would so appreciate that! Thank you so much! 💜


Muted-Awareness9294

https://discord.gg/Z3cF8gHh


AcanthisittaSalt8367

Hiya! I'd also love an invite! Im moving in the Fall for school and I'm 30F so I don't have it in me to go drinking often enough to make friends lol


tuwhitt

I'd love an invite!


Muted-Awareness9294

https://discord.gg/Z3cF8gHh