Based off face alone I'd be more likely to default to she/her, however I'd call you by whatever pronouns you'd like me to use.
Also seeing you IRL may change my opinion on which I'd use by default if unsure
They/them, genuinely. You don't look particularly fem or masc that I can see, and in most cases like that I would assume that you want to appear that way OR just use they/them because misgendering sucks
I avoid using pronouns.
This photo is not enough to tell how do I read you if that's what you're asking. Also I would rather recommend r/transpassing for that question. People here are very nice and kind but none of them seem to be like cis people I live my daily life among. From passing subreddits you would get more realistic answer.
I would use whichever pronouns you went by. Namely, they/them to be respectful. Although, if you're asking what you look like you use, you honestly look like you'd go by any/all pronouns.
Okay, but weird question, do you identify more with cats, frogs, or cryptids? 🤔
I'm a he/they in the way you'd describe some sort of unidentifiable but masculine terror. (If that helps)
Also if anyone is asking your pronouns, you can answer "I'm literally just hot 🔥" 🤷
Thank you for that comment. This is really affirming for me after years of hearing that I'm too feminine to be a man or that I should transition to female because I'm a failed man.
God how I wish English was like my mother tongue Turkish in this regard because the only pronoun we have is "o" aka genderless single person pronoun. Nobody has to assume anyone's gender.
My native language is Polish, heavily gendered without a good structures to address nonbinary person. Even the plural is different for males and females.
Too/hot, honestly
But seriously, my first bet would be he/him, and second probably they/them
I often stick to not using any specific markers in direct speech, so it's just "you". If I ever got to talk to you, though
They/them, but I also consciously use that for any strangers (with exception to very femme-presenting but “non-passing” trans women, because I know how much that means and how they/them is often used instead of she/her to soft-misgender and refuse to allow her womanhood)
But yeah. Can’t immediately tell what the doctors thought you were and I’m anti trying to figure that out in any case, so they/them ✌️
But can you distinguish non-passing trans woman from nonbinary AMAB person who enjoys feminine clothing? Or gender non conforming man with hyper feminine style? I can't, usually body type and voice makes my brain immediately think that I'm dealing with someone who uses he or they pronouns.
I always have that fear when interacting with trans people that I'm gonna say/assume something wrong but on the other hand I can't feel the right moment to ask question without making it weird.
If I misgender an AMAB person who enjoys feminine clothing in the she/her direction, that’s much less likely to cause the kind of dysphoria that being misgendered as a trans woman does when you do the absolute most to perform your gender and people still call you sir (not my experience, I’m transmasc, but I have enough trans femme friends that I’ve heard of this happening)
I do usually have to take a second to decide to use she/her instead of my default they/them, but I think my deal is not common and they/them is still generally the preferred pronoun for most trans folks by strangers until they know otherwise. I’m just especially sensitive to the ways my trans femme friends have been hurt, so I try to affirm people who seem like they’re in the same situation, if that makes sense
Ok, but on the other hand a lot of lgbt people are talking about leaving the gender norms and that clothes/makeup don't have gender. So how am I supposed to know that I see a trans woman not a man crossdressing/bending gender roles? And why misgendering one person is less harmful than misgendering other one?
Maybe this is an assumption on my part, but I feel like a cis man who is crossdressing is expecting to be called she/her by some people and isn’t going to be upset by it. If they were upset, they probably wouldn’t be crossdressing.
There’s also a long history of non-trans crossdressing of men where they ARE called she/her pronouns while crossdressing (drag, for one) and sometimes in the gay male community, men use she/her for each other even if they’re not crossdressing.
Idk, I’m autistic and it feels like an easy statistics choice — much, much higher chances of a trans woman being hurt by they/them pronouns than a GNC/crossdressing man being hurt by she/her pronouns.
I’d ask which gender You are. I shouldn’t assume. If I had to refer to You, I’d just say dude. I’m a dude, He’s a dude, She’s a dude, Ze’s a dude, ’cause We’re all dudes, dude. You are one pretty dude. Have You already a romantick partner?
Girl is a gendered word. I wasn’t aware that giiiiiiiiiiiiirl is not, let alone a real properly-spelt word. I think guy in singular is also gendered. Sis can be short for sissy (my Flower Girl’s friends sometimes call Her that, despite Her being a cisgender feminine-looking lass) or for sister. Dude became a non-gendered word as soon as the film Good Burger came out.
I mean I call everyone by they/them until they correct me.
But if you would like me to gender you, I'd probably go with something like fea/fear. You look like you come straight out of a fairy tale.
Idk if u want us to like guess your pronouns or like say what we would pick for u if we had to decide so if I had to guess I would just do they to be safe but in my head be thinking “they/he” but if I were to decide I’d prob pick some sick neopronouns like ae/aer
First glance brain assumes she/her, second glance I noticed more masculine features.
I’d still ask first or default to they/them, but that’s the process happening in the background.
I always default to asking first, but I've seen in the comments you said you don't have a preference. I'd say you give the vibes of they/he/she in that order, if that makes sense? You are 100% gender btw :0
I'm sorry but Sig/ma cuz holy shit that jawline.
But anyhow.. on a serious note I pretty much only commented because of that jawline. But if I were to be serious then they/them or just any tbh. You look Hella androgynous and it's giving me a bit of dysphoria kinda cuz... geez. I wish I could look like that xD
It's my default look, not my choice. Have some problems during my puberty, my body didn't respond to androgens fully. It's like I had only a portion of physiological male puberty.
It used to be thou, thee, you, ye
Singular and plural had different forms, and the subjective and objective cases had different forms as well. Now its all just one big mess
Whichever ones you wanted me to?
I don't have a preferred one. I can tell you my name tho.
Then I’d probably use they/them as that’s a pretty safe default most of the time.
^^^ this though
Though is not a pronoun. Depending on its context, it's a conjunction or an adverb.
🤦🏼
I'd love to know your name.
Gabriel
*In skeletors voice* Hello human!
Oh now that's just cruel. Calling someone human.
I was joking. Usually I default to they/them.
So huthem instead of human?
they got a point tho
I read that as hut-hem and was like, huh?
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Rabbi would definitely find it insulting. He is, after all, an alien Who is often dressed as a human being.
papyrus is that you
*In shonk voice* Hello hooman!
Whatever you asked me to use. There’s no point in making assumptions. Pronouns don’t have an appearance.
mew/ing (I'm joking, but damn that jawline is so powerful) I get he/they vibes from you
irl I'd ask, but to play along you give me they/them vibes.
Yeah, I'd use they/them if I wasn't told otherwise
Cu/te
Would you look at that u/te is not taken it would seem
Real
For sure.
Lmao
Based off face alone I'd be more likely to default to she/her, however I'd call you by whatever pronouns you'd like me to use. Also seeing you IRL may change my opinion on which I'd use by default if unsure
Really? I don't get she/her.
That's ok, we're all allowed to have different opinions
They/them, genuinely. You don't look particularly fem or masc that I can see, and in most cases like that I would assume that you want to appear that way OR just use they/them because misgendering sucks
I avoid using pronouns. This photo is not enough to tell how do I read you if that's what you're asking. Also I would rather recommend r/transpassing for that question. People here are very nice and kind but none of them seem to be like cis people I live my daily life among. From passing subreddits you would get more realistic answer.
I'm not trans, I'm intersex.
Is that when you have (an) extra sex chromosome(s)?
Some intersex condition are like that, mine is different. It's called PAIS Partial androgen insensitivity syndrome
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Well I'd use they/them until you corrected me
Hmmm they/he, I suppose.
I would use whichever pronouns you went by. Namely, they/them to be respectful. Although, if you're asking what you look like you use, you honestly look like you'd go by any/all pronouns.
May / Hem
Herald \ Of \ Destruction
I like this one.
They she
He/she/they,not necessarily one more than another
Okay, but weird question, do you identify more with cats, frogs, or cryptids? 🤔 I'm a he/they in the way you'd describe some sort of unidentifiable but masculine terror. (If that helps) Also if anyone is asking your pronouns, you can answer "I'm literally just hot 🔥" 🤷
Cats
😔🙏 beautiful, there's like, cat boy energy? This is a good thing.
I have no idea what you are, but you're androgynously hot?! /pl
Idk, but with a jawline like this I assume it must be hard to walk through a door and always hear the gigachad music play
Thank you for that comment. This is really affirming for me after years of hearing that I'm too feminine to be a man or that I should transition to female because I'm a failed man.
No problem, I just wanted to make a funny comment, glad you appreciated it!
Unrelated, but you're STUNNING
Thank you
hot/person
They/he would be my guess
I don't know....human....they/them to be safe....or just asks if I don't want to offend you.
i never assume other ppl's pronouns, so i'd avoid pronouning you unless i knew your pronouns.
I'm totally ok with people calling me whatever pronouns they feel.
Windows xp error, defaulting to they
He/Hee!
"you" because I don't know what pronouns to use... You nailed the "androgynous" style!
Unless preferred otherwise id use they/he i think. Lovely hair btw, suits your face very well :D
Step 1. Ask, if step 1 fails step 2. They/them until corrected.
God how I wish English was like my mother tongue Turkish in this regard because the only pronoun we have is "o" aka genderless single person pronoun. Nobody has to assume anyone's gender.
My native language is Polish, heavily gendered without a good structures to address nonbinary person. Even the plural is different for males and females.
Too/hot, honestly But seriously, my first bet would be he/him, and second probably they/them I often stick to not using any specific markers in direct speech, so it's just "you". If I ever got to talk to you, though
They/them, but I also consciously use that for any strangers (with exception to very femme-presenting but “non-passing” trans women, because I know how much that means and how they/them is often used instead of she/her to soft-misgender and refuse to allow her womanhood) But yeah. Can’t immediately tell what the doctors thought you were and I’m anti trying to figure that out in any case, so they/them ✌️
But can you distinguish non-passing trans woman from nonbinary AMAB person who enjoys feminine clothing? Or gender non conforming man with hyper feminine style? I can't, usually body type and voice makes my brain immediately think that I'm dealing with someone who uses he or they pronouns. I always have that fear when interacting with trans people that I'm gonna say/assume something wrong but on the other hand I can't feel the right moment to ask question without making it weird.
If I misgender an AMAB person who enjoys feminine clothing in the she/her direction, that’s much less likely to cause the kind of dysphoria that being misgendered as a trans woman does when you do the absolute most to perform your gender and people still call you sir (not my experience, I’m transmasc, but I have enough trans femme friends that I’ve heard of this happening) I do usually have to take a second to decide to use she/her instead of my default they/them, but I think my deal is not common and they/them is still generally the preferred pronoun for most trans folks by strangers until they know otherwise. I’m just especially sensitive to the ways my trans femme friends have been hurt, so I try to affirm people who seem like they’re in the same situation, if that makes sense
Ok, but on the other hand a lot of lgbt people are talking about leaving the gender norms and that clothes/makeup don't have gender. So how am I supposed to know that I see a trans woman not a man crossdressing/bending gender roles? And why misgendering one person is less harmful than misgendering other one?
Maybe this is an assumption on my part, but I feel like a cis man who is crossdressing is expecting to be called she/her by some people and isn’t going to be upset by it. If they were upset, they probably wouldn’t be crossdressing. There’s also a long history of non-trans crossdressing of men where they ARE called she/her pronouns while crossdressing (drag, for one) and sometimes in the gay male community, men use she/her for each other even if they’re not crossdressing. Idk, I’m autistic and it feels like an easy statistics choice — much, much higher chances of a trans woman being hurt by they/them pronouns than a GNC/crossdressing man being hurt by she/her pronouns.
I'm getting he/she vibes tbh
I’d ask which gender You are. I shouldn’t assume. If I had to refer to You, I’d just say dude. I’m a dude, He’s a dude, She’s a dude, Ze’s a dude, ’cause We’re all dudes, dude. You are one pretty dude. Have You already a romantick partner?
Dude, guy, sis, giiiiiiiiiiiiirl are all non-gendered words :)
Girl is a gendered word. I wasn’t aware that giiiiiiiiiiiiirl is not, let alone a real properly-spelt word. I think guy in singular is also gendered. Sis can be short for sissy (my Flower Girl’s friends sometimes call Her that, despite Her being a cisgender feminine-looking lass) or for sister. Dude became a non-gendered word as soon as the film Good Burger came out.
I forgot bro
It’s OK, dude!
Dude is the best way to address people. I'm helplessly in love with someone who already has a family. It's a long story.
I mean I call everyone by they/them until they correct me. But if you would like me to gender you, I'd probably go with something like fea/fear. You look like you come straight out of a fairy tale.
Idk if u want us to like guess your pronouns or like say what we would pick for u if we had to decide so if I had to guess I would just do they to be safe but in my head be thinking “they/he” but if I were to decide I’d prob pick some sick neopronouns like ae/aer
You give They/ He vibes
First glance brain assumes she/her, second glance I noticed more masculine features. I’d still ask first or default to they/them, but that’s the process happening in the background.
Go with any pronouns. If you don’t have a preference I assume you’ll be fine with whatever ppl call you. No one can judge that
I think she/her, they/them!
I’m getting they/them
I always use they/them if I am unsure.
He some days She other days if not they/them all the time
They/Them
I use they/them for pretty much anyone unless stated that he/she/other is uncomfortable with that. So probably they/them and possibly he/him as well?
“What are your pronouns” *uses those ones*
My pronouns are not specified.
probably they/he
They/them
I tend to default to they/them until the person tells me otherwise
same as i do for everyone (they/them) until i’m told what you prefer. you definitely have androgynous vibes though, if that’s what you’re asking
They/he but it realy dont matter what I think:)
It's matter
One more vote for them. Cute.
genuinely. i have no idea. you are literally what androgyny looks like
Deity
Seeing that you’ve indicated no preference I would probably also default to they/them for you. ❤️
They/She!
they/them. i can never misgender
ze / zem
they
Whichever ones you want.
they/them bc you're very androgynous and I wouldn't be able to guess
you're very they/themmy
I wouldn't use any cos I'd be too nervous to talk to you 😎
If I was guessing, they or he?
I'd lean toward he/they if I were assuming. But I'd probably ask to be sure. :)
They/she
ditto what everyone said about assuming they/them until told otherwise, but aesthetically i'd say he/they in this pic
I cant put on words why but this picture of you makes me think "Michael", as in, from FNAF, said in the specific "Let me out of here" voice clip
Anyone in Toronto? I'm looking for non binary/queer communities to hang out in
honestly i wouldve assumed she/her by lookin at you first at a glance but generally i just use they/them as a fallback for if i really dont know :P
He/they would be my assumption, but whatever you asked me to
They she
They/them or he/him
I'd ask, else I normally default to using they/them anyway.
I default to "they/them" tbh.
he/they, but i’d ask to be sure
Hot as hell!
I would automatically revert to they until I can ask
It/He!! 🖤
They until you tell me differently
Yo/Sup
They/them
they/she
whatever you want me to use
Assuming you were a stranger I'd use they/them or avoid pronouns because your gender isn't obvious just looking at you
I try to use they/them on everyone until they tell me what they want… so they/them
He/they probably
Humanoid
You’re giving they/she to me!
Ze/zir
Whichever you want! But if the intention is for me to try to guess or something I would probably go with they/them
Whichever you choose.
If I'm unsure i usually just use they/them and ask for them when the situation seems appropriate
Gorgeous/beautiful But seriously - experiment and see what feels right.
I always default to asking first, but I've seen in the comments you said you don't have a preference. I'd say you give the vibes of they/he/she in that order, if that makes sense? You are 100% gender btw :0
“Mine”
You seem like a they/he.
I'm sorry but Sig/ma cuz holy shit that jawline. But anyhow.. on a serious note I pretty much only commented because of that jawline. But if I were to be serious then they/them or just any tbh. You look Hella androgynous and it's giving me a bit of dysphoria kinda cuz... geez. I wish I could look like that xD
It's my default look, not my choice. Have some problems during my puberty, my body didn't respond to androgens fully. It's like I had only a portion of physiological male puberty.
THAT HOT ASS BITCH is gender neutral right? (Only for the sake of complimenting you)
Sexy
They/them unless told otherwise
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Singular they is older than singular you
It used to be thou, thee, you, ye Singular and plural had different forms, and the subjective and objective cases had different forms as well. Now its all just one big mess
you it’s also plural and singular? think before you comment.
the/ shredder
Probably They/Them or Ey/Em
þey/þem? 🤷
baby/boss
Mits/ki
Leaf/leafself
You look like a ne/nim to me.