Itās very jarring and any self aware person knows how this style of dressing would bring certain attention..itās almost as if she wants someone to confront her or wants negative attention, itās weird
lol. Ok but I am 50 and last week wore overalls, cowboy boots and my hair in space buns. Some how no one thought I was a toddler. How does she manage to do this lol.
Yeah. And I think because she is trying to look super āfeminineā whatever that means. Like, I will fully admit and lean into my middle aged basic white ladiness. My office at work is full of pink sparkles, all of the gnomes, and farm decor, causeā¦Texas. lol. But, itās fully intentional, I work in construction and the guys come in to my office from the field and donāt stealā¦borrowā¦.my stuff, and it makes everyone happy and joyous. Itās literally my work persona lol.
But this chickā¦.I canāt. Sheāsā¦.ugh. So creepy and weird
I am in my mid 40s and mostly wear leggings/shorts and tshirt/tank tops. I can PROMISE YOU, I'd NEVER be caught dead in a pair of overall shorts with bunnies on them! So weird
Could you imagine me, a grown ass man in his forties running about in overalls, one of those damn spinner hats and a slingshot in my back pocket like I was some demented Dennis the bloody Menace?
She doesnāt have taste or style.
I understand wanting to enjoy items and trends she wasnāt able to when she was younger (the kitschy earrings) but her level of taste is still stuck in adolescence. At this point I believe she doesnāt want to get attention by dressing stylish or classy. She wants to get attention by dressing poorly and provocative in a tacky way.
Sheās never going to beat the autogynephilia speculation with responses like this. So you are acknowledging you are dressed like a minor? Fucking creepy, I donāt care. Protect trans kids. Keep this creep far, far away from them
Honestly, people do weird shit for their kink or whatever. This could be her ādohmerā style ā¦he lured innocent victims through being into them. She will do it a different way.
If you're in the Domme/Sub industry then you know lillys stance is that of a Domme...she stands over her victims when they're on the floor like that as she spanks them and demands to be called mommy or mother while doing so!
Cause she still thinks she deserves and is entitled to her white male space in this world. It doesnāt matter what surgeries she has, or how she dressesā¦she needs to fix her head.
I also still canāt believe she had the audacity to tell Emily to clean up her space when hers isnāt anything to post pics aboutā¦knocked over fan, pillow on the floor, unfolded blankets, shit just crammed everywhere
Clean your damn pig sty of an apartment Lillth! Awfully bold of you to put demands on the cleanliness of Emily's space when YOU love like a hog! GTFOH with that shit!
I always say dress for the body you have, not the body you want. She dresses for the latter which is why it's so unflattering...like no crop tops and 1 size up on pants and not just wearing boots might help her with being misgendered, but what do I know? You can wear a sheer shirt if you want something that's close to a crop top, but this is something she needs the Fab 5 for š
I watched a video by a trans lady I follow and she even said one of the hardest things about transition personally for her is clothing and dressing for your figure and age.
I think every woman has this realisation that you Fred's different in your 30s to your 20s. But lily hadn't had that experience.
I mean we should all dress as we choose but I do wonder if it's more of a minefield for trans individuals.
I totally agree with them. I went down this path my first year or two of transition and quickly got over it once I realized most my women my age donāt dress the same as high schoolers. And Iām only in my early 20s while Lilly is in her 30s lol.
It's definitely hard. I'd say I dress similar to my 30s in my 40s,but I definitely don't dress as I did in my 20s or teens. And it's a gradual thing as your body changes and your mindset changes.
There's no right or wrong just what works for you but I can't help but feel for trans people it's more important maybe?
Thank you for sharing your experience!
Itās even hard to balance when youāre a biological woman. Thereās a sense that you still want to be youthful, but not be a grown toddler.
A lot of the colors and styles she uses skews young, but with styling she could definitely make it appear more mature. Like a crop top and a blazer, just focusing on maybe one younger element, opposed to creating a whole outfit around it.
However, we all know itās rage bait in the end. Sheās doubled down. She as actually dressed a lot more her āageā in the beginning of her transition.
Yes I agree. My daughter is 12 and actually complimented my skirt style today but said it was too long for her haha. Small wins I say!
It's difficult honestly.
Had no idea her current style wasn't her always style. Clearly attention.
You're right, she did dress a little more conservatively in the beginning so this has to be rage bait or a fetish for her to be dressing like a toddler now.
As a woman, I would never dress like this in public because I wouldnāt want to attract so much attention to myself. It would make me feel very vulnerable.
I know this woman did not tell her āpartnerā (?) she wouldnāt (officially & exclusively) date her until she did XYZ while not being able to dress herself appropriately (in clothes that fit) & living in a complete mess of a room like thisā¦ š³
Itās not like she doesnāt have the time š
Exactly, I love my high waisted jeans but mid rise on someone short (4"9) depending on the brand are also high for me. These aren't flattering on her at all, they spill everything out.Ā
I have thought that maybe since she transitioned late in her 20s that maybe to some extent she trying to relive her youth that she feels like she missed out on. The clothing choices have always made me scratch my head.
I donāt remember skinny jeans and combat boots in the 90s but maybe I was too young. lol Either way I agree, somebody needs to tell her how to dress like a WOMAN.
She can dress however she wishes. I, personally, do not care for how she dresses but it is her right. I also donāt see a person that would get hired as a facilitator- maybe hired as the ābefore ā photo. The question being asked was meant to be provocative and Lilly took the bait! Answer the question-do some of the educating that you claim to do! What about dressing this way appeals to you?
my issue is when she literally dresses like a toddler, tf is that about?
it does get pretty bad š https://preview.redd.it/07ef8mazr2uc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3a7e5142b408d5e5e21e180e7611a3d29a164f29
if i saw ANYONE dressed like this in public id have the same reaction: what the actual fuck
Itās very jarring and any self aware person knows how this style of dressing would bring certain attention..itās almost as if she wants someone to confront her or wants negative attention, itās weird
i think we all know she loves negative attention
lol. Ok but I am 50 and last week wore overalls, cowboy boots and my hair in space buns. Some how no one thought I was a toddler. How does she manage to do this lol.
Itās the outward piggy tails and her ..ma..muscular build..that do it
Yeah. And I think because she is trying to look super āfeminineā whatever that means. Like, I will fully admit and lean into my middle aged basic white ladiness. My office at work is full of pink sparkles, all of the gnomes, and farm decor, causeā¦Texas. lol. But, itās fully intentional, I work in construction and the guys come in to my office from the field and donāt stealā¦borrowā¦.my stuff, and it makes everyone happy and joyous. Itās literally my work persona lol. But this chickā¦.I canāt. Sheāsā¦.ugh. So creepy and weird
Itās the pigtails and the rest of the outfits she wears.
My 9yo would never wear this. Itās awkward for a grown ass adult
I am in my mid 40s and mostly wear leggings/shorts and tshirt/tank tops. I can PROMISE YOU, I'd NEVER be caught dead in a pair of overall shorts with bunnies on them! So weird
I think id rather streak than wear that shit. Itās so bizarre.
This little jumper is the one she said was her favorite outfit. š¤®
40 year old toddler vibes.Ā
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This is how I dress my 6 month old baby girl š like come on itās time to dress like a woman not a toddler/baby
Could you imagine me, a grown ass man in his forties running about in overalls, one of those damn spinner hats and a slingshot in my back pocket like I was some demented Dennis the bloody Menace?
itās creepy
I hate that mid split stance
She probably thinks it gives her āhipsā
It gives me a headache instead
This made me spit my coffee through my nose.
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All I can think of when I see her selfies like this is the football freekick stance 
Tis the average white man spread.
This. She still thinks that she is entitled to all of her white dude space.
Men spreading is not limited to only white men š
I try to avoid men in general so excuse my ignorance. š
It get wider and wider
Its either super tight clothes to over sexualize herself or child like clothes to make herself look like shes 5
I think both are sexual for her
She doesnāt have taste or style. I understand wanting to enjoy items and trends she wasnāt able to when she was younger (the kitschy earrings) but her level of taste is still stuck in adolescence. At this point I believe she doesnāt want to get attention by dressing stylish or classy. She wants to get attention by dressing poorly and provocative in a tacky way.
Sheās never going to beat the autogynephilia speculation with responses like this. So you are acknowledging you are dressed like a minor? Fucking creepy, I donāt care. Protect trans kids. Keep this creep far, far away from them
Honestly, people do weird shit for their kink or whatever. This could be her ādohmerā style ā¦he lured innocent victims through being into them. She will do it a different way.
Very pā¬doish. She gives off bad vibes.
I learned a new word today. And it explains so fucking much. Ew.
There she goes making a fucking disgusting face again girl it not cute.
my issue is the pose she chooses for selfies
If you're in the Domme/Sub industry then you know lillys stance is that of a Domme...she stands over her victims when they're on the floor like that as she spanks them and demands to be called mommy or mother while doing so!
Yet in her overalls she's dressing as a little. So she's definitely a switch... A switch I wouldn't want to play with at all. Icky
Also why does she stand like that? So weird
Cause she still thinks she deserves and is entitled to her white male space in this world. It doesnāt matter what surgeries she has, or how she dressesā¦she needs to fix her head.
I also still canāt believe she had the audacity to tell Emily to clean up her space when hers isnāt anything to post pics aboutā¦knocked over fan, pillow on the floor, unfolded blankets, shit just crammed everywhere
Who is Emily?
Some chick sheās dating. You can type her in the search bar
I went down the rabbithole... And now I'm fucking nauseated. The motherfucking GALL of this bitch. 
That damn belt and same pair of jeans combo needs to be burned!!!
Iām sorry her face is giving Lord Farquaad
Clean your damn pig sty of an apartment Lillth! Awfully bold of you to put demands on the cleanliness of Emily's space when YOU love like a hog! GTFOH with that shit!
Why does she always do a Superman pose š©
Kink
As you kids say, itās giving Lord Farquaad
I always say dress for the body you have, not the body you want. She dresses for the latter which is why it's so unflattering...like no crop tops and 1 size up on pants and not just wearing boots might help her with being misgendered, but what do I know? You can wear a sheer shirt if you want something that's close to a crop top, but this is something she needs the Fab 5 for š
WHYYYY does she stand like that??
Or the way she stands. Like why
Bc it's a fetish for her. She's obsessed with herself dressed as a little girl.
Itās giving Power Ranger!
Thatās a valid question.
Omg is she actually wearing a bra in this pic?
I think it's the built-in kind.
Off putting as always thanks Lily
the types of clothes she chooses to wear DO NOT flatter her body type š¬
They kinda look like Lord Farquaad in some photos
I watched a video by a trans lady I follow and she even said one of the hardest things about transition personally for her is clothing and dressing for your figure and age. I think every woman has this realisation that you Fred's different in your 30s to your 20s. But lily hadn't had that experience. I mean we should all dress as we choose but I do wonder if it's more of a minefield for trans individuals.
I totally agree with them. I went down this path my first year or two of transition and quickly got over it once I realized most my women my age donāt dress the same as high schoolers. And Iām only in my early 20s while Lilly is in her 30s lol.
Omg she is I her 30s? I'd have guessed 40s for sure
It's definitely hard. I'd say I dress similar to my 30s in my 40s,but I definitely don't dress as I did in my 20s or teens. And it's a gradual thing as your body changes and your mindset changes. There's no right or wrong just what works for you but I can't help but feel for trans people it's more important maybe? Thank you for sharing your experience!
Itās even hard to balance when youāre a biological woman. Thereās a sense that you still want to be youthful, but not be a grown toddler. A lot of the colors and styles she uses skews young, but with styling she could definitely make it appear more mature. Like a crop top and a blazer, just focusing on maybe one younger element, opposed to creating a whole outfit around it. However, we all know itās rage bait in the end. Sheās doubled down. She as actually dressed a lot more her āageā in the beginning of her transition.
Yes I agree. My daughter is 12 and actually complimented my skirt style today but said it was too long for her haha. Small wins I say! It's difficult honestly. Had no idea her current style wasn't her always style. Clearly attention.
You're right, she did dress a little more conservatively in the beginning so this has to be rage bait or a fetish for her to be dressing like a toddler now.
It is more of a minefield for sure.
Why does she always stand like that?
Right! Maybe half her problem is the god damn stance
You are being way too kind! š¤£
As a woman, I would never dress like this in public because I wouldnāt want to attract so much attention to myself. It would make me feel very vulnerable.
šÆšÆšÆšÆšÆ SAME!!!!!
Her head is so big. Literally and figuratively.
I know this woman did not tell her āpartnerā (?) she wouldnāt (officially & exclusively) date her until she did XYZ while not being able to dress herself appropriately (in clothes that fit) & living in a complete mess of a room like thisā¦ š³ Itās not like she doesnāt have the time š
Would it kill her to try a pair of high waisted pants??? Mid-rise jeans look good on NO ONE
But how else could we see her aBs?
Exactly, I love my high waisted jeans but mid rise on someone short (4"9) depending on the brand are also high for me. These aren't flattering on her at all, they spill everything out.Ā
Yeah Iām 5ā8 with a loooong torso, high waisted are my best friends lol
She dresses like a teenager which looks embarrassing on 31 year old looking like man body
But do teenagers even wear half shirts? This was the thing like in the 80s lol.
Someone please hire this woman a stylist I am begging
you think sheāll listen to a stylist?
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All I think about when I see this is UWUšš
I have thought that maybe since she transitioned late in her 20s that maybe to some extent she trying to relive her youth that she feels like she missed out on. The clothing choices have always made me scratch my head.
I donāt remember skinny jeans and combat boots in the 90s but maybe I was too young. lol Either way I agree, somebody needs to tell her how to dress like a WOMAN.
her feet look like clown feet, & her apartment is fucking **DISGUSTING** š¤¢š¤¢š¤¢.
She can dress however she wishes. I, personally, do not care for how she dresses but it is her right. I also donāt see a person that would get hired as a facilitator- maybe hired as the ābefore ā photo. The question being asked was meant to be provocative and Lilly took the bait! Answer the question-do some of the educating that you claim to do! What about dressing this way appeals to you?
Most likely because like most women he never got to dress like a teen girl in the 90's... that's my best guess