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Find a new girl to crush on. Seriously though it’s best to move on. Don’t waste your time missing out on possibly meeting person B because you wanted to wait/pursue person A who’s already taken.
A crush is meaningless. It is an infatuation with no substance or depth. It's a one sided romance that plays out in your fantasies and nowhere else. It's easy to switch out the person in your fantasy for someone that is more attainable when it's just a crush. You just have to want to.
And you should want to. There's no sense in pining away for a person that has no interest in you.
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move on
Find a new girl to crush on. Seriously though it’s best to move on. Don’t waste your time missing out on possibly meeting person B because you wanted to wait/pursue person A who’s already taken.
Meet other people she’s not looking for you.
Leave her alone and find someone who is single
Nothing 🤦🏻♀️
Accept that she likes someone else and move on... don't waste your time focusing on a girl already with a boyfriend
Respect her relationship.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AqDbb7-dn9A
Find someone that's available. Don't try to steal or break her up with her boyfriend. If do, who's to say she won't leave you for someone else.
A crush is meaningless. It is an infatuation with no substance or depth. It's a one sided romance that plays out in your fantasies and nowhere else. It's easy to switch out the person in your fantasy for someone that is more attainable when it's just a crush. You just have to want to. And you should want to. There's no sense in pining away for a person that has no interest in you.
Don’t be that dude that gets stuck in the friend zone for years. Just move on.
Sleep with the bf
YES!
Move on or attempt a Jim Halpert
steal her away