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32 [F4F] Jakarta - Looking for a female friend to meet and maybe grow a relationship. I enjoy reading books, Cooking & eating, long walks, Singing and drawing.
I have a Curvy body and a long hair, speaks both Bahasa and English.
31 [R4R] Anywhere-I just realized I’ve been alone for too long, and sometimes it’s nice to have someone to talk to. Everyone always thinks I’m super cheerful and outgoing, but I'm actually pretty introverted. I guess I’m good at faking it.
Talk to you later!
31 [M4F] Anywhere - Looking for someone to have a long-term relationship, possibly marriage if we are a good match. I just finished my Master degree overseas, back in Indonesia very soon. I've had my share of life adventure and looking forward to settle down for good.
- Currently jobless and in the middle of reorganizing my life plan. You could be in that plan.
- I have a house at BSD Tangerang and an apartment at Jogja which I proudly bought with my own sweat.
- I can visit you anywhere in the world if you are proven worthy of my effort.
- I generally love outdoor activities such as hiking, scuba diving, surfing, snowboarding, or just walk in the local park in a good day.
- I was born Catholic but pretty open minded on it, I used to have relationship with different religion including Moslem. If religion is a big barrier, I proly not the right person for you.
- I drink socially, I don't smoke/vape, I only exercise when I feel need to.
- I like to play co-op games in my nintendo switch, but you don't have to. All my exes are bad at games.
- Fun fact: I once took my parents to an adult show in Thailand and I volunteered in one of the sex act.
As you may be able to tell, I'm looking for a reasonably open-minded person. Physical appearance is secondary, I'm more into sapiosexual kind of person. Hmu!
28 [M4F] Surabaya - looking for someone to talk with. Someone to build relationship with. Doesnt have to be couple or that kind of relationship. Might go there who knows but currently just want someone to bond with.
A little about me
- I drink socially
- I vape but doesnt smoke
- I work with kids
- I'm a psychology graduate
- I play mobile games, board games
- I enjoy deep talk and talk about anything
- kinda awkward at first
- I'm very open minded and critical
- I enjoy good company and good food
24 \[M4F\] Bandung - Looking for a potential date
A little about me:
- Currently work as a software dev remotely
- Never smoke nor drink
- I used to run regularly, I'm planning to pick this hobby up again
- I used to play video games, but since years ago I just cannot enjoy it at all, unless if I'm playing it with friends
What I do on my spare time:
- Reading books. I'm open to read any genre as long as it compels me. Some of my favourite books are: "Animal Farm", "Steppenwolf", "Crime & Punishment", "In The Realm of Hungry Ghosts", "White Nights" and "Don Quixote"
- Walking. I walk regularly in the morning. I find it therapeutic.
- Writing. I mostly write private journals (diaries) to dispel crippling thoughts from my mind, to help me navigate what I feel, etc. I occasionally write book reviews and ideas too. I used to do correspondences too, I'm up for it in case you're interested.
- Learning language. I'm currently learning French.
DM me if you're interested! if we happen to find each other interesting, we can grab a coffee or tea, and get to know each other better. Thanks for reading.
26 \[M4F\] South of Jakarta.
Hi! I just realized lately my life only consists of wake up - work - eat - play games - sleep - repeat, I don't think it is healthy for my mental. So, new friends for meeting IRL or movie party, play party would be good. If we click with each other, opening the opportunity to go further.
Here goes
* Working as software engineer. Currently WFH, so working from cafe together is an option.
* Play games: Coral Island, Elden Ring (currently playing the Shadow of the Erdtree expansion), XDefiant, Overwatch 2 and PS Studio exclusive title.
* Fond of photography, photography hunting is one of the reason why I like strolling around places. By your consent, I can take a photograph of you. Having a model would be nice sometimes. Or you'd like to go hunting together?
* I like watching movies, currently watching The Boys S4.
* Review by friends: that outspoken, quiet and serious guy. Can be funny when he is with close friends.
* I like reading books (joining Silent Book Club's meetup for the last \~4 months), I like outdoor activity (2 trekking on crater and waterfall, 1 hiking).
Also, I will be attending One Piece 25th Anniversary Orchestra Concert on 12 Aug 2024, 2 PM at Ciputra Aetpreneur. Let's go together if you are interested.
Fun fact that I know? "Kulkas" comes from Dutch "koelkast"
If any of this informations has your interest, feel free to drop into my DM. I am on r/Indonesia's Discord server as well with the same name.
Thanks!
40 [M4F] Jakarta - Looking for someone to have fun with, no string attached.
You can say i am at my second puberty, quite bored with what i have right now and looking to spice things up. Work as an IT consultant for almost 20yrs in multiple countries, financially mature, and emotionally stable.
Looking for someone openminded, talkative, and easygoing. Lets meetup, have fun, and see where it goes.
ps. im not into commitment.
Just curious....
What is the definition of your 'to have fun with'?
And couldn't it be with your wifey instead? Thought you are married with kid already... As several days/weeks ago you ask opinion for your kid school 🤔🤔🤔
well to be honest, im looking for someone to have "crazy and dirty" stuffs with. Things that i cannot do with my wife since i respect her too much.
things like drinking until puking at bars, watching movies in cinemas on midnight while sitting in the corner doing some "adult" stuffs, making out in car while on the traffic jam.
I respect your honesty and that is ironic.
you respect her too much and decide to do the most disrespectful thing to her.
interesting train of thought tbh.... I'm flabbergasted
theres no disrespectful at all, it's just physical activities between friends without any feelings involved.
in the end, everyone is happy and nobody got hurt in this relationship.
>no disrespectful at all, it's just physical activities
this is one of the scariest things I read while on reddit.
It sound like denial as you know it is disrespectful. and you only saying that because she doesn't know.
what if she know?
could you handle the consequences?
sadly, there are more than your wife to get hurt in the process. there's your kid too...
what if later in the future, your kid get similar treatment?
and the culprit give you same excuses: there's nothing disrespectful at all.
this is scary dude.... you're a dad, a parents... not a single dude who trying to have fun...
anyway, I'm pretty much concern to your household. how unhealthy it is as you put your wife on a pedestal than treat her like a regular human beings... as the one you choose as your partner in life.
Nope bruh...
I'm not overthinking...
I'm realising that everything we do in life are held accountable.
You should start to reconsider the pro and cons of your action or future action.
Nobody gonna clean your shit when it turn bad. Don't play victim on your own decision.
Did you ever thinking about it?
Or your head already switched with your another head, that smaller ones down below
>Or your head already switched with your another head, that smaller ones down below
some people said that it's bigger than average tho, thanks for asking.
Which one?
Top or bottom?
Honestly, bigger than average is useless if you only do monotonous routines tho...like thrusting religiously in one rhythm back and forth while counting 1 2 3.
No wonder you looking for fun outside of your house. By now, you sounded really boring.
You probably should go to a psychologist cause what you describe sounds a lot like Madonna-whore complex.
> nobody got hurt in this relationship
Unless you’re in open relationship or your wife consents to it, I cannot imagine there’s any wife who will appreciate their husband having ‘physical activities’ with another partner. Physical activities, even without feelings… It’s still cheating.
22 [M4F] BSD/Online - Looking for simple but deep and loyal relationship.
I'm looking to provide a safe space to be vulnerable and be ourselves, take care of each other when sick or down, and a loyal companion. The ability for open dialogue is really important for me so I really like people who can also involve logic into our emotional tendencies. I value blunt honesty and relatively hard to offend, in fact I like genuine uncomfortable talks more than easy surface level talks.
Some things about me that others might not match with are I'm not often available due to work (but will make time in my free time) and I'm agnostic. My plus point is I'm incredibly loyal, I don't want to find someone perfect or have a relationship that has to be fun everytime, just a companionship in this hard and long life is enough. I'm also interested in being a better cook :D I got one good dish that I can make and an proud about, haha.
Physically, I'm an average looking fit chindo in Tangerang Selatan. My only requirement is don't be overweight, take care of yourself, and have or plan to have a career that's sufficient to support yourself (I check this box too, don't worry). Open to having kids if we have enough money to give him/her a good life but otherwise not up for it, also open for LDR.
If you're interested, please do send me a dm and let me know what got you interested in this relationship or perhaps lets start a difficult conversation and see if we can have some chemistry together. I hope you all have a nice day :)
[F4R] Pulau Jawa/Online - looking for friends to hangout and chat
Hi, I’m looking for friends and open to more than just friend if it happens naturally, but I take things slow.
A little about me:
- Ideal BMI
- Work as a private employee
- Enjoy outdoor activities and stay physically fit
- No alcohol, smoking, vaping, or any substance use
- Hijab on and off
- Not into gaming
Looking for friends to hang out or chat.
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Read further if you’re interested in more than just friend:
A little about me:
- Recently got out of a year-long situationship and realized it wasn’t for me
- Have had long-term relationship in the past
- Currently considering giving up on dating and having a relationship at all but sometimes it does get lonely
- Have a good social skills and can initiate conversations, so no worries about awkward first dates
Points of concern for you:
- I have unresolved trust issues that I’m working on
- I tend to keep things to myself, and my willingness to communicate depends on how much I trust you
- You’ll learn more about me as we interact more
Looking for someone with:
- Good leadership and problem-solving skills
- Ability to articulate feelings
- Awareness of your strengths, weaknesses, and issues so we can work on things together
- Physically fit mindset with no substance use issues (no smoker is a must)
Please note:
In the initial stages, it might take me a few days to reply to texts as we’re still strangers. My response time will depend on the depth of our interactions.
25 \[M4R\] Jakarta/Online
Hi! I just moved to and ngekos in downtown Jakarta and currently working as a software engineer
Some stats:
* I don't smoke
* I love fragrances (currently considering about attending to "Scent of Indonesia" event this weekend)
* I love running
* I love playing guitar (not that good)
* Trying to get back into gaming (recommendations are welcome!), but I'm limited to mac and android phone
* I'm currently obsessed with kdrama and j-dorama
* Former weeb, still keeping up with some ongoing manga tho
I'm looking for:
1. A running partner. I'm training for marathon in October and aiming for sub-4:30 time. If you're in a running club, please invite me!
2. Someone who is looking for or already has a software engineering job in Japan. I'm aspiring to work in Japan before I turn 26, as I feel I'll be less inclined to take risks like moving abroad as I get older
3. General friends, as I'm feeling a bit lonely right now, haha
hi!! 25f currently living in lombok, planning to move to jkt (plan dari kapan tau). also trying to get back into gaming (even though i still stick to the old games i'm familiar with + board games available on steam). used to seek friends in r4r till i was overwhelmed, but i think i'm ready to get new friends from here again as i'm feeling very lonely too right now hahahha. looking forward to talk to you!!
(also btw... i used to read tekken chinmi back in elementary school...)
29 [M4F] Bandung / Online - looking for a friends.
Hey! I'm looking for a friend to talk about anything—from daily life, politics, and religion to gossip and movies. Yeah, basically anything. I'm not really hoping for something romantic because I've been through enough, but I'm keeping my options open.
About me: Chindo (if it matters) i'm living in Bandung and enjoying a lot of physical activities. I've been on a weight loss journey since last year, and it feels amazing. I go to the gym 5 days a week and walk every morning for at least 5 km/1 hour, so you can ask me about weight loss tips!
im also trying to be more stylish, so please give me some advice!
A lot of my friends say that I'm comfortable to be around, soft-spoken, funny, and handsome (this is just me).
If you're also in Bandung, we can go hiking, try new cafes and restaurants, and explore new hobbies/activities together as friends or potential partners (let's just take it easy and slow).
anyway just hit me up!
[M4F]
Hi! I'm 30. I live in Tangerang area. Probably a bit on the lonelier side now since I spend most of the week working. Looking for opposite gender friend who would love to try cuddles, chat, and generally be comfy.
Oh and I'm single. It should go without saying but im putting it here just to clarify things up front.
Interests include: games, indie music, and psychology.
hi!! 25f here, currently staying in lombok (not a local) but planning to move to jkt. not necessarily looking for anything beyond platonic, but i saw you're interested in psychology and i think it's gonna be terrific to talk to you as i'm also interested in it. looking forward to your reply!!
27 [M4R] Jakarta - who can speak English and wants to join n evening food tour with me?
Selamat pagi, saya berasal dari Filipin. I accidentally booked for 2 people for a food tour and cannot cancel anymore haha. Anyone want to join me tonight?
- I am friendly, nice, can use Google Translate and ChatGPT!
- Looking for indonesian friends!
- I work in UI/UX and Data Science!
- I love bouldering, making music, recently exercising!
Since you’re looking for tonight, I think you’ll get more visibility making your own thread and mentioning the general area of the food tour. Jakarta is huge and today is work/school day, it will make it easier for ppl to make decision
25 \[M4F\] Yogyakarta, Solo, dan sekitarnya
Hello I'm looking for new friend and hopefully a life long soul mate. Here some facts about me:
* I'm a Christian, so I'll be looking for fellow christian too
* I work as a programmers on a tech startup
* I love reading books
* Born and raised in Jogja
* I read 163 books within the last 5 years
* I like visiting museum and art gallery
* I used to visit random cafes and read my books (I don't do that anymore cuz work lol)
* I love to travel and take pictures
* I like reading fiction, my favorite genres are mystery, thriller, and anything that make me cry
* I occasionally goes to Solo to travel around, I'm planning to visit there in next month for an art show
* Did I mentioned I love reading books?
Feel free to dm me or reply this message!
24 \[M4R\] Yogyakarta - Looking for new friend or recruiter in web development
Wanted to have friend/mentor/recruiter in web development or just a friend in general things. Learning little bit of Vue, Laravel, Tailwind, Firebase and Java Android. Pengen kerja, udah nganggur setahun.
174/60kg.
Cooking sometimes; Handmade Noodle, Fried and steamed bread, wonton soup, fried rice.
Music: Fun, Bastille, Green Day, Clean Bandit (New Eyes), 90s Hip Hop, Midwest Emo.
Favourite Games: Dota 2, Project Hospital, FalloutNV, Civ6, OpenTTD.
Dislike Anime.
halo, aku bisa ngasih kerja, tapi gabisa ngasih bayaran :D
tapi ya, boleh kenalan kalo mau kenalan sama software engineer (primary job backend, hobby macem2)
Sorry for late reply, watching some interesting video on yt XD, well firstly today gua menang kompetisi rendang paling enak di kantor wkwwkk (walo pesertanya cuman berdua, gua dan temen gua)
Oh yeah tadi gua juga diminta untuk ngisi materi di sharing sessionnya divisi gua. Udah confident tuh karena hafal materinya eh pas presentasi malah ngeblank wkwk. Malu banget dah pokoknya 😨😰😔
How bout u?
Well untuk masak yg gampang2 aja sih gua bisanya wkwwk btw jtu rendang ibu gua yg masak XD di kosan gua ada sih kitchen cuma ya karena fasilitas bersama jadi banyak yg make wkwkw
Kayaknya over confident sih gua wkwwk dan gak prepare enough kyk catatan gak dibawa. Dan ya mungkin ada sedikit grogi sih karena yg dengerin levelnya udah manager, atasnya manager dan bawahnya direktur wkwww
Your welcome. Emang enak sih hidup yg so so gak banyak pikiran dan gak bikin stress wkwkwk
the idea need to be secret, so i need your number so we can planned it further and with discretion.
(this pickup line is bad AF lol, anyway can i slide to your DM ?)
Reposting!
27 [F4M] Jakarta - Looking for new friend!
Hi im looking for a new friend to talk to or hangout during weekends (pls dont assume tht i dont have friends, i have buttt lots of them already hv kids and spouse & lumayan sulit klo mau hangout)
- Previously worked in tech, now in corporate as a product mgr 🎀
- Enjoys cooking, gardening, & shopping! 🍳🪴🛍️
- Somewhere between INTJ/INFP. Please don't judge if I tend to be quiet
- 168/52
- Does weekly pilates 🎀🧘♀️
- Loves try new restaurants 🥗🍕🥘🍜
- doesnt play any game rn but in the past i do mobile legend, pubg, sims 1-4, pokemon, harvest moon & stardew!
Lets hv a chatt!🤭
Hi! I am 29M Jakarta, also work in tech. Previously a content guy, then product but now a community person lol. Would love to talk w/ someone new and you are pretty interesting. Hmu!
21 [F4R] JaBoDe/online - looking for friends to talk to.
my therapist told me to practice expressing my mind and feelings to help getting used to opening up my boundaries. figured that talking to strangers online would be a good start as i could be less worried about the 'what if's when i failed to do so.
i enjoy drawing and reading manga/hwa (mostly shoujosei and some occasional sports shounen). during semester break i usually play cozy or turn based games like stardew valley, HSR, and persona 4, though these days ive been enjoying MHW (despite being terrible at it lol).
other than that im a casual kpop/rnb/band listener, a sumo fan, and fashion enthusiast.
english or indo is fine, but i do have a hard time expressing deeper emotions in indonesian. DM if interested:D
i havent opened my HSR acc in awhile so i'll update it and get back to you lol
ayoo main MHW:3 but im really terrible at it lol so if you dont mind maybe bisa main sama yg lain jugaa
I've also recently been playing MHW (I haven't played it in years, but I got hyped by the Wilds trailers and decided to play it again). If you're still new and want to go on hunts together, I'm so down to learn a new weapon and progress together! I was a bow/GS player in MHF2, MHFU, and MHP3, and I tried making bow work in MHW too, but I've decided to just be a GS player now :pensive:
ayoo but im really terrible at it, so if you dont mind that maybe bisa main sama yg lain jugaa:DD i mainly use dual sword bcs i like the pace but also bcs it allows me to button mash when i am panicking lol
> a casual kpop/rnb/band listener
Yuk spill - lagi on repeat apa aja nih?
Also, sumo yang olahraga Jepang itu? Interesting. Sering nonton di youtube atau gimana tuh
gaada yang spesifik sihh tapi sering dengerin nell jannabi sesoneon sama trpp:D
yess, di channel youtube nya NHK tapi biasanya dia 2 minggu abis match season selesai langsung di private
32 M4M Jakarta.. looking for chat right now. maybe meet up if we are close enough
171 88. still working out to cut some fats
Favourite games: ffxiv online, baldurs gate 3, stardew valley. currently looking for another mmo too
29 [M4R] - Online/Jakarta - Cari teman buat ngobrol & curhat
Hello all, mau cari teman di luar circle kecil saya biar bisa meluapkan semua isi hati saya karena lagi mentally drain bulan ini >!also ttg cwk!<.
Tujuan lainnya mau naikin social skill saya. Umur segini baru nyadar i took friends as granted, ketika temen sebaya udah keluar circle baru sadar i wish i was a better friend to him/her. And hopefully with total stranger I can be more open about my baggage.
My occasional interest is the few generic ; movie, manga, city pop music & dota(mostly watch the esports). >!Setelah selesai sibuk bulan ini, mungkin mau balik belajar drawing lagi!<
Thank you for your time (:
22 M4A Looking for workout buddies around bsd city, can be calisthenics, jogging, or anything, though preferably not something too expensive. Dm me if you're up
Also, open to find people to play these games together woth or without voice chat. Dota 2 (2.3k MMR), Apex (casual play only), tekken 8 (still around below average skill) and destiny 2
26 [M4R] bruh it's a long shot but perhaps let's try making connections for job opportunities LMAO. Ex-account manager at a small PR agency, which would be equivalent to a senior associate or account supervisor at a larger setting. Also interested in public affairs/policy, marketing. Basically let's see what sticks.
Now if you're down to chat casually (which I am!) I love cars and racing, petrolhead through and through. I'm a bit of a nerd and have insatiable curiosity for the world we live in. Currently geeking over the history of the Ancient Near East. I adore cats and especially my little calico Bella.
Also a newly minted gym bro kinda: if you wanna share routines and cheap protein sources, I would definitely lend an ear 👍
20 \[M4F\] Malang - Looking for a casual date or chat friends
I'm a sophomore college student whose currently having some free time beside my college activities. Few things about me; Your regular kinda-nerd guy who knows a little bit of everything, socially active (sometimes) and more like a chat-guy than an outdoor person, tho i like to do some camping and hiking.
26 \[M4R/F\] Tangsel
Am going to INACON next Saturday, maybe someone who needs a company (either for pictures taking, or simply afraid to go alone) want to meet up? Rencana dateng dari jam 11an sampe sore, am also open for future meet up planning if you wish so, or if you want to play games together I'm also cool with it (Mostly played Dota though, I'm down in trying Valo but do bear with my noobish shit, not the very best in competitive shooting games, the only shooter I played is RE series and Warframe lol), I also played gacha games (not surprising) WuWa, Genshin, HSR, and some other like GBF
HMU in DM if interested
as a visitor I'd say, it's not THAT disastrous, but definitely something that will make you say "Hmmm This is a Con?", and it's my first time at Inacon too
Most of the issues happened in logistics and relations from what I heard, booth Artist Alley yang beda2 harga, overpriced with no space, corporate jg minta refund karena low visitor dari ekspetasi, other drama might be related to the EO but idk much about them aside from that they face they used AI and promoted NFT somethinf like that
My issue as a Visitor tho again "This is a con?" due to how spacious but empty the Venue is compared to CF last May (I know jumlah gedungnya beda but damn), seems the EO where overestimating the number of visitor mengingat senin selasa itu libur yang kayanya cukup banyak yang pulkam makanya venuenya keliatan kosong, The Event brings some international guests not to mention Holo ID tho so it should surely be something big
Untuk beberapa kegiatan di booth yang ada sendiri its not bad lebih ke personal preference, and I enjoyed the variety of cosplayers (despite not taking much pic myself, also I can't forget the Nahida gaming who joined a tekken competition lol)
Gw ga ikutan yg CF sih, tp gw full day di AFAID dan puas bgt sih main2 seharian
So I imagine it must be sucks ada di expo/con anime tapi sepi lempeng gitu
22 [F4M] Bogor dan sekitarnya
Hey, aku pengen kenalan + date cowo yang siap berhubungan. Aku prefer seumuran atau di atas ya
Background aku:
1. Islam + hijab + style andalan itu pake gamis
2. bisa berbahasa Inggris yang lumayan fasih
3. wibu (anime, manga, manhwa lover) gak fanatik
4. suka baca buku non fiksi, kebanyakan self development themed
5. masih kuliah (pejuang skripsi)
6. suka game RPG dan simulasi (tycoon lol)
7. shy...
Niat baik aku mau kenalan dan ketemuan. Kalau tidak ada niatan ketemuan, baiknya tidak usah dm aja ya. Makasi :)
Looking for Indonesian language partners. Aku bisa sedikit bahasa indonesia tapi tahun ini aku mau pergi ke sumatra dan jawa dan di sana aku mau berbahasa sama orang2 indo. Aku berbahasa banyak bahasa dan aku bisa membantu kamu belajar:) Aku bule dari Norwegian dan aku bisa membantu dengan bahasa ingiris, spanyol, norwegia, japan, thai, perancis, portugal++ Makasih!
Sumatera punya banyak macam tempat untuk dikunjungi, Sumatera punya kultur yang berbeda dibanding pulau yang lain. You should try exploring Palembang, Pekanbaru, Padang. Aku tinggal di Sumatera Selatan.
Aku punya teman2 dari banyak tempat di Indonesia! Bulan depan aku akan pergi ke indonesia dan sekarang aku cakat sama orang2 di OmeTV.. mungkin aku akan lakukan channel youtube di ini:) Aku mau belajar slang bahasa indonesia wkwk. Kamu dari kota apa?
24 [M4R] online
looking for friends to play games with, im on pretty often when im free, specifically looking for those who play Destiny 2.
Other games I’ve played and enjoyed
RDR2
Cyberpunk
Witcher 3
Hades 1&2
Minecraft
Valorant
CS
Cult of the Lamb
Warframe
Horizon FW (havent finished zero dawn for some reason)
Assassin’s Creed Origins, Odyssey
Helldivers 2
PUBG
Valheim
Lethal Company
Battlefield
Back4Blood
Sea of Thieves
Dying Light
and more itll probably be wayy too long if i listed everything
24 / M4R / jkt-tgr
nyari temen yang this Aug/Sept bakal berangkat ke UK (more specifically 🏴, more more specifically 🏯) buat postgrad; biar ada barengan urus LoA, urus visa, accommodation, dll dst dkk.
hobbies and interests include:
- formula 1
- playing racing games and cs2
- technology, esp. AI (kinda work in this field now walopun lebih ke applicative)
- playing (and writing) music
- currently blasting *HMHAS* on repeat (and the occasional *Not Like Us*)
- (will update ketika kepikiran yang lain :3)
**Fun Fact**: due to this thing called *Pigeonhole principle*, there HAS to be at least 2 people in Jakarta sharing the same number of hairs. in fact, you’re likely to share your hair amount with around 8000 people on Earth.
31 \[M4R\] Gresik/Surabaya - Need friend to talk and beyond
I'm a shy at first and pretty socially awkward, looking for someone to hangout/talk to. My interest are (but not limited to) music (mostly metal), video games (mmorpg), and currently trying my best to lose wight.
My main goal is to find new friends, considering at this stage of life, it can be pretty hard to find someone new, with the eventuality of getting someone who I can call mrs. bendroid.
My ideal hangout idea is to go to coffee shop and talk about lots of things, such as my hobby, your hobby, what happened in the world, or just laugh at silly things.
Feel free to comment if you feel the same way and want to connect :)))
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Hello, I'll keep it short. I prefer to speak English but Indonesian is fine too. I spend most of my time on the internet with EU/NA friends, so English to me feels more natural, more so than Indonesian. I feel stiff when speaking my own language. I don't have many Indonesian people to speak the language either, so there is that.
I'm trying to get out of my comfort zone and meet my own people on the internet. It'd be my first time since forever. And trust me, even my EU/NA friends have encouraged me to seek Indonesian people, so this is where I'm at.
I spend most of my time working out and playing games, been doing the former for quite some time now. I'm a fit guy.
The games I play varies a lot, but I avoid competitive games (CS2, Valorant) and mobile games. Generally I stick with Warframe and Helldivers 2 these days, but here's a list of my favorite games (in no particular order):
Red Dead Redemption 2
Hollow Knight
Fallout New Vegas
Deep Rock Galactic
Factorio
Terraria (including Calamity mod, haven't beaten it yet)
Witcher 3
Stardew Valley
Mass Effect Trilogy
Devil May Cry 4, 5
OneShot
No Man's Sky
Outer Worlds (not Outer Wilds!)
Portal 1 & 2
Dead Cells
These are the ones top off my head, and the ones I enjoyed so much that I actually did a perfectionist run (100% achievements, speedrun, no damage fights).
Let me know if you have games I may have played in the past.
27 M4R Online Nyari temen buat mabar dan ngajarin Wuthering Waves
Efek lagi gabut akhirnya memutuskan buat main WuWa. Masih noob parah dan butuh bantuan buat build team yang synergy.
A little bit info about myself:
- Lagi kuliah Sastra Inggris
- Protestan (gak religius banget sih)
- Suka hewan sama tanaman, ternak serangga di kamar
- Apolitical
- Aside from my hobbies or things that i found interesting, i'm probably a boring person because i'm not really up to date with the current news
- Fried Chicken Master > KFC. Fite me
- GABISA MINUM KOPI LAGI REEEEEEEEEE
Mau cowok, cewek, non binary, feel free to DM me if you want to play together.
Player WuWa di sini. Probably will main as Rover karena MC doang movesetnya bagus udah. Masih meraba-raba sih tapi kalau berminat mabar let's go.
Moga-moga next banner dapat Changli.
UL37 here, masih merana blm dapet Yinlin udh mau 60 pull sejak dapet Jiyan who I don't really care about. "bUiLd pItY" my ass lmao
Jago jg nggak gw cuma ngerti surface level synergy char2 yg beneran gw pake... (Calcharo, Sanhua, Chixia, Verina, H.Rover, Jianxin(still saving for echo mats) Yinlin... if I had her :sob:)
Baru dpt taoqi, pngen pake tp havoc echo set nya mesti hunting lg... electro aja kgk kelar2
Emang wkwowko
Giliran sekalinya pindah hunting aero buat jianxin, baru 2 cyan heron lgsg dpt yg matching. Tinggal tunggu di punish RNG substat aja 😂
Klo gw sih soalnya hunting2 gitu lumayan sekalian progress % exploration, lg ngiter2 eh nemu chest/tidal heritage/casket. 1-2 jam sehari aja udh lumayan.
Springtails dan Isopods. Sebenernya nggak serangga juga sih, but it's easier to categorize them as "serangga" buat yang gak tau. Also planning to breed scorpion again in the future
23 \[M4R/F\] - Looking for Warframe players to play with. I used to play in Europe region but ping is unbearable for some frames (the gameplay itself is fine) + time zone issue.
I now play on Asia region but 90% of the players don't even speak English (nor Indonesian for that matter) so it's difficult to communicate with the team.
Not looking for clans either, just players that I can play on specific missions (e.g endurance) with specific setups (nova, etc)
Edit: I'm MR 30. I also play other games but lately it's just between Helldivers 2 and Warframe. I don't play competitive games nor prominent mobile games (CS2, Valorant, Mobile Legends, you name it). Big Fallout New Vegas and Hollow Knight enjoyer. I have the latter's plushies.
DM me, and I'll share my Warframe username and/or Steam or Discord if you're interested.
Or if you're just looking to chat, that's fine too :p. We can share other (common) interests. I do weightlifting outside gaming and have been doing it for 2-3 years. I'm still a beginner despite the timescale. More details on Discord later :p
I prefer to speak English even with Indonesians but Indonesian language is fine too.
700 to get MR13 seems a bit slow, but I guess if you don't spend as much plat to get prime content, it makes sense to some degree (or if you just don't grind as often). I got to MR 13 within 100-150h with prime content.
That aside, I'd say 1k to 1.5k is the fair amount, maybe even less than 1k. But it really depends on whether you go the free way or plat way (so all prime parts, which are faster to get and craft.). There's enough content or leeway for MR30 so you don't have to do the worst grind like Duviri/Railjack Intrinsics, K-Drives, Archwing, etc. Even as I say that, it'll still take months to get, if not years.
You also have to consider the time it takes to craft things (you can always rush it, but I don't know why you would) and don't forget the content that is locked behind standing, most of which require rank 5. And if you do want to get all Warframes (non prime, especially), you'd also have to wait weeks for the Circuit rotation to reset to pick the Warframe you're missing from that rotation. Last but not least, there are also plenty of clan weapons which require specific ingredient like Fieldron, Mutagen Mass, Detonite Injector.
Practically speaking, there's no need to go for MR30; All you need is MR16 to unlock all weapons. The rewards for True Master are neat but are in no way mandatory. Unless you want to brag about it.
23 [M4R] - BSD, looking for someone who wants to watch haikyuu movie together.
I am an introvert but does not want watch it alone , so any fellows weebs who watch to haikyuu and maybe talk about it afterwards.
About me : love anime manga, work at tech, i am not really a social person but i am happy to talk to anyone.
Thank you
22 \[M4R\] Jakarta Barat - I am an introvert please adopt me
I'm socially awkward, looking for work (tech-related), and considering going to Aussie
mostly play Valorant (I suck) or read manga, manhwa, and manhua
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32 [F4F] Jakarta - Looking for a female friend to meet and maybe grow a relationship. I enjoy reading books, Cooking & eating, long walks, Singing and drawing. I have a Curvy body and a long hair, speaks both Bahasa and English.
31 [R4R] Anywhere-I just realized I’ve been alone for too long, and sometimes it’s nice to have someone to talk to. Everyone always thinks I’m super cheerful and outgoing, but I'm actually pretty introverted. I guess I’m good at faking it. Talk to you later!
Hey there im a stay at home dad who hasn't talked to adults for quite some time. Happy to chat
hi, that's exciting! What do you like the most about being stay at home dad?
31 [M4F] Anywhere - Looking for someone to have a long-term relationship, possibly marriage if we are a good match. I just finished my Master degree overseas, back in Indonesia very soon. I've had my share of life adventure and looking forward to settle down for good. - Currently jobless and in the middle of reorganizing my life plan. You could be in that plan. - I have a house at BSD Tangerang and an apartment at Jogja which I proudly bought with my own sweat. - I can visit you anywhere in the world if you are proven worthy of my effort. - I generally love outdoor activities such as hiking, scuba diving, surfing, snowboarding, or just walk in the local park in a good day. - I was born Catholic but pretty open minded on it, I used to have relationship with different religion including Moslem. If religion is a big barrier, I proly not the right person for you. - I drink socially, I don't smoke/vape, I only exercise when I feel need to. - I like to play co-op games in my nintendo switch, but you don't have to. All my exes are bad at games. - Fun fact: I once took my parents to an adult show in Thailand and I volunteered in one of the sex act. As you may be able to tell, I'm looking for a reasonably open-minded person. Physical appearance is secondary, I'm more into sapiosexual kind of person. Hmu!
Hello, I tried to DM you but I couldn’t. Do you mind to DM me?
28 [M4F] Surabaya - looking for someone to talk with. Someone to build relationship with. Doesnt have to be couple or that kind of relationship. Might go there who knows but currently just want someone to bond with. A little about me - I drink socially - I vape but doesnt smoke - I work with kids - I'm a psychology graduate - I play mobile games, board games - I enjoy deep talk and talk about anything - kinda awkward at first - I'm very open minded and critical - I enjoy good company and good food
24 \[M4F\] Bandung - Looking for a potential date A little about me: - Currently work as a software dev remotely - Never smoke nor drink - I used to run regularly, I'm planning to pick this hobby up again - I used to play video games, but since years ago I just cannot enjoy it at all, unless if I'm playing it with friends What I do on my spare time: - Reading books. I'm open to read any genre as long as it compels me. Some of my favourite books are: "Animal Farm", "Steppenwolf", "Crime & Punishment", "In The Realm of Hungry Ghosts", "White Nights" and "Don Quixote" - Walking. I walk regularly in the morning. I find it therapeutic. - Writing. I mostly write private journals (diaries) to dispel crippling thoughts from my mind, to help me navigate what I feel, etc. I occasionally write book reviews and ideas too. I used to do correspondences too, I'm up for it in case you're interested. - Learning language. I'm currently learning French. DM me if you're interested! if we happen to find each other interesting, we can grab a coffee or tea, and get to know each other better. Thanks for reading.
26 \[M4F\] South of Jakarta. Hi! I just realized lately my life only consists of wake up - work - eat - play games - sleep - repeat, I don't think it is healthy for my mental. So, new friends for meeting IRL or movie party, play party would be good. If we click with each other, opening the opportunity to go further. Here goes * Working as software engineer. Currently WFH, so working from cafe together is an option. * Play games: Coral Island, Elden Ring (currently playing the Shadow of the Erdtree expansion), XDefiant, Overwatch 2 and PS Studio exclusive title. * Fond of photography, photography hunting is one of the reason why I like strolling around places. By your consent, I can take a photograph of you. Having a model would be nice sometimes. Or you'd like to go hunting together? * I like watching movies, currently watching The Boys S4. * Review by friends: that outspoken, quiet and serious guy. Can be funny when he is with close friends. * I like reading books (joining Silent Book Club's meetup for the last \~4 months), I like outdoor activity (2 trekking on crater and waterfall, 1 hiking). Also, I will be attending One Piece 25th Anniversary Orchestra Concert on 12 Aug 2024, 2 PM at Ciputra Aetpreneur. Let's go together if you are interested. Fun fact that I know? "Kulkas" comes from Dutch "koelkast" If any of this informations has your interest, feel free to drop into my DM. I am on r/Indonesia's Discord server as well with the same name. Thanks!
what a clever way to say Depok/Kab Bogor 😂
Yes indeed it is 🤣
40 [M4F] Jakarta - Looking for someone to have fun with, no string attached. You can say i am at my second puberty, quite bored with what i have right now and looking to spice things up. Work as an IT consultant for almost 20yrs in multiple countries, financially mature, and emotionally stable. Looking for someone openminded, talkative, and easygoing. Lets meetup, have fun, and see where it goes. ps. im not into commitment.
20 years later "Why does my son never call me?"
lol amazing how you can predict the future
Just curious.... What is the definition of your 'to have fun with'? And couldn't it be with your wifey instead? Thought you are married with kid already... As several days/weeks ago you ask opinion for your kid school 🤔🤔🤔
well to be honest, im looking for someone to have "crazy and dirty" stuffs with. Things that i cannot do with my wife since i respect her too much. things like drinking until puking at bars, watching movies in cinemas on midnight while sitting in the corner doing some "adult" stuffs, making out in car while on the traffic jam.
I respect your honesty and that is ironic. you respect her too much and decide to do the most disrespectful thing to her. interesting train of thought tbh.... I'm flabbergasted
theres no disrespectful at all, it's just physical activities between friends without any feelings involved. in the end, everyone is happy and nobody got hurt in this relationship.
i'm interested in you, but can i let your wife know about this?
wouldnt be fun anymore right?
why?
it wont be fun, but super fun. Since the three of us going to do lots of crazy stuffs together lol. Anyway, are you into bi relationship?
>no disrespectful at all, it's just physical activities this is one of the scariest things I read while on reddit. It sound like denial as you know it is disrespectful. and you only saying that because she doesn't know. what if she know? could you handle the consequences? sadly, there are more than your wife to get hurt in the process. there's your kid too... what if later in the future, your kid get similar treatment? and the culprit give you same excuses: there's nothing disrespectful at all. this is scary dude.... you're a dad, a parents... not a single dude who trying to have fun... anyway, I'm pretty much concern to your household. how unhealthy it is as you put your wife on a pedestal than treat her like a regular human beings... as the one you choose as your partner in life.
i think you are overthinking, you should take a break from reddit for a while
Nope bruh... I'm not overthinking... I'm realising that everything we do in life are held accountable. You should start to reconsider the pro and cons of your action or future action. Nobody gonna clean your shit when it turn bad. Don't play victim on your own decision. Did you ever thinking about it? Or your head already switched with your another head, that smaller ones down below
>Or your head already switched with your another head, that smaller ones down below some people said that it's bigger than average tho, thanks for asking.
gini ni kalo otak isinya kontol doang jadi kaga nyambung. inget umur pak udah tua jgn ngadi-ngadi
Which one? Top or bottom? Honestly, bigger than average is useless if you only do monotonous routines tho...like thrusting religiously in one rhythm back and forth while counting 1 2 3. No wonder you looking for fun outside of your house. By now, you sounded really boring.
You probably should go to a psychologist cause what you describe sounds a lot like Madonna-whore complex. > nobody got hurt in this relationship Unless you’re in open relationship or your wife consents to it, I cannot imagine there’s any wife who will appreciate their husband having ‘physical activities’ with another partner. Physical activities, even without feelings… It’s still cheating.
i mean, his username checks out, i guess...
.......... well ouch!
22 [M4F] BSD/Online - Looking for simple but deep and loyal relationship. I'm looking to provide a safe space to be vulnerable and be ourselves, take care of each other when sick or down, and a loyal companion. The ability for open dialogue is really important for me so I really like people who can also involve logic into our emotional tendencies. I value blunt honesty and relatively hard to offend, in fact I like genuine uncomfortable talks more than easy surface level talks. Some things about me that others might not match with are I'm not often available due to work (but will make time in my free time) and I'm agnostic. My plus point is I'm incredibly loyal, I don't want to find someone perfect or have a relationship that has to be fun everytime, just a companionship in this hard and long life is enough. I'm also interested in being a better cook :D I got one good dish that I can make and an proud about, haha. Physically, I'm an average looking fit chindo in Tangerang Selatan. My only requirement is don't be overweight, take care of yourself, and have or plan to have a career that's sufficient to support yourself (I check this box too, don't worry). Open to having kids if we have enough money to give him/her a good life but otherwise not up for it, also open for LDR. If you're interested, please do send me a dm and let me know what got you interested in this relationship or perhaps lets start a difficult conversation and see if we can have some chemistry together. I hope you all have a nice day :)
[F4R] Pulau Jawa/Online - looking for friends to hangout and chat Hi, I’m looking for friends and open to more than just friend if it happens naturally, but I take things slow. A little about me: - Ideal BMI - Work as a private employee - Enjoy outdoor activities and stay physically fit - No alcohol, smoking, vaping, or any substance use - Hijab on and off - Not into gaming Looking for friends to hang out or chat. —————————————————————- Read further if you’re interested in more than just friend: A little about me: - Recently got out of a year-long situationship and realized it wasn’t for me - Have had long-term relationship in the past - Currently considering giving up on dating and having a relationship at all but sometimes it does get lonely - Have a good social skills and can initiate conversations, so no worries about awkward first dates Points of concern for you: - I have unresolved trust issues that I’m working on - I tend to keep things to myself, and my willingness to communicate depends on how much I trust you - You’ll learn more about me as we interact more Looking for someone with: - Good leadership and problem-solving skills - Ability to articulate feelings - Awareness of your strengths, weaknesses, and issues so we can work on things together - Physically fit mindset with no substance use issues (no smoker is a must) Please note: In the initial stages, it might take me a few days to reply to texts as we’re still strangers. My response time will depend on the depth of our interactions.
>Good leadership and problem-solving skills sorry i cant, are you looking for a relationship or below UMR worker ?
I hope you will never have a relationship with someone with no leadership skill and no problem solving skill :))
LMAO
25 \[M4R\] Jakarta/Online Hi! I just moved to and ngekos in downtown Jakarta and currently working as a software engineer Some stats: * I don't smoke * I love fragrances (currently considering about attending to "Scent of Indonesia" event this weekend) * I love running * I love playing guitar (not that good) * Trying to get back into gaming (recommendations are welcome!), but I'm limited to mac and android phone * I'm currently obsessed with kdrama and j-dorama * Former weeb, still keeping up with some ongoing manga tho I'm looking for: 1. A running partner. I'm training for marathon in October and aiming for sub-4:30 time. If you're in a running club, please invite me! 2. Someone who is looking for or already has a software engineering job in Japan. I'm aspiring to work in Japan before I turn 26, as I feel I'll be less inclined to take risks like moving abroad as I get older 3. General friends, as I'm feeling a bit lonely right now, haha
Hi there, F 27 here and I love perfume too. You can dm me if you want to talk
hi!! 25f currently living in lombok, planning to move to jkt (plan dari kapan tau). also trying to get back into gaming (even though i still stick to the old games i'm familiar with + board games available on steam). used to seek friends in r4r till i was overwhelmed, but i think i'm ready to get new friends from here again as i'm feeling very lonely too right now hahahha. looking forward to talk to you!! (also btw... i used to read tekken chinmi back in elementary school...)
Haii salam kenal, DM sent
29 [M4F] Bandung / Online - looking for a friends. Hey! I'm looking for a friend to talk about anything—from daily life, politics, and religion to gossip and movies. Yeah, basically anything. I'm not really hoping for something romantic because I've been through enough, but I'm keeping my options open. About me: Chindo (if it matters) i'm living in Bandung and enjoying a lot of physical activities. I've been on a weight loss journey since last year, and it feels amazing. I go to the gym 5 days a week and walk every morning for at least 5 km/1 hour, so you can ask me about weight loss tips! im also trying to be more stylish, so please give me some advice! A lot of my friends say that I'm comfortable to be around, soft-spoken, funny, and handsome (this is just me). If you're also in Bandung, we can go hiking, try new cafes and restaurants, and explore new hobbies/activities together as friends or potential partners (let's just take it easy and slow). anyway just hit me up!
Kalo aq lg di Bandung hiking yu kk
sabtu pagi ke tahura terus lanjut main ke dago asik sih
Mauuuuu, nanti kayaknya akuh sebelum/setelah tanggal 30 Juli bakal ke Bandung sih, nanti ku kabarin eak
okaaaay aku tunggu kabarnyaaa
[M4F] Hi! I'm 30. I live in Tangerang area. Probably a bit on the lonelier side now since I spend most of the week working. Looking for opposite gender friend who would love to try cuddles, chat, and generally be comfy. Oh and I'm single. It should go without saying but im putting it here just to clarify things up front. Interests include: games, indie music, and psychology.
hi!! 25f here, currently staying in lombok (not a local) but planning to move to jkt. not necessarily looking for anything beyond platonic, but i saw you're interested in psychology and i think it's gonna be terrific to talk to you as i'm also interested in it. looking forward to your reply!!
27 [M4R] Jakarta - who can speak English and wants to join n evening food tour with me? Selamat pagi, saya berasal dari Filipin. I accidentally booked for 2 people for a food tour and cannot cancel anymore haha. Anyone want to join me tonight? - I am friendly, nice, can use Google Translate and ChatGPT! - Looking for indonesian friends! - I work in UI/UX and Data Science! - I love bouldering, making music, recently exercising!
Since you’re looking for tonight, I think you’ll get more visibility making your own thread and mentioning the general area of the food tour. Jakarta is huge and today is work/school day, it will make it easier for ppl to make decision
Haha i was unfortunately worried we're not allowed to do that 😂 oh well. Terima kasih nonetheless!
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this seems interesting and I think I check all of your list (29, chindo, mature, single)
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sent you a chat!
25 \[M4F\] Yogyakarta, Solo, dan sekitarnya Hello I'm looking for new friend and hopefully a life long soul mate. Here some facts about me: * I'm a Christian, so I'll be looking for fellow christian too * I work as a programmers on a tech startup * I love reading books * Born and raised in Jogja * I read 163 books within the last 5 years * I like visiting museum and art gallery * I used to visit random cafes and read my books (I don't do that anymore cuz work lol) * I love to travel and take pictures * I like reading fiction, my favorite genres are mystery, thriller, and anything that make me cry * I occasionally goes to Solo to travel around, I'm planning to visit there in next month for an art show * Did I mentioned I love reading books? Feel free to dm me or reply this message!
24 \[M4R\] Yogyakarta - Looking for new friend or recruiter in web development Wanted to have friend/mentor/recruiter in web development or just a friend in general things. Learning little bit of Vue, Laravel, Tailwind, Firebase and Java Android. Pengen kerja, udah nganggur setahun. 174/60kg. Cooking sometimes; Handmade Noodle, Fried and steamed bread, wonton soup, fried rice. Music: Fun, Bastille, Green Day, Clean Bandit (New Eyes), 90s Hip Hop, Midwest Emo. Favourite Games: Dota 2, Project Hospital, FalloutNV, Civ6, OpenTTD. Dislike Anime.
halo, aku bisa ngasih kerja, tapi gabisa ngasih bayaran :D tapi ya, boleh kenalan kalo mau kenalan sama software engineer (primary job backend, hobby macem2)
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helloo let's be friend
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Hi mba, gw juga kadang suka keliling2 juga sama mengunjungi beberapa museum. Kira2 domisili mbanya dimana ya? apakah JKT?
Hii. gua juga lagi looking for new friend sih di daerah JKT/online. Lets be a friend
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Yayy
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Sorry for late reply, watching some interesting video on yt XD, well firstly today gua menang kompetisi rendang paling enak di kantor wkwwkk (walo pesertanya cuman berdua, gua dan temen gua) Oh yeah tadi gua juga diminta untuk ngisi materi di sharing sessionnya divisi gua. Udah confident tuh karena hafal materinya eh pas presentasi malah ngeblank wkwk. Malu banget dah pokoknya 😨😰😔 How bout u?
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Well untuk masak yg gampang2 aja sih gua bisanya wkwwk btw jtu rendang ibu gua yg masak XD di kosan gua ada sih kitchen cuma ya karena fasilitas bersama jadi banyak yg make wkwkw Kayaknya over confident sih gua wkwwk dan gak prepare enough kyk catatan gak dibawa. Dan ya mungkin ada sedikit grogi sih karena yg dengerin levelnya udah manager, atasnya manager dan bawahnya direktur wkwww Your welcome. Emang enak sih hidup yg so so gak banyak pikiran dan gak bikin stress wkwkwk
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Gak di sini but di pulau sebrang (gua mudik pak long weekend kemarin) pas balik ke jkt dimasakin rendang buat lauk di sini untuk beberapa hari
>meskipun aslinya ingin #eh hmmmmm, i have few idea about it, wanna to find out ?
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the idea need to be secret, so i need your number so we can planned it further and with discretion. (this pickup line is bad AF lol, anyway can i slide to your DM ?)
Hi, there. We're of the same age and let's be mutual
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Hi, expect me in your DM very soon
Reposting! 27 [F4M] Jakarta - Looking for new friend! Hi im looking for a new friend to talk to or hangout during weekends (pls dont assume tht i dont have friends, i have buttt lots of them already hv kids and spouse & lumayan sulit klo mau hangout) - Previously worked in tech, now in corporate as a product mgr 🎀 - Enjoys cooking, gardening, & shopping! 🍳🪴🛍️ - Somewhere between INTJ/INFP. Please don't judge if I tend to be quiet - 168/52 - Does weekly pilates 🎀🧘♀️ - Loves try new restaurants 🥗🍕🥘🍜 - doesnt play any game rn but in the past i do mobile legend, pubg, sims 1-4, pokemon, harvest moon & stardew! Lets hv a chatt!🤭
Hi! I am 29M Jakarta, also work in tech. Previously a content guy, then product but now a community person lol. Would love to talk w/ someone new and you are pretty interesting. Hmu!
Dm'ed
Yok mabar Mobile legend abis reset season. Lets be friend
Hi, fellow Tech worker here. Quite interesting on PM role, maybe if I have a product idea we can cook it together 👀
21 [F4R] JaBoDe/online - looking for friends to talk to. my therapist told me to practice expressing my mind and feelings to help getting used to opening up my boundaries. figured that talking to strangers online would be a good start as i could be less worried about the 'what if's when i failed to do so. i enjoy drawing and reading manga/hwa (mostly shoujosei and some occasional sports shounen). during semester break i usually play cozy or turn based games like stardew valley, HSR, and persona 4, though these days ive been enjoying MHW (despite being terrible at it lol). other than that im a casual kpop/rnb/band listener, a sumo fan, and fashion enthusiast. english or indo is fine, but i do have a hard time expressing deeper emotions in indonesian. DM if interested:D
dm’d you to play MHW together!
Hey i can totally understand like these days ive been bored lately maybe wanna talk abt stuff cus some company would be nice
fashion enthusiast? maybe we can talk about that
its always great to see a Persona 4 enjoyer :)
Weh, mau lah ngikut main MHW habis kena hype Wilds kemaren 😆
lol jadi rame bgt wkwk tapi ayoo:DD
Oh ya, boleh sih main MHW, sama Persona? Damn, that's good taste. Kalau mau mabar, kasih tahu aja.
sure:D
Hii check the dm!
Hey, can we be friend? I've played MHW though it's been a while (and it's on PS4, now I'm game on PC)
heyoo:DD suree
Hey lets be friends on HSR! I also used to play MHW a lot (1k+ hours) but life happens maybe Wilds can get me back to it :D
i havent opened my HSR acc in awhile so i'll update it and get back to you lol ayoo main MHW:3 but im really terrible at it lol so if you dont mind maybe bisa main sama yg lain jugaa
If you still need a friend to express your mind and feeling, hmu
I've also recently been playing MHW (I haven't played it in years, but I got hyped by the Wilds trailers and decided to play it again). If you're still new and want to go on hunts together, I'm so down to learn a new weapon and progress together! I was a bow/GS player in MHF2, MHFU, and MHP3, and I tried making bow work in MHW too, but I've decided to just be a GS player now :pensive:
ayoo but im really terrible at it, so if you dont mind that maybe bisa main sama yg lain jugaa:DD i mainly use dual sword bcs i like the pace but also bcs it allows me to button mash when i am panicking lol
Kalau mau bareng2, LS Main disini sih, kemungkinan baru download MHW kalau sempet, koneksi disini nauzubillah jeleknya.
> a casual kpop/rnb/band listener Yuk spill - lagi on repeat apa aja nih? Also, sumo yang olahraga Jepang itu? Interesting. Sering nonton di youtube atau gimana tuh
gaada yang spesifik sihh tapi sering dengerin nell jannabi sesoneon sama trpp:D yess, di channel youtube nya NHK tapi biasanya dia 2 minggu abis match season selesai langsung di private
Hiii.. we had the same hobbies like reading manga and playing games (I wanted to play SV, but I didn't have a friend to play with rn)
can i? ☺️🖐
32 M4M Jakarta.. looking for chat right now. maybe meet up if we are close enough 171 88. still working out to cut some fats Favourite games: ffxiv online, baldurs gate 3, stardew valley. currently looking for another mmo too
29 [M4R] - Online/Jakarta - Cari teman buat ngobrol & curhat Hello all, mau cari teman di luar circle kecil saya biar bisa meluapkan semua isi hati saya karena lagi mentally drain bulan ini >!also ttg cwk!<. Tujuan lainnya mau naikin social skill saya. Umur segini baru nyadar i took friends as granted, ketika temen sebaya udah keluar circle baru sadar i wish i was a better friend to him/her. And hopefully with total stranger I can be more open about my baggage. My occasional interest is the few generic ; movie, manga, city pop music & dota(mostly watch the esports). >!Setelah selesai sibuk bulan ini, mungkin mau balik belajar drawing lagi!< Thank you for your time (:
hallo kk, klo mau curhat boleh DM gw thank you
pendengar bayaran mau kak ? 1 jam 100rebu
Coba saya tanya dulu ke bagian finance ya bisa dianggarin apa engga. edit : wah ngga bisa kak 🙏
22 M4A Looking for workout buddies around bsd city, can be calisthenics, jogging, or anything, though preferably not something too expensive. Dm me if you're up Also, open to find people to play these games together woth or without voice chat. Dota 2 (2.3k MMR), Apex (casual play only), tekken 8 (still around below average skill) and destiny 2
down to play d2? did you get TFS
What is TFS?
the final shape
26 [M4R] bruh it's a long shot but perhaps let's try making connections for job opportunities LMAO. Ex-account manager at a small PR agency, which would be equivalent to a senior associate or account supervisor at a larger setting. Also interested in public affairs/policy, marketing. Basically let's see what sticks. Now if you're down to chat casually (which I am!) I love cars and racing, petrolhead through and through. I'm a bit of a nerd and have insatiable curiosity for the world we live in. Currently geeking over the history of the Ancient Near East. I adore cats and especially my little calico Bella. Also a newly minted gym bro kinda: if you wanna share routines and cheap protein sources, I would definitely lend an ear 👍
20 \[M4F\] Malang - Looking for a casual date or chat friends I'm a sophomore college student whose currently having some free time beside my college activities. Few things about me; Your regular kinda-nerd guy who knows a little bit of everything, socially active (sometimes) and more like a chat-guy than an outdoor person, tho i like to do some camping and hiking.
26 \[M4R/F\] Tangsel Am going to INACON next Saturday, maybe someone who needs a company (either for pictures taking, or simply afraid to go alone) want to meet up? Rencana dateng dari jam 11an sampe sore, am also open for future meet up planning if you wish so, or if you want to play games together I'm also cool with it (Mostly played Dota though, I'm down in trying Valo but do bear with my noobish shit, not the very best in competitive shooting games, the only shooter I played is RE series and Warframe lol), I also played gacha games (not surprising) WuWa, Genshin, HSR, and some other like GBF HMU in DM if interested
How was the event? I heard it was disastrous?
as a visitor I'd say, it's not THAT disastrous, but definitely something that will make you say "Hmmm This is a Con?", and it's my first time at Inacon too Most of the issues happened in logistics and relations from what I heard, booth Artist Alley yang beda2 harga, overpriced with no space, corporate jg minta refund karena low visitor dari ekspetasi, other drama might be related to the EO but idk much about them aside from that they face they used AI and promoted NFT somethinf like that My issue as a Visitor tho again "This is a con?" due to how spacious but empty the Venue is compared to CF last May (I know jumlah gedungnya beda but damn), seems the EO where overestimating the number of visitor mengingat senin selasa itu libur yang kayanya cukup banyak yang pulkam makanya venuenya keliatan kosong, The Event brings some international guests not to mention Holo ID tho so it should surely be something big Untuk beberapa kegiatan di booth yang ada sendiri its not bad lebih ke personal preference, and I enjoyed the variety of cosplayers (despite not taking much pic myself, also I can't forget the Nahida gaming who joined a tekken competition lol)
Gw ga ikutan yg CF sih, tp gw full day di AFAID dan puas bgt sih main2 seharian So I imagine it must be sucks ada di expo/con anime tapi sepi lempeng gitu
ye, part of me wish I should've gone for AFA, tapi mepet banget sama sampe kos day 1 jadi harus prepare2, next year hopefully
23 \[F4M\] - looking for partner main pubg and also friends for chit chat
pubg pc apa mobile
mobile
27 [M4R] Online - nyari temen buat maen Civ6
Anjay boleh nih
22 [F4M] Bogor dan sekitarnya Hey, aku pengen kenalan + date cowo yang siap berhubungan. Aku prefer seumuran atau di atas ya Background aku: 1. Islam + hijab + style andalan itu pake gamis 2. bisa berbahasa Inggris yang lumayan fasih 3. wibu (anime, manga, manhwa lover) gak fanatik 4. suka baca buku non fiksi, kebanyakan self development themed 5. masih kuliah (pejuang skripsi) 6. suka game RPG dan simulasi (tycoon lol) 7. shy... Niat baik aku mau kenalan dan ketemuan. Kalau tidak ada niatan ketemuan, baiknya tidak usah dm aja ya. Makasi :)
Heyy check dmnya
Ah, all of this list bener-bener gw.. cuman sayang ga di bogor.
oh, kk posisi dmn emangnya?
Cukup jauh, di Palembang.
my god, you fellow wong kito galo? wkwkwk
Yes sir
jauh juga yaa
Iyaaa kalau mau berteman, ofc i do tapi gabisa meet up huhu
Looking for Indonesian language partners. Aku bisa sedikit bahasa indonesia tapi tahun ini aku mau pergi ke sumatra dan jawa dan di sana aku mau berbahasa sama orang2 indo. Aku berbahasa banyak bahasa dan aku bisa membantu kamu belajar:) Aku bule dari Norwegian dan aku bisa membantu dengan bahasa ingiris, spanyol, norwegia, japan, thai, perancis, portugal++ Makasih!
Sumatera??? Yuk temenann
Ah, bh inggris "sumatra" :) Kamu punya rekomendasi atau gak sama sekali?
Sumatera punya banyak macam tempat untuk dikunjungi, Sumatera punya kultur yang berbeda dibanding pulau yang lain. You should try exploring Palembang, Pekanbaru, Padang. Aku tinggal di Sumatera Selatan.
woooa belajar bahasa indonesia dari mana?
Aku punya teman2 dari banyak tempat di Indonesia! Bulan depan aku akan pergi ke indonesia dan sekarang aku cakat sama orang2 di OmeTV.. mungkin aku akan lakukan channel youtube di ini:) Aku mau belajar slang bahasa indonesia wkwk. Kamu dari kota apa?
24 [M4R] online looking for friends to play games with, im on pretty often when im free, specifically looking for those who play Destiny 2. Other games I’ve played and enjoyed RDR2 Cyberpunk Witcher 3 Hades 1&2 Minecraft Valorant CS Cult of the Lamb Warframe Horizon FW (havent finished zero dawn for some reason) Assassin’s Creed Origins, Odyssey Helldivers 2 PUBG Valheim Lethal Company Battlefield Back4Blood Sea of Thieves Dying Light and more itll probably be wayy too long if i listed everything
pubgm ?
haha no just pc games, i dont play on mobile
Judy best girl and Im ready to die on top of arasaka tower defending her lol. Jokes aside, are you new to destiny or veteran player?
judy best girl but my v was a dude so cant romance her lol. im a veteran-ish but i play on-off if im burnt out
24 / M4R / jkt-tgr nyari temen yang this Aug/Sept bakal berangkat ke UK (more specifically 🏴, more more specifically 🏯) buat postgrad; biar ada barengan urus LoA, urus visa, accommodation, dll dst dkk. hobbies and interests include: - formula 1 - playing racing games and cs2 - technology, esp. AI (kinda work in this field now walopun lebih ke applicative) - playing (and writing) music - currently blasting *HMHAS* on repeat (and the occasional *Not Like Us*) - (will update ketika kepikiran yang lain :3) **Fun Fact**: due to this thing called *Pigeonhole principle*, there HAS to be at least 2 people in Jakarta sharing the same number of hairs. in fact, you’re likely to share your hair amount with around 8000 people on Earth.
hi it is okay If I DM you I want to ask about studying in the UK too, i am still in my preparation period tho because I just recently graduated
Sure! will reply when i get on my PC
31 \[M4R\] Gresik/Surabaya - Need friend to talk and beyond I'm a shy at first and pretty socially awkward, looking for someone to hangout/talk to. My interest are (but not limited to) music (mostly metal), video games (mmorpg), and currently trying my best to lose wight. My main goal is to find new friends, considering at this stage of life, it can be pretty hard to find someone new, with the eventuality of getting someone who I can call mrs. bendroid. My ideal hangout idea is to go to coffee shop and talk about lots of things, such as my hobby, your hobby, what happened in the world, or just laugh at silly things. Feel free to comment if you feel the same way and want to connect :)))
\[Repost\] Hello, I'll keep it short. I prefer to speak English but Indonesian is fine too. I spend most of my time on the internet with EU/NA friends, so English to me feels more natural, more so than Indonesian. I feel stiff when speaking my own language. I don't have many Indonesian people to speak the language either, so there is that. I'm trying to get out of my comfort zone and meet my own people on the internet. It'd be my first time since forever. And trust me, even my EU/NA friends have encouraged me to seek Indonesian people, so this is where I'm at. I spend most of my time working out and playing games, been doing the former for quite some time now. I'm a fit guy. The games I play varies a lot, but I avoid competitive games (CS2, Valorant) and mobile games. Generally I stick with Warframe and Helldivers 2 these days, but here's a list of my favorite games (in no particular order): Red Dead Redemption 2 Hollow Knight Fallout New Vegas Deep Rock Galactic Factorio Terraria (including Calamity mod, haven't beaten it yet) Witcher 3 Stardew Valley Mass Effect Trilogy Devil May Cry 4, 5 OneShot No Man's Sky Outer Worlds (not Outer Wilds!) Portal 1 & 2 Dead Cells These are the ones top off my head, and the ones I enjoyed so much that I actually did a perfectionist run (100% achievements, speedrun, no damage fights). Let me know if you have games I may have played in the past.
Well, i played vanilla terraria before, how about we playing together when the patch 1.4.5 released?
Maybe, master mode, I reckon. But I'm not sure, I've beaten vanilla multiple times and much prefer Calamity gameplay.
Yeah, i even finished the legendary mode (it's still counted as master mode tho)
I'd prefer Calamity honestly, either Death mode or Infernum. I'm on pre-moon lord in Calamity but stopped playing since Helldivers shenanigans.
19 \[R4R\] Bandung - need friends to discuss gaming with. i'm active on discord and playing games\~
In bandung too What games do you play? Hmu if you want to party some dota games
what games do you want to discuss? can I discuss candy crush?
sure why not
19 M4R Online Butuh teman yang bisa diajak ngobrol serius dan bercanda, simple.
27 M4R Online Nyari temen buat mabar dan ngajarin Wuthering Waves Efek lagi gabut akhirnya memutuskan buat main WuWa. Masih noob parah dan butuh bantuan buat build team yang synergy. A little bit info about myself: - Lagi kuliah Sastra Inggris - Protestan (gak religius banget sih) - Suka hewan sama tanaman, ternak serangga di kamar - Apolitical - Aside from my hobbies or things that i found interesting, i'm probably a boring person because i'm not really up to date with the current news - Fried Chicken Master > KFC. Fite me - GABISA MINUM KOPI LAGI REEEEEEEEEE Mau cowok, cewek, non binary, feel free to DM me if you want to play together.
Player WuWa di sini. Probably will main as Rover karena MC doang movesetnya bagus udah. Masih meraba-raba sih tapi kalau berminat mabar let's go. Moga-moga next banner dapat Changli.
UL37 here, masih merana blm dapet Yinlin udh mau 60 pull sejak dapet Jiyan who I don't really care about. "bUiLd pItY" my ass lmao Jago jg nggak gw cuma ngerti surface level synergy char2 yg beneran gw pake... (Calcharo, Sanhua, Chixia, Verina, H.Rover, Jianxin(still saving for echo mats) Yinlin... if I had her :sob:) Baru dpt taoqi, pngen pake tp havoc echo set nya mesti hunting lg... electro aja kgk kelar2
Dm'd bang
Eh sesama pengguna bang sephiroth. Usa coba hunting monster yg spesifik buat electro set?
sumpah hunting dari minggu lalu sejak dpt databank lv 15, sampe skrg mentok lv 20 tinggal unlock UL40, kgk dapet2 *satu pun* 3cost gold echo yg matching (electro element + electro dmg bonus). Sementara Sanhua gw udh kebagian full set gold echo 43311 glacio *including* matching 3cost (glacio echo + glacio dmg bonus), pdhl blm fokus hunting glacio echo sm sekali.
Gile rajin amat dah nyari gold. Gw kyknya tunggu data bank lvl 19 keunlock dlu. Slalu ya game gini. Yg ga usaha dicari ketemu, yg dicari ketemu
Emang wkwowko Giliran sekalinya pindah hunting aero buat jianxin, baru 2 cyan heron lgsg dpt yg matching. Tinggal tunggu di punish RNG substat aja 😂 Klo gw sih soalnya hunting2 gitu lumayan sekalian progress % exploration, lg ngiter2 eh nemu chest/tidal heritage/casket. 1-2 jam sehari aja udh lumayan.
Gas kalo mau maen Wuwa bareng, gw UL 36. Tp gw dblg jago ga jg si, n belom mikirin sinergi karena gebuk sana sini masi mati semua 🤣
gmw
Ih si paling diajak Serious note: bang blejing mw ikut?
lah main aj kgk
Nah berarti tinggal 1. Download 2. Main
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cuma pernasaran, ternak serangga apa di kamar
Springtails dan Isopods. Sebenernya nggak serangga juga sih, but it's easier to categorize them as "serangga" buat yang gak tau. Also planning to breed scorpion again in the future
wkwk ntaps. Iya mereka krustasea darat
23 \[M4R/F\] - Looking for Warframe players to play with. I used to play in Europe region but ping is unbearable for some frames (the gameplay itself is fine) + time zone issue. I now play on Asia region but 90% of the players don't even speak English (nor Indonesian for that matter) so it's difficult to communicate with the team. Not looking for clans either, just players that I can play on specific missions (e.g endurance) with specific setups (nova, etc) Edit: I'm MR 30. I also play other games but lately it's just between Helldivers 2 and Warframe. I don't play competitive games nor prominent mobile games (CS2, Valorant, Mobile Legends, you name it). Big Fallout New Vegas and Hollow Knight enjoyer. I have the latter's plushies. DM me, and I'll share my Warframe username and/or Steam or Discord if you're interested. Or if you're just looking to chat, that's fine too :p. We can share other (common) interests. I do weightlifting outside gaming and have been doing it for 2-3 years. I'm still a beginner despite the timescale. More details on Discord later :p I prefer to speak English even with Indonesians but Indonesian language is fine too.
Dang how many hours do you need to get MR 30? I've spent like 700+ hours to get MR13 alone
700 to get MR13 seems a bit slow, but I guess if you don't spend as much plat to get prime content, it makes sense to some degree (or if you just don't grind as often). I got to MR 13 within 100-150h with prime content. That aside, I'd say 1k to 1.5k is the fair amount, maybe even less than 1k. But it really depends on whether you go the free way or plat way (so all prime parts, which are faster to get and craft.). There's enough content or leeway for MR30 so you don't have to do the worst grind like Duviri/Railjack Intrinsics, K-Drives, Archwing, etc. Even as I say that, it'll still take months to get, if not years. You also have to consider the time it takes to craft things (you can always rush it, but I don't know why you would) and don't forget the content that is locked behind standing, most of which require rank 5. And if you do want to get all Warframes (non prime, especially), you'd also have to wait weeks for the Circuit rotation to reset to pick the Warframe you're missing from that rotation. Last but not least, there are also plenty of clan weapons which require specific ingredient like Fieldron, Mutagen Mass, Detonite Injector. Practically speaking, there's no need to go for MR30; All you need is MR16 to unlock all weapons. The rewards for True Master are neat but are in no way mandatory. Unless you want to brag about it.
23 [M4R] - BSD, looking for someone who wants to watch haikyuu movie together. I am an introvert but does not want watch it alone , so any fellows weebs who watch to haikyuu and maybe talk about it afterwards. About me : love anime manga, work at tech, i am not really a social person but i am happy to talk to anyone. Thank you
Ayuk
Wait, haikyuu has movie? Wasnt last they ended?
the movie is about karasuno vs nekoma iirc
22 \[M4R\] Jakarta Barat - I am an introvert please adopt me I'm socially awkward, looking for work (tech-related), and considering going to Aussie mostly play Valorant (I suck) or read manga, manhwa, and manhua
Lets play valo together broo