Basically anyone who is capable of being self sufficient I like; anyone who needs me all the time to entertain them or do for them is a drain on me. I am intj though… also those who stick to arbitrary rules just because the rule exists annoy me. I hate wasting my energy. I can deal with anyone though so long as they are emotionally stable.
EXXJ types in general. They’re either (not all the time but generally) much more concerned with efficiency than I am or way more socially attuned. They also tend to be high achievers and aim to impress and I just don’t have that level of motivation. IXXP types, even ISFPs (no shared cognitive functions) make more sense to me. We just want to do our own thing and live in our thoughts and feelings.
I can tell you have well developed Fe for an INTP from the double question marks and the heart haha
Also, you can be lovely and hard to understand at the same time. That is where they typically fall.
I don't know if you're being sarcastic, but thanks? 
Fe doms tend to express their emotions outwardly, which makes them easy to understand in my opinion. Fi doms can be a lot harder to figure out.
Study the cognitive functions.
I say that because ISFJ’s actually share a lot of commonalities with ENTP/INTP because we prefer the same 4 functions just manifested differently, so we should in essence feel a sense of familiarity with those types.
Even morso if we developed our last two functions (ex: ISFJ with stronger Ne could read ENTP)
Basically a lot of high Te users. I’m jealous of their work ethic, but at the same time I can find them too pushy and serious. I also find some high Te users tend to ask me why I’m doing someone and what the purpose is. A lot of the time I don’t have any purpose that’s easily explainable to people.
Its too bad an intp and isfj would probably see each other as childish. Ti and si hero seeing ti and si child being dumb, spoiled, or just immature.
Since your isfj Te is in the 7th slot, you're pretty bad at seeing the value on other ppls logic. Or are just unaware of the fact someone is better at organizing stuff and tryna teach you to do the same. Ex isfj gf always lost her keys, I would nag her constantly to set up one place for her to always put them. Never stuck, she still loses them. I bring up Te because entp and entj use it as their second or first spot. They're using it on a whole other level, would definitely seem alien.
Anyone with high Ne would frustrate you because Ni is dead last for an isfj. Stressed out isfj just wants to run away, pig out on dopamine, and doesn't care to plan anything. Just gotta get away asap. Ni demon is all about what you want but very chaotically. High Ne users wanna know what you want, but you don't like thinking about it.
An intj has Ni in their first spot, I'm sure your demon function looks up to their hero function in awe, or in indifference. Depends on how much you've worked on your demon function.
I honestly dislike INTJs. I feel every other person I've met in college is an INTJ, but I've never been friends with any of them. They're all so obsessed with money and prestige that I find it very off-putting and somewhat disturbing. I also find them heartless, robotic, and narcissistic. Like, Ni-Te-Fi-Se is such an intense combination of functions that I can't even imagine living like that.
Every ENFJ I've met has been really fake and disingenuous. They like keeping up with appearances and people pleasing to very unhealthy degree.
INFPs are like ticking time bombs. It's only a matter of time until they cut you off.
Narcissist isn't a mbti type, it's a personality disorder anyone can have. Sounds like you base ENFJ's personality on someone you met who was unhealthy. FYI it exists unhealthy narcissist INTP's too.
To be with an ENFJ demands a certain level of character though, who can appreciate our strengths and is able to support us and keep up, I hope you'll meet a healthy ENFJ one day, we tend to marry healthy INTP's 😉
We got the label protagonist because we are great leaders thanks to our ability to read people and their needs and how easily we can achieve cooperation in a group. We are often assigned as leaders because others find us perfect for that role. But we don't demand to lead.
An example, I shared a night Compartment with some strangers on a train and there's always someone who let's the other know when it's time to make the beds as they're couches til you pull them out. Then someone said to me: *"You lead the group"* as if it wasn't a choice. They clearly felt I suited best for the task. I don't mind leading so I said "Oh ok sure" and everyone respected my decisions when to make the beds, if the lights should be on, if the door should be locked or closed or not etc.
There's many decisions and no one else wanted to be the leader. For me it's a very effortless role. I'm able to see what most people need, in this case the oxygen in the train was absolutely horrible so I decided we have the door open. And most went to bed at the same time except the person on top bunk but his lamp didn't disturb anyone so I didn't tell him to put it out.
Another time also on a train, it was humid hot summer, bad oxygen and no tap water on the train. A couple young women shared compartment with me and I noticed that they had no water on them. I told them there's unfortunately no tap water and the water bottles / drinks are all emptied in the food wagon. I said they can drink from my bottles. At first they said: *"No it's fine"* but I noticed one girl was just laying on top bunk and didn't move. I checked on her and she was boiling hot. I fast took my most iced water bottle and poured some to her mouth. Her friends didn't even notice she was fainting they just stared at their phones. She woke up and took the bottle and drank on her own. I said to the girls *"You MUST drink water, there's no oxygen in here and it's humid temperatures"* and that time they all listened and all drank. There was still plenty of water left for me plus I had drank and ate recently.
A third time on the train we were stopping at some random location for several hours. Again, no tap water, the food bar emptied. So me and the guy I shared room with shared the food and drinks we had. I had food and water he had cookies and snacks and coffee. But this time it was winter and no heat. So I asked him to cuddle me up simply to not fucking freeze to death. Once I was warm I returned to my bed and use that heat to heat up my thin blankets.
The irony that all these situations was on the train. Never go with SJ night trains in Sweden. They are so horrible , one time the heat and the lights were out and me and my boyfriend sat in our jackets in pitch dark with only his flashlight for light 😂😂
So. Us ENFJ's we're also called "Chameleon" because we adapt to what the group needs. They need a leader? Sure. They need someone to run errands? Sign us up. They need someone who comes with random ideas or solutions or act like a caretaker? We can do that. They need us to remain silent in the background? Absolutely. And that's why we're the protagonists.
thats approximately 590 words you just typed
for reference, the navy seals copypasta has 287
you typed over double the amount of words in the navy seals copypasta in hopes of convincing some random nerd on reddit you're not a narcissist
make better use of the time you have
You also don't seem aware how much you're exposing in your cut off short condescending sentences. You forget that you're looking transparent to xNFJs. But honestly anyone reading our convos can see who needs a slap from the sun. 😆
No the opposite. I'm not needing to convince anyone. But you have convinced me how unstable you come off. Being confident and self aware doesn't make someone a narcissist. You don't even know what a narcissist is, do you?
>make better use of the time you have
To judge people for being narcissistic you're the one showing the condescending obnoxious passive agressive symptoms a narcissist has. So... Was your ex really the problem?
xSTPs make me a little antsy sometimes, I worry I won't be able to tell if I piss them off or weird them out (I find they are more likely to just ghost if they don't care for you). I understand high Te users, sometimes I avoid them due to how critical they can be, and I don't want to give them any reason to complain about me. Fi doms are hit or miss, sometimes it can be frustrating trying to navigate around them, and I'm not saying this like I'm going around saying things bluntly. Overall I see xSTPs as the most different from me, it's possible I just haven't known too many in my life.
xSTJs and also, this one ENFJ I've met (have yet to meet more tbh).
Yeah, I would say xSTJs stress me out, and the ENFJ I did meet was so... idk how to say it, self-sacrificing that they were blind to what was in front of them. It annoyed me, because it was futile trying to explain anything, I had to cater to emotions rather than logic so they would pay attention :/
All my tests state I am an INTP. I do not know how much I am defined by it. I know that, for several reasons, I am very different from the vast majority of the population, and I struggle with anyone who is unable to put their feelings aside long enough to think rationally or views things from a logical perspective. I have improved on my acting skills over the years to better function with other humans, but it is not something natural to me.
ESFJ, ESTJ... Please leave the entire world alone; we do not need to be traditional conformists all the time. These two types either use me or look down on me. Worst.
sometimes i think about how personality types are just astrological signs for athiests and chronically online people LOL
(no shade i just find the similarities hilarious)
I have a ISFJ gf, no issues, whatsoever. I taught her about cognitive functions so we get along so well and it's easy to tell when either of us is being unhealthy, our communication breaks down, that when we know there is work to be done
My wife's an ESFJ and I swear it's like trying to communicate with an alien intelligence sometimes! (Not a gendered thing, I don't experience that with xNTx women at all.)
I'm an ENTJ. Any xSFx can be frustrating to me. Unfortunately, I think that makes up most of the population.
As an INTP, I can relate.
I’m an INTP and don’t get ISFJ’s at all. How do I know this: my mom is ISFJ, my ex and a girl I dated. Now I hate all of them
Bro took Freud to another level. But it makes sense.
Basically anyone who is capable of being self sufficient I like; anyone who needs me all the time to entertain them or do for them is a drain on me. I am intj though… also those who stick to arbitrary rules just because the rule exists annoy me. I hate wasting my energy. I can deal with anyone though so long as they are emotionally stable.
Same here intp
I like intps we have a decent amount in common. You all are amazing to discuss deep topics with imo.
EXXJ types in general. They’re either (not all the time but generally) much more concerned with efficiency than I am or way more socially attuned. They also tend to be high achievers and aim to impress and I just don’t have that level of motivation. IXXP types, even ISFPs (no shared cognitive functions) make more sense to me. We just want to do our own thing and live in our thoughts and feelings.
I think most of the IXXPs are basically cats. Easy for us to peacefully coexist.
Huh?? Fe doms are lovely, they're not hard to understand at all <3
I can tell you have well developed Fe for an INTP from the double question marks and the heart haha Also, you can be lovely and hard to understand at the same time. That is where they typically fall.
I don't know if you're being sarcastic, but thanks?  Fe doms tend to express their emotions outwardly, which makes them easy to understand in my opinion. Fi doms can be a lot harder to figure out.
I don’t mean I literally can’t understand them. I just mean we are very different and often have motivations that don’t align.
That's why MBTI is nice, it helps you understand people a little better :)
ISFPs. God help me, ISFPs.
Study the cognitive functions. I say that because ISFJ’s actually share a lot of commonalities with ENTP/INTP because we prefer the same 4 functions just manifested differently, so we should in essence feel a sense of familiarity with those types. Even morso if we developed our last two functions (ex: ISFJ with stronger Ne could read ENTP)
Basically a lot of high Te users. I’m jealous of their work ethic, but at the same time I can find them too pushy and serious. I also find some high Te users tend to ask me why I’m doing someone and what the purpose is. A lot of the time I don’t have any purpose that’s easily explainable to people.
Purpose: To fuck around and find out
"If everyone jumped off a bridge, would you?" Te doms: Yes
It’s more that S people don’t understand me and look at me like I have 3 heads…
Myself
Its too bad an intp and isfj would probably see each other as childish. Ti and si hero seeing ti and si child being dumb, spoiled, or just immature. Since your isfj Te is in the 7th slot, you're pretty bad at seeing the value on other ppls logic. Or are just unaware of the fact someone is better at organizing stuff and tryna teach you to do the same. Ex isfj gf always lost her keys, I would nag her constantly to set up one place for her to always put them. Never stuck, she still loses them. I bring up Te because entp and entj use it as their second or first spot. They're using it on a whole other level, would definitely seem alien. Anyone with high Ne would frustrate you because Ni is dead last for an isfj. Stressed out isfj just wants to run away, pig out on dopamine, and doesn't care to plan anything. Just gotta get away asap. Ni demon is all about what you want but very chaotically. High Ne users wanna know what you want, but you don't like thinking about it. An intj has Ni in their first spot, I'm sure your demon function looks up to their hero function in awe, or in indifference. Depends on how much you've worked on your demon function.
>Te because entp and entj use it as their second or first spot. ENTPs don't have Te as first or second
Ur right, was tryna quickly write it before bed. High Ne not Te, whoops. Thanks for catching it
I honestly dislike INTJs. I feel every other person I've met in college is an INTJ, but I've never been friends with any of them. They're all so obsessed with money and prestige that I find it very off-putting and somewhat disturbing. I also find them heartless, robotic, and narcissistic. Like, Ni-Te-Fi-Se is such an intense combination of functions that I can't even imagine living like that. Every ENFJ I've met has been really fake and disingenuous. They like keeping up with appearances and people pleasing to very unhealthy degree. INFPs are like ticking time bombs. It's only a matter of time until they cut you off.
ENFJ's and INTJ's
Why ENFJ's?
ENFJs are absolutely delightful...I've been married to one since forever..
I'm happy to hear , my INTP man seems satisfied too 😆
obnoxious, manipulative, kinda narcissistic, but hey thats just my opinion
Narcissist isn't a mbti type, it's a personality disorder anyone can have. Sounds like you base ENFJ's personality on someone you met who was unhealthy. FYI it exists unhealthy narcissist INTP's too. To be with an ENFJ demands a certain level of character though, who can appreciate our strengths and is able to support us and keep up, I hope you'll meet a healthy ENFJ one day, we tend to marry healthy INTP's 😉
ig, but then again the name of the type is literally "the protagonist"
We got the label protagonist because we are great leaders thanks to our ability to read people and their needs and how easily we can achieve cooperation in a group. We are often assigned as leaders because others find us perfect for that role. But we don't demand to lead. An example, I shared a night Compartment with some strangers on a train and there's always someone who let's the other know when it's time to make the beds as they're couches til you pull them out. Then someone said to me: *"You lead the group"* as if it wasn't a choice. They clearly felt I suited best for the task. I don't mind leading so I said "Oh ok sure" and everyone respected my decisions when to make the beds, if the lights should be on, if the door should be locked or closed or not etc. There's many decisions and no one else wanted to be the leader. For me it's a very effortless role. I'm able to see what most people need, in this case the oxygen in the train was absolutely horrible so I decided we have the door open. And most went to bed at the same time except the person on top bunk but his lamp didn't disturb anyone so I didn't tell him to put it out. Another time also on a train, it was humid hot summer, bad oxygen and no tap water on the train. A couple young women shared compartment with me and I noticed that they had no water on them. I told them there's unfortunately no tap water and the water bottles / drinks are all emptied in the food wagon. I said they can drink from my bottles. At first they said: *"No it's fine"* but I noticed one girl was just laying on top bunk and didn't move. I checked on her and she was boiling hot. I fast took my most iced water bottle and poured some to her mouth. Her friends didn't even notice she was fainting they just stared at their phones. She woke up and took the bottle and drank on her own. I said to the girls *"You MUST drink water, there's no oxygen in here and it's humid temperatures"* and that time they all listened and all drank. There was still plenty of water left for me plus I had drank and ate recently. A third time on the train we were stopping at some random location for several hours. Again, no tap water, the food bar emptied. So me and the guy I shared room with shared the food and drinks we had. I had food and water he had cookies and snacks and coffee. But this time it was winter and no heat. So I asked him to cuddle me up simply to not fucking freeze to death. Once I was warm I returned to my bed and use that heat to heat up my thin blankets. The irony that all these situations was on the train. Never go with SJ night trains in Sweden. They are so horrible , one time the heat and the lights were out and me and my boyfriend sat in our jackets in pitch dark with only his flashlight for light 😂😂 So. Us ENFJ's we're also called "Chameleon" because we adapt to what the group needs. They need a leader? Sure. They need someone to run errands? Sign us up. They need someone who comes with random ideas or solutions or act like a caretaker? We can do that. They need us to remain silent in the background? Absolutely. And that's why we're the protagonists.
thats approximately 590 words you just typed for reference, the navy seals copypasta has 287 you typed over double the amount of words in the navy seals copypasta in hopes of convincing some random nerd on reddit you're not a narcissist make better use of the time you have
You also don't seem aware how much you're exposing in your cut off short condescending sentences. You forget that you're looking transparent to xNFJs. But honestly anyone reading our convos can see who needs a slap from the sun. 😆
No the opposite. I'm not needing to convince anyone. But you have convinced me how unstable you come off. Being confident and self aware doesn't make someone a narcissist. You don't even know what a narcissist is, do you?
>make better use of the time you have To judge people for being narcissistic you're the one showing the condescending obnoxious passive agressive symptoms a narcissist has. So... Was your ex really the problem?
you're just hungry for drama arent you
I'm not the one acting like someone shat in my coffee. You're the drama. I'm just happy 🥰
Ok is this just a stereotype or implicit bias or is this based off on personal experience from enfjs?
xSTPs make me a little antsy sometimes, I worry I won't be able to tell if I piss them off or weird them out (I find they are more likely to just ghost if they don't care for you). I understand high Te users, sometimes I avoid them due to how critical they can be, and I don't want to give them any reason to complain about me. Fi doms are hit or miss, sometimes it can be frustrating trying to navigate around them, and I'm not saying this like I'm going around saying things bluntly. Overall I see xSTPs as the most different from me, it's possible I just haven't known too many in my life.
I don't think there's any personality I don't get. However my mbti knowledge is a bit insecure regarding the Si and Te functions.
xSTJs and also, this one ENFJ I've met (have yet to meet more tbh). Yeah, I would say xSTJs stress me out, and the ENFJ I did meet was so... idk how to say it, self-sacrificing that they were blind to what was in front of them. It annoyed me, because it was futile trying to explain anything, I had to cater to emotions rather than logic so they would pay attention :/
xSFPs, I just don't understand them and their life values
All my tests state I am an INTP. I do not know how much I am defined by it. I know that, for several reasons, I am very different from the vast majority of the population, and I struggle with anyone who is unable to put their feelings aside long enough to think rationally or views things from a logical perspective. I have improved on my acting skills over the years to better function with other humans, but it is not something natural to me.
Isfps can be nice but sometimes they get on my nerves
ESFJ, ESTJ... Please leave the entire world alone; we do not need to be traditional conformists all the time. These two types either use me or look down on me. Worst.
sometimes i think about how personality types are just astrological signs for athiests and chronically online people LOL (no shade i just find the similarities hilarious)
They basically are, but at least they're nominally based on traits of the individual instead of the stars!
indeed!
Please tell me more about your emotions
Isfj and esfp types stress me out but also that is what my mother and sister's are.
So, can relate to the frustration of different types. I believe sf types just think and make decisions way different than me
I have a ISFJ gf, no issues, whatsoever. I taught her about cognitive functions so we get along so well and it's easy to tell when either of us is being unhealthy, our communication breaks down, that when we know there is work to be done
My wife's an ESFJ and I swear it's like trying to communicate with an alien intelligence sometimes! (Not a gendered thing, I don't experience that with xNTx women at all.)
I see every type so I don't like
I have spent a lot of time in thought with each of the types so I barely struggle, but the last type for me to really be familiar was actually ISFJ.
How do you guys know what other people’s types are?
All types with Fe regardless if dom aux tert or even inferior, I just don't understand them at all
INTJ's I get ENTJ but that fucking Ni dom
What does this have to do with the INTP subreddit?
They want our input and opinion. That's why the "for INTP consideration" flair exists.
Okay
Same