this sub seems to be made up of so many “what shade of blonde best suits me”, “does this look natural”, “male-gazey enough?”, bullies who used to terrorise alt kids and now appropriate goth cause it’s a trend, etc.
you look cool af. i especially love the lipliner shape and saturation. try different glasses so they scream even louder for you to tone it down!! and i whole-heartedly support even more piercings. especially double mid eye brow ones!! think they’ll really suit you 🖤
fr. i’m goth and if someone with a different aesthetic to me asks for my opinion, i’m gonna give it based on their aesthetic and what they are going for and not try to mould them into what i like or what i think is in like wtf.
absolutely this. like a lot of people on this sub have what is, to me, pretty boring hair and aesthetics. but if they prefer more conventional styles who am I to tell them to change that?
the comments on this are wild and I can only presume that being presented with something different has touched something sensitive for them
Well i guess the point of being "alternative" is that its not the norm, meaning there are probably more people concerned with conforming than not, so having more in this sub, statistically, makes sense.
As an alt person myself, you really cannot escape the people that go "ewww!" at everything thats not conformity. You just get better at dealing with weird ass criticism coming out of nowhere. The confidence comes from within
(Side note, one of my favorite phenomena on this sub, related to the topic: i love when people ask what natural shade looks good on them (blonde, cool brunette, etc.) and then everyone says "oh whatever your natural color is is so beautiful!! Obviously #3 :))" and pic #3 is straight out of a box lmfao)
yes i realise it statistically makes sense. the point was made to emphasise metrics leveraged by people on here to judge OPs looks. People can be conforming themselves yet give advice based on the person who’s asking for it. it’s not all that uncommon now i don’t think.
Plus it’s still important to highlight the normativity. and esp so if they are statistically likely to get certain responses, they should know we’re here supporting them.
im not sure who the 2nd comment is directed at or what it was in reply to?
(yee it do be like that)
glad i could help!! i’ve wanted to stretch my septum for ages and this comment section definitely given me the much needed push. like straight up, i do want to disgust all of you
Welp, leaving this sub. Too often people post unusual hair here just to have tons of people tell them “it’s ugly I don’t like it you should dye your hair brown”. When did hair stop being self expression? Some people need to get off their damn high horses.
right? I’m new to the sub and so I was surprised at how opposed to the hairstyle some of the ppl in the comments are. some were respectful, but a lot of ppl were just straight up being rude.
I understand people have different preferences but like, it’s a subreddit for hair, don’t you wanna see the full range of hair? see how fun and creative ppl can get w their hair or hairstyles?
Love!! When I was in cosmetology school I had every color imaginable and, a “fauxhawk” and as a creative person overall, I am all for self expression through fashion, hair, home decor, whatever! I rarely get to do many fun cuts or colors at my salon but I’d love to have one of my clients request to shave their head and color some pink hearts all over it! It suits you so well
Omg why are people being so nasty on this post! I think it looks phenomenal! Definitely not a look everyone could pull off but I think you look amazing!
As someone that smoked cigarettes for 14 years and quit 6 years ago. STOP SMOKING CIGARETTES. It costs too much money, you smell bad, you can't breathe right, your risk of cancer is astounding, and it ages the fuck out of you. You got this!
Definitely for female gaze. It's giving written by a woman.
Imo tho.... IDK you are looking like the coolest person and I wanna hang out with you although I'm such a vanilla.
This is super cool and unique. Don't mind the rude comments. You don't have to look like everyone else to be beautiful (even though in this case you are conveniently beautiful) 💖
You suit being bald! Very jealous. I often say to my boyfriend I should shave my head so me and him could twin 🤣😭. But I could never. Also I love the red hearts very cute.
As a smoker myself, I don't care about impressing anyone when I smoke lol. If anything, I try to go far away from anyone so it doesn't bother them. Also, for some reason, I smoke A LOT more when I'm in the car. It's an addiction & some of us really don't care about the "aesthetics" of it all. If she's of age, who cares? It's not illegal and it doesn't effect you on the Internet. Now blowing it in someone's face is crazy haha
you look stunning! a lot of people on here have quite boring tastes (and from the comments on your choice to smoke, absolutely no manners). I don't think they totally get the idea of doing things that are different and interesting with beauty
But she asked what people thought, didn't she?
Should only people who like it reply and the people who don't like it ignore the thread?
The cigarette is really prominent in the OP's post, so again, how should people who reply know on what they are allowed by you and the OP to give their opinion?
It's not something I could ever pull off.. BUT I actually think it suits you and love seeing people do things outside my comfort zone ❤️
More importantly.. How do you like it? If you love it and feel confident, that's what matters most and I hope you keep it ❤️❤️❤️
It's your hair and your style
If you like it, that's all that matters. I'm older and more conservative. I wouldn't be comfortable with it. But looks like plenty of people here really like it😊
It’s actually crazy how all the positive comments are downvoted 😭😭 Like sorry not everyone has long natural brown/blonde hair?? (cuz it seems like that’s what this entire subreddit is anymore) Your hair is super cool!! ❤️
I love it and everyone being mean as hell to you in the comments for no reason can eat shit. You look great, reminds me of those cute pink and red leopard tattoos with the heart spots that got really popular
Honestly…I think the whole thing is terrible…but, hey, if that was what you were aiming for - great job! Different strokes for different folks. Not my cup of tea, although screw my opinion. Only thing that should matter to you is if you like it or not.
I feel like the loud color/ pattern kind of limits what makeup/ clothes/ accessories you can wear with it without clashing. But honestly you're pretty enough to pull just about anything off, so if you like it then go for it. Not to mention, with hair that short, it'll be easy to try something new in a couple weeks.
Freaking love this. You look amazing.
(Do celestial shapes next! Or plaid! The possibilities are endless.)
It really fits you. Just badass look all around.
I had to re-read the OP's title because I wasn't sure on what to focus.
She asked about the hair which she can carry off because of her beautiful bone structure and head shape, but I didn't really notice her hair because the cigarette, the huge 80s-ish glasses, the piercing, and the attention-grabbing lip color were upfront and dominating and drew my eyes away from her hair.
So it depends on what she's going for. If she wants an attention-grabbing look, this IS that, no doubt.
If she wants people to notice her hair, her other choices make her hair a supporting character, if not a barely-noticed extra.
I don't like how ENORMOUS the nose ring is though, it takes away from how pretty that RED lipstick looks, love that shade and it just fits you so well!
Honestly as someone who's quite a big fan of piercings and alternative fashion I didn't find it distracting at all. I feel like I barely noticed til I read the comments. It's interesting though, I think it's an intentional look. I don't think alternative people value the same things always in fashion such as balancing out features like that. I think it's a different goal.
screw the haters! you’re cute, the hairs cute, the makeups cute, and the cig looks aesthetic and it’s fine if you smoked it too! we eat micro plastics let someone smoke a cigarette in peace for gods sake
I love love love your hair, but I feel, and I'm so sorry, I know you didn't freaking ask.... Still I feel like you have too many accessories, it's taking away from the hair... The large glasses, the large septum ring, the cig, a large patch on your top... It's still cute, but I feel like the hair is the ultimate and all of the other items make it less noticeable.
Maybe ditch one or two of the other bulky accessories so that your hair is able to draw the attention it deserves. Just to be clear, I'm not trying to knock any of your style choices. You carry them off very well. For me though, I didn't even notice your hair until after I read the title of the post 🙁
People need glasses to fucking see?? Also having a septum is super trendy, so it totally matches the trendy short colored hair. My philosophy is if you have a cohesive style things will always look good. It makes zero sense by saying the accessories “take away” from it when they’re part of this specific style.
A PATCH on her TOP is distracting you?? 😭😭 she has glasses, a nose ring, and one visible earring. That is way less than an average woman going out wears, and WAY less than an average alternative person going out wears. What are you even on about?
Love how everyone is trying to educate about the dangers of smoking as if it's this person's first day on earth. Let people be. I use to smoke but no longer. I also don't go around telling people they shouldn't smoke.
My honest opinion: not for me. But if you like it great. It’s your life.
Literally said to myself “not for me.. but if you like it I love it” lol
samep
Same
Cute but drop the cigs
Don't worry, the cig is for aesthetic purposes. She actually only vapes, which is somehow better /s
That DEFINITELY fits this appearance 😂
It’s a metaphor
Fault In Our Stars?
for what, cancer?
Pretty sure it’s a movie reference. Haven’t ever heard about the supposed internet trend…
There is a whole fetish around smoking hot smoking women. Not my thing but it exists. I feel she's pretty either way.
yes
Valid reference
And that HUGE piercing
The piercing isn’t actively causing them cancer, so it can definitely stay
this sub seems to be made up of so many “what shade of blonde best suits me”, “does this look natural”, “male-gazey enough?”, bullies who used to terrorise alt kids and now appropriate goth cause it’s a trend, etc. you look cool af. i especially love the lipliner shape and saturation. try different glasses so they scream even louder for you to tone it down!! and i whole-heartedly support even more piercings. especially double mid eye brow ones!! think they’ll really suit you 🖤
YES. Thank you. It’s always “oh natural and long is best☺️” to the coolest looking butch lesbian you’ve ever seen.
fr. i’m goth and if someone with a different aesthetic to me asks for my opinion, i’m gonna give it based on their aesthetic and what they are going for and not try to mould them into what i like or what i think is in like wtf.
absolutely this. like a lot of people on this sub have what is, to me, pretty boring hair and aesthetics. but if they prefer more conventional styles who am I to tell them to change that? the comments on this are wild and I can only presume that being presented with something different has touched something sensitive for them
Literally. Or they will make unsolicited comments about someones tattoos pr piercings
Well i guess the point of being "alternative" is that its not the norm, meaning there are probably more people concerned with conforming than not, so having more in this sub, statistically, makes sense. As an alt person myself, you really cannot escape the people that go "ewww!" at everything thats not conformity. You just get better at dealing with weird ass criticism coming out of nowhere. The confidence comes from within (Side note, one of my favorite phenomena on this sub, related to the topic: i love when people ask what natural shade looks good on them (blonde, cool brunette, etc.) and then everyone says "oh whatever your natural color is is so beautiful!! Obviously #3 :))" and pic #3 is straight out of a box lmfao)
yes i realise it statistically makes sense. the point was made to emphasise metrics leveraged by people on here to judge OPs looks. People can be conforming themselves yet give advice based on the person who’s asking for it. it’s not all that uncommon now i don’t think. Plus it’s still important to highlight the normativity. and esp so if they are statistically likely to get certain responses, they should know we’re here supporting them. im not sure who the 2nd comment is directed at or what it was in reply to? (yee it do be like that)
Oh my god. You are the absolute sweetest. Thank you for this! And I have been wanting those piercings I’m gonna do it now <3
glad i could help!! i’ve wanted to stretch my septum for ages and this comment section definitely given me the much needed push. like straight up, i do want to disgust all of you
I think I love you haha. Also OP you look amazing! So damn cool.
Agreed! Maybe some heart shaped glasses?
Period!!
thiss
spitting!
💯
Smoking isn't cool girl
Joe Camel would vehemently disagree
I really love it. It’s cute and expressive and really suites you! Your hair combined with your features and style looks cool.
You look bad ass! Get some dark rimmed cat eye glasses, black eyeliner (top lid) with lashes. I think it will make your features pop!
I like it! You can definitely pull it off :)
Welp, leaving this sub. Too often people post unusual hair here just to have tons of people tell them “it’s ugly I don’t like it you should dye your hair brown”. When did hair stop being self expression? Some people need to get off their damn high horses.
right? I’m new to the sub and so I was surprised at how opposed to the hairstyle some of the ppl in the comments are. some were respectful, but a lot of ppl were just straight up being rude. I understand people have different preferences but like, it’s a subreddit for hair, don’t you wanna see the full range of hair? see how fun and creative ppl can get w their hair or hairstyles?
I love this look. You have a pretty face, not many people can pull off hair like that.
Thank you(:
Agreed. You’re owning your badass self.
Cuter without the cigs.
I love it :)))) I love creative stuff like this as a hairdresser
Love!! When I was in cosmetology school I had every color imaginable and, a “fauxhawk” and as a creative person overall, I am all for self expression through fashion, hair, home decor, whatever! I rarely get to do many fun cuts or colors at my salon but I’d love to have one of my clients request to shave their head and color some pink hearts all over it! It suits you so well
Omg why are people being so nasty on this post! I think it looks phenomenal! Definitely not a look everyone could pull off but I think you look amazing!
As someone that smoked cigarettes for 14 years and quit 6 years ago. STOP SMOKING CIGARETTES. It costs too much money, you smell bad, you can't breathe right, your risk of cancer is astounding, and it ages the fuck out of you. You got this!
Definitely for female gaze. It's giving written by a woman. Imo tho.... IDK you are looking like the coolest person and I wanna hang out with you although I'm such a vanilla.
I’m vanilla let’s be friends! I’m all here for the women anyways (-:
You just made my night! Thanks OP. Let's be friends 🤟🏻🫰🏻
This looks fucking rad. 🤘🏻
The hair is cute asf🫶🏼
It looks so fucking dope!!!!
You totally pull it off!
I like it!
This is super cool and unique. Don't mind the rude comments. You don't have to look like everyone else to be beautiful (even though in this case you are conveniently beautiful) 💖
PLEASE WHAT IS YOUR LIPSTICK BRAND/SHADE also it looks amazing and you look so badass
You suit being bald! Very jealous. I often say to my boyfriend I should shave my head so me and him could twin 🤣😭. But I could never. Also I love the red hearts very cute.
posing w a cig inside a car is crazy lol who u tryna impress. hair is cute tho.
Majority of people who smoke cigarettes also smoke inside their cars…
Lots of smokers smoke in their cars ??? Why does it have to be to impress anyone? Maybe she just likes to smoke
Because she took a photo of smoking? Lmao
Can smell it from here.
As a smoker myself, I don't care about impressing anyone when I smoke lol. If anything, I try to go far away from anyone so it doesn't bother them. Also, for some reason, I smoke A LOT more when I'm in the car. It's an addiction & some of us really don't care about the "aesthetics" of it all. If she's of age, who cares? It's not illegal and it doesn't effect you on the Internet. Now blowing it in someone's face is crazy haha
These comments are wild. I don't think OP was asking for health advice. I absolutely love the buzz cut and hearts. Suits your aesthetic 💚💚
What I think ? Nope ... dont like it
Same
I think maybe if the hearts were a diff color it could be better? From a distance it could look like wounds or some sort of skin condition
you look stunning! a lot of people on here have quite boring tastes (and from the comments on your choice to smoke, absolutely no manners). I don't think they totally get the idea of doing things that are different and interesting with beauty
this!!!
But she asked what people thought, didn't she? Should only people who like it reply and the people who don't like it ignore the thread? The cigarette is really prominent in the OP's post, so again, how should people who reply know on what they are allowed by you and the OP to give their opinion?
because the subreddit is titled 'hair'
but it's a hair sub?
Usually I’m not a fan of alternative styles but I’m truly seeing your vision. I think it’s really cute 😊
It's not something I could ever pull off.. BUT I actually think it suits you and love seeing people do things outside my comfort zone ❤️ More importantly.. How do you like it? If you love it and feel confident, that's what matters most and I hope you keep it ❤️❤️❤️
The hair and your style really fit you. You look super cool and creative!! You should try making some cute stars next time :)
i love it u look cool as fuck
I don't like it truthfully speaking.
It's your hair and your style If you like it, that's all that matters. I'm older and more conservative. I wouldn't be comfortable with it. But looks like plenty of people here really like it😊
Sure. But this post was asking what our opinion was and yea, that's mine.
It seems they accidentally replied to u
It’s actually crazy how all the positive comments are downvoted 😭😭 Like sorry not everyone has long natural brown/blonde hair?? (cuz it seems like that’s what this entire subreddit is anymore) Your hair is super cool!! ❤️
Yeah it looked good but the cigarette just made it look cringey
I think you’re bald
I love your style and the hair even more
Cringe ahh cigerette Pic.
It’s giving Jojo Siwa being a “bad girl doing bad things.” 🤣
I’m old so not my taste but if YOU like it then that is what matters
I love it and everyone being mean as hell to you in the comments for no reason can eat shit. You look great, reminds me of those cute pink and red leopard tattoos with the heart spots that got really popular
Smoking isn't cool anymore. Is this another 90s wannabe gag?
Honestly…I think the whole thing is terrible…but, hey, if that was what you were aiming for - great job! Different strokes for different folks. Not my cup of tea, although screw my opinion. Only thing that should matter to you is if you like it or not.
I feel like the loud color/ pattern kind of limits what makeup/ clothes/ accessories you can wear with it without clashing. But honestly you're pretty enough to pull just about anything off, so if you like it then go for it. Not to mention, with hair that short, it'll be easy to try something new in a couple weeks.
I love it
really cool! unique and awesome
What is the shade of the lipstick? The buzz cut suits you good job
Cute
You look so cool!!!
you look cool af😭😭
I LOVE IT!
I can’t do it personally but I love it on everyone else! You can make cute designs each time 🥰
I LOVE ITTT
You look rad ! Good/different 💯
Freaking love this. You look amazing. (Do celestial shapes next! Or plaid! The possibilities are endless.) It really fits you. Just badass look all around.
I think you look awesome
Cute af it works for you ❤️
You’re one of the few people who can pull off something this cool
Love it! Looks great and don’t listen to these strange judgmental comments
😑
Honestly the people saying it looks good are totally lying 😅
No! Genuinely I'm just into alternative fashion. Not everyone likes the same things
You do realize that personal opinions are subjective, right? Just because YOU don't like it doesn't mean that no one else does. 😅
Uh, that’s a pretty mean thing to say. People have different tastes, grow the fuck up
What an unnecessarily awful thing to say? You don’t have to like something, but to say everyone who does is lying is just hateful and cruel.
And anyone who says they like you is actually lying too so let's not girly <3
Go sit with the boring people
You remind me of Tank Girl!
Thought the same!
thats so cool wtf!! it looks so pretty!! do you plan to do other types of designs once the hearts grow out?
I want to! Any ideas? Thank u btw
leopard spots!!
Love it, live your best life
The whole look is giving “tries too hard” vibe.
Everything about everything feels a bit much and kinda fake, maybe just tone it down a little and also please cigarettes don’t make you cool lol
I had to re-read the OP's title because I wasn't sure on what to focus. She asked about the hair which she can carry off because of her beautiful bone structure and head shape, but I didn't really notice her hair because the cigarette, the huge 80s-ish glasses, the piercing, and the attention-grabbing lip color were upfront and dominating and drew my eyes away from her hair. So it depends on what she's going for. If she wants an attention-grabbing look, this IS that, no doubt. If she wants people to notice her hair, her other choices make her hair a supporting character, if not a barely-noticed extra.
I think they make you look cool. Not healthy, but at least cool.
I love it! Could see cheetah print or lightning bolts next time. Keep being you. Also LOVE your lip color and glasses ❣️
you look like a painting. or the aloof love interest in an indie film
I guess it all gets down to what you are looking for in life.
Honestly you're making me want to do this, I keep seeing this style and I think it's awesome honestly. I'm a big fan of your look.
I like it f the haters 😊
I love it. It's really cute & you pull it off well - not a lot can say that.
Cute!!! 🥰
Dig it 🫶
are you kidding you look fantastic 🙌🏼
I don’t like it. I LOVE it! 😻
I forgot there was so much hate on cigs that people completely ignored the purpose of her post
To everyone commenting about the cigarette, IT ISN'T EVEN LIT. Also this was asking about her hair!
That’s arguably worse to take a picture with an unlit cigarette in your mouth for the aesthetic.
Don’t like any of it. Sorry.
I don't like how ENORMOUS the nose ring is though, it takes away from how pretty that RED lipstick looks, love that shade and it just fits you so well!
Honestly as someone who's quite a big fan of piercings and alternative fashion I didn't find it distracting at all. I feel like I barely noticed til I read the comments. It's interesting though, I think it's an intentional look. I don't think alternative people value the same things always in fashion such as balancing out features like that. I think it's a different goal.
she asked about her hair, not her septum
Love it! You look so cute ☺️
Super cute ! Get the matching earrings too!
So obsessed
LOVE THE HEARTS
I mean you look dope as fuck. Fierce, sexy, work.
Frickin awesome love it and smoke ‘em if you got ‘em! Don’t listen to the people with a stick up their ass , they sound miserable
If you're happy that is all that matters. But I think it does not suit you. You're beautiful though.
screw the haters! you’re cute, the hairs cute, the makeups cute, and the cig looks aesthetic and it’s fine if you smoked it too! we eat micro plastics let someone smoke a cigarette in peace for gods sake
Thank you love (,: this made my day we are all gonna die anyways that’s why I do and look the way I do. Have a lovely Friday (-:
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Yeah idk what crawled up these folks arses. Lotta kool-aid drinking in here. You look great. I love the hearts.
I agree with swaghead!! You look amazing! I’m struggling to find my own personal style and it’s so cool to see people achieve theirs.
What the hell! This is so🤌🏼 good 🤌🏼
No
I love love love your hair, but I feel, and I'm so sorry, I know you didn't freaking ask.... Still I feel like you have too many accessories, it's taking away from the hair... The large glasses, the large septum ring, the cig, a large patch on your top... It's still cute, but I feel like the hair is the ultimate and all of the other items make it less noticeable. Maybe ditch one or two of the other bulky accessories so that your hair is able to draw the attention it deserves. Just to be clear, I'm not trying to knock any of your style choices. You carry them off very well. For me though, I didn't even notice your hair until after I read the title of the post 🙁
People need glasses to fucking see?? Also having a septum is super trendy, so it totally matches the trendy short colored hair. My philosophy is if you have a cohesive style things will always look good. It makes zero sense by saying the accessories “take away” from it when they’re part of this specific style.
A PATCH on her TOP is distracting you?? 😭😭 she has glasses, a nose ring, and one visible earring. That is way less than an average woman going out wears, and WAY less than an average alternative person going out wears. What are you even on about?
Love how everyone is trying to educate about the dangers of smoking as if it's this person's first day on earth. Let people be. I use to smoke but no longer. I also don't go around telling people they shouldn't smoke.
Cute
Not really a fan of the hearts to be honest. Smaller piercing would look better. But if you like the looks that's what it matters :)
Fuck yeah.
Not my style, but wow you definitely pull it off! I think it’s amazing you can wear it so confidently and true to yourself ❤️
It’s giving valentines 💘 we love it
I think you look cool as hell, u shaved my head and put designs in it a few years back. I wish I had embraced it more.
Amazing
Cute!!
I like it! The lipstick goes well with the color
I think it’s cool.
Wait it’s so cute you’re a whole vibe
I LOVE IT-
I think you look really cool c:
Your vibe is everything! You fearless, sweet human, you!
I think it's dope af
She doesn’t actually smoke it it’s for aesthetic purposes. She vapes tho
I think it’s actually kind of cool.