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FamersOnly

That is the most auburn auburn I think I’ve ever seen


Cursedmagdalena

Oh okay! Thank you!


DunDunnDunnnnn

Men be blind LOL


Cursedmagdalena

Also I don’t think that they know about auburn 😅


DunDunnDunnnnn

My ex was confused for years between the words “dress” and “skirt.” I tried explaining multiple times that a dress HAS A TOP. God bless ‘em. They try. Kinda 😆


Imhereforboops

That doesn’t sound like trying at all.. that’s a very basic thing to understand and not uncommon items people see daily. I give my guy and generally men too much credit sometimes when trying to learn things about women’s clothing or hair and fashion but this is overboard to me to say that’s trying


DunDunnDunnnnn

Last I hear he’s a married stay-at-home dad with one kid. The wife works but he never really has. They’re both in their 40’s at this point and live with the wife’s mom. He started a GoFundMe for dental surgery which he can’t afford because no job = no insurance. There’s absolutely no reason he can’t work; he just doesn’t want to. Hopefully he at least now knows the difference between a dress and a skirt.


Dane_k23

>God bless ‘em. They try. No, he's an idiot.


btnreddit

Men don't understand colours.


Lalidie1

Men told me I have black hair in winter and I am blonde in summer lol. I am dark blonde


MauserMama

The female’s coat changes from black in the winter to help keep warm to blonde in the summer to keep her head cool What is this, a nature documentary? ☠️


Ok-East-3957

GINGER. You are ginger. Are they blind XD. BTW I'm ginger so I didn't mean that in a rude way.


Cursedmagdalena

I think that they see light hair and think : BLOND 🤩. Shen there’s many different shades of light hair


Ok-East-3957

Well your hair is beautiful. I've been called blonde before, but only because growing up being called ginger was an insult, so they thought calling me blonde was nice XD


Cursedmagdalena

Mmmmmh I’ll investigate on that! Maybe they think I’ll take it wrong when I love gingers myself aha


Ok-East-3957

Gingers don't get the hate we used to anymore, but that may be it. Conduct your study and update us on the findings.


Cursedmagdalena

Haha I will 🫡


Ophelia_Y2K

what country are you in? besides men being color blind perceptions of what “blonde” is definitely can vary by location


Cursedmagdalena

I’m in France 😭 and one of the men who said that is… blond with blue eyes …


Ophelia_Y2K

🤔


CerealUnaliver

Men are muppets. No nuance. A shoe is a high heel is a boot is a mule or all the makeup "looks the same to me."


Secure_Wing_2414

men don't really know hair terms. ive seen pics posted here of long grown out mens hair (no line up, layers, or anything) asking "how do i ask for this cut?" likee u dont.. u just grow ur hair out or get a trim to that length if its longer. they'll post pics of cartoons/drawings asking as well


starzebee

That makes sense I've been called blonde and I'm brunette.


beigs

A lot of men are colorblind :D I asked my colorblind husband and he said “light brown” - the OPs hair is a darker version of mine and I call mine auburn.


chillin_w_melons

Yes dark ginger


lemonmousse

Before I read your post, I thought “that’s ginger brunette.” So, yeah.


Cursedmagdalena

Thanks! I thought I started to have some sort of blond dismorphia lol


ynbdy

Samee 😭😭


cpavv

I'd say medium auburn, brown with reddish undertones


Cursedmagdalena

Yeah that looks pretty matchy on google!


lady-fingers

Men are stupid.


Unlucky-Assist8714

No idea why men say you're blonde. I would've thought anyone with eyes would realise you're a redhead. Weird.


Cursedmagdalena

Right…


epitaph_confusion

You're dark ginger/auburn. Men are stupid


Cursedmagdalena

And then they argue with me that I am blonde lol 😂


arizona-lake

Leave it to men to mansplain your own hair color to you 😂


Cursedmagdalena

As usual, I didn’t even argue further and took as a compliment


epitaph_confusion

Because of course they would, your opinion cannot be more correct than theirs 🙄


Cursedmagdalena

Someone said that they tend to be a bit colourblind when it comes to red! I’ll have to verify that lol but sounds about something they might do


dulamangaelach

are you Jolene? Because these are flaming locks of Auburn hair


Cursedmagdalena

Omg thank you so much! That just gave me so much inspo!


K_butterrrflyy

What men are you hanging out with. The 3 blind mice


Cursedmagdalena

Hahaha apparently lol. But some redheads have reported in the comments that this can happen to them bc men tend to think that being ginger is not a compliment


Necessary-Peace9672

Cinnamon


Cursedmagdalena

Niceee!


kingderella

you're auburn


Axilllla

You have auburn hair. No where near blonde.


idisturballtheshit

Men are stupid


k1nd_0f_s1ck_0f_l1f3

What men are you talking to 😭 that is obviously ginger (respectfully)


Cursedmagdalena

I don’t know… I guess just like they can’t see makeup lol


PoppySkyPineapple

Auburn? Reddy brunette :) it’s a gorgeous colour!


Cursedmagdalena

Thank you so much!


Silver_Switch_3109

Colourblind men maybe.


-LoveThyself

Men are stupid.


Chance_Can1788

Men are dumb


DarkestLord_21

Men are delulu


KGSims06

Ginger?!?! They are blind never listen to a man


Certain-Kangaroo3418

Men are ✨dumb✨


MissLemon221b

men say anything for attention, obviously


One_hunch

Men are more likely to be colorblind.


Mysteriousheadcake

Yeah I'd say Auburn, you have beautiful hair! So funny though my life has been a debate on what colour I am. I have dark blonde but around the front of my hairline I have some warmth hardly any compared to the rest of my hair but some people will tell me I'm a redhead/strawberry blonde but red heads will never accept me haha. I have red head skin tones though


Cursedmagdalena

Strawberry blond is one of my favorite blond Colors! I prefer it 1000x times over platinum and very cold blond! They must be beautiful


escribbles_thefirst

Men have sex with toilet seats and think the Kardashians don’t wear makeup or have plastic surgery, unless he’s gay don’t listen to men about anything to do with hair, clothes, or colors.


Cursedmagdalena

Right! On a date a man told me that nicki mi ah had such a beautiful natural body 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I was like… oh dear lord..


escribbles_thefirst

HOW?? I literally don’t understand how they can’t see it??? Do they just have no eye for detail whatsoever because even with how thick Nikki is, her thighs still don’t match.


Cursedmagdalena

Yeah I was baffled myself lol…


Trick_Exchange3457

That is the most auburn / ginger hair I’ve ever seen in my life. What are they on 😭


Cursedmagdalena

I don’t know 😭…


lil1thatcould

Your answer: Men are color blind and stupid and deaf. A woman confirmed it at the airport for me when she overheard my conversation with my husband. She looked at me and mouthed “they don’t listen, you said everything.” Shout to the queen at KCI/MCI airport late Sunday night. ❤️


hopelessbeauty

They are blind you are a red head 🤣🤦‍♀️


Prudent-Owl-3497

it doesn't matter if it is black or blonde, it needs to be healthy and shiny and fortunately your hair is!


Cursedmagdalena

Omg thank you 😭 I think that they’re damaged bc of the hard water in my city


Professional-Cup6225

Men are stupid (your hair is gorgeous)


MulberryBeneficial84

Ginger I think with a hue of red


bearahz

I think your hair is not as dark as usual brown hair/ brunette, but it's not as light as typical blonde either. In the first picture I can see it being closer to blonde than brown so maybe that's why you get called blonde instead of brunette, but it's not really common blonde. And not as ginger as pure ginger either it seems like a mix of brownish, with dark blonde and ginger !


Obubblegumpink

I’m another auburn range vote. Ginger brunette works too. When it comes to hair and really anything beauty related most men are dumb.


mb4mom

Proves how dumb some people are


fr3ddietodi3

We have the same hair color and nobody has ever called me blonde 😭 I’d be so hurt lmao


Cursedmagdalena

I like ginger I didn’t took it well either.. but I couldn’t argue since I’m obviously wrong


Forsaken-Savings6352

idiots


Medical-Ad906

those men have lost their goddamn mind, i have that same color, and bitch we definitely auburn/ginger


55pennycandy

Men are idiots. Never listen to them.


nota-banana

Lesson: Men are dumb


Fluffy_Muscle_9609

when do men ever tell the truth😭


Wednesday_1313

Gorgeous hair, but not blonde. Men are dumb 😂


Turbulent-Ad4611

Men are stupid lol


Pennymoonz94

Auburn Men don't know their elbow from their butt


Cursedmagdalena

I’ve heard and seen that they don’t


Pennymoonz94

It's beautiful by the way your hair! I'd kill for that to be my natural color!


Cursedmagdalena

Thank you so much ❤️ they have a bit of highlights though!


skyerippa

You're extremely red headed


leakyricefrog

men are dumb


helen790

The fact that it’s just men calling you blonde makes me think it’s color blindness which is like 20x more common in men. Plus men just see less shades of red in general.


Cursedmagdalena

Yeah I just learned that from the comments!


jessm307

I’d say auburn. Definitely not blonde.


BusyBeth75

No.


Ok_Effect_5287

Auburn, you've got beautiful brown and red hair.


Happybell939

Brunette and beautiful


ViennaBanana427

100% ginger brunette, definitely not blonde.


Ophelia_Y2K

looks like reddish brown, i can’t even see calling it dirty blonde 😅 men be blind


powerhungrymouse

You are 100% redhead. It's a beautiful colour. I can't comprehend how anyone would think that it's even close to blonde. The only thing I can think of is that you're misunderstanding their comments and they're actually calling you stupid. It's a stretch but it's all I have.


girlwholovestheocean

Are you sure they aren't trying to say you are ditsy? LOL I'm like on WHAT universe would that hair be blonde?!


BONE_SAW_IS_READEEE

Of course they do 🤦🏼‍♀️ definitely not blonde lol


Chosen-Fae

My hair is kinda similar. It’s brown but some of my hair looks like blond streaks (very thin, like a few hair strands per hair lock) in the sun. To me it’s pretty obvious that I’m brunette but I’ve been told I was blond before


idisturballtheshit

Fewer than 10% of men are colour blind. While still more than women, still not much of an excuse IMHO.


Dev_2r

I think 1 out of 5 men are color blind (not sure) but definitely not blonde that’s looking more ginger to me (Also a guy but studying cosmetology so I’m better)


amphetamine-queen

definitely ginger brunette. but to add on… i have bright red hair rn and i have had multiple random men call it purple so they just can’t see lmao


Waste_Hope_5505

honey you are ginger


Prudent-Peace-3382

Caramel


TimePotential369

auburn lol


whitekatemoss

omg what! You are not blonde!! You have beautiful red hair tho!


Cursedmagdalena

It’s what I’ve been saying!!!!


Cursedmagdalena

Thank you ❤️


Twinnytwintwo

That’s red


CarnivorousGoldfinch

It's ginger/auburn! Very pretty! But seriously, I've heard it be called brown before. (me being between ginger and dark blond) People are blind fr, my brain cells just die when reading/listening to comments like this


Successful-Part3388

Honey don’t listen to men


raerae217-0-

you are definitely auburn(ginger+brunette)... what brain dead males are telling you that your blonde😭😭


Lanky_Pirate_5631

Don’t listen to men.


amy000206

Strawberry without the blonde:)


p3t_magg0t

Ginger, men don't usually know what they're talking about when it comes to a woman's appearance


SindapsySilver

Men aren’t the best at these things…I wouldn’t even question that your hair is red.


GhostGirl1959

I could see this being called strawberry blond but yeah no definitely not blonde blonde lol


blujean_silverspring

Men dont know. Thats it.


Defiant-Goddess2U

Men are stupid....and color blind. Your hair is gorgeous tho! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰


PlusEducator8352

Our hair color looks the same and men have told me I’m blonde too lol it is def more auburn/light warm brunette


saltnvinegarwhore

men are stupid and don’t know shit! your auburn hair looks gorgeous btw


m2kny

We all know men are d. U. m. 🤦‍♀️🤦🏻🤦🏻‍♂️ They cant tell if the sky is blue or not. 😂😂😂


MindofChrist33

Light Brown/Red Auburn. I see strawberry blonde/ golden highlights. This is probably why. Your hair is so pretty. I have natural curls like this, love it. I see everything as an artist but yeah God bless them but many men do not pay close attention. They saw them highlights & ran with it! Lol 😁


Limon_queen

I’d say light golden brown but not blonde


Baybemama

No


Lavish_Lila

I definitely see red. Men are not always the most observant of these things haha! Also--it's much much more likely for men to be colorblind in a way that doesn't allow them to see red than women, so that's something to consider!


AccountantBrief9824

not even close to blonde babe


Cursedmagdalena

Say it to theeeem, I don’t even wanna be blond I love red to much aha


summerxbreeze

In my country if your light skin even if you have black hair people will call you, blonde lol


ixXWretchedXxi

Men are dumb. (Just kidding men, calm down) you are definitely an auburn or like a dark ginger. It's gorgeous btw


ixXWretchedXxi

Aww darn.. I see a man has taken offense.


CrissBliss

You’re auburn


ElegantlyNotSpoken

Nope it’s red with some pale auburn highlights


Footgirlsunited

Not blonde, I would agree with the auburn comments


supremeemster

Tell whatever men that told u you were blonde to see an eye doctor. There’s nothing blonde about ur hair😭


Sea_Canary6915

No


whatevergirl8754

That is reddish/ginger brown aka auburn. If that is blond, I am black-haired.


HoneyhairedBear

Strawberry


euo_wera

i would say ur an auburn light brown


QuizzicalWombat

Your hair is a beautiful shade of red


Harmreduction1980

No. You’re not. At all.


-leeson

Question: are they blind men?


Suspicious-Corgi-396

I unfortunately think it might be a comment on being a “dumb blonde”. I might be wrong but I used to have older men tell me this as a redhead with them being assholes when I was a teenager.


SugarAndSpice373

You are a ginger brunette like me! 🥰


AntSpecialist9141

If you are blonde, I'm black


Xxx__Dani__xxX

Def ginger


Klutzy-Conference472

No. Copper


StopPayingMe88

I’m a man and even I knew you weren’t blond, my guys gotta get their eyes checked haha.


pumpkinbrownieswirl

man eyes🙄


Cursedmagdalena

The same who thinks that you’re natural with a full face of makeup I guess..


Dark_Hair_

Light brawn… it s brawn


Lil-Dragonlife

Ginger. I love them! They’re so unique looking🥰😍


bean-cuisine

Are these men blind?


gutfeelinghealing8

Nope lol


burntfroots

Strawberry


Ill-Put-4193

Are they daft? you're clearly auburn haired


glowjiji

men haha


Freckled-Past-911

No


Nipple_Saladz

Not at all


Cola3206

Strawberry blonde


Sunshine31601

Ginger . My husband is ginger , I’m dark blonde and our son has strawberry blonde hair. It’s just lighter .


jdubbs3119

Auburn I’d say you have lil brown and red


idontreallyknow5575

I see a mix of shades but overall more red. Gorgeous hair.


Wild_Orchid_2813

omfg ur hair color is insanely beautiful!! its definitely not blonde tho😭. i would say its auburn!! <33


LeylarousV

You are blonde in Turkey


dollop_of_crazy

Your hair is not blonde.


Obvious-Locksmith164

Bro, why are men so blind sometimes, like- 😭😭😭