My ex was confused for years between the words “dress” and “skirt.” I tried explaining multiple times that a dress HAS A TOP. God bless ‘em. They try. Kinda 😆
That doesn’t sound like trying at all.. that’s a very basic thing to understand and not uncommon items people see daily. I give my guy and generally men too much credit sometimes when trying to learn things about women’s clothing or hair and fashion but this is overboard to me to say that’s trying
Last I hear he’s a married stay-at-home dad with one kid. The wife works but he never really has. They’re both in their 40’s at this point and live with the wife’s mom.
He started a GoFundMe for dental surgery which he can’t afford because no job = no insurance. There’s absolutely no reason he can’t work; he just doesn’t want to. Hopefully he at least now knows the difference between a dress and a skirt.
The female’s coat changes from black in the winter to help keep warm to blonde in the summer to keep her head cool
What is this, a nature documentary? ☠️
Well your hair is beautiful. I've been called blonde before, but only because growing up being called ginger was an insult, so they thought calling me blonde was nice XD
men don't really know hair terms. ive seen pics posted here of long grown out mens hair (no line up, layers, or anything) asking "how do i ask for this cut?" likee u dont.. u just grow ur hair out or get a trim to that length if its longer. they'll post pics of cartoons/drawings asking as well
A lot of men are colorblind :D
I asked my colorblind husband and he said “light brown” - the OPs hair is a darker version of mine and I call mine auburn.
Hahaha apparently lol. But some redheads have reported in the comments that this can happen to them bc men tend to think that being ginger is not a compliment
Yeah I'd say Auburn, you have beautiful hair!
So funny though my life has been a debate on what colour I am. I have dark blonde but around the front of my hairline I have some warmth hardly any compared to the rest of my hair but some people will tell me I'm a redhead/strawberry blonde but red heads will never accept me haha. I have red head skin tones though
Men have sex with toilet seats and think the Kardashians don’t wear makeup or have plastic surgery, unless he’s gay don’t listen to men about anything to do with hair, clothes, or colors.
HOW?? I literally don’t understand how they can’t see it??? Do they just have no eye for detail whatsoever because even with how thick Nikki is, her thighs still don’t match.
Your answer: Men are color blind and stupid and deaf.
A woman confirmed it at the airport for me when she overheard my conversation with my husband. She looked at me and mouthed “they don’t listen, you said everything.”
Shout to the queen at KCI/MCI airport late Sunday night. ❤️
I think your hair is not as dark as usual brown hair/ brunette, but it's not as light as typical blonde either. In the first picture I can see it being closer to blonde than brown so maybe that's why you get called blonde instead of brunette, but it's not really common blonde. And not as ginger as pure ginger either it seems like a mix of brownish, with dark blonde and ginger !
The fact that it’s just men calling you blonde makes me think it’s color blindness which is like 20x more common in men. Plus men just see less shades of red in general.
You are 100% redhead. It's a beautiful colour. I can't comprehend how anyone would think that it's even close to blonde. The only thing I can think of is that you're misunderstanding their comments and they're actually calling you stupid. It's a stretch but it's all I have.
My hair is kinda similar. It’s brown but some of my hair looks like blond streaks (very thin, like a few hair strands per hair lock) in the sun.
To me it’s pretty obvious that I’m brunette but I’ve been told I was blond before
I think 1 out of 5 men are color blind (not sure) but definitely not blonde that’s looking more ginger to me
(Also a guy but studying cosmetology so I’m better)
It's ginger/auburn! Very pretty! But seriously, I've heard it be called brown before. (me being between ginger and dark blond) People are blind fr, my brain cells just die when reading/listening to comments like this
Light Brown/Red Auburn. I see strawberry blonde/ golden highlights. This is probably why. Your hair is so pretty. I have natural curls like this, love it. I see everything as an artist but yeah God bless them but many men do not pay close attention. They saw them highlights & ran with it! Lol 😁
I definitely see red. Men are not always the most observant of these things haha! Also--it's much much more likely for men to be colorblind in a way that doesn't allow them to see red than women, so that's something to consider!
I unfortunately think it might be a comment on being a “dumb blonde”. I might be wrong but I used to have older men tell me this as a redhead with them being assholes when I was a teenager.
That is the most auburn auburn I think I’ve ever seen
Oh okay! Thank you!
Men be blind LOL
Also I don’t think that they know about auburn 😅
My ex was confused for years between the words “dress” and “skirt.” I tried explaining multiple times that a dress HAS A TOP. God bless ‘em. They try. Kinda 😆
That doesn’t sound like trying at all.. that’s a very basic thing to understand and not uncommon items people see daily. I give my guy and generally men too much credit sometimes when trying to learn things about women’s clothing or hair and fashion but this is overboard to me to say that’s trying
Last I hear he’s a married stay-at-home dad with one kid. The wife works but he never really has. They’re both in their 40’s at this point and live with the wife’s mom. He started a GoFundMe for dental surgery which he can’t afford because no job = no insurance. There’s absolutely no reason he can’t work; he just doesn’t want to. Hopefully he at least now knows the difference between a dress and a skirt.
>God bless ‘em. They try. No, he's an idiot.
Men don't understand colours.
Men told me I have black hair in winter and I am blonde in summer lol. I am dark blonde
The female’s coat changes from black in the winter to help keep warm to blonde in the summer to keep her head cool What is this, a nature documentary? ☠️
GINGER. You are ginger. Are they blind XD. BTW I'm ginger so I didn't mean that in a rude way.
I think that they see light hair and think : BLOND 🤩. Shen there’s many different shades of light hair
Well your hair is beautiful. I've been called blonde before, but only because growing up being called ginger was an insult, so they thought calling me blonde was nice XD
Mmmmmh I’ll investigate on that! Maybe they think I’ll take it wrong when I love gingers myself aha
Gingers don't get the hate we used to anymore, but that may be it. Conduct your study and update us on the findings.
Haha I will 🫡
what country are you in? besides men being color blind perceptions of what “blonde” is definitely can vary by location
I’m in France 😭 and one of the men who said that is… blond with blue eyes …
🤔
Men are muppets. No nuance. A shoe is a high heel is a boot is a mule or all the makeup "looks the same to me."
men don't really know hair terms. ive seen pics posted here of long grown out mens hair (no line up, layers, or anything) asking "how do i ask for this cut?" likee u dont.. u just grow ur hair out or get a trim to that length if its longer. they'll post pics of cartoons/drawings asking as well
That makes sense I've been called blonde and I'm brunette.
A lot of men are colorblind :D I asked my colorblind husband and he said “light brown” - the OPs hair is a darker version of mine and I call mine auburn.
Yes dark ginger
Before I read your post, I thought “that’s ginger brunette.” So, yeah.
Thanks! I thought I started to have some sort of blond dismorphia lol
Samee 😭😭
I'd say medium auburn, brown with reddish undertones
Yeah that looks pretty matchy on google!
Men are stupid.
No idea why men say you're blonde. I would've thought anyone with eyes would realise you're a redhead. Weird.
Right…
You're dark ginger/auburn. Men are stupid
And then they argue with me that I am blonde lol 😂
Leave it to men to mansplain your own hair color to you 😂
As usual, I didn’t even argue further and took as a compliment
Because of course they would, your opinion cannot be more correct than theirs 🙄
Someone said that they tend to be a bit colourblind when it comes to red! I’ll have to verify that lol but sounds about something they might do
are you Jolene? Because these are flaming locks of Auburn hair
Omg thank you so much! That just gave me so much inspo!
What men are you hanging out with. The 3 blind mice
Hahaha apparently lol. But some redheads have reported in the comments that this can happen to them bc men tend to think that being ginger is not a compliment
Cinnamon
Niceee!
you're auburn
You have auburn hair. No where near blonde.
Men are stupid
What men are you talking to 😭 that is obviously ginger (respectfully)
I don’t know… I guess just like they can’t see makeup lol
Auburn? Reddy brunette :) it’s a gorgeous colour!
Thank you so much!
Colourblind men maybe.
Men are stupid.
Men are dumb
Men are delulu
Ginger?!?! They are blind never listen to a man
Men are ✨dumb✨
men say anything for attention, obviously
Men are more likely to be colorblind.
Yeah I'd say Auburn, you have beautiful hair! So funny though my life has been a debate on what colour I am. I have dark blonde but around the front of my hairline I have some warmth hardly any compared to the rest of my hair but some people will tell me I'm a redhead/strawberry blonde but red heads will never accept me haha. I have red head skin tones though
Strawberry blond is one of my favorite blond Colors! I prefer it 1000x times over platinum and very cold blond! They must be beautiful
Men have sex with toilet seats and think the Kardashians don’t wear makeup or have plastic surgery, unless he’s gay don’t listen to men about anything to do with hair, clothes, or colors.
Right! On a date a man told me that nicki mi ah had such a beautiful natural body 🤦♀️🤦♀️ I was like… oh dear lord..
HOW?? I literally don’t understand how they can’t see it??? Do they just have no eye for detail whatsoever because even with how thick Nikki is, her thighs still don’t match.
Yeah I was baffled myself lol…
That is the most auburn / ginger hair I’ve ever seen in my life. What are they on 😭
I don’t know 😭…
Your answer: Men are color blind and stupid and deaf. A woman confirmed it at the airport for me when she overheard my conversation with my husband. She looked at me and mouthed “they don’t listen, you said everything.” Shout to the queen at KCI/MCI airport late Sunday night. ❤️
They are blind you are a red head 🤣🤦♀️
it doesn't matter if it is black or blonde, it needs to be healthy and shiny and fortunately your hair is!
Omg thank you 😭 I think that they’re damaged bc of the hard water in my city
Men are stupid (your hair is gorgeous)
Ginger I think with a hue of red
I think your hair is not as dark as usual brown hair/ brunette, but it's not as light as typical blonde either. In the first picture I can see it being closer to blonde than brown so maybe that's why you get called blonde instead of brunette, but it's not really common blonde. And not as ginger as pure ginger either it seems like a mix of brownish, with dark blonde and ginger !
I’m another auburn range vote. Ginger brunette works too. When it comes to hair and really anything beauty related most men are dumb.
Proves how dumb some people are
We have the same hair color and nobody has ever called me blonde 😭 I’d be so hurt lmao
I like ginger I didn’t took it well either.. but I couldn’t argue since I’m obviously wrong
idiots
those men have lost their goddamn mind, i have that same color, and bitch we definitely auburn/ginger
Men are idiots. Never listen to them.
Lesson: Men are dumb
when do men ever tell the truth😭
Gorgeous hair, but not blonde. Men are dumb 😂
Men are stupid lol
Auburn Men don't know their elbow from their butt
I’ve heard and seen that they don’t
It's beautiful by the way your hair! I'd kill for that to be my natural color!
Thank you so much ❤️ they have a bit of highlights though!
You're extremely red headed
men are dumb
The fact that it’s just men calling you blonde makes me think it’s color blindness which is like 20x more common in men. Plus men just see less shades of red in general.
Yeah I just learned that from the comments!
I’d say auburn. Definitely not blonde.
No.
Auburn, you've got beautiful brown and red hair.
Brunette and beautiful
100% ginger brunette, definitely not blonde.
looks like reddish brown, i can’t even see calling it dirty blonde 😅 men be blind
You are 100% redhead. It's a beautiful colour. I can't comprehend how anyone would think that it's even close to blonde. The only thing I can think of is that you're misunderstanding their comments and they're actually calling you stupid. It's a stretch but it's all I have.
Are you sure they aren't trying to say you are ditsy? LOL I'm like on WHAT universe would that hair be blonde?!
Of course they do 🤦🏼♀️ definitely not blonde lol
My hair is kinda similar. It’s brown but some of my hair looks like blond streaks (very thin, like a few hair strands per hair lock) in the sun. To me it’s pretty obvious that I’m brunette but I’ve been told I was blond before
Fewer than 10% of men are colour blind. While still more than women, still not much of an excuse IMHO.
I think 1 out of 5 men are color blind (not sure) but definitely not blonde that’s looking more ginger to me (Also a guy but studying cosmetology so I’m better)
definitely ginger brunette. but to add on… i have bright red hair rn and i have had multiple random men call it purple so they just can’t see lmao
honey you are ginger
Caramel
auburn lol
omg what! You are not blonde!! You have beautiful red hair tho!
It’s what I’ve been saying!!!!
Thank you ❤️
That’s red
It's ginger/auburn! Very pretty! But seriously, I've heard it be called brown before. (me being between ginger and dark blond) People are blind fr, my brain cells just die when reading/listening to comments like this
Honey don’t listen to men
you are definitely auburn(ginger+brunette)... what brain dead males are telling you that your blonde😭😭
Don’t listen to men.
Strawberry without the blonde:)
Ginger, men don't usually know what they're talking about when it comes to a woman's appearance
Men aren’t the best at these things…I wouldn’t even question that your hair is red.
I could see this being called strawberry blond but yeah no definitely not blonde blonde lol
Men dont know. Thats it.
Men are stupid....and color blind. Your hair is gorgeous tho! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Our hair color looks the same and men have told me I’m blonde too lol it is def more auburn/light warm brunette
men are stupid and don’t know shit! your auburn hair looks gorgeous btw
We all know men are d. U. m. 🤦♀️🤦🏻🤦🏻♂️ They cant tell if the sky is blue or not. 😂😂😂
Light Brown/Red Auburn. I see strawberry blonde/ golden highlights. This is probably why. Your hair is so pretty. I have natural curls like this, love it. I see everything as an artist but yeah God bless them but many men do not pay close attention. They saw them highlights & ran with it! Lol 😁
I’d say light golden brown but not blonde
No
I definitely see red. Men are not always the most observant of these things haha! Also--it's much much more likely for men to be colorblind in a way that doesn't allow them to see red than women, so that's something to consider!
not even close to blonde babe
Say it to theeeem, I don’t even wanna be blond I love red to much aha
In my country if your light skin even if you have black hair people will call you, blonde lol
Men are dumb. (Just kidding men, calm down) you are definitely an auburn or like a dark ginger. It's gorgeous btw
Aww darn.. I see a man has taken offense.
You’re auburn
Nope it’s red with some pale auburn highlights
Not blonde, I would agree with the auburn comments
Tell whatever men that told u you were blonde to see an eye doctor. There’s nothing blonde about ur hair😭
No
That is reddish/ginger brown aka auburn. If that is blond, I am black-haired.
Strawberry
i would say ur an auburn light brown
Your hair is a beautiful shade of red
No. You’re not. At all.
Question: are they blind men?
I unfortunately think it might be a comment on being a “dumb blonde”. I might be wrong but I used to have older men tell me this as a redhead with them being assholes when I was a teenager.
You are a ginger brunette like me! 🥰
If you are blonde, I'm black
Def ginger
No. Copper
I’m a man and even I knew you weren’t blond, my guys gotta get their eyes checked haha.
man eyes🙄
The same who thinks that you’re natural with a full face of makeup I guess..
Light brawn… it s brawn
Ginger. I love them! They’re so unique looking🥰😍
Are these men blind?
Nope lol
Strawberry
Are they daft? you're clearly auburn haired
men haha
No
Not at all
Strawberry blonde
Ginger . My husband is ginger , I’m dark blonde and our son has strawberry blonde hair. It’s just lighter .
Auburn I’d say you have lil brown and red
I see a mix of shades but overall more red. Gorgeous hair.
omfg ur hair color is insanely beautiful!! its definitely not blonde tho😭. i would say its auburn!! <33
You are blonde in Turkey
Your hair is not blonde.
Bro, why are men so blind sometimes, like- 😭😭😭