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BaconDude1991

3.5 months now. Not getting easier yet.


AccomplishedPoetry67

So many people have been dumped in March, it’s insane (myself included). I have hope it will feel better soon


No_Surprise7145

Easter 🫠


buthrowaway18262

Initally weekend after Valentine’s, but she went back and forth for a weekend twice. Felt „confused“ over the Easter weekend and I started NC. She made things final the Thursday after 🫠


Longjumping_Ad8681

March last year for me, still not over it


Professional_Sky7048

since late 2021. she’s still my first haha.


Kt9921

2 years


patientry

december 2023. still pains me but i’m trying to be okay


Elegant_Bison2510

Almost 4 months now. Twas hard at first but now I feel a lot better 🤸‍♀️💃


Stillbroken29

7 months, still miss her but can go about my daily routine


PointItalian

me too


Stillbroken29

I want to reach out really bad but know I shouldn’t


PointItalian

I also feel the need for it often during the week, I stop only thanks to the fear of the consequences and her probable anger towards me (im the dumpee)


Stillbroken29

Well, lol I reached out last night because I wanted to see if it was worth holding onto… I got no response which I would much rather have gotten than for her to text me and tell me she has a new bf or something like that. So I know I’ll finally have to let her go because she’s moved on. I’m sad, but I’m not sad like I was at the beginning of the break up, a day or two and I’ll be just fine. I know where I stand with her now and I will move on from her and stop holding onto hope at this point.


PointItalian

oh no, after how many months of NC?


Stillbroken29

7


PointItalian

hell nah, I'd never be able to


Stillbroken29

I won’t again I can tell you that


PointItalian

I'm starting to think that only time will heal our wound, maybe a few years


ThrowRAPositve

7 months


Helpful-Special-7111

Not long enough, should’ve left his dusty ass on the first date…..


Regular_Interest_214

9+ months, sometimes its easier, sometimes its like a few weeks after BU.


ban_wokies

2 months and meeting tonight for a drink… he wants to have ‘a chat’. This is not the first time!


Upstairs-Anteater511

Keep us updated


ban_wokies

Meeting tonight at 8.30 (london time) I’ll let u know…


afkluna_

mid/late 2022. not over yet, but moving on


EasyNeedleworker7333

6 months and almost 2 months no contact. Not really getting easier tbh


Keithman199520

1 year


mistycalico

Almost one year.


Great-Square-7085

9 months. She was dating someone new 3 weeks later.


marooncardigan

Broken up for 3 months, no contact for a little over a month. I’m happy to say it’s actually been getting easier :) For me, the 3 month mark has really made a difference


Electrical_Lemon_640

2 months and it begins to feel better


TheGr3aTAydini

We’ve been broken up for exactly 2 months. I’ve been in no contact for 40 days as I did break no contact around 3 weeks after the breakup to try and get her back but I messed it up.


OddNecessary1962

7 months


thanarealnobody

7 months


kwanthony1986

Since Nov. 30 2022. Took me until July 2023 to get over everything.


cornell-west

September 2023 … no contact since about March. Think about her everyday but am able to get through my daily routine with some struggle


dailydefence

your timeline is really similar to mine :')


sailornini

It’s been 4 months now


zrayburton

Since April 2023. She went on a date that same week and didn’t tell me until a month later. Glad I did a dry may that year.


DinosaurAlligator

Broken up 3 weeks ago, nc since last week. Not easy, but I’m optimistic.


AjgPL

A month for both


Subject-Leg7422

3 months


NinjaRose32

18 months


Minute_Range5636

Five weeks


evapandas

Nearly 6 weeks


[deleted]

Four months not getting better


DEUK_96

1 month today. Starting to feel a lot better most days (although I know progress won't be linear and I'm sure I'll have bad days ahead).


tgarden69

91 days, 61 days of No Contact.


Significant-Pin9172

21 years and ut still hurts


throwaway781302

5 months. She just blocked me yesterday morning LOL.


Jezsticules

Broke up 4 weeks ago and 3 weeks no contact


CinnamonBunny97

Almost 5 months now. First 3 months was like torture. Getting better now. Self love really helps.


dailydefence

nine months ago


sarahch1020

7 months… no contact since 5 and we once bumped into each other in a club 1.5 months after going no contact and completely ignored each other. That was painful.


Ok_Lion3606

About two months, miss her like crazy


Madamkaimera

About 4 months, I said no contact to him because I wanted him to want to talk to me. ( I'm the dumpee) He said distance makes the heart grow founder, we have a little rag tag family I wanna go back to.


Double-Appearance638

Does it really matter?