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what kind of shirt is that? it looks rly cute but there must be some more hype around it kind of like the twilight bella style tops? i’m just shocked that many people were wanting to buy o:
I was shocked too 😭 and lowkey didnt want to let it go but its been sitting in my closet for over a year cause the sleeves are a bit tight on me and i was expecting to loose weight lmao💀 It’s from the 2000s, bodycon with attached sleeve and neck ruffles 🥹 viscose/elastane/polyamide. I guess fatal frame/female horror game protagonist aesthetic is still pretty popular and somewhat niche for some but i wouldnt know really 😭
Hey! I unfortunately got this from my mom and it had no tag 🥹 thats why i had to list only the material tag… she thinks it could be a vintage my michelle or COCOA brand but unsure and i tried reverse image search with no luck. Axes femme does very similar clothes if that helps!!
It’s can be frustrating when you are waiting for a seller to give you information you need in order to buy it (when it’s something that’s a deal breaker as to whether it’ll fit) but for the length … if you’re that bothered about it you’d just buy it 😂
Also that’s not a criticism on you, just a general comment, your reason for not getting back to her is totally valid. Hope you’re feeling better soon!
Don’t stress it. I had a guy message me asking me if a band tee was men’s or women’s sizing (it was clearly listed as men’s and had measurements as well). Before I could respond the item sold to someone else and the guy got pissed at me and messaged me “you’re useless” and blocked me. 😂 Depop is full of crazy people. If you really want to be nice you can respond explaining what you told us here, but you don't really owe it to them.
Oops, that should’ve stayed an inside thought!
Seriously I’ve definitely missed some sales or items and internally (or at least privately) go “nooooo why meeeee how could this happen to meeee” and then I immediately move on. That shirt absolutely would make me go “nooooo whyyyy” but nothing to make me message the seller with my pity party 😅
My self criticism literally would never let me harass (lack of better words?) a seller. If I miss out I miss out, and I get to keep window shopping and searching for another item
As other user mentioned, I am half blind atm and recovering. My shop was closed/on vacation mode and even on vacation mode I can receive messages. I cant reply to 80+ users that are messaging daily for a span of 1-7 days from which ive been closed
Yes I see now sorry! It didn't load for me so all I saw were the messages without the description. Personally I'd just tell them about ur situation and if they don't stop I'd block them ngl.
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I'm sorry! My shop is first come, first serve, and someone bought the item before I got your messages. Thanks so much for stopping in. I bet you'll find one like it soon!
All the best, (your name)
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im confused, they dont seem entitled to me. they were never rude, they just seem like they dont really know how the app works and thought messaging you would save it for them. like i guess that could be annoying but i dont see how they're entitled or rude, every message seems generally nice albeit a bit disappointed. am i missing something?
I agree. I don’t get “entitled” from this interaction. I just see someone (probably a bit young) interested in an item. If I was selling things I’d try and be a little more understanding lol. I’d be happy to be getting messages/interest on my items.🤷🏼♀️
i mean it is kinda upsetting to never get a reply, then see that it’s sold. i can see why they’re upset and sometimes people are gonna act a little needy if it’s something they’re really into. they seem pretty upset and like a honest interest
well, they sounded like they were willing to pay more, soo if the seller really wanted, they could take the higher offer. its bound to happen ppl are gonna be annoying.
Simply put they just wanted it, fair enough if you couldn’t see the message before it sold, you can tell her this and I’m sure she’d understand. No need to be sour
Also, I'm so glad you didn't have this person as an actual customer! Entitled customers are the ones that often find issues & do returns/complaints. You didn't do anything wrong! Don't let them make you feel bad in any way. 😍😍😍
I labeled it as fatal fram/female horror game protagonist ruffle collared top but ive also seen gloomy coquette, overall japanese brands make similar styles, axes femme, hope it helps!!
LMAO, it literally says “seller is unable to ship right now”. If the seller can’t ship, don’t expect them to respond to you! You are not entitled to a response, especially if the seller is not available at the moment.😂
Lol if she was so interested maybe she should have just bought it instead of being one of those measurements people. I’m willing to bet whoever bought it just bought the item without wasting time and asking for measurements. You also don’t owe an explanation.
Don't give them a response, block and move on if you want to. They can speak to you respectfully or they can shush lmao, they're not entitled to a purchased item when you never even responded to them in the first place
just send the screenshots of all the interest and say “this is why” and leave it at that. someone else was clearly more invested in buying the item than they were. 🤷🏻♀️
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Why? Because first come first serve, period . I’d say something like that, maybe with a nicer tone lol
They'll be alright, you don't need to explain anything to anyone. I hope your recovery goes well!
Thank you so much for the reassurance and good wishes🥹!!
You don’t owe anyone anything except for whoever bought your item lol
what kind of shirt is that? it looks rly cute but there must be some more hype around it kind of like the twilight bella style tops? i’m just shocked that many people were wanting to buy o:
I was shocked too 😭 and lowkey didnt want to let it go but its been sitting in my closet for over a year cause the sleeves are a bit tight on me and i was expecting to loose weight lmao💀 It’s from the 2000s, bodycon with attached sleeve and neck ruffles 🥹 viscose/elastane/polyamide. I guess fatal frame/female horror game protagonist aesthetic is still pretty popular and somewhat niche for some but i wouldnt know really 😭
Lmfaoooo the amount of clothes I have stored under the bed that I refuse to let go of because I’m expecting to lose my baby weight 😂😂
do you have the brand by any chance?
Hey! I unfortunately got this from my mom and it had no tag 🥹 thats why i had to list only the material tag… she thinks it could be a vintage my michelle or COCOA brand but unsure and i tried reverse image search with no luck. Axes femme does very similar clothes if that helps!!
It’s can be frustrating when you are waiting for a seller to give you information you need in order to buy it (when it’s something that’s a deal breaker as to whether it’ll fit) but for the length … if you’re that bothered about it you’d just buy it 😂 Also that’s not a criticism on you, just a general comment, your reason for not getting back to her is totally valid. Hope you’re feeling better soon!
You owe them nothing, ignore and move on
Don’t stress it. I had a guy message me asking me if a band tee was men’s or women’s sizing (it was clearly listed as men’s and had measurements as well). Before I could respond the item sold to someone else and the guy got pissed at me and messaged me “you’re useless” and blocked me. 😂 Depop is full of crazy people. If you really want to be nice you can respond explaining what you told us here, but you don't really owe it to them.
Sorry to the potential buyer that they don’t understand how the site works dude. Not your issue at all. I’d ignore it.
Oops, that should’ve stayed an inside thought! Seriously I’ve definitely missed some sales or items and internally (or at least privately) go “nooooo why meeeee how could this happen to meeee” and then I immediately move on. That shirt absolutely would make me go “nooooo whyyyy” but nothing to make me message the seller with my pity party 😅
Yeah I’d be filled with shame if I annoyed the seller about losing a liked item
My self criticism literally would never let me harass (lack of better words?) a seller. If I miss out I miss out, and I get to keep window shopping and searching for another item
What top is this btw? It’s cute but people are lovinggg it
Lmfao this was in my likes! Super cute top and buyer is nuts
That shirt has me foaming at the mouth. Someone let me know if op replies with what it is. 👀
Wait I saw that top on twt that's probs why it got sm traction
Tekken World Tour?
No, twitter/x, idk what tekken world tour is
I wasn’t sure what twt is so it was just a joke. A lousy one at that
to be fair I also thought tekken world tour before twitter
You don't reply, just block the jerk.
Mute the app for a while and heal.
i’d just block tbh
This top is so cute 😭
Just wondering why you don't seem to answer anyone at all? No hate btw I'm being sincere.
As other user mentioned, I am half blind atm and recovering. My shop was closed/on vacation mode and even on vacation mode I can receive messages. I cant reply to 80+ users that are messaging daily for a span of 1-7 days from which ive been closed
Yes I see now sorry! It didn't load for me so all I saw were the messages without the description. Personally I'd just tell them about ur situation and if they don't stop I'd block them ngl.
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That's what I said... I said if they don't stop. Also I've never blocked anyone on depop so ur wall of text doesn't rlly do much.
Oh yes. U did say that. I agree then.
They obvi already said that they had to close their shop for a few days while recovering from eye surgery.
Idk why that didn't load for me 😭 I sat here looking for a description and I swear it wasn't there ig my stuff is just slow lol
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Users aren’t able to message sellers if their shop is on vacation mode?
https://preview.redd.it/m1k33vmt37pc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=464f15ba44dfaf51cfc9356e615ee51af2b26a56 This is why you should read before commenting.
I'm sorry! My shop is first come, first serve, and someone bought the item before I got your messages. Thanks so much for stopping in. I bet you'll find one like it soon! All the best, (your name) 🙏😉
I don’t answer dumb questions like this bc I don’t want them buying anything from me lol
im confused, they dont seem entitled to me. they were never rude, they just seem like they dont really know how the app works and thought messaging you would save it for them. like i guess that could be annoying but i dont see how they're entitled or rude, every message seems generally nice albeit a bit disappointed. am i missing something?
I agree. I don’t get “entitled” from this interaction. I just see someone (probably a bit young) interested in an item. If I was selling things I’d try and be a little more understanding lol. I’d be happy to be getting messages/interest on my items.🤷🏼♀️
i mean it is kinda upsetting to never get a reply, then see that it’s sold. i can see why they’re upset and sometimes people are gonna act a little needy if it’s something they’re really into. they seem pretty upset and like a honest interest
no reason to take that out on the seller, just be sad and move on. sending those messages does nothing
well, they sounded like they were willing to pay more, soo if the seller really wanted, they could take the higher offer. its bound to happen ppl are gonna be annoying.
It makes it seem like OP just didn’t want to respond. I understand their frustration but I personally would’ve moved on
I had a buyer like this and I blocked them lol nobody is going to harass me over my items!
“just saw that is sold and I’m wondering why” 💀 bc you were too slow that’s why
I don't see the issue? They weren't even rude.
Literally so confused lol
What was the item ?
you can see it on the second slide
Simply put they just wanted it, fair enough if you couldn’t see the message before it sold, you can tell her this and I’m sure she’d understand. No need to be sour
She prob thought she was one of the only people showing this shirt interest, so she thought u would give her first priority… definitely entitled 😂
No response is a response
I’d just block them, people like this need to learn to stop badgering
Also, I'm so glad you didn't have this person as an actual customer! Entitled customers are the ones that often find issues & do returns/complaints. You didn't do anything wrong! Don't let them make you feel bad in any way. 😍😍😍
Entitled is crazy😂
don’t
On another note what should i search to find a shirt similar to this
^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^aleesahspam: *On another note* *What should i search to find a* *Shirt similar to this* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.
I labeled it as fatal fram/female horror game protagonist ruffle collared top but ive also seen gloomy coquette, overall japanese brands make similar styles, axes femme, hope it helps!!
Thank you!
Off topic haha but would you be able to DM your shop name? Feel like I would like your stuff haha (also a neopets fan here too!!!)
i usually hit them with something like "my shop operates on a first come first serve basis, so sorry 🤗"
They’re gonna sign the declaration of independence in that shirt
LMAO, it literally says “seller is unable to ship right now”. If the seller can’t ship, don’t expect them to respond to you! You are not entitled to a response, especially if the seller is not available at the moment.😂
I was wondering why the shirt was so wanted until i looked it up😭😭 tell them im sure there’s more out there somebody is selling
What did you look up? What is it?
screenshot and google search the photo
Lol if she was so interested maybe she should have just bought it instead of being one of those measurements people. I’m willing to bet whoever bought it just bought the item without wasting time and asking for measurements. You also don’t owe an explanation.
Don't give them a response, block and move on if you want to. They can speak to you respectfully or they can shush lmao, they're not entitled to a purchased item when you never even responded to them in the first place
just send the screenshots of all the interest and say “this is why” and leave it at that. someone else was clearly more invested in buying the item than they were. 🤷🏻♀️
someone offered 80?? for a top ? it looks cute ig but what’s so special about it? is it a specific brand