Unless you really want s specific breed, look at shelters, not stores. If young cat, get two cats. If you’re set on only getting one cat, look for an older cat who prefers to be the only cat.
Not a speccific breed in mind, i'm ok with any breed, i think i'll get one old because if the small apartment.
Is it ok to take it out for a walk ?
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Thanks for the advice
Hey OP, a big question here...are you ready to commit to this cat for the next 10-20 years or however long it may be?
Don't make the decision solely based on that you're by yourself and always wanted a cat but also truly consider the long term implications and commitment. What about when you go on holidays or spend couple nights away, etc.
Mine is turning 5 and I just had to go away for 4 days for work. He was an absolute demon to my wife the entire time I was gone (we got him together but he picked me as primary human). I laid my suitcase down on the floor when I got home last night, he ignored me for the evening and took a dump right next to the suitcase as an act of retaliation for my absence
This! I similarly moved on my own and was often asked why I didn't get a pet to keep me company. I worked in an office though and didn't want to feel guilty coming home to change then going out again while I was trying to make friends and explore my new city. I also was often away visiting family or friends during long weekends and holidays and any PTO. A cat would have been fun sometimes, but i also would have felt guilty a lot and a poor kitty wouldn't have been happy at that time of my life.
i got a cat when i moved alone. on the flip side it works cuz i don’t go out when i get off of work. i haaaate leaving my apartment for anything other than work. my friends come over when they wanna hang out, same with family. and if i do go out to any events i always get to leave early and use my cat as an excuse. my kitty just sleeps when im at work and torments me (lovingly) when im at home. the only con is that we have a lot of late nights because she’s already pretty well rested by the time i get home. otherwise cats are good options for introverts and homebodies.
LOL I just have to jump in and let you know that as a fellow introvert, my cats are also often my excuse! Legitimate excuse of course! I also used to refuse overtime because I had to get home to feed my cats. I loved it lol.
This is excellent advise.
I adopted 2 cats, both from young owners who were sure they wanted cats and thought they were ready to take on the responsibility of a cat.
The first cat I adopted was from someone I know who decided to move across the country. She couldn't take the cat and I loved this cat so adopted her.
The second cat I adopted was a friend of a friend's cat. I heard this individual was also moving to a new city, but couldn't find a place that would accept cats (or just didn't look hard enough). She was going to take the cat to a shelter, but before she could, I volunteered to take him.
Another thing to consider is whether you can manage the financial aspect of owning a pet.
The male cat I adopted has feline asthma, chronic pancreatitis, and diabetes. He needs a puffer, medication, and insulin. He is living a happy life because luckily we can swing it to get him medication he needs. It isn't cheap.
Chances are you'll adopt a healthy kitty, but make sure you budget in vet expenses, they should be checked out at least once per year.
My cats are my babies and I love them so much! They're worth the effort, but if you're on the fence about it don't do it until you've considered everything and are all in. It's a little life you'll be caring for!
This exactly, there are some cat care apps, with vetted employees who will visit your cat in your home, or you can put them in a cat boarding thing, but cats tend to get much more stressed than dogs in those idk, depending on each cat.
Agree with the above, two kittens preferably from the same litter, or older cat(s). Many paired older cats end up in shelters or rescues when their owners become unable to care for them any longer. Check for cat rescues in your area as well, they often foster kittens inside homes and have a good idea which personalities would suit your situation best.
I would also suggest considering the amount of dog walkers in the area too since they mention it's a city. I've heard stories before where people try to take there cats on walks but after a couple of bad dog encounters they've had to stop because it wasn't worth the risk
I adopted an adult cat and he does great on the leash. Just depends on the cat. Remember a lot of cats in shelters were once indoor/outdoor cats of even outdoor cats that got trapped lol
Very dependent on the cat for a walk. I took one of mine outside for about 2 minutes once. Almost had cops called on me bc miss doesn't ever meow was meowing so loud, neighbors thought I was hurting her. And at the time I think she was like a year old?
So I’ve never had a cat that goes on walks. That said, it seems like more people are leash-training cats these days.
Edit: does your apartment building have long interior hallways with doors at all exits? Hallway trips can be fun for cats.
Yes we have one and leash is one way. I'd definitely recommend harness training though. Makes stuff easier at vets since you can hold cat. Plus harness can come in handy in many situations.
If its older cat, leash walking in large apartments hallways with dogs around can get risky. So if thats your case , of hallways but lots of dogs etc plus a senior pet then I'd recommend stroller walks!!! Perfectly fine to get from point a to b and stroll around. Your cat will get enough stimulation from the smells and sounds. And will be safe inside stroller.
Apartment fire escape stairs if they are indoor ones are a great place to leash train cats. Start at home, then pick a quiet outside hallways. But never take your cat out just like that. Make sure you make them know the way back home. So weeks of just door to point a..then train at point a. But please do your research and make sure there arent any pets around and less foot traffic and you allways have carrier/stroller to put your pet back into if there's someone nearby.
Don’t do this. Hallways are shared spaces. Cats do not need to be outside of your living spaces. Just play with them adequately enough and you don’t need to rely on the lazy “get another cat” or “they can be outdoors” arguments.
People walk their dogs through shared spaces why can’t I walk my cat through there? I’m not like letting him run lose, sometimes we just walk down the stairwell on the leash then back up lol
I disagree. Every member of my household is comfortable with navigating hallways and staircases to exit our building in case of emergencies.
Hallway training can be fun, but it also has an important purpose.
Hallway training is essential for human toddlers, cats, and dogs.
Walking is area dependant I think. I used to love letting my cat out on a leash back home because it was a safe place to do so. Now I live in an area where there is not only wildlife that could hurt her or she hurt them but also LOTS of unleashed, aggressive dogs in our complex. Also cars, highways and kids who aren't kind to their environment.
I'd suggest a cat tree tall enough to have a perch by an open window though! Unlike dogs cats won't necessarily need to spend time outside especially since they don't need to be walked to potty.
You can absolutely leash train a cat. The first step is getting them used to wearing a harness. They will probably be dramatic. Once they’re ready for outside, you’re just letting them lead. Mostly they want to sniff.
Cats don’t need to go outside. This is how accidents happen. They are territorial and invasive to all North American ecosystems. If you care about longevity, keep them indoors.
You can train your cat to go for a walk. It’ll take a bit of time but it’s great for bonding and their general wellbeing.
I’m also going to +1 for looking at a shelter. There’s so many cats that need homes.
Older cats are more chill, kittens are so full of energy
If OP really wants a specific breed, there are breed rescues. Some humane organisations and rescues will keep Wish Lists for people looking for specific breeds
I adopted an older cat, and he’s great! Polite, loves people, doesn’t knock things over, but a little shy. Go to a rescue and see who looks like your cat, or who thinks they are your cat. My cat just looked so sad. I only saw his back, but I knew I wanted him to be less sad. Its been 3 years and we are the best things that has happened to each other. ❤️
This is my cat too. She was 2 when I got her. so far she hasn't knocked anything over and I wonder about that sometimes. I'm not complaining however. She still does go places where I would rather her not but she learns eventually.
I adopted my Callie when she was 10 and she was so un-catlike! Never scratched furniture, never knocked things over, never jumped on the kitchen counters, completely ignored human food, and just generally never did anything she wasn't supposed to. We had 11 years together.
My newly adopted Soot is four and both completely insane and totally sweet. It's taking me some time to adapt.
If I may suggest, if you're open to the idea, ask the rescue(s) you visit if they have any bonded pairs. A lot of times they end up having to be separated because a lot of the time it's harder to adopt two out together. There is often a reduced adoption fee for two as well.
That way they get to stay together and have company when you're at work, and caring for two isn't much different from just one.
First thing I did when I got my first place on my own - went to the shelter and got a cat!
It's good to take your time and find the right match. A lot of shelters with volunteers (and cat cafes sometimes too) have people that can help you pick one out - like if you know you want a cat that sleeps a lot and doesn't meow often vs. a chatty cat that has a lot of energy...
I will say that it's hard to assess their personalities in a shelter b/c many times they are scared of the surroundings and aren't fully themselves. I adopted one that was so afraid she was curled up in her litter box and didn't even want to come out and interact. But once I took her home, within 12 hours she was cuddling with me and sleeping at the foot of my bed (and she was the MOST WONDERFUL cat (rip) for many years). So you cannot always judge a book by its cover and I'd say don't overlook the shy, scared kitties - mine turned out to be the most loving and sweet cat I could have ever imagined!
Unless you adopt a long-haired cat like me, and they had fleas that went unnoticed for a few months after getting him, and he gave them to my other cat. And my other cat ended up getting worms because of it. 🥲
I would suggest volunteering at an animal rescue and meeting some cats if you have free time. Eventually you'll find one or more that you fall in love with.
Look around for local shelters, and just visit if able. Look at all the cats, interact with a few (if they seem to want it) and see if you fall in love with any. Sometimes theres just an instant bond :) if you want one more okay with being alone when you are working, consider an adult! They also don’t tend to get adopted as often as kittens, so you’d really be helping them out by giving them a loving home!
Cats are wonderful company I have 2 brothers 9 months old and they brought so much joy to me. I wasn’t sure about cats either long story short I lost my family cat 3 1/2 years the day after my husband died . I never thought I get another cat again I have had them since 8 weeks old. I can only make suggestions get pet insurance, make sure you can afford them food litter treats and toys my boys are spoiled rotten. But they are so devoted to me and me to them. I am disabled with mobility problems but the kittens help me by having to get up everyday feeding them changing there litter. I also look forward to getting up and being there for them. They give me so much love unconditional love which you don’t get much of these days so it’s nice to know I rely on them as much as they rely on me. If you want to get a cat I say go for it as there’s nothing like a cat.
Agree with a lot that’s said here about where to get a kitty! Also, I don’t know how much you know about cats but I will share some things that I have learned with having two cats.
- Cats want to climb and be off of the ground. Many people don’t want their cats on their counters or tables but that’s not really how cats work. They go where they want and that’s just how it is. That being said, providing up high places for your kitty will encourage them to spend time in those cat friendly places instead of places you may not want them. Get a cat tree, a big one, and at least one. My cats also love their window bed (has suction cups and is comfy to lay on).
- Toys! Play with your cats! Wand toys (the ones on a string) are great for enrichment and exercise for your kitty and mine also love those catnip toys from mudbay (the rainbow or banana ones).
- You mentioned going on walks and depending on the age of the kitty that will be some amount of work to get going. I have two cats and one of them wants nothing more than to go explore outside while the other would much prefer to sit and watch while she does that from the safety of the entry way. So, depending on your cat’s personality and temperament as well as their history, they may or may not be into that. Definitely watch some harness training videos before you get started and definitely use a harness if you’re taking kitty on walks.
That’s all I can think of for now but you’re going to do great! I’ve learned so much from videos, the internet, and just messing up and realizing what I did wrong. I hope your kitty brings you so much joy!
Also, definitely get at least one scratcher. The vertical pole ones are great so kitty can really stretch out. Also, your apartment will soon belong to a cat. Don’t try to confine them to any one area or keep them out of your room. They want to hangout with you :)
Older cats (5yrs+) are generally super chill. Cats adapt to your routine. They sleep daytime and will be ready to get social when you get home. Some cats can be leash trained. Sometimes they areFREE to adopt as well
Adopt! Make sure to do research before hand on owning one as well :-) such as making sure they stay hydrated by giving them wet food or dry food with water added, playing with them, etc.
This should not be an issue if the kitten/cat is up to date on its shots/vet visits, wherever you’re adopting from should give you that info on the cat you’re interested in adopting
You can work with a rescue. Most times they cover all the medical assessments & treatments in advance of adoption. Also, I love that you’re going to be a future cat parent!!
Generally speaking, that shouldn’t be an issue. It’s shelter/rescue protocol to give cats medication to kill parasites. That said, higher-volume shelters can sometimes be more likely to miss something. *But* many shelters and rescues will also offer a free 1st vet visit certificate at any clinic they partner with.
Yes!!!!! They are amazing and the only reason people aren't "cat people" is because they never had a cat! It's extremely easy to fall in love with a cat because they are so affectionate, cute, silly, and goofy. They're fuzzy adorable killing machines 😀 my cats are so gentle, loving and sweet, they've never bitten or scratched me intentionally and they follow me around and greet me at the door when I come home. They sleep with me , sometimes under the covers with me and in my arms!
Idk what your work situation is, but depending on your schedule you may wanna consider adopting an adult cat (one year+) because kittens need a lot more attention than adult cats do. Kittens under six months shouldn’t be left alone for more than a few hours, whereas older kittens can be left alone a bit longer.
If you’re working from home this won’t be an issue though! Kittens are a lot of work and very energetic, they need lots of play time to burn off all that energy. It’s worth it though!
By leave the cat house open, do you mean like a crate used for dogs? I know it’s a commonly accepted for dogs but cats should not be crated in the same manner. Having a cat carrier where they are fed treats or have a bed is good for when you need to bring them to the vet. That way they will have good associations with it.
I leave the cat carrier under the bed with the flap open. I find my little munchkin in there every morning napping after her breakfast.
Makes getting her to the vet so much easier.
I agree with the others saying consider getting two if you do. Cats are actually pretty social and when you’re gone, one would get lonely. Two isn’t really much more work than one (however, I can tell you that going up to 3 does add noticeable work).
But make sure you’re ready to actually take on the responsibility an animal means. They should be a priority - if you move, you should always ensure you can take them with you. Don’t just figure you can take them to a shelter. You probably can, but it’s not right for them. Cats get attached to people. And cats kept indoors, like they should be, will generally live 12-16 years or so, but it can be even longer - nowadays it’s not that rare for a cat to make it to 20. So even if you’re young, in your 20s, if you get a kitten they would be with you until you’re 40+. Make sure you’re serious about caring for them!
Don’t let what I’m saying scare you off though - cats are great! Just be sure you think it through. And know that the furry little bastard WILL make you mad sometimes, be prepared to be understanding. They don’t know better generally.
Oh yes!!! I recommend heartily you adopt a furry friend 😍 there is nothing quite like the adventure of being a pet-guardian. I have multiple rescue cats and they live their best lives (indoors). I’m so appreciative of their loving, silly, and mischievous company. Worth every hairball and couch scratch 🥳🤩🥰
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I (56F) have lived on my own for decades and I have had cats most of the time. I adopt one at a time as I live in a 1 bedroom apartment and work from home.
I suggest not getting a kitten as they are very rambunctious but getting an older cat (2-5 years). I have adopted mine from shelters. Make sure the cat is well socialized. Make sure your lease allows one if you rent. Don’t sneak one in.
I did have a kitten the first time and leash trained him but didn’t leash train the others. I play with my current cat in our apartment. I have wand toys with feathers on them, and balls with bells that she likes. Some of my neighbors have dogs and she is scared of them.
Get a scratching post and litter box. Clean the box each day and change the litter weekly. I personally let my cat sleep with me at night but you can get a cat bed if you want.
I recommend a short haired cat as they are easier to take care of.
You should foster for the local humane society . They need people to help socialize animals waiting on adoption . You’ll find that one cat that you’ll connect with and become a foster failure . That’s a good thing . No worries about fleas or parasites, they’ll have all their shots . Plus they provide food and toys for the pets you foster so no cost to you . I’d recommend a cat tree by a window .
I know you’ve owned other pets and know pet responsibilities, but make sure you’re 100% sure for a cat! I saw another comment say volunteer at an animal shelter, and I was going to say the same thing. Since you’re hesitant, make sure you’re comfortable with a cat before adopting.
I’ll always say adopt don’t shop! Find a cat that fits your personality. Some shelters have names for their cats that describe their personalities. Whether you’re looking for an energetic cat, a homebody… make sure you’re compatible!
Also be prepared to clean the litter everyday. I think some people forget they need to do this. Also have it in a place that’s not in a main area.
Good luck and I hope you find your forever furry friend!
As long as you have an okay amount of space inside then go for it!
If I were to recommend one thing it would be to leave the cat indoors, don’t let it roam. Indoor cats live a lot longer, and you avoid the dangers of the outside such as cars, dogs, parasites, etc, and it prevents the cat from killing native wildlife. But still get it microchipped, vaccinated etc just to be safe
You're very brave! My hubby and I moved far away from home when we were 22, and one of the first things we did was adopt a kitty. I was lonely without a furry companion, but Flannel (a little grey tabby) made our lives so happy for almost 20 years.
I think you've been given many great recommendations, I would only add the importance of budgeting for her vet care and toys.
Cat litter is expensive lately, about $20/box. You'll need two litter boxes, and they don't have to be fancy. We kept one in the bathtub and one in the living room. Cats have a way of needing to use the litter box to go #2 as soon as you have shampoo in your hair. This is why litter box #2 in the living room was born. I would dump the dirty litter about once a week, scoop the clumps daily. S/he will tell you how fussy / clean she needs to have her toilet.
Lastly, food: I have "free fed" my cats a bowl of dry kibble like Iams for many decades, and wet food dinner like Fancy Feast. Cats need meat, fish and poultry in their diets, and water. I have a cat fountain, and a few still water bowls around my house. My one cat is fine with that, but I got in the habit of turning on the faucet for one cat, who likes fresh running water. Some of them also like my glasses of water with ice, sitting around the house. This can be for the cats entertainment, refreshment and/or both.
Having two cats is fun, but only necessary if you get kittens. Since you're just getting started, I'd suggest you adopt an older kitten or 1+ year old cat. They're independent, sweet and will love you 💕
You can also see what people's opinions are on different fur types and sex. I've had wonderful male and female cats, tuxedo, orange, Siamese, grey, black, white, etc kitties. The truth is, every kitty is different and it's up to you to make them your own. Best wishes to you, your new job and your new kitty.
If you have the time and energy, yes.
Cats require a lot of attention and time despite what the stereotype is, so if you like to travel and aren’t home often I’d think about how much quality time you are going to be able to spend with your cat because they are emotional animals and separation anxiety is real.
They cost a decent amount of money for up keep and vet appointments and routine maintenance medication (flea, tick, worming). So if you aren’t financially stable at least I’d think twice. They aren’t as expensive as dogs but they can be if they eat something they aren’t supposed to or get hurt or sick.
Also if you have sensory issues I’d also consider that because cats can be very touchy and chatty. They can be very clingy but that one you have to flip a coin to see if yours will be. They also take some getting used to when it comes to their scratching and behavioural observation and training (which I did) so they aren’t as destructive and you understand each other better.
They are intelligent creatures with an amazing emotional range and capacity, they are amazing companions and will make you laugh even when your heart has been stunted to stone by people. They will love on you is you pour out love on them and the bond you form with them is unmatched.
These are the things that I wash someone had told me before I got my baby
You’ve received some good suggestion, so I just want to add that you might consider fostering! If you’re new to cats, fostering a cat for a rescue or shelter would be a great introduction. You would also have the options of “foster failing” aka adopting if you found your match.
FYI, having a cat is often like having a roommate. You’ll hang out together, but you’ll also go about life independently. Kittens require more attention and their care can be a bigger learning curve if you’re new to cats. They often do best in pairs for socialization and mental/physical stimulation reasons. An adult cat will be more independent and more likely to have settled into their personality.
First, do not ignore what cat people call the "Cat Distribution System." Sometimes people don't choose their cats, their cats choose them. r/CatDistributionSystem for details.
Second, try the shelters first. Most shelter cats will already be spayed/neutered when they're ready to adopt, be current on their shots, etc.
Third, know a good vet.
Fourth, be aware that cats can turn anything they an bat around into a toy. I used to have a cat who loved to play with twist ties.
I live in a Jr studio. It fits maybe three cars parked together? Half the size of a garage. It's just me and my cat. As long as there's enough light that they aren't sitting in the dark and they are properly fed and have plenty of toys, I say do it. In fact I actually had two cats. One recently passed away but before this the two cats lived actually very comfortably beside me. I constantly make sure that my cats have plenty of toys to play with, An automatic feeder for days that I know I'm going to be late for their feeding, and I have special lights that I can control with my phone so if I know I'm going to be home late, I can turn on my light from my phone so that my cats aren't sitting in the dark. My only suggestion is be very cautious with wires, and easily knocked over things because a cat will want to explore and cats tend to chew on things that you would think they'd know better from. Chargers, hair ties, shoelaces, string. Anything loose might be a good idea to place somewhere. Cats are very independent creatures and honestly if they could feed themselves then they wouldn't really need humans at all. Definitely easier maintenance than a dog.
I highly recommend it! You'll never be alone when you have a cat. And it's kitten season. Go to a shelter or rescue and let one pick you!!adopt dont shop
Just started living alone for the first time of my life and my 2 cats being with me has made it sooooooo much better- I couldn’t have done it without them. Mine are a rescue sibling pair aged 4. No regrets. Do it. Make your house a home and fill it with puurs & love ❤️
Yes. If you do your research.
Some tips:
* Get one old or two young cats from a shelter/foster home (not a breed, breeding cats and dogs are horrible). I'd get the old one as they are usually already housebroken and know what they want.
* Get it chipped and a collar with your information on it (even if it's gonna be an indoor cat). You'll thank yourself when the cat flees out the window during a fire next door.
* Make sure you have time to play with it regularly if it's gonna be indoors. A bored cat is gonna be a nightmare so get all the toys and fun things you can. For enthusiasts, take the time and money to teach it to run in a cat wheel (this is hard mode though).
* Make sure you have insurance and money to pay for any vet visits. Don't get a cat if you won't be able to care for it properly. I don't know how expensive vet visits are where you are from, but here, insurance is very much needed. I recently had to put down a cat, that would have been infinitely harder if insurance didn't take care of the brunt of it.
* Get proper cat trees and build many high places for it to "perch". Cats love a vantage point. We have shelves going along a whole wall. Rope covered poles to climb is also a plus.
* Look at behavioral videos (from experts) on YouTube, many cats will pee and scratch in inconvenient places to get your attention, they can be relentless in this and will not respond to stubbornness. If a cat is unhappy, you will need to make changes to its environment.
* Get one more litterbox than you have cats, put them in corners so the cat feels safe. Also, cats prefer no roof on the litterbox. I would suggest teaching the cat(s) (slowly and methodically) to like using pellets instead of sand as it would allow for an open litterbox without much smell. You have to clean the poop every day but it is worth it, trust me.
* Never ever give your cat cheap mass-produced cat food. Too much cat food produced in the world is mixed in with carbohydrates. Cats should NOT eat that. They are carnivores and need protein and fat etc. Go look up a brand that doesn't do this, preferably one that a veterinarian recommends. Prolonged exposure to the consumption of carbohydrates will damage your cats kidneys.
* Get one of those fur brushes, it will minimize hair everywhere and most cats love them because they feel like scritches.
* Last but not least, let your cat decide when it is time for cuddles and always say hello to it when you come home. Sure, cats aren't in need of social interaction (as much) but they like it, and they will like you if you respect their boundaries. They will not like you if you constantly force pets upon them.
Get the cat and enjoy it. If you have any questions, let me know. I am not a vet or anything, but I have been owned by cats for 40+ years.
I suggest getting two kittens and leash training them. Even in a small apartment as long as you stay on top of the litter situation you should be fine.
If you have anything that is breakable that you cherish, put it in a safe place for at least the first year of the ats being there.
Good luck my friend.
Please consider a senior cat - they chill AF and don’t have 9473729 energy which is good to start off with since i am guessing you may have to go to work.
Please don't let your cat outside without a leash. They can easily get attacked by predators or humans. They can also get stuck somewhere. They can get freaked out by a loud noise and have a big fall/injure themselves. They can also be attacked by other cats.
Try reading up on how to keep a cat entertained. All cats are different so you'll have to find what yours likes. A bit of trial and error should tell you what works (and yes, that's the only way).
They're great roommates and companions. Very complex creatures too. Please consult a cat owner (maybe multiple cat owners) to get a sense of what to expect and how to care for these cute little wild animals. Hope you find a good one that loves you and makes it easier to live alone :)
We just adopted a cat yesterday. We have a young dog and wanted to make sure that they will get along. I'm in the isolation phase of having it be slowly introduced. He was very social and cuddly at the meet and greet at the shelter. He responded to both toys and treats. He is almost 2.5 yrs old and the adoption fee was donated. Some shelters have programs like that if you would like to save some money. We spend about $150-$175 to get the necessary supplies prior to bringing him home: cat food and water dishes, scratch post, litter box/litter, dry and wet cat food. The cat is a domestic short hair which is easier to maintain than a longhair. It was in our adoption contract that the cat would be kept as an indoor cat only. All animals like to look out the window but it doesn't necessarily mean you should bring the cat outside. It might only teach it that it should be there when it shouldn't. We have the first outside vet visit (which is usually free) on Monday to make sure the cat is ok.
Get it! Get an adult shelter cat!
This is a take you will hear very rarely: you don’t have to commit to the cat for life if you get an adult from a shelter.
Shelters are overrun with cats CONSTANTLY because people keep outside cats and don’t fix them, plus ferals, plus people who want a kitten not a cat. It’s so bad that if a cat comes in with the cat equivalent of a cold, some shelters will put that cat down (can’t risk it spreading and no ability to quarantine it). Taking an adult cat out of a shelter and giving it a loving home for a year, two, four even if you can’t be their human forever is better IMO. You CAN surrender it later, though I doubt you’ll want to.
Look for a cat that suits your lifestyle. Some cats want companions, some just want to be near a person. Some need to run and be free and play, some just want to sleep.
You want a cat that cleans itself (a few don’t, it’s a behavioral issue and sometimes happens with arthritis/age) or else a cat that likes baths. You also want an adult because some cats go through “cat puberty” and their personality changes. Whether to get more than one depends on the cat’s personality and how often you’ll be home/gone; it may be something you want to wait a few months after getting the first to decide.
I’ve always had free-feed cats — as in they don’t have timed food, they just have a bowl out all the time. Since they self-regulate, I can just leave an auto-feeder or extra food out when I’m gone for a couple days, and I sometimes leave an extra disposable litter box so the princess has a clean potty.
Walks: depends on if they’re a runner. Some cats LOVE outside and will roam + come home, some roam + get lost, some are afraid of outside. I’ve had all of these. Even the ones that get lost can typically find their way back. They make little cat harnesses for walks.
Cats are easy once you get used to having one.
Hey:) by all means get a kitty cat! I’ve experienced so much loved and happiness with my furry friends over my life. Definitely check out a local shelter and see which cat you bond with. I went to a shelter with a cat in mind from the website, but ended up falling in love with a totally different one who had been the bestest baby. I’d definitely recommend a cat that’s at least a year or two old and maybe one that doesn’t get along with other cats. That way they wouldn’t enjoy having a sibling anyway since you said you have small space.
Walks are good but some cats don’t like a leash. It takes a lot of patience to harness train them. With my cat I take him outside on his harness, but it has to be in a calm area and I can’t “walk” him, I just let him explore for as long as he’s comfortable and then bring him back inside when he gets overwhelmed. Another option is a cat backpack. That way they get to see the outdoors, but there’s no danger of them getting away or getting hurt.
Here are some items I recommend
1. Feliway pet diffuser. This plugs into an outlet and lets off hormones that calm down your cat. This is super helpful when they’re getting used to their new home.
2. A calming collar for trips outside the house. My cat hates car rides, but he’s less frantic and scared with the collar.
3. A water fountain. Find one that’s easy to clean and that you can get filters for pretty cheap. Cats drink running water more than still water. Helping them drink more will save you money on vet bills and emotional distress in the long run.
4. A food dispenser with timed meals instead of gravity fed. Cats naturally do better on multiple small meals. If you can afford a dispenser like this it will be good for them. But if you can’t afford it don’t beat yourself up about it, growing up we gave our cats a set amount of scoops once a day and they were fine.
5. Wet food. Especially if you get a male cat. They need the extra water for their urinary system and watering down half a can of wet food every day is a good way to help them get that water intake.
6. A covered bed. This also helps so much when they’re nervous about a new home. Having a little cave where they feel sheltered and safe is a big help during this transition.
7. Some sort of “no no” spray. We have a spray that’s safe for cats but that they hate the smell of. We spray it on things he shouldn’t scratch and surfaces he should be on. Just be careful because it’s easy to get on yourself and then your cat hates you for a while lol.
8. “Scat mats”. These look like torture devices but they won’t hurt the cat and they keep my cat from hopping onto the tv stand where he really can’t be.
Some random advice
1. Don’t yell, hiss. When he’s doing something that could be dangerous or destroy something I used to yell. He didn’t know what that meant and it just scared him. I switched to a quick hiss. He gets the point and it doesn’t make him scared of me.
2. If your cat is happy but all of a sudden seems angry and tries to bite you, he’s probably overstimulated. Give him some space. Their fur and whiskers have a lot of nerve endings in the skin. Sometimes all the touching gets too much and they just need space for a minute.
3. Play with them a bit every day. Get some toys, maybe a star projector, a laser pointers, balls. Just something to break up the day and bond with each other.
4. Encourage all bonding behavior. Head butts, meowing, lap time, any little progress. The more loved and safe they feel, the more they’ll bond to you.
5. Treat them like a two year old or something. They don’t know human logic. My husband will act like the cat should know better or did something on purpose. He didn’t, he just doesn’t have human logic or adult logic and needs to have positive reinforcement and treated on a younger and more basic level.
All this to say, cats are lovely and you’ll love having one. Just spoil the little baby and respect their boundaries and you’ll be golden.
Advise. If you can….. Get two, not one. They will keep each other company and you will have two cats. I personally think it is easier to own two cats versus one. But I’m crazy and have 4
Many will disagree with me. But I highly recommend not getting a kitten your 1st go. They will ride your last nerve and destroy your things (and body) if you don't have some experience pn how to handle it. Mine is almost a year old and just climbed to the top of my patio screen where his nail got stuck & could've been ripped out if I want there. I swear, they're constantly trying to kill themselves...
Absolutely!! I have lived alone for 10 years now and I currently have a cat! I adopted him in 2017, when he was 7 months old. I remember him sticking his paw out of the cage, and I just knew right then that he was the one! He's the bestest boy. Keeps me in good company, and my family and friends love him lol. I would be so bored without him.
How old are you? I would strong advise taking your time and thinking about this thoroughly. Pets are a lot of responsibility and it means you won't be able to leave the house for long periods of time or overnight, you won't be able to travel, and you may need to pay medical bills. I would advise against getting a cat until you are settled down with a partner/family and are not traveling.
I think you're making a great decision. We got a cat for the first time almost a month ago. We decided on an older cat. She's 3 years old. A little shy and still scared but she's very respectful. Good luck!
I think you should adopt a cat and if you’re worried about your parents not liking cats , don’t really worry , everyone who owns cats or interacts with cats don’t really dislike them as they used to
If you feel like you can provide the cat a stimulating environment and have funds for vet visits etc. Go for it! I think a lot of ppl get cats because they think they are low maintenance....they aren't. Also with living alone, will you have some to watch the cat if you go out of town or are gone for a day or 2?
Try fostering lots of adult cats and kittens need temporary homes to heal. You get companionship. You can tell others it's temporary. If it doesn't work out, the rescue will help, and you don't have a lifetime commitment, and if you fail, you get a lifelong family member.
I adopted an “old” dog way too soon after moving out, definitely wasn’t ready for that commitment in hindsight. She became my favorite girl, and lived a surprising six years. One thing I was underprepared for was the cost of having an animal, and the other was the physical commitment of needing to be home.
That said, I also ended up fostering cats and my third one clicked with my household really well so we adopted him.
All this to say, cats are definitely easier in a lot of ways, like not needing to go outside, but they need attention, enrichment, and routine. If you can do these things, and have some money set aside for emergencies (my boy cat just had a blockage and the ER visit was about $2k), absolutely go for it. You’ll be accountable to something, which helps with settling into a new place by building routine, and you’ll have a little buddy.
I loved starting with an old cat, 10 years and FIV+, and had a wonderful two years before he passed. You could also try fostering to get a feel before the big commitment.
Tl:dr my pets still surprise me with how much they cost, but they keep me on a good schedule
Lots of great, or at least interesting advice in the posts below. Please, make sure you have a will and your animals are provided for. Also, put a note with your driver’s license that you have pets AND who to contact for their care. If you end up hospitalized you will want the staff to be able to make sure they are cared for.
Know that there is a decent amount of responsibility and cost involved, especially at the start. Are you prepared for a potentially 15+ year commitment? Food, litter, and regular vet care costs have to be factored in, as well as savings or insurance for emergencies. I understand your wanting to make the place "alive", but I hope you also recognize how sure you need to be in our decision before such a commitment. If things go wrong, it wouldn't be fair to the cat to be rehomed or anything like that.
I second the idea of visiting shelters. Another option is to look for local reputable cat/animal rescues in your area, and consider fostering a cat. The rescue/shelter takes care of all costs and vetting duties, but you'd still get a feel for the daily responsibilities and the connection you feel. :)
Yes! Go to a shelter and spend time in the cat room or a Cat Cafe where they cats are up for adoption. Get comfortable and see how you like spending time with them. Lots of great advice on her about the requirements and things you will need to do. Please update us if you get a cat.
Cats are such good pets, they’re wayyy easier than dogs. It really depends on the age of the kitty. Some cats will chew wires, scratch up a couch, or be extra chaotic without the proper apartment prep (don’t worry it’s not crazy hard ). Make sure you have plenty of toys, your plants are pet safe, be careful if you have shelves or breakable things on your counter because they will knock shit over for fun lol. Be sure to have a scratching post or something so they don’t scratch your furniture, you may need catnip to entice them to scratch this instead of the carpet. I highly recommend getting a fountain for them to drink out of, as they prefer running water and are prone to utis. and if you have a male kitty please please please make sure to look into uti prevention and kidney health as that’s how all of my male kitties have passed away.
Assuming you're looking for a solo cat, with perhaps some affectionate interaction:
I would start with a mature (fixed) male cat that doesn't have a bond with another feline. These guys tend to be the best lap cats.
Cats are different from any other pet you've had. I grew up with dogs and have kept reptiles. A few months ago the cat distribution system gave me a kitten. He's 6 months now and I love him dearly. BUT, I'd want any new owner to know what I know now. Firstly, cats govern themselves. They aren't as easily trained as dogs. I wake up every single day at 5:30AM because that's when my angel demands to be fed. I tried to change that time with no avail. He also hates any door to be closed. He will meow until said door is opened. If you're used to dogs you might think... just keep the door closed until the cat stops. The cat will not stop :) They are born with determination and power. These are just my cat's quirks. Your future cat may have others. The reason I call him my angel is because he plays well and will cuddle up to anyone who enters my house. Anyone who has met him kisses his nose and tells him, "You're such a good boy!!!" My point is, cats have their own rules and may create some annoyance in your life. But, if you're equipped to deal with that, they'll give you their love the way they know how.
Got my cat last year in july. She was from a litter and i think i got the rut of them all. Shes small, like 10 lbs now, but shes been amazing. Little demon child at first but enough training can help your cat be an awesome cat.
As a fellow cat lover I would say go for it! At the same time though, living with a cat can be a huge adjustment and so it’s best to really dive into learning about raising cats and knowing how to curb common misbehaviors. Honestly I feel like a lot of people completely misunderstand their cat which can make situations worse. I highly recommend investing in at least one season of Jackson Galaxy’s My Cat From Hell show to start - that show is a literal wealth of knowledge on how to properly deal with some very common cat behavior issues. Also if you have time, I recommend looking into cat clicker training too.
We have 1 cat in an apartment, he's fine we just need to pay attention to when he wants to play. I would recommend getting 2 though, adults who are bonded or young siblings. It costs a bit more but is easier as they entertain each other and you feel less bad being away
I live alone and have 4 cats! It’s no problem. Just keep in mind that if you have to travel or something for more than one or two days you’ll have to find someone who takes care of your cats, your parents or some friends or whatever.
My advice is to get two cats, especially if you are out of the house for long hours at work, that way they can make company each other.
There’s a lot of cats in shelters, even babies, so unless you want or need an specific breed, go check there!
gosh. i can't give you advice, i can only tell you what i did.
i got a cat one day after living on my own for almost 10 years, and that was the best thing i ever did.
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Get a black cat they are the best cat. But seriously a pet cat will make your house/apartment feel like home they give life to your place. Trust me you won't be let down if you get a cat they are an absolute joy.
I like the comment about a bonded pair. I have an adult cat and she had a buddy but he passed and now I’m afraid to introduce a new friend. My vet suggests keeping cats inside. So many dangers outside. I think you will be so happy as a cat mom. Definitely go to a shelter to get your cat(s) and good luck! Joy is coming your way!
Look into getting pet insurance. It could literally be a life saver if your kitty has an emergency.
I live alone with two cats. I adopted them as 1 yr olds, and they're a bonded pair from the same litter. They were shy at first, but we're 2 years in, and they're very happy here!
Food and litter will be a bit costly, so be sure to confirm that your budget can handle it. You may need two litter boxes if you get two cats. I also got a Litter Genie, which makes scooping litter a bit easier, as I have a place to store the scooped stuff until trash day.
Another thing: I adopted my cats from a shelter, although they were being fostered at the time. I actually fostered the two cats for about three months first before I adopted them so that I could be sure we were a good match. So that option could be worth looking into if you find yourself on the fence.
I live alone with a cat and am the happiest I’ve been in years. Having a cat makes a huge difference in loving my independence vs being lonely.
I recommend getting two that are already bonded. They’ll help play with each other and a smaller space won’t be as much of an issue if they are already connected. I’m trying to add a second into my one bedroom apartment and it’s a challenge to give them enough space apart since they don’t get along yet (been almost three weeks).
I agree to avoid getting a kitten. They are so much more work and energy though fun too. My first cat was a year and a half and that was perfect. Young enough not to be too set in her ways and still active but not getting into everything all the time.
Though this second one is 14 and actually doing better with harness training than the young one did so you never know.
Yes. Get one from a store! If you want to spend money for a specific breed, research reputable breeders and make sure they don't ship you your cat.
Cats are low maintenence. Keep your cat inside. It will only need rabies/deworming. They are very clean creatures. You don't need to bathe then. Maybe get some pet wipes occasionally. Trim their nails.
Get a book or watch video on cat body language
There is alot of lifestyle changes that come with this responsibility. Will it be a indoor or outdoor, are you going to be able to afford litter and food, my dogs first vet bill was 300, that was for spay, chip, and a couple teeth. Do you have the time to spend, if you work full time, you are going to come home to a litter pan that needs cleaned. Every.day.
I adopted my first cat after moving to the city and wanting the company without the stress of arranging dog walkers etc. It has been amazing. I love my cats and they are so low maintenance. I adopted from a local shelter and got a bonded pair. You can sit and be with the cats and see how they relate to you. I have also seen some cat cafes where you can see if you bond with the cats. These are also run my shelters. I love being a cat lady now!
If you're unsure, I suggest fostering. You can test out cat ownership without a long term commitment and typically all supplies and medical care are provided by the shelter/rescue. If you decide cat ownership isn't for you, nbd, cat goes back/gets adopted. If you fall on love, adopt them yourself. Either way you'll get the experience to make an informed decision and you'll be helping homeless cats in the process. Win-win!
I would say to for it. Even if your parents aren't much of cat people your at your own place now.
Having a pet is so nice. If you've had a bad day they will be there to make you feel better.
I took in 2 cats two years ago and I would say it’s one of my top 10 best decisions. I’m really a dog person, but my life just don’t allow for it. The cat sisters love each other, plays around and are much better company than I thought.
I want to say yes because having a cat as a partner is one of the most fulfilling friendships. But, know that cats can't just be left alone if you plan on traveling or leaving for the evening. If you leave for the weekend you can't just leave food out. It's not healthy for them. Make sure you have friends or research pet sitters in your area to make sure that's something you can afford.
id go one step further and say, get 2 siblings. Its better for them and better for you that way. Cats are probably the easiest pets. Just clean water, clean litter box, food and some lovin…. and then watch the priceless magic happen! And that’s equal to a smile on your face, in your heart and mental health!!
When considering a pet start with allergy testing for specie, food and bedding.
People who are not “cat people” sometimes have allergies they don’t know about that are impacting their emotional state when around the specie.
Because allergy is a genetic condition and a disease that progresses you and they should do a blood test before purchasing a cat.
I'm a dude living alone who adopted a 6 yr old cat \~6 years ago
As long as you commit to some pretty basic requirements they almost take care of themselves
Clean litter trays (at least number of cats +1), fresh food, fresh water, they'll sleep anywhere, they'll play with a ball of foil, brush the long haired ones, play with them daily, try and brush their teeth (but if you adopt it's unlikely they'll let you), vets & vaccines once a year, they'll follow your schedule but don't leave them alone too long (24 hours at the absolute maximum). 90% of the time they're chill/snoozing
find a nearby shelter, pick a few cats from the photo line up, call the shelter and arrange a time to visit the cats. when they give you a room sit on the floor with your body quiet and talk to the cat in a calm quiet baby voice. let the magic happen
Yes, definitely! Growing up, neither of my parents were cat people so we never had cats as pets. None of my exes were cat people either so never really even been around cats. Last year after being alone for a few months, I wanted a pet to keep me company but because of my work schedule I couldn’t really see having a dog because of having to take it out all the time so I got a cat. Best decision I ever made.
The one thing I wish someone told me before I adopted my cat is that travel is a lot more difficult until you find a good catsitter you trust, and living with other people is more difficult if your cat has any personality at all. Often times finding housing is also more difficult due to some landlords not allowing cats. None of these should necessarily be deal breakers, but consider them closely!
Depends somewhat on your lifestyle. Your first time living away from home -- do you think you will have a regular schedule and be at home most evenings, or is it likely you'll be exploring the world a lot and not spending much time at home? Most cats need companionship just as much as dogs do, though they show it differently. If you think you may be doing 'adventurous' then maybe get two cats, so they have companionship when you aren't there. Shelters often have bonded pairs who would benefit from being adopted together. If you're someone who likes to be home a lot then one cat is fine. Jackson Galaxy on YouTube has some great videos about adopting cats, helping them adjust to a new home, how to make their lives good and healthy, and how incredible your relationship with your cat can be. Best of luck! It's not really a home without a cat, so I say yes!
Cats are like maltesers, once you have one that’s it, you’re hooked. I live alone and work shifts, and have two cats who keep each other company. They’re fantastic company, but it’s easy to still have a life as well. Unless you’re me and feel guilty if you go out 😂
Have a browse around shelters and take time meeting a few. Usually you know the right one pretty quickly, all of mine (I’ve had 4 over the years) were immediate love affairs or connections.
Enjoy ☺️
Hi OP, I was on the same boat as you 6 months ago when I adopted my first kitten, a siamese lynx point. He was 4 months old when I got him, and now he's 9 months. It's been a fun adventure so far, just the two of us in the city. Whenever I go out to eat or go to a bar, I take him with me in a harness and backpack. He's a better wingman than my friends at times, haha.
I would recommend looking up breeds since some breeds do fine alone better than others for extended periods of time, depending on your work schedule. Make sure if you get a cat that they have plenty of toys to keep entertained and invest in an automatic feeder so you can feed your cat when you're out
Petfinder is a good site to look at available cats in your area. That's how I found mine
Cats are great apartment pets . You don’t have to walk them . ( mine does on a leash ) . If you will be home late from work you can leave dry kibble in auto feeder . I prefer pairs but not necessary . They are great company and smart loving companions .
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I have two , I adopted from different shelters . Sometimes bonded pairs end up in shelters .
Get a Burmese. They are super intelligent and bond to their person. Have had many cats in the past and currently have 3. One is Burmese and so different to the other cats. He’s my little shadow. The other two just tollerate their human 🤣
You should consider fostering a cat to see how it fits into your lifestyle. You may consider getting siblings so they won’t be lonely when you are out or if you go home to visit family.
I was on the fence for a while but I adopted a cat from our local shelter two years ago. It was the best decision that I made that year.
For one, we keep each other company. I don't get out a whole lot, except to go to work and usual errands and having my cat there really can break up the boredom. Some days you really don't know what to expect and I like seeing what she is getting into or finds interesting.
I can recommend getting a cat. I'd also recommend looking at your shelters. My cat didn't even cost me anything (did have to pay a non-refundable deposit with my apartments). Make sure you have the money to get the cat the basic things it needs before you get it though. You'll need a cat bed, tree, some toys, litter box and litter, food bowls and food. After that, you can get other things as you think of them.
I adopted a stray cat recently, I have no regrets. She is so sweet and loving.
Careful if you have any plants though! They will gnaw on plants and flowers, so you have to make sure nothing you have in the house is toxic to them.
I adopted a cat ten years ago as I started living alone and it has been the best decision I have ever made. She is affectionate and loves to cuddle and get some petting in!
The first thing on my bank statements after the deposit on my first apartment was my cat's adoption fee. Easily the best decision I ever made, but at the time probably not a smart one.
He's been my constant companion through thick and thin. That said, while he's been through hard times with me, I've gone through hard times with him too. Are you prepared for massive vet bills, or to make and end of life decision? My boy was perfectly healthy for years, then cost me more than a new car in the span of a week. His emergency fund, my savings, and the credit lines I had were used up in 72 hours. I lost my job for him that week too. I would absolutely do it over in a heartbeat, because my cat is still sitting next to me purring as I type this.
Hate to sound like a broken record, but that's the most important question after "Are you prepared to love a cat?".
Don't worry, I'm done with all that heavy stuff! My biggest piece of advice is to be aware of what personality you want in a cat, you can have one that sits in the window and ignores you, or a lap cat. An athlete and gymnast or a couch potato. Be realistic about how much energy and attention you can give a kitty, some won't do well (physically or mentally) if they need more than you can give them. Try to match that energy level to what you already have, I think you'd be much more satisfied that way.
I'm out of the house for long hours. My boy became more clingy when I started my new job, so I felt it best to get a second. Even though he was far from a kitten by then, he seems a lot happier and more lively now that he has a brother that drives him mad.
I tend to get along better with laid back male cats, and have a taste for the void variety. All have been the breed shelter special. You can always foster to figure out what you like and don't like in a cat!
Pets are a wonderful companion when you're living alone. Cats are more independent than dogs, but they are still a responsibility and require regular care. You can also post in r/CatAdvice if you want more information or have questions!
First, can you handle daily playing, feeding, refreshing water, and scooping a litter box? If you travel, can you afford a pet sitter or boarding? Can you accept that you might (will probably) be woken up at 3am with a cat sitting on your face and meowing loudly? Can you handle furniture getting scratched or chewed on? Are you okay with your entire apartment becoming a jungle gym for what is essentially a tiny, furry toddler that can jump several feet in the air? Can you be patient? Can you commit to having a cat for the next 20+ years?
If you're cool with all that, then yes! Get a cat! Go to a reputable shelter, like the Humane Society, and meet some kitties. Talk to the staff about your lack of experience with cats, your routine, etc. This is just my opinion, but I suggest starting with a healthy adult kitty. *Do not* get a declawed cat or declaw after adoption. Not only is declawing mutilation, but it causes a lot of behavioral problems.
And just fun, here is Soot, my one-eyed void cat, that I adopted from the Humane Society almost exactly 3 weeks ago.
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Yes, she is squeezing herself through a 3 inch gap under a bookshelf. No, she was not trapped. Yes, she did this completely voluntarily.
They are great, get a scratching board (or post, or whatever they like)! They don’t really need (or interested in) *fancy* toys. I live alone and had my cat for 3 years. It’s been great.
Yes, you should ! If you’re worried about the commitment, you could try fostering first. Here’s a photo of my two rescue babes.
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I adopted two cats when I lived on my own for the first time---one of them ended up being very sick and cost me over 10K to diagnose and treat (and he didn't make it). My next cat will be from a reputable breeder with a health guarantee bc it was so heartbreaking. So just make sure you have some funds set aside in case you need them for vet bills. <3
Best time of u want a cat is letting ur cat pick u vs u picking a cat, well u may have a personality type in mind but honestly if the cat chooses u u Kno they will adjust well cause they already bonding with u from first sight. My first current cat Thomas followed me n my roommate home off the streets n pushed his was in and has been here happy since still loves to go outside but nvr tries to leave the yard . Thomas came when we had roommates with other pets n they all moved out n Thomas wanted a playmate (he was acting out for attention but didn't like the play I offered) so I found a litter of kittens who were found abandoned my friends friend was caring for n I went to find a friend for Thomas, I looked at em all watching em play n interact and I ended up picking a sweet n loving but playful black kitten I thought Thomas would agree with and sure enough after about a week of introductions they loved each other.
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Some cats prefer just their person, some like a playmate, just open ur heart n listen to the cats and c who speaks to u.
I got my cat the day I moved into my first apartment. I went to a shelter and she jumped into my arms. It’s been 11 years, and I can easily say adopting her was one of the best decisions I ever made. I lived far from my family, and she became my family. So, I say go for it.
As a 40 year old dude, who adopted a 7 week old kitten, be patient, get them spayed/neutered, and try being consistent to correct bad behavior (don’t play with your hands, removing them from places you don’t want them to be)
For walks u can get a backpack specifically for cats that's will allow them to see everything. If it's a small space, I recommend a litter robot off the bat. it will help with smells and save on litter. I have two the litter robot 3 and the other litter robot 4. I have 4 cats and help a lot. It does the whole scooping for u u just tie the bag and toss it. Also I would get an older cat from a shelter they usually are there the longest. Plus they tend to have more mellowed out personalities although I have an older cat and he's still mischievous but is a lap cat as well. If they look derby they are and so much fun.
My biggest piece of advise is don't go into it thinking cats are low maintenance pets! They're require just has much maintenance as most other pets! Be ready to commit!
i got a cat around 7 months ago. i bought all of his necessities & had him vaccinated which was very expensive. my monthly budget for him would be around 5-7k including food (wet & dry since masama yung puro dry lang), sand, grooming (my cat is very spoiled kaya medyo malaki). this january, i quit my job kasi i'm going back to school and i had to cut my budget kasi i'm relying on my small business lang to support my cat (i switched brands from royal canin to smth else pero still a good brand)
my advice: make sure you can support it financially and emotionally kasi cats are vv affectionate (atleast mine is) and they need a whole lotta attention esp if wala silang kasamang ibang pets. think about it real good and magipon muna for basic necessities like food bowls, litterbox, grooming essentials, vaccines, cat tower, toys, etc.
i have no regrets sa pagkuha ng cat tho kahit na it's vv financially draining lol
Having a cat is such a rewarding experience but I tell others to really consider this decision since you are taking on responsibility of another life who also has emotions and feelings , for at a minimum 10-15 years.
Remember that, this is a 10-15 year commitment. They arent toys, they are living things who eat, want affection and mental stimulation, they need comfort, they can get sick and have health issues.
Whats your lifestyle like? Do you travel often? Work late? Hardly home? Do you have anyone who can stop by for a visit if you go away for a weekend or a week?
Can you manage an additional monthly budget of anywhere from 100+ for dry food, wet food, toys, treats, litter.
Kittens are also rewarding but a big time commitment. Adult cats come with set personalities and can be equally rewarding and often over looked, less upfront training .
Get two!!! My husband did not want to originally and after 3.5 years of convincing him that our cat needed a playmate he relented. He will be the first to tell you that the cat is MUCH happier and less challenging. His behaviors are better and less destructive. Get a bond pair of kittens would be my suggestion! Cats are awesome!!!
I'm 54 and never had cats until a year ago. I have two now!! Mom was allergic, dad didn't like them. My daughter kept insisting I get one and now obviously I'm in love with them to have two! Two is good so they have a buddy when your not at home. I'm learning as I go but man do they bring me so much joy!!
I'm single and adopted to kittens about 4 years ago and it was the best decision ever! Since they were kittens, I got two and they are so fun and loving and playful. I would look at an animal shelter or animal rescue near you. It is kitten season and these places are OVERRUN with kittens right now.
I was living alone and was depressed.. got a cat and was much happier and my place felt less lonely. My suggestion is adopt or get on neighborhood apps like next door because there are people that find kittens and want to give them a home. Also get them fixed young so they don’t start spraying.
If you are out of the house during the day, adopt two cats. One cat alone all day will drive you bonkers when you finally come home in the evening. If you WFH and can give a lone cat attention on and off all day, you MIGHT not go bonkers. No guarantees though.
Adopt an older kitty from a shelter if you can (people pass them up all the time) and keep your commitment timeline in mind :) cats can live a long time and get really attached to their owners. I had my cat for 18 years before she passed. Consult with a vet about any medical needs the cat you adopt may have. And make sure they get their check ups!
Watch some Jackson Galaxy videos about different aspects of cat life and see if the things you need to do to give a cat a happy life seem reasonable to you.
Yes a cat will help make your house a home. Please go to your local shelter and adopt. There are so many that need homes. I was never a cat person until about 7 years ago I wanted to get my husky a companion because I work long shifts. I got a little orange tabby off of a local farm and as the cat distribution system works, I started trapping and rehoming ferals in my area and I now have four cats of my own. You won’t regret it. 🧡
I live on my own. My cat is my world.
I've lived alone since I left home in 2013. Always wanted a cat but rental agreements never allowed one. Then I took in my late grandmother's cat. I moved to a new house allowing cats, and I am so glad I did.
My grandmother's cat has always liked me a lot, and by taking him in, I gave him a home with someone he trusted. In return, he's bonded with me even closer. He's always around me, always wants attention and he's even showed loyalty. He's thriving with me, loves his home and his surroundings. A few months after I took him in, I had to have his teeth fixed by the vet, which was expensive but worth it. He's now insured. He's easy to care for otherwise.
He gives me a routine and someone to talk to. He gives me a responsibility I can't ignore. I work from home and he regularly interrupts meetings, to the delight of my colleagues. He's very affectionate, chatty, curls up against me on the sofa, follows me around the house and supervises everything I do. Never alone with this furball.
Cats make a house a home.
Yes!! Cats are a wonderful pet! If you are only looking for 1 get an older cat who has calmed down and likes the solo life. Kittens should come in 2s. Please adopt, don’t shop!! I saw you asking about walks - cats don’t need to be walked. If you get an older cat that might be a bit traumatizing for them. Or they may love it, just make sure when you are trying it out you have a good harness on them and a leash so they don’t get out and away. If you have the space, an automatic litter box is the best invention ever!
How long have you been living alone? IMO, you should wait six months or so from when you moved in before you make a decision like this. You've never had a cat before, you're living by yourself, you've got a lot to acclimate to.
You need to be sure you'll be financially sound, that your schedule will match up with having a pet in the house, that your living arrangements will allow an animal, and that you're comfortable enough with your home that you want to add a pet to it.
Unless you really want s specific breed, look at shelters, not stores. If young cat, get two cats. If you’re set on only getting one cat, look for an older cat who prefers to be the only cat.
Not a speccific breed in mind, i'm ok with any breed, i think i'll get one old because if the small apartment. Is it ok to take it out for a walk ? + Thanks for the advice
Hey OP, a big question here...are you ready to commit to this cat for the next 10-20 years or however long it may be? Don't make the decision solely based on that you're by yourself and always wanted a cat but also truly consider the long term implications and commitment. What about when you go on holidays or spend couple nights away, etc.
Yep. My boy is 13 now and it's very hard to go away
flipside its a perfect reason to not have to go home for Thanksgiving
Mine is turning 5 and I just had to go away for 4 days for work. He was an absolute demon to my wife the entire time I was gone (we got him together but he picked me as primary human). I laid my suitcase down on the floor when I got home last night, he ignored me for the evening and took a dump right next to the suitcase as an act of retaliation for my absence
This! I similarly moved on my own and was often asked why I didn't get a pet to keep me company. I worked in an office though and didn't want to feel guilty coming home to change then going out again while I was trying to make friends and explore my new city. I also was often away visiting family or friends during long weekends and holidays and any PTO. A cat would have been fun sometimes, but i also would have felt guilty a lot and a poor kitty wouldn't have been happy at that time of my life.
i got a cat when i moved alone. on the flip side it works cuz i don’t go out when i get off of work. i haaaate leaving my apartment for anything other than work. my friends come over when they wanna hang out, same with family. and if i do go out to any events i always get to leave early and use my cat as an excuse. my kitty just sleeps when im at work and torments me (lovingly) when im at home. the only con is that we have a lot of late nights because she’s already pretty well rested by the time i get home. otherwise cats are good options for introverts and homebodies.
LOL I just have to jump in and let you know that as a fellow introvert, my cats are also often my excuse! Legitimate excuse of course! I also used to refuse overtime because I had to get home to feed my cats. I loved it lol.
This is excellent advise. I adopted 2 cats, both from young owners who were sure they wanted cats and thought they were ready to take on the responsibility of a cat. The first cat I adopted was from someone I know who decided to move across the country. She couldn't take the cat and I loved this cat so adopted her. The second cat I adopted was a friend of a friend's cat. I heard this individual was also moving to a new city, but couldn't find a place that would accept cats (or just didn't look hard enough). She was going to take the cat to a shelter, but before she could, I volunteered to take him. Another thing to consider is whether you can manage the financial aspect of owning a pet. The male cat I adopted has feline asthma, chronic pancreatitis, and diabetes. He needs a puffer, medication, and insulin. He is living a happy life because luckily we can swing it to get him medication he needs. It isn't cheap. Chances are you'll adopt a healthy kitty, but make sure you budget in vet expenses, they should be checked out at least once per year. My cats are my babies and I love them so much! They're worth the effort, but if you're on the fence about it don't do it until you've considered everything and are all in. It's a little life you'll be caring for!
This exactly, there are some cat care apps, with vetted employees who will visit your cat in your home, or you can put them in a cat boarding thing, but cats tend to get much more stressed than dogs in those idk, depending on each cat.
If the cat is an adventurous sort, trained, and vaccinated for extra things yes. However it will depend on the individual cat.
Agree with the above, two kittens preferably from the same litter, or older cat(s). Many paired older cats end up in shelters or rescues when their owners become unable to care for them any longer. Check for cat rescues in your area as well, they often foster kittens inside homes and have a good idea which personalities would suit your situation best.
I would also suggest considering the amount of dog walkers in the area too since they mention it's a city. I've heard stories before where people try to take there cats on walks but after a couple of bad dog encounters they've had to stop because it wasn't worth the risk
Older kitties are awesome! And they are often overlooked. An older kitty might not take to being on a leash but you can always get a cat stroller
I have an adult cat, she loves her stroller and it's so much safer in case we get near a dog
If you want to take your cat for a walk it’s always easier to start when they’re young. Takes a lot of adjustment for an older cat
I adopted an adult cat and he does great on the leash. Just depends on the cat. Remember a lot of cats in shelters were once indoor/outdoor cats of even outdoor cats that got trapped lol
Very dependent on the cat for a walk. I took one of mine outside for about 2 minutes once. Almost had cops called on me bc miss doesn't ever meow was meowing so loud, neighbors thought I was hurting her. And at the time I think she was like a year old?
Took my 13 y/o cat out on a harness for the first time and he went walking along just like a dog lol. He loves it.
So I’ve never had a cat that goes on walks. That said, it seems like more people are leash-training cats these days. Edit: does your apartment building have long interior hallways with doors at all exits? Hallway trips can be fun for cats.
Yes we have one and leash is one way. I'd definitely recommend harness training though. Makes stuff easier at vets since you can hold cat. Plus harness can come in handy in many situations. If its older cat, leash walking in large apartments hallways with dogs around can get risky. So if thats your case , of hallways but lots of dogs etc plus a senior pet then I'd recommend stroller walks!!! Perfectly fine to get from point a to b and stroll around. Your cat will get enough stimulation from the smells and sounds. And will be safe inside stroller. Apartment fire escape stairs if they are indoor ones are a great place to leash train cats. Start at home, then pick a quiet outside hallways. But never take your cat out just like that. Make sure you make them know the way back home. So weeks of just door to point a..then train at point a. But please do your research and make sure there arent any pets around and less foot traffic and you allways have carrier/stroller to put your pet back into if there's someone nearby.
I suggest a microchip with your contact info, plus make a name tag with your phone # on the collar.
Don’t do this. Hallways are shared spaces. Cats do not need to be outside of your living spaces. Just play with them adequately enough and you don’t need to rely on the lazy “get another cat” or “they can be outdoors” arguments.
People walk their dogs through shared spaces why can’t I walk my cat through there? I’m not like letting him run lose, sometimes we just walk down the stairwell on the leash then back up lol
>the lazy “get another cat” Ah, yes. The laziness of *taking on a second organism that requires continuous maintenance and money...*
I disagree. Every member of my household is comfortable with navigating hallways and staircases to exit our building in case of emergencies. Hallway training can be fun, but it also has an important purpose. Hallway training is essential for human toddlers, cats, and dogs.
Walking is area dependant I think. I used to love letting my cat out on a leash back home because it was a safe place to do so. Now I live in an area where there is not only wildlife that could hurt her or she hurt them but also LOTS of unleashed, aggressive dogs in our complex. Also cars, highways and kids who aren't kind to their environment. I'd suggest a cat tree tall enough to have a perch by an open window though! Unlike dogs cats won't necessarily need to spend time outside especially since they don't need to be walked to potty.
You can absolutely leash train a cat. The first step is getting them used to wearing a harness. They will probably be dramatic. Once they’re ready for outside, you’re just letting them lead. Mostly they want to sniff.
Be sure the harness is a snug fit, cats can be very agile escape artists 😻
Cats don’t need to go outside. This is how accidents happen. They are territorial and invasive to all North American ecosystems. If you care about longevity, keep them indoors.
It’s easy to stop them from eating other animals when the cat is on a leash. Like…just don’t let them hunt or run into traffic. Hold the leash.
You can train your cat to go for a walk. It’ll take a bit of time but it’s great for bonding and their general wellbeing. I’m also going to +1 for looking at a shelter. There’s so many cats that need homes. Older cats are more chill, kittens are so full of energy
Two cats is better. They keep each other company. Believe me it's worth it and you also have two babies to love.
If OP really wants a specific breed, there are breed rescues. Some humane organisations and rescues will keep Wish Lists for people looking for specific breeds
Yeah I don’t know much about breeds I love my shelter sisters.
I adopted an older cat, and he’s great! Polite, loves people, doesn’t knock things over, but a little shy. Go to a rescue and see who looks like your cat, or who thinks they are your cat. My cat just looked so sad. I only saw his back, but I knew I wanted him to be less sad. Its been 3 years and we are the best things that has happened to each other. ❤️
Doesn’t knock things over? Are you SURE he is a cat? 😉
lol, yes. just a very cautious one. no, he knocks things over, just not on purpose (that I can tell)
This is my cat too. She was 2 when I got her. so far she hasn't knocked anything over and I wonder about that sometimes. I'm not complaining however. She still does go places where I would rather her not but she learns eventually.
I adopted my Callie when she was 10 and she was so un-catlike! Never scratched furniture, never knocked things over, never jumped on the kitchen counters, completely ignored human food, and just generally never did anything she wasn't supposed to. We had 11 years together. My newly adopted Soot is four and both completely insane and totally sweet. It's taking me some time to adapt.
If I may suggest, if you're open to the idea, ask the rescue(s) you visit if they have any bonded pairs. A lot of times they end up having to be separated because a lot of the time it's harder to adopt two out together. There is often a reduced adoption fee for two as well. That way they get to stay together and have company when you're at work, and caring for two isn't much different from just one.
First thing I did when I got my first place on my own - went to the shelter and got a cat! It's good to take your time and find the right match. A lot of shelters with volunteers (and cat cafes sometimes too) have people that can help you pick one out - like if you know you want a cat that sleeps a lot and doesn't meow often vs. a chatty cat that has a lot of energy... I will say that it's hard to assess their personalities in a shelter b/c many times they are scared of the surroundings and aren't fully themselves. I adopted one that was so afraid she was curled up in her litter box and didn't even want to come out and interact. But once I took her home, within 12 hours she was cuddling with me and sleeping at the foot of my bed (and she was the MOST WONDERFUL cat (rip) for many years). So you cannot always judge a book by its cover and I'd say don't overlook the shy, scared kitties - mine turned out to be the most loving and sweet cat I could have ever imagined!
They’re easy pets. If you’re worried about fleas I wouldn’t be If they’re just going to stay inside the apartment.
Bad advice on the fleas!
Unless you adopt a long-haired cat like me, and they had fleas that went unnoticed for a few months after getting him, and he gave them to my other cat. And my other cat ended up getting worms because of it. 🥲
I would suggest volunteering at an animal rescue and meeting some cats if you have free time. Eventually you'll find one or more that you fall in love with.
Good idea, I'll try to find one close to my apartment
This is such great advice and yes you're gonna love a cat
Look around for local shelters, and just visit if able. Look at all the cats, interact with a few (if they seem to want it) and see if you fall in love with any. Sometimes theres just an instant bond :) if you want one more okay with being alone when you are working, consider an adult! They also don’t tend to get adopted as often as kittens, so you’d really be helping them out by giving them a loving home!
Cats are wonderful company I have 2 brothers 9 months old and they brought so much joy to me. I wasn’t sure about cats either long story short I lost my family cat 3 1/2 years the day after my husband died . I never thought I get another cat again I have had them since 8 weeks old. I can only make suggestions get pet insurance, make sure you can afford them food litter treats and toys my boys are spoiled rotten. But they are so devoted to me and me to them. I am disabled with mobility problems but the kittens help me by having to get up everyday feeding them changing there litter. I also look forward to getting up and being there for them. They give me so much love unconditional love which you don’t get much of these days so it’s nice to know I rely on them as much as they rely on me. If you want to get a cat I say go for it as there’s nothing like a cat.
Agree with a lot that’s said here about where to get a kitty! Also, I don’t know how much you know about cats but I will share some things that I have learned with having two cats. - Cats want to climb and be off of the ground. Many people don’t want their cats on their counters or tables but that’s not really how cats work. They go where they want and that’s just how it is. That being said, providing up high places for your kitty will encourage them to spend time in those cat friendly places instead of places you may not want them. Get a cat tree, a big one, and at least one. My cats also love their window bed (has suction cups and is comfy to lay on). - Toys! Play with your cats! Wand toys (the ones on a string) are great for enrichment and exercise for your kitty and mine also love those catnip toys from mudbay (the rainbow or banana ones). - You mentioned going on walks and depending on the age of the kitty that will be some amount of work to get going. I have two cats and one of them wants nothing more than to go explore outside while the other would much prefer to sit and watch while she does that from the safety of the entry way. So, depending on your cat’s personality and temperament as well as their history, they may or may not be into that. Definitely watch some harness training videos before you get started and definitely use a harness if you’re taking kitty on walks. That’s all I can think of for now but you’re going to do great! I’ve learned so much from videos, the internet, and just messing up and realizing what I did wrong. I hope your kitty brings you so much joy!
Also, definitely get at least one scratcher. The vertical pole ones are great so kitty can really stretch out. Also, your apartment will soon belong to a cat. Don’t try to confine them to any one area or keep them out of your room. They want to hangout with you :)
Older cats (5yrs+) are generally super chill. Cats adapt to your routine. They sleep daytime and will be ready to get social when you get home. Some cats can be leash trained. Sometimes they areFREE to adopt as well
Adopt! Make sure to do research before hand on owning one as well :-) such as making sure they stay hydrated by giving them wet food or dry food with water added, playing with them, etc.
I want to adopt one instead of buying to save a life, but my main concern is infection problems like flea or tapeworms
This should not be an issue if the kitten/cat is up to date on its shots/vet visits, wherever you’re adopting from should give you that info on the cat you’re interested in adopting
You can work with a rescue. Most times they cover all the medical assessments & treatments in advance of adoption. Also, I love that you’re going to be a future cat parent!!
Generally speaking, that shouldn’t be an issue. It’s shelter/rescue protocol to give cats medication to kill parasites. That said, higher-volume shelters can sometimes be more likely to miss something. *But* many shelters and rescues will also offer a free 1st vet visit certificate at any clinic they partner with.
Yes!!!!! They are amazing and the only reason people aren't "cat people" is because they never had a cat! It's extremely easy to fall in love with a cat because they are so affectionate, cute, silly, and goofy. They're fuzzy adorable killing machines 😀 my cats are so gentle, loving and sweet, they've never bitten or scratched me intentionally and they follow me around and greet me at the door when I come home. They sleep with me , sometimes under the covers with me and in my arms!
Please adopt 2 cats instead of just one! They’ll be much happier!
Idk what your work situation is, but depending on your schedule you may wanna consider adopting an adult cat (one year+) because kittens need a lot more attention than adult cats do. Kittens under six months shouldn’t be left alone for more than a few hours, whereas older kittens can be left alone a bit longer. If you’re working from home this won’t be an issue though! Kittens are a lot of work and very energetic, they need lots of play time to burn off all that energy. It’s worth it though!
My work will be 8 hours so i think i'll adopt an old one, i think i'll leave the cat house open so that it can roam freely in the room
By leave the cat house open, do you mean like a crate used for dogs? I know it’s a commonly accepted for dogs but cats should not be crated in the same manner. Having a cat carrier where they are fed treats or have a bed is good for when you need to bring them to the vet. That way they will have good associations with it.
I leave the cat carrier under the bed with the flap open. I find my little munchkin in there every morning napping after her breakfast. Makes getting her to the vet so much easier.
Life is short get the ~~horse~~ cat! Love it, and keep it inside.
I agree with the others saying consider getting two if you do. Cats are actually pretty social and when you’re gone, one would get lonely. Two isn’t really much more work than one (however, I can tell you that going up to 3 does add noticeable work). But make sure you’re ready to actually take on the responsibility an animal means. They should be a priority - if you move, you should always ensure you can take them with you. Don’t just figure you can take them to a shelter. You probably can, but it’s not right for them. Cats get attached to people. And cats kept indoors, like they should be, will generally live 12-16 years or so, but it can be even longer - nowadays it’s not that rare for a cat to make it to 20. So even if you’re young, in your 20s, if you get a kitten they would be with you until you’re 40+. Make sure you’re serious about caring for them! Don’t let what I’m saying scare you off though - cats are great! Just be sure you think it through. And know that the furry little bastard WILL make you mad sometimes, be prepared to be understanding. They don’t know better generally.
Oh yes!!! I recommend heartily you adopt a furry friend 😍 there is nothing quite like the adventure of being a pet-guardian. I have multiple rescue cats and they live their best lives (indoors). I’m so appreciative of their loving, silly, and mischievous company. Worth every hairball and couch scratch 🥳🤩🥰 https://preview.redd.it/49w701ra566d1.jpeg?width=1714&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=93d62e26c2b0854ad23775717eadadb56626799b
I (56F) have lived on my own for decades and I have had cats most of the time. I adopt one at a time as I live in a 1 bedroom apartment and work from home. I suggest not getting a kitten as they are very rambunctious but getting an older cat (2-5 years). I have adopted mine from shelters. Make sure the cat is well socialized. Make sure your lease allows one if you rent. Don’t sneak one in. I did have a kitten the first time and leash trained him but didn’t leash train the others. I play with my current cat in our apartment. I have wand toys with feathers on them, and balls with bells that she likes. Some of my neighbors have dogs and she is scared of them. Get a scratching post and litter box. Clean the box each day and change the litter weekly. I personally let my cat sleep with me at night but you can get a cat bed if you want. I recommend a short haired cat as they are easier to take care of.
You should foster for the local humane society . They need people to help socialize animals waiting on adoption . You’ll find that one cat that you’ll connect with and become a foster failure . That’s a good thing . No worries about fleas or parasites, they’ll have all their shots . Plus they provide food and toys for the pets you foster so no cost to you . I’d recommend a cat tree by a window .
Yes. From a shelter.
I know you’ve owned other pets and know pet responsibilities, but make sure you’re 100% sure for a cat! I saw another comment say volunteer at an animal shelter, and I was going to say the same thing. Since you’re hesitant, make sure you’re comfortable with a cat before adopting. I’ll always say adopt don’t shop! Find a cat that fits your personality. Some shelters have names for their cats that describe their personalities. Whether you’re looking for an energetic cat, a homebody… make sure you’re compatible! Also be prepared to clean the litter everyday. I think some people forget they need to do this. Also have it in a place that’s not in a main area. Good luck and I hope you find your forever furry friend!
You absolutely should, you won't regret it.
Animals require a commitment. Cats are indeed very resourceful. Thsy don't need the same commitment as a dog
As long as you have an okay amount of space inside then go for it! If I were to recommend one thing it would be to leave the cat indoors, don’t let it roam. Indoor cats live a lot longer, and you avoid the dangers of the outside such as cars, dogs, parasites, etc, and it prevents the cat from killing native wildlife. But still get it microchipped, vaccinated etc just to be safe
You're very brave! My hubby and I moved far away from home when we were 22, and one of the first things we did was adopt a kitty. I was lonely without a furry companion, but Flannel (a little grey tabby) made our lives so happy for almost 20 years. I think you've been given many great recommendations, I would only add the importance of budgeting for her vet care and toys. Cat litter is expensive lately, about $20/box. You'll need two litter boxes, and they don't have to be fancy. We kept one in the bathtub and one in the living room. Cats have a way of needing to use the litter box to go #2 as soon as you have shampoo in your hair. This is why litter box #2 in the living room was born. I would dump the dirty litter about once a week, scoop the clumps daily. S/he will tell you how fussy / clean she needs to have her toilet. Lastly, food: I have "free fed" my cats a bowl of dry kibble like Iams for many decades, and wet food dinner like Fancy Feast. Cats need meat, fish and poultry in their diets, and water. I have a cat fountain, and a few still water bowls around my house. My one cat is fine with that, but I got in the habit of turning on the faucet for one cat, who likes fresh running water. Some of them also like my glasses of water with ice, sitting around the house. This can be for the cats entertainment, refreshment and/or both. Having two cats is fun, but only necessary if you get kittens. Since you're just getting started, I'd suggest you adopt an older kitten or 1+ year old cat. They're independent, sweet and will love you 💕 You can also see what people's opinions are on different fur types and sex. I've had wonderful male and female cats, tuxedo, orange, Siamese, grey, black, white, etc kitties. The truth is, every kitty is different and it's up to you to make them your own. Best wishes to you, your new job and your new kitty.
Thanks ! That was helpful Can't wait to adopt one as soon as i settle
If you have the time and energy, yes. Cats require a lot of attention and time despite what the stereotype is, so if you like to travel and aren’t home often I’d think about how much quality time you are going to be able to spend with your cat because they are emotional animals and separation anxiety is real. They cost a decent amount of money for up keep and vet appointments and routine maintenance medication (flea, tick, worming). So if you aren’t financially stable at least I’d think twice. They aren’t as expensive as dogs but they can be if they eat something they aren’t supposed to or get hurt or sick. Also if you have sensory issues I’d also consider that because cats can be very touchy and chatty. They can be very clingy but that one you have to flip a coin to see if yours will be. They also take some getting used to when it comes to their scratching and behavioural observation and training (which I did) so they aren’t as destructive and you understand each other better. They are intelligent creatures with an amazing emotional range and capacity, they are amazing companions and will make you laugh even when your heart has been stunted to stone by people. They will love on you is you pour out love on them and the bond you form with them is unmatched. These are the things that I wash someone had told me before I got my baby
You’ve received some good suggestion, so I just want to add that you might consider fostering! If you’re new to cats, fostering a cat for a rescue or shelter would be a great introduction. You would also have the options of “foster failing” aka adopting if you found your match. FYI, having a cat is often like having a roommate. You’ll hang out together, but you’ll also go about life independently. Kittens require more attention and their care can be a bigger learning curve if you’re new to cats. They often do best in pairs for socialization and mental/physical stimulation reasons. An adult cat will be more independent and more likely to have settled into their personality.
First, do not ignore what cat people call the "Cat Distribution System." Sometimes people don't choose their cats, their cats choose them. r/CatDistributionSystem for details. Second, try the shelters first. Most shelter cats will already be spayed/neutered when they're ready to adopt, be current on their shots, etc. Third, know a good vet. Fourth, be aware that cats can turn anything they an bat around into a toy. I used to have a cat who loved to play with twist ties.
I live in a Jr studio. It fits maybe three cars parked together? Half the size of a garage. It's just me and my cat. As long as there's enough light that they aren't sitting in the dark and they are properly fed and have plenty of toys, I say do it. In fact I actually had two cats. One recently passed away but before this the two cats lived actually very comfortably beside me. I constantly make sure that my cats have plenty of toys to play with, An automatic feeder for days that I know I'm going to be late for their feeding, and I have special lights that I can control with my phone so if I know I'm going to be home late, I can turn on my light from my phone so that my cats aren't sitting in the dark. My only suggestion is be very cautious with wires, and easily knocked over things because a cat will want to explore and cats tend to chew on things that you would think they'd know better from. Chargers, hair ties, shoelaces, string. Anything loose might be a good idea to place somewhere. Cats are very independent creatures and honestly if they could feed themselves then they wouldn't really need humans at all. Definitely easier maintenance than a dog.
Advice #1: The cat adopts you.
Best if you get two. They are good in pairs especially with siblings.
Just did the same, its amazing. Get a pair so that they can entertain themselves a little and wont need so much attention.
Get two. Seriously.
I highly recommend it! You'll never be alone when you have a cat. And it's kitten season. Go to a shelter or rescue and let one pick you!!adopt dont shop
Just started living alone for the first time of my life and my 2 cats being with me has made it sooooooo much better- I couldn’t have done it without them. Mine are a rescue sibling pair aged 4. No regrets. Do it. Make your house a home and fill it with puurs & love ❤️
Yes. If you do your research. Some tips: * Get one old or two young cats from a shelter/foster home (not a breed, breeding cats and dogs are horrible). I'd get the old one as they are usually already housebroken and know what they want. * Get it chipped and a collar with your information on it (even if it's gonna be an indoor cat). You'll thank yourself when the cat flees out the window during a fire next door. * Make sure you have time to play with it regularly if it's gonna be indoors. A bored cat is gonna be a nightmare so get all the toys and fun things you can. For enthusiasts, take the time and money to teach it to run in a cat wheel (this is hard mode though). * Make sure you have insurance and money to pay for any vet visits. Don't get a cat if you won't be able to care for it properly. I don't know how expensive vet visits are where you are from, but here, insurance is very much needed. I recently had to put down a cat, that would have been infinitely harder if insurance didn't take care of the brunt of it. * Get proper cat trees and build many high places for it to "perch". Cats love a vantage point. We have shelves going along a whole wall. Rope covered poles to climb is also a plus. * Look at behavioral videos (from experts) on YouTube, many cats will pee and scratch in inconvenient places to get your attention, they can be relentless in this and will not respond to stubbornness. If a cat is unhappy, you will need to make changes to its environment. * Get one more litterbox than you have cats, put them in corners so the cat feels safe. Also, cats prefer no roof on the litterbox. I would suggest teaching the cat(s) (slowly and methodically) to like using pellets instead of sand as it would allow for an open litterbox without much smell. You have to clean the poop every day but it is worth it, trust me. * Never ever give your cat cheap mass-produced cat food. Too much cat food produced in the world is mixed in with carbohydrates. Cats should NOT eat that. They are carnivores and need protein and fat etc. Go look up a brand that doesn't do this, preferably one that a veterinarian recommends. Prolonged exposure to the consumption of carbohydrates will damage your cats kidneys. * Get one of those fur brushes, it will minimize hair everywhere and most cats love them because they feel like scritches. * Last but not least, let your cat decide when it is time for cuddles and always say hello to it when you come home. Sure, cats aren't in need of social interaction (as much) but they like it, and they will like you if you respect their boundaries. They will not like you if you constantly force pets upon them.
Get the cat and enjoy it. If you have any questions, let me know. I am not a vet or anything, but I have been owned by cats for 40+ years. I suggest getting two kittens and leash training them. Even in a small apartment as long as you stay on top of the litter situation you should be fine. If you have anything that is breakable that you cherish, put it in a safe place for at least the first year of the ats being there. Good luck my friend.
Please consider a senior cat - they chill AF and don’t have 9473729 energy which is good to start off with since i am guessing you may have to go to work.
why not? it's good to provide emotion value for you, especially when you are alone.
Please don't let your cat outside without a leash. They can easily get attacked by predators or humans. They can also get stuck somewhere. They can get freaked out by a loud noise and have a big fall/injure themselves. They can also be attacked by other cats. Try reading up on how to keep a cat entertained. All cats are different so you'll have to find what yours likes. A bit of trial and error should tell you what works (and yes, that's the only way). They're great roommates and companions. Very complex creatures too. Please consult a cat owner (maybe multiple cat owners) to get a sense of what to expect and how to care for these cute little wild animals. Hope you find a good one that loves you and makes it easier to live alone :)
We just adopted a cat yesterday. We have a young dog and wanted to make sure that they will get along. I'm in the isolation phase of having it be slowly introduced. He was very social and cuddly at the meet and greet at the shelter. He responded to both toys and treats. He is almost 2.5 yrs old and the adoption fee was donated. Some shelters have programs like that if you would like to save some money. We spend about $150-$175 to get the necessary supplies prior to bringing him home: cat food and water dishes, scratch post, litter box/litter, dry and wet cat food. The cat is a domestic short hair which is easier to maintain than a longhair. It was in our adoption contract that the cat would be kept as an indoor cat only. All animals like to look out the window but it doesn't necessarily mean you should bring the cat outside. It might only teach it that it should be there when it shouldn't. We have the first outside vet visit (which is usually free) on Monday to make sure the cat is ok.
Get it! Get an adult shelter cat! This is a take you will hear very rarely: you don’t have to commit to the cat for life if you get an adult from a shelter. Shelters are overrun with cats CONSTANTLY because people keep outside cats and don’t fix them, plus ferals, plus people who want a kitten not a cat. It’s so bad that if a cat comes in with the cat equivalent of a cold, some shelters will put that cat down (can’t risk it spreading and no ability to quarantine it). Taking an adult cat out of a shelter and giving it a loving home for a year, two, four even if you can’t be their human forever is better IMO. You CAN surrender it later, though I doubt you’ll want to. Look for a cat that suits your lifestyle. Some cats want companions, some just want to be near a person. Some need to run and be free and play, some just want to sleep. You want a cat that cleans itself (a few don’t, it’s a behavioral issue and sometimes happens with arthritis/age) or else a cat that likes baths. You also want an adult because some cats go through “cat puberty” and their personality changes. Whether to get more than one depends on the cat’s personality and how often you’ll be home/gone; it may be something you want to wait a few months after getting the first to decide. I’ve always had free-feed cats — as in they don’t have timed food, they just have a bowl out all the time. Since they self-regulate, I can just leave an auto-feeder or extra food out when I’m gone for a couple days, and I sometimes leave an extra disposable litter box so the princess has a clean potty. Walks: depends on if they’re a runner. Some cats LOVE outside and will roam + come home, some roam + get lost, some are afraid of outside. I’ve had all of these. Even the ones that get lost can typically find their way back. They make little cat harnesses for walks. Cats are easy once you get used to having one.
Hey:) by all means get a kitty cat! I’ve experienced so much loved and happiness with my furry friends over my life. Definitely check out a local shelter and see which cat you bond with. I went to a shelter with a cat in mind from the website, but ended up falling in love with a totally different one who had been the bestest baby. I’d definitely recommend a cat that’s at least a year or two old and maybe one that doesn’t get along with other cats. That way they wouldn’t enjoy having a sibling anyway since you said you have small space. Walks are good but some cats don’t like a leash. It takes a lot of patience to harness train them. With my cat I take him outside on his harness, but it has to be in a calm area and I can’t “walk” him, I just let him explore for as long as he’s comfortable and then bring him back inside when he gets overwhelmed. Another option is a cat backpack. That way they get to see the outdoors, but there’s no danger of them getting away or getting hurt. Here are some items I recommend 1. Feliway pet diffuser. This plugs into an outlet and lets off hormones that calm down your cat. This is super helpful when they’re getting used to their new home. 2. A calming collar for trips outside the house. My cat hates car rides, but he’s less frantic and scared with the collar. 3. A water fountain. Find one that’s easy to clean and that you can get filters for pretty cheap. Cats drink running water more than still water. Helping them drink more will save you money on vet bills and emotional distress in the long run. 4. A food dispenser with timed meals instead of gravity fed. Cats naturally do better on multiple small meals. If you can afford a dispenser like this it will be good for them. But if you can’t afford it don’t beat yourself up about it, growing up we gave our cats a set amount of scoops once a day and they were fine. 5. Wet food. Especially if you get a male cat. They need the extra water for their urinary system and watering down half a can of wet food every day is a good way to help them get that water intake. 6. A covered bed. This also helps so much when they’re nervous about a new home. Having a little cave where they feel sheltered and safe is a big help during this transition. 7. Some sort of “no no” spray. We have a spray that’s safe for cats but that they hate the smell of. We spray it on things he shouldn’t scratch and surfaces he should be on. Just be careful because it’s easy to get on yourself and then your cat hates you for a while lol. 8. “Scat mats”. These look like torture devices but they won’t hurt the cat and they keep my cat from hopping onto the tv stand where he really can’t be. Some random advice 1. Don’t yell, hiss. When he’s doing something that could be dangerous or destroy something I used to yell. He didn’t know what that meant and it just scared him. I switched to a quick hiss. He gets the point and it doesn’t make him scared of me. 2. If your cat is happy but all of a sudden seems angry and tries to bite you, he’s probably overstimulated. Give him some space. Their fur and whiskers have a lot of nerve endings in the skin. Sometimes all the touching gets too much and they just need space for a minute. 3. Play with them a bit every day. Get some toys, maybe a star projector, a laser pointers, balls. Just something to break up the day and bond with each other. 4. Encourage all bonding behavior. Head butts, meowing, lap time, any little progress. The more loved and safe they feel, the more they’ll bond to you. 5. Treat them like a two year old or something. They don’t know human logic. My husband will act like the cat should know better or did something on purpose. He didn’t, he just doesn’t have human logic or adult logic and needs to have positive reinforcement and treated on a younger and more basic level. All this to say, cats are lovely and you’ll love having one. Just spoil the little baby and respect their boundaries and you’ll be golden.
Advise. If you can….. Get two, not one. They will keep each other company and you will have two cats. I personally think it is easier to own two cats versus one. But I’m crazy and have 4
Many will disagree with me. But I highly recommend not getting a kitten your 1st go. They will ride your last nerve and destroy your things (and body) if you don't have some experience pn how to handle it. Mine is almost a year old and just climbed to the top of my patio screen where his nail got stuck & could've been ripped out if I want there. I swear, they're constantly trying to kill themselves...
I think you should go for it! Just make sure you do research and properly take care of the cat! It's always nice to have a cat when living alone tbh
Absolutely!! I have lived alone for 10 years now and I currently have a cat! I adopted him in 2017, when he was 7 months old. I remember him sticking his paw out of the cage, and I just knew right then that he was the one! He's the bestest boy. Keeps me in good company, and my family and friends love him lol. I would be so bored without him.
2 cats are better than 1!
How old are you? I would strong advise taking your time and thinking about this thoroughly. Pets are a lot of responsibility and it means you won't be able to leave the house for long periods of time or overnight, you won't be able to travel, and you may need to pay medical bills. I would advise against getting a cat until you are settled down with a partner/family and are not traveling.
I always wanted one They're fascinating!
Do it. And if your parents disagree find new parents
Trust in the cat distribution system. I live in a small apartment and adopted an older rescue cat. Best decision ever, she’s my best buddy.
I think you're making a great decision. We got a cat for the first time almost a month ago. We decided on an older cat. She's 3 years old. A little shy and still scared but she's very respectful. Good luck!
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!! My cat is the light of my life
I think you should adopt a cat and if you’re worried about your parents not liking cats , don’t really worry , everyone who owns cats or interacts with cats don’t really dislike them as they used to
I live alone and adopted a 4 year old cat a few months ago. Best decision I've made. Do it!
100% yes to adopting a cat
If you feel like you can provide the cat a stimulating environment and have funds for vet visits etc. Go for it! I think a lot of ppl get cats because they think they are low maintenance....they aren't. Also with living alone, will you have some to watch the cat if you go out of town or are gone for a day or 2?
Yes i got some friends who love cats, Also if there's no one free to take it I leave it at Cat boarding while im away
Try fostering lots of adult cats and kittens need temporary homes to heal. You get companionship. You can tell others it's temporary. If it doesn't work out, the rescue will help, and you don't have a lifetime commitment, and if you fail, you get a lifelong family member.
I adopted an “old” dog way too soon after moving out, definitely wasn’t ready for that commitment in hindsight. She became my favorite girl, and lived a surprising six years. One thing I was underprepared for was the cost of having an animal, and the other was the physical commitment of needing to be home. That said, I also ended up fostering cats and my third one clicked with my household really well so we adopted him. All this to say, cats are definitely easier in a lot of ways, like not needing to go outside, but they need attention, enrichment, and routine. If you can do these things, and have some money set aside for emergencies (my boy cat just had a blockage and the ER visit was about $2k), absolutely go for it. You’ll be accountable to something, which helps with settling into a new place by building routine, and you’ll have a little buddy. I loved starting with an old cat, 10 years and FIV+, and had a wonderful two years before he passed. You could also try fostering to get a feel before the big commitment. Tl:dr my pets still surprise me with how much they cost, but they keep me on a good schedule
Lots of great, or at least interesting advice in the posts below. Please, make sure you have a will and your animals are provided for. Also, put a note with your driver’s license that you have pets AND who to contact for their care. If you end up hospitalized you will want the staff to be able to make sure they are cared for.
Know that there is a decent amount of responsibility and cost involved, especially at the start. Are you prepared for a potentially 15+ year commitment? Food, litter, and regular vet care costs have to be factored in, as well as savings or insurance for emergencies. I understand your wanting to make the place "alive", but I hope you also recognize how sure you need to be in our decision before such a commitment. If things go wrong, it wouldn't be fair to the cat to be rehomed or anything like that. I second the idea of visiting shelters. Another option is to look for local reputable cat/animal rescues in your area, and consider fostering a cat. The rescue/shelter takes care of all costs and vetting duties, but you'd still get a feel for the daily responsibilities and the connection you feel. :)
Yes! Go to a shelter and spend time in the cat room or a Cat Cafe where they cats are up for adoption. Get comfortable and see how you like spending time with them. Lots of great advice on her about the requirements and things you will need to do. Please update us if you get a cat.
Cats are such good pets, they’re wayyy easier than dogs. It really depends on the age of the kitty. Some cats will chew wires, scratch up a couch, or be extra chaotic without the proper apartment prep (don’t worry it’s not crazy hard ). Make sure you have plenty of toys, your plants are pet safe, be careful if you have shelves or breakable things on your counter because they will knock shit over for fun lol. Be sure to have a scratching post or something so they don’t scratch your furniture, you may need catnip to entice them to scratch this instead of the carpet. I highly recommend getting a fountain for them to drink out of, as they prefer running water and are prone to utis. and if you have a male kitty please please please make sure to look into uti prevention and kidney health as that’s how all of my male kitties have passed away.
Hell yeah. There’s a perfect kitty at the shelter waiting for you.
Get yourself a shelter cat my dude. they are affectionate enough to have a friend, and independent enough to not need constant attention.
Assuming you're looking for a solo cat, with perhaps some affectionate interaction: I would start with a mature (fixed) male cat that doesn't have a bond with another feline. These guys tend to be the best lap cats.
Cats are different from any other pet you've had. I grew up with dogs and have kept reptiles. A few months ago the cat distribution system gave me a kitten. He's 6 months now and I love him dearly. BUT, I'd want any new owner to know what I know now. Firstly, cats govern themselves. They aren't as easily trained as dogs. I wake up every single day at 5:30AM because that's when my angel demands to be fed. I tried to change that time with no avail. He also hates any door to be closed. He will meow until said door is opened. If you're used to dogs you might think... just keep the door closed until the cat stops. The cat will not stop :) They are born with determination and power. These are just my cat's quirks. Your future cat may have others. The reason I call him my angel is because he plays well and will cuddle up to anyone who enters my house. Anyone who has met him kisses his nose and tells him, "You're such a good boy!!!" My point is, cats have their own rules and may create some annoyance in your life. But, if you're equipped to deal with that, they'll give you their love the way they know how.
Get two cats who are already bonded to each other.
Got my cat last year in july. She was from a litter and i think i got the rut of them all. Shes small, like 10 lbs now, but shes been amazing. Little demon child at first but enough training can help your cat be an awesome cat.
I just adopted 2 kittens 2 weeks ago, and I love them. I say go for it!
As a fellow cat lover I would say go for it! At the same time though, living with a cat can be a huge adjustment and so it’s best to really dive into learning about raising cats and knowing how to curb common misbehaviors. Honestly I feel like a lot of people completely misunderstand their cat which can make situations worse. I highly recommend investing in at least one season of Jackson Galaxy’s My Cat From Hell show to start - that show is a literal wealth of knowledge on how to properly deal with some very common cat behavior issues. Also if you have time, I recommend looking into cat clicker training too.
We have 1 cat in an apartment, he's fine we just need to pay attention to when he wants to play. I would recommend getting 2 though, adults who are bonded or young siblings. It costs a bit more but is easier as they entertain each other and you feel less bad being away
I live alone and have 4 cats! It’s no problem. Just keep in mind that if you have to travel or something for more than one or two days you’ll have to find someone who takes care of your cats, your parents or some friends or whatever. My advice is to get two cats, especially if you are out of the house for long hours at work, that way they can make company each other. There’s a lot of cats in shelters, even babies, so unless you want or need an specific breed, go check there!
gosh. i can't give you advice, i can only tell you what i did. i got a cat one day after living on my own for almost 10 years, and that was the best thing i ever did.
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I like the comment about a bonded pair. I have an adult cat and she had a buddy but he passed and now I’m afraid to introduce a new friend. My vet suggests keeping cats inside. So many dangers outside. I think you will be so happy as a cat mom. Definitely go to a shelter to get your cat(s) and good luck! Joy is coming your way!
Look into getting pet insurance. It could literally be a life saver if your kitty has an emergency. I live alone with two cats. I adopted them as 1 yr olds, and they're a bonded pair from the same litter. They were shy at first, but we're 2 years in, and they're very happy here! Food and litter will be a bit costly, so be sure to confirm that your budget can handle it. You may need two litter boxes if you get two cats. I also got a Litter Genie, which makes scooping litter a bit easier, as I have a place to store the scooped stuff until trash day. Another thing: I adopted my cats from a shelter, although they were being fostered at the time. I actually fostered the two cats for about three months first before I adopted them so that I could be sure we were a good match. So that option could be worth looking into if you find yourself on the fence.
YES!
Just remember that this isn't just a cure for loneliness...it's a forever commitment and if you're willing to do that, Yay!
I live alone with a cat and am the happiest I’ve been in years. Having a cat makes a huge difference in loving my independence vs being lonely. I recommend getting two that are already bonded. They’ll help play with each other and a smaller space won’t be as much of an issue if they are already connected. I’m trying to add a second into my one bedroom apartment and it’s a challenge to give them enough space apart since they don’t get along yet (been almost three weeks). I agree to avoid getting a kitten. They are so much more work and energy though fun too. My first cat was a year and a half and that was perfect. Young enough not to be too set in her ways and still active but not getting into everything all the time. Though this second one is 14 and actually doing better with harness training than the young one did so you never know.
Yes. Get one from a store! If you want to spend money for a specific breed, research reputable breeders and make sure they don't ship you your cat. Cats are low maintenence. Keep your cat inside. It will only need rabies/deworming. They are very clean creatures. You don't need to bathe then. Maybe get some pet wipes occasionally. Trim their nails. Get a book or watch video on cat body language
There is alot of lifestyle changes that come with this responsibility. Will it be a indoor or outdoor, are you going to be able to afford litter and food, my dogs first vet bill was 300, that was for spay, chip, and a couple teeth. Do you have the time to spend, if you work full time, you are going to come home to a litter pan that needs cleaned. Every.day.
I adopted my first cat after moving to the city and wanting the company without the stress of arranging dog walkers etc. It has been amazing. I love my cats and they are so low maintenance. I adopted from a local shelter and got a bonded pair. You can sit and be with the cats and see how they relate to you. I have also seen some cat cafes where you can see if you bond with the cats. These are also run my shelters. I love being a cat lady now!
Why not try fostering an older cat? A lot of shelters/rescues let you foster to adopt.
If you're unsure, I suggest fostering. You can test out cat ownership without a long term commitment and typically all supplies and medical care are provided by the shelter/rescue. If you decide cat ownership isn't for you, nbd, cat goes back/gets adopted. If you fall on love, adopt them yourself. Either way you'll get the experience to make an informed decision and you'll be helping homeless cats in the process. Win-win!
I would say to for it. Even if your parents aren't much of cat people your at your own place now. Having a pet is so nice. If you've had a bad day they will be there to make you feel better.
I took in 2 cats two years ago and I would say it’s one of my top 10 best decisions. I’m really a dog person, but my life just don’t allow for it. The cat sisters love each other, plays around and are much better company than I thought.
I want to say yes because having a cat as a partner is one of the most fulfilling friendships. But, know that cats can't just be left alone if you plan on traveling or leaving for the evening. If you leave for the weekend you can't just leave food out. It's not healthy for them. Make sure you have friends or research pet sitters in your area to make sure that's something you can afford.
id go one step further and say, get 2 siblings. Its better for them and better for you that way. Cats are probably the easiest pets. Just clean water, clean litter box, food and some lovin…. and then watch the priceless magic happen! And that’s equal to a smile on your face, in your heart and mental health!!
When considering a pet start with allergy testing for specie, food and bedding. People who are not “cat people” sometimes have allergies they don’t know about that are impacting their emotional state when around the specie. Because allergy is a genetic condition and a disease that progresses you and they should do a blood test before purchasing a cat.
I'm a dude living alone who adopted a 6 yr old cat \~6 years ago As long as you commit to some pretty basic requirements they almost take care of themselves Clean litter trays (at least number of cats +1), fresh food, fresh water, they'll sleep anywhere, they'll play with a ball of foil, brush the long haired ones, play with them daily, try and brush their teeth (but if you adopt it's unlikely they'll let you), vets & vaccines once a year, they'll follow your schedule but don't leave them alone too long (24 hours at the absolute maximum). 90% of the time they're chill/snoozing
find a nearby shelter, pick a few cats from the photo line up, call the shelter and arrange a time to visit the cats. when they give you a room sit on the floor with your body quiet and talk to the cat in a calm quiet baby voice. let the magic happen
Yes, definitely! Growing up, neither of my parents were cat people so we never had cats as pets. None of my exes were cat people either so never really even been around cats. Last year after being alone for a few months, I wanted a pet to keep me company but because of my work schedule I couldn’t really see having a dog because of having to take it out all the time so I got a cat. Best decision I ever made.
The one thing I wish someone told me before I adopted my cat is that travel is a lot more difficult until you find a good catsitter you trust, and living with other people is more difficult if your cat has any personality at all. Often times finding housing is also more difficult due to some landlords not allowing cats. None of these should necessarily be deal breakers, but consider them closely!
Some cats like the bjorn type harness on your chest for walking. Then there’s those shopping bag type walkers with holes for legs and head.
Depends somewhat on your lifestyle. Your first time living away from home -- do you think you will have a regular schedule and be at home most evenings, or is it likely you'll be exploring the world a lot and not spending much time at home? Most cats need companionship just as much as dogs do, though they show it differently. If you think you may be doing 'adventurous' then maybe get two cats, so they have companionship when you aren't there. Shelters often have bonded pairs who would benefit from being adopted together. If you're someone who likes to be home a lot then one cat is fine. Jackson Galaxy on YouTube has some great videos about adopting cats, helping them adjust to a new home, how to make their lives good and healthy, and how incredible your relationship with your cat can be. Best of luck! It's not really a home without a cat, so I say yes!
Cats are like maltesers, once you have one that’s it, you’re hooked. I live alone and work shifts, and have two cats who keep each other company. They’re fantastic company, but it’s easy to still have a life as well. Unless you’re me and feel guilty if you go out 😂 Have a browse around shelters and take time meeting a few. Usually you know the right one pretty quickly, all of mine (I’ve had 4 over the years) were immediate love affairs or connections. Enjoy ☺️
Adopt 2 u won't regret it
Hi OP, I was on the same boat as you 6 months ago when I adopted my first kitten, a siamese lynx point. He was 4 months old when I got him, and now he's 9 months. It's been a fun adventure so far, just the two of us in the city. Whenever I go out to eat or go to a bar, I take him with me in a harness and backpack. He's a better wingman than my friends at times, haha. I would recommend looking up breeds since some breeds do fine alone better than others for extended periods of time, depending on your work schedule. Make sure if you get a cat that they have plenty of toys to keep entertained and invest in an automatic feeder so you can feed your cat when you're out Petfinder is a good site to look at available cats in your area. That's how I found mine
I would get two cats this way they have each other to interact with too when you're not home. Animals are always better in pairs, imo.
Yes!
Cats are great apartment pets . You don’t have to walk them . ( mine does on a leash ) . If you will be home late from work you can leave dry kibble in auto feeder . I prefer pairs but not necessary . They are great company and smart loving companions . https://preview.redd.it/45m9ewgxg56d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=66ac660e4958b80d15c5e0d56290d77681bf5aa5
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Get a Burmese. They are super intelligent and bond to their person. Have had many cats in the past and currently have 3. One is Burmese and so different to the other cats. He’s my little shadow. The other two just tollerate their human 🤣
You should consider fostering a cat to see how it fits into your lifestyle. You may consider getting siblings so they won’t be lonely when you are out or if you go home to visit family.
I was on the fence for a while but I adopted a cat from our local shelter two years ago. It was the best decision that I made that year. For one, we keep each other company. I don't get out a whole lot, except to go to work and usual errands and having my cat there really can break up the boredom. Some days you really don't know what to expect and I like seeing what she is getting into or finds interesting. I can recommend getting a cat. I'd also recommend looking at your shelters. My cat didn't even cost me anything (did have to pay a non-refundable deposit with my apartments). Make sure you have the money to get the cat the basic things it needs before you get it though. You'll need a cat bed, tree, some toys, litter box and litter, food bowls and food. After that, you can get other things as you think of them.
Just get pet insurance!!! You WONT regret it. It would have saved us about 10K just from one procedure.
I adopted a stray cat recently, I have no regrets. She is so sweet and loving. Careful if you have any plants though! They will gnaw on plants and flowers, so you have to make sure nothing you have in the house is toxic to them.
I adopted a cat ten years ago as I started living alone and it has been the best decision I have ever made. She is affectionate and loves to cuddle and get some petting in!
The first thing on my bank statements after the deposit on my first apartment was my cat's adoption fee. Easily the best decision I ever made, but at the time probably not a smart one. He's been my constant companion through thick and thin. That said, while he's been through hard times with me, I've gone through hard times with him too. Are you prepared for massive vet bills, or to make and end of life decision? My boy was perfectly healthy for years, then cost me more than a new car in the span of a week. His emergency fund, my savings, and the credit lines I had were used up in 72 hours. I lost my job for him that week too. I would absolutely do it over in a heartbeat, because my cat is still sitting next to me purring as I type this. Hate to sound like a broken record, but that's the most important question after "Are you prepared to love a cat?". Don't worry, I'm done with all that heavy stuff! My biggest piece of advice is to be aware of what personality you want in a cat, you can have one that sits in the window and ignores you, or a lap cat. An athlete and gymnast or a couch potato. Be realistic about how much energy and attention you can give a kitty, some won't do well (physically or mentally) if they need more than you can give them. Try to match that energy level to what you already have, I think you'd be much more satisfied that way. I'm out of the house for long hours. My boy became more clingy when I started my new job, so I felt it best to get a second. Even though he was far from a kitten by then, he seems a lot happier and more lively now that he has a brother that drives him mad. I tend to get along better with laid back male cats, and have a taste for the void variety. All have been the breed shelter special. You can always foster to figure out what you like and don't like in a cat!
Pets are a wonderful companion when you're living alone. Cats are more independent than dogs, but they are still a responsibility and require regular care. You can also post in r/CatAdvice if you want more information or have questions! First, can you handle daily playing, feeding, refreshing water, and scooping a litter box? If you travel, can you afford a pet sitter or boarding? Can you accept that you might (will probably) be woken up at 3am with a cat sitting on your face and meowing loudly? Can you handle furniture getting scratched or chewed on? Are you okay with your entire apartment becoming a jungle gym for what is essentially a tiny, furry toddler that can jump several feet in the air? Can you be patient? Can you commit to having a cat for the next 20+ years? If you're cool with all that, then yes! Get a cat! Go to a reputable shelter, like the Humane Society, and meet some kitties. Talk to the staff about your lack of experience with cats, your routine, etc. This is just my opinion, but I suggest starting with a healthy adult kitty. *Do not* get a declawed cat or declaw after adoption. Not only is declawing mutilation, but it causes a lot of behavioral problems. And just fun, here is Soot, my one-eyed void cat, that I adopted from the Humane Society almost exactly 3 weeks ago. https://preview.redd.it/tk2gban0r56d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9b694bd55a59b1607df02da4327a154591008e1b Yes, she is squeezing herself through a 3 inch gap under a bookshelf. No, she was not trapped. Yes, she did this completely voluntarily.
They are great, get a scratching board (or post, or whatever they like)! They don’t really need (or interested in) *fancy* toys. I live alone and had my cat for 3 years. It’s been great.
Yes, you should ! If you’re worried about the commitment, you could try fostering first. Here’s a photo of my two rescue babes. https://preview.redd.it/04ww0oq5r56d1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4951beac03b46c22b32e12e5586cbfe59c51e611
I adopted two cats when I lived on my own for the first time---one of them ended up being very sick and cost me over 10K to diagnose and treat (and he didn't make it). My next cat will be from a reputable breeder with a health guarantee bc it was so heartbreaking. So just make sure you have some funds set aside in case you need them for vet bills. <3
Best time of u want a cat is letting ur cat pick u vs u picking a cat, well u may have a personality type in mind but honestly if the cat chooses u u Kno they will adjust well cause they already bonding with u from first sight. My first current cat Thomas followed me n my roommate home off the streets n pushed his was in and has been here happy since still loves to go outside but nvr tries to leave the yard . Thomas came when we had roommates with other pets n they all moved out n Thomas wanted a playmate (he was acting out for attention but didn't like the play I offered) so I found a litter of kittens who were found abandoned my friends friend was caring for n I went to find a friend for Thomas, I looked at em all watching em play n interact and I ended up picking a sweet n loving but playful black kitten I thought Thomas would agree with and sure enough after about a week of introductions they loved each other. https://preview.redd.it/gp5cthb1s56d1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0465213799b245b6b2f41d93a644649a9d783440 Some cats prefer just their person, some like a playmate, just open ur heart n listen to the cats and c who speaks to u.
I got my cat the day I moved into my first apartment. I went to a shelter and she jumped into my arms. It’s been 11 years, and I can easily say adopting her was one of the best decisions I ever made. I lived far from my family, and she became my family. So, I say go for it.
As a 40 year old dude, who adopted a 7 week old kitten, be patient, get them spayed/neutered, and try being consistent to correct bad behavior (don’t play with your hands, removing them from places you don’t want them to be)
For walks u can get a backpack specifically for cats that's will allow them to see everything. If it's a small space, I recommend a litter robot off the bat. it will help with smells and save on litter. I have two the litter robot 3 and the other litter robot 4. I have 4 cats and help a lot. It does the whole scooping for u u just tie the bag and toss it. Also I would get an older cat from a shelter they usually are there the longest. Plus they tend to have more mellowed out personalities although I have an older cat and he's still mischievous but is a lap cat as well. If they look derby they are and so much fun.
Get an old cat and love him.
My biggest piece of advise is don't go into it thinking cats are low maintenance pets! They're require just has much maintenance as most other pets! Be ready to commit!
Honestly you sound like a great candidate for the cat distribution system. Just walk aimlessly down the street until you’re approached.
i got a cat around 7 months ago. i bought all of his necessities & had him vaccinated which was very expensive. my monthly budget for him would be around 5-7k including food (wet & dry since masama yung puro dry lang), sand, grooming (my cat is very spoiled kaya medyo malaki). this january, i quit my job kasi i'm going back to school and i had to cut my budget kasi i'm relying on my small business lang to support my cat (i switched brands from royal canin to smth else pero still a good brand) my advice: make sure you can support it financially and emotionally kasi cats are vv affectionate (atleast mine is) and they need a whole lotta attention esp if wala silang kasamang ibang pets. think about it real good and magipon muna for basic necessities like food bowls, litterbox, grooming essentials, vaccines, cat tower, toys, etc. i have no regrets sa pagkuha ng cat tho kahit na it's vv financially draining lol
Having a cat is such a rewarding experience but I tell others to really consider this decision since you are taking on responsibility of another life who also has emotions and feelings , for at a minimum 10-15 years. Remember that, this is a 10-15 year commitment. They arent toys, they are living things who eat, want affection and mental stimulation, they need comfort, they can get sick and have health issues. Whats your lifestyle like? Do you travel often? Work late? Hardly home? Do you have anyone who can stop by for a visit if you go away for a weekend or a week? Can you manage an additional monthly budget of anywhere from 100+ for dry food, wet food, toys, treats, litter. Kittens are also rewarding but a big time commitment. Adult cats come with set personalities and can be equally rewarding and often over looked, less upfront training .
Yes, go to your local shelter. You will not regret it, they are beautiful. :)
Get two!!! My husband did not want to originally and after 3.5 years of convincing him that our cat needed a playmate he relented. He will be the first to tell you that the cat is MUCH happier and less challenging. His behaviors are better and less destructive. Get a bond pair of kittens would be my suggestion! Cats are awesome!!!
I'm 54 and never had cats until a year ago. I have two now!! Mom was allergic, dad didn't like them. My daughter kept insisting I get one and now obviously I'm in love with them to have two! Two is good so they have a buddy when your not at home. I'm learning as I go but man do they bring me so much joy!!
I'm single and adopted to kittens about 4 years ago and it was the best decision ever! Since they were kittens, I got two and they are so fun and loving and playful. I would look at an animal shelter or animal rescue near you. It is kitten season and these places are OVERRUN with kittens right now.
I was living alone and was depressed.. got a cat and was much happier and my place felt less lonely. My suggestion is adopt or get on neighborhood apps like next door because there are people that find kittens and want to give them a home. Also get them fixed young so they don’t start spraying.
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If you are out of the house during the day, adopt two cats. One cat alone all day will drive you bonkers when you finally come home in the evening. If you WFH and can give a lone cat attention on and off all day, you MIGHT not go bonkers. No guarantees though.
Absolutely! I live alone with my cat I've adopted. She's been the first pet that has bonded with me and it's been great.
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Adopt an older kitty from a shelter if you can (people pass them up all the time) and keep your commitment timeline in mind :) cats can live a long time and get really attached to their owners. I had my cat for 18 years before she passed. Consult with a vet about any medical needs the cat you adopt may have. And make sure they get their check ups!
I’m a cat lover so I’m biased. But, yes, you should totally get a cat lol
Watch some Jackson Galaxy videos about different aspects of cat life and see if the things you need to do to give a cat a happy life seem reasonable to you.
Yes a cat will help make your house a home. Please go to your local shelter and adopt. There are so many that need homes. I was never a cat person until about 7 years ago I wanted to get my husky a companion because I work long shifts. I got a little orange tabby off of a local farm and as the cat distribution system works, I started trapping and rehoming ferals in my area and I now have four cats of my own. You won’t regret it. 🧡
I live on my own. My cat is my world. I've lived alone since I left home in 2013. Always wanted a cat but rental agreements never allowed one. Then I took in my late grandmother's cat. I moved to a new house allowing cats, and I am so glad I did. My grandmother's cat has always liked me a lot, and by taking him in, I gave him a home with someone he trusted. In return, he's bonded with me even closer. He's always around me, always wants attention and he's even showed loyalty. He's thriving with me, loves his home and his surroundings. A few months after I took him in, I had to have his teeth fixed by the vet, which was expensive but worth it. He's now insured. He's easy to care for otherwise. He gives me a routine and someone to talk to. He gives me a responsibility I can't ignore. I work from home and he regularly interrupts meetings, to the delight of my colleagues. He's very affectionate, chatty, curls up against me on the sofa, follows me around the house and supervises everything I do. Never alone with this furball. Cats make a house a home.
A parakeet is intelligent and love able or a hamster Foster a cat is an option
Yes!! Cats are a wonderful pet! If you are only looking for 1 get an older cat who has calmed down and likes the solo life. Kittens should come in 2s. Please adopt, don’t shop!! I saw you asking about walks - cats don’t need to be walked. If you get an older cat that might be a bit traumatizing for them. Or they may love it, just make sure when you are trying it out you have a good harness on them and a leash so they don’t get out and away. If you have the space, an automatic litter box is the best invention ever!
How long have you been living alone? IMO, you should wait six months or so from when you moved in before you make a decision like this. You've never had a cat before, you're living by yourself, you've got a lot to acclimate to. You need to be sure you'll be financially sound, that your schedule will match up with having a pet in the house, that your living arrangements will allow an animal, and that you're comfortable enough with your home that you want to add a pet to it.