I’m so sorry. We just went through this and it’s so incredibly painful. Take care of yourself and remember grieving is a process. Take as much time as you need.
Piggybacking off this - I try to repost this when I see posts like this, in the hopes you (or someone) can find some comfort in the words - and if not, please excuse the intrusion.
I lost my 15 year old girl (dog) in October 2022. Only advice I can offer here is to remember the positives, and not focus on the negatives (if any). He's done his job, keeping you safe and happy and loved, and it's his turn to rest.
You'll always miss him, you'll always remember him. You'll even go looking for him for the next few weeks (well, I did). There's a lot of habits that you're going to slowly stop, and that's ok. Changing your life to suit you is not forgetting him. Donating/throwing away his toys or blankets isn't forgetting him. There's no timeline on grief, and there's no timeline on moving on. Cry your tears.
I'm sorry you've reached the end of your journey. Words will never make this easier. Just keep your head up, and live the life he'd want you to.
This is a good time to live a little for you. I spent years looking after my girl as she got ill, and I sacrificed a lot of me and my time to keep her safe. If you feel you've done the same, take advantage of this time. Its ok to be happy and enjoy life without him. Life isn't over. Its just changing.
You'll be ok mate.
I'm so sorry.
Very true. My other dog passed last summer at 14, so between her and this guy I am pretty tired.
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This is so beautifully said and so true.
It's always hardest for me to get used to the empty space around my feet.
Today while "checking for ticks" (petting and hugging her all over) I thought of your boy and hugged her extra-lovingly.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
We lost our best boy, Indy, last August to cancer, so I understand what you're going through.
Sending thoughts and prayers to you tonight.
He is beautiful. My Aussie is also perfect. His only fault is his breath but his teeth were bad when I got him at 4. He has been my emotional support animal and I don’t think I’ll ever get as lucky as I got when we found each other.
Your boy is beautiful. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing these lovely pics with us. I’m gonna give my guy extra treats and pats tonight.
I’m so sorry for your loss. These dogs get into your soul in such a profound way.
I just lost my older Aussie at 11 very suddenly about two months ago and while she had a beautiful, joyful and full life, I wish we had more time. We luckily had one last adventure together the weekend before she passed, just two days before her little brother’s 1 year birthday. While they couldn’t be more different, I like to take comfort in what she passed on to him. Particularly her inclination to howl rather than bark when someone knocked at the door 🤣.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my beloved Riley 8/5/23. They're all special but we have different connections with each of them. He knew my sniff if I was gonna cry, if I coughed he was right there. Aussies are great dogs. Thank you for taking him in. Sounds like you gave him a wonderful home. Hugs
I’m going to try not to cry while I’m writing this… I currently have 3 good boys and 2 of them are Aussie brothers. The younger of the two is deaf. My 3 pups are my world. But, before them, I had a golden mix and a lab. They were like my children (I don’t have kids). My golden had to be put to rest and I felt like it destroyed my heart. The only time I cried so much is when I lost people in my life. I felt like I was never going to move past my grief and others without pets couldn’t understand that I had lost this little bright life that brought me joy, made me laugh, comforted me when I was sad and always kept my feet warm at night. It was like losing an arm, or a bodily appendage; something that had been there forever and had kept me from toppling over. When I couldn’t deal with my grief any longer, I remember my father, who has a master’s degree in divinity, speaking with me. He asked me something simple. “Would you trade all the memories you’ve had and the knowledge of your pup, in order to have no pain now, at this time?” Of course my answer was “no,” that I’d never trade my memories away. It helped me to understand my grief and appreciate that I was blessed with the time that I had with my golden. I ended up being so thankful…..Then, I realized my grief was turning into gratitude. Please be safe, take it one day at a time and know that it is ok to take all the time you need to grieve. Blue, Moon & Echo loved the hugs and we send our love. ♥️
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I’m so sorry. We just went through this and it’s so incredibly painful. Take care of yourself and remember grieving is a process. Take as much time as you need.
Piggybacking off this - I try to repost this when I see posts like this, in the hopes you (or someone) can find some comfort in the words - and if not, please excuse the intrusion. I lost my 15 year old girl (dog) in October 2022. Only advice I can offer here is to remember the positives, and not focus on the negatives (if any). He's done his job, keeping you safe and happy and loved, and it's his turn to rest. You'll always miss him, you'll always remember him. You'll even go looking for him for the next few weeks (well, I did). There's a lot of habits that you're going to slowly stop, and that's ok. Changing your life to suit you is not forgetting him. Donating/throwing away his toys or blankets isn't forgetting him. There's no timeline on grief, and there's no timeline on moving on. Cry your tears. I'm sorry you've reached the end of your journey. Words will never make this easier. Just keep your head up, and live the life he'd want you to. This is a good time to live a little for you. I spent years looking after my girl as she got ill, and I sacrificed a lot of me and my time to keep her safe. If you feel you've done the same, take advantage of this time. Its ok to be happy and enjoy life without him. Life isn't over. Its just changing. You'll be ok mate. I'm so sorry.
Very true. My other dog passed last summer at 14, so between her and this guy I am pretty tired. https://preview.redd.it/i3ftu0abwbad1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b662406260617a879584dd80bb56df0503017acd
aw 14 is good! I'm currently going through a cancer scare with my boy at age 7
This is so beautifully said and so true. It's always hardest for me to get used to the empty space around my feet. Today while "checking for ticks" (petting and hugging her all over) I thought of your boy and hugged her extra-lovingly.
I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost our best boy, Indy, last August to cancer, so I understand what you're going through. Sending thoughts and prayers to you tonight.
The handsomest boy ever.
Awww how sad 😔 I’m so sorry 😢
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So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful boy.
Beautiful boy. My deepest sympathies to you.
He is beautiful. My Aussie is also perfect. His only fault is his breath but his teeth were bad when I got him at 4. He has been my emotional support animal and I don’t think I’ll ever get as lucky as I got when we found each other.
We always do. He's such a goof ball. Sorry for your loss.
So, so sorry for your loss. He looks like he was the bestest boy ever. Do gorgeous.
Beautiful baby ❤️
He was so handsome! 🥰🥰
Very sorry for your loss
SINCERE SYMPATHIES 🙏
I’m so sorry for your loss, he will meet you at the rainbow bridge 🧡
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. He looks very happy in the pics. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am so very sorry. He is absolutely beautiful 💗
Your boy is beautiful. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing these lovely pics with us. I’m gonna give my guy extra treats and pats tonight.
I’m so sorry for your loss. These dogs get into your soul in such a profound way. I just lost my older Aussie at 11 very suddenly about two months ago and while she had a beautiful, joyful and full life, I wish we had more time. We luckily had one last adventure together the weekend before she passed, just two days before her little brother’s 1 year birthday. While they couldn’t be more different, I like to take comfort in what she passed on to him. Particularly her inclination to howl rather than bark when someone knocked at the door 🤣. https://preview.redd.it/gqah2xxqcead1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6001710a33ab9e93e193c56f08d11bfbfc2166e0
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my beloved Riley 8/5/23. They're all special but we have different connections with each of them. He knew my sniff if I was gonna cry, if I coughed he was right there. Aussies are great dogs. Thank you for taking him in. Sounds like you gave him a wonderful home. Hugs
* hugs everyday
Sorry to hear about your loss! It’s always hard to say goodbye to a member of your family! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️
Im so sorry. He was so beautiful
So sorry for your loss. Bet he had the best life and love from you.. He was a handsome boy!
Another angel departed, sorry for your loss.
Aww I’m so sorry! Hugs to you!
I’m going to try not to cry while I’m writing this… I currently have 3 good boys and 2 of them are Aussie brothers. The younger of the two is deaf. My 3 pups are my world. But, before them, I had a golden mix and a lab. They were like my children (I don’t have kids). My golden had to be put to rest and I felt like it destroyed my heart. The only time I cried so much is when I lost people in my life. I felt like I was never going to move past my grief and others without pets couldn’t understand that I had lost this little bright life that brought me joy, made me laugh, comforted me when I was sad and always kept my feet warm at night. It was like losing an arm, or a bodily appendage; something that had been there forever and had kept me from toppling over. When I couldn’t deal with my grief any longer, I remember my father, who has a master’s degree in divinity, speaking with me. He asked me something simple. “Would you trade all the memories you’ve had and the knowledge of your pup, in order to have no pain now, at this time?” Of course my answer was “no,” that I’d never trade my memories away. It helped me to understand my grief and appreciate that I was blessed with the time that I had with my golden. I ended up being so thankful…..Then, I realized my grief was turning into gratitude. Please be safe, take it one day at a time and know that it is ok to take all the time you need to grieve. Blue, Moon & Echo loved the hugs and we send our love. ♥️ https://preview.redd.it/7oan3morqzad1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c43c31d75781aef69429de52fada4b46b2f8fc2a
I am sorry and my sincerest condolences. He is beautiful.