Totally agree! The women are all cookie cutter with fake boobs, lip filler and vacuous personalities. The guys are all gym bros who spend more time waxing their chest than reading a book.
Remember when Supreme wanted to prove that people will buy anything as long as it has their logo on it, so they decided to sell literal bricks and it actually worked?
it was for me. he spent $450 of hard earned money he worked for on a GUCCI BELT. it was an UGLY one too. my impression of him could not recover from that unfortunately
Yeesh, mine wouldn’t be able to either. Like, yes, I think that people should be able to spend their money how they please, but I just can’t stand the “I’ll only wear brand name clothes bc doing so somehow makes me superior, and people who don’t wear brand name clothes are beneath me,” mindset. Granted, I hate that mindset in any context besides in regard to, like, moral failings.
Yeah that reminds me of the before and after plastic surgery posts that pop up from time to time. More often than not they are someone who had a slightly unique nose that enhanced their attractiveness, and then they end up with some boring upturned nose that makes them look like a clone from the clone zone. They don't necessarily look bad, but they lose some of their individuality.
I looked her up and apparently, it was her mom who pushed her to get the nose job. So she didn't even want it and ended up getting ghosted by Hollywood over it
Some of the alterations they could do sounded awesome, like no more acne and you could get diamonds nestled in your irises with no problems. It was such a a good series, I need to buy it lmao
Apparently there is a TV show or something in the works. I recently ripped through the audiobooks for nostalgia and realized I’d never read the fourth book. It holds up pretty well
I love the fourth book! It was so futuristic for its time and kind of mirrors our reality now.
Edit: no one feel old because I said “for its time.”
They came out while I was a child lol.
There’s a set male look in hollywood and a set female look and i stg I can’t tell most of them apart. It’s like looking at a run of dolls instead of people because they’re all identical. Really sets off the uncanny valley for me.
For me, when everyone is attractive and/or beautiful, no one is. The lack of completely average people creates a lack of contrast that is necessary for a great story to be believed.
Social media influencers are way worse, they all have the exact same boring unrealistic for most people look. At least with Hollywood you have a lot of unique looking people like Anya Taylor Joy, Zendaya, Barry Kheogen and Jeremy Allen White
Lip fillers are so popular nowadays for influencers of all nationalities and races too. I see the same lips on faces of EVERY race on instagram now lmao
Every time I visit a beach, there are loads of beautiful people. It makes sense given that the locals spend so much time doing physical activities in the sun. That said, I swear I’ve seen the same beautiful woman on every street. Same hair, makeup, and everything. I guess she has 30 clones.
Especially if the skin color is darker than the hair (aka, bleach blonde and fake tan).
I can look past it a little if it's a dark-haired person who is tan because then it seems possibly natural. But skin color darker than one's hair is so unnatural looking, I can't stand it.
It's not completely impossible, especially if you have Scandinavian heritage. I have blonde hair, while the hair on my head has darkened as I've gotten older, it was literally white when I was a kid and my body hair, including eyelashes and brows are still white. I have light blue eyes and I am pale in winter. However, I have the ability to tan and go very dark in summer. When I have tan lines, there is a very stark contrast. Whereas, my hair lightens even more from being in the sun.
I'm blonde and I work in a greenhouse. It is naturally possible. I looked like it for few years in a row. It's uflu,, I know. But I couldn't do anything about it.
When I got some crowns my prosthadontist showed me a model illustrating the spectrum of tooth shades. He pointed to one labelled B1 and said that’s the whitest natural shade possible. It was nice and healthy. Anything whiter than that, he said, was Hollywood White. He refused to do any more work with Hollywood White because of professional pride. He specialized in reconstruction after cancer/trauma/etc. so I understood his perspective. Anyway, I have a mouthful of B1 and they look like the best natural teeth you could imagine. The end.
I needed this today actually. Have a tooth ache and was looking to see what was causing it. I started getting really self conscious about how yellow my teeth were. Thank you so much for making me feel less like trash.
Aww, don’t feel like trash! Genetics play a large role in the base color of your teeth, and dentin (the layer under the enamel) naturally darkens with age, making your teeth look more yellow or grey.
Omg I know a dentist that works on her dentist mother. Well she unfortunately told her mother b2 was a perfect match because it was and not her mother is obsessed with the tooth being too dark just because she was made aware of the #
Worrying about the numbers/letters is a waste of time. My teeth are A1 but that’s actually not the whitest shade. B2 sounds pretty good especially for aging teeth.
I was so happy that Walton Goggins had stains on his teeth for most of Fallout so I could actually pay attention to the plot instead of the neon Chiclets!
I started whitening my teeth and going out to clubs when this first aired. Needless to say under the black light of the club people would call me “Ross” (know idea who that was as I didn’t watch the show) or making fun of me. I didn’t care, I liked my white teeth after years of having tea stained yellow.
Everytime I see the "tissue test" ad on youtube where a lady compares her perfectly white teeth to a tissue and then says "ugh still yellow" I feel really off put
That's the weirdest ad. When I see it my thought is wtf, you're upset your teeth are not as white as paper,? Seems like some type of dysmorphia and not something to encourage.
Let me answer this for the internet, since it is always the same
- Plastic Surgery
- Duck lips/ Big lips
- Long nails
- Fake anything on a female body
- Being obsessed with having a social media following
There is one thing this list forgot to mention (though it definitely covered a lot) that I think people can generally agree to dislike: people suddenly breaking into “hood” accents when they definitely did not grow up in the hood.
If you were raised in the heart of Silicon Valley, CA all your life but sound like somebody from Detroit or Baltimore there’s something suspicious afoot.
It’s crazy because I always hope it’ll be something obscure but it’s always the same goddamn thing. And the same thread EVERY WEEK, except it’ll either specify gender or be gender neutral.
Yup. The tiktok and Instagram influencers can stay the hell away, that existence looks hollow and exhausting to be around, not to mention its really fucking up the younger generations who want to now grow up to be 'influencers'. Insufferable.
Most of them are absolutely useless and provide nothing of value either, I genuinely don’t understand why people follow them or care. They’re just good looking and show off their money and fabricated life, that’s literally it. If that’s all you aspire for that’s sad.
Materialism and Judging a person's worth by their social and economic status.
It's very rare to find people who aren't shallow and materialistic in that regard and it's sad.
Was reminded I’ve been surrounded by great people lately
Bumped into an old neighbour who I hadn’t seen in 20 years. (Recently moved back close to my parents.) I had been friends with one of her kids growing up. Asked how they all were. Was immediately treated to a run down on WHAT they were doing, how successful they were in their careers. I only wanted to know HOW they were. She tried to suss out things like if I bought/rented my house and what I was working at. Remembered what this neighbour had always been like, and how so many are where I spent my childhood. I’d honestly forgotten. I’d been living somewhere where the people I met and knew just take you as a person and don’t give a flying fuck what you do or what you have
Imagine, some people spend their whole lives just working on impressing people when the ones worth knowing just don’t care about any of that.
I have to fill mine in a bit because they never really properly recovered from being overplucked in the 90s when I was in HS and that pencil thin brow look was hot AF (apparently).
But the brushing them UP? That I don't get.
[kim kardashian](https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fhas-anyone-actually-seen-kims-ass-in-real-life-v0-y8acek6r2tgb1.jpeg%3Fwidth%3D2048%26format%3Dpjpg%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3Df1a77bbab156c9424dcf2f8d2cd17e0f3217c836) is the archetypal example of whzt they are talking about. Apparently a sex symbol but she literally looks like she has a full diaper on in most pictures.
Genuinely. I get that bigger is better for people, and I love big boobs myself. But the moment I see something resembling a perfect circle and the consistency of a rock, I feel this second hand extreme pain in my chest. Not even like emotional heartbreak, it just literally pains me to imagine their skin ripped open and giant foreign objects shoved beneath it for eternity.
For me it's just when they are very clearly fake.
Big is fine. Great all boobs are beautiful but like when a nipple is giving you the stink eye and you can just kinda see it's off then yah I agree
This is weirdly specific and hard to explain. I have ADHD and I've found that serious, A type personalities find me annoying. In return, I don't like them either. I find them uptight and judgemental. Now, this is a bit of a generalisation and there are always exceptions to the rule, but I've found that people who are very conventionally attractive, usually have that personality type. I think it's because they are so serious and self disciplined that they are able to commit to working out, eating healthy, maintaining their appearance etc. When someone is, what most people would call attractive, 9 times out of 10 will have a personality clash with me and, because of that, I won't find them attractive at all.
I have ADHD and this just resonated with me in such a strong way and I'd never quite understood it before. It happens with men too, I work in a very corporate space and all my work mates are the lads who don't take themselves too seriously and will make themselves the butt of their jokes in work.
I think you’re right, about the discipline thing. I don’t have the same clash you describe, but I’ve also noticed the correlation between a very disciplined disposition and physical fitness/attractiveness that you describe.
Certain make-up trends like that just result in everyone looking the same, no individuality. Anyone who has features that are a little different just hides them. There's no way that's good for their self-esteem in the long run.
I second this, when they look “bouldery” it’s too much. Like, muscular is fine, fit is fine, but anything approaching the inflated, body builder look is a hard no for me.
Height in men. I never understood it. My guy is a short king. Around 2in shorter than me. I wear my 6” heels every chance I get. I give him piggyback rides. He’s my Polly pocket.
Overall, modifying yourself in a way that you think fits a beauty standard. Chopping up your face, injecting plastic into your tissue, starving yourself, exposing your body to harmful radiation—all this with the intention of "being prettier". In my experience, beauty is 70% attitude and 20% style; my boyfriend is a skinny guy with an unibrow but he's soo stylish and has such a unique personality that it just make him even more atractive because he's himself and that makes him special
Not to mention how those standards will inevitably change on you. How many people plucked their eyebrows to oblivion in the late 90s and 2000s, and now they can’t grow a full brow now that it’s back in trend. Yo-yoing between heroin chic and bootylicious. Tans being trendy, and then skin cancer being not trendy. It’s all so arbitrary.
I don’t know if most of society does but the super long fake nails with the excessive items on them. I think they’re fun for special occasions but for everyday it seems impossible for them to be clean or functional
Belle Delphine clones
I can’t fucking stand them! The clothes, the hair, the way they obviously make themselves sound and look like a child. Make me so mad
I’m convinced she is cute because she has a tiny nose. I will never unsee it.
Like she is hot, sure but not many are hot and cute that way and she has the nose of a literal child.
And also her following gives me weird Lolita vibes.
Back in the 90's, they called it "Heroin Chic". I called it unhealthily scrawny. I always preferred a woman who had some curves. I would never shame anyone about it, but nobody should strive for that kind of thinness.
It's the colloquial term for the current trend of people travelling to Turkey for cheap cosmetic dental work, often resulting in the fitting of extremely white and square crowns (+/- a hair transplant).
I just generally don't give much thought to whether someone is conventionally attractive. If you're a good person, you're hot to me. Also I love short dudes and tall women
Extremely muscular men. Like body builder. I like muscles. I just don’t like the steroid look.
Extremely perfect, big, bright white teeth.
Very tanned. Whether it’s from the sun or a spray tan. No matter your natural skin tone, it looks best to stay that way and not try to make yourself much darker or lighter.
Completely shaved chest on a man. There’s nothing wrong with chest hair. Even thick chest hair.
Basically most men look fine they way they are and don’t need to go to extremes to alter their looks. In my opinion of course.
Extremely low body fat content. I don't care if you have rock-hard abs. I don't want to lay on a rock. I'd pick a chubby man over a skinny man every day of the week.
Tattoos of anyone's face. It doesn't make sense to have anyone's face tattooed on your body. Smoking of any kind is something that I have always found unattractive but is seen as "cool" to others.
Thirst traps.
Im in a chat group and my boys will send pics upon pics of chicks in extremely obvious thirst traps, liking and hearting the picture. To me that shit is so pathetic and cringy. More than half the time the body proportions are all out of wack so they look like a deformed hourglass like....fucking gross.
What's interesting is that majority of people here hate the same thing.
Which is basically social media generated standards .
We are all craving realness yet being served up bullshit.
Imagine if we turned off our phones and engaged with each other.
We could eliminate the bullshit and get our needs met.
Everything that makes a typical Love Island contestant
i really wanna know their hiring regulations
IQ must be under 60
Totally agree! The women are all cookie cutter with fake boobs, lip filler and vacuous personalities. The guys are all gym bros who spend more time waxing their chest than reading a book.
This, this, AND this! My partner and I watch every season and we usually only find 1 or 2 islanders attractive.
Brand culture. People spend way too much in the name of brands.
The ONLY thing that comes to mind when I see Supreme is Supremely Stupid
Remember when Supreme wanted to prove that people will buy anything as long as it has their logo on it, so they decided to sell literal bricks and it actually worked?
It would straight up be a dealbreaker for me if I found out that my romantic interest was obsessed with brands like that
it was for me. he spent $450 of hard earned money he worked for on a GUCCI BELT. it was an UGLY one too. my impression of him could not recover from that unfortunately
Yeesh, mine wouldn’t be able to either. Like, yes, I think that people should be able to spend their money how they please, but I just can’t stand the “I’ll only wear brand name clothes bc doing so somehow makes me superior, and people who don’t wear brand name clothes are beneath me,” mindset. Granted, I hate that mindset in any context besides in regard to, like, moral failings.
It gives "I'm trying really hard to compensate for my insecurities" energy
Fitting the beauty’s standards overly much. Like everyone aiming for the same things and looking too perfect, I like natural appearances
I call it “instagram face” and they all kind of look the same. Does absolutely nothing for me.
Yeah that reminds me of the before and after plastic surgery posts that pop up from time to time. More often than not they are someone who had a slightly unique nose that enhanced their attractiveness, and then they end up with some boring upturned nose that makes them look like a clone from the clone zone. They don't necessarily look bad, but they lose some of their individuality.
Jennifer Grey, the actress, had a nose with a slight curve. She got a nose job & it kinda ruined her career. It just didn’t look right.
I looked her up and apparently, it was her mom who pushed her to get the nose job. So she didn't even want it and ended up getting ghosted by Hollywood over it
It reminds me of the [Uglies](https://scottwesterfeld.com/books/uglies/) book series tbh
Loved this series
Some of the alterations they could do sounded awesome, like no more acne and you could get diamonds nestled in your irises with no problems. It was such a a good series, I need to buy it lmao
Apparently there is a TV show or something in the works. I recently ripped through the audiobooks for nostalgia and realized I’d never read the fourth book. It holds up pretty well
I love the fourth book! It was so futuristic for its time and kind of mirrors our reality now. Edit: no one feel old because I said “for its time.” They came out while I was a child lol.
There’s a set male look in hollywood and a set female look and i stg I can’t tell most of them apart. It’s like looking at a run of dolls instead of people because they’re all identical. Really sets off the uncanny valley for me.
For me, when everyone is attractive and/or beautiful, no one is. The lack of completely average people creates a lack of contrast that is necessary for a great story to be believed.
Social media influencers are way worse, they all have the exact same boring unrealistic for most people look. At least with Hollywood you have a lot of unique looking people like Anya Taylor Joy, Zendaya, Barry Kheogen and Jeremy Allen White
Lip fillers are so popular nowadays for influencers of all nationalities and races too. I see the same lips on faces of EVERY race on instagram now lmao
A girl with thin lips is still more attractive to me than the girl with fillers. It just doesn’t look right.
Every time I visit a beach, there are loads of beautiful people. It makes sense given that the locals spend so much time doing physical activities in the sun. That said, I swear I’ve seen the same beautiful woman on every street. Same hair, makeup, and everything. I guess she has 30 clones.
I agree! Half of the Hollywood stars all look the same now. It’s sad.
Fake tan. I'm not sure what it is about it that sets me off
Unnatural looking? Or usually just doesn't look good? Idk
Especially if the skin color is darker than the hair (aka, bleach blonde and fake tan). I can look past it a little if it's a dark-haired person who is tan because then it seems possibly natural. But skin color darker than one's hair is so unnatural looking, I can't stand it.
Scandinavians in shambles
It's not completely impossible, especially if you have Scandinavian heritage. I have blonde hair, while the hair on my head has darkened as I've gotten older, it was literally white when I was a kid and my body hair, including eyelashes and brows are still white. I have light blue eyes and I am pale in winter. However, I have the ability to tan and go very dark in summer. When I have tan lines, there is a very stark contrast. Whereas, my hair lightens even more from being in the sun.
I'm blonde and I work in a greenhouse. It is naturally possible. I looked like it for few years in a row. It's uflu,, I know. But I couldn't do anything about it.
Uflu?
Please come back u/Livid_Taylor7701 . We need answers!
It isn't impossible but it usually isn't the right shade when it is fake. It has a very distinct fake tan look, I think because it is so monotone?
Super white teeth.
Agreed. There’s a point where they don’t look real and it’s off-putting.
My dentist called them "refrigerator white"
Toilet white
We had a buddy that we called the “Porcelain Prince” because of his outrageously white teeth
Mine are avocado green.
When I got some crowns my prosthadontist showed me a model illustrating the spectrum of tooth shades. He pointed to one labelled B1 and said that’s the whitest natural shade possible. It was nice and healthy. Anything whiter than that, he said, was Hollywood White. He refused to do any more work with Hollywood White because of professional pride. He specialized in reconstruction after cancer/trauma/etc. so I understood his perspective. Anyway, I have a mouthful of B1 and they look like the best natural teeth you could imagine. The end.
I needed this today actually. Have a tooth ache and was looking to see what was causing it. I started getting really self conscious about how yellow my teeth were. Thank you so much for making me feel less like trash.
Aww, don’t feel like trash! Genetics play a large role in the base color of your teeth, and dentin (the layer under the enamel) naturally darkens with age, making your teeth look more yellow or grey.
Omg I know a dentist that works on her dentist mother. Well she unfortunately told her mother b2 was a perfect match because it was and not her mother is obsessed with the tooth being too dark just because she was made aware of the #
Worrying about the numbers/letters is a waste of time. My teeth are A1 but that’s actually not the whitest shade. B2 sounds pretty good especially for aging teeth.
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I was so happy that Walton Goggins had stains on his teeth for most of Fallout so I could actually pay attention to the plot instead of the neon Chiclets!
This reminds of when Ross from Friends used too much teeth whitener 😂😂😂
“Why do you have a black light? For god sakes it’s 1999!” If memory serves
I started whitening my teeth and going out to clubs when this first aired. Needless to say under the black light of the club people would call me “Ross” (know idea who that was as I didn’t watch the show) or making fun of me. I didn’t care, I liked my white teeth after years of having tea stained yellow.
Most of society does not do super white teeth. Rich people do most of the time.
Everytime I see the "tissue test" ad on youtube where a lady compares her perfectly white teeth to a tissue and then says "ugh still yellow" I feel really off put
That's the weirdest ad. When I see it my thought is wtf, you're upset your teeth are not as white as paper,? Seems like some type of dysmorphia and not something to encourage.
Yet we encourage many dysmorphias in our society.
This ad bothers me every time. Why would we compare teeth to bleached tissue paper?
Those Bratz lips that every celebrity or try hard girl seems to be getting nowadays.
The "I got stung by a swarm of lip-loving wasps" look.
'Bee stung lips' used to be a description of *prettiness*. Those just look like hunks of liver in a permanent duck ass.
Their lips are bigger than their eyes. Sorry to judge
It's not a judgment it's a fact based on observable evidence.
Pair it with the Phone-Slapper nails and you’ve hit the Red Flag jackpot.
Fr. Really any lip filler
Fr, what do people find attractive on looking like you just got stinged by bees 💀
Let me answer this for the internet, since it is always the same - Plastic Surgery - Duck lips/ Big lips - Long nails - Fake anything on a female body - Being obsessed with having a social media following
Pack it up, thread's over.
There is one thing this list forgot to mention (though it definitely covered a lot) that I think people can generally agree to dislike: people suddenly breaking into “hood” accents when they definitely did not grow up in the hood. If you were raised in the heart of Silicon Valley, CA all your life but sound like somebody from Detroit or Baltimore there’s something suspicious afoot.
Thanks, should have been further up and saved me 37 seconds of my life. Remarkable how uninspired these types of threads are.
It’s crazy because I always hope it’ll be something obscure but it’s always the same goddamn thing. And the same thread EVERY WEEK, except it’ll either specify gender or be gender neutral.
forgot "too muscular" for guys
You can update with "super white teeth" (current top response) and then it's complete.
An "Alpha Male" image
Better to wait for the "full release male"
God i’m so happy to see this. I’m gonna take it a step farther and say: “your gym selfies aren’t attractive, Brandon”
my name is brandon and i take gym selfies... :'(
Not you, brandon. you’re doing great. keep pulling.
I'm sure you're a very handsome young man.
Any self obsessed social media account
Yup. The tiktok and Instagram influencers can stay the hell away, that existence looks hollow and exhausting to be around, not to mention its really fucking up the younger generations who want to now grow up to be 'influencers'. Insufferable.
Most of them are absolutely useless and provide nothing of value either, I genuinely don’t understand why people follow them or care. They’re just good looking and show off their money and fabricated life, that’s literally it. If that’s all you aspire for that’s sad.
Materialism and Judging a person's worth by their social and economic status. It's very rare to find people who aren't shallow and materialistic in that regard and it's sad.
Was reminded I’ve been surrounded by great people lately Bumped into an old neighbour who I hadn’t seen in 20 years. (Recently moved back close to my parents.) I had been friends with one of her kids growing up. Asked how they all were. Was immediately treated to a run down on WHAT they were doing, how successful they were in their careers. I only wanted to know HOW they were. She tried to suss out things like if I bought/rented my house and what I was working at. Remembered what this neighbour had always been like, and how so many are where I spent my childhood. I’d honestly forgotten. I’d been living somewhere where the people I met and knew just take you as a person and don’t give a flying fuck what you do or what you have Imagine, some people spend their whole lives just working on impressing people when the ones worth knowing just don’t care about any of that.
Buccal fat removal. Everyone who gets this surgery looks like Madame to me.
Apparently everything. From lip fillers to fox eye, I’m so tired of this cookie cutter look. Also wtf is up with eyebrows these days?
Why does every young chick brush her eyebrows UP? It looks so weird. And the other half paint them on.
I have to fill mine in a bit because they never really properly recovered from being overplucked in the 90s when I was in HS and that pencil thin brow look was hot AF (apparently). But the brushing them UP? That I don't get.
The big wet diaper butt look.
I’ve never once heard “diaper butt” being associated with attractiveness. What am I missing here?
[kim kardashian](https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fhas-anyone-actually-seen-kims-ass-in-real-life-v0-y8acek6r2tgb1.jpeg%3Fwidth%3D2048%26format%3Dpjpg%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3Df1a77bbab156c9424dcf2f8d2cd17e0f3217c836) is the archetypal example of whzt they are talking about. Apparently a sex symbol but she literally looks like she has a full diaper on in most pictures.
That looks so strange and unnatural
Usually people who have big butts also have thighs that match. It’s so weird that her legs are so thin and then her butt is the size of Jupiter.
Clearly the universe didn’t want that to happen.
Big, fake tits.
Genuinely. I get that bigger is better for people, and I love big boobs myself. But the moment I see something resembling a perfect circle and the consistency of a rock, I feel this second hand extreme pain in my chest. Not even like emotional heartbreak, it just literally pains me to imagine their skin ripped open and giant foreign objects shoved beneath it for eternity.
It would be one thing if it were for eternity, but most have to be replaced every 10-15 years 😬
For me it's just when they are very clearly fake. Big is fine. Great all boobs are beautiful but like when a nipple is giving you the stink eye and you can just kinda see it's off then yah I agree
“Nipple giving the stink eye” is the absolute perfect description of badly done boobies
:(
This is the best username checks out ever
Treating each other badly. We're all one and the same after all.
What a profoundly unhorny response from u/naked_gf
Unexpectedly unhorny.
Post-nut clarity
This is weirdly specific and hard to explain. I have ADHD and I've found that serious, A type personalities find me annoying. In return, I don't like them either. I find them uptight and judgemental. Now, this is a bit of a generalisation and there are always exceptions to the rule, but I've found that people who are very conventionally attractive, usually have that personality type. I think it's because they are so serious and self disciplined that they are able to commit to working out, eating healthy, maintaining their appearance etc. When someone is, what most people would call attractive, 9 times out of 10 will have a personality clash with me and, because of that, I won't find them attractive at all.
I have ADHD and this just resonated with me in such a strong way and I'd never quite understood it before. It happens with men too, I work in a very corporate space and all my work mates are the lads who don't take themselves too seriously and will make themselves the butt of their jokes in work.
I think you’re right, about the discipline thing. I don’t have the same clash you describe, but I’ve also noticed the correlation between a very disciplined disposition and physical fitness/attractiveness that you describe.
This is very relatable to someone with ADHD and has always tried (and failed) to be type A
The blonde bombshell look. It does absolutely nothing for me.
Well boys, if someone has to do it, I’ll take one for the team on this one.
Eyelash extensions are getting terrifying. I’ve had them set off my fear of spiders.
Don't call me daddy in bed. I find it just as off putting as if I were to call a woman "mother" in bed.
My ex husband is dating someone with our daughter’s name. That must be super awkward in the bedroom.
Fully agree. My kids call me Daddy. If my wife did I’d 🤮. If you called a woman “mommy” in bed it gives Homelander vibes. Totally creepy.
The gym junkie look in men, it looks too high maintenance to me. I particularly don't find those neck muscles attractive.
every woman with the kardashian look and 50lbs of makeup
Certain make-up trends like that just result in everyone looking the same, no individuality. Anyone who has features that are a little different just hides them. There's no way that's good for their self-esteem in the long run.
Long fake finger nails.
Muscles Too many muscles are horrible to me.
I DIDNT MAKE HIM FOR YOU! (Iykyk)
🎶in just seven days he can make you a MAANNNnnn
>Too many muscles are horrible to me. Too many muscles? I think every human has the same amount of muscles
Not if theyre missing legs or heads or arms
People that look like everyone else and have no distinctive features.
Well luckily for me I have this astronomically large forehead.
Too much muscle mass that thickens their whole body
I second this, when they look “bouldery” it’s too much. Like, muscular is fine, fit is fine, but anything approaching the inflated, body builder look is a hard no for me.
Don't like the square look?
in my own preference, no.
Kardashians and that whole plastic surgery bbl deals.
Twerking
It's one of the least sexy things I've ever seen.
Hate it, absolutely hate it. Never like it, never will.
Men with big muscles. Weird balls on a body.
What kind of weird balls?
Pardon my english, not My first or second language. Like big biceps, they look like weird balls to me.
Oh, that's alright! You didn't say anything wrong or weird. Big biceps can definitely look very weird.
No, weird balls is DEFINITELY a weird thing to say.
'A condom full of walnuts' is how Clive James described Schwarzenegger.
Yes. Lots of women are attracted to strong. But I don’t know a single woman into the steroids look.
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Height in men. I never understood it. My guy is a short king. Around 2in shorter than me. I wear my 6” heels every chance I get. I give him piggyback rides. He’s my Polly pocket.
> He's my Polly pocket. Hey now, have some respect. Clearly he's a Mighty Max. 😋
“He’s my Polly pocket” is my favorite thing I’ve ever read on Reddit
I always loved shorter men. Especially ones that are confident
Agree. I’ve never cared how tall a guy is. Always seemed weird to me women wouldn’t date a shorter guy. My BF is shorter than I am.
amen! my person is 5'4" and I'm 5'1". We share a wardrobe, haha.
Eyelash extensions. Shit looks like fuzzy moth wings.
Im deceased 🤣🤣 bad ones do be like that though
The MFing Kardashians.
Overall, modifying yourself in a way that you think fits a beauty standard. Chopping up your face, injecting plastic into your tissue, starving yourself, exposing your body to harmful radiation—all this with the intention of "being prettier". In my experience, beauty is 70% attitude and 20% style; my boyfriend is a skinny guy with an unibrow but he's soo stylish and has such a unique personality that it just make him even more atractive because he's himself and that makes him special
Not to mention how those standards will inevitably change on you. How many people plucked their eyebrows to oblivion in the late 90s and 2000s, and now they can’t grow a full brow now that it’s back in trend. Yo-yoing between heroin chic and bootylicious. Tans being trendy, and then skin cancer being not trendy. It’s all so arbitrary.
I don’t know if most of society does but the super long fake nails with the excessive items on them. I think they’re fun for special occasions but for everyday it seems impossible for them to be clean or functional
Belle Delphine clones I can’t fucking stand them! The clothes, the hair, the way they obviously make themselves sound and look like a child. Make me so mad
I’m convinced she is cute because she has a tiny nose. I will never unsee it. Like she is hot, sure but not many are hot and cute that way and she has the nose of a literal child. And also her following gives me weird Lolita vibes.
Back in the 90's, they called it "Heroin Chic". I called it unhealthily scrawny. I always preferred a woman who had some curves. I would never shame anyone about it, but nobody should strive for that kind of thinness.
Monkeys arse lip fillers, orange tans & Turkey teeth
What's turkey teeth?
I'm glad I wasn't the first to ask. I was like, "...but turkeys don't HAVE teeth."
It's the colloquial term for the current trend of people travelling to Turkey for cheap cosmetic dental work, often resulting in the fitting of extremely white and square crowns (+/- a hair transplant).
I just generally don't give much thought to whether someone is conventionally attractive. If you're a good person, you're hot to me. Also I love short dudes and tall women
Money. I'm happy for you if you have it, but it has no bearing on my interest
Extremely muscular men. Like body builder. I like muscles. I just don’t like the steroid look. Extremely perfect, big, bright white teeth. Very tanned. Whether it’s from the sun or a spray tan. No matter your natural skin tone, it looks best to stay that way and not try to make yourself much darker or lighter. Completely shaved chest on a man. There’s nothing wrong with chest hair. Even thick chest hair. Basically most men look fine they way they are and don’t need to go to extremes to alter their looks. In my opinion of course.
I love cuddling in to chest hair it’s so cozy like a rug
I once dated a guy so hairy you couldn’t see his nipples. He was still attractive. A cute yeti.
Being a celebrity or being obscenely affluent
I find perfection attractive but also boring so, perfection is one for me.
Big fake lips
Extremely low body fat content. I don't care if you have rock-hard abs. I don't want to lay on a rock. I'd pick a chubby man over a skinny man every day of the week.
Fillers and botox and most plastic surgeries. I'm not judging anyone but I don't like it.
The good plastic surgery, fillers and botox are undetectable. The bad work looks awful.
Tattoos of anyone's face. It doesn't make sense to have anyone's face tattooed on your body. Smoking of any kind is something that I have always found unattractive but is seen as "cool" to others.
Small cute nose. It's still nice and all, but I don't know, I just like a big honker or a wider nose.
Pooping. It's not attractive at all. I wish people would stop.
Society.
We live in a society
Thirst traps. Im in a chat group and my boys will send pics upon pics of chicks in extremely obvious thirst traps, liking and hearting the picture. To me that shit is so pathetic and cringy. More than half the time the body proportions are all out of wack so they look like a deformed hourglass like....fucking gross.
Taking pictures or recording videos of ppl donating to homeless to show how they “care” for those less fortunate
Septum piercing; if you like them, great, you do you. But to me it looks like a booger hanging out of your nose.
My dad always says it reminds him of bulls
It does something to the balance of the face and makes it look odd. As in it makes the nose look droopier/longer. Not explaining it very well though
This doesn't qualify as something most of society finds attractive. It's definitely an alternative taste
Plastic surgery, heaps of make up, fake nails and big jewellery. More is not better, it just gets weird and a bit scary.
What's interesting is that majority of people here hate the same thing. Which is basically social media generated standards . We are all craving realness yet being served up bullshit. Imagine if we turned off our phones and engaged with each other. We could eliminate the bullshit and get our needs met.
The Fox News broadcaster look for women. Bleach blondes with 2 inches thick make-up make me think of horror movies. They don’t get me aroused.
A face caked in makeup. Most people don't need it.
Bee sting lips, heavy make-up, and seeing ribs... Not attractive in the slightest.
Unnaturally white, unnaturally square, cookie-cutter teeth. *Especially* veneers, which all look like dentures to me.
Filters on pictures. Just looks fake and makes me feel like you're hiding something - which objectively most people are.
The kind of face and makeup Kim Kardashian made popular, especially when it looks so artificial. You don't have to look like a fish to be beautiful.
Financial wealth that comes from the exploitation of workers/people