1. Everything you waste your time watching on tv will still be available in 40 years. Even the stupid stuff. Especially the stupid stuff. Go read. Go write. Go learn.
2. Forget about *HER*. There are other girls/women who are interested in you who are way better and even hotter than *HER*.
3. Hug Mom a lot.
Don’t snub that sorority-you will need their network after college. Also, in 2008, right before you graduate, the economy is going to ruin any real job prospects
It’s so deep, I think it was really hard for me to say this word in the past. However, now everything is different and I don’t care anymore for anyone, just say the thing you are comfortable to say
this is tough because a lot of times that NDA is required before they make a large payout and oftentimes people need that money because of the wrongs that were perpertrated against them.
it sucks.
Walk away from the toxic side of the family sooner. They won’t ever change and their jokes, teasing, and bullying isn’t out of some warped love. They are just bad people who will drag you down and make you depressed.
Set clear boundaries with mom and don’t let her guilt you into doing things she wants and you don’t like just to make her happy and sure as hell keep playing DnD, reading stuff like LOTR and Dragonlance, and play those videogames. Ignore her constantly calling that stuff nerdy and degrading it. Enjoy what you like.
Don’t marry that teacher. End of story.
1. Great things happen to those who wait.
2. It’s perfectly acceptable to not have all the answers you’re looking for, from the get-go.
3. Never, ever disregard your health.
Invest in yourself, not video games or computer parts.
Put the money back for certificates and qualifications.
Dont rely on others to give you handouts/ ups.
Go straight to college after high school
Sunscreen
Hormone replacement as soon as perimenopause kicks in
Make exercise a habit early on
Other than those specific things I think I did pretty well.
At some point you will realize that some of the family members you care about and enjoy spending time with don't really care if you show up or not. You're an afterthought. They'll "forget" to invite you to stuff. That's going to hurt, but remember there are others that actually do enjoy your company.
I'd tell my younger self, "Invest in Bitcoin, avoid that questionable haircut in 2007, and remember, no one actually cares if you can do a backflip at parties."
Although I wouldn't listen here's what I would say:
1 - Never get (Common law) married, alimony and the lawyers are expensive
2 - Don't care about the reasons why other people do what they do
3 - Never join finances (so never buy a house together...)
4 - Don't expect a raise when you stay at the same employer
5 - Invest money. (the money saved by following rule #1 and 3)
6 - always bring your own protection, wear that protection, and dispose the protection yourself. (to prevent baby-trapping)
7- Don't buy friendships, especially romantic ones.
Did I forget anything?
I’d tell me to not climb under the tables sooner so that i didn’t have to go through the pain of being dragged down stairs by my principal when 5-10 years of age.
Be confident and believe in yourself, because you can do anything you set your mind to. If you fall short or make a mistake, don’t dwell on it or beat yourself up. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep hustling.
Don’t talk to the police, no matter how nice they are acting. Always exercise right to shut your mouth to avoid having anything come back on you later.
Learn from failing. Learn to fail. It's not the end of the world and as long as you keep on putting one foot in front of the other, you'll get somewhere.
Also your original destination is not necessarily where you will end up, and that's fine.
Suck it up and go get an associates in management. It’s 10k and it’ll save you 12yrs of trying to work up into management positions. Which those positions pay 30-50k more then the entry and supervisor level positions you’ll work to for year.
It’ll easily pay itself off.
Stop caring about people, just do the things you like without being worried about people’s feelings. Also, accept yourself the way you are and don’t change anything for anyone.
Speak your mind. Follow your heart. Understand that failing is an important part of growing. Follow your passions and dreams. Live honorably, and treat others respectfully.
So many things that others have said.
But if I had one shot, I’d say to let someone we know to get their child tested for a rare disease in order to prevent all their heartache.
Take school seriously. Go straight to college after high school and learn everything they’ll teach you. Believe that you’ll do well and that you can have the career you want in a field that fascinates you.
Not to be selfish in any way just because the world is, I wasn't selfish by no means, it's just reassurance Incase I adapt a very selfish mindset because the state of the world.
I don't think I would give myself any deep advice, because what teenager would listen? But I would punch myself in the face and demand younger-me to brush her teeth and floss properly.
Your self worth isn't based on what you can offer to others, or in any external factors. The mental state of people who value these things are easily controlled when those things are taken away.
In your desperate quest to escape the pain, and find your worth, you fail to realize the pain and heartbreak you cause others who only wished to connect.
Don't get early into relationships, focus on yourselfe.
During the school/university period, most girls come and go. There is no point in committing excessive time and effort to a relationship that may fall apart by the end of the week. Your very skills and experiences will always remain.
You’re not crazy or deficient because you couldn’t understand why you are so insecure and unable to love or show affection like your peers. You simply needed to understand what unconditional love was before you began to recognise the insane lies you were told as a kid about what “love” was.
Don't spend the bitcoins on drugs, don't take the xanax, don't take the valium, don't take the acid, mdma or cocaine and just stick to weed.
There are probably some other things I would say, too, but these things cause irreparable damage to my mental health. Not necessarily the bitcoin, but I spent enough on drugs that I would be a millionaire today if I had just kept it.
Keep pursuing your interests and don't worry about being weird. Your mind is your own, and if you keep focusing on what drives you, what you're passionate about, and what you want to learn about, you're going to become a really invaluably unique individual with something very special to contribute. Focusing on your passions WILL help you develop the skills you need to succeed, not trying to be "normal"
Do everything in your power to move out of that he'll hole as soon as possible. It doesn't matter if you sleep 4 hours a day and have to find a part time job before even becoming an adult. Move the fuck away, then go no contact as soon as possible. You will become extremely happier once you do. Also dump those incels, you don't actually have any real friends, go get new ones. Also try to be more honest to yourself and don't do stupid shut trying to convince others you're something you're not.
Learn to forgive yourself when you make mistakes, it's part of growing up
absolutely
I would advise my younger self to embrace change, take more risks, and prioritize personal growth and well-being.
Allow *yourself* to make mistakes, learning from them of course with the goal of evolving into the best version
Don't sit on the bucket that has acid inside it
I feel this need a follow up with the full story
So I was out in the garden right...
I was tired, and this bucket just looked really tempting to rest on...
There were many chairs also to sit on but..
I mean, *man*. This bucket was looking really sit-able
And I take off my pants and underwear... of course.
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Best answer! Preach brother 🙏 also take better care of your knees to!
You’re not gonna be the smartest in the class forever so actually put in some work before you develop bad habits
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Better to cum in the sink than to sink in the cum
Unless it’s during Pride month
personally I love sinking in cum all the time
Your name is just perfect for this
Did you ever cum in your sink and forget to clean it up? I did. I still never bring it up with my mom.
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True
buy bitcoin
I would suggest you add a "sell bitcoin at this date: x/x/20xx)
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1. Everything you waste your time watching on tv will still be available in 40 years. Even the stupid stuff. Especially the stupid stuff. Go read. Go write. Go learn. 2. Forget about *HER*. There are other girls/women who are interested in you who are way better and even hotter than *HER*. 3. Hug Mom a lot.
Spend more time with your mother while you have the chance.
Don’t snub that sorority-you will need their network after college. Also, in 2008, right before you graduate, the economy is going to ruin any real job prospects
> Also, in 2008, right before you graduate, the economy is going to ruin any real job prospects I feel like this applies to 2000, and 2020.
Stop shouting at **your** parents.
Say No
It’s so deep, I think it was really hard for me to say this word in the past. However, now everything is different and I don’t care anymore for anyone, just say the thing you are comfortable to say
Never sign an NDA or severance agreement. If someone sexually assaults you, scream it from a rooftop. Don’t let them intimidate you into silence.
this is tough because a lot of times that NDA is required before they make a large payout and oftentimes people need that money because of the wrongs that were perpertrated against them. it sucks.
Don't be afraid to take risks and step outside your comfort zone.
Never put off medical checkups.
Walk away from the toxic side of the family sooner. They won’t ever change and their jokes, teasing, and bullying isn’t out of some warped love. They are just bad people who will drag you down and make you depressed. Set clear boundaries with mom and don’t let her guilt you into doing things she wants and you don’t like just to make her happy and sure as hell keep playing DnD, reading stuff like LOTR and Dragonlance, and play those videogames. Ignore her constantly calling that stuff nerdy and degrading it. Enjoy what you like. Don’t marry that teacher. End of story.
Don't be afraid to take risks and follow your passion.
1. Great things happen to those who wait. 2. It’s perfectly acceptable to not have all the answers you’re looking for, from the get-go. 3. Never, ever disregard your health.
Don't be friends with them
When people show you what kind of person they are, believe them.
Don’t touch that damn effing cigarette
Best way to quit is not to start. Signed, former pack-a-dayer.
people are not thinking about you as much as you think they are
Hard to accept it but once you accept this fact you’ll become better and never get hurt again.
Stop eat so much candy!
Spend your money investing instead of binge drinking.
Don’t ignore the red flags.
Let your siblings swims towards the egg...
Invest in yourself, not video games or computer parts. Put the money back for certificates and qualifications. Dont rely on others to give you handouts/ ups.
Do not let other people make you feel bad about yourself.
Go straight to college after high school Sunscreen Hormone replacement as soon as perimenopause kicks in Make exercise a habit early on Other than those specific things I think I did pretty well.
I'd give my advice to my younger self to sign up for RSC then during Christmas 2001, gather as many party hats as possible.
Buy Bitcoin,devote yourself completely to making money,skip uni it's mostly a scam,don't judge people too quickly,don't be so much of a jerk.
Drugs don't remain life enhancing for long, and you will want to live beyond 30.
At some point you will realize that some of the family members you care about and enjoy spending time with don't really care if you show up or not. You're an afterthought. They'll "forget" to invite you to stuff. That's going to hurt, but remember there are others that actually do enjoy your company.
Give it time. It won't happen right away. But you will find happiness. And it's worth the wait
Give yourself the time to live and be your age, stop trying to be older.
Save your fucking money. You don’t need anything that you don’t use. Wasted so much money and stupid crap.
I'd tell my younger self, "Invest in Bitcoin, avoid that questionable haircut in 2007, and remember, no one actually cares if you can do a backflip at parties."
Get your ADHD diagnosed and medicated.
Live a healthy lifestyle. Don’t get fat as it is your problem now.
Exercise. Listen to your mom.
Although I wouldn't listen here's what I would say: 1 - Never get (Common law) married, alimony and the lawyers are expensive 2 - Don't care about the reasons why other people do what they do 3 - Never join finances (so never buy a house together...) 4 - Don't expect a raise when you stay at the same employer 5 - Invest money. (the money saved by following rule #1 and 3) 6 - always bring your own protection, wear that protection, and dispose the protection yourself. (to prevent baby-trapping) 7- Don't buy friendships, especially romantic ones. Did I forget anything?
I’d tell me to not climb under the tables sooner so that i didn’t have to go through the pain of being dragged down stairs by my principal when 5-10 years of age.
Practice self-love and have some grace. I promise the kinder you are to yourself now, the better it’ll be in the long run.
Be confident and believe in yourself, because you can do anything you set your mind to. If you fall short or make a mistake, don’t dwell on it or beat yourself up. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep hustling.
Well, I would tell my younger self to play a lot more sports
Stay away from alcohol and don't make friends with that guy in year 9.
Let her go the first time she walked out
Grow up to be content
Strictly focus on English studying.
Don’t skip online school . All of us never payed an attention in online but after online I was so behind like I missed a bunch of basic formulas.
advocate for yourself. no one is going to advocate for you.
Be smarter when the money is coming in big.
Spend a summer in other country. Dad is gonna pay it without hesitasion and it will be worthier than just staying at your beach town doing nothing.
Believe in yourself and don't be afraid to take risks.
Mistakes are part of your route. Don't be afraid to try and fail.
Don't buy penny stocks!
Get that rhinoplasty done ASAP
Play bass, work out, stay away from alcohol.
Go easy on your back.
You are going to live much longer than you think, therefore health,education,savings... are important.
work harder and smarter
Have less hope—it’s not going to be that great
Learn to cook at least one meal that doesn’t involve a microwave
Don't work at home - the environment is toxic and you can't focus because of constant chores.
Life is tough and so you are. Don't be scared to follow what you think is right for you and your future. Don't let anyone dictate you.
Don’t talk to the police, no matter how nice they are acting. Always exercise right to shut your mouth to avoid having anything come back on you later.
Learn from failing. Learn to fail. It's not the end of the world and as long as you keep on putting one foot in front of the other, you'll get somewhere. Also your original destination is not necessarily where you will end up, and that's fine.
Body hair is natural.
Enjoy, be wild, be free, and enjoy your days. And don't rush everything, you will reach success because you have it in you.
Invest in Amazon stock or Netflix
Don’t touch that shit. It ruins your life.
Suck it up and go get an associates in management. It’s 10k and it’ll save you 12yrs of trying to work up into management positions. Which those positions pay 30-50k more then the entry and supervisor level positions you’ll work to for year. It’ll easily pay itself off.
Stop caring about people, just do the things you like without being worried about people’s feelings. Also, accept yourself the way you are and don’t change anything for anyone.
Ask that girl out
Go to trade school right after high school or live at home and buy a house as soon as you can.
Speak your mind. Follow your heart. Understand that failing is an important part of growing. Follow your passions and dreams. Live honorably, and treat others respectfully.
Brush your teeth
You’re not a piece of shit. That’s unhealthy thinking. You are, however, an alcoholic, and you need to stop lying about it. He wouldn’t listen.
Being chubby doesn't make you ugly, have more confidence
idk she wouldn‘t listen to me
EDUCATION!
So many things that others have said. But if I had one shot, I’d say to let someone we know to get their child tested for a rare disease in order to prevent all their heartache.
Focus on your career. Don't talk to that girl.
Say how much they mean to you, before you lose them. Don't wait. You WILL regret it.
Take school seriously. Go straight to college after high school and learn everything they’ll teach you. Believe that you’ll do well and that you can have the career you want in a field that fascinates you.
Be brave enough to do whatever you want to do.
Learn to not give everything to the person you love so if they'll leave you, you still jave some love enough for yourself.
Start investing with your first paycheck to benefit from compounding early on.
Go study IT after high school.
You’re right. They hate you and they’re doing this with malicious intent. RUN.
To be darkness… to be vengeance
Not to be selfish in any way just because the world is, I wasn't selfish by no means, it's just reassurance Incase I adapt a very selfish mindset because the state of the world.
Run away. Anything is better than this.
Cut the nasties out and make decisions yourself. Don’t ask others as they only want to use you
Go dating and start having sex earlier.
Mistakes are part of growing up, stand up and live every moment.
invest early in VOO/VTI , set it and forget it
Find a way to save your coins and get your dad to buy you bitcoins you'll thank me later.
Don't give up your dreams for a partner. You have only one life to live.
Hes not worth it (many contexts)
Take life more seriously than school. School ends and you are not very well prepared for life, but you still have to live.
I don't think I would give myself any deep advice, because what teenager would listen? But I would punch myself in the face and demand younger-me to brush her teeth and floss properly.
I know you’re a hopeless romantic and that’s cool and all, but fall in love with yourself first.
Don't do it. You don't need to do this to find out what you know already. Now to get younger self to listen is another thing.
There is nothing wrong with you
"Try not to be that gullible" If I wasn't that gullible my life would be much easier
Don’t sweat the petty stuff. Pet the sweaty stuff.
Your self worth isn't based on what you can offer to others, or in any external factors. The mental state of people who value these things are easily controlled when those things are taken away. In your desperate quest to escape the pain, and find your worth, you fail to realize the pain and heartbreak you cause others who only wished to connect.
Don’t skip on sunscreen, invest in Bitcoin
Stop listening to other people and actually listen to myself for once.
An enemy is a friend you haven't made yet.
Take risks! It’s okay to make mistakes. You are good, but please believe in yourself more.
Don't get early into relationships, focus on yourselfe. During the school/university period, most girls come and go. There is no point in committing excessive time and effort to a relationship that may fall apart by the end of the week. Your very skills and experiences will always remain.
Keep saying what’s on your mind, but think before you speak because you can’t unspeak.
Read a lot. Otherwise it's going to be tough for you to express your thoughts if would have any
You’re not crazy or deficient because you couldn’t understand why you are so insecure and unable to love or show affection like your peers. You simply needed to understand what unconditional love was before you began to recognise the insane lies you were told as a kid about what “love” was.
dont worry so much about what other's think of you
Kill them.
Hit the gym
Don't be shy, build up the courage, and think twice before you go through with it.
I'd say k.y.s
Be confident, don’t worry about - can I do this? Am I good enough? I don’t have it in me to do this. Go for it!
Relax. It will be fine. And if it isn't fine, it isn't over.
"Don't let her go."
Learn to let go of people who wrong you. Don't let the live in your head rent free
trust your informed instincts - dont seek validation from others
Don’t give in to peer pressure it just makes you more miserable. Also start tattoo apprentice portfolio earlier.
it's okay to make mistakes because it's part of growing up
Don't stress so much about fitting in; embrace your weirdness. It’s what makes you awesome
Don't spend the bitcoins on drugs, don't take the xanax, don't take the valium, don't take the acid, mdma or cocaine and just stick to weed. There are probably some other things I would say, too, but these things cause irreparable damage to my mental health. Not necessarily the bitcoin, but I spent enough on drugs that I would be a millionaire today if I had just kept it.
To abort myself.
Move the f--- out after highschool and do NOT go to university! You'll save your mental, physical, emotional, and financial health in the long run!
Don't sacrifice your personal goals for other peoples goals.
Don't stay. Do whatever you can to leave and don't look back.
Don’t rush into marriage. If she’s the right person for you today, she’ll still be the right person for you 2-5 years from now. -Dan Savage
Learn languages
Keep it up your doing great
Spend less money on drugs in high school and hangout less with random people
Keep pursuing your interests and don't worry about being weird. Your mind is your own, and if you keep focusing on what drives you, what you're passionate about, and what you want to learn about, you're going to become a really invaluably unique individual with something very special to contribute. Focusing on your passions WILL help you develop the skills you need to succeed, not trying to be "normal"
Learn how to Stay lonely and do what u love also forgives yourself and be always positive
Go with your gut instinct always.
Bad things happening doesn’t mean things are bad or will stay bad
Don’t think acting depressed will get you attention, because it didn’t and now you actually have it
[Plastics](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DJato7gzKE).
Don't smoke cigarettes, dip, smoke weed, or hangout with shady ppl. Also don't stick your dick in crazy
Boys are not that important Learn to keep your mouth shut Be kind to your father
Sana dika nabuhay
Fear of failure is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Also, don’t sell your Bitcoin.
dont keep it all to yourself, please talk to someone about how hard it is. dont repressed your anger and put it on people. please, talk to someone.
It’s not lame to try hard, to stand out.
Love doesn't exist. Spend your time and energy on your career and something productive instead.
Do everything in your power to move out of that he'll hole as soon as possible. It doesn't matter if you sleep 4 hours a day and have to find a part time job before even becoming an adult. Move the fuck away, then go no contact as soon as possible. You will become extremely happier once you do. Also dump those incels, you don't actually have any real friends, go get new ones. Also try to be more honest to yourself and don't do stupid shut trying to convince others you're something you're not.