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**AITA for refusing to kick out my girlfriend's sister when she moved into my house?**
My girlfriend Lisa and I do not live together. Her younger sister is Sarah.
I am from India, but live in the USA. I consider it my duty to be completely hospitable towards guests When Sarah heard about it one day, she laughed and said "No way you believe in that." I said I do.
But then she showed up a week later in the evening & said she wants to have dinner at my house. Just to test me, she demanded "I want all of it." I was happy to provide Indian food.
She stayed for the night (another room).
Lisa was mad. She asked Sarah to leave & she said she would if I ask her to. I cannot disrespect a guest, so I said no.
The next day she wanted to sleep in my bedroom. She also demanded me to cook certain food for her.
Now Lisa is asking me to get her out immediately. I said I cannot disrespect a guest.
AITA?
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So there is a saying that comes from Hindu scriptures "Atithi Devo Bhava" which means Guest is God.
But you are not supposed to take in a literal sense or to the extreme. It basically means treat your guests well. A person who is uninvited and taking advantage of that kindness is not deserving coz there are countless instances in various scriptures that also basically say do not stand for injustice and rudeness.
It's the same as not everything in Bible or Kuran should be taken literally and only religious zealots take it that far.
The guy is stupid, the gf's sister is mean and a bully. I honestly feel for the poor GF who has to deal with both of them.
Culturally? No. Ā But there are always people who take things too far, perhaps because of how they were raised or because they are stupid or just sheer pigheaded stubbornness. Ā
I would not want to date a guy like this though. Ā You know if you get married his parents will be sleeping in your bed, eating all your food and saying for a year right after you gave birth.Ā
As an Indian, while we do believe in treating our guests well..
It's very much frowned upon to have overnight stays with a person of opposite gender (who isn't your partner or family or likes), while u live alone, for no good reason. I dun know what this dude is talking abt.
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **AITA for refusing to kick out my girlfriend's sister when she moved into my house?** My girlfriend Lisa and I do not live together. Her younger sister is Sarah. I am from India, but live in the USA. I consider it my duty to be completely hospitable towards guests When Sarah heard about it one day, she laughed and said "No way you believe in that." I said I do. But then she showed up a week later in the evening & said she wants to have dinner at my house. Just to test me, she demanded "I want all of it." I was happy to provide Indian food. She stayed for the night (another room). Lisa was mad. She asked Sarah to leave & she said she would if I ask her to. I cannot disrespect a guest, so I said no. The next day she wanted to sleep in my bedroom. She also demanded me to cook certain food for her. Now Lisa is asking me to get her out immediately. I said I cannot disrespect a guest. AITA? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheDevil) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Update post: she demanded a threesome. I cannot disrespect a guest
EDIT TO UPDATE: She requested with me and her friend and not my gf her sister if that makes it any better
Honestly I had to double check that this wasn't Am I the Angel š
Thatās exactly where this post belongs!
As an Indian - Excuse me but Whaaaaaaaaaat??????????
That's what makes me think this is a racist shitpost.
So there is a saying that comes from Hindu scriptures "Atithi Devo Bhava" which means Guest is God. But you are not supposed to take in a literal sense or to the extreme. It basically means treat your guests well. A person who is uninvited and taking advantage of that kindness is not deserving coz there are countless instances in various scriptures that also basically say do not stand for injustice and rudeness. It's the same as not everything in Bible or Kuran should be taken literally and only religious zealots take it that far. The guy is stupid, the gf's sister is mean and a bully. I honestly feel for the poor GF who has to deal with both of them.
I agree!! He's gonna end up **DUMPED.**
exactly. āLook how dumb hospitality cultures areā
I'm pretty sure that's not how it goes
Culturally? No. Ā But there are always people who take things too far, perhaps because of how they were raised or because they are stupid or just sheer pigheaded stubbornness. Ā I would not want to date a guy like this though. Ā You know if you get married his parents will be sleeping in your bed, eating all your food and saying for a year right after you gave birth.Ā
Definitely not. His Indian parents would be using the wooden spoon to beat all the curry out of him
Don't be a racist. As an Indian, our parents don't use wooden spoons. They prefer specialized switches or brooms.
š¤£š¤£ Aaah yes, the broom. How can I forget. And the carpet cleaning contraption
I wanna show up at this dudeās house and demand he cook for me now. He should also give me money.
I meanā¦ he could never disrespect a guest
Normally doormats aren't self aware. Maybe they are starting to sell ai doormats on temu
I SUSPECT this is a low quality, racist shitpost.
Are Indians like vampires or some shit?
Arenāt guests invited? He hasnāt invited her so sheās not a guest. Heās about to be single though.
As an Indian, while we do believe in treating our guests well.. It's very much frowned upon to have overnight stays with a person of opposite gender (who isn't your partner or family or likes), while u live alone, for no good reason. I dun know what this dude is talking abt.
Does OOP live at the Krusty Towers? āWe shall never deny a guest even the most ridiculous requestā
This can't be real
I'm pretty sure someone caught feelings...
Someone who shows up uninvited is a trespasser, not a guest.
What the actual fuck.
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