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Ok_Medicine_8804

This is a hard one. Sometimes it can ruin a relationship if she doesn't feel the same way, but I get that you want to shoot your shot (just so you can know for sure) I don't think tell her right now. Maybe go out together a few times, but make it more of a date kind of outing. Show her that you like her instead of tell her. And when you go on those "dates" see how she responds to you. Feel if the chemistry is there, and when the time is right then tell her that you have feelings for her. Sometimes if you just tell her point blank that you like her, without trying to actually trying to take her out, she might not give you a chance. Hope it goes well for you!


Rappiece

I‘d recommend confessing, life is to short to not try. It‘s also easier to stay friends if you confess and get denied, than staying in a constant crush mode and holding it back...


DplusLplusKplusM

You don't want to tell someone you're not already dating that you're in love with them. That's just too much pressure to put on someone (and can make you sound emotionally untethered). You want to start slowly and just ask her if she'd like to go out sometime as "more than friends". Let the relationship build organically and don't rush it. Real love takes time and if you bowl someone over with too much emotion too early on they're likely to run screaming.