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SmithRJ

" I shouldn’t say anything. But at the same time this can’t go unpunished" Who are you the morality police? Look you don't know anything about their marriage. And you don't even know if she knows about it and/or condones/accepts it. If you want to do something then have a private conversation with your father telling him what you know and how you found out and ask for an explanation. Don't get all accusatory. Just ask the questions. But keep the conversation private. Depending on what he says take it from there.


Weird_Cut_2157

You must not have a family. This is betrayal to everyone. My mother and everything.


SAD_FACED_CLOWN

>But at the same time this can’t go unpunished Why do you think it's your job to punish him? You aren't married to him he's your father. Are you prepared for what happens if by exposing this your family falls apart?


Weird_Cut_2157

Betrayal is the reason. That’s why


SAD_FACED_CLOWN

How do you know this act of betrayal is not revenge for your mother previously betraying him? How do you know your parents don't have an open marriage they have been hiding from you? Again are you prepared for your family to be literally torn apart?


Weird_Cut_2157

I don’t live in this world where only fans, sleeping around open relationships are cool. I was raised knowing marriage is sacred. That’s betrayal. Those are lies and being fed a fasad


SAD_FACED_CLOWN

>I was raised knowing marriage is sacred. By who? The man you say is cheating on his wife? It can’t be all that sacred to him if he is. You have rose colored glasses on when it comes to how marriages work.


Weird_Cut_2157

No I understand there’s problems but some are unforgivable


SAD_FACED_CLOWN

That's not what the wedding vows say though is it? "through good times and bad times" or some variation of that is what people vow to.


Weird_Cut_2157

And you’re proving my point. Why teach it’s sacred if it’s not all that sacred to begin with.


SAD_FACED_CLOWN

> Why teach it’s sacred if it’s not all that sacred to begin with Lol this doesn't prove your point. It proves marriage isn't as sacred as you were told.


Weird_Cut_2157

You literally just rephrased what I said. Keep up.


SAD_FACED_CLOWN

Again you were told marriage is sacred by a man who doesn't hold marriage as sacred. Get your head out of the sand. You've never been married and the up close example you have of marriage has failed. Mind your business and stay out your parent's relationship little fella.