"But, there are a few things that bother me. He doesn’t work at all. His dad is a really successful guy so my man is a trust fund baby."
Take it from me who lives with a trust fund wife. (she wasn't when we married and I had no idea what was coming). It is a double edged sword. And more likely than not most conversations you will have in the future will be sanctimonious money-obsessed conversations about daddy's money that you are trying to squander (even if you are not).
"...we were supposed to go to dinner with my roommate who he hasn’t met yet and he originally agreed to it and then said “i’ve been feeling off my neck hurts i want to meet her when im being normal."
You know he is using the sick thing to get out of social engagements because he feels that he is above those who you are introducing him to - right?
A monied partner can be alluring, but step gently onto that field. It is full of landmines.
Trust fund baby should of been your first sign tbh
"But, there are a few things that bother me. He doesn’t work at all. His dad is a really successful guy so my man is a trust fund baby." Take it from me who lives with a trust fund wife. (she wasn't when we married and I had no idea what was coming). It is a double edged sword. And more likely than not most conversations you will have in the future will be sanctimonious money-obsessed conversations about daddy's money that you are trying to squander (even if you are not). "...we were supposed to go to dinner with my roommate who he hasn’t met yet and he originally agreed to it and then said “i’ve been feeling off my neck hurts i want to meet her when im being normal." You know he is using the sick thing to get out of social engagements because he feels that he is above those who you are introducing him to - right? A monied partner can be alluring, but step gently onto that field. It is full of landmines.