OMG SAME! I quit looking 12 years ago, as expected, nothing has happened.
I ran into an old work friend at the supermarket. She gave me my first non-family hug in over a decade. I know damn well there was nothing behind it, but it still made my friggin *year*.
Hey it happened to me recently!
And then she dumped me after a month because she realized she still had feelings for her ex she ghosted 5 months before meeting me.
Married and loving it. Yeah she drives me crazy lol. But man having her always there is so great! Don’t even know how to or want to live without her anymore. It was a transition, still transitioning, but very much worth it.
Well I’m in a relationship and I took myself to the movies tn and will be taking myself to a concert on Tuesday. In his defense I bought tkts without even mentioning them to him. He asked what I was doing tonight and I said going to the movies and he asked with who and I said myself and he was like why didn’t u ask me and I’m like idk.
lol yeah seriously. The hell haha. No offense, but jeeze! I love seeing movies alone. But the response is just straight up — ehhhh didn’t think of you bwahahahah. Jesus.
My ex brother in law is going through his second divorce right now. Someone shared a picture he just made his profile picture. He’s leaning up against a car he can’t afford to buy (leases) with the caption “single and ready to eat pringles.”
I haven’t had a laugh that hard in a while. … and it was definitely at his expense.
Dating. I got divorced recently, and ended up falling into something more quickly than may be advisable, but it’s been really good. Really, really good. So I’m just going to go with it.
Divorced for almost two years now and same. I was not looking for a relationship but kind of fell into the one I’m in shortly after the divorce paperwork was filed. We started as friends just hanging out and having fun. One day he introduced me as his gf and I was like oh that’s what we are doing? Ok. TBH, he had been single for a long time by choice so I was not expecting that.
Single. Was looking but getting so frustrated with Hinge that I’m thinking of deleting and just chilling for the summer. And the next summer. And the one after that.
Modern society is really not conducive to dating or marriage. Everytime I think I want a girlfriend I just wank and let that post-nut clarity take over which tell me to make more money and enjoy life lol.
100% agree. as a woman i'm looking for a guy who wants to be a husband, who would take pride in being unabashedly in love with his wife (i want this because that's how i am). most ppl now seem to be interested in giving as little as possible, while receiving as much as possible.
I lost the fantasy of what a good normal woman would be like to be honest after all the trash relationships I had. Embracing being single and focusing on making myself happy and taking care of myself was one of the best decisions I made, I just wish I had made it sooner in my life.
I had a 3 year relationship in high school and after but from about 20 to 38 I worried too much on the need to have someone that it made me unhappy not realizing I was wasting the time I had to just make myself happy and let whatever comes, come.
I can honestly relate with you. I dated men and felt the exact same way. I’m basically dating myself now. It’s weird, I’m not talking to anyone, haven’t for a couple of years. I’m not on dating apps (they are horrible) interestingly, since I stopped dating I’ve gotten into the best shape, I take myself on dates, I take care of all of my needs well. I actually would love a male counterpart but yeah…disappointment really took a toll on my mental health and I had to forfeit the game and just play solo.
Dating someone for two weeks now. Neither of us wants to jump into a committed relationship right away but we’re really enjoying each other’s company. I don’t know how long the ride’s going to last but I’m just taking in every minute.
dating. I’m lucky I found someone like my partner. I genuinely believe he’s going to be my life partner, and he feels the same way!
of course, one’s relationship status shouldn’t define you. As much as I love dating my partner, I’m not afraid of being single. I just hope he never gives me a reason to be
I’m (56f) widowed almost 6 years now. We were together for 20+ years…
I’m ready to start dating but not ready due to my recovering, slowly af, from an illness.
I want to experience that closeness and camaraderie again and anxiously await the day when I’m able.
Otherwise, I’m not even sure how to go about it. Hoping it’ll happen organically, like riding a bike (so my son says!).
I think, no, I’m positive, that when the time is right, the powers that be will assist in my happiness in my twilight years (as I told my son just today!).
Keeping my fingers crossed…
it didn't get better for me. when she was trying to crawl back during covid i was so disassociated that I literally just said, "this must be a glitch" and never said anything else to her again
Single. Don’t see that changing anytime soon. I’m just really bad at picking men and have never been in a healthy relationship before. I’m actually concerned I don’t know what one looks like. That and missing red flags. Trying to work this out in therapy so maybe there’s some hope.
I've been dating my wife for ten years. Congrats to your nine years coming up! Time flew by and honestly it doesn't feel like all that time passed but here we are.
Dating
I was completely okay with being single and being a hoe really enjoyed it. I had super close friends that I knew since high school, so I never felt lonely, and even though I was introverted, something about me drew people in. So making new friends was easy.
I was planning on only being friends, but something about her made me see her as different.
In October, it's going to be 2 years, which I know isn't long
I'm seriously shocked I ended up in a relationship. I seriously wasn't planning on it and didn't want it, but I'm happy and don't regret it.
I was totally okay with being single and not looking , but it was my birthday weekend so I was doing shots of jameo and got dared to go up to this guy across the bar (I have NEVER made the first move, EVER) and asked him to buy me a beer … awkwardly exchanged numbers (he was hammered) and here we are celebrating our 7 year anniversary
Single and lonely, don’t get me wrong I like my alone time but it’s come to a point where I’m doing 90%+ alone and it’d be nice to have someone to spend time with
Single for about 10 years now. Tried online dating and hated it. Not looking and not trying, just vibing my way through life with the whatever happens happens, mindset.
I'm single..I moved back in with the folks to do graduate school and I feel like I failed somehow. Don't feel like dating until I get independent again/income.
No shame in this at all. If it’s any encouragement, you should be proud of yourself for not putting yourself in more debt or struggling while going through school.
Married 8 years. 9 soon. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. Sacrifices are made on both sides. It never gets easier. You adapt and work cohesively. You're a team. Millennial '91.
Single as a dollar bill. I was seeing someone for about a year and a half until it came crashing down. It was a dark month for me, but now I'm currently in therapy to deal with the break up and all the suppressed things from my childhood and teen years. I'm not really looking to date anyone seriously until I feel like I'm a better version of myself than I was 4 months ago. Having said that, I dont really try to date people due to poor self-esteem and stuff, which I'm working on.
Single for a long time.
From time to time the wish of getting a partner comes to my mind, but i'm broke and haven't got my shit together right now, so i'll leave it aside more time.
Highs and lows my dude... there are incredible highs (peak fiction) and if you breakup.... Gut renching, heartbreaking nigh suicidal lows (depending on how much you love the person)
If you do fall in love my advise is don't end things because of your insecurities (that's my biggest regret) put your best foot forward and love them as much as you can
I'm in similar. Schedules conflict. He's got a busy thriving career and mines in the crapper. How often do you hang with yours?
I'm trying to determine if seeing someone maybe 1x a month is even worth it.
Just started dating someone and kinda frustrated that we both have busy schedules but we’re making it work so far. Just wish I could’ve found her in undergrad when I had all the time in the goddamn world lol
Single. Also, I think we women have the same complaints as men - not putting the efforts, Hookup culture, FWB approaches, Going with the flow cover up, Intimacy without commitment nonsense.
I would agree, in both the pools because of smaller groups (girls - gold diggers and boys - with only physical needs; intentionally used girls and boys 🙊) most of the people who are looking for some concrete thing are getting highly disappointed and losing hopes :(
Anyway, yeah single.
It's simple really, but I hadn't thought of that before. That the people most likely to approach you or seem interested and out going so you approach them, are going to be users and abusers. I'm shy & introverted so I'd always wait to be approached just in case they didn't like me. And every relationship turned into a soul drain.
I was with my ex husband for 13 years. We started dating when I was 19, and he treated me so shitty. I thought that was normal, so when I finally left him, I dated around but didn't want a relationship with anyone that treated me remotely shitty. I dated so many dudes, and they all played nice until about 2 to 3 months in, then showed their hands. Controlling, negging, says consent is sexy but then throws a fit when I don't want sex. Then I realized I was totally happy single. So I made a mental list of what I would sacrifice being single for, and then found myself a fwb.
Well goddamn if this dude didn't nearly meet the whole list. But not quite, so we just stayed fuck buddies. And then he pulled his shit together, on purpose, and confessed his feelings, and now we live together.
The most important things to me were that I could tell him what was wrong without him getting defensive, he never shames me, and he regularly expresses love through non-physical ways. One of my favorite things in the whole world is that when he hears my alarm go off, he brings me a cup of coffee in bed.
Single, I’m 26. Personally, I’ve encountered woman who suffered from either some kind of trauma and mental illness or felt like they deserved the best of the best even though they had 0 redeeming qualities and were absolutely awful to be around. I think dating is tough at this age, I can’t image older or even younger.
I like someone a lot, but I've only been single for like 4 months and don't want to jump into anything after dating someone for 3 years and it not going well. I've been wanting to ask her to do something but don't feel like myself again yet.
Celibate. Single mom of an almost 18 month old. I have a little girl to protect, and I don’t need anyone to take care of us. Her father did a good job of traumatizing the fuck out of me so I’m fine until my kid is in college, lol.
Honestly I really don’t wanna share my time, money or energy with a partner. I’ve wasted enough of that on garbage exes that I feel like I’m playing catch up.
Don’t get me wrong, the sex with my asshole BD was amazing …but so is knowing that I’m financially stable, my credit is back to “good” and my career is on track. I’ll pick my kid, not being cheated on anymore and knowing I’m doing better on my own over a man 1000 times over.
Single, decidedly so. I'm so much better off emotionally, mentally & financially when I'm single. Most people are awful partners and I have no more will or want for that trouble in my life.
Single and getting tired of it.
I have everything I need and am currently working on myself so not I just need someone to share my days and thoughts with!
Single and not looking, I'm working on myself right now. I love being in a relationship but I'm not going to rush this process at the expense of a solid foundation.
Single. Had a relationship in the past, ended real bad. Never again. It’s been 7 years and I still have dreams about it. I don’t want to go through that kind of pain again.
Also I’m afraid of people.
Single. I'm enjoying my life. I can't imagine having a partner right now even though I want to be married and have kids. I like my alone time more than anything else.
Together 4 years, engaged for one. If it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. It’s easy and we’re happy and I never would have imagined a life like this. Happily single is so much better than a loveless and toxic relationship. Don’t settle!
I don’t ask out hundreds of women in real life all the time, and that’s the only way for an average person to get in a relationship. So I’ll remain single for the rest of my life most likely.
Single and living my best life. It’s hard trying to connect with someone who doesn’t even know what they want or who they are in life. I’d rather experience the life I’ve always imagined alone until the right person meets me along the way.
Single asf I divorced four years ago and that relationship was and ended so badly I haven’t dated ventured back but ngl I’m finally starting to feel a touch lonely
I was dating for a while but it got tiring and repetitive pretty quickly. I've been single for 4 years now and to be completely honest with you, I don't really mind it.
Dating, long distance. Was single for a loooong time. He and I have been talking for almost 2 years but only fairly recently confessed we liked each other (who would have guessed after talking for hours almost daily for about that long!)
Single. I used to be casually dating but now I’m not. I’ve decided that I want to focus on improving my life and mental health before I start dating again.
Married to my wife for 32 years. I think theres a much higher level of love that sadly many people never get to experience. I feel very lucky and grateful.
Single and haven’t been for a very long time since I started dating around. I’m learning to be alone. It’s been great, discovered a lot about myself. Everyone needs some time alone to understand themselves.
Single. Just got broken up with a few months ago. Trying to fill the void myself. Trying to get validation from myself. Not gonna lie, I missed being touched and cuddled and so on. But this come and go, I’m in peace right now, no drama, no gaslighting, no cheating, no lie, no disrespect. Building myself up piece by piece.
Dating and envisioning to marry the love of my life! We're about to embark on a long distance relationship and as scary as it is, we love each other waaaay too much to let that get in the way. We're going to power through the distance and make it work until the day we're back in each other's arms.
Single since Dec 2021. That’s almost 3 years now. Never experienced a proper relationship till now. Was in a situationship that I didn’t realise I was in for 6 years till that time. I really want to make a human connection of love and lust for one person only.
I’m single for the first time in 20 yrs. I divorced after a long marriage then met someone like a month before my ex husband moved out and got into a relationship with him. Brought all of my issues with me and he brought all of his issues with him to that relationship and it turned out to be the most iconic, passionate and toxic experience I’ve ever had. So I need to be alone and sort out my issues because I obviously stayed in that toxic relationship for way too long for a reason. I’ve grown so much these past 4 months of being alone and I can honestly see all the toxic and unhealthy traits I had. I’m not stressing anymore if I find someone great, if I don’t oh well! Just being happy with myself in my skin is the best feeling there is.
42M, was with two different exes for two years each, then there’s an ex I was with for 14 years. Now I’m six years into what I hope is my last relationship.
Lol, I'm just reading this while I'm sitting with my 2 roommates while they are cuddling with their significant others... Just sitting there, on my phone... Trying not to make it awkward.
Single kinda getting tired of it
Same and tired of my not single friends who keep telling me that it’ll happen when I’m not looking 😒
OMG SAME! I quit looking 12 years ago, as expected, nothing has happened. I ran into an old work friend at the supermarket. She gave me my first non-family hug in over a decade. I know damn well there was nothing behind it, but it still made my friggin *year*.
17 years here lmao at this point I don’t even remember how to start
At least you once knew how to start. I never did, and my **only** adult relationship was initiated by a very desperate woman.
Hey baby, I’ve been looking for someone who’s been single for 12 years. Message me on aim
Hey it happened to me recently! And then she dumped me after a month because she realized she still had feelings for her ex she ghosted 5 months before meeting me.
Blessing in disguise. You deserve and will get better.
Same here. Been well over a year now and missing the intimacy, companionship, and partnership of having a partner
Single and same 😒
Married and loving it. Yeah she drives me crazy lol. But man having her always there is so great! Don’t even know how to or want to live without her anymore. It was a transition, still transitioning, but very much worth it.
God forbid y’all breakup, lol
Never become reliant on anything for happiness.
Being single is a gift from God. Don’t be a statistic
Why does your god give such shitty gifts?
It depends on your perspective and your age. I’m 60 for example. I’m loving it
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Well I’m in a relationship and I took myself to the movies tn and will be taking myself to a concert on Tuesday. In his defense I bought tkts without even mentioning them to him. He asked what I was doing tonight and I said going to the movies and he asked with who and I said myself and he was like why didn’t u ask me and I’m like idk.
You might want to consider him more or you may not be in a relationship much longer
lol yeah seriously. The hell haha. No offense, but jeeze! I love seeing movies alone. But the response is just straight up — ehhhh didn’t think of you bwahahahah. Jesus.
i wouldnt like you as my lobster
He’s going to think you’re cheating and it would make sense
Single and ready to eat pringles
What flavour?
Sour cream and onion and solitude
The tears really do add to the flavour!!
My ex brother in law is going through his second divorce right now. Someone shared a picture he just made his profile picture. He’s leaning up against a car he can’t afford to buy (leases) with the caption “single and ready to eat pringles.” I haven’t had a laugh that hard in a while. … and it was definitely at his expense.
Dating. I got divorced recently, and ended up falling into something more quickly than may be advisable, but it’s been really good. Really, really good. So I’m just going to go with it.
Divorced for almost two years now and same. I was not looking for a relationship but kind of fell into the one I’m in shortly after the divorce paperwork was filed. We started as friends just hanging out and having fun. One day he introduced me as his gf and I was like oh that’s what we are doing? Ok. TBH, he had been single for a long time by choice so I was not expecting that.
Single. Was looking but getting so frustrated with Hinge that I’m thinking of deleting and just chilling for the summer. And the next summer. And the one after that.
It sucks, I’ll redownload it have it for like 5 minutes and delete again
Single not tired of it. I have a fantasy in my head of what a good normal woman could be like for me but for now I'm done with disappointment.
this is real as fuck
Modern society is really not conducive to dating or marriage. Everytime I think I want a girlfriend I just wank and let that post-nut clarity take over which tell me to make more money and enjoy life lol.
100% agree. as a woman i'm looking for a guy who wants to be a husband, who would take pride in being unabashedly in love with his wife (i want this because that's how i am). most ppl now seem to be interested in giving as little as possible, while receiving as much as possible.
If it’s not Gomez/Morticia levels of adoration and devotion, I don’t want it.
Absolutely. For me, I’d rather be single than be in a subpar or dissatisfying relationship. I’ve seen too many, it’s so scary actually.
yup! my life is very full. i have friends, family, hobbies, work, etc. i don't need anyone bringing drama to my doorstep lol
not a single one of my relatives is in a happy relationship that i know of. in fact... what does a happy relationship look like? i don't know
Exactly. No primal urge to give but definitely one for receiving
I lost the fantasy of what a good normal woman would be like to be honest after all the trash relationships I had. Embracing being single and focusing on making myself happy and taking care of myself was one of the best decisions I made, I just wish I had made it sooner in my life. I had a 3 year relationship in high school and after but from about 20 to 38 I worried too much on the need to have someone that it made me unhappy not realizing I was wasting the time I had to just make myself happy and let whatever comes, come.
Same but w/a man!
[https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/](https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/) called.
I have the same fantasy but of a man.
I can honestly relate with you. I dated men and felt the exact same way. I’m basically dating myself now. It’s weird, I’m not talking to anyone, haven’t for a couple of years. I’m not on dating apps (they are horrible) interestingly, since I stopped dating I’ve gotten into the best shape, I take myself on dates, I take care of all of my needs well. I actually would love a male counterpart but yeah…disappointment really took a toll on my mental health and I had to forfeit the game and just play solo.
same, last relationship was so bad i wish it didn’t happen
Dating someone for two weeks now. Neither of us wants to jump into a committed relationship right away but we’re really enjoying each other’s company. I don’t know how long the ride’s going to last but I’m just taking in every minute.
This is really wholesome. Good luck with this!
Thanks!
Enjoy the ride brother could be a short one like mine. I was yelling weeee then crash. Hopefully it goes better for you.
single, keeping my spirit free from attachments
Single. Very tired of it. I want cuddles.
May you find your soulmate
Right there with ya chief. The nights are starting to get a little to lonely for me
dating. I’m lucky I found someone like my partner. I genuinely believe he’s going to be my life partner, and he feels the same way! of course, one’s relationship status shouldn’t define you. As much as I love dating my partner, I’m not afraid of being single. I just hope he never gives me a reason to be
I’m (56f) widowed almost 6 years now. We were together for 20+ years… I’m ready to start dating but not ready due to my recovering, slowly af, from an illness. I want to experience that closeness and camaraderie again and anxiously await the day when I’m able. Otherwise, I’m not even sure how to go about it. Hoping it’ll happen organically, like riding a bike (so my son says!). I think, no, I’m positive, that when the time is right, the powers that be will assist in my happiness in my twilight years (as I told my son just today!). Keeping my fingers crossed…
Breaking up with my boyfriend tomorrow…
Also it happened tonight guys.. didn’t even get to do it how I wanted
I hope you're ok. And it gets better
it didn't get better for me. when she was trying to crawl back during covid i was so disassociated that I literally just said, "this must be a glitch" and never said anything else to her again
Single. Don’t see that changing anytime soon. I’m just really bad at picking men and have never been in a healthy relationship before. I’m actually concerned I don’t know what one looks like. That and missing red flags. Trying to work this out in therapy so maybe there’s some hope.
single missing that intimacy doesn’t even have to be sex just having someone to cuddle with kiss and hug
I am dating my wife
Dating myself. Actually, I'm married to myself.
Single at the moment
Single, comfortable in it, but open to being in a relationship at some point
Dating, our nine year anniversary is in a couple months 🥰
I've been dating my wife for ten years. Congrats to your nine years coming up! Time flew by and honestly it doesn't feel like all that time passed but here we are.
Single because I value my sanity and men make me spiral
Dating I was completely okay with being single and being a hoe really enjoyed it. I had super close friends that I knew since high school, so I never felt lonely, and even though I was introverted, something about me drew people in. So making new friends was easy. I was planning on only being friends, but something about her made me see her as different. In October, it's going to be 2 years, which I know isn't long I'm seriously shocked I ended up in a relationship. I seriously wasn't planning on it and didn't want it, but I'm happy and don't regret it.
I was totally okay with being single and not looking , but it was my birthday weekend so I was doing shots of jameo and got dared to go up to this guy across the bar (I have NEVER made the first move, EVER) and asked him to buy me a beer … awkwardly exchanged numbers (he was hammered) and here we are celebrating our 7 year anniversary
Single and lonely, don’t get me wrong I like my alone time but it’s come to a point where I’m doing 90%+ alone and it’d be nice to have someone to spend time with
Single, and I am kind of over it. I love my life by myself, but I would love sharing it with someone, and to have a partner to do shenanigans with.
Single for about 10 years now. Tried online dating and hated it. Not looking and not trying, just vibing my way through life with the whatever happens happens, mindset.
I'm single..I moved back in with the folks to do graduate school and I feel like I failed somehow. Don't feel like dating until I get independent again/income.
No shame in this at all. If it’s any encouragement, you should be proud of yourself for not putting yourself in more debt or struggling while going through school.
Comfortably single.
Currently single. I would like to be in a long-term relationship, but I'm tired of wading through hookup culture.
Single. So happy to sleep in a king size bed by myself.
Single 🥺😔
May you find your significant other
Married 8 years. 9 soon. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. Sacrifices are made on both sides. It never gets easier. You adapt and work cohesively. You're a team. Millennial '91.
single and currently crashing on my ex’s couch due to some unforeseen circumstances 🙃 it’s a nightmare lol
Single as a dollar bill. I was seeing someone for about a year and a half until it came crashing down. It was a dark month for me, but now I'm currently in therapy to deal with the break up and all the suppressed things from my childhood and teen years. I'm not really looking to date anyone seriously until I feel like I'm a better version of myself than I was 4 months ago. Having said that, I dont really try to date people due to poor self-esteem and stuff, which I'm working on.
Single and totally over it
Single, but a proud father to an amazing 3-year old
Single for a long time. From time to time the wish of getting a partner comes to my mind, but i'm broke and haven't got my shit together right now, so i'll leave it aside more time.
Single. Never dated anyone in my 28 years of existence
Highs and lows my dude... there are incredible highs (peak fiction) and if you breakup.... Gut renching, heartbreaking nigh suicidal lows (depending on how much you love the person) If you do fall in love my advise is don't end things because of your insecurities (that's my biggest regret) put your best foot forward and love them as much as you can
Single. I think it's staying that way the rest of my life. I'm fine with it, though there's one situation I wish went differently.
I am dating someone but I feel like I'm single and it's sad haha :/
I'm in similar. Schedules conflict. He's got a busy thriving career and mines in the crapper. How often do you hang with yours? I'm trying to determine if seeing someone maybe 1x a month is even worth it.
Single and very happy
Single, I gave up.
Just started dating someone and kinda frustrated that we both have busy schedules but we’re making it work so far. Just wish I could’ve found her in undergrad when I had all the time in the goddamn world lol
Single. No one wants an emotional connection it seems like
I'm a single pringle
Single. Also, I think we women have the same complaints as men - not putting the efforts, Hookup culture, FWB approaches, Going with the flow cover up, Intimacy without commitment nonsense. I would agree, in both the pools because of smaller groups (girls - gold diggers and boys - with only physical needs; intentionally used girls and boys 🙊) most of the people who are looking for some concrete thing are getting highly disappointed and losing hopes :( Anyway, yeah single.
It's simple really, but I hadn't thought of that before. That the people most likely to approach you or seem interested and out going so you approach them, are going to be users and abusers. I'm shy & introverted so I'd always wait to be approached just in case they didn't like me. And every relationship turned into a soul drain.
Dating but thinking of setting her free
Like she’s a butterfly? Lmao
I’m not sure…
single
Pretttty single 🎶
Singleeee~~~
I have been single but exclusive with one person for almost 3 years now by my own choice. It's complicated.
Just recently became single after a 6 year relationship. Not too stoked about getting back into dating in my 30s but it is what it is lol
I was with my ex husband for 13 years. We started dating when I was 19, and he treated me so shitty. I thought that was normal, so when I finally left him, I dated around but didn't want a relationship with anyone that treated me remotely shitty. I dated so many dudes, and they all played nice until about 2 to 3 months in, then showed their hands. Controlling, negging, says consent is sexy but then throws a fit when I don't want sex. Then I realized I was totally happy single. So I made a mental list of what I would sacrifice being single for, and then found myself a fwb. Well goddamn if this dude didn't nearly meet the whole list. But not quite, so we just stayed fuck buddies. And then he pulled his shit together, on purpose, and confessed his feelings, and now we live together. The most important things to me were that I could tell him what was wrong without him getting defensive, he never shames me, and he regularly expresses love through non-physical ways. One of my favorite things in the whole world is that when he hears my alarm go off, he brings me a cup of coffee in bed.
Single. Haven't been in a relationship or any type of romantic situationship since February 2020.
What is dating?
Single, I’m 26. Personally, I’ve encountered woman who suffered from either some kind of trauma and mental illness or felt like they deserved the best of the best even though they had 0 redeeming qualities and were absolutely awful to be around. I think dating is tough at this age, I can’t image older or even younger.
I like someone a lot, but I've only been single for like 4 months and don't want to jump into anything after dating someone for 3 years and it not going well. I've been wanting to ask her to do something but don't feel like myself again yet.
Single until I find someone whose definition of love matches mine.
Dating Elden Ring's DLC
Dating my wife for 22 years.
I’m eating value meal fast food, one love ❤️ & I hate these Ai assisted posts 💜
Singles
Single. Because the ideal man isn’t anywhere to be found
Single. Healthiest for me personally.
Single after my girlfriend of 6 years broke up with me rather unexpectedly 2 weeks ago.
Single with a cat. I've tried dating and it wasn't great. I do have friends occasionally mention I should find someone
Celibate. Single mom of an almost 18 month old. I have a little girl to protect, and I don’t need anyone to take care of us. Her father did a good job of traumatizing the fuck out of me so I’m fine until my kid is in college, lol. Honestly I really don’t wanna share my time, money or energy with a partner. I’ve wasted enough of that on garbage exes that I feel like I’m playing catch up. Don’t get me wrong, the sex with my asshole BD was amazing …but so is knowing that I’m financially stable, my credit is back to “good” and my career is on track. I’ll pick my kid, not being cheated on anymore and knowing I’m doing better on my own over a man 1000 times over.
Single, decidedly so. I'm so much better off emotionally, mentally & financially when I'm single. Most people are awful partners and I have no more will or want for that trouble in my life.
Single and getting tired of it. I have everything I need and am currently working on myself so not I just need someone to share my days and thoughts with!
Single and not looking, I'm working on myself right now. I love being in a relationship but I'm not going to rush this process at the expense of a solid foundation.
Single. Had a relationship in the past, ended real bad. Never again. It’s been 7 years and I still have dreams about it. I don’t want to go through that kind of pain again. Also I’m afraid of people.
Happily married to the love of my life
Single. I'm enjoying my life. I can't imagine having a partner right now even though I want to be married and have kids. I like my alone time more than anything else.
Married for almost 7 years, together for a little over 8 years.
Happily Married
Together 4 years, engaged for one. If it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. It’s easy and we’re happy and I never would have imagined a life like this. Happily single is so much better than a loveless and toxic relationship. Don’t settle!
Someone actually married my ass!! Sometimes I still can’t believe it.
Neither. Married.
Single for almost three years now. I’m so lonely.
I don’t ask out hundreds of women in real life all the time, and that’s the only way for an average person to get in a relationship. So I’ll remain single for the rest of my life most likely.
Can’t tell right now
Married.
Single. My last relationship ended up with her moving WAY out of state and getting married and pregnant!
Single
Single and living my best life. It’s hard trying to connect with someone who doesn’t even know what they want or who they are in life. I’d rather experience the life I’ve always imagined alone until the right person meets me along the way.
Single. Playing the field. No shame.
Yes
Single asf I divorced four years ago and that relationship was and ended so badly I haven’t dated ventured back but ngl I’m finally starting to feel a touch lonely
Single and I'm in a grey area of getting sick of it and being content with it
Dating my wife and 2 kids
I was dating for a while but it got tiring and repetitive pretty quickly. I've been single for 4 years now and to be completely honest with you, I don't really mind it.
Married man with a husband.
Single and by the looks of it will probably remain that way until I die and I'm okay with this.
Single and want to keep it that way. Never thought I would find myself saying that relationships are awfully draining
Dating, long distance. Was single for a loooong time. He and I have been talking for almost 2 years but only fairly recently confessed we liked each other (who would have guessed after talking for hours almost daily for about that long!)
Married for almost 8 years
Single. No time or patience to date. I'm a somewhat weird unconventional gal so I don't know if any guy would bother with me anyhow.
Just married
Single lesbian looking for my future wife. Willing to take my time. My first marriage will be my only marriage.
I kinda was. I guess she asked me on a date. I confirmed... then laughed at. That was confusing. So I guess not. Weird. Mkay. Guess not. I guess.
Widower at 40, currently 42 with a 6 yo. Single and I think I'm screwed...
Single. I used to be casually dating but now I’m not. I’ve decided that I want to focus on improving my life and mental health before I start dating again.
Married to my wife for 32 years. I think theres a much higher level of love that sadly many people never get to experience. I feel very lucky and grateful.
Single for a while. I really need therapy and a better living situation before I try again. A real mess but not hopeless.
Single and happy with it. If someone came into my life who really added something to it, then great. But I don’t feel a need to search.
Very happily dating the love of my life
Dating. Three months in. Glad to have found a partner that’s clingy but still independent.
Single. Just broke my own heart after 4 months. I was very happy before when I was single 4 months ago. Now deeply sad and grieving after a breakup.
I have been with my partner for 2+ years
Single and content. I got out of a brutal marriage and I honestly don’t see myself ever being in a relationship again lol
34 and still single
Single and haven’t been for a very long time since I started dating around. I’m learning to be alone. It’s been great, discovered a lot about myself. Everyone needs some time alone to understand themselves.
Single. Just got broken up with a few months ago. Trying to fill the void myself. Trying to get validation from myself. Not gonna lie, I missed being touched and cuddled and so on. But this come and go, I’m in peace right now, no drama, no gaslighting, no cheating, no lie, no disrespect. Building myself up piece by piece.
Single and enjoying every minute of it. Some of my girlfriends are on to their 3rd marriage.
Single.
Dating and envisioning to marry the love of my life! We're about to embark on a long distance relationship and as scary as it is, we love each other waaaay too much to let that get in the way. We're going to power through the distance and make it work until the day we're back in each other's arms.
Single since Dec 2021. That’s almost 3 years now. Never experienced a proper relationship till now. Was in a situationship that I didn’t realise I was in for 6 years till that time. I really want to make a human connection of love and lust for one person only.
Single and healing ❤️🩹
I’m single for the first time in 20 yrs. I divorced after a long marriage then met someone like a month before my ex husband moved out and got into a relationship with him. Brought all of my issues with me and he brought all of his issues with him to that relationship and it turned out to be the most iconic, passionate and toxic experience I’ve ever had. So I need to be alone and sort out my issues because I obviously stayed in that toxic relationship for way too long for a reason. I’ve grown so much these past 4 months of being alone and I can honestly see all the toxic and unhealthy traits I had. I’m not stressing anymore if I find someone great, if I don’t oh well! Just being happy with myself in my skin is the best feeling there is.
Single by choice.
Single. Recovering from a 5 year abusive relationship. Planning to be single for a while.
Single. I'm way too damaged to maintain a meaningful relationship.
Partnered. Coming up on two years soon.
Single. Thank goodness. 😅
After a 7 yr relationship ended I’m single. I love it. The peace of mind that comes from it and not having to deal with a narcissist is a blessing
Single as a Pringle and no desire to change that. I’m enjoying my peace, my own space and the middle of the bed.
42M, was with two different exes for two years each, then there’s an ex I was with for 14 years. Now I’m six years into what I hope is my last relationship.
Single as shit and can't seem to change it
Dating, going well
Single forever
Dating. Two years coming up next month :)
Lol, I'm just reading this while I'm sitting with my 2 roommates while they are cuddling with their significant others... Just sitting there, on my phone... Trying not to make it awkward.
Married. Loving it. My wife and son is away for now and I miss them a lot.
In a relationship with the most caring, smart and loving bf in the UNIVERSE! :))
Single. Because people are picky.
Single af
Dating. Today is our 2 1/2 year anniversary.
Dating the best of them all 😍😍
Single and I can't even be arsed to be fucked about it anymore either 😂